Any of your "friends" telling you to stay because of the child: tell them if they care so much, they can step in an support the child. After all, they were just as much related genetically. Expose them for the hypocrites they are when they backpedal or deflect.
There is no such thing as privacy between a married couple. If there is, that marriage is already broken, because secrets are kept from enemies, strangers and even friends, but not the person you're building a life with. 26 years married. The open communication/no secrets approach is a key foundation to our marriage still being a happy one after all these years.
Reasons dna tests should b mandatory b4 signing birth certificate, like theres no doubt who the mom is, problem is the father could be anyone. Her: dont you trust me? You: yes i do this is just to confirm my trust for you and prove theres nothing to hide. Remember if she refused the test shes hiding something.
Paternity fraud should definitely be a thing because it's soooo cruel on the child/children of cheating. They love their dad and suddenly he is gone. Imagine how traumatic that would be.
What state does this guy live in, every state needs to be like that one, getting out of child support despite having been deceived for all those years.
1. Vasectomies are not easily reversed. 2. “We” don’t get pregnant. The biological female gets pregnant. 3. Terminating parental responsibility is extremely difficult in any state. The biological father would have to step up and test that they will accept responsibility and this case that didn’t happen. My overall assessment is the story BS.
A full one in three children born in wedlick are NOT the biological offapring of the husband. Further this is a very common story so it happens far more often than you apparently wish to believe. If you father a child you pay alimony so "WE" get pregnant. If you want onlt the fenale to claim pregnancy then the male MUST have the right to have nothing to do with the child. That includes any and all fnancial support. You cannot have it both ways
@@MarkLeel It does not matter if it’s at fault state. The court ls won’t remove father of records name from the birth certificates and remove his financial responsibility. The only way this can happen is if the bio father agrees to take financial responsibility and all parties agree. There are many men stuck paying child support for a child that’s not his.
@@nofrackingzone7479 that can happen in at fault states. Even if the bio father isn’t around. Even in no fault states there is still grace period to contest paternity.
Where I live fathers have an unlimited amount of time to question paternity. As far as non bio paying child support, due to a case that occurred here that placed cp on the non bio father, they had to change the laws in favor of the non bio father.
Never forgive a cheater, you are practically telling them they didn't do anything wrong, and they know if they're caught again they can cry, beg, and plead until you let them get away with it again. Having you raise another man's offspring is the absolute worst.
Wife will have to go after the bio dad regardless she's a single mom now good luck finding a man who will help her raise her kid as for the daughter she'll either rise from this & better than her mom. Or spiral downward & turn out just like her mom.
Is the microphone having problems because it sounds maxed out Also, id have gotten a second paternity test with a different company so when he reveals the results and then throw the second test down when she says the test is wrong
Cheating on your wife when you work for her family is epically stupid. If he is that careless about his personal affairs I bet he is careless about his work too. The ex wife probably has had many affairs but will only admit to the ones she has been caught in. If there are 2 then there probably are 4 more that you do not know about
I wouldn't maintain a relationship with the kid. That includes not picking it up from school. I'm not going to raise someone else's kid. I'm also not going to say something like 'I need you to kill an unborn child, through'. Also, I'd push for keeping the house. She can leave with her bastards. Christmas, I wouldn't spend time with the wife, or her kid.
Second story...dude was dealing with a cheating wife and now is fine getting/giving sloppy seconds with the AP's girlfriend who went back to her boyfriend/wife's AP? Kinda gross.
What I don’t understand is how the writer was able to so readily break the parental bond that occurred when he thought the child was his. Did he not hold her ans an infant, feed, and rock her as a baby? Doesn’t he have any empathy for the little girl or is escaping financial responsibility his only concern? I can understand leaving the wife because of her infidelity and dishonesty but I think in real life it isn’t so easy to turn away from a child you helped nurture.
A man who got cheated on told his story...and after speaking to male and female friends he noticed a pattern overall. When a person gets cheated on, the men tell that person to focus on getting better as an individual. Women? Their idea for healing and "improvement" is to find another penis by dating quickly. In this story, OP's sister is yet another example of a woman that thinks recovery means jumping into another relationship.
The real question is why are so many women are supportive of paternity fraud and cheating, in the sense that some feel that no matter how dirty cheaters treat their partners/husbands that they should be forgiven.
Sorry bud. Just walk away. She's a cheater. Once one always one. I'm not proud to say it, but it's always been the one thing I hate my dad for. Otherwise a great dad. But cheating is a no return.
The thing about the narrators voice, he makes the story come through like you can see both sides and what they are feeling because that story, you can hear the smirks and rage in OP'S voice and the STBX wife desperation...
What a confusing storyline. How many kids, and age? How many paternity tests? Was the baby aborted or not? How long has she been cheating? If this is factually correct seriously how complex to want to make it.
Knew a lady that had a baby after her husband had a vasectomy. Turned out the boy was his. They had divorced but tests proved otherwise. You need to check to make sure that the snipping worked!
I cannot stand adults that, after being THE PARENT in a child’s life are perfectly happy to throw the child away over ‘not MY property’ . Divorce the partner, NOT the child. So many garbage people in these stories and it’s ALWAYS the men throwing the children away because ‘not MY asset’.
You should be upset at the mother because her actions caused this. A Man does not have to raise a child that is not his biological child. Everyone seems to forget that for this to happen both cheating had to happen on the Wife’s side AND paternity fraud. There is no looking at that child the same after that revelation
This dude is a beta man. He would have stayed with his wife if she admitted the first child wasn't his without lying? Simp. Dude told her to terminate the baby then he might think about staying with her? Scum. He already knew she was lying about the first kid, and was ok with her killing the 2nd one? Both parties suck.
"My phone is private!" I would've said, "Seems like your phone is more private than your privates."
ROFLOL good one!! I just recently heard the, She's like the town bicycle, everyone rides.. 😂
And then they all clapped
Not your baby and therefore not your responsibility. Starting new the guy would need to get rid of it.
Any of your "friends" telling you to stay because of the child: tell them if they care so much, they can step in an support the child. After all, they were just as much related genetically. Expose them for the hypocrites they are when they backpedal or deflect.
"My phone is private"
The hell it is, she broke OP's trust, not a damn thing is private until he can trust her again, but that'll never happen lol
There is no such thing as privacy between a married couple. If there is, that marriage is already broken, because secrets are kept from enemies, strangers and even friends, but not the person you're building a life with.
26 years married. The open communication/no secrets approach is a key foundation to our marriage still being a happy one after all these years.
She cheated and has the nerve to act hurt.
“Let’s put this behind us.”
Gotta love that lol.
Sleeping with someone else when you're actively trying to have a kid is monsterous
yep...multiple dudes churning each other's man butter into her womb. Pretty dang disgusting.
your typo is monstrous
Poor daughter. These women are evil!
Reasons dna tests should b mandatory b4 signing birth certificate, like theres no doubt who the mom is, problem is the father could be anyone.
Her: dont you trust me? You: yes i do this is just to confirm my trust for you and prove theres nothing to hide.
Remember if she refused the test shes hiding something.
thankfully in Tennessee it is in fact mandatory! it should be like that everywhere
My pops always said mommas baby daddys maybe
she brought the cops......................
Paternity fraud should definitely be a thing because it's soooo cruel on the child/children of cheating. They love their dad and suddenly he is gone. Imagine how traumatic that would be.
The mother's fool, not their dad. That's why all children should be tested at birth at the LATEST and pre-birth when feasible/safe.
What state does this guy live in, every state needs to be like that one, getting out of child support despite having been deceived for all those years.
Her phone is private but her 🐈 isn't!!! 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Good catch. It's odd isn't it
Vasectomy reversal most time not sucessful the longer you have been sterile
better have some stuff frozen
Sue her for the reversal
1. Vasectomies are not easily reversed. 2. “We” don’t get pregnant. The biological female gets pregnant. 3. Terminating parental responsibility is extremely difficult in any state. The biological father would have to step up and test that they will accept responsibility and this case that didn’t happen.
My overall assessment is the story BS.
A full one in three children born in wedlick are NOT the biological offapring of the husband. Further this is a very common story so it happens far more often than you apparently wish to believe.
If you father a child you pay alimony so "WE" get pregnant. If you want onlt the fenale to claim pregnancy then the male MUST have the right to have nothing to do with the child. That includes any and all fnancial support. You cannot have it both ways
In an at fault state it’s very possible if you have proof. It’s just there very few at fault states left most are no fault states.
@@MarkLeel It does not matter if it’s at fault state. The court ls won’t remove father of records name from the birth certificates and remove his financial responsibility. The only way this can happen is if the bio father agrees to take financial responsibility and all parties agree. There are many men stuck paying child support for a child that’s not his.
@@nofrackingzone7479 that can happen in at fault states. Even if the bio father isn’t around. Even in no fault states there is still grace period to contest paternity.
Where I live fathers have an unlimited amount of time to question paternity. As far as non bio paying child support, due to a case that occurred here that placed cp on the non bio father, they had to change the laws in favor of the non bio father.
Easier? Vasectomy’s can’t be reversed successfully in a large number of cases. It’s easier for the woman.
I’m horrified you’ve been deprived of the ability to father children of your own should you decide to do so. That’s horrifying.
Never forgive a cheater, you are practically telling them they didn't do anything wrong, and they know if they're caught again they can cry, beg, and plead until you let them get away with it again.
Having you raise another man's offspring is the absolute worst.
Wife will have to go after the bio dad regardless she's a single mom now good luck finding a man who will help her raise her kid as for the daughter she'll either rise from this & better than her mom. Or spiral downward & turn out just like her mom.
Story 1.
I don't date single mothers, being step father is out of the question. Divorce is the best option.
Is the microphone having problems because it sounds maxed out
Also, id have gotten a second paternity test with a different company so when he reveals the results and then throw the second test down when she says the test is wrong
Us can't get pregnant
Only once righhhhhhhhhhhhhhhtttt...
We got pregnant, a com on.
Cheating on your wife when you work for her family is epically stupid. If he is that careless about his personal affairs I bet he is careless about his work too. The ex wife probably has had many affairs but will only admit to the ones she has been caught in. If there are 2 then there probably are 4 more that you do not know about
Men is marriage worth it anymore really?
He'll no... KY Jelly is to cheap to have to lose everything you have on a 304
The cost is worth it
I wouldn't maintain a relationship with the kid. That includes not picking it up from school. I'm not going to raise someone else's kid. I'm also not going to say something like 'I need you to kill an unborn child, through'. Also, I'd push for keeping the house. She can leave with her bastards. Christmas, I wouldn't spend time with the wife, or her kid.
Second story...dude was dealing with a cheating wife and now is fine getting/giving sloppy seconds with the AP's girlfriend who went back to her boyfriend/wife's AP? Kinda gross.
She wanted you yo care for it as she runs with ap
She does not get "private" for a long time.
What I don’t understand is how the writer was able to so readily break the parental bond that occurred when he thought the child was his. Did he not hold her ans an infant, feed, and rock her as a baby? Doesn’t he have any empathy for the little girl or is escaping financial responsibility his only concern? I can understand leaving the wife because of her infidelity and dishonesty but I think in real life it isn’t so easy to turn away from a child you helped nurture.
A man who got cheated on told his story...and after speaking to male and female friends he noticed a pattern overall.
When a person gets cheated on, the men tell that person to focus on getting better as an individual. Women? Their idea for healing and "improvement" is to find another penis by dating quickly.
In this story, OP's sister is yet another example of a woman that thinks recovery means jumping into another relationship.
"it only happened once"
Nope.
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Story 2: 16:20
Dam
The real question is why are so many women are supportive of paternity fraud and cheating, in the sense that some feel that no matter how dirty cheaters treat their partners/husbands that they should be forgiven.
Because REASON and ACCOUNTABILITY are KRYPTONITE to MODERN-WOMEN.
It hurts the husband about his wife's deception 🥲🥲
Ok the guy castrated himself so i cant feel that bad for him
No man wants to be cuckoo.
Sorry bud. Just walk away. She's a cheater. Once one always one. I'm not proud to say it, but it's always been the one thing I hate my dad for. Otherwise a great dad.
But cheating is a no return.
The thing about the narrators voice, he makes the story come through like you can see both sides and what they are feeling because that story, you can hear the smirks and rage in OP'S voice and the STBX wife desperation...
What a confusing storyline.
How many kids, and age?
How many paternity tests?
Was the baby aborted or not?
How long has she been cheating?
If this is factually correct seriously how complex to want to make it.
FAKE! He got a dna test while his wife was still pregnant? How? Impossible for that to happen without the wife knowing.
Fake reconnecting... cash everything into gold coins .. dump this SNAIL
Knew a lady that had a baby after her husband had a vasectomy. Turned out the boy was his. They had divorced but tests proved otherwise. You need to check to make sure that the snipping worked!
Typical American story. Islam was always correct about women
For us to get pregnant, that sounds so woke. Only woman can get pregnant. You are both expecting but only she is pregnant.
I cannot stand adults that, after being THE PARENT in a child’s life are perfectly happy to throw the child away over ‘not MY property’ . Divorce the partner, NOT the child. So many garbage people in these stories and it’s ALWAYS the men throwing the children away because ‘not MY asset’.
You should be upset at the mother because her actions caused this. A Man does not have to raise a child that is not his biological child. Everyone seems to forget that for this to happen both cheating had to happen on the Wife’s side AND paternity fraud. There is no looking at that child the same after that revelation
I'm sure you'd be cool with your husband forcing you to raise his affair baby. 🙄
I would have had her have the baby and act all excited and then drop the divorce
This dude is a beta man. He would have stayed with his wife if she admitted the first child wasn't his without lying? Simp. Dude told her to terminate the baby then he might think about staying with her? Scum. He already knew she was lying about the first kid, and was ok with her killing the 2nd one? Both parties suck.