How To Put Your Baby To Sleep, According To "The Baby Whisperer"

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  • Dr. Harvey Karp, also known as "The Baby Whisperer," explains how to put your baby to sleep using his five S's. This involves swaddling the baby, providing gentle white noise, and rocking the child. By doing this you are imitating the womb, which helps the baby to fall asleep.
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  • @Dennis_Reynolds_Golden_God
    @Dennis_Reynolds_Golden_God 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10388

    The problem isn't *getting* them to sleep, its *keeping* them asleep.

    • @sfallico3
      @sfallico3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +263

      True that .

    • @sethd85
      @sethd85 5 ปีที่แล้ว +485

      Did you watch the video? Maybe you should read the book. He goes into keeping babies asleep in great detail (hint: whooshing deep white noise and swaddling are key).
      However, nothing is going to cause a newborn to sleep more than 2-3 hours at a time. Just gotta get through that newborn phase.

    • @mashaelahmedkhan7738
      @mashaelahmedkhan7738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      OMG YASSSSS 😂😂

    • @jamieastbury7736
      @jamieastbury7736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Opposite for mine! Wont drop off but then when he does its lights out for hours

    • @niquel5831
      @niquel5831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Cyanide always worked for me.

  • @nooneijusthappenedtobehere6938
    @nooneijusthappenedtobehere6938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7028

    "babies are born three months before they're really ready for the world"
    To be fair I was born twenty years ago and I'm still not ready

    • @skyflakes2784
      @skyflakes2784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Go to a Specialist, you have a problem

    • @TO-hh1cd
      @TO-hh1cd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NoOneIJustHappenedToBeHere Yea this guy is stupid

    • @TO-hh1cd
      @TO-hh1cd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Does he think he is a scientist?

    • @nooneijusthappenedtobehere6938
      @nooneijusthappenedtobehere6938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@TO-hh1cd come on, it was just a joke
      You don't have to take it too seriously and offending me for it😅

    • @meganslonesings
      @meganslonesings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right!

  • @majdabreliof1138
    @majdabreliof1138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8933

    Why am I watching this at 1am ,,, I don't have a baby and I'm single 😂

    • @bevans4926
      @bevans4926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      majda breliof Im at 12am single with no baby lol

    • @joilitt6073
      @joilitt6073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Same I’m even paying attention

    • @URGG1969
      @URGG1969 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hahahahaha

    • @LauS0
      @LauS0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      But when you'll have a baby you won't have time at 1am to learn this information

    • @marchesangcap1050
      @marchesangcap1050 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      When i'm trying my baby sleep i'm the one who feel asleep

  • @2010Bangie
    @2010Bangie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    Watching this as I rock my second baby, who is 9 days old now. With my first I was wired and always trying to control everything. I regret this. With this one I'm giving us both time to adjust. I eat, rest and get help.. I'm glad when baby sleeps, but not obsessed by it. I plan my say around my babies, calm my mind & just be. Love and prayers to all parents out there - we have a most important job.

    • @xobls
      @xobls 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This was so nice to read 🥰

    • @2010Bangie
      @2010Bangie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@xobls Thank you! Hope you are well and all the best to you. We're 8 months in a few days and it gets a lot easier.

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Love this comment. I have a 12 month old soon to be 13 months. It's definitely easier than the newborn stage

    • @2010Bangie
      @2010Bangie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lucyavarda1742 Congratulations! And it keeps getting 'easier' as you learn more about each other and your precious one learns to communicate. Have a lovely new year

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@2010Bangie thank you, you too! 🥰

  • @ihaventtakenashowerin7week366
    @ihaventtakenashowerin7week366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3262

    That baby was more relaxed than I’ve been in like eight years

    • @awkwardbean1504
      @awkwardbean1504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@DramaTV2613 I can still relate

    • @JohnDoe-rq9hr
      @JohnDoe-rq9hr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I haven’t taken a shower in 7 weeks but tits or gtfo

    • @violethaye6987
      @violethaye6987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@JohnDoe-rq9hr and next on the list of babies who were never properly shushed

    • @mollie.holgate
      @mollie.holgate 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂

    • @mshmill4213
      @mshmill4213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I haven’t taken a shower in 7 weeks but l

  • @misscleo378
    @misscleo378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +722

    That’s a beautiful baby he’s rocking.

    • @BananaMan311
      @BananaMan311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Keep your pants on creep

    • @knuxnbatSunnyDIY
      @knuxnbatSunnyDIY 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He's so cute!

    • @gomezk1493
      @gomezk1493 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Josiah Ward how is that being a creep? Creep

    • @josea.martinez2234
      @josea.martinez2234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Dovakiin seventeen you're one of those weirdos aren't you 😂

    • @emiliebailey5417
      @emiliebailey5417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought the same! It’s soo cute!!

  • @jessicarae6879
    @jessicarae6879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    I'll save you all a lot of time and say put your fussy newborn in a wrap carrier on your chest and go about your day. They hear your heartbeat, are snug up against you, and your walking around is exactly what they experienced in the womb. Has worked with all 4 of my kids without fail! Good luck parents💜

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Perfect 🥰💞👌 thank you

    • @nyssasal4629
      @nyssasal4629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      For how many months should I be doing that? Wouldn't the baby be used to that later?

    • @deguzman92
      @deguzman92 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same for me, first thing I bought for my last one!

    • @amberb8629
      @amberb8629 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Didn't work for me haha

    • @clairetomes617
      @clairetomes617 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@amberb8629 same, mine absolutely hates it!

  • @matissegilmore5374
    @matissegilmore5374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +869

    me: a depressed broke college student that should be working on my paper
    also me: i need to watch just in case i need to shush a baby

    • @AvgJane19
      @AvgJane19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just @ me next time

    • @keishamarseille6332
      @keishamarseille6332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Matisse Gilmore 😂😂

    • @DaisyCampuzano
      @DaisyCampuzano 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @xxxbotdfxxx215
      @xxxbotdfxxx215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m a depressed broke college student who is trying to finish finals watching this while I’m 5 months pregnant 😂

    • @whit6079
      @whit6079 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol 😂

  • @wijiaulia1472
    @wijiaulia1472 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1243

    The 19 dislikers are the babies who don't sleep and love to browsing around about them in youtube

    • @yeyamusic
      @yeyamusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wiji Aulia Prayagati 🤣🤣🤣

    • @sumaiya206
      @sumaiya206 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @Firegirl483
      @Firegirl483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Ro Pi the method is for newborn babies not toddlers

    • @andreshernandez3724
      @andreshernandez3724 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or one realizes that the swinging and pacifier will come back to hunt you for the next year because the hand wavy "you just remove it later" is in reality much harder

    • @yoshipieawesometornado5958
      @yoshipieawesometornado5958 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice username 👌👌

  • @sollunaa
    @sollunaa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1830

    *But i dont have a baby*

    • @samirysmart5316
      @samirysmart5316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahaha

    • @negan4089
      @negan4089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      You can get one at your nearest hospital they are all over the place

    • @amrutadaswan6912
      @amrutadaswan6912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Get married soon, and have a blessed life

    • @Poemi10304
      @Poemi10304 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They have the realistic baby dolls

    • @avagrima5636
      @avagrima5636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Then why are you watching😂😂

  • @tedingnm8447
    @tedingnm8447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1084

    Oh, Tony Stark became a baby whisperer then. Okay.

    • @reallyriz09
      @reallyriz09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I thought that it was just me!! 😂😂

    • @EmpiricalPragmatist
      @EmpiricalPragmatist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not even close guys. It is clearly a mix of Adrian Brophy, Michael Douglas, Charles Dance and Toby Maguire.

    • @filitalianyenapa
      @filitalianyenapa 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @crazyforcoffee5950
      @crazyforcoffee5950 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Teding NM RIP 3000

    • @MyDogmatix
      @MyDogmatix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup. Looks like Ironman hung up his suit in favour of swaddling clothes. :p

  • @crystala.7961
    @crystala.7961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +571

    My baby always hated being swaddled!! She wouldn’t stop squirming until she got her hands out 🤣 she was born at 36w5d, I couldn’t believe how she was so tiny yet so determined!

    • @fairyannabrucker2743
      @fairyannabrucker2743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Trust me I understand. My baby is a week old. He gets his hands out of a Velcro swaddle, like how can you do that. More determination than I have.

    • @porschen8970
      @porschen8970 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Can totally relate! My 2week old can't handle being swaddled. She breaks free and sleeps longer out of a swaddle than in one

    • @mz6110
      @mz6110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      And my baby even starts to cry while being swaddled… lovely

    • @mz6110
      @mz6110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @White Pride actually I do

    • @saf499
      @saf499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All my kids hate it. They slept fine without it too. Plus babies show signs of hunger using hands so it's good to have hands free.

  • @emilylang7844
    @emilylang7844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’ve watched his video “the happiest baby on the block” it’s helped so much, our baby girl loves white noise and to be swaddled up, it calms her right down

  • @miasmom4601
    @miasmom4601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    This guy writes a book ‘the happiest baby on the block’ and it’s legit the best book I ever read, when I was a new mom I followed everything he said and my kid (and kids thereafter) slept like rocks from early on.
    I recommend the book to everyone!

  • @hey6846
    @hey6846 5 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    At 3am in the morning...
    shhhhhhhhutthefuckupshhhhhhhhh...

    • @EmoShowerCap1
      @EmoShowerCap1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂😂 you killed me

    • @jasonnunn7430
      @jasonnunn7430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thats the truth.

    • @tataediberidze6109
      @tataediberidze6109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣 This is the most hilarious comment I have ever seen 🤣🤣🤣🤣 THANK YOU!

    • @miraikanbara6691
      @miraikanbara6691 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is so true it hurts 😂

    • @teamperil8904
      @teamperil8904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Woke my baby up laughing to this

  • @xyriusd832
    @xyriusd832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Seriously nothing is more amazing than a newborn! Hard work and all they're so adorable, tiny, and innocent.

    • @flick2flick
      @flick2flick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The lies you tell...the 1st year is the worst. The lack of sleep...the crying ...ugh😫

    • @xyriusd832
      @xyriusd832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@flick2flick it is the worst but it’s also the most incredible and it’s so short lived. I wish I can see my baby as a newborn in my arms again and treasure that moment a little more.

  • @zenberimbau3085
    @zenberimbau3085 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The swaddling recommendation in this saved my wife and I last night. Our newborn was irritable from colic and his technique with the arms down allowed my son to calm down and sleep all night and almost immediately post feeding. He usually stats awake and has had trouble relaxing post feeding and then post diaper change. This is my new go to for the foreseeable future

  • @AnhNguyen-ju5eq
    @AnhNguyen-ju5eq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All of these steps were followed and put a hysterical baby to sleep within 5-10 minutes. Amazing!!.

  • @mikief9352
    @mikief9352 ปีที่แล้ว

    His book was really a life saver ! Thank you forever Dr Karp !

  • @emsmile84
    @emsmile84 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Have raised 10 newborns, and THIS is SO important and true. Some don't need all five S's but other need them all in the extreme to settle. Babies love swaddling. Never met a baby swaddled correctly with the five S's who didn't benefit from it. They will sleep SO much longer if you swaddle them.

    • @31Sunshine
      @31Sunshine 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      10 ??? That's nuts!😂

    • @MrsMuffin11
      @MrsMuffin11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My baby hates being wrapped in a blanket. As soon as I wrap her feet she starts screaming...

  • @241.womeshchandra7
    @241.womeshchandra7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +491

    0:28 we learning origami bois

  • @peshmerge44
    @peshmerge44 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2083

    Swinging? Don't do it guys. If the baby gets used to it you are screwed. It won't stop crying before you start swinging 😂

    • @renitatellis7772
      @renitatellis7772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Yessss i had a tough time for a year :'(

    • @MDC21122MWC
      @MDC21122MWC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +231

      You should only do these tricks for babies who are 3 months old or younger :) you do it less and less as they get older until you can hopefully lay them down and they’ll just sleep. (As if!)

    • @xopandasiiox6415
      @xopandasiiox6415 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      lol it was a workout to put them to sleep.

    • @indumathiraman4430
      @indumathiraman4430 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True

    • @carypm
      @carypm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      My 2 year old slept in a swing was rocked to sleep or slept in bed with me now first the first 7 months at 7 months she started pushing away from laying in bed with me so I’d rock her and put her in her crib at around a year she started fighting being rocked so I’d put her in bed and hold her hand when we moved her to a toddler bed at 18 months she told me night night leave so I left her in her bed and left the room and she’s gone to sleep with no crying ever since each baby is different and will develop independence on their own I’m currently co sleeping with my second child he’s 3 weeks old they only want to snuggle for so long so enjoy it

  • @juliamihajlovich
    @juliamihajlovich 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    That is SUCH a cute newborn 😍

    • @Tvo281
      @Tvo281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are SUCH a beautiful woman

    • @poison71
      @poison71 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Tvo281 simp

  • @alazychristian232
    @alazychristian232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Saved me and my husband's sanity with my our girls. I tell everyone I can about this book, and especially the football hold combined with the shushing/light bouncing. Will be forever grateful to Dr. Karp.

    • @tequilabumbum4373
      @tequilabumbum4373 ปีที่แล้ว

      What book?

    • @alazychristian232
      @alazychristian232 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tequilabumbum4373 Happiest Baby on the Block by Dr. Harvey Karp

    • @tequilabumbum4373
      @tequilabumbum4373 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about when baby is bigger and heavy to be holding like the football? 😅

  • @c.m.880
    @c.m.880 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    3 days post partum, thank you for giving this new mom some peace of mind and a few hours of sleep 😭 I couldn’t get her to stay asleep in the crib for anything and needed permission to just give her the pacifier

    • @aubreysnyder9216
      @aubreysnyder9216 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It’s tricky though for the first few days because they are supposed to feed constantly with no time limit to bring in your milk so unless you’re bottle-feeding, you have to be careful about sticking a pacifier in for the first week or so until breastfeeding supply is established. You’re not supposed to get much sleep the first few days, lol.

    • @lucybarrington4634
      @lucybarrington4634 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aubreysnyder9216 Not sleeping contributes to PPA and PPD. So everyone needs to make decisions about this depending on their mental health and the kind of support they’re getting.

  • @yenmybaby
    @yenmybaby 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    When I was a baby I cried myself to sleep, 25 years later I still do.

  • @petertherock5070
    @petertherock5070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the best relax for a baby is the embrace of his mother , bc they hear the same heart pulse when he was inside

  • @elle-izalogan9372
    @elle-izalogan9372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    None of my three kids accepted any type of pacifier. They spat them farther I thought would be possible, no matter which model I tried. But I didn't have any problems with them lying around crying, either, or not getting them to sleep. I just put them into my handsewn mei tai (for the first months heart to heart against my chest, so I could breastfeed them everywhere and at every time without any hindrances; as soon as they were able to hold their heads I carried them on my back), and got moving. They loved to be carried around, slept during me vacuuming, cleaning, going to the playground / shopping / for a walk, breastfed them as often as they wanted to, and, the most important: trusted my motherly instincts, without getting caught up in "you must let them cry", "they have to learn to sleep on their own", "you may only breastfeed every 2,5 hours", "isn't that way too hot for them to be carried like this? why don't you just put them into a stroller?" or any other well-meant tips and hints.
    Of course, the first days and nights are difficult for everyone, but very soon they will find their rhythm, and you don't die when you sleep for 3 hours and then have some 30-minute long naps throughout the day for some time. Hey, congratz if they sleep 8 hours from their second day on, but it's totally okay if they don't.
    I probably sound terribly insensitive and old-fashioned, but way too many people are just way too pampered and used to self-unfolding and just dancing to their own drum. And instead of doing summersaults around their fragile feelings, every one of us should have someone who tells him to get it together 'cause everything will be all right, and to put the grown-up-pants on once in a while.

  • @ZeeTaylor25
    @ZeeTaylor25 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I thankfully didn't struggle with my child when he was newborn. He barely cried and just made noises to let people know he's awake. If he did cry, a shush was enough. He slept so well and so did I.

    • @nananona5491
      @nananona5491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My boy is 15 days now. And im jealous of you

    • @chabelyarismendy4311
      @chabelyarismendy4311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How was your pregnancy? Were you really relaxed and stress free? Just wondering. My baby is a bit fussy

    • @sherilyncabaquit7822
      @sherilyncabaquit7822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      im guessing your baby is formula fed. mine is breastfeeding so literally have no other choice but wake up every 2 hours to feed my baby

    • @goldc4859
      @goldc4859 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chabelyarismendy4311 that doesn’t really matter.. my pregnancy was sort of calm but definitely had it’s stressful moments and my baby was born very healthy and only cries when she’s hungry and fusses when her tummy is bothering her and she needs to burp… itching too extravagant

  • @cosmicgiggler7867
    @cosmicgiggler7867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Another major tip he didn’t mention to have your baby sleep like a pro is the darkness your babies room needs to be for sleeping proper.
    I consider myself a baby whisperer, when I had my baby at 18 I was impressed with my mother instincts at a seemingly younger age.
    But really the major key points I used were white noise type of things. Humidifiers and fans worked like a charm. But on top of that, making sure the sun wasn’t a thing during their slumber helped so much I couldn’t believe it.
    Get the kind of curtains that block out light completely, or get crazy and hang up extra blankets over the blinds. You won’t regret the extra bit of sleep you’ll be able to scrounge in the process :D

  • @ha9496
    @ha9496 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't describe how relaxing this video is

  • @Iheartjareddiamond
    @Iheartjareddiamond 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    As a nine month along pregnant lady, I totally get why they are “born early”

    • @gfdereus8967
      @gfdereus8967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. Comparing my sons birth weight and size vs his 3 month old weight and size I can confidently say I would have been ripped open from top to bottom 😂

  • @Cat-lb3eo
    @Cat-lb3eo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +954

    Is “the baby whisperer” some kind of occupation? What subject do I need to study for it? I think that’s the only subject I would pass. 😂

    • @tmck4138
      @tmck4138 6 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Taehi Mursh you need to have a bachelors degree in whispering and ASMR

    • @Cat-lb3eo
      @Cat-lb3eo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      T McK thanks for informing me, my dude.

    • @notdilara6794
      @notdilara6794 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Taehi Mursh I would prob ace it too at least my mom would be proud 😂

    • @Cat-lb3eo
      @Cat-lb3eo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      aesthetic same man. 😂

    • @yuppi3495
      @yuppi3495 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ARMYYYY

  • @BadHattie
    @BadHattie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +874

    Putting a baby to sleep is not nearly as hard as keeping them asleep. OMG.

    • @sarasparrow45
      @sarasparrow45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True.thts the main point

    • @jacobbaker4545
      @jacobbaker4545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!

    • @kaycee1500
      @kaycee1500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Dealing with this now with my 10 week old 😩😭

    • @scoobydoo7379
      @scoobydoo7379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      OMG your so right. I got a 5 week old. I feel like she hate sleep sometimes.

    • @StephanieTips
      @StephanieTips 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try the GlowDreaming thing

  • @bridgettehattingh4143
    @bridgettehattingh4143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Does this guy have a TH-cam channel? I am going to be a new mama in September and this is clearly my go-to guy

  • @gc1925
    @gc1925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE THIS VIDEO! I’m due in March and can’t wait!

  • @doucetentation
    @doucetentation ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It definitely worked for us!! Thank you so much🥰💓

  • @winnileesboy
    @winnileesboy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I started baby sitting at 12 (wouldn't do that today!) And I learned this stuff by trial and error.
    Skin to skin is a great way for dads to connect
    The little babes love pulling chest hair!
    Tactile

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think my baby hates kisses from her dad. She shakes her head at him somexs. He must feel like a cactus. It's OK bb, I feel the same way. Ive only heard about skin contact w/the mom tho. But our guinea pigs like eating his chest hair, lol. Also, 1 time I walked in on him letting her get on his nipples. Ha, mine are inverted. He said shut up I was just trying to comfort her. I thought they were more about seeking mommy's odors (milk) & heartbeat. Bc thats what they're used to.. I'm trying now but w/ the help of some machinery & nip covers &what not. I guess I gave up to easily w/ my first.

  • @1kenpau1
    @1kenpau1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    I used to put my daughter on my chest while on the couch and out like a light no swaddling while my wife was vacuuming. Shes 5 now and still has to lay next to me for a bit before she knocks out.
    If your baby is a newborn put them on your thighs while your sitting down and rock them left to right lightly they'll pass right out.

    • @xdrake8588
      @xdrake8588 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Skin to skin ?

    • @1kenpau1
      @1kenpau1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@xdrake8588 yes chest to chest when they're infants. Obviously as they get older you dont want to do that.

    • @TheTuellfamily
      @TheTuellfamily 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Good tips, and I love to see that they're coming from a dad. My kids have always slept with fans and/or noise machines, and they both started sleeping through the night at around 4 weeks of age. I was a nanny for three kids and did the same with them. They would nap for two to three hours every afternoon with those noise machines and fans going.

    • @DailyDose926
      @DailyDose926 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My daughter was the same way with her father. He does the chest to chest, cuddles with her & sleeps at night with her. She's 2 1/2 now. Only thing is she loves her daddy so much to the point I got booted from the bed.. She claimed her daddy😞

    • @chandelle2146
      @chandelle2146 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Btw wives find that sexy .. do it often and get some honey after 😏

  • @LegBreakMMA
    @LegBreakMMA ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is my second child and I still look to learn new stuff , if anyone is a new parent hang in there ! The crying and stuff is tough but it will be over in no time and then you will miss the baby stage.... enjoy the innocent little baby and just try to be the best parent you can be...don't get mad at the baby for crying.

  • @jenniemoon974
    @jenniemoon974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am 6months pregnant. Watching this video will help me when my baby is out. My due date is on the month of December. 🥰

  • @reevessteadler3197
    @reevessteadler3197 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Omg this is so true! I have a 7 week old baby currently and i couldn’t get her to sleep during the first few weeks until i started swaddling her. Now she sleeps up to five hours at night and wakes up without fussing. I breastfeed her and she goes straight back to sleep for another 4-5 hours. And i get the same amount of sleep at night too.

    • @anjuparajuli8614
      @anjuparajuli8614 ปีที่แล้ว

      Teach me how do you do that?? My baby is 26days old she hates being swaddled. She don’t sleep well. Just keeps on screaming and crying all day long. She’s only quite while she’s being fed or she’s asleep. I am so worried 😢

    • @nirmalinamdar8261
      @nirmalinamdar8261 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anjuparajuli8614 don't be so hard on yourself. Are you sure you are swaddling tightly enough? this was my mistake. If you let the baby move their arms inside the swaddle. where they can fight it and get their arms up or out of the swaddle. They get frustrated and start to cry... if you wrap them snug where the arms dont move when they try to Jerk themselves awake at night. They will soothe themselves and go back to bed... to loose and those arms get any movement... they'll startle awake and start to cry.

  • @keishamarseille6332
    @keishamarseille6332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I give birth in 4 months! So excited watching this!

  • @89tothbianka
    @89tothbianka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful baby that one is!!

  • @trellabella1
    @trellabella1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The baby looks like a doll 😍🥰

  • @infectedcontactlensyes.5172
    @infectedcontactlensyes.5172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Fun fact: Shushing mimics the echo of the mother's heartbeat in the belly

    • @surrealx9520
      @surrealx9520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shit down

    • @vsggdwc29
      @vsggdwc29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually wrong, it mimics Mom's blood flow not heartbeat.

    • @EatTwinkies13
      @EatTwinkies13 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It mimics the flow from the placenta.

    • @newt1834
      @newt1834 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not the heartbeat, it mimics the sound of the amniotic fluid

  • @Cherrielou
    @Cherrielou 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im a new mom of a newborn my first baby and first born. I do all these including having certain sounds around her but she is also used be asleep both dark or light or just dim light bed room. We balance co sleeping and have her in her bassinet as well between days

  • @flake2190
    @flake2190 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ftm in two months :)
    I an so pleasantly surprised with everything you suggest. Great vid

  • @KSC_
    @KSC_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching this in the hopes I'd find something to help keep my newborn asleep at the moment. She hates swaddling and then she likes it sometimes. The minute I lay her down in her bassinet, 10 minutes later she starts crying. Every night this has been a routine now. I'm not sure when I can stop rocking her enough that she'll fall into a deep sleep I just set her down on my soft bedding and she loves it (and stays asleep of course) but I can't have her in my bed so now I'm stuck.

  • @AlizMari23
    @AlizMari23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Omg these little animations are just so freaking cute! They make me want to wake up my baby boy just to put him back to sleep 😂 🥰

  • @amywest7041
    @amywest7041 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always put our 4 babies to sleep on their side & blocked their body so they couldn't roll into their stomach. So if they spit up while in their bed, they couldn't choke on it if stuck on their back. They often feel asleep nursing while I slept on my side, the baby on the outside of the bed not between us. Only for a couple weeks. As soon as they could sleep ok in their own room, yay! 5 weeks with me with our first baby. 4 weeks with #2. 3 weeks with #3, and I got the 4th trained in only 2 weeks to sleep in the baby's room. I did have a bassinet next to my bed to help with training. I found that one arm down straight & one arm up was the most soothing, but unfortunately that allowed thumb sucking to become a habit for too many years, so if I had it to do over, I would do both arms down!

  • @babysleep8039
    @babysleep8039 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an INSPIRATION 💤💤 those tips with our white noise uaaauu ❤️

  • @ellew4741
    @ellew4741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video! My firstborn sucked his thumb for about 4 years. I successfully managed to get my second baby to suck a pacifier. My firstborn is now 14 years and has perfect teeth, my second child is 12 and we're bracing ourselves for serious orthodontic work!🙈

  • @2sweet2be4got10
    @2sweet2be4got10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Perfect intro ... he said everything up front ...and then explains

  • @reshmikatochguleria9121
    @reshmikatochguleria9121 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yessssss ❤baby loves rhythmic way.... slowly swings 🎉😊 it's so magically Granny smust be walky talky ❤😊

  • @dough-moh
    @dough-moh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This advice will save you nights of sleep. Also staying on top of a feeding schedule helps with avoiding the fussiness and crying.

  • @vergaratwins9536
    @vergaratwins9536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    What if you have twin boys who like to cry alot at the same time and shit everywhere at the same time lmao helpppppp

    • @joshiyonnahayes6016
      @joshiyonnahayes6016 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Get a baby swinger that rocks them and also makes calming sounds I guarantee they'll both go to sleep easier🙂👍🏼

    • @HelenEk7
      @HelenEk7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have twin boys (7 weeks). I recommend a white noise app, as It will do the shhh'ing for you. Also recommend a book called Babywise. Has kept me sane...

    • @vergaratwins9536
      @vergaratwins9536 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Goodluck!! my twin boys are 8 months now and still wake me up at night but they r a blessing! But its very hard & very different than just one baby! 👏🏼

    • @Brittany_L
      @Brittany_L 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm 5 months pregnant with twin boys!! Ahhhh!!

    • @charro028
      @charro028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I laughed too hard at this and I’m sorry and I hope it’s gotten easier for you hun!

  • @laxmibarma3232
    @laxmibarma3232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My dad is a expert in this...
    He was the one who made me sleep very deeply and I still see him do the same with other kids..
    He really makes everyone sleep.. sometimes with soft voice.
    Sometimes shaking them.
    Sometimes he turns them and shakes.
    Sometimes he do something that can make them sleepy in a crying or angry moment of kids.....

    • @talentexposed4755
      @talentexposed4755 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think am doing better in getting our first born to sleep than my wife😅

  • @normabaker5897
    @normabaker5897 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful! Thank you!

  • @Tekillyah
    @Tekillyah ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude you remind me of my favorite pedia, he passed away due to Covid and I've never encountered another good one ever since. Rip.

  • @amandafletcher4379
    @amandafletcher4379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Come deal with my screaming colicky baby who hates being swaddled bruh. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @moniquelornettee5169
      @moniquelornettee5169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Omg I feel so bad for you lol.....my 4wk old hates being swaddled she screams her head off until her arms are free but colicky I don't wish on anyone!! Lol. Good luck❤💖

    • @StephanieTips
      @StephanieTips 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Stomach position + opposite hand passing through their legs and going from one side to the other on their stomach. Works on all colicky babies

    • @bubblesactivated
      @bubblesactivated 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah the first two months my baby was colicky and had acid reflux bad...i thought i was going to jump off a bridge and his father wasn’t helping me at all..i was too exhausted but he’s 4 months now and only cries when he has a slight tummy ache or when he wants to be rocked to sleep 🙄🙄 and did i mention he’s 16 lbs and WANTS TO BE ROCKED TO SLEEP 😭😭😭😭

    • @cheesypancakes8756
      @cheesypancakes8756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God why does colic even exist

    • @amanda-hi9rb
      @amanda-hi9rb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow I was blessed with such a good baby THANK GOD. I would never wish a colicky baby on anybody.. I can only imagine

  • @uglygames9175
    @uglygames9175 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much I'm just trying to help my mom 😊

  • @Billissexy1
    @Billissexy1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg now I understand why it's so comforting to sleep in the car on a road trip!!

    • @Damani5445
      @Damani5445 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lauryn Marie comfortable until you have to poop

  • @JM-iu2ss
    @JM-iu2ss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    “Hey lil mama lemme whisper in ya ear”
    That’s all that came to mind lmfao

    • @chariyathach9912
      @chariyathach9912 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HAHAHHAHAHAA

    • @noranoor1014
      @noranoor1014 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Moon-pw7qj
      @Moon-pw7qj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMMFAO

    • @DaisyCampuzano
      @DaisyCampuzano 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mitchellreif6523
      @mitchellreif6523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      3am I’m watching this and I read this comment... lost my shit 😂😂😂😂

  • @sean8865
    @sean8865 ปีที่แล้ว

    You call them the 5 S’s? Lol. I love what you said in the beginning. They really are, in essence, born 3 months early. Helps with perspective.

  • @user-mt3fm9hq9l
    @user-mt3fm9hq9l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow this is so insightful. Thank you so much

  • @monalie6947
    @monalie6947 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    *bay whisperer* : ItS NoT a PrObLeM AnYmOre

    • @superiorduck2105
      @superiorduck2105 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Qadar Laila I thought it was from Troom Troom?

    • @Hi-nl1jb
      @Hi-nl1jb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *The bRoWn HaIRed GiRL liKes BaNnAnas*

    • @HeyitsBri_
      @HeyitsBri_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      *Whad'ya think?*

    • @jodirenner1121
      @jodirenner1121 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love this thread

  • @brisbanemagallano9816
    @brisbanemagallano9816 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I tried some of the steps with my baby, and it worked! Fell asleep in just 3 mins.

  • @karenbaird9757
    @karenbaird9757 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s a beautiful baby he’s singing. Yeah😍😘😍

  • @noraayumustari1274
    @noraayumustari1274 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes. This took skills and right way to do to so it doesnt lead to shaking syndrome or else. Been a neonatal nurse for ten years now really teaches me a lot.

  • @eligadz
    @eligadz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    2:52 ok, mommy had a great sleep. I think she's ready to go the party. Lols

  • @Nessa___
    @Nessa___ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve just had my 4th hes 3 weeks old. My best advice for getting to sleep?! Make sure ALL wind is brought up first. I’ve always sleep trained good habits from day one or I’ll go insane. You can never spoil a newborn anyway so if it means you have to put baby on your chest to hear your heart beating to get them to sleep then so be it :) enjoy these moments

  • @MrJcock12
    @MrJcock12 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I have this guys book. Very interesting stuff. Works pretty well on my 3 week old

  • @madihasohail18191
    @madihasohail18191 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very engaging interview❤

  • @succulentsjourney3147
    @succulentsjourney3147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    His book became my bible when I had my daughter, helped me so much!

  • @pp20173
    @pp20173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    All babies aren't the same though. My first child loved it, second child didnt like being constricted. And i never rocked them. I didnt wanna start putting them to sleep in a certain way and then they only go to sleep THAT way. I laid them down and they fell asleep on their own. This guy is setting parent up to be up all night rocking babies.

    • @jasminevaliente96
      @jasminevaliente96 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      To each their own never had an issue with putting kids down without rocking after 3 months

    • @saddvamp22
      @saddvamp22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's probably just good to do, if the baby wakes up crying in the middle of the night.. Not a bad thing to do every now and then.

    • @ChesterBwifey
      @ChesterBwifey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s the mistake I did with rocking! Wish I’d known before lol

    • @carypm
      @carypm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My son hated the swaddle from day one he’s 3 weeks old and sleeps without it he’ll sleep pretty much anywhere you lay him down

    • @malissanielsen3565
      @malissanielsen3565 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      The rocking, swinging, sucking, etc is to soothe a CRYING baby, not to do every time they go to sleep.

  • @GGTenshou
    @GGTenshou 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing, wish i saw this 5 months ago... Thats for the tips boss

  • @anthonydentice8180
    @anthonydentice8180 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here so tired, was looking for a secret knowledge but man these are the basics !
    Wheres the silver bullet!

  • @JohnnyCatFitz
    @JohnnyCatFitz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Swaddling yes. I can't tell you how many new mom's didn't see it as anything special. When I was babysitting they all slept for me bc I tucked them in tight and gave them their pacie and quietly whisper/sang to them. Boom sleeping baby. 👼

  • @tharunjayaprasad1739
    @tharunjayaprasad1739 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    the tears looked like confetti

  • @RandyA7
    @RandyA7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The white noise works great. Used it all the time with our son.

  • @alexandrosgketis8290
    @alexandrosgketis8290 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the information 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @sevenmillionhobbies7840
    @sevenmillionhobbies7840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My baby nephew hated all the traditional methods. He pushed out pacifiers with his tongue, he hated being swaddled, he cried anytime he was in a laying position, he loved to prove advice after advice wrong. Then finally we found a fool proof way to make him sleep. Hold him upright against the heartbeat and go on a short walk. Works every time.

  • @atv844
    @atv844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wife is 19 weeks. It's a girl. I'm exited because now my sister's twins will have a cousin to play with.

    • @FJB_USA_1ST
      @FJB_USA_1ST 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're a good man.

  • @vidsnobids
    @vidsnobids 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My new baby now is 1 month now thank you for this video

  • @loyalteddybear
    @loyalteddybear 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so true! trial and error for me :) i find soothing simple audio works very well and running it all night so if they do wake up the calming audio send them straight back! zzzzzzz

  • @deeLucas1612
    @deeLucas1612 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I’ve been doing it right all along 😊 My baby boy sleeps longer when he is being swaddled with a pacifier sometimes without. After I freshen him up by wiping with a cloth soaked in warm water, I feed him and 15 minutes after feeding and burping, I would just put him on the bed and he will just sleep on his own.

  • @neyukitty
    @neyukitty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    *ASMR for babies*

  • @olenamamai-schlaubke728
    @olenamamai-schlaubke728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for your advices. I have just a one question : " What about babys around 9th month?"

  • @choochieandfriends
    @choochieandfriends 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Thank you

  • @growingwiththebells261
    @growingwiththebells261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man this looks great. I'm due with my first in the fall.🥰🤰🏿cant wait to fry this and hopefully share on my page

  • @lisodermbaby
    @lisodermbaby ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is a great video! It's always helpful to have some tips and techniques for getting a baby to sleep, as it can be one of the most challenging aspects of parenting. It's important to remember that every baby is different, and what works for one may not work for another. It's also crucial to be patient and consistent, as it can take time for a baby to develop good sleep habits. Thank you for sharing these useful tips!

  • @MrMeoow91
    @MrMeoow91 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This explains why both of my babies slept better during the day compared to at night. Some of the points were very logical 👍.

  • @maheswarivyshakh5266
    @maheswarivyshakh5266 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your video🙏

  • @SoundsOfSleepProductions
    @SoundsOfSleepProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Imitating the womb is probably the best way to put him to sleep. And keeping a steady routine helps a lot. Babies love routine, even though they're the ones who break it :D

    • @worlddreaminstitute4427
      @worlddreaminstitute4427 ปีที่แล้ว

      White and pink noise facilitating long, deep and healthy sleep are of particular importance for children. There is no absolute silence in the mother's womb. Various sounds reach the fetus - voices, music, and even the sound of flowing blood. Through the amniotic fluid and the specific environment in the mother's body, all sounds that reach the fetus appear as white noise. After giving birth, such a sound makes the baby feel safe and confident. This noise reminds the baby of the conditions in the mother's belly. In the case of newborns and infants, white noise will work not only during sleep. It is also worth using it to soothe and calm a crying baby.

  • @meandcharlotte2280
    @meandcharlotte2280 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I remember when I used to watch this 9 months ago, when my baby was 1 month old......time flies so fast. Now I’ve started a channel with activities for babies 👶

  • @lilybauer5984
    @lilybauer5984 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This worked amazingly

  • @goodmorning192
    @goodmorning192 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I leaned a lot. Thanks a lot doc😊

  • @petergriffiinbirdistheword
    @petergriffiinbirdistheword 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    💀 My baby won't suck on a pacifier. He'll just latch onto me and go to sleep and I'm stuck likevthat for hours.

    • @oneikajohn5041
      @oneikajohn5041 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Currently me, did it get better?

    • @patrona02
      @patrona02 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same hereeee

  • @tyunas1445
    @tyunas1445 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so excited to have my baby now