I heard the 1st story before and there was an update. She took Barbara to court and got the money back. Barbara ended up leaving town with her kids and had to get 2 jobs. Her kids wouldn't help her.
I hope what happen to you will be able to heal. I went to the China when I was only 11 year old. Never let anyone tear you down. I had experience racism many time since I am Asian. Especially since Covid hit. I left NYC. and moved upstate NYC there not a lot of Asian up here. In my town there beside myself I can only count 4 more Asian. Try to found out more about where you come. Please Do not allowed your nightmare take over your life and continue to seek help .
Story 2. Shady or fake nurses/caregivers slip through the cracks more often than we want to think about. It happened to my family...do your homework, background and reference checks at minimum before you put your loved one in the hands of a stranger. Their safety depends on it.
I'm a retired Police Officer and unfortunately I can tell you that financial abuse of the elderly is a frequently occurring crime. It's usually care givers or their children.
First story, it’s not so unusual for siblings to not report a parent for abusing a scapegoat child. They understood that if the scapegoat goes away, they may become the scapegoat themselves and she probably had abused them before she adopted and they don’t want to be the victims. Most children won’t report their parents. It’s better the devil you know then the devil you don’t know
When I reported a caregiver, basically I was told the exact same thing by the cops/caseworker. Foster care is the worst, additionally foster parents vary in toxicity. As long as I was able to physically overpower my molester and refuse molestation, I was encouraging to remain in the same household. Yep. BC there were foster fathers who wouldn’t take no for an answer. It’s as though they threatened me with one of “those” homes if I didn’t remain in placement at the current home. I would love to see the statistics, I’d be shocked if more people died/disappeared in police custody than in foster care.
i always find it funny when a family member is under investigation, other members will threaten the accuser. Like "ah yes, lets give the person physical evidence that she isn't lying"
I would never answer the calls of people siding with my abuser. Let them text me their threats. They will eventually. A bully can't help but be a bully. And it tends to be passed down from one generation to the next, like a grotesque genetic malady. So it's not a surprise that the entire family went nuts on OP. That vile creature got her whole life rekt. Good show.
Lol, even with eye witnesses there is some nutter. My sister expert words and note that she was 1 week old when I left were "I lived in this house for 25 yrs and nothing" along that anyway. Yes favourite girl child. I guess telling truth is wrong these days. She even tried the "not like getting a new daddy" route. The drama that folded at the time was crazy. But if anything ever happened, I would be responsible for being silent.
Finally, stories about people who aren't just a bunch of doormats and actually do something to get out of the situation they are in. Except for OP's dad from the second story, he is a doormat.
Yeah, it was clear that Dad was thinking with the wrong head. Or at least had the mindset that a lot of people tend to have at his age, "you're only worth something if you have a partner on your arm." And the richer and/or more attractive partner, the better. I wish society would stop spreading this toxic mindset.
Story 1: Go OP for ruining her step-mum's reputation. Story 2: I would have gone to work and called her bluff or begged for my job back. Go OP for being such a good PI. I hope the dad learnt his lesson about reading the fine print. The nerve of that nurse to just wear the piece of jewelry all the time.
One thing that always gets me is that even when people establish their race Mr. Reddito still makes them quite different from what is described. Or when he makes impossible races mix like a white blond kid whose parents are black and Asian
@@ruddiko It's not his VOICE that's the problem, the problem is with the models used in the videos, and the lack of consistency. For example, his previous videos, from the guy with the GF whose rich parents didn't approve of him. In the initial story, the girlfriend is Asian with black parents, but in the update, they're changed to be all white with completely different designs. Small things, like hair colour or length and even eye colour, can be explained away relatively easily. But when the artwork for a person completely changes within a few minutes, that's a big inconsistency and it's an issue because that suggests the video isn't being checked before being put out, and then the constant inconsistency lowers the quality of the video and can put people off watching it because it confuses them as to who s now who. Granted, that's down to whoever animates the videos, not Mr Reddito....Unless he IS the animator, in which case it's something he needs to work on.
Oh yea…as a previous paramedic/ER nurse who also worked for a couple home health agencies on my days off I’ve not only heard about such vile, toxic people as in the second story but have witnessed it first hand! I’ve seen kids, step kids, fake “nurses”, other family members & men/women sleeping with or trying to sleep with the spouse of the sick or even dying person try to do such things! Something I witnessed frequently as a paramedic/ER nurse who sometimes did shifts in ICU when they were short handed was family member refusing to sign a DNR & keeping a family member suffering in constant agony in the cheapest, dirtiest, worst nursing home in the area…SOLELY so they could keep getting their family member’s social security & retirement checks to spend themselves!!🤬🤬 Before anyone suggests such family members were “just not ready to let go” literally NO ONE EVER visited these patients…not even when rushed to the hospital or in ICU on life support!! If their family loved them too much to let go then they would AT LEAST come visit them in the nursing home or hospital!! And it’s not like they lived far away either! Since these are patients unable to make medical or any other decisions for themselves we would have to get the contact info for the family member or members responsible for all medical decisions & in nearly ALL cases they lived LESS than 1 hour away! In one of the worst cases the patient’s daughter literally lived just 2 BLOCKS from both the hospital & nursing home which were across the street from each other!!🤯🤬 When I say this nursing home was the absolute WORST…nearly every patient we picked up from there was dehydrated, filthy, had pressure sore & burns from sitting in their own urine & feces for extended periods of time, were malnourished(despite almost all having feeding tubes!) & many would be covered in bruises from rough treatment when being repositioned or when actually bathed!! During my first 2yrs as a medic more than a DOZEN nurses & even 2 doctors lost their license for mistreatment/abuse of patients actually able to still speak up for themselves or who had family who truly cared. So then it became obvious as soon as we picked up a patient from there we could immediately tell if they had family who cared & visited regularly or who was normally still able to speak up for themselves bc they would be hydrated, well fed, clean & have no bed sores, urine/feces burns or bruises from rough treatment! Which honestly made me MORE angry bc it PROVED that they did know HOW to properly care for patients & that they had the staff to do so!! That instead THEY CHOSE to neglect or even outright physically &/or mentally harm helpless patients left in their “care” solely BC THEY COULD!!🤬🤬What’s even *WORSE* is the fact that during my 4th year as a medic/nurse we had *15+* fully immobile(unable to move themselves)patients from that nursing home who kept testing positive for 2 different sexually transmitted diseases! This went on for *months* until finally investigators figured out that a male nurse & a male nursing assistant were *RAPING* *not only* these helpless immobile mentally unaware elderly women but also several other mentally aware female patients!! None had spoken up bc the men chose patients who didn’t have family visiting & they threatened to beat or even kill them if they said anything. Which since they gave them their meds & most required assistance moving & bathing…it wouldn’t be hard for them to make it look like an accident. It even turned out that a couple female nurses were involved & that the 4 of them *even FILMED* some of the rapes!!🤬🤯🤬How sick & twisted does someone have to be to do such things?!! The ONLY reason that nursing home hasn’t been shutdown is bc: 1. The owners own several in multiple counties & donate heavily to local politicians & those who run for sheriff 2. It’s one of only 2 in a 5 county area that charges so little & thus those patients would have no where to go…especially since there was(& still is)far more patients needing to be admitted to ANY type of nursing home than there is room available in our area. It’s a little better now since the state forced them to hirer new management & new staff along with frequent state inspections…but it’s still by far the worst in our area! -Also…as I live in the rural southern US…I’ve witnessed/known/currently know MANY such people as the mom, her 2 biological kids & her like minded friends from the 1st story…like how they pretend to be open & accepting in public but are actually horribly racist & homophobic! I hate to admit it but the majority of my family is like that…especially my husband’s family *EXCEPT* for his mother & father. His grandparents are horrible yet bc his grandfather was a pastor before he passed away earlier this year theyd be super nice to anyone of a different race in the community but would say horribly racist things in private. His grandfather’s behavior is one of the major reasons why I began questioning the churches & people who attended them in my area. Especially after overhearing other area pastors say similar things when visiting with my grandfather in law over Sunday lunch…with me, my husband, his aunt who still lived there at the time & his grandmother present! For clarification I met my husband at church at age 14 & we began dating at age 15. BC both of my grandfathers died before I was 4yrs old my grandfather in law is the only grandfather I’ve ever known/had…which became more important after my dad passed away from cancer when I was only 22. Don’t get me wrong…my grandfather in law would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it regardless of race. But he saw people of any race besides white as inferior with few exceptions. And my aunt in law wholeheartedly agrees with his views/beliefs *despite* having a masters in psychology, having worked for 15+yrs with those needing mental/physical assistance finding work/getting training after life changing injuries/illnesses & working for the past 6yrs at a local college making sure students with disabilities & learning impairments get the assistance & accommodations they need!🤯While she will fight tooth & nail to get any student regardless of race or sexual orientation the help they need…the way she talks about other races & those of other sexual orientation in private & the views/beliefs she expresses are horrible!! But sadly that is the case with a *lot* of white people here above a certain age & why many African Americans here above a certain age have a very negative opinion of most or even all white people. 😔😔 Thankfully many if not most of those my age(late 30s)or younger don’t share the older generation’s intolerances & hate. So while I have hope for the future…unfortunately right now those older than us are still in control of political positions, high ranking police positions, are in charge of major businesses & other positions of power & control. Until such positions can be filled by the younger generation many of the things that need change likely won’t be changed. However things are better than they were from even just 10-20yrs ago! While I’d love to see a rapid change not just publicly but in people’s hearts & minds…it’s something so deeply ingrained it unfortunately takes time to change. But at least publicly change has occurred much faster.
Yup in my hometown when I was younger we would go sing at nursing home on Sundays. A couple of times some smelled bad like urine. It was sad. I worked later on in childcare and we had a director get her CNA LICIENSE And work at a nursing home. I found out that one of my friends dad got placed at her facility. It made the news about nursing staff not doing their duties. Thank God the director stopped working in childcare. Same as another assistant director she quit working for one owner and I was working at another facility and owner stated to me you said she used to be an assistant director. She cannot even handle the 3 year old in her class. I just laughed. The assistant is better working around adults not children. One Daycare owner finally got her centers shutdown due to hiring incompant directors and staff. One office worker had the gall to tell me not to get after her worker. We were Facebook friends and I was just warning her that state can come and shut them down if she does not stop posting pictures of the daycare kids without parents permission. They did fine the center cause they hired a lady that did that and was posting porn on internet along with her boyfriend
Story 1. OP so sorry for the horrible life you have had with your adoptive mother. The way she treated you was no ok. Cant believe she worked as a humanitarian, but was so racist. So glad she didnt get that job she wanted. So glad that you were able to tell your truth and that people took action to help you. Glad she felt the karma of her actions. Also glad you sued her for the money she stole. Glad you won.
I would sue her. You already have the results of the other court case of proof of the other stuff she has done to you. Some lawyers would do pro bono knowing the story was everywhere. Then go to college and make a great life for yourself despite her.
I have a dear friend who was adopted by an abusive woman who made it clear to my friend until even on her deathbed, that she was not a member of the family. There are horror stories of children placed in abusive homes. CPS is quick to remove a child, and then doesn't vet the homes they place them in. Second story...never EVER EVER hire a care giver for anyone who is not licensed and vetted by the State you live in. If you need a care giver, the first call is to the State office of Human Services. They will register you and start the process of providing care.
As soon as the OP said the moms eyes just opened I knew this was just a story of fiction, imagine the timing of all the stuff that went down. It’s a nice story but just that a story.
I have an acquaintance in law enforcement that works in the elder abuse section. Story #2 happens all the time. Women alienate the man's family, convince them to sign everything over to them (sometimes via marriage that the man doesn't comprehend), and sometimes the man is beaten and left for dead. It happens so often that an elder abuse department is necessary.
Good morning folks. Mr Reddito, keep up the great work. Love your stories and the work you put in. The first story just makes me sick. Having had the privilege of traveling to many countries and areas of the US I've met people of many races and nationalities. People are people, most are friendly IF you give them half a chance and just want to share a moment of their lives.
S1: FFS OP, go public with your story. Heck you might even get a book/movie deal out of it. Go see a lawyer and have him write up the demands. What she did is called theft.
Story 2: I have heard of a similar story, and it ao happened to be about my great grandmother. She had the plug pulled on her in the middle of the night without our family's consent and a bunch of her possessions went missing, we suspected the nurse but she seemed to vanish and was never caught. So many family heirlooms and her most prized possessions had disappeared, and now there is no way we can get them back
Yup. A lot of these stories do. The worst ones were the rich kid who bought a mansion and let her dad and mistress move in, and a kid whose parents were both doctors and she got to be the one to tell families (at age 17) their loved ones were jacked up. Super fake.
This story makes me feel some kind of way. It's sad that people like her steal from people who are totally at their mercy for care. But greed is a monster that begets itself . Greed is never fulfilled and you cannot take it with you..
That story about the adopted Asian girl broke my heart! I’m relieved she eventually was able to break free from the oppression of that toxic “mother”/family, however it’s beyond sad that the influence during her youth was probably very detrimental to her core beliefs about herself and she’ll likely need continued therapy. It is indeed devastating that her siblings didn’t provide her any emotional support either. I can imagine that they too were probably messed up quite a bit from that toxic, narcissistic mother as well, and likely conditioned to have and continue with a competitive mindset with their siblings. Sadly this is how narcissistic parents raise their kids. To complete with each other rather than to build each other up and lovingly look out for and support each other. Unfortunately this story isn’t uncommon with any adoption. Even without race being a factor, there’s many adoptive “parents” who constantly want attention and admiration for “rescuing” children from some exaggerated portrayal of a horrible situation or life. Its sickening that these people use them for the social accolades rather than embracing them as completely their own precious children which every child deserves to grow up feeling and believing! I also must add, I absolutely ADORE your storytelling and especially your animation!!!! WHY are you only a TH-cam channel?! These amazing true stories along with your gifted animation ability, could and should be something that people of all ages, all cultures (made available in many translations) can enjoy as well as learn valuable life lessons and help to bring more wisdom and particularly empathy into the world. Maybe if you wrote out the stories (editing them slightly to improve them, as you do, without changing the story. Then have people from the appropriate culture and language, translate and read them in a voice fitting the first person character telling the story. Maybe have each story done in several different languages so they’re available to as many as possible. That would be so enjoyable and I for one, wouldn’t want to miss a single episode!!! Please make this happen? I think it could play a huge role in improving the world and bring so much betterment to society, and like I already said, some of these stories are wonderful for ALL ages or some could definitely be made to be without significant changes. Or maybe even collect more stories intended for a younger group. There’s just so much potential! Thank you for what you do and I appreciate and look forward to every episode! 💕
So where are the "viral videos" of her tell-all interview that outed her mother? How did DCFS (CPS) get her cell phone number? Barbara wouldn't have given it to them. I can't remember who all called her, but when she said her cell phone was blowing up after she won and did the interview, that was what went through my mind..."how did they get her number?" If the story is true it's terrible, horrible and heartbreaking. But how come there is never any proof with these stories? I'm sure there are plenty of people who want to see that eye-opening interview.
I'm glad that evil woman who killed an elderly woman & stole her necklace was caught. It is really advisable to have a background check of any person we are gonna accept in the family.
I heard about a “home care nurse” that tried to change her patient’s will so that she got his car, not his grandson like his will said. She even tried to say that he gave the car to her while he was still alive, so it couldn’t be included in the will.
Story 1 is heartbreaking. Racists like that are disgusting, and kids deserve better. As for her siblings- kids are like ducklings, they tend to follow their parents' examples. And when that example is to heap abuse on one of the kids, they'll play along ESPECIALLY if it means they are safe, or at least not abused as much themselves. It happened in the case of one kid whose abuse was so bad- and he lived to tell of it- that a book was written about it, and also the famous case of Genie whose father refused to allow anyone to socialize with her so she didn't learn to speak until after she was rescued. I heard of one case where a mother killed all but one of her daughters one by one, locking them up until they died, forbidding the younger ones from giving them food or water. (She believed they were stealing her youth.) She actually shot the first one, the oldest, for trying to leave. The younger ones knew it would be their turn next- one by one the current victim told their next younger sister it would be their turn after they were dead. The youngest actually got away and told police her mother had killed her sisters, and the police didn't believe her until the remains of the bonfire where the crazy mother had burned the most recent victim and all her belongings was found and they realized it actually contained human remains. Why did they not get together and beat that monster to death before she could decide it was their term? Basically, learned helplessness. It's been their normal for so long that it's hard for them to break away from it. Same thing here as in those cases. The siblings who grow up witnessing or also experiencing the abuse don't always, or even often, realize how abnormal it is, and don't usually have the courage to do anything about it.
In the story with the nurse I would have the dad call the police and inquire if they found that paper to turn off the real moms life support in the mistresses purse. when they tell him they did he'll about crap his pants.
Story 1 - I would have called her bluff. If she did follow up on that threat it would just prove she only adopted an Asian child to smokescreen her racism. The public opinion would have been against op's mother for being such a monster to a vulnerable little orphan. SHE KNEW THAT. I think op should have saved the threats to get the other racist family members into trouble too but that's just what I think. It's more important that Barbara went down. Don't be too hard on op's siblings. It's likely they were just relieved their horrible mom focused her abuse on op and they never wanted to challenge that because once the person is out of the picture the abuse will transfer to a new target. It's not right but it's just self preservation when your parent is a remorseless monster. Story 2 - "a good man?" Wtf. 😂 Okay. He couldn't even wait for his poor wife to be buried six feet under before he cheated on her. Yeah, what a good man. He let the mistress just sell op's mom stuff as she pleased. Yeah. He's such a nice man. He let this floozy slap his daughter around and made her lose her job. FATHER OF THE YEAR. I'm gonna stop for a moment to appreciate Johnny and Mr. Peterson. The PI deserves credit too ofc. Sweet sweet justice 😘🤌
The fact that mum miraculously opened her eyes at the perfect time, on top of the kid not sending dad the recording or earning him to read papers carefully Rn, males me think this is made up
My sister and I were adopted too. My dad wanted us, as mom told me after he died. She told her family and others, my sister (no relation) and I both owed her for taking us out of the orphanage. They started a college fund for me when I was a tiny girl. After I turned 18, they told me girls didn't go to college that they adopted my sister and I to take care of them when they grew old because that's what their friends told them to do. They took my college fund/$20,000 and bought a car and who knows what else with the money. I married what turned out to be a very abusive man just to get away from her. I had a friend who counseled me and taught me how to spot controlling people after my divorce. My sister and I grew up on a farm and we had a big garden. We were expected to help work in the garden, then harvest then process the food. I loved this part of my life as it taught me how to take care of myself later on in life. I was also the caregiver of the family. I did this out of love even though my mom didn't care for me. I'm a CMA now and enjoy my life. My parents died many years ago and I learned how to survive life. I met my birth families and they accepted me. They were so very good to me. I had no idea what love was until I met them.
If I am understanding this correctly, by the time the competition was over and the prize money distributed you were a ward of the court under supervision of a new guardian???? If that is correct then it would be fraud on the part of your first foster mom to collect that money on your behalf. Talk to CPS as they are your legal resource.
There is a story on Cold Case Files (I think) where a woman murdered a man for a piece of land with a house on it. Seven or so years later she was caught and put into prison. In Detroit, Michigan a kid was murdered for his expensive tennis shoes years ago.
A now dead aunt was so racist she refered to her friends by their race. Told me she disown me if i dated anything but white. Well karma caught up with her and she died due to a allergic reaction to chemo
The girls money that she won in the competition should be hers. The law is imperfect and unjust in this situation. She was abused and used by her suppose guardian. She should be punished for it and yet they released the girls money to this evil woman. Disgusting.
What a horrible mom. She's so blessed to have such a wonderful adopted child. Her siblings are also at fault because they knew better and contributed to the abuse. May they all rot in their guilt. No wonder the dad left. Audio record, play it for dad, police and the licensing board. I doubt she is a nurse.
Thank you for a child abuse story. We hear mostly about wife abuse stories from, not often, the husband or the majority from MIL. Horrible MILs, horror abuse on women from women. I have mentioned child abuse quite often because abusive people normally have more than one victim. I ran away at 15 because my life was in danger. That was in the late 60s and 70s and before CPS. My father was a drunk and beat us with his two best friends Smith and Wesson, that’s a hand gun. I escaped and graduated from high school
My Mom refused one of her 22 grandchildren just because she was mixed race. I was a teen at the time and was so heartbroken. It was the only horrible thing my Mom did and boy was it horrible. Horrendously horrible.
OP, go back to the media and tell a journalist that your mother appropriated the prize money you had intended to use for college. It should be easy to prove that she cashed the check. You may find a lawyer who will handle your case pro bono as a result, and can take your adoptive mother to court to get your money back.
Harold Shipman the British serial killer, he was a GP (general practitioner) , and killed lot's of his patients. He was caught eventually, I think that he was trying to change will's to put his name on. Can't remember the full story.
The end was cut off about the mother in a coma and the home care nurse. It started to say that the mothers eyes started to open, then you talked over the top and suddenly finished the story.
For the 2nd story, there was a campus caregiver at this retirement home I used to work from january 2012 to August 2019 and the caregiver used her key card to get in this one resident room who had passed away and took there checkbook and withdraw money from it
I know such stories. Like the saying goes "we are always the villain in someone else story". The way her kids see it - she has been nice to them their whole life, and they have been groomed to be racist to OP their whole life. Of course they would take their mom's side. The money part is sad, yes.
Now that OP is 18, she should enter more competitions, under her own power, and take ALL the prize money. She's already proven that she can win. Then, she can use her new winnings to pay the legal costs of SUING THE PANTS OFF OF BARBARA! As for the siblings - I don't really blame the sister, because she was still a small child when OP was introduced to the home, and was SWIMMING in the racism in that home. She didn't know any better. When it all came out, she was still only 17, and still at home, and still didn't have much opportunity to learn better. You KNOW her mother did not let her socialize with 'the wrong sort," who would "corrupt her mind," so she didn't know better. The older brother, however, was nine years older, and WELL into young adulthood by the time the story came out. He would have already graduated college, or been in the workforce for several years. He would have had SO MUCH opportunity to know POCs, and non-racists, and to LEARN. For him, yeah, he had a rotten upbringing, but there comes a time in adulthood (I'd say 25 is the cut-off) when it's ON YOU. YOU have to take responsibility for your OWN Life and your OWN choices. After you've had several years OUT of the SWIMMING POOL OF HATE, you have had time to DRY OFF, and make those changes. So, yeah, I blame him. I pity the sister, but I DO blame him. And I DEFINITELY blame ALL the relatives who made threats and "promises" of what they would do to her, just proving the fact that they ALL hated her, all along. "We're not racist! And we're going to abuse you to prove it!" Ummmm... The entire "family" is just a crowd of hateful people. I pray that the sister ALSO gets therapy, and learns from this, while she still has time. If she can go to college, and break away from her mother, she has a good chance of learning better. MAYBE, the shame of being associated with Barbara, coupled with a good education, will be enough for her. The thing that gets me the most is that Barbara KNEW she was socially unacceptable, which is why she bought a beard, in the first place. She KNEW she was wrong, but went ahead with it, anyway.
I was in a similar position ,but it was my real mom ,and she hated me since I was born .she absolutely loved my two sisters though ,and always said to me that I was as ugly as my father etc . It messed me up ,and I started using d*rugs at a very young age. Had three o'ds before I turned 18 . I had such a awful childhood ! But after therapy ,years of it, I have an better life than I ever thought I could have ! It took so many years to come to this place I am now ! Just wish I had known that I was not at fauit back then!
2nd story. Yeah, I watch a lot of true crime tv. Stories like this turn up all the time. Some are "angels of God " stories where they do it for the thrill of getting away with it, not money. There are unfortunately a lot of truly evil people. If there weren't there wouldn't be so many tru-crime tv shows, blogs,TH-cam channels,etc. Glad this one caught before she did anymore damage. And hopefully those lawyers got reported &disbarred!
This sounds like how I grew up. My mother is my biological parent. I was asked by an organizer if I would like to enter a beauty contest. My mother promptly said I was too ugly and my jaw was too long.
I don't get how parents believe complete stranger/step parent over their bio kids when they report abuse of any kind 🤷🏽🤷🏾♀️ come from two parent home and can't fathom🤦🏽🤦🏽♀️😟
Everybody keeps asking about the cliffhanger when mom's eyes popped open. She turned out to be one of the living dead, devoured her husband and daughter while in a room down the hall, a sheriff who had been shot in the line of duty, still rests in his coma...
The first story was basically mine except i wasn’t adopted and she did mental torture to me. She hated me because of my beauty. She was cursed with a skin condition and her beauty was hidden. This caused her to take out her frustration on me and groomed me to be homely. She ripped my self confidence down and made me despise my true essence. She’s a horrible person and for years I was forced to call her mother.
The second story, OP was brave for standing up for her mom and I truly hope OP turn in the tape of what those lawyers and the nurse wrote up. OP Dad is such a YTA. The nurse is horrible too. Thank goodness the history teacher helped but truly I would have gone to the principal to talk with them to ask for help.
That’s what she deserves to go to jail for miss treating you or starving you and everything else that you’ve done to you the police should be there to arrester
My stepdad's mom never accepted my brothers and I because we're Native American, Scottish and her step kid grandkids, not her biological grandkids, even though my sister was her biological granddaughter she didn't accept her either because she's brown, not white. My brother's and I met her once, she just looked at us and said huh, so that's what you look like, she never accepted my mom either.
I heard the 1st story before and there was an update. She took Barbara to court and got the money back. Barbara ended up leaving town with her kids and had to get 2 jobs. Her kids wouldn't help her.
That is very good news! Thank you for sharing that.
Do you have a link to the story update?
Love the karma
So happy to hear that she got her money back and her cruel mom left town probably cause she was shamed
I hope what happen to you will be able to heal. I went to the China when I was only 11 year old. Never let anyone tear you down. I had experience racism many time since I am Asian. Especially since Covid hit. I left NYC. and moved upstate NYC there not a lot of Asian up here. In my town there beside myself I can only count 4 more Asian.
Try to found out more about where you come. Please Do not allowed your nightmare take over your life and continue to seek help .
Story 1: Racist mom didn't take the prize money to get back at OP, she was always going to take it.
Yep her lil cash cow
Story 2. Shady or fake nurses/caregivers slip through the cracks more often than we want to think about. It happened to my family...do your homework, background and reference checks at minimum before you put your loved one in the hands of a stranger. Their safety depends on it.
The thing that gets me with these stories is that you would be so surprised how real they are
I'm a retired Police Officer and unfortunately I can tell you that financial abuse of the elderly is a frequently occurring crime. It's usually care givers or their children.
First story, it’s not so unusual for siblings to not report a parent for abusing a scapegoat child. They understood that if the scapegoat goes away, they may become the scapegoat themselves and she probably had abused them before she adopted and they don’t want to be the victims. Most children won’t report their parents. It’s better the devil you know then the devil you don’t know
Sad
When I reported a caregiver, basically I was told the exact same thing by the cops/caseworker. Foster care is the worst, additionally foster parents vary in toxicity. As long as I was able to physically overpower my molester and refuse molestation, I was encouraging to remain in the same household. Yep. BC there were foster fathers who wouldn’t take no for an answer. It’s as though they threatened me with one of “those” homes if I didn’t remain in placement at the current home. I would love to see the statistics, I’d be shocked if more people died/disappeared in police custody than in foster care.
"Her eyes suddenly opened."
WHAAAAT?!!! You can't leave it THERE?!
Story 1: OP, please sue the hell out of your adoptive mother for the money that is rightfully yours!!
According to one of the comments on here, OP updated. She sued & won.
What happened in the end of the nurse story?
i always find it funny when a family member is under investigation, other members will threaten the accuser. Like "ah yes, lets give the person physical evidence that she isn't lying"
I would never answer the calls of people siding with my abuser. Let them text me their threats. They will eventually.
A bully can't help but be a bully. And it tends to be passed down from one generation to the next, like a grotesque genetic malady. So it's not a surprise that the entire family went nuts on OP. That vile creature got her whole life rekt. Good show.
Lol, even with eye witnesses there is some nutter. My sister expert words and note that she was 1 week old when I left were "I lived in this house for 25 yrs and nothing" along that anyway. Yes favourite girl child. I guess telling truth is wrong these days. She even tried the "not like getting a new daddy" route. The drama that folded at the time was crazy. But if anything ever happened, I would be responsible for being silent.
Finally, stories about people who aren't just a bunch of doormats and actually do something to get out of the situation they are in. Except for OP's dad from the second story, he is a doormat.
Yeah, it was clear that Dad was thinking with the wrong head. Or at least had the mindset that a lot of people tend to have at his age, "you're only worth something if you have a partner on your arm." And the richer and/or more attractive partner, the better. I wish society would stop spreading this toxic mindset.
Story 1: Go OP for ruining her step-mum's reputation.
Story 2: I would have gone to work and called her bluff or begged for my job back. Go OP for being such a good PI. I hope the dad learnt his lesson about reading the fine print. The nerve of that nurse to just wear the piece of jewelry all the time.
"If it takes only the truth to destroy a person, let it destroy them."
-Me 2k22
Sweet. I will make sure my ancestors quote viking empress
@@stevenswitzer5154 I think you mean descendants, but I see what you're going for
One thing that always gets me is that even when people establish their race Mr. Reddito still makes them quite different from what is described.
Or when he makes impossible races mix like a white blond kid whose parents are black and Asian
If he pulled an accent that is not white that would be racist so it's good to err in the side of caution about that
@@ruddiko It's not his VOICE that's the problem, the problem is with the models used in the videos, and the lack of consistency. For example, his previous videos, from the guy with the GF whose rich parents didn't approve of him. In the initial story, the girlfriend is Asian with black parents, but in the update, they're changed to be all white with completely different designs.
Small things, like hair colour or length and even eye colour, can be explained away relatively easily. But when the artwork for a person completely changes within a few minutes, that's a big inconsistency and it's an issue because that suggests the video isn't being checked before being put out, and then the constant inconsistency lowers the quality of the video and can put people off watching it because it confuses them as to who s now who.
Granted, that's down to whoever animates the videos, not Mr Reddito....Unless he IS the animator, in which case it's something he needs to work on.
I'm pretty sure it's a 3rd party program he's using. I've seen other reddit channels use this animation.
I think that it's the animator. seems the animator always gets the race wrong
@@charondusk5608 I don't think he's the animator. I've seen other channels who obviously use the same animator. it must be a service he pays for
Oh yea…as a previous paramedic/ER nurse who also worked for a couple home health agencies on my days off I’ve not only heard about such vile, toxic people as in the second story but have witnessed it first hand! I’ve seen kids, step kids, fake “nurses”, other family members & men/women sleeping with or trying to sleep with the spouse of the sick or even dying person try to do such things! Something I witnessed frequently as a paramedic/ER nurse who sometimes did shifts in ICU when they were short handed was family member refusing to sign a DNR & keeping a family member suffering in constant agony in the cheapest, dirtiest, worst nursing home in the area…SOLELY so they could keep getting their family member’s social security & retirement checks to spend themselves!!🤬🤬 Before anyone suggests such family members were “just not ready to let go” literally NO ONE EVER visited these patients…not even when rushed to the hospital or in ICU on life support!! If their family loved them too much to let go then they would AT LEAST come visit them in the nursing home or hospital!! And it’s not like they lived far away either! Since these are patients unable to make medical or any other decisions for themselves we would have to get the contact info for the family member or members responsible for all medical decisions & in nearly ALL cases they lived LESS than 1 hour away! In one of the worst cases the patient’s daughter literally lived just 2 BLOCKS from both the hospital & nursing home which were across the street from each other!!🤯🤬 When I say this nursing home was the absolute WORST…nearly every patient we picked up from there was dehydrated, filthy, had pressure sore & burns from sitting in their own urine & feces for extended periods of time, were malnourished(despite almost all having feeding tubes!) & many would be covered in bruises from rough treatment when being repositioned or when actually bathed!! During my first 2yrs as a medic more than a DOZEN nurses & even 2 doctors lost their license for mistreatment/abuse of patients actually able to still speak up for themselves or who had family who truly cared. So then it became obvious as soon as we picked up a patient from there we could immediately tell if they had family who cared & visited regularly or who was normally still able to speak up for themselves bc they would be hydrated, well fed, clean & have no bed sores, urine/feces burns or bruises from rough treatment! Which honestly made me MORE angry bc it PROVED that they did know HOW to properly care for patients & that they had the staff to do so!! That instead THEY CHOSE to neglect or even outright physically &/or mentally harm helpless patients left in their “care” solely BC THEY COULD!!🤬🤬What’s even *WORSE* is the fact that during my 4th year as a medic/nurse we had *15+* fully immobile(unable to move themselves)patients from that nursing home who kept testing positive for 2 different sexually transmitted diseases! This went on for *months* until finally investigators figured out that a male nurse & a male nursing assistant were *RAPING* *not only* these helpless immobile mentally unaware elderly women but also several other mentally aware female patients!! None had spoken up bc the men chose patients who didn’t have family visiting & they threatened to beat or even kill them if they said anything. Which since they gave them their meds & most required assistance moving & bathing…it wouldn’t be hard for them to make it look like an accident. It even turned out that a couple female nurses were involved & that the 4 of them *even FILMED* some of the rapes!!🤬🤯🤬How sick & twisted does someone have to be to do such things?!! The ONLY reason that nursing home hasn’t been shutdown is bc: 1. The owners own several in multiple counties & donate heavily to local politicians & those who run for sheriff 2. It’s one of only 2 in a 5 county area that charges so little & thus those patients would have no where to go…especially since there was(& still is)far more patients needing to be admitted to ANY type of nursing home than there is room available in our area. It’s a little better now since the state forced them to hirer new management & new staff along with frequent state inspections…but it’s still by far the worst in our area!
-Also…as I live in the rural southern US…I’ve witnessed/known/currently know MANY such people as the mom, her 2 biological kids & her like minded friends from the 1st story…like how they pretend to be open & accepting in public but are actually horribly racist & homophobic!
I hate to admit it but the majority of my family is like that…especially my husband’s family *EXCEPT* for his mother & father. His grandparents are horrible yet bc his grandfather was a pastor before he passed away earlier this year theyd be super nice to anyone of a different race in the community but would say horribly racist things in private. His grandfather’s behavior is one of the major reasons why I began questioning the churches & people who attended them in my area. Especially after overhearing other area pastors say similar things when visiting with my grandfather in law over Sunday lunch…with me, my husband, his aunt who still lived there at the time & his grandmother present! For clarification I met my husband at church at age 14 & we began dating at age 15. BC both of my grandfathers died before I was 4yrs old my grandfather in law is the only grandfather I’ve ever known/had…which became more important after my dad passed away from cancer when I was only 22. Don’t get me wrong…my grandfather in law would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it regardless of race. But he saw people of any race besides white as inferior with few exceptions. And my aunt in law wholeheartedly agrees with his views/beliefs *despite* having a masters in psychology, having worked for 15+yrs with those needing mental/physical assistance finding work/getting training after life changing injuries/illnesses & working for the past 6yrs at a local college making sure students with disabilities & learning impairments get the assistance & accommodations they need!🤯While she will fight tooth & nail to get any student regardless of race or sexual orientation the help they need…the way she talks about other races & those of other sexual orientation in private & the views/beliefs she expresses are horrible!! But sadly that is the case with a *lot* of white people here above a certain age & why many African Americans here above a certain age have a very negative opinion of most or even all white people. 😔😔 Thankfully many if not most of those my age(late 30s)or younger don’t share the older generation’s intolerances & hate. So while I have hope for the future…unfortunately right now those older than us are still in control of political positions, high ranking police positions, are in charge of major businesses & other positions of power & control. Until such positions can be filled by the younger generation many of the things that need change likely won’t be changed. However things are better than they were from even just 10-20yrs ago! While I’d love to see a rapid change not just publicly but in people’s hearts & minds…it’s something so deeply ingrained it unfortunately takes time to change. But at least publicly change has occurred much faster.
Yup in my hometown when I was younger we would go sing at nursing home on Sundays. A couple of times some smelled bad like urine. It was sad. I worked later on in childcare and we had a director get her CNA LICIENSE And work at a nursing home. I found out that one of my friends dad got placed at her facility. It made the news about nursing staff not doing their duties. Thank God the director stopped working in childcare. Same as another assistant director she quit working for one owner and I was working at another facility and owner stated to me you said she used to be an assistant director. She cannot even handle the 3 year old in her class. I just laughed. The assistant is better working around adults not children. One Daycare owner finally got her centers shutdown due to hiring incompant directors and staff. One office worker had the gall to tell me not to get after her worker. We were Facebook friends and I was just warning her that state can come and shut them down if she does not stop posting pictures of the daycare kids without parents permission. They did fine the center cause they hired a lady that did that and was posting porn on internet along with her boyfriend
that is so smart of her to expose her mom and not sit in silence
Story 1. OP so sorry for the horrible life you have had with your adoptive mother. The way she treated you was no ok. Cant believe she worked as a humanitarian, but was so racist. So glad she didnt get that job she wanted. So glad that you were able to tell your truth and that people took action to help you. Glad she felt the karma of her actions. Also glad you sued her for the money she stole. Glad you won.
The "mother" is a narcissist. Poor girl.
it's definitely not uncommon. racists will have babies that are half of color. and treat them like this.
That was truly unfair and the adopted mother was very cruel
I would sue her. You already have the results of the other court case of proof of the other stuff she has done to you. Some lawyers would do pro bono knowing the story was everywhere. Then go to college and make a great life for yourself despite her.
I have a dear friend who was adopted by an abusive woman who made it clear to my friend until even on her deathbed, that she was not a member of the family. There are horror stories of children placed in abusive homes. CPS is quick to remove a child, and then doesn't vet the homes they place them in. Second story...never EVER EVER hire a care giver for anyone who is not licensed and vetted by the State you live in. If you need a care giver, the first call is to the State office of Human Services. They will register you and start the process of providing care.
I’m so sorry you went through this.
Your a Blessings and a Miracle to the world…
This is the saddest story I have ever heard.
As soon as the OP said the moms eyes just opened I knew this was just a story of fiction, imagine the timing of all the stuff that went down. It’s a nice story but just that a story.
I pray that there is an Attorney out there somewhere who would take her case for NOTHING!!!
Sue this abusive woman and get her money back!!!
Very happy she got help and support. Hope the ‘grandparents’ left town too!
I have an acquaintance in law enforcement that works in the elder abuse section. Story #2 happens all the time. Women alienate the man's family, convince them to sign everything over to them (sometimes via marriage that the man doesn't comprehend), and sometimes the man is beaten and left for dead. It happens so often that an elder abuse department is necessary.
Yeah, elder abuse happens all the time. Doesn't change the fact that this story was fake.
What the fuck Mr. Redito going all Dateline on us. LOL good job. Do a murder mystery next... That would be awesome
The mothers eyes opened, and then what happened??? Omgoodness the cliff hanger..😩😊
I know!
Good morning folks. Mr Reddito, keep up the great work. Love your stories and the work you put in.
The first story just makes me sick. Having had the privilege of traveling to many countries and areas of the US I've met people of many races and nationalities. People are people, most are friendly IF you give them half a chance and just want to share a moment of their lives.
My ex fiance went through similar events..she is American, but the rest of the family treated her horribly for being Korean.
I feel the siblings not being in her side isn't the saddest thing, they were never friendly with her in the first place
S1: FFS OP, go public with your story. Heck you might even get a book/movie deal out of it. Go see a lawyer and have him write up the demands. What she did is called theft.
The first story is heartbreaking.
Story 2: I have heard of a similar story, and it ao happened to be about my great grandmother. She had the plug pulled on her in the middle of the night without our family's consent and a bunch of her possessions went missing, we suspected the nurse but she seemed to vanish and was never caught. So many family heirlooms and her most prized possessions had disappeared, and now there is no way we can get them back
Lol, some of these are so far fetched. That second story sounds like it was written by a teenager with no idea how the world works. It's so absurd lol
Yup. A lot of these stories do. The worst ones were the rich kid who bought a mansion and let her dad and mistress move in, and a kid whose parents were both doctors and she got to be the one to tell families (at age 17) their loved ones were jacked up. Super fake.
Agreed. Second story was totally fake.
@@talasimu I agree, the ending is too contrived for it to be real.
Thanks for the stories Mr Reddito. Have a great day
This story makes me feel some kind of way. It's sad that people like her steal from people who are totally at their mercy for care. But greed is a monster that begets itself . Greed is never fulfilled and you cannot take it with you..
You had my attention the entire time!!!
That story about the adopted Asian girl broke my heart! I’m relieved she eventually was able to break free from the oppression of that toxic “mother”/family, however it’s beyond sad that the influence during her youth was probably very detrimental to her core beliefs about herself and she’ll likely need continued therapy. It is indeed devastating that her siblings didn’t provide her any emotional support either. I can imagine that they too were probably messed up quite a bit from that toxic, narcissistic mother as well, and likely conditioned to have and continue with a competitive mindset with their siblings. Sadly this is how narcissistic parents raise their kids. To complete with each other rather than to build each other up and lovingly look out for and support each other. Unfortunately this story isn’t uncommon with any adoption. Even without race being a factor, there’s many adoptive “parents” who constantly want attention and admiration for “rescuing” children from some exaggerated portrayal of a horrible situation or life. Its sickening that these people use them for the social accolades rather than embracing them as completely their own precious children which every child deserves to grow up feeling and believing!
I also must add, I absolutely ADORE your storytelling and especially your animation!!!! WHY are you only a TH-cam channel?! These amazing true stories along with your gifted animation ability, could and should be something that people of all ages, all cultures (made available in many translations) can enjoy as well as learn valuable life lessons and help to bring more wisdom and particularly empathy into the world. Maybe if you wrote out the stories (editing them slightly to improve them, as you do, without changing the story. Then have people from the appropriate culture and language, translate and read them in a voice fitting the first person character telling the story. Maybe have each story done in several different languages so they’re available to as many as possible. That would be so enjoyable and I for one, wouldn’t want to miss a single episode!!! Please make this happen? I think it could play a huge role in improving the world and bring so much betterment to society, and like I already said, some of these stories are wonderful for ALL ages or some could definitely be made to be without significant changes. Or maybe even collect more stories intended for a younger group. There’s just so much potential! Thank you for what you do and I appreciate and look forward to every episode! 💕
So where are the "viral videos" of her tell-all interview that outed her mother? How did DCFS (CPS) get her cell phone number? Barbara wouldn't have given it to them. I can't remember who all called her, but when she said her cell phone was blowing up after she won and did the interview, that was what went through my mind..."how did they get her number?" If the story is true it's terrible, horrible and heartbreaking. But how come there is never any proof with these stories? I'm sure there are plenty of people who want to see that eye-opening interview.
Hey everyone! Love the stories Mr. Reddito. Keep them coming.
I'm glad that evil woman who killed an elderly woman & stole her necklace was caught. It is really advisable to have a background check of any person we are gonna accept in the family.
Crazy story but I went through similar stuff in my childhood so it's sad but true.
That is your money. Still cant believe they gave it to after all went down.
I heard about a “home care nurse” that tried to change her patient’s will so that she got his car, not his grandson like his will said. She even tried to say that he gave the car to her while he was still alive, so it couldn’t be included in the will.
Update please with police finding the paperwork in her purse also incriminating evidence of next victim. How is your Mom and etc...🤔
Brother and Sister of O.P. Are probably as Racist as their mother now. Poisoned at a young age. How sad.
Story 1 is heartbreaking. Racists like that are disgusting, and kids deserve better. As for her siblings- kids are like ducklings, they tend to follow their parents' examples. And when that example is to heap abuse on one of the kids, they'll play along ESPECIALLY if it means they are safe, or at least not abused as much themselves. It happened in the case of one kid whose abuse was so bad- and he lived to tell of it- that a book was written about it, and also the famous case of Genie whose father refused to allow anyone to socialize with her so she didn't learn to speak until after she was rescued. I heard of one case where a mother killed all but one of her daughters one by one, locking them up until they died, forbidding the younger ones from giving them food or water. (She believed they were stealing her youth.) She actually shot the first one, the oldest, for trying to leave. The younger ones knew it would be their turn next- one by one the current victim told their next younger sister it would be their turn after they were dead. The youngest actually got away and told police her mother had killed her sisters, and the police didn't believe her until the remains of the bonfire where the crazy mother had burned the most recent victim and all her belongings was found and they realized it actually contained human remains. Why did they not get together and beat that monster to death before she could decide it was their term? Basically, learned helplessness. It's been their normal for so long that it's hard for them to break away from it. Same thing here as in those cases. The siblings who grow up witnessing or also experiencing the abuse don't always, or even often, realize how abnormal it is, and don't usually have the courage to do anything about it.
Dave Pelzer? He wrote a trilogy, I think.
In the story with the nurse I would have the dad call the police and inquire if they found that paper to turn off the real moms life support in the mistresses purse. when they tell him they did he'll about crap his pants.
Story 1 - I would have called her bluff. If she did follow up on that threat it would just prove she only adopted an Asian child to smokescreen her racism. The public opinion would have been against op's mother for being such a monster to a vulnerable little orphan. SHE KNEW THAT. I think op should have saved the threats to get the other racist family members into trouble too but that's just what I think. It's more important that Barbara went down.
Don't be too hard on op's siblings. It's likely they were just relieved their horrible mom focused her abuse on op and they never wanted to challenge that because once the person is out of the picture the abuse will transfer to a new target. It's not right but it's just self preservation when your parent is a remorseless monster.
Story 2 - "a good man?" Wtf. 😂 Okay. He couldn't even wait for his poor wife to be buried six feet under before he cheated on her. Yeah, what a good man. He let the mistress just sell op's mom stuff as she pleased. Yeah. He's such a nice man. He let this floozy slap his daughter around and made her lose her job. FATHER OF THE YEAR. I'm gonna stop for a moment to appreciate Johnny and Mr. Peterson. The PI deserves credit too ofc. Sweet sweet justice 😘🤌
She should sue racist mom for her winnings. There are lawyers who would take her with a percentage or even bono.
The fact that mum miraculously opened her eyes at the perfect time, on top of the kid not sending dad the recording or earning him to read papers carefully Rn, males me think this is made up
My sister and I were adopted too. My dad wanted us, as mom told me after he died. She told her family and others, my sister (no relation) and I both owed her for taking us out of the orphanage. They started a college fund for me when I was a tiny girl. After I turned 18, they told me girls didn't go to college that they adopted my sister and I to take care of them when they grew old because that's what their friends told them to do. They took my college fund/$20,000 and bought a car and who knows what else with the money. I married what turned out to be a very abusive man just to get away from her. I had a friend who counseled me and taught me how to spot controlling people after my divorce.
My sister and I grew up on a farm and we had a big garden. We were expected to help work in the garden, then harvest then process the food. I loved this part of my life as it taught me how to take care of myself later on in life. I was also the caregiver of the family. I did this out of love even though my mom didn't care for me. I'm a CMA now and enjoy my life. My parents died many years ago and I learned how to survive life.
I met my birth families and they accepted me. They were so very good to me. I had no idea what love was until I met them.
If I am understanding this correctly, by the time the competition was over and the prize money distributed you were a ward of the court under supervision of a new guardian???? If that is correct then it would be fraud on the part of your first foster mom to collect that money on your behalf. Talk to CPS as they are your legal resource.
There is a story on Cold Case Files (I think) where a woman murdered a man for a piece of land with a house on it. Seven or so years later she was caught and put into prison. In Detroit, Michigan a kid was murdered for his expensive tennis shoes years ago.
A now dead aunt was so racist she refered to her friends by their race. Told me she disown me if i dated anything but white. Well karma caught up with her and she died due to a allergic reaction to chemo
you could say "chemo" is a bitch. Badumm tsh.
No, not "karma." Karma only enacts upon reincarnation, if I remember my basic Buddhism correctly.
She was a reborn again christian and play for services. She was a Baptist.
Racism has no place in my heart or life
The girls money that she won in the competition should be hers. The law is imperfect and unjust in this situation. She was abused and used by her suppose guardian. She should be punished for it and yet they released the girls money to this evil woman. Disgusting.
Hope can never be extinguished
What a horrible mom. She's so blessed to have such a wonderful adopted child.
Her siblings are also at fault because they knew better and contributed to the abuse.
May they all rot in their guilt. No wonder the dad left.
Audio record, play it for dad, police and the licensing board. I doubt she is a nurse.
Can't get over the Johnny voice lmfao
Thank you for a child abuse story. We hear mostly about wife abuse stories from, not often, the husband or the majority from MIL. Horrible MILs, horror abuse on women from women. I have mentioned child abuse quite often because abusive people normally have more than one victim. I ran away at 15 because my life was in danger. That was in the late 60s and 70s and before CPS. My father was a drunk and beat us with his two best friends Smith and Wesson, that’s a hand gun. I escaped and graduated from high school
My Mom refused one of her 22 grandchildren just because she was mixed race. I was a teen at the time and was so heartbroken. It was the only horrible thing my Mom did and boy was it horrible. Horrendously horrible.
I hope she sues for the money that's rightfully hers
OP, go back to the media and tell a journalist that your mother appropriated the prize money you had intended to use for college. It should be easy to prove that she cashed the check. You may find a lawyer who will handle your case pro bono as a result, and can take your adoptive mother to court to get your money back.
Harold Shipman the British serial killer, he was a GP (general practitioner) , and killed lot's of his patients. He was caught eventually, I think that he was trying to change will's to put his name on. Can't remember the full story.
Sweetheart you take a bat and you break that sound system like you’re beating the life out of her
Some humans are so wicked. This story is like the mummy dearest story.
OP...WTH..Tell SOMEBODY..A teacher, your therapist, a clergyman..SOMEBODY!!
I think I heard this story before on an Episode Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, only the heroine was black.
The cited storylines don't go anywhere. How does TH-cam allow people to write this and not give names or sources?
I'm confounded no one decides to see if a will was left. A woman planning to build a shelter wouldn't neglect to leave a will.
Good afternoon Mr Reddito
Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend
The end was cut off about the mother in a coma and the home care nurse. It started to say that the mothers eyes started to open, then you talked over the top and suddenly finished the story.
For the 2nd story, there was a campus caregiver at this retirement home I used to work from january 2012 to August 2019 and the caregiver used her key card to get in this one resident room who had passed away and took there checkbook and withdraw money from it
I know such stories. Like the saying goes "we are always the villain in someone else story". The way her kids see it - she has been nice to them their whole life, and they have been groomed to be racist to OP their whole life. Of course they would take their mom's side. The money part is sad, yes.
In the second story, the Father's lawyers should be sued and disbarred.
Great video! Thank you!
Now that OP is 18, she should enter more competitions, under her own power, and take ALL the prize money. She's already proven that she can win. Then, she can use her new winnings to pay the legal costs of SUING THE PANTS OFF OF BARBARA!
As for the siblings - I don't really blame the sister, because she was still a small child when OP was introduced to the home, and was SWIMMING in the racism in that home. She didn't know any better. When it all came out, she was still only 17, and still at home, and still didn't have much opportunity to learn better. You KNOW her mother did not let her socialize with 'the wrong sort," who would "corrupt her mind," so she didn't know better.
The older brother, however, was nine years older, and WELL into young adulthood by the time the story came out. He would have already graduated college, or been in the workforce for several years. He would have had SO MUCH opportunity to know POCs, and non-racists, and to LEARN. For him, yeah, he had a rotten upbringing, but there comes a time in adulthood (I'd say 25 is the cut-off) when it's ON YOU. YOU have to take responsibility for your OWN Life and your OWN choices. After you've had several years OUT of the SWIMMING POOL OF HATE, you have had time to DRY OFF, and make those changes. So, yeah, I blame him. I pity the sister, but I DO blame him.
And I DEFINITELY blame ALL the relatives who made threats and "promises" of what they would do to her, just proving the fact that they ALL hated her, all along. "We're not racist! And we're going to abuse you to prove it!" Ummmm...
The entire "family" is just a crowd of hateful people. I pray that the sister ALSO gets therapy, and learns from this, while she still has time. If she can go to college, and break away from her mother, she has a good chance of learning better. MAYBE, the shame of being associated with Barbara, coupled with a good education, will be enough for her.
The thing that gets me the most is that Barbara KNEW she was socially unacceptable, which is why she bought a beard, in the first place. She KNEW she was wrong, but went ahead with it, anyway.
I was in a similar position ,but it was my real mom ,and she hated me since I was born .she absolutely loved my two sisters though ,and always said to me that I was as ugly as my father etc . It messed me up ,and I started using d*rugs at a very young age. Had three o'ds before I turned 18 . I had such a awful childhood ! But after therapy ,years of it, I have an better life than I ever thought I could have ! It took so many years to come to this place I am now ! Just wish I had known that I was not at fauit back then!
I think the dad or op was going to be next after the mom. Jeez. Probably the kid honestly.
New drinking game: 🍸 whenever Mr reddito say "toxic"
Lord that sounds like a nightmare, no one was on your side?
Need an update on the Mom waking up
Atleast she should be grateful she brought her to usa
Ill never understand stories of teenagers being abused , ill be throwing hands to any step mom/dad that wanna act funny with me in my own home
2nd story. Yeah, I watch a lot of true crime tv. Stories like this turn up all the time. Some are "angels of God " stories where they do it for the thrill of getting away with it, not money. There are unfortunately a lot of truly evil people. If there weren't there wouldn't be so many tru-crime tv shows, blogs,TH-cam channels,etc. Glad this one caught before she did anymore damage. And hopefully those lawyers got reported &disbarred!
This sounds like how I grew up. My mother is my biological parent. I was asked by an organizer if I would like to enter a beauty contest. My mother promptly said I was too ugly and my jaw was too long.
tell people your story, most people thinks these things don't happens
I know a woman who was abused ,now she is an adult she still get nightmares
I don't get how parents believe complete stranger/step parent over their bio kids when they report abuse of any kind 🤷🏽🤷🏾♀️ come from two parent home and can't fathom🤦🏽🤦🏽♀️😟
That second story was a whole movie, holy moly, wtf. like I can literally see that in theaters
Everybody keeps asking about the cliffhanger when mom's eyes popped open. She turned out to be one of the living dead, devoured her husband and daughter while in a room down the hall, a sheriff who had been shot in the line of duty, still rests in his coma...
Omg😂
Story 1: the "mother " sounds VERY toxic 😡
Sounds like my natural mom. It is
The first story was basically mine except i wasn’t adopted and she did mental torture to me. She hated me because of my beauty. She was cursed with a skin condition and her beauty was hidden. This caused her to take out her frustration on me and groomed me to be homely. She ripped my self confidence down and made me despise my true essence. She’s a horrible person and for years I was forced to call her mother.
Wtf! Same. I just realized she was a weirdo in my thirties. I never knew I was actually pretty until I was 40.
The second story, OP was brave for standing up for her mom and I truly hope OP turn in the tape of what those lawyers and the nurse wrote up. OP Dad is such a YTA. The nurse is horrible too. Thank goodness the history teacher helped but truly I would have gone to the principal to talk with them to ask for help.
The last case omfg she got what was coming to her I just wonder how long she got away with doing this to others she's evil
That’s what she deserves to go to jail for miss treating you or starving you and everything else that you’ve done to you the police should be there to arrester
The last story, the mom opened her eyes? what happened? did the nurse drug her into a coma to steal her husband? WHAT? WHAT? NEED AN UPDATE!!!
Assault of a minor is also a crime.
My stepdad's mom never accepted my brothers and I because we're Native American, Scottish and her step kid grandkids, not her biological grandkids, even though my sister was her biological granddaughter she didn't accept her either because she's brown, not white. My brother's and I met her once, she just looked at us and said huh, so that's what you look like, she never accepted my mom either.
Story 2, that witch would disappear. Permanently.
oh man updates needed!