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  • When a patient asks Dr Halstead to let him die. The situations becomes a case of ethics when Dr.Halstead finds that his patient is a pedophile.
    Season 3 Episode 12 "Born This Way"
    Dr. Manning and Dr. Choi travel to a homeless camp to deliver the baby of one of the teenage residents who refuses to deliver at a hospital. Meanwhile, Dr. Halstead and April are dealt an uncomfortable situation when they discover that their patient is a pedophile. Dr. Rhodes and Dr. Bekkar’s personal and professional relationships clash while treating a patient with a chronic disease.
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  • @akowish
    @akowish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7271

    Him: I've made it 56 years-
    Me: happy? satisfied? depressed?
    Him: -without molesting a child.
    Me: a h .

    • @arieldiakonikolh8258
      @arieldiakonikolh8258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      IKR SAME

    • @arieldiakonikolh8258
      @arieldiakonikolh8258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      LIKE-

    • @arieldiakonikolh8258
      @arieldiakonikolh8258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      wOt

    • @wschippr1
      @wschippr1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +216

      wake up
      He didn’t do anything to any child. That’s the point of the story, he made it 56 years without hurting a child.

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      @@wakeup608 did you even watch the video? He said he spent 56 years battling his desires and never touched a child ever.

  • @stxddart9996
    @stxddart9996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4137

    *Him: I’ve made it 56 years-*
    _Me: that’s amaz-_
    *Him: Without molesting a child*
    _Me:_ 👁👄👁

  • @eimearkeaveney1192
    @eimearkeaveney1192 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3745

    “I have an itch every second of every day. To scratch it would feel so good, but I don’t. Ever. Not scratching that itch is the worst hell that I can imagine. Cancer is going to get me out of that hell. It isn’t another challenge - cancer is my reward.”
    *Chills.*

    • @goodtimeswithgrian5542
      @goodtimeswithgrian5542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Deep just deep that’s all I am going to say

    • @cjeam9199
      @cjeam9199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      I wonder how much the writers read about paedophilia to write lines like that.

    • @laciegoodwin9757
      @laciegoodwin9757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg look at our names

    • @TobyBanci
      @TobyBanci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      niamhee 1500th like

    • @eunicefrancynnatividad1677
      @eunicefrancynnatividad1677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so he was doing the thing on children??... im innocent just asking...

  • @pethychielagura4512
    @pethychielagura4512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1654

    Her: why are fighting so hard for this guy?
    Will: because its not my job to judge him.

    • @truebornseeker9767
      @truebornseeker9767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      It’s not judgement, it’s respecting patient wishes... he’s competent, rational and above the age of 18, therefore he can legally refuse treatment, and I respect this (sure, fictional) patient for what he did... he resisted impossible urges his entire life, and was done fighting... if anything that’s the most competent and rational thing ever

    • @fxbyte6085
      @fxbyte6085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@truebornseeker9767 I fully agree with that

    • @oqh1xl1sm56
      @oqh1xl1sm56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏for Mr Halstead 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @HilaryCocciola
      @HilaryCocciola 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Truebornseeker treatments and life saving procedures are two different things. Doctors are obliged to perform PCR. Once the person is stable, if he needs a surgery or a long term treatment, he can refuse it.
      You don’t let a person who tried to commit suicide, die by doing nothing even if dying is what that person wants

    • @Jay-ux3rl
      @Jay-ux3rl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes we did see the clip! x

  • @Hassan34563
    @Hassan34563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4682

    he’s a good man he resisted the urges of acting on his thoughts being a pedophile key word here didn’t act on his thoughts for a whole 56 years

    • @skatercreavey8209
      @skatercreavey8209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Nah that's not how shit works

    • @kierstanfaulks
      @kierstanfaulks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +412

      @@skatercreavey8209 ofcourse it is. He's born with that sexual attraction which he knew would have been wrong to act upon so he didn't. He's a really good person for that.

    • @ollycruickshank85
      @ollycruickshank85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Kiersto0906 it isn’t how shit works it’s fuckin wrong they deserve to fuckin die because you would want to kill one if they were doin it to family it’s fuckin disgustin

    • @ollycruickshank85
      @ollycruickshank85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Jasmin97 disgusting how you think it is alright to be a fuckin paedo ye kill the fuckin lot of em it would make a better place? Why do you think when they go inside most die cuz everyone hates em.

    • @ollycruickshank85
      @ollycruickshank85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Jasmin97 and also you were thinking of killing another by wanting to kill me hypocrite

  • @KissMyFatAxe
    @KissMyFatAxe ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Reminds me of what I heard someone say some years ago. "All child molesters are pedophiles, but not all pedophiles are child molesters". Some are just very troubled souls with sick thoughts, and they despise the whole thing just as much as everyone else does.

    • @RobCod2012
      @RobCod2012 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      May or may not be me. I’m a good person, but I fkn hate myself

    • @klauds6375
      @klauds6375 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@RobCod2012 Im sorry to hear that man. I hope the societal stigma disappears and real research is done to help people with it. I believe with proper therapy and possibly medications the disorder could be reduced, I just wish more people could see it that way.
      I would like to add that it could be OCD or intrusive thoughts, idk if your comments is meant to sound as if you are uncertain on whether you have it or just trying to subtly elude to it. Either way, I hope the best for you.

    • @zacharytaylor190
      @zacharytaylor190 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There are some child molesters that aren't pedophiles. They are rare, but some do it out of spite, or just because that is "how they do it"

    • @kydiasan21
      @kydiasan21 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is honestly the most terrifying part of this comment.

    • @Lilymaus3434
      @Lilymaus3434 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not every child molester is a pedophile.

  • @michellel9595
    @michellel9595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +639

    Coming from someone who was molested as a child, I think he was an honourable character. He resisted even though the temptation was THAT strong. He struggled and suffered with what I believe was his own mental illness. His wish to die was his punishment to himself. And it was granted. You don't always get the decent ones who know right and wrong and don't inflict pain for their own gain.

    • @kinagrill
      @kinagrill ปีที่แล้ว +38

      That's right, the difference is exactly that he hasn't DONE anything to any child. He knows what he desires is WRONG and has fought that desire from day one.

  • @autywilson-tomai268
    @autywilson-tomai268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3587

    i understand that doctors are just following through but honestly if the patient wants to end it all, they are fully aware of their decision and thought through this, I’d say respect their choices.

    • @anam4484
      @anam4484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Euthanasia is illegal

    • @autywilson-tomai268
      @autywilson-tomai268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Ana M I’ve acknowledged that but that’s in most states in America. I believe that it shouldn’t be illegal as long as the patient is stable and fully capable enough to understand the process of that stage then it should still follow through the process.
      We also have to remember that most of these patients are in pain and can no longer bare it anymore. It’s sad but if that’s what they want, they should be respected for their own choices in life.

    • @naznimation
      @naznimation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Ana M Something being illegal doesn’t make it ethically wrong. For some people life is pain. Physically or mentally or emotionally. And while we should be able to cure that, that’s not always the case. We say people who commit suicide are ‘selfish’ because they don’t think of who they harm in the process. But Isn’t it even more selfish to keep someone alive for your own benefit when they’re clearly in pain?

    • @scarlettd.1715
      @scarlettd.1715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The thing is some patients are emotionally/mentally unstable to make those choices (depression, suicidal thoughts) and there been cases where people have hurt themselves or tried to die and survived and ended up regretting it. So it's a very complicated situation...

    • @lol-ro2kl
      @lol-ro2kl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      suicide watch

  • @selenan4140
    @selenan4140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    "Cancer is my reward" that's some sad shit man.

  • @clairephillips3188
    @clairephillips3188 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1551

    Gosh dang that took a turn real quick

    • @xavierb2589
      @xavierb2589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yep that went wrong real quick

    • @spimentel562
      @spimentel562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cant wait that long. Another segment is to be aired.

    • @gailharthill6552
      @gailharthill6552 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep that was unexpected

  • @gracesmith4604
    @gracesmith4604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    This man had what’s diagnosed as Paraphilia. Most of my clients with this sexual disorder resist their urges and are actually afraid of putting themselves in positions in which they may be exposed to the subjects of their arousal. Poor man, it is excruciating to live with such a disorder but very brave to resist its temptations.

    • @cbon3442
      @cbon3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Did you ever work with anyone suffering from OCD and sexual intrusive thoughts?

    • @sianlawson-blake3109
      @sianlawson-blake3109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello. Could you work with someone with Erotophobia?

  • @cloeyay
    @cloeyay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +869

    I respect doctors so much they make so many difficult decisions everyday

    • @AA-hs4rk
      @AA-hs4rk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Julie Duong You haven’t worked in the hospital before have you?🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @AA-hs4rk
      @AA-hs4rk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Julie Duong then you shouldn’t have generalized, this is an emergency room and they are ER doctors, doctors are on their toes doing physical work just as much as the nurses in emergency rooms, along with that, they have to make the medical decisions. I’m tired of people feeling the need to discredit what doctors do just because they are attempting to uplift nurses. just appreciate the nurses and leave the doctors alone. That’s my point.

    • @Andrew-kh7rz
      @Andrew-kh7rz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeuwelly3075 what about researchers that find cures for everything is there to be found?

  • @casey5347
    @casey5347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +812

    In a way I kinda feel bad for him. Like and their are others like him in the world that know how disgusting and wrong it is but resist it all their lives. Imagine how hard that is.

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      He was born this way and still he didn't take that as a pass to do what he wants, instead, he suffered for 56 years, batteling his urges... such a brave man.

    • @chrissie627
      @chrissie627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @I mug i think they usually use things along the lines of hormones since the sexual urges are the problem

    • @phloxy_fox96528
      @phloxy_fox96528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @I mug Technically, there are brain surgeries, yes. However, due to our current medical advancement (or in this context, lack of), it's not possible to /just/ cancel out the hormonal center to lose any kind of attraction. You would also damage a lot of other hormonal balances in your body that you need to... e.g. produce endormorphines or even melatonin which could result in him becoming a severely depressed person unable to feel happiness naturally for the rest of his life or rob him of restful sleep for the rest of his life.
      But it's good thinking and hopefully - especially for the sake of people being born with this mental condition - it will be a possibility in the future. To have these urges and knowing that they are wrong... I feel sorry for them.

    • @sarajane1719
      @sarajane1719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      People fight their demons every day nothing special dont try and normalize it

    • @nafiamaliat5043
      @nafiamaliat5043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I scream I believe it’s more to do with hormones, there’s this thing called a Chemical Castration. Chicago Med has a video on it, you could check it out.

  • @glow15
    @glow15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    I know he's technically a movie character but rest in peace man. I can't imagine how it must've been for him all those year. To not act on his impulses, it takes a lot of discipline and bravery.

  • @jovanavojnovska8624
    @jovanavojnovska8624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    Ok I DID NOT see that coming

    • @gailharthill6552
      @gailharthill6552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      JoJo 7 same

    • @minluna6007
      @minluna6007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Izzah Moazzam Dar that

    • @farisa.kareem3857
      @farisa.kareem3857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You didn't see him "coming" coz he controlled his itch for years

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@farisa.kareem3857 i mean, it is a good dark humor joke, but i don't think this is the right moment fo this, lmao

    • @jovanavojnovska8624
      @jovanavojnovska8624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@farisa.kareem3857 good one lol

  • @meganross7664
    @meganross7664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1564

    Anyone else binge watching Chicago med?

  • @umdabasnet3159
    @umdabasnet3159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    If all people/pedophiles/sexually frustrated people were like this, imagine how the world would be.

    • @himanshutiwari5390
      @himanshutiwari5390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If all people were like this, then imagine how the world would be

    • @dudeno5811
      @dudeno5811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @dianna k bruh do your research, back then it was normal. Besides, close minded much? Not to mention Islamophobic.

    • @takobells2925
      @takobells2925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @dianna k yo man. I don't care if ur against Islam or whatever crap, but that's just plain rude -_-

    • @takobells2925
      @takobells2925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @dianna k 🤦🏻‍♀️ do you have no common sense omg I MEANT SAYING ISLAM IS A FRKING DISEASE DO I NEED TO HIGHLIGHT IT FOR YOU. look I'm not supporting or against Islam but saying that it is a disease is just rude okay.

    • @s0ftbby346
      @s0ftbby346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maleehah Muhammad why cause they’re right?

  • @SezArrow
    @SezArrow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I nursed my elderly mother through rampant cancer, she just wanted to go, but the ridiculous laws that deny people the right to choose to die meant she had to suffer.

    • @am5783
      @am5783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This. I did psych nursing at uni and id met many patients with horrific illnesses, including dementia. This lady when she had capacity had expressed wishes for her death when the dementia is so far gone but because of the laws she couldnt pass beforehand or afterwards. She couldnt use the loo, had a bedpan. She couldnt speak. She couldnt enjoy anything. She was nearing the end of life when i met her and it was so sad to see that (in the nurses who'd known her for years words) she had lost her dignity and everything that made her her and was just existing because she had to. Very sad indeed. My deepest condolences to you, kind stranger.

  • @eligil4629
    @eligil4629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I respect this man. To defy an urge that is physically hardwired into your brain must take extreme amounts of willpower. In the end he was a good man.

  • @rosewashere23
    @rosewashere23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    My face when he said why he wants to die:
    *👁👄👁*
    Well that went well

    • @catlover4486
      @catlover4486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rose Berry I want to also

    • @darthyoda8170
      @darthyoda8170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@catlover4486 wow wow wow,ik it is a year but ask for help

  • @Rayle75
    @Rayle75 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    As someone who has been attacked... I have nothing but sympathy for those cursed by cruel fate with this disease, and I want nothing more than for them to get all the help and care in the world they need. Now that all goes out the window the moment they hurt someone, but until that time, they deserve help and should be treated like any other patient suffering a neurological disease.

    • @Lemontarts01
      @Lemontarts01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly.
      I cast no judgment on these poor people, but those who are raised FEELING there is something wrong with them and KNOWING what their attracted to is wrong and still do it.
      I have no sympathy. Instead of getting your rocks off go get embarassed ONE time and MAYBE get help.
      Vs being humiliated and vilified for people to see and then promptly get ***** in prison to death often times
      Edit: Also i am so very sorry you had to experience what you did. I mean this in absolute no "i take pity" on you way. I truly just wish it hadn't happened to you and it is beyond evil that it did.
      I hope life has treated you kind and that your future looks ever so bright.

    • @ayolovephat
      @ayolovephat ปีที่แล้ว

      Except it's not a neurological disease, but a spiritual and psychological one.

    • @Rayle75
      @Rayle75 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ayolovephat I am afraid that is simply incorrect. If spirituality helps, then that is great, but there are physical symptoms that go along with this disorder, chemical changes in the brain that create this affliction. This isn't an illness than most can simply wish away.

    • @Yoiyejsjwjanbsej
      @Yoiyejsjwjanbsej 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ayolovephat psychological diseases are still diseases. Its still an illness, depression is an illness, anxiety is an illness and pedophilia is an illness, and theyre all psychological. Still deserving of treatment

  • @murderousashes9690
    @murderousashes9690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Man, this made my eyes water. That was really sad. He had so much more life to live. But at least he died holding someone who cares hand as he passed away.

  • @luluncube2620
    @luluncube2620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    I’m ready to die
    Me: jesusssssss Christ ima live

  • @ravenclawgal3104
    @ravenclawgal3104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Is nobody gonna talk about how April just stands there and gives the exact same look to Halstead every single time 😂😂

    • @anndeneka9305
      @anndeneka9305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because that’s what you can do when you’re a pretty actress, you so don’t have to try hard all you do is look. I love Maggie, she has more character and you can almost read her emotions.

    • @anndeneka9305
      @anndeneka9305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The scary thing watching this video is wondering how many ‘April ‘ nurses work in hospitals all over the world. I pray I never have an ‘April’ nurse me in my life. But did come close once being asking about my religion. I love Dr. Halstead “ we’re not here to judge “.

    • @afm398
      @afm398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anndeneka9305 we are here to respect the patients decision if the patient doesnt want treatement our job is to respect that and as the nurse her job is to advocate for what the patient wants not what the doctor wants so he can fall asleep at night

  • @spudd5832
    @spudd5832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This man is very respectable, he hasn’t done those things for 56 years and he realises it’s wrong, I feel bad for him because he can’t help it.

    • @DiamondAviator4
      @DiamondAviator4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why couldn’t they let him go?

    • @gore0802
      @gore0802 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@DiamondAviator4 Because in ethics there is no right or wrong. There are opinions and it only matters how well you justify yours. The doctor (Halstead) obviously felt conflicted about letting that man die. He says that it's not his job to judge people, his job is to treat people regardless of their gender, race, sexual orientation etc. Watching someone die when you know for a fact that you could treat them is one of the hardest things to go through as a health care worker.

  • @gloriali2578
    @gloriali2578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The courage and bravery of this man should be applauded. H really chose cancer over his urges. That alone should be enough to show how good of a man he really is.

  • @dal7667
    @dal7667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    He’s a good person. He can’t control his thoughts, but he resisted his urges and didn’t act on his bad thoughts.

  • @Jiwoonq
    @Jiwoonq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +715

    If he wants to die and he is aware of his decision than just let him go....
    Edit: I wasn't trying to cause any problems sorry if I offended you but thanks for the likes :3

    • @rosanirodrigues557
      @rosanirodrigues557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Fairy Floss :P
      It’s not that Simple.

    • @SjofnBM1989
      @SjofnBM1989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@rosanirodrigues557 I mean no it's not. Unless they can prove he's mentally incompetent if he's refusing treatment they can't force him

    • @BatmanAOMC
      @BatmanAOMC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Suicidal people are also aware of their decision but it's a decision based on pain, anger, hopelessness. Is it really a decision when it's conditioned by emotions and not reason?

    • @yagurl1487
      @yagurl1487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Suiside is never the right choise, that simple

    • @gracecalis5421
      @gracecalis5421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@BatmanAOMC Emotions are just as much of a factor in one's decision making as logic; we're humans. The fairest thing to do would be to judge it solely on a case by case basis. If an old man no longer wants cancer treatment and he's perfectly lucid, then let him be.

  • @josephjoe5762
    @josephjoe5762 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "What is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?"

  • @ab17364
    @ab17364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    56 years of one thing on your mind that you can't make go away and never acting on it...that takes so much strength and effort...i can't imagine how mentally exhausted he is

  • @taradolka5338
    @taradolka5338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    "I think the best thing i can do is put a pillow over his head." Lmao thats such a good line!

    • @taradolka5338
      @taradolka5338 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it's deep and simple at the same time

    • @jackforde4883
      @jackforde4883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Regardless of this mans determination to not act on his urges, I couldn’t agree with Dr Abrams more

    • @tammymcinerney7153
      @tammymcinerney7153 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackforde4883 Was Dr Abrams talking abt the pedophile or Dr Reese’s father, Robert Haywood?

  • @beccablueeyes99
    @beccablueeyes99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    While I admire Will's compassion, the fact that he dismisses every opinion that he doesn't share is annoying and selfish. I do like how he was there for him and held his hand at the end though.
    I also understand that hearing the term pedophile makes you think of a monster, but I didn't feel like that with this man. It's the ones that act on it that should suffer. The strength this guy had to hold himself back because he knew it was wrong is admirable. Not saying he his a hero or anything, just that he did the right thing and should get a pat on the back.

    • @StealthMode3924
      @StealthMode3924 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s true. I’ve worked as an RN for the last few years, and I’ve worked alongside patients with psychiatric disorders as well, what people don’t understand is that pedophilia is an affliction, whereas child molestation is a crime.

    • @gore0802
      @gore0802 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well there is no "right: or "wrong" in ethics. Only opinions and it matters how we justify them. Halstead seemed conflicted about letting that man die. As a health care worker myself, i feel for him in that situation. It's hard letting people go, watching them die. Especially when you know for a fact that there are treatments available.

  • @moiradeguia3151
    @moiradeguia3151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "it is not my job to judge him" that made my heart melt :((

  • @pumpkingunw5234
    @pumpkingunw5234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "What is better - to be born good, or overcome your evil nature with great effort?" - Paarthurnax

  • @lolamaria560
    @lolamaria560 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    April looks like she is anime, she is so pretty

  • @isaac592
    @isaac592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Yes I love Doctor Manning and Doctor Charles! Dreamteam is

  • @notti2309
    @notti2309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He fights THE thoughts, and knows theyre not good. Respect.

  • @LVBIBZVL
    @LVBIBZVL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Imagine being an astronaut and once you go for a spacewalk, your nose starts to itch... The ting is that you can't remove the helmet to scratch and you know you will be out there for 56 years. Now this is Spooky As Heck.

    • @bakugo9806
      @bakugo9806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What you bout rolling down in the deep

  • @lizzyforsdyke3833
    @lizzyforsdyke3833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I respect both Dr. Halsted and the patient in this.... it's hard to make these decisions and they both did.

  • @lem09able
    @lem09able 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I truly do believe that a person is entitled to an honorable and dignified exit in life. Provided that he is of sound mind and a psych has taken a look on him. The decision should ultimately be his.

  • @lilah6106
    @lilah6106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’m sorry but it’s his choice to refuse treatment. I understand he can’t ask to die but he can refuse treatment

  • @newaa3483
    @newaa3483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Him: *I've made it 56 years-*
    Me: What a fighter! (Thought he was talking about a medical issue)
    Him: *Without molesting a child*
    Me: O H.

  • @scrawnymaniac7126
    @scrawnymaniac7126 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I respect this man for wanting to die because of what he has resisted doing for 56 years. It's a horrible thing and I'm glad that he hates it and thinks it's wrong. Say what you will, but he's brave and strong.

  • @katieleahy7968
    @katieleahy7968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I was expecting a 'my wife/husband is gone and i want to see them' or 'i dont have any kids to live for' and then just....m

  • @gloriamcinerney7383
    @gloriamcinerney7383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Many people struggle with these sorts of thoughts, they think the best way to stop those urges, and keep everyone around them safe, is to end it all. Many struggle in silence about this because there's so much stigma around it, yet, it's just thoughts and urges, they don't act on. And we need to expand to more studies in this field because it could stop so many others from acting on those urges.

  • @farinshore8900
    @farinshore8900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Kudos to the patient for living and dying with integrity. Shame on some of the doctors for not knowing what it is they are dealing with. Dr Charles got it right

  • @shanicephillips9170
    @shanicephillips9170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    What part of no does he not understand. If the man wants to die let him

    • @celinee.9562
      @celinee.9562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The video clip is very good, me think. It shows the ambivalence and the complicated switch not easy to do for a doctor, it's not '' switch on, switch off " !!!
      I agree with you. But it's still disturbing to many humans. Sometimes, acceptance of illness and death is such a victory for the person that is sick. It's a gut feeling. And it is a proof of existential intelligence. Just as following a treatment can be !

    • @amberruth4164
      @amberruth4164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So if someone want's to commit suicide your just gonna let them?

    • @pippapapillon9327
      @pippapapillon9327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am from a country where Euthanasia has been legal for years. I honestly don't even know any better. Just like with abortion and gay marriage, we have always been at the forefront of these issues.
      I think I speak for most people in my country when I say that Euthanasia is a version of freedom of choice. You have to understand, we are a medically advanced country where everything is insured (still sorry about that America) and we are aging too much. We have too many old people to provide for our economy. So from a purely economical view point, Euthanasia is also a way to help our numbers.
      Than we have the ethical issue. Euthanasia is NOT like suicide. Suicide implies that life can definitely get better. That you feel hopeless, but are not in a necessarily hopeless situation. Euthanasia is only for the hopeless cases. For people who will never get better and who want to die on their own terms. It is seen as strength, bravery.
      I understand many countries and people find this difficult but quite like abortion and gay marriage to us it seems like a human right, more than an issue to be discussed.

    • @hiimdanii
      @hiimdanii 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, but in america it is their legal obligation to help them live, if thry let him die when they see him as mentally incompetant in his judgement or depressed its a crime. The fact he let him die was a crime, but an ethical one. Hope this helps :)

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's not that easy when your job is to save people

  • @StealthMode3924
    @StealthMode3924 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I strongly disagree with keeping someone alive against their will when they are declared legally competent to make that choice.

  • @mbasador35
    @mbasador35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have so much respect for someone who knows they have a problem and gets help before they do something horrible. I hope it becomes more common for these people to be able to access help before they hurt a child

  • @chickennuggettheories3524
    @chickennuggettheories3524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    They didn’t take any notice that he had blood on his hospital gown and mouth

    • @monty8029
      @monty8029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      "Fine, as soon as he's cleaned up"
      I think they did

  • @happysigns
    @happysigns 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love how Will comfortingly held his hand. That action alone spoke volumes. It was like him saying, “I’m right here. It’s okay. I’m gonna stand by you, and help you through this, even though there’s nothing I can do.”

  • @islaxoxo9135
    @islaxoxo9135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The beeping noise sounds like my microwave

  • @magiczebreroblox1273
    @magiczebreroblox1273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    APiAl:just let him die
    WiLl:no he is our patient and I’m not letting him die
    Dr ReEse listening to doctor Charles so he’s trying to die??

  • @Vengeful-MC
    @Vengeful-MC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When the doctor dropped his tool while the old man is looking made me so sad, and when i hear the heart rate just dropped to 0%
    Every human being deserves a 2nd chance, 🙁🙁

  • @kavyat.5614
    @kavyat.5614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    he didnt act on his thoughts, 56 YEARS.
    he in a way, sacrificed himself instead of being selfish cause he knew it was wrong even if it was a pain for him to control himself.
    he chose not to be a bad person, he kept it in himself.
    he shouldnt be thought of the way other pedos should be.
    also i know halsted shouldve respected his choice in the first place but i also know he hates loss when his job is to save so i wouldnt critisize him for it.

  • @dudeno5811
    @dudeno5811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "it won't be long."
    My fucking heart-

  • @TheAdministrator-
    @TheAdministrator- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    8:56 When he said the time of death and looked at April like that really hit hard, the poor man was asking for death and it finally arrived..

  • @DxrbyMxcklxxvxr
    @DxrbyMxcklxxvxr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loving this show.

  • @BeccaBee20
    @BeccaBee20 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People like this can't ask for help without being instantly demonised. That needs to change. It could protect so many people.

  • @TKSTAR_
    @TKSTAR_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    6:23 me when my alarm goes off in the morning

  • @cardiganbackyardigan6685
    @cardiganbackyardigan6685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I mean fair play to the guy admitting he has a problem but also hasn't acted on it.

  • @langellabalili5349
    @langellabalili5349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Does he not know that patients have the right to refuse treatment ? Has he ever heard of palliative care? Wtf is wrong with this hospital? No palliative team?

  • @sylvie_brett7609
    @sylvie_brett7609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love how he speaks its soo clear its just soo satisfying

  • @duh938
    @duh938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the biggest uno reverses ever

  • @victoriazed6679
    @victoriazed6679 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thats the way it should be . IF a person wants to end his/her/their life- It should be respected.

  • @roseclark1685
    @roseclark1685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sometimes feelings aren't a choice, but your actions always are. I respect anyone who chooses to do what is right.

  • @stingray2335
    @stingray2335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know its a show but, I am crying so much rn. This is so sad! Imagine how he has to live like that

  • @Mindsetmotivation6453
    @Mindsetmotivation6453 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    April should not be a nurse. She does not care at all about the patient. Only herself and here belief’s

  • @wuraolaolagunju
    @wuraolaolagunju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Him: "I've made it 56 years...
    Me: Awww, that's understa-
    Him: "Without molesting a child
    Me: "Spoke too damn soon"😑

    • @jameswolf3302
      @jameswolf3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      but it's a good thing he resisted the urges

    • @guardianofthegalaxy2051
      @guardianofthegalaxy2051 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of people made it 56 years or more AND molested a child unfortunately🤢

  • @sonarikasen3328
    @sonarikasen3328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When Will said 'It wont't be long" ah man. I felt bad and sympathetic

  • @jenellescustomcakes3132
    @jenellescustomcakes3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m crying right now he was so nice and it was sad when he died

  • @karmen.9182
    @karmen.9182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    CHICAGO MED AND FIRE NEED TO GO ON NETFLIX😤

  • @chlobear1030
    @chlobear1030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I respect him for admitting it and knowing it’s wrong

  • @taylorvlogs6310
    @taylorvlogs6310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The acting bis so real, i thought they were real doctors ngl

  • @seanmorrison1579
    @seanmorrison1579 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These shows r amazing

  • @Areyouserious1
    @Areyouserious1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    "I've made it 56 years without molesting a child"
    Plot Twist: He's 80 right now.

  • @nursabrina8397
    @nursabrina8397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    4:42 dr Abrams have no filterr 🤣🤣 he's my favorite

  • @cvsmixsunflxwer8604
    @cvsmixsunflxwer8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love that neurosurgeon(?) he's so nonchalant it's hilarious

  • @justyouraveragebrit9090
    @justyouraveragebrit9090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Been out for 5 min and people commented 11 minutes ago TH-cam are you high again

  • @mannanali5481
    @mannanali5481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The itch example is a 10/10

  • @tasnimeahmad5136
    @tasnimeahmad5136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love all shows

  • @nidhilad2768
    @nidhilad2768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was not expecting that. shook.

  • @devayanideshmukh27
    @devayanideshmukh27 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I wach almost every episode,and I love it

  • @idontreadorreply
    @idontreadorreply ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not all pedophiles are bad

    • @DiamondAviator4
      @DiamondAviator4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True, on The good doctor, a dude named George was desperate to not harm anyone.

  • @jackbullandothers3322
    @jackbullandothers3322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is something that in my country (netherlands) is allowed, but not easy. The patient must be complete aware, 100% certain, and sign... something. And a bunch of other legal stuff, only then is a doctor allowed to inject a lethal injection.

  • @rec.g673
    @rec.g673 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think this goes to show that people aren't good based on their thoughts, but their actions. This poor man was stricken with horrible thoughts that he was clearly disgusted by, and even though all of his mind was urging him to act on them he never did. I'm not saying he's necessarily a good man, but one worthy of respect.

  • @vanessav65
    @vanessav65 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's wrong, no one can tell you that you can't die. If he wants to die, it doesn't matter if he is a pedophile or not. Each person has the right to decide if they want to end their life.

  • @mamamia_144
    @mamamia_144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    If this would be in the Philippines.
    Patient: I want to live
    Dr: ok
    Patient: I don’t have money
    Dr: oh! You want to die?! Sure no problem.
    When Ive first seen a situation where a guy was admitted to govt hospital because he is literally dying but don’t have any money to pay. The hospital just waited for him to die in-front of the cashier. 😔

  • @sadeenabuzaid4569
    @sadeenabuzaid4569 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why did this made me cry 😢

  • @chillbeats9771
    @chillbeats9771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To the people who have
    Covid 19
    Cancer
    Deseasses
    Sickness
    bone got broken
    Lost a loved person
    Lost a friend
    Lost there family
    Been kidnapped
    Been stolen money like my mom lost 30k money
    You are never alone you are and you have a special body that is made of a special matirial called LOVE and god is here to help you when ever where ever and ALWAYS remember who you are😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yangtzeling7468
    @yangtzeling7468 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Doctors with compassion are the best doctors

  • @cxffaye
    @cxffaye 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode made me cry so much

  • @khyceehetharagones339
    @khyceehetharagones339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My anxiety level kicks in when these doctors don’t usually wear masks.

  • @erynlorne901
    @erynlorne901 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    “i’ve made it 56 years without molesting a child”
    i said: 😶🤭

  • @venlas
    @venlas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve never been this early for a Chicago med clip

  • @aiah195
    @aiah195 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Started watching last night and i cant stop.... Heeelp!

  • @ThePrincessCH
    @ThePrincessCH 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If he wanted to die, how did he end up in a hospital?

    • @dr.2343
      @dr.2343 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because his cancer got really bad

  • @cloudstone123
    @cloudstone123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The logic of this always escapes me. Being obsessed with keeping a person alive against their will no matter the circumstance. I can understand some circumstances but someone who knows they are going to die, or someone who knows they present a danger to themselves and others, and all we can think about is forcing them to remain alive against their will.

  • @onevaim5373
    @onevaim5373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was soo sad too watch. He could only die to heal ….

  • @funsieswithadhd8102
    @funsieswithadhd8102 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WHY AM I CRYINGGGGGGGG IVE SEEN THIS SO MANY TIMES!?!?!?!?!?!