Ya I work in audio and it’s like very distracting cuz now I’m thinking- did she mic herself up with a fancy usb mic or studio condenser knowing she’d get on and then send it to him for if he might add it for the clip??! Prob not but I’ve missed the first three min with no clue what had been said hah
My old therapist passed away from bile duct cancer. He rocked. Just for a new one. Did not expect my new therapist to be a 6’6, ripped black guy based on his name. He’s cool af too. I left my female therapist between them because she got legitimately upset when I cussed 😂
@@statisticallysound what the fuck are you taking about. Podcasts are generally conversations, if you ask a question, you stop to get an answer. Not criticising Stav, but that's not "just how podcasts work".
@@statisticallysound You see, introducing it that way implied he was about to ask a question, and he didn't do that. That is not generally how coherent convos on podcasts go
@@NewRegimeCo Sure, I lack tolerance for people who pretend being a waitperson pays anything like you claim it does, which it certainly does not for 9/10ths of the people who do that work.
@@NewRegimeCo By the way, please post numbers. How many waitstaff earn that kind of money again? Even in Vegas. We'll be waiting for the answer because you imply it's fairly normal, as opposed to the fucking unicorn that it really is.
I know right?! And if they do have jobs and are going at it 5times a day...do they not have hobbies, when do they have time to cook, clean, relax. Is sex the only activity outside of work? That sounds time consuming
@@randyn1571it is time consuming and eventually just devolves to zero romance, "wanna fuck" and anything outside of sex is awkward because fucking becomes the norm. And honestly...you arent having amazing sex, 5 times a day, everyday...forever. You get into some wild shit outta pure boredom. It is fun for a bit and then it is annoying and needy.
Neither of ya'll have had a high libido or been with someone that does. First off I wanna say if you do something four times a day regularly it doesn't matter what it is, you get better and you get more efficient. Think of it like a prolonged smoke break, you let off tension feel more calm afterwards and go back to whatever you were doing before.
@@eugenekrabs869 I'm a person with a high labido, even in his 40s I can do 2 to 3 times a day, but yeah, it's extreme to do that all the time. Like, seriously dude I have other things to do. I like video games sometimes, maybe I have a rough day? And also, if you are that much into sex all the time every day, maybe you got a problem from childhood or something that is making you act out in this extreme way. Doing things to the extreme is never healthy.
A guy who looks like he eats ice cream for breakfast every day, which coincidentally is what every kid thinks theyre going to do when theyre a grown up.
Thats almost never ok with girls. No matter what the reason is, no matter how well you explain, they will internally take it as a rejection of their ability to sexually motivate you. Regardless of what you say, they hear, "im not turned on by you". Unless you somehow win the lottery and are dating a girl that doesnt react with emotion, theres no 'boom problem solved' reality.
‘We consider ourselves forefathers of the lesbian movement’ is a thinker lol For those who don’t know - Lesbos, from which English gets the word ‘lesbian’, is a Greek island
Generally speaking to friends and smart strangers are supposed to be better than talking to therapists. It’s super weird people use therapy to replace normative human interaction.
As soon as she said she didn't like being touched I knew it was autism. He partner needs to either accept her or call it off bc that's just how going to feel forever.
Is that really a part of autism? I realised recently that dyspraxia(which I have) is on the neurodivergent scale and I’ve looked into it more and I’m seeing a lot of commonalities between autism and ADHD and I HATE having my skin rubbed or touched repeatedly. It begins to hurt and no one seems to know what I’m talking about it when I bring it up 🤯
The bit about Grad Students had me ROLLING, so true, I’ve known a few those MFs will not pay a bill for SHIT but will totally gaslight their partners that they will when they start working (they break up two months after graduation)
Thhhiiiisssss. Accumulating degrees is legit for the dumbest and least able people in the world. It’s kinda sad. And they all get half a million dollars in debt. It’s wild. They’re just perpetual drains on society
God this is such a common issue, I feel like establishing sex drive early on is so important. My ex had a very low libido and it was soooo hard for me, and I’m the girl , he’s a guy. Also I’m a hot fucking 26 year old girl who works out and takes care of my appearance , I gotta be with a guy who wants to jump my bones all the time or I’m gonna go find someone else to fulfill that for me
We’re in the stop pretending zone now babe, 7 months. Those times I went out w ur friends to the club and shit? That was a lie. I like to stay home. This is me babe.
The secret is to never get into a relationship with someone who would somehow take this personally or not be able to deal with it. I don't understand how you could navigate any issues of any complexity if this is such a big deal to even bring up without them internalising it in some negative way.
Even if they do have jobs and are going at it 5times a day...do they not have hobbies, when do they have time to cook, clean, relax. Is sex the only activity outside of work? That sounds crazy! Where do they have the time for it EVERY DAY?!
He's dressed very appropriately for this.
looks almost exactly like my therapist.
@@spiralbonesis your therapist a lesbian?
nah, just a fat guy who wears flannel that barely keeps the belly in. @@IRoYaILTY
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Lol
"Whats troubling you" like a fucking king holding court lmao
Stavvy's World seance edition: "Spirits, are you there?" "You're coming in very clear Spirits, how you doing?"
😂😂😂
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The audio quality on this caller is actually insane for a phone call, it’s actually distracting. Lol
@@JearBear94oh. Fr. No wonder playing online feels weird sometimes. I’m used to buzzing mics lol now everyone has asmr mics
Yes! It really surprised me. She must have some crazy mic situation.
Ya I work in audio and it’s like very distracting cuz now I’m thinking- did she mic herself up with a fancy usb mic or studio condenser knowing she’d get on and then send it to him for if he might add it for the clip??! Prob not but I’ve missed the first three min with no clue what had been said hah
Dude yes. Came here looking for this comment. It’s insane lmao
they use discord
"I'm a little bit autistic"
You called Stavvy's, we know.
Hearing "old lesbians fuck a lot" is not what I needed to hear with two moms, man.
How do you think they made you? They had to f way more than a straight couple to trib you into existence.
1 mo ago.. just enough time to forget this happened.. until now 😉😂
@@shaunsocha421savage
Two grandmothers here, same bro lmao
I read this comment while she said it lmao
Imagine walking into your first session with a new therapist and this is what greets you.
Ahhh that’s good
My old therapist passed away from bile duct cancer. He rocked. Just for a new one.
Did not expect my new therapist to be a 6’6, ripped black guy based on his name. He’s cool af too. I left my female therapist between them because she got legitimately upset when I cussed 😂
"Please describe your lesbian sex, I'm just going to take notes"
@@jay31415definitely me
I meeean. His advice isn’t bad
Stavvy the single straight man giving lesbian relationship advice is hilarious
It is but he's pretty good 😂🎉
We are the ones the lesbians were foretold about, the ones they study for their ways.
This is sorta like Yoda and a young Luke.
I mean lesbians and straight dudes see eye to eye on a lot of shit
@@NiFinteach me master 😂
she asked though
Stav: "OK so let me ask you this..." * talks uninterrupted for ten minutes*
……it’s a podcast…? lol that’s how it works
it's so natural and he's so intuitive that i kinda like that part about him
@@statisticallysound what the fuck are you taking about. Podcasts are generally conversations, if you ask a question, you stop to get an answer.
Not criticising Stav, but that's not "just how podcasts work".
@@statisticallysound You see, introducing it that way implied he was about to ask a question, and he didn't do that. That is not generally how coherent convos on podcasts go
“You’re naturally less of a buster“
I love the scientific approach that Stav takes
😂
Why is he actually good at this
Is he though? He's fairly empathetic, but then again so are a lot of people.
That doesn't mean that they'd be good therapists.
@@screenPhilesnobody said any of that. You in realtime just put words in someone’s mouth.
People like you lack something
@@NewRegimeCo Sure, I lack tolerance for people who pretend being a waitperson pays anything like you claim it does, which it certainly does not for 9/10ths of the people who do that work.
@@NewRegimeCo By the way, please post numbers.
How many waitstaff earn that kind of money again? Even in Vegas.
We'll be waiting for the answer because you imply it's fairly normal, as opposed to the fucking unicorn that it really is.
He's not a therapist nor trying to be. he's taking phone calls... on a podcast.
@@screenPhiles
Not a comedian unintentionally becoming one of the best armchair therapist/counselors I’ve ever witnessed
Good to know there’s at least one other lesbian that listens to this almost middle aged bearded baby 💕
Stav is 35, probably younger than you
@@sage8573 He stays young by repeating cumtown bits on stavvy's world, so he doesnt have to think too much
@@sage8573 I’m 33, also an almost middle aged bearded baby.
@@0ldarconversely, his eating has doubled
Considering he looks like one its not surprising 😂
"Don't you have jobs?" 😂😂😂 That's the first thing I wonder when people say 4-5 times a day every day
I know right?! And if they do have jobs and are going at it 5times a day...do they not have hobbies, when do they have time to cook, clean, relax. Is sex the only activity outside of work? That sounds time consuming
skill issue@@randyn1571
@@randyn1571it is time consuming and eventually just devolves to zero romance, "wanna fuck" and anything outside of sex is awkward because fucking becomes the norm. And honestly...you arent having amazing sex, 5 times a day, everyday...forever. You get into some wild shit outta pure boredom. It is fun for a bit and then it is annoying and needy.
Neither of ya'll have had a high libido or been with someone that does. First off I wanna say if you do something four times a day regularly it doesn't matter what it is, you get better and you get more efficient. Think of it like a prolonged smoke break, you let off tension feel more calm afterwards and go back to whatever you were doing before.
@@eugenekrabs869 I'm a person with a high labido, even in his 40s I can do 2 to 3 times a day, but yeah, it's extreme to do that all the time. Like, seriously dude I have other things to do. I like video games sometimes, maybe I have a rough day? And also, if you are that much into sex all the time every day, maybe you got a problem from childhood or something that is making you act out in this extreme way. Doing things to the extreme is never healthy.
He is actually so fucking good at this, I literally got my dad onto this and now when we're talking about various situations we ask what would stav do
Oh man that’s a scary question to ask in a lot of situations.
You and your dad are a little too close.
Stavy’s therapy sessions are unmatched
Every other caller on depression meds lol
Working out and cutting sugar best antidep
Oh yeah, people are wild nowadays. Half of the population is on this b*******
? ? ?@@MidwestBoom
Ppl are weak
I quit taking them a few months ago
Missed a great Blue Chew plug opportunity
Matching blue chew subs and matching Mack Weldon underwear would solve this problem.
Those ain’t free
Don't use their name bro. Not until they start paying the boy
Edit it out
i represent stav's queer listeners who are gay in the annoying ian way rather than the fun matteo way
I had a very similar issue in my last relationship, and it's definitely important to address things like this quickly before it fosters resentment.
I love how stav casually is living his life as a therapist but disguised a comedian. Bravo stav. You are my hero.
Stavvy out here proving that the gap between a 35 year old and a 21 year old is bigger than the gap between a straight(ish) man and a lesbian
This is the most clothes I've seen Stavvy wear. It's unnerving.
Stavy is really good at this
Geez 4-5 times a day 😂
shit I remember being 21 😂😂
Wow, actually solid healthy advice, AND we learned something. Good stuff
Surprisingly sage advice from Stavy here. Honorary lesbian for sure.
"Grad students live like children til they're in their 40s" is rich coming from the guy who eats chicken fingers at night clubs at 2 am for a living.
Game respect game homie
He never said it was bad, just something to be aware of.
why so judgemental, cam?
Somebody is jealous
A guy who looks like he eats ice cream for breakfast every day, which coincidentally is what every kid thinks theyre going to do when theyre a grown up.
Stav looks fantastic in this one.
Fantastically fat
Fantastically fat
He looks like embalmed beetle juice
I enjoy that Stav's original reaction to too much sex too late is "it effects my gaming". Not that she may need to be up early for work. 😂
Stavros has legitimately some of the best advice on TH-cam
“Sometimes I just wanna serve u and not get served, is that okay?” Boom done 20 minutes overthinking it lol
Thats almost never ok with girls. No matter what the reason is, no matter how well you explain, they will internally take it as a rejection of their ability to sexually motivate you. Regardless of what you say, they hear, "im not turned on by you". Unless you somehow win the lottery and are dating a girl that doesnt react with emotion, theres no 'boom problem solved' reality.
facts
I thought eldis started off the video by conducting a Séance
I refuse to believe that isn’t what happened.
The casual pick n flick at the top of the ep is a great Stavvy move. 😂
‘We consider ourselves forefathers of the lesbian movement’ is a thinker lol
For those who don’t know - Lesbos, from which English gets the word ‘lesbian’, is a Greek island
Blessed us with a damn near half hour clip thank you
Honestly talking to stavy would be better than a therapist 😂
He is a true student of the human condition
Generally speaking to friends and smart strangers are supposed to be better than talking to therapists.
It’s super weird people use therapy to replace normative human interaction.
Love how Stavvy didn’t let her speak at all!
“Blowing-off a Blackboard post” 😂
As soon as she said she didn't like being touched I knew it was autism. He partner needs to either accept her or call it off bc that's just how going to feel forever.
Is that really a part of autism? I realised recently that dyspraxia(which I have) is on the neurodivergent scale and I’ve looked into it more and I’m seeing a lot of commonalities between autism and ADHD and I HATE having my skin rubbed or touched repeatedly. It begins to hurt and no one seems to know what I’m talking about it when I bring it up 🤯
@@MissBlueEyeliner yea, usually sensory things like sounds, touching, taste and smell can be super sensitive if you have some types of autism.
I don’t like being touched guess I must be autistic :(
@@ihatethisuser1 this explains SO much 😳
@@MissBlueEyeliner Are you aware you glossed over a major factor. Medications.
Love how his show is like therapy sessions but fucking hilarious 😂
always love Stavvy, he is best from Greece
Gotta say....these are incredible. Love them Stavvy, keep'em coming.
Her thinking fresh lawyers make $3m a year is very funny
Bustin makes me feel good
She said "I'm on depression meds now," makes it sounds like she just started
Why is he so much better at giving gay advice than straight advice lol
I must be damaged because when I heard horned up lawyer I quickly thought she is gonna cheat a bunch.
💯. Stavvy nailed it as usual but first question should have been about monogamy.
13:40 missed a great opportunity. " won't be bustin nuts but bustin cases"
The bit about Grad Students had me ROLLING, so true, I’ve known a few those MFs will not pay a bill for SHIT but will totally gaslight their partners that they will when they start working (they break up two months after graduation)
Thhhiiiisssss. Accumulating degrees is legit for the dumbest and least able people in the world. It’s kinda sad.
And they all get half a million dollars in debt. It’s wild. They’re just perpetual drains on society
thanks for the call, very interesting
God this is such a common issue, I feel like establishing sex drive early on is so important. My ex had a very low libido and it was soooo hard for me, and I’m the girl , he’s a guy. Also I’m a hot fucking 26 year old girl who works out and takes care of my appearance , I gotta be with a guy who wants to jump my bones all the time or I’m gonna go find someone else to fulfill that for me
This is so much better than hack Dr Drew has ever been 😂 Stavvy for fucking president at this point, he’s for the people ❤
Stav was so proud of himself at the end
Stav’s hair is wild in this one
I had major issues with this in one of my relationships, we never full discussed it and it ruined the relationship
can't speak to physical boundaries or needs but switching to a mood stabilizer from an SSRI could boost libido
“What’s troubling you?”- Don Stavv
The new Dr. Drew lol
She should try welbutrin
yes☝️☝️☝️
We’re in the stop pretending zone now babe, 7 months. Those times I went out w ur friends to the club and shit? That was a lie. I like to stay home. This is me babe.
Them buttons are on o.t, bout to strike.😂 You da man Stavvy
great work
Spirits ..i mean her hippy mom knew 😅
Not super long, 7 months 😂
Right !!😂
Damn girl how's your audio so crisp
Home girl needs to become the in-home professional sybian operator.
The secret is to never get into a relationship with someone who would somehow take this personally or not be able to deal with it. I don't understand how you could navigate any issues of any complexity if this is such a big deal to even bring up without them internalising it in some negative way.
Service her.....like a car?😂😂😂😂
Just send her this video and say let's talk. Honestly though, ain't gonna work out, hun
99% of lesbian relationships end up burning out, or they cling to eachother and become two wretched creatures.
Amazing
She sounds like literally every lesbian ive ever heard. Same cadence in their voice and everything.
I never felt more called out then him saying PhD students live like children until they’re 42
It’s primarily a communication issue, the sex thing is secondary. If you can’t communicate then what’s the point in a relationship
These clips make me miss being in a relationship so bad
Even if they do have jobs and are going at it 5times a day...do they not have hobbies, when do they have time to cook, clean, relax. Is sex the only activity outside of work? That sounds crazy! Where do they have the time for it EVERY DAY?!
This was good haha
Sounds like she's on the wrong antidepressants
Stav has those crypt keeper hands
This isnt rooted in hate but its weird that Love Line has turned into this. If Stavros is Carolla then where's Dr. Drew? Or is Stavy both 🤔 😮
RIP Anthony Bourdain 🙏 we miss you every day 🥲
Is there anyone Stav can't help and give sound advice to?
Not until proven otherwise
Workout advice
Lesbians are so cool
Stav, the Nutt Professor.
i won't tolerate this grad school slander. being a perpetual child is a life hack
The smells in that apartment must be off the chain🐟🐠
Must be great 😸
Fuckin philosopher over here 😂😂😂
Stav: Yeah Lesbian sex life is like this
Caller: Yeah no not really actually
Stav: Yeah no I know that
Women do be shopping
Shes gotta bring out Stone Butch Blues
5 times a day is insane, thats sex addiction. Like jesus christ
Never heard anyone say bust so much
"Im not complaining" uuuum sounds like you are. Lol jk
I was in this exact scenario it didnt work out
Sounds like these 2 tops need to fight it out for top
We need stavy on therapy gecko asap!!!!
Damn this one hit a bit too close to home ☹️❤
Man stav is disgusting, I love him
I'm no expert but...maybe try telling her what u told me 😅🤷♂️🤷♂️
Have noticed it's almost impossible to keep a woman satisfied (edit: on any level) long term, so all the best with that. 🤣
Dr Phil! Dr Phil! Dr Phil! ❤