Hey man after putting the email and clicking the button it simply doesn't send anything to the email. I tried with two different emails and I've also tried in the past as you put the link in past videos too. I could never get it
Todd it seems that your site is not working at all. I cant log in into any programs. I have bought verbal game academy and now i cant log in. Are u aware of the problem ?
Hey, Todd, thank you so much for your videos. After putting my email for the text guide, I never got the email for the guide, I think the site is not working
Oddly, the best success I ever had was on a facebook comment thread. I made a comment, this woman replied to me in a joking manner. I replied back to her and we had this playful banter going. We friended each other and it turned out she was local to me. Eventually we planned on a date. I met her mom and it turned out I know her mother! Worked with her many years ago! She had tried setting the two of us up before but my date didn’t want to be set up by her mom. Two years later we got engaged. Three years after that I lost her after a long illness. But I truly believe we were destined to be together. Just not for the rest of our lives, just hers.
@@Clownboy15 I could be taken as you just being there, but not actually wanting to. As in, not till the rest out both lives, but just hers. But I get you didn't mean it like that, which I stated previously, just the wording was very odd
I'm a recently separated dad, pushing 40 years and 200lbs. Your videos have been a godsend. I honestly wish I had access to this material (as opposed to cringe/sleazy/phony PUA stuff) before I got married.
But Todd _is_ what the mainstream calls cringe/sleazy/phony PUA. If Todd isn't PUA, then who is? Neil Strauss and Mystery both stopped teaching 10+ years ago.
@@Raphael4722 uh, sure, but I found it to be easily translatable to "just a great guide to being good with women". In the different videos, I've seen Todd: - Decry lying and cheating (not ENM, obv). - Not rely on "dirty/dark" tricks like negging. - Talk about inner game and confidence. - Truly believe this isn't zero-sum, and that it benefits women as well. Of the things I still dislike, are some references to girls having less intellectual ability (selection bias?), and "having the upper hand" in relationships. Thankfully, I have other relationship experts to guide me (as well as experience), and for everything else - there's this channel 😎
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@@DarylSimpson58 its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
I went from having stupid neutral conversations on bumble to being able to get to a date in five minutes with most women. I had dates lined up I didn’t have time for them all and then got a girlfriend, what a waste.
Did you achieve this just by following advices like from this video, or did you use Todd's execute the program or some other product like playing fire?
How do you suggest responding to women on Bumble who just says "hi" or send a gif? I mirror it with a hello or gif if that's what they sent me. In some countries they never send a second message 80% of the time. What is your solution to get the conversation flowing after a woman does the absolute minimum to preserve the match? I've also noticed 90% these same women never delete me, It's like they are a collector of matches.
Online dating is 99% photos, if your photos are good and the girl likes it, the only thing you can do to ruin everything is writing her a stupid message, but if your photos are not good you can be the coolest person of the world with the most exciting and interesting bio of the world, there's nothing to do the girl will never match you and will never answer to your texts
@@Fred-zt5ky I understood this by comparing my profile with that one of my friends. My friends had extremely good photos and they were writing really boring messages and they got dates, I had very ugly pictures (I'm honest about this, my pictures really suck) and I was writing all the cool messages Todd suggests and even using a lot of my creativity, I never got an answer (I also paid for premium versions), why? Because online dating is all about photos and I also add that since nowadays everyone uses dating app, it is an extremely random game, girls get hundreds of likes per day and they randomly chose to match with 1 or 2 guys, to me online game is not worthy, going into the streets and approaching girls face to face makes the difference. Cold approach on the streets, bars, clubs or whatever in real life makes the difference because you get higher quality girls and you deal with real pain, discomfort and real difficulties, instead online on a dating app you are in an extremely comfortable situation and you don't face real life (I don't know if you get what I mean)
Good photos only just peak interest, your description is what make the women have the urge to message you, in other words having game is more important than how attractive you’re are. There’s proof women swipe left on men that are highly attractive and nice pics. Women are 100x more picker on online dating, you have to find someway to stand out from millions of other dudes with generic descriptions.
I WAS a model, I’m tall, have great pics, hooked up with hundreds of chicks IRL but SUCK at online datimg, they don’t show your bio unless you pay and jokes are always awkward over text. seems hopeless most of the time. much easier to just approach
Also, I live in Miami where thousands of guys have yachts and private planes.. being attractive doesn’t always cut it down here, especially for just being one profile out of a million
I'm not a model but when I walk into a bar, women turn around, and I have always had it easy with them. I also got slaughtered online 😅 The problem is the platforms. The companies doesn't want us to meet someone beacuse then they loose their customers. We need non profit dating apps. Had one years ago and it was the best
My experience with online dating: chat for 10 messages, Ask her out, she usually says yes and completely ghosts me after i try to set up a time for the date.
Hey Todd! Excellent advice here overall. The one thing that stuck out to me here was remembering that she chose me. She chose to come out on a date with me. That should give us a lot of cinfidence given the landscape of online dating!
The problem is men and women thinking they have more options because one person was interested in them. Therefore they keep searching for more and more options online the moment the other person isn't perfect or screws up. Online dating was designed to keep people on the sites forever.
Hey Todd, I would just like to express my gratitude to you for all you have done for me in my life. You have helped me in so many areas of my life and I think you are really spreading important knowledge to so many and changing tons of lives in the process. Thanks man ❤
"Live your best life! Have incredible relationships, just don't get state divorce laws involved. They will dictate your finances in the likely event your marriage becomes non-functional! Be careful out there! I wanna keep ya outta my office!"- Jonathan Noble Esquire. Pennsylvania divorce attorney who has practiced in fields of divorce and family law for 20 years.
@@jeffreycheng5984 I Agree, it's crazy out there, if you have something to lose, she will get part of it, and the Judge will give it to her with a smile...
thing about online is attraction first, personality later. what’s the first thing you see before you start swiping? photo first before reading bio right? same goes for the women that check our profile, and I agree with Todd, your photo game has to be on point.
I like the closing remarks, like she made the decision to go on a date with YOU. important to remember that you already have some qualities she wants, evidenced just by her choice of you, and the date just started.
How to go about online dating when you’re 53 but look 43 and play like you’re 23 ??? All my girlfriends have been at lest 10yrs younger. Never did online dating what app do you suggest?
The primary reason why a lot of men aren't getting matches or getting likes right away is not because they aren't supermodels or because of their bad profile pics or whatever, it's because of the asymmetry of the male to female ratio is so high and so while yes you can improve your self and your profile etc. and that might translate into a bit more than you're currently getting you're never really going to beat the gender disparity. And now that women have had it so absurdly good for so long if any app were to actually control for the disparity it would fail because women would be getting less likes and would leave the app for the ones that give them higher validation returns.
im a male model with high quality pics , im 25 and i get 0 matches . i created a profile for my grandma and she gets 1000 likes and unlimited matches AND they sext , invite uber driver from 18-25 yo guys. shes 77 year old. dating apps DO NOT WORK for men even if you pay for them, since she got a lot of super likes which are from paying guys in their prime age with model looking bodies. GET OUT OF DATING APPS ITS HELL ON EARTH!
for the last point, need to be close to where you live or 20mn taxi max. If you ask for girl to join you, the next question is time to go in your appartement, i noticed that the max time is 20mn, girl will still go with you. Another thing not mentionned is date timing, sometimes it's ok to do first date/first bed, but you too "slow" and so if she must wake up early she will decide to go home, so you need to be max 2h date and get time to go home with her and have a moment, so she have time ( if she must leave or course ;) ) to back home after bed time. For instance, if you start at 20h, you need to be in bed at 22h30 , if you go midnight and she must wake up at 6 you dead, but if she can leave at mignight from your home, she will come with you. Seems to be very stupid but just some experienced situations.
The bottom line is that on a date you still have everything to prove. You need to keep up the act of being fun, flirty, interesting while all the girl has to do is be beautiful and giggle. Girls have it fucking easy... unless they are ugly.
@@ChooseFreshAtSubway Exactly, if you're talking most of the date, you're doing something wrong, she's not interested/attracted. Attracted make a effort to engage and impress you
Solid advice on clothes. Just buy it, do a photo shoot, take it back... And even more interesting. Go to a suit store, get a action shot of the tailor measuring you...
New to the apps myself; the biggest problem I’ve seen so far is a lack of appealing women (aside from the obvious bots/scams). Almost without exception, 300lbs, 5 kids, face full of metal/tats…yikes.
Hey Todd! I just came across your channel this morning, and have sat here watching a few videos. I’m a pretty attractive high value guy, and I don’t necessarily need help in dating as I already do a lot of the things you mention. However, I just got out of a 5 year relationship a few months ago, so I’m watching dating videos just to brush up on my technique as it relates to the modern scene, as I prepare to inevitably re-enter the dating pool at some point, after such a long hiatus. I just wanted to comment & show my appreciation for your content. I’ve watched a lot of dating channels over the years, and your approach is very refreshing. You make a lot of common sense points, and a few I was even nodding my head in agreement, as you presented things in ways I hadnt considered, and others being things that I know that other guys may not. Just wanted to say good job & keep up the great work. Your channel is different than others & I think that’s awesome for some of your other viewers that may really need the guidance. Take care Todd.
Todd, I've managed to level up my profile to where I'm getting decent quality matches. Took me a long time over the years researching & tweaking making profile changes however, now what I notice is that as the quality of women goes up they are much more flakey in comparison to girls of lower value. Almost like they don't seem fully convinced. So would this be my text game I need to work on or do I need to play more of a numbers game than ever ? Online dating is like a puzzle but once you start to see positive results, it is empowering having abundance of options.
higher quality women are flaky because theyre talking to ten dudes at once. you need to be more and more slick yet aggressive the higher quality your matches get relative to your own status. if youre super hot and rich, playing it cool may be your best bet. if youre lower 'status' like me, beinf more flirty and sexual is a good play, because even rich hot guys can suck at that
That’s what I notice too. So that’s why you gotta take fitxfearless advice and take their interest with a grain of salt. Just because a girl showed initial interest doesn’t mean she wants you…just have an abundance mindset. For example with Hinge I’d argue if she matches with you after responding to her prompt but doesn’t respond back, if she responds/messages 1st but never mentions anything about your bio, never gives a compliment, etc, etc, then her interest is not that high and you shouldn’t assume things will go off without a hitch 🤷♂️.
What Mr. Todd doesn't realize he's putting out advice that worked 10 years ago when you had to pay for PUA content. The online dating game changed a lot and the truth is it's on its decline. He pretends that a majority doesn't even know how to optimize their profile like PUAs did when online dating was in its infancy. Getting matches is really not the issue, and most dudes probably know these days how to make them appear more attractive than they actually are - and so are the chicks! The issue today is how to get a reasonable conversation going that could eventually lead to a date. Chicks are not flaky but social media screws with their minds by inflating their virtual sexual market value which results in the attention span of a fruit fly. Meaning, they don't talk to 10 dudes simultaneously, but 100s, which makes them think their options are endless, and the grass could be even greener with the next, and the next... Too many options make you choose less, so they hardly end up having a reasonable convo with guys and meet up with nobody. I get so many matches of hot chicks but hardly get any responses, let alone a convo going that could go somewhere, and my game is pretty tight. The odds are worse or better depending on the country/culture, but to summarize, it is no comparison to 10 years ago when it was cool and a lot of fun. Also, today you can't even be sure you are talking to sb real or a fake or manufactured profile, and the chicks worry the same about guy's pimped profiles, they can smell that from far, so why polish your profile to a persona you are actually not, and waste the time meeting a chick that liked your profile but actually not you... Something to think about. Things will only get worse with fake and pimped profiles and interactions, so my prediction is that online dating will eventually not work anymore, and it's definitely a huge waste of time. My advice is, to go out, become social, and interact with real people and real women in real life! Good luck!
@@firsthelix6726 Agreed. Conversations with the "hotter" chicks would always end up dry and boring, I'd end up carrying the convo, asking questions, fuck even sometimes i feel like im probing and prying lol. They either respond with a very vague and short answer or a "lol"/"lmao" like jesus there's no way you're this hot and this freaking boring at the same time. I'd lose interest or they think I'm a weirdo for trying to get to know them a bit more. Now my new approach is just asking them straight up when they'd want to meet. Cut to the chase, let's them know you're interested and then feel it out when you see each other. For the most part there is really no need to try to get to know someone on a dating app, these girls have an abundance mindset which in turn makes them have a shorter attention span for you regardless of how you look or how your profile is setup, it just is what it is, and I do agree that social media has played a big role with making these girl act all big headed. Last thing is, if a chick flakes on you or shows no interest - MOVE ON.
Getting attention for me is not the problem. Converting endless chats into real world dates is. Plenty of women message but they never want to get off the app!
What I have found, especially with the 7+/10 women is that most are there for validation. They don't really want to go on dates. They just want you to validate that they are attractive and can get your attention. Also a lot are just looking for IG Snapchat and OF followers. Most hot girls on there are so inundated with male attention its very difficult to stand out. Table is tilted, the game is rigged. But nowadays you pretty much have to just stick with it and hope you get lucky.
Quality video, but the remember why your there part really resonated with me. I just got back into online dating 2 weeks ago after a 10 year hiatus. It’s been going good. Wayyy more matches then I thought I’d be getting
I appreciate the positive attitude Todd brings to the table but the truth is that some men are just not what women want no matter how good their profile is. Sometimes it’s better to give up with your dignity in tact.
It works both ways, you’re not going to be a match for everyone. Stop blaming everything on ‘women’ and just accept the fact that you’re not a prize, no one is. Online dating heavily favours women, the male algorithm will only show your profile for 1-2 days before moving it to the back of its queue. It’s the exact same as the way Instagram, Facebook & TH-cam algorithms work.
@@Kennymacdougall If you are "very good looking" but you got no online dating results, then you must have been making a very big blunder with your online dating technique or strategy somehow. The biggest factor in online dating is photos, by far, so a "very good looking" guy can DEFINITELY get results if you're doing things well and not making huge mistakes.
@@Paul-yk7ds Nope, it's the algorithm. There simply is no such thing as online dating strategies. It's just purely to sell something, not to actually help.
I don't want to sound like an a-hole, but I always feel bad for the ones as described here "that look like your lunch ladies and 300 lbs" because they must have such a hard time on these dating apps. As hard as some guys have difficulties, there prob is a large category of women that get very very little hits. Luckily, weight is something one can improve on - most of the time. It just takes effort and time. And a lot of times, overweight people look pretty decent once them slim down.
If you are swiping, and you already swiped though all the women in the area, how do you improve afterwards? Does the algorithm on these apps show you the people that you swiped left on or who swept left on you again?
@@maggomens6014 if you delete your profile and recreate it, will everything be reset? If you're using the same phone number and email to register, for example, they may remember you.
I got this same problem,I arrived in a beach city with supposedly lots of tourists,and after a week of swiping (very selectively) it says there's no people around u(with 100km radius)🤦♂️
McD's is OK, or a bar / pub type bite to eat is OK - such as Wetherspoons here in the UK. Plus she can expect all she wants. What she gets is what she gets. You just have to frame it in the right way - eg an indirectly indicated "I'm not the same as all those other men".
These videos should be labeled “For entertainment purposes only” No disrespect to Todd but dating apps aren’t going to work for most guys as far as getting girls you would actually want to meet
If that’s the case then it’s not normal behaviour. It’s a date, not a special forces mission, just go on it and be NORMAL. Stop overthinking it and just have a normal human interaction for once.
@@Jay-ob4ti sorry but it doesn’t change the fact that tips Todd has given are the same as what Sof units are using. Even in the older videos some of the tips are Similiar to those that I have read in a hostice negotions manual.
If you get a reply, get to the point say you want a date this place and time. She don’t reply or anything other then sure, convo over. Worked for me a few times
I think the algorithm pushes some accounts more than others. Like the ones who already get swipes will be more pushed while the others may get less featured
Theres one point im not agreeing with and it’s about the bio. in my experience girls are way more attracted to your profile if you have something short and genuine funny in it rather than Information about who you are. Girls like the mystery. Don’t just give them everything about you. Id say i have a decent success in online dating
The reason we hope guys are at least sorta attractive is because eventually, down the line, we are going to have to sleep with you! It's not unfounded.
I'm 25 and I don't know anyone in my age group that is of sane mind that would do dinner dates. Am in in a specific subgroup or is it an age thing? Anyway, dinner dates are crazy
I am very tall and I figured that when I wrote my hight explicitly in the first sentence my number of matches tripled. Another thing that works for me is the following first message: "Would you like to get to know each other? Do you prefer to chat first or meet immediately" (I am translating from Russian, m b you can phrase this better). I am not very active on tinder recently, but roughly all 10 girls that I wrote to replied and eventually fixed the date. So, I guess, you don't need to invent anything, just write straight what you want.
@@Nojarocom многие девушки прямо пишут что не любят долгих переписок в профиле. После того как я им пишу так как выше, обычно отвечают, что лучше быстрее встретимся. Некоторые при этом все же пишут что хотят для начала обо мне что-то узнать. Попереписываемся 1-2 дня, потом встречаемся. Ну или не встречаемся, но обычно это потому что выясняется что-то типа что у них есть дети и уже я не вижу смысла встречаться.
@@Nojarocom вообще, мне 36 лет. В этом возрасте уже женщины сами за тобой бегают. Как я написал, я высокий, симпатичный, в неплохой форме (без лишнего веса, спортивный), зарабатываю значительно выше среднего (в профиле это не написано, но видно фотки из разных стран). Единственное что плохо - это что фотки обычные, я специально не фотогрфировался. Говорят, это важно. В результате найти мэтч несложно. 2-3 мэтча за день запросто. Причем они сами часто пишут первыми. Правда, по итогу обычно ничем это не заканчивается. Почти все - это мои ровесницы или на 2-3 года младше. И все какие-то скучные (написаны какие-то интересы, но рассказать нечего) так себе социальные скилы (поддержать разговор, чувство юмора), часто бедные и неухоженные (ну, блин, если идешь уже на свидание как женщина, что нельзя как-то нормально одеться а не приходить в мятой футболке или свитере с катушками? Или голову хотя бы помыть? Ну и, блин, иметь нормальное настроение и иногда улыбаться?). Короче, интереса не вызывают. Такое чувство, что они уже махнули на все рукой и даже на тиндер не надеются. Просто приходят, на 100е свидание, типа, а вдруг что выйдет, но уже с таким вот отчаявшимся настроем. Либо попадаются с детьми, но заранее не предупреждают. Ну или папика ищут, чтобы обеспечил им отдых в обмен на услуги. Значительно реже бывают лет 5-7 моложе. Но тоже пока никто не заинтересовал. Я это к тому, что несмотря на то что мэтчей много, результатами в Тиндере я недоволен. По моему опыту, девушки значительно более высокого качества попадаются если знакомиться в быту. Например, где-нибудь в пабе или по работе, через общих знакомых. Оказывается, что и девушкам на 10 лет моложе я вполне интересен, при этом сами они, что ли, более содержательные и у нас больше общего по части интересов, чем у случайных знакомых с тиндера. Я вот думал еще фотографии лучше сделать на тиндер, посмотреть м б что изменится. Но уже поздно :)
I got remotivated to take action again. I don’t know abt your Tinder selection, but mine is so bad. Most the the women seem like they could pass as middle schoolers. I don’t think i ever seen a truly attractive female on Tinder.
OMG! I'm SO glad I found your videos. I'm recently divorced 60yrs old and online dating is extremely new for me. The common sense you apply is refreshing and like YEAH that make total sense. Do you have any strategy for 50+ in online dating that is different form 30 and under?
I think meeting at an event, bar, store, mall is probably a better chance. Too much money wasted and time in dating apps. Over 50 is not easy, and being in your 20’s up, most just want is a fun, intimate time.
What rock are you under? I've had professional pictures done, and professional writers do my profile, and it made no difference. Don't u understand it's a freak show ? And dating sights charge ridiculous prices.
Sorry, but this sounds like you'll have to create some alter ego persona, that's not even you at all, to fake your way into hooking up with a semi-hot girl, who also happens to be faking her way through this whole process as well. I'm all for honest self reflection and self improvement, but how about everyone just stop faking and lying and start hanging out in person again?
Internet dating does not make dating easy for men- it makes hookups easy. Hook ups and dating are 2 different things. Online dating makes the dating part practically impossible. People are addicted to the swipe- even after a great date they will go home and keep swiping. Thats the truth.
there is nothing that u can say or do that will make guys get better in online dating and if there is a improvement in some way... its like 2-5% more and that is like nothing. guys if u read this coment. don t waste ure time with this nonsense
What he's saying is that most guys get 0 results, but the guys at the top get a lot of results, like there is a huge difference, not just slightly more. And I believe that is true, because when I use dating apps in other countries like in Thailand, that's how it goes for me-it's not just slightly more results than America, but it's like crazy abundance. So I think the top guys in America have the same experience of crazy abundance.
True. I live in a small town in South Africa. I just leave my Tinder account up just in case. But most of the women on the app in my area are on average 2/10s 😬
I heard you DON'T want to pay for the membership with Tinder. According to the source, not paying and not over swiping is what gets you highest in the algorithm. Again, I'm talking Tinder specifically. Other apps my be different.
Yes that’s the truth! You’re better off just shooting your shot in the real world as opposed to hoping a girl will match with you and go on a date with you
what if you’ve done that for 3 years and did all research about, hired 2 photographers. and watched all online dating tips and you have 0 dates in 3 years including just friends. and re did my account 4 times with different professional photos because i was suspecting that my account was shadow banned but nothing. and also i have decent game since i have success in real life but NOTHING online
you already know the answer. it's because you're ugly, or really short. not trying to be mean here, just saying how it is. dating and especially online dating is extremely hard for ugly or very short guys. sorry bro
Agree with most of this material. Don't agree that women are necessarily choosing a particular man from a dating sight because they like him. Just pragmatic reality here. There are plenty of women out there who will be willing to endure the brief company of a man just to get something in return for free. This is especially true in the modern age of feminism. Also, dating apps, for whatever claims are made for or against them, probably have a rate of "success" that is on par with any other method . In some ways they are a better method because you have a certain level of pre-screening the prospective date before you ever have to be in the same space with them. Also, getting "rejected" by someone online is definitely less stressful than getting rejected in-person and save time, money and effort.
This is why I don't put too much bio info on my page. Don't judge me right off the bat because of what I have on my profile, get to actually feel my vibe and the energy I give off in person first. My bio literally says "Just gotta come find out" it leaves a mysteriousness and also vets out the one's who are curious and wants to see where things go and the one's who are just there for attention and waste your time.
it sucks for 95% of guys bc 5% of guys are chads. it is the greatest invention ever: for chads. if u not chad... and u get a date... don't blow it! see the movie "A Few Good Men". pay most attention to: you can't handle the truth
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Hope you enjoy! My complete online dating system is coming soon at: toddoda.com And the text guide is at: www.toddvdating.com/onlinemsg/
Hey man after putting the email and clicking the button it simply doesn't send anything to the email. I tried with two different emails and I've also tried in the past as you put the link in past videos too. I could never get it
Todd it seems that your site is not working at all. I cant log in into any programs. I have bought verbal game academy and now i cant log in. Are u aware of the problem ?
@@masterypursuer2068 For me, it said that updates would be sent later. It's just a waiting list for now
Hey, Todd, thank you so much for your videos. After putting my email for the text guide, I never got the email for the guide, I think the site is not working
How can I contact you personally brother.. I am Doctor working in Saudi Arabia.. Game here in my city is tough.. Need your expert advice
Oddly, the best success I ever had was on a facebook comment thread. I made a comment, this woman replied to me in a joking manner. I replied back to her and we had this playful banter going. We friended each other and it turned out she was local to me. Eventually we planned on a date. I met her mom and it turned out I know her mother! Worked with her many years ago! She had tried setting the two of us up before but my date didn’t want to be set up by her mom. Two years later we got engaged. Three years after that I lost her after a long illness. But I truly believe we were destined to be together. Just not for the rest of our lives, just hers.
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Okay, I was with you till that last sentence. I know what you meant, but it still sounded very badly as if definitely could be taken the wrong way.
@@TIOLIOfficial how do you mean?
@@Clownboy15 I could be taken as you just being there, but not actually wanting to. As in, not till the rest out both lives, but just hers.
But I get you didn't mean it like that, which I stated previously, just the wording was very odd
Online dating is a national security threat.
I agree
I'm a recently separated dad, pushing 40 years and 200lbs. Your videos have been a godsend. I honestly wish I had access to this material (as opposed to cringe/sleazy/phony PUA stuff) before I got married.
A very alive journey awaits you.
But Todd _is_ what the mainstream calls cringe/sleazy/phony PUA. If Todd isn't PUA, then who is? Neil Strauss and Mystery both stopped teaching 10+ years ago.
uh this is pua bud
@@Raphael4722 uh, sure, but I found it to be easily translatable to "just a great guide to being good with women". In the different videos, I've seen Todd:
- Decry lying and cheating (not ENM, obv).
- Not rely on "dirty/dark" tricks like negging.
- Talk about inner game and confidence.
- Truly believe this isn't zero-sum, and that it benefits women as well.
Of the things I still dislike, are some references to girls having less intellectual ability (selection bias?), and "having the upper hand" in relationships. Thankfully, I have other relationship experts to guide me (as well as experience), and for everything else - there's this channel 😎
unless you're not dating seriously, then I can't recommend game if you're looking for 'the one'
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
@@DarylSimpson58 its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@@MaryTongx this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
Girls that are 4's act like 9's on dating apps 😂
It's the simps fault.
Sure, because the numbers are in their favor. It's not rocket science. Don't online date. It's that simple.
The guy who made this video is a 3 calling other people ugly. Also, women are by default above 7 given the demand
I went from having stupid neutral conversations on bumble to being able to get to a date in five minutes with most women. I had dates lined up I didn’t have time for them all and then got a girlfriend, what a waste.
Not a waste. You reached the goal. Congratulations, dude!
@@anderslennartsson1828 thanks, just feels like I’m leaving money on the table 🤪
Did you achieve this just by following advices like from this video, or did you use Todd's execute the program or some other product like playing fire?
@@greenlitlleman just watching videos, also Dan bacon
How do you suggest responding to women on Bumble who just says "hi" or send a gif? I mirror it with a hello or gif if that's what they sent me. In some countries they never send a second message 80% of the time. What is your solution to get the conversation flowing after a woman does the absolute minimum to preserve the match? I've also noticed 90% these same women never delete me, It's like they are a collector of matches.
Dude, fuck all that. Why would I go through all that effort if the other person is going to act like a flake?
Online dating is 99% photos, if your photos are good and the girl likes it, the only thing you can do to ruin everything is writing her a stupid message, but if your photos are not good you can be the coolest person of the world with the most exciting and interesting bio of the world, there's nothing to do the girl will never match you and will never answer to your texts
facts.
@@Fred-zt5ky I understood this by comparing my profile with that one of my friends. My friends had extremely good photos and they were writing really boring messages and they got dates, I had very ugly pictures (I'm honest about this, my pictures really suck) and I was writing all the cool messages Todd suggests and even using a lot of my creativity, I never got an answer (I also paid for premium versions), why? Because online dating is all about photos and I also add that since nowadays everyone uses dating app, it is an extremely random game, girls get hundreds of likes per day and they randomly chose to match with 1 or 2 guys, to me online game is not worthy, going into the streets and approaching girls face to face makes the difference. Cold approach on the streets, bars, clubs or whatever in real life makes the difference because you get higher quality girls and you deal with real pain, discomfort and real difficulties, instead online on a dating app you are in an extremely comfortable situation and you don't face real life (I don't know if you get what I mean)
Good photos only just peak interest, your description is what make the women have the urge to message you, in other words having game is more important than how attractive you’re are. There’s proof women swipe left on men that are highly attractive and nice pics. Women are 100x more picker on online dating, you have to find someway to stand out from millions of other dudes with generic descriptions.
I WAS a model, I’m tall, have great pics, hooked up with hundreds of chicks IRL but SUCK at online datimg, they don’t show your bio unless you pay and jokes are always awkward over text. seems hopeless most of the time. much easier to just approach
Also, I live in Miami where thousands of guys have yachts and private planes.. being attractive doesn’t always cut it down here, especially for just being one profile out of a million
I'm not a model but when I walk into a bar, women turn around, and I have always had it easy with them. I also got slaughtered online 😅 The problem is the platforms. The companies doesn't want us to meet someone beacuse then they loose their customers. We need non profit dating apps. Had one years ago and it was the best
@@bs667 And how exactly did you learn this?
@@bs667 And what your best advice would be? Honestly, I doubt that Todd can seduce girls through the text without showing photos as you said.
Did they hook up with you strictly because of your looks?
exactly, treat it like a sales pipeline. awesome vid todd
So glad you're still doing this. Thanks for having the balls to keep going!
Return of LONG HAIR TODD!
His power is at its MAXX now!
My experience with online dating: chat for 10 messages, Ask her out, she usually says yes and completely ghosts me after i try to set up a time for the date.
Hey Todd! Excellent advice here overall. The one thing that stuck out to me here was remembering that she chose me. She chose to come out on a date with me. That should give us a lot of cinfidence given the landscape of online dating!
The problem is men and women thinking they have more options because one person was interested in them. Therefore they keep searching for more and more options online the moment the other person isn't perfect or screws up. Online dating was designed to keep people on the sites forever.
Online dating especially suck in Jamaica, mostly unintelligent, gold digging, and riff raff girls are online
join some sort of club. that's a gauranteed way to meet some interesting women. like a Learning Spanish Language Club or Photography Club
Can't be much worse than the Philippines...
Hey Todd, I would just like to express my gratitude to you for all you have done for me in my life. You have helped me in so many areas of my life and I think you are really spreading important knowledge to so many and changing tons of lives in the process. Thanks man ❤
"I'm gonna go through your excuses" 😂
7 years without women. 17 years off the sex. Not ashamed. Fly solo and live your best life. Avoid the state divorce laws. Be careful out there!
You haven’t had a women in 17 years? Lol that ain’t the way bro
@@Jonasdelrey Thanks for sharing that.
@@jeffreycheng5984 YW anytime
"Live your best life! Have incredible relationships, just don't get state divorce laws involved. They will dictate your finances in the likely event your marriage becomes non-functional! Be careful out there! I wanna keep ya outta my office!"- Jonathan Noble Esquire. Pennsylvania divorce attorney who has practiced in fields of divorce and family law for 20 years.
@@jeffreycheng5984 I Agree, it's crazy out there, if you have something to lose, she will get part of it, and the Judge will give it to her with a smile...
thing about online is attraction first, personality later. what’s the first thing you see before you start swiping? photo first before reading bio right? same goes for the women that check our profile, and I agree with Todd, your photo game has to be on point.
It really does suck. Women get on there and suddenly think they're going to land 9s and 10s, even though they're a 6 at best.
I like the closing remarks, like she made the decision to go on a date with YOU. important to remember that you already have some qualities she wants, evidenced just by her choice of you, and the date just started.
How to go about online dating when you’re 53 but look 43 and play like you’re 23 ??? All my girlfriends have been at lest 10yrs younger. Never did online dating what app do you suggest?
The primary reason why a lot of men aren't getting matches or getting likes right away is not because they aren't supermodels or because of their bad profile pics or whatever, it's because of the asymmetry of the male to female ratio is so high and so while yes you can improve your self and your profile etc. and that might translate into a bit more than you're currently getting you're never really going to beat the gender disparity. And now that women have had it so absurdly good for so long if any app were to actually control for the disparity it would fail because women would be getting less likes and would leave the app for the ones that give them higher validation returns.
im a male model with high quality pics , im 25 and i get 0 matches . i created a profile for my grandma and she gets 1000 likes and unlimited matches AND they sext , invite uber driver from 18-25 yo guys. shes 77 year old. dating apps DO NOT WORK for men even if you pay for them, since she got a lot of super likes which are from paying guys in their prime age with model looking bodies. GET OUT OF DATING APPS ITS HELL ON EARTH!
Solid advice. Thanks for not suggesting games and bs.
for the last point, need to be close to where you live or 20mn taxi max. If you ask for girl to join you, the next question is time to go in your appartement, i noticed that the max time is 20mn, girl will still go with you. Another thing not mentionned is date timing, sometimes it's ok to do first date/first bed, but you too "slow" and so if she must wake up early she will decide to go home, so you need to be max 2h date and get time to go home with her and have a moment, so she have time ( if she must leave or course ;) ) to back home after bed time. For instance, if you start at 20h, you need to be in bed at 22h30 , if you go midnight and she must wake up at 6 you dead, but if she can leave at mignight from your home, she will come with you. Seems to be very stupid but just some experienced situations.
The more I hear about modern dating the more I feel like I can’t be bothered with it. 🤷♂️
Seems like to much freaking work tbh! It was easier to date in the early 90’s before social media and shit !
On most platforms, men outnumber women 5-1...
The bottom line is that on a date you still have everything to prove. You need to keep up the act of being fun, flirty, interesting while all the girl has to do is be beautiful and giggle. Girls have it fucking easy... unless they are ugly.
Women are gatekeepers of sex men are gatekeepers of relationships. So of course, it's far easier for women to get sex.
Even ugly women have it easier than most guys
The girl should be doing most of the talking on a date bro. Gotta ask shit to get her going
@@ChooseFreshAtSubway Exactly, if you're talking most of the date, you're doing something wrong, she's not interested/attracted. Attracted make a effort to engage and impress you
Frame switch
Solid advice on clothes. Just buy it, do a photo shoot, take it back... And even more interesting. Go to a suit store, get a action shot of the tailor measuring you...
New to the apps myself; the biggest problem I’ve seen so far is a lack of appealing women (aside from the obvious bots/scams). Almost without exception, 300lbs, 5 kids, face full of metal/tats…yikes.
If you have to borrow clothes to take Dating app photos, you don’t need to be dating
Hey Todd!
I just came across your channel this morning, and have sat here watching a few videos.
I’m a pretty attractive high value guy, and I don’t necessarily need help in dating as I already do a lot of the things you mention.
However, I just got out of a 5 year relationship a few months ago, so I’m watching dating videos just to brush up on my technique as it relates to the modern scene, as I prepare to inevitably re-enter the dating pool at some point, after such a long hiatus.
I just wanted to comment & show my appreciation for your content.
I’ve watched a lot of dating channels over the years, and your approach is very refreshing. You make a lot of common sense points, and a few I was even nodding my head in agreement, as you presented things in ways I hadnt considered, and others being things that I know that other guys may not.
Just wanted to say good job & keep up the great work. Your channel is different than others & I think that’s awesome for some of your other viewers that may really need the guidance.
Take care Todd.
Todd, I've managed to level up my profile to where I'm getting decent quality matches. Took me a long time over the years researching & tweaking making profile changes however, now what I notice is that as the quality of women goes up they are much more flakey in comparison to girls of lower value. Almost like they don't seem fully convinced. So would this be my text game I need to work on or do I need to play more of a numbers game than ever ? Online dating is like a puzzle but once you start to see positive results, it is empowering having abundance of options.
higher quality women are flaky because theyre talking to ten dudes at once. you need to be more and more slick yet aggressive the higher quality your matches get relative to your own status. if youre super hot and rich, playing it cool may be your best bet. if youre lower 'status' like me, beinf more flirty and sexual is a good play, because even rich hot guys can suck at that
That’s what I notice too. So that’s why you gotta take fitxfearless advice and take their interest with a grain of salt. Just because a girl showed initial interest doesn’t mean she wants you…just have an abundance mindset.
For example with Hinge I’d argue if she matches with you after responding to her prompt but doesn’t respond back, if she responds/messages 1st but never mentions anything about your bio, never gives a compliment, etc, etc, then her interest is not that high and you shouldn’t assume things will go off without a hitch 🤷♂️.
What Mr. Todd doesn't realize he's putting out advice that worked 10 years ago when you had to pay for PUA content. The online dating game changed a lot and the truth is it's on its decline. He pretends that a majority doesn't even know how to optimize their profile like PUAs did when online dating was in its infancy. Getting matches is really not the issue, and most dudes probably know these days how to make them appear more attractive than they actually are - and so are the chicks! The issue today is how to get a reasonable conversation going that could eventually lead to a date. Chicks are not flaky but social media screws with their minds by inflating their virtual sexual market value which results in the attention span of a fruit fly. Meaning, they don't talk to 10 dudes simultaneously, but 100s, which makes them think their options are endless, and the grass could be even greener with the next, and the next... Too many options make you choose less, so they hardly end up having a reasonable convo with guys and meet up with nobody. I get so many matches of hot chicks but hardly get any responses, let alone a convo going that could go somewhere, and my game is pretty tight. The odds are worse or better depending on the country/culture, but to summarize, it is no comparison to 10 years ago when it was cool and a lot of fun. Also, today you can't even be sure you are talking to sb real or a fake or manufactured profile, and the chicks worry the same about guy's pimped profiles, they can smell that from far, so why polish your profile to a persona you are actually not, and waste the time meeting a chick that liked your profile but actually not you... Something to think about. Things will only get worse with fake and pimped profiles and interactions, so my prediction is that online dating will eventually not work anymore, and it's definitely a huge waste of time. My advice is, to go out, become social, and interact with real people and real women in real life! Good luck!
Both. Also it’s every semi decent looking woman. They all got tons of options
@@firsthelix6726 Agreed. Conversations with the "hotter" chicks would always end up dry and boring, I'd end up carrying the convo, asking questions, fuck even sometimes i feel like im probing and prying lol. They either respond with a very vague and short answer or a "lol"/"lmao" like jesus there's no way you're this hot and this freaking boring at the same time. I'd lose interest or they think I'm a weirdo for trying to get to know them a bit more. Now my new approach is just asking them straight up when they'd want to meet. Cut to the chase, let's them know you're interested and then feel it out when you see each other. For the most part there is really no need to try to get to know someone on a dating app, these girls have an abundance mindset which in turn makes them have a shorter attention span for you regardless of how you look or how your profile is setup, it just is what it is, and I do agree that social media has played a big role with making these girl act all big headed. Last thing is, if a chick flakes on you or shows no interest - MOVE ON.
Better profile. Better pics. Papa Todd's.
Do you know if he has a good Tinder profile?
you know the worlds f-d when you gotta become an analyst to get human decency
Yes the dating culture is fucked thanks to the creation of the internet sadly ! We are done 🌎🔥
Getting attention for me is not the problem. Converting endless chats into real world dates is. Plenty of women message but they never want to get off the app!
What I have found, especially with the 7+/10 women is that most are there for validation. They don't really want to go on dates. They just want you to validate that they are attractive and can get your attention. Also a lot are just looking for IG Snapchat and OF followers. Most hot girls on there are so inundated with male attention its very difficult to stand out. Table is tilted, the game is rigged. But nowadays you pretty much have to just stick with it and hope you get lucky.
Cause they ain't trying to bang. I miss running through chicks in the early 2000s no problem. Now these 4's think they're 9's and have kids 😂
long time viewer. Concise and useful info everytime
🤣 Your advice on style and getting a haircut 😂 I'm dead I love you man. You are a legend
I ask out women after matching very quickly, and it often STILL doesn't work.
Thats because its simply to early.. try getting her exited then make your move, its basicaly 50% increased chance she wants something more
Quality video, but the remember why your there part really resonated with me. I just got back into online dating 2 weeks ago after a 10 year hiatus. It’s been going good. Wayyy more matches then I thought I’d be getting
That's because you are new meat. It will level out. Enjoy while you can
@@davidlowery8601 lol damn. I’ve only been using face book dating, haven’t even tried anything else. If it slows down then I’ll switch to another
Twist in the end of the video: ha-ha, got you! April's fools y'all! Tinder actually sucks. Now go do those cold approaches, you wimps!
Only top 10% of the men get all matches. Dating apps are time wasters.
I appreciate the positive attitude Todd brings to the table but the truth is that some men are just not what women want no matter how good their profile is. Sometimes it’s better to give up with your dignity in tact.
True, I gave that up years ago when after 2 years I still got 0 matches and I am very good looking.
It works both ways, you’re not going to be a match for everyone. Stop blaming everything on ‘women’ and just accept the fact that you’re not a prize, no one is.
Online dating heavily favours women, the male algorithm will only show your profile for 1-2 days before moving it to the back of its queue. It’s the exact same as the way Instagram, Facebook & TH-cam algorithms work.
@@Kennymacdougall 'and I am very good looking' idk man
@@Kennymacdougall If you are "very good looking" but you got no online dating results, then you must have been making a very big blunder with your online dating technique or strategy somehow. The biggest factor in online dating is photos, by far, so a "very good looking" guy can DEFINITELY get results if you're doing things well and not making huge mistakes.
@@Paul-yk7ds Nope, it's the algorithm. There simply is no such thing as online dating strategies. It's just purely to sell something, not to actually help.
I was thinking of just taking video with many poses and screenshot the clips I want and crop the fluff. Thanks for the video.
I don't want to sound like an a-hole, but I always feel bad for the ones as described here "that look like your lunch ladies and 300 lbs" because they must have such a hard time on these dating apps. As hard as some guys have difficulties, there prob is a large category of women that get very very little hits.
Luckily, weight is something one can improve on - most of the time. It just takes effort and time. And a lot of times, overweight people look pretty decent once them slim down.
If you are swiping, and you already swiped though all the women in the area, how do you improve afterwards? Does the algorithm on these apps show you the people that you swiped left on or who swept left on you again?
Make a new profile
@@maggomens6014 if you delete your profile and recreate it, will everything be reset? If you're using the same phone number and email to register, for example, they may remember you.
I got this same problem,I arrived in a beach city with supposedly lots of tourists,and after a week of swiping (very selectively) it says there's no people around u(with 100km radius)🤦♂️
I have swiped a load in my city and i know that after these interactions there wont be many more left. Its time to play it slowly and carefully
What if the woman doesn't drink or is unwilling to do strictly drinks and expects food as well? Or if neither of you have pullable logistics?
well doesnt have to be alcohol. maybe substitute it with coffee or something
McD's is OK, or a bar / pub type bite to eat is OK - such as Wetherspoons here in the UK.
Plus she can expect all she wants. What she gets is what she gets. You just have to frame it in the right way - eg an indirectly indicated "I'm not the same as all those other men".
I usually suggest chatting at a cafe, or walking and talking in a park.
@@Paul-yk7ds yup I do the same, those are perfect for first dates, very cheap or free, easy to leave if she's ugly etc
You are awesome man!👍Thank you for sharing your knowledge!
Where is the text guide? Thanks
www.toddvdating.com/onlinemsg/
I get a lot of fake profiles for example on Facebook Dating interacting with me. How do I prevent these fake profiles from wasting my time?
These videos should be labeled “For entertainment purposes only”
No disrespect to Todd but dating apps aren’t going to work for most guys as far as getting girls you would actually want to meet
Just watched videos about special forces and how they prepare for a mission. They are pretty much the same as Todd is giving for dating
If that’s the case then it’s not normal behaviour. It’s a date, not a special forces mission, just go on it and be NORMAL. Stop overthinking it and just have a normal human interaction for once.
@@Jay-ob4ti sorry but it doesn’t change the fact that tips Todd has given are the same as what Sof units are using. Even in the older videos some of the tips are Similiar to those that I have read in a hostice negotions manual.
If you get a reply, get to the point say you want a date this place and time. She don’t reply or anything other then sure, convo over. Worked for me a few times
I think the algorithm pushes some accounts more than others. Like the ones who already get swipes will be more pushed while the others may get less featured
Theres one point im not agreeing with and it’s about the bio. in my experience girls are way more attracted to your profile if you have something short and genuine funny in it rather than Information about who you are. Girls like the mystery. Don’t just give them everything about you. Id say i have a decent success in online dating
My boy looking more and more like Vigo Mortensen and Christopher Walken had a baby.
Excelent video! Thanks todd
The reason we hope guys are at least sorta attractive is because eventually, down the line, we are going to have to sleep with you! It's not unfounded.
Great tips! You've got to always convey value as a man in every single way, it's a jungle out there
Keep it up bro we'll support you
so we’re taking advice from a married man on how to sleep with more/ girls from dating apps…gotcha makes total sense
You should though.
@@Granato787 nah i’m good
Watch this video a year ago and a year later still single still never been on a date and now a little self destructive 😂😅😢😢😢😢fml
Its the tinder Toddler!
if i do all off those things to improve my profile, than what are girls going to do to be more attractive ?
I'm 25 and I don't know anyone in my age group that is of sane mind that would do dinner dates. Am in in a specific subgroup or is it an age thing? Anyway, dinner dates are crazy
I am very tall and I figured that when I wrote my hight explicitly in the first sentence my number of matches tripled. Another thing that works for me is the following first message: "Would you like to get to know each other? Do you prefer to chat first or meet immediately" (I am translating from Russian, m b you can phrase this better). I am not very active on tinder recently, but roughly all 10 girls that I wrote to replied and eventually fixed the date. So, I guess, you don't need to invent anything, just write straight what you want.
Bro dating in Russia is completely different dynamics.
TALL + the dating is much difference in Russia
Встречаемся или месяц переписки?))
@@Nojarocom многие девушки прямо пишут что не любят долгих переписок в профиле. После того как я им пишу так как выше, обычно отвечают, что лучше быстрее встретимся. Некоторые при этом все же пишут что хотят для начала обо мне что-то узнать. Попереписываемся 1-2 дня, потом встречаемся. Ну или не встречаемся, но обычно это потому что выясняется что-то типа что у них есть дети и уже я не вижу смысла встречаться.
@@Nojarocom вообще, мне 36 лет. В этом возрасте уже женщины сами за тобой бегают. Как я написал, я высокий, симпатичный, в неплохой форме (без лишнего веса, спортивный), зарабатываю значительно выше среднего (в профиле это не написано, но видно фотки из разных стран). Единственное что плохо - это что фотки обычные, я специально не фотогрфировался. Говорят, это важно. В результате найти мэтч несложно. 2-3 мэтча за день запросто. Причем они сами часто пишут первыми. Правда, по итогу обычно ничем это не заканчивается. Почти все - это мои ровесницы или на 2-3 года младше. И все какие-то скучные (написаны какие-то интересы, но рассказать нечего) так себе социальные скилы (поддержать разговор, чувство юмора), часто бедные и неухоженные (ну, блин, если идешь уже на свидание как женщина, что нельзя как-то нормально одеться а не приходить в мятой футболке или свитере с катушками? Или голову хотя бы помыть? Ну и, блин, иметь нормальное настроение и иногда улыбаться?). Короче, интереса не вызывают. Такое чувство, что они уже махнули на все рукой и даже на тиндер не надеются. Просто приходят, на 100е свидание, типа, а вдруг что выйдет, но уже с таким вот отчаявшимся настроем. Либо попадаются с детьми, но заранее не предупреждают. Ну или папика ищут, чтобы обеспечил им отдых в обмен на услуги. Значительно реже бывают лет 5-7 моложе. Но тоже пока никто не заинтересовал.
Я это к тому, что несмотря на то что мэтчей много, результатами в Тиндере я недоволен. По моему опыту, девушки значительно более высокого качества попадаются если знакомиться в быту. Например, где-нибудь в пабе или по работе, через общих знакомых. Оказывается, что и девушкам на 10 лет моложе я вполне интересен, при этом сами они, что ли, более содержательные и у нас больше общего по части интересов, чем у случайных знакомых с тиндера. Я вот думал еще фотографии лучше сделать на тиндер, посмотреть м б что изменится. Но уже поздно :)
I have a sangria bar 2 minutes from my apartment. Close rate is borderline 💯. The distance thing is massive
Hey Todd , 26 years old I’m single and is it too late for me to get better?
Yes, you should become a monk.
This guy just gets women.
Love it
You just getting the scraps my man
No! It's just about luck! The right person needs to come at the right time per incident.
I got remotivated to take action again. I don’t know abt your Tinder selection, but mine is so bad. Most the the women seem like they could pass as middle schoolers. I don’t think i ever seen a truly attractive female on Tinder.
I get a few matches yet they NEVER respond
OMG! I'm SO glad I found your videos. I'm recently divorced 60yrs old and online dating is extremely new for me. The common sense you apply is refreshing and like YEAH that make total sense. Do you have any strategy for 50+ in online dating that is different form 30 and under?
I think meeting at an event, bar, store, mall is probably a better chance. Too much money wasted and time in dating apps. Over 50 is not easy, and being in your 20’s up, most just want is a fun, intimate time.
Try local speed dating events and social mixers.
What rock are you under? I've had professional pictures done, and professional writers do my profile, and it made no difference. Don't u understand it's a freak show ? And dating sights charge ridiculous prices.
Way too much effort for finding an date, I rather spend my time on growing my business then on wasting it on my dating profile.
Todd has to be the best current day gentleman helping all of us out…
As a lady who is doing online dating i was a guy to be consistent
What dating sites do you use? And how do you avoid an identify the scam artist?
Sorry, but this sounds like you'll have to create some alter ego persona, that's not even you at all, to fake your way into hooking up with a semi-hot girl, who also happens to be faking her way through this whole process as well.
I'm all for honest self reflection and self improvement, but how about everyone just stop faking and lying and start hanging out in person again?
Internet dating does not make dating easy for men- it makes hookups easy. Hook ups and dating are 2 different things.
Online dating makes the dating part practically impossible. People are addicted to the swipe- even after a great date they will go home and keep swiping. Thats the truth.
there is nothing that u can say or do that will make guys get better in online dating and if there is a improvement in some way... its like 2-5% more and that is like nothing. guys if u read this coment. don t waste ure time with this nonsense
What he's saying is that most guys get 0 results, but the guys at the top get a lot of results, like there is a huge difference, not just slightly more. And I believe that is true, because when I use dating apps in other countries like in Thailand, that's how it goes for me-it's not just slightly more results than America, but it's like crazy abundance. So I think the top guys in America have the same experience of crazy abundance.
My experience is that all of the even remotely attractive ones either never respond or are scammers.
If you live in a small town you're screwed, might as well not even try. I stopped using online dating and it made my life better.
True. I live in a small town in South Africa. I just leave my Tinder account up just in case. But most of the women on the app in my area are on average 2/10s 😬
I heard you DON'T want to pay for the membership with Tinder. According to the source, not paying and not over swiping is what gets you highest in the algorithm. Again, I'm talking Tinder specifically. Other apps my be different.
stupid game either way
you play against the corporation and against most of the women, who are entitled
Tinder is rigged
Pretty good advice. I would concur. But go out and meet people in the real world. You will have way more fun. Unless you like being lonely!!!😮
Yes that’s the truth! You’re better off just shooting your shot in the real world as opposed to hoping a girl will match with you and go on a date with you
9/10 even 10/10 on Instagram respond more than mid girls on Tinder 😂.
what if you’ve done that for 3 years and did all research about, hired 2 photographers. and watched all online dating tips and you have 0 dates in 3 years including just friends. and re did my account 4 times with different professional photos because i was suspecting that my account was shadow banned but nothing.
and also i have decent game since i have success in real life but NOTHING online
you already know the answer. it's because you're ugly, or really short. not trying to be mean here, just saying how it is. dating and especially online dating is extremely hard for ugly or very short guys. sorry bro
7.5 at least or 0 msg
🤔Better going to places, events, bars, malls then wasting money and time in an app! It’s stressful🙄!
Hi Todd, i think that you are a little bit wrong, a girl is not attracted to YOU on a first date, but she is attracted to the FANTASY she has of you
Great advice on photos
be in love and be romantic. feelings over logic
Get a good haircut. Me with no hair.
When I match with a girl, you'd be surprised how often they reply to "Thanks for the match, when are you online so we can message?"
No wonder im single dating profiles is fucking complicated
Problem is I dont drink alcohol. Coffee?
Make a vid with ww
Agree with most of this material. Don't agree that women are necessarily choosing a particular man from a dating sight because they like him. Just pragmatic reality here. There are plenty of women out there who will be willing to endure the brief company of a man just to get something in return for free. This is especially true in the modern age of feminism. Also, dating apps, for whatever claims are made for or against them, probably have a rate of "success" that is on par with any other method . In some ways they are a better method because you have a certain level of pre-screening the prospective date before you ever have to be in the same space with them. Also, getting "rejected" by someone online is definitely less stressful than getting rejected in-person and save time, money and effort.
This is why I don't put too much bio info on my page. Don't judge me right off the bat because of what I have on my profile, get to actually feel my vibe and the energy I give off in person first. My bio literally says "Just gotta come find out" it leaves a mysteriousness and also vets out the one's who are curious and wants to see where things go and the one's who are just there for attention and waste your time.
it sucks for 95% of guys bc 5% of guys are chads. it is the greatest invention ever: for chads. if u not chad... and u get a date... don't blow it!
see the movie "A Few Good Men". pay most attention to: you can't handle the truth