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  • @hennahintsanen8586
    @hennahintsanen8586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6479

    i like that this dude actually Wanted to get help for himself and it was his wife who was hesitant and trying to deny it. i’ve often seen it be the other way around

    • @brettknoss486
      @brettknoss486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      I can see that. What I don't get is why there is controversy if he voluntarily commits.

    • @wertin200
      @wertin200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@brettknoss486 Because see wants here husband to be their.

    • @alex73217
      @alex73217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      And then there's another doctor indulging the wife in going against the husband's wishes.... If somebody want to be admitted they should be allowed to, espiacially in cases like this where there is a chance that they might hurt themselves or someone else. Even if the chance is tiny it shouldn't be disregarded.

    • @MelM911
      @MelM911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maybe it’s because she was in denial and she didn’t want to be alone during the pregnancy

    • @Lilpeepkinn
      @Lilpeepkinn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Alex Krause everyone is allowed to be committed, if ofcourse there’s a high chance of them hurting themselves or others. Otherwise specialists will talk to you and try to come up with a solid plan for how to get through the day/ night and if needed increase outpatient therapy. If the plan can’t be made solid for instance when you live alone and there’s no possibility of someone else that can be nearby, they will also admit a patient

  • @jesscheung7687
    @jesscheung7687 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2692

    She used the right approach WAY too early, she should have taken more time to get to know the patient's condition, he literally could have killed her

    • @rhiannonh7583
      @rhiannonh7583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Yeah, it probably was too early- but OCD intrusive thoughts is very easy to detect if you have experience in it- she clearly recognised his condition instantly.

    • @bethanytummillo5183
      @bethanytummillo5183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      She recognized the behaviour immediately and wanted her patient to recover.

    • @wholesomekeanureeves9466
      @wholesomekeanureeves9466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Its more of an obsessive disorder in my humble opinion rather than psychosis or schitzophrinia

    • @jeremya.9709
      @jeremya.9709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ofc it's good to double-check but you can usually see OCD right away
      .
      I have OCD AND some anger issues and intrusive thoughts that you MIGHT hurt someone are really feel and look different from when you WANT to hurt someone.
      The problem here is that I would freak out if I open my eyes and there's a knife -_-
      It's better to discuss those things with your patient BEFOREHAND.

    • @luca8154
      @luca8154 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s fake

  • @CorneliusHDybdahl
    @CorneliusHDybdahl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3728

    Having him confront the thought while alone in a room with her was a good move. Actually giving him the means to seriously harm her in a second was a very stupid idea.

    • @jameswebb2759
      @jameswebb2759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +245

      Yeah.
      This man was having very clear and powerful thoughts on slaughtering his wife. Dr Reese decides "fuck it, I'll lock myself in a room with a potential murderer and hand him a knife, because absolutely nothing could go wrong in this gem of a plan"

    • @adenineful
      @adenineful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Cornelius Dybdahl It really wasn't, people with OCD will never act on their fears, it's the whole point of the disease, it lies to you, this is actually a very common technique used by psychotherapists

    • @adenineful
      @adenineful 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      She would obviously need to be completely certain of her diagnosis though

    • @80sfangirly
      @80sfangirly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you all are idiots, that’s the technique to get the doctors to understand there exact thoughts, so if he was supposed to hurt her she would’ve have protection trust me, he just need to be by him self so that he could really get out his thoughts.

    • @CorneliusHDybdahl
      @CorneliusHDybdahl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@80sfangirly No, that could likely be accomplished without actually giving him the means to kill her, or at least be made less wildly unsafe by giving him only the means to kill her slowly in time for intervention as opposed to instantly - not to mention that the whole reason Dr. Charles chewed her out was that her setup was unsafe, thus validating the premise of my comment on it.
      You should not rush to assuming people are idiots.

  • @arialoveup
    @arialoveup 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3731

    The fact that she is trusting him. Gives him more trust in his self to actually not do it.
    Omg.

  • @amcliaa
    @amcliaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9308

    there should be a chicago psych or something. i find the psych clips with dr charles interesting

    • @Jess_slay005
      @Jess_slay005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Omg yasss

    • @auroradreamer6581
      @auroradreamer6581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      OML yessssss

    • @grandmastergyorogyoro532
      @grandmastergyorogyoro532 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      A dedicated psych part of Chicago meds.
      WoW!

    • @maddygrabham136
      @maddygrabham136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Failed Abortion same it’s so interesting

    • @mia2801
      @mia2801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Same, I love psychology so This is so interesting to me

  • @LordFlack0
    @LordFlack0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4499

    I agree with doctor Charles. True that Reese was right in the end but she was too eager to try her methods. The problem isn't just that she put herself and the patient in danger. She was thinking of herself and a way to proove she was right. She was no longer thinking about the patients well being in that momment.

    • @avaross4948
      @avaross4948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Bro your smart

    • @isobel6739
      @isobel6739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      Yes, and she didn't get any consent from the patient

    • @kim2823
      @kim2823 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      I was just thinking... right ok so she said pretend I'm your wife... Me: errr but your not
      If someone says to me pretend I'm a bear, be scared... and then a real bear strolles on in, I'm going to have 2 very different reactions 🤷‍♀️
      Really want to know about the rest of the ep... did he leave, kill his wife?

    • @kenlee..2662
      @kenlee..2662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But still she is really brave if i am that i will just used another kind of therapy

    • @miso5958
      @miso5958 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      big brain

  • @thegreenmanofnorwich
    @thegreenmanofnorwich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    She went against the instructions of the senior clinician. She put herself, her patient, and other patients and staff in potential mortal peril to try to prove she was right. I would generally assume that that sort of behaviour would result in severe reprimand at the very least, and should probably legally bar her from practice for some time.

    • @Ajesen
      @Ajesen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agreed. The ends doesnt justify the results, just because she was right this time

    • @kelseyswanepoel7056
      @kelseyswanepoel7056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People in Chicago med are narcissists and they get away with everything.

    • @kaitlintropper2061
      @kaitlintropper2061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In real life, she will be real trouble. This is going against the hospital policies as well.

    • @kaitlintropper2061
      @kaitlintropper2061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kelseyswanepoel7056 that is very true. Remember that it is not like that on real life.

    • @kelseyswanepoel7056
      @kelseyswanepoel7056 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kaitlintropper2061 All I want is a believable medically accurate where the drama comes from patient deaths and injuries. I don't think that's to much to ask for, but my mom's actually a nurse so I have an extra hate for that fakeness.

  • @clotz2965
    @clotz2965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1702

    This guy looking like the dad from boss baby

  • @mirai2275
    @mirai2275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    Yep, definitely OCD. It kind of comes from an intense fear of becoming or doing something. The person in question won't legitimately want to do any of the things their mind is telling them to do. An extremely terrifying and debilitating condition.

    • @bellap.4623
      @bellap.4623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      On point! I don’t believe he would’ve even picked the knife up.

    • @kalea134
      @kalea134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@bellap.4623 Yeah, you're both absolutely right. A part of my own OCD is that I'm extremely afraid that knifes or other dangerous items will hurt me. I would NEVER pick up something that could hurt me, and if I see a sharp knife, I try to get out of there ASAP. Which once again shows that the man wouldn't have tried to kill his wife. He was just terrified of the thought.

  • @andyw.8893
    @andyw.8893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    That look on dr Charles face when he sees them with a knife. Great acting. He genuinely looks terrified.

  • @AzNightmare
    @AzNightmare 5 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    *Dr. Charles scolding her like she's his own daughter. I love the relationship they have.*

  • @robinsea
    @robinsea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Exposure therapy does not work for intrusive thoughts on their own or quickly. There's an entire, drawn out system that can take months or longer, and should only be done when the patient is ready to accept it - not when they're in extreme distress caused by the fear/intrusive thought.

  • @zuzannamiron6814
    @zuzannamiron6814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    Idk why but whenever they say “committed” all my brain does is say “admitted”

    • @zuzannamiron6814
      @zuzannamiron6814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cuz you know, I’ve been admitted many times 😅

    • @Snowflake-hk8lw
      @Snowflake-hk8lw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dude i thought i was the only one lol

    • @alyokeeffe3289
      @alyokeeffe3289 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some Random Winchester another Winchester fan 🥺 supernatural is Amazing lol

    • @GlowandLuna
      @GlowandLuna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because you no longer say "comitted" it IS correct to say admitted. Its not committed suicide it is either attempted or completed suicide. Its not been legally called that since the 1960s

  • @jamiedodger2361
    @jamiedodger2361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    As someone who's struggled with intrusive thoughts, I really hated this. While committing the guy is a step too far to my mind, I can understand why Charles would take it out of caution and his plan was exactly what the dude needed: To be calmly assured that he was in control and that having those thoughts didn't make him dangerous.
    Reese's actions were reckless and endangered both herself and the patient. Exposure therapy only works when the individual is willing and ready to confront the issue (eg. If someone has a phobia of dogs, you will not cure by locking them in a room full of dogs without their consent).

    • @robinsea
      @robinsea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I absolutely agree - if someone had done something like this to me when I was at my peak of suffering from them, I genuinely would've had a full breakdown. It's really irresponsible of the show to suggest that is is a way to deal with them.

  • @tonimarie227
    @tonimarie227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    What she did was really risky. She didn’t do it with the right intent either. She only did it for her benefit to prove she was right to Dr. Charles. She put herself and her patient in literal danger and yes it worked out in the end but if it hadn’t Dr. Reese would have been dead and the patient would be locked up with major guilt for the rest of his life. If I was Dr. Charles I would have fired her or at least put her on suspension. It probably was the best method for his case but with the little knowledge she had it was incredibly stupid 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @bellap.4623
      @bellap.4623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She definitely thrusted the diagnosis too early! Technically when it’s OCD there is almost 0% chance that he would’ve done anything, but they needed to do a deep evaluation, to confirm the diagnosis.

  • @niamhycakes24
    @niamhycakes24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1258

    I’m beginning to dislike dr resse she’s very reckless and keeps doing things wrong and not learning from her mistakes

    • @just.me_rubes4790
      @just.me_rubes4790 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Niamhycakes she is just doing what she thinks will help

    • @jadebolt4416
      @jadebolt4416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@just.me_rubes4790 her superior decided on the best course of treatment- following the patients wishes, but she decided she knew best. She went against the judgement of someone who had been in the profession a lot longer than her, because she figured what worked for her would work for him- potentially endangering herself the man's wife and unborn child. Also, she risked her Hippocratic oath.

    • @azzy840
      @azzy840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jade Bolt
      But whatever she did worked, doesn’t matter how long one has been in a certain profession for, sometimes the person who has more experience can be wrong. In this case Charles wasn’t just following the patients wishes he wasn’t helping the patient in realising that he had a conscience and that he had the ability to say no to his thoughts.

    • @jadebolt4416
      @jadebolt4416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@azzy840 it was sheer luck that it worked when it did. Charles didn't say no all together toher plan but that they needed more time to assess the situation.
      she put herself and the patients wife in unneccessary danger- based on a hunch. what would she have done if he couldn't say no?
      she had him in a room with a weapon whilst suffering dangerous violent thoughts and no idea as to why.

    • @teakettle899
      @teakettle899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s still new

  • @jesselmore4780
    @jesselmore4780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have OCD. i completely relate to him, i was convinced i was a danger to society and i couldn’t be around my younger cousins without being terrified i was going to harm them. i struggle to spend time with my brother because i’m always worried ‘what if i’m attracted to him??’. OCD is known as the doubting disease, it makes you question every part of your identity. i can feel the genuine terror in his eyes.

  • @laylamulsani1703
    @laylamulsani1703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    People don’t understand that this is called Pure OCD right it’s a anxiety dirsorder

    • @hatetheusername
      @hatetheusername 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes! I’ve got it and I instantly knew that’s what it was

    • @sophiethepegasus
      @sophiethepegasus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hatetheusername me too

    • @thunderbird7936
      @thunderbird7936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hatetheusername can u explain it?

    • @MsNicolfer
      @MsNicolfer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same, I recognize it right away, also I knew he wouldn't do anything

    • @LV03
      @LV03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Finally, a comment like this, thank you! I also recognised it immediately.

  • @maximeleroy2693
    @maximeleroy2693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    i genuinely feel bad for him (i know it’s acting btw) he’s self aware and wants to get help, his wife is in denial.

  • @YesLegend936
    @YesLegend936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    When I hear a doctor say its going fine at the start of the clips
    Me: Sure... Defiently will stay fine XD

    • @kaylapham5298
      @kaylapham5298 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      YesLegend pretty sure it was the wife

  • @inkdrinkerhana
    @inkdrinkerhana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    It's so fascinating and terrifying at the same time on what our minds can make us do things.

  • @msplover3656
    @msplover3656 5 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    The “crazy man” looks like a skinny version of my maths teacher

  • @Wzibara
    @Wzibara 5 ปีที่แล้ว +741

    "Can't you just give him some pills? " i Hate This Type Of People
    Damn 800 likes ily guys please subscribe 😭❤️

    • @omsh6000
      @omsh6000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wzibara same my guy u just got a new sub

    • @Felix-rg7hz
      @Felix-rg7hz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Its only a suggestion not like the women dont care and wanted to get out of there immediately. She was very concerned

    • @Wzibara
      @Wzibara 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@omsh6000 thanks man I've been grinding alot lately🤙❤️❤️

    • @BacaJer
      @BacaJer 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      wzibara i sub to u too..

    • @zachariahsmith1324
      @zachariahsmith1324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She just didn’t understand, she’s a new mother who’s worried that her child won’t have a father

  • @dragon9261
    @dragon9261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    "He's a gentle soul" ofcourse he is, if he wasn't she wouldn't know about the homicidal and be dead by now tbh

  • @sizankosinqentsu7161
    @sizankosinqentsu7161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    Honestly don't like her. She always does things to prove that she was right not for the patient.

    • @4mbxr
      @4mbxr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sizankosi Nqentsu who

    • @sizankosinqentsu7161
      @sizankosinqentsu7161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@4mbxr Reese

    • @4mbxr
      @4mbxr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sizankosi Nqentsu o ok

  • @sleepygirl96
    @sleepygirl96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    There are so many unprofessional doctors in this show that go rogue, react too emotionally or simply act on their ego instead of what's best for the patient

  • @RumtumtuggerTB
    @RumtumtuggerTB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    She put the patient at serious risk of self harm. He may have stabbed himself to repress his urges. In fact in all likelihood that’s exactly what would have happened this early into his treatment

  • @biancap32
    @biancap32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Netflix shows: Am I a joke to you?
    Chicago Departments: something like that

  • @Liam-bq1qp
    @Liam-bq1qp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    In cases of Harm OCD, the patient needs to undergo a series of treatment before finally going in Exposure therapy. The patient needs to be evaluated before undergoing it. This is a very bad move. It is too early and too risky. It is true that most people who suffer from it won't actually do it, but there is still a chance that they really might commit, especially in worst cases.

  • @giggel388
    @giggel388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    Dr Reese is seriously so bad...
    Pepper sprays a guy and also never listens to Dr Charles for important shit. How is she not fired???

    • @benmackarel295
      @benmackarel295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      She had ptsd that’s why she pepper sprayed the guy as he was threatening her

    • @giggel388
      @giggel388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@benmackarel295 °

    • @brettknoss486
      @brettknoss486 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@benmackarel295 that's a huge problem. Her mental illness is different from the patient she's treating. She should not use her experiences to guide treatment.

    • @aebeeceeonetwothree1377
      @aebeeceeonetwothree1377 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She has PTSD...

    • @giggel388
      @giggel388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@aebeeceeonetwothree1377 PTSD isn't an excuse for a badly written character though

  • @grimbiohazard7059
    @grimbiohazard7059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    Love this channel
    👇👇👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @annlim8805
      @annlim8805 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GrimBioHazard 𝕤𝕒𝕞𝕖

    • @blakehardy2962
      @blakehardy2962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GrimBioHazard same here it is so good but in real life this would never really happen this fast yeah

    • @grimbiohazard7059
      @grimbiohazard7059 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right it so good but it wouldn’t happened so fast

  • @keiariley1509
    @keiariley1509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    That's scary bro he wanted to see his wife

  • @gaaraluva3579
    @gaaraluva3579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The most unrealistic therapy I’ve ever seen

  • @VoltZRR
    @VoltZRR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    I love this show (even though I only watch it in clips lol)

    • @jaybee5078
      @jaybee5078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yo same

    • @jasmineopallake3477
      @jasmineopallake3477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @sanja3481
      @sanja3481 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Where can i even watch this

    • @a.7889-v8f
      @a.7889-v8f 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha same! 😂 I think I’ve purchased one episode of Chicago Fire and one of Chicago M.D. off TH-cam, but I’ve essentially been watching this show for about a year now by watching clips of episodes like this on TH-cam. I’m glad I’m not the only one who can get ‘addicted’ to a show but not watch THE WHOLE EPISODES 🙌 I did the same thing with House lol - just watched a gazillion clips off TH-cam in a completely random order 😂

    • @dorcasmalahlela2805
      @dorcasmalahlela2805 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I watch all the Dr Charles clips. They really should have a Chicago Psych spinoff

  • @sameehanadeem6411
    @sameehanadeem6411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    okay, as disobedient as she was, she did the right thing but should've asked Dr Charles first

    • @queenmomo7367
      @queenmomo7367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameeha Nadeem if she asked him , he would say no

    • @cjeam9199
      @cjeam9199 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      That was *definitely not* the right thing to do.

    • @sobiayaseen673
      @sobiayaseen673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It aint the right thing if it was the scenario in real life she was proving herself not treating the pt,(probably needs help herself),he couldve harmed her(as all ocd patient get obcessive thoughts followed by compulsion to complete it to feel satisfied) he came here for help not to get in trouble by completing it,this aint the case exposure therapy shouldve brought on priorty eg its not washing your hands for 2hours or your face for 4,or checking the lock of a door 50times its HOMICIDE

    • @saminanishat505
      @saminanishat505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She did and he didnt even say no. He said get the dude committed first then assess and then we'll consider therapy. She just rushed in.
      It wasnt right, it was luck that he wasnt actually dangerous. He could have easily actually been dangerous and no one would be saying she did the right thing then would they.

  • @thenottakenname
    @thenottakenname 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How does anyone at this hospital other than Dr. Charles still have a job?

  • @8bennaboo
    @8bennaboo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This seems to me like a very strong obsessive thought, which can convince you of anything about yourself. It is terrible, you can't get them out of your head, until they convince you that you are a terrible person. All you want is your thoughts to go away, sometimes you can't even sleep.

  • @garywilson5726
    @garywilson5726 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I seriously hope Reese got into major crap for this. She overstepped the boundaries, put herself and others at risk, and disregarded Dr. Charles. She has a massive ego.

  • @luvbitesx
    @luvbitesx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Ok, I agree that Dr Reese shouldn't have acted so quickly and with such extreme measures. However her treatment worked, yet there should have been more time to evaluate the patient. I love Sarah though, she's extremely smart and a great doctor.

    • @PvtParts-px4jy
      @PvtParts-px4jy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The patient still could have easily killed her or himself. She did the therapy for selfish reasons; a) to prove she was right b) to confront her PTSD.
      In a RL scenario, she's would have been fired and kicked out of med school for that. Even after she got scolded she still showed no remorse for her actions, believing she was right.

    • @y4mi563
      @y4mi563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      okay but what if it didn't work? what if the guy had stabbed her and killed her? he would be charged with murder and Dr. Reese would be dead.

    • @amitramlall4235
      @amitramlall4235 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dr. Reese isn't reckless. What she did worked. Sometimes you need someone like her who is willing to try something different, because the stuff he has tried before hasn't worked and this did. And that she trusted him.

  • @Life.Be.001
    @Life.Be.001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    8:17
    Thats the look i give my dad when he says we cant have chicken nuggets for breakfast

    • @GnomeOverlord4372
      @GnomeOverlord4372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂 This comment deserves more likes

    • @BELLA-mf6hb
      @BELLA-mf6hb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Twins!

    • @mambo3015
      @mambo3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      or when your parents drive past Maccies 🤣

  • @eimearkeaveney1192
    @eimearkeaveney1192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That was a pretty bad idea, but I understand it. Reese knows what it is like to live without a father - and so she did whatever it took to get that man home. Even if doing so could be detrimental to the patient.

  • @assholus228
    @assholus228 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Exposure therapy works, but it's ramped up from 1 to 10, not at 8 on day 1.

  • @Hamster7678
    @Hamster7678 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    reese definitely pushed the exposure therapy too early and skipped a huge step (creating a tier list of his fears) but it is not unheard of for psychologists to put themselves in situations just like reese did with the patient holding a knife to her throat. not every one will and thats okay but in serious cases in which that seems to be the only option left? yeah. its an option and it wasnt fair of dr.charles to call it stupid when she had multiple people observing and i'd like to think she gave the trauma crew a heads up in case it went south for her.

    • @zakiry8634
      @zakiry8634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      No it was very stupid, people observing means nothing, he had a knife 3 inches away from her throat, it takes a second

    • @cjeam9199
      @cjeam9199 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t believe you.

    • @just_caitlin
      @just_caitlin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The people weren't observing as a precaution, they were watching because of the shit that was going down, Dr Reese hadn't asked them to be there -_-

  • @atrumluminarium
    @atrumluminarium 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The most heartbreaking thing here is seeing a disappointed Dr. Charles

  • @tiana4710
    @tiana4710 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Was I the only person who thought of a brown bear when Dr Reese said not to?

    • @benmackarel295
      @benmackarel295 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope I did

    • @Rudolph1722
      @Rudolph1722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've been thinking about bears for a few minutes now.

    • @Ajesen
      @Ajesen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are sarcastic, right

  • @amayamoule4825
    @amayamoule4825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the way Dr Charles always speaks so calmly

  • @spiritanimal8836
    @spiritanimal8836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OCD is hell and it's lifelong.

  • @persadsanjay
    @persadsanjay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like psychiatrists like this who have experience in counseling. They always know the right things to say

  • @stance_life8172
    @stance_life8172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    “The baby needs it’s father”
    Wel it needs a mother to but if u ded it’s a problem to

    • @a.7889-v8f
      @a.7889-v8f 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha that was my first thought!

  • @astridsnow1966
    @astridsnow1966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    When she said don't picture a brown bear I pictured a white bear ¿

    • @JD-ky9ys
      @JD-ky9ys 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bruh

    • @astridsnow1966
      @astridsnow1966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JD-ky9ys bruh

    • @JD-ky9ys
      @JD-ky9ys 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Astrid Snow bruh

    • @astridsnow1966
      @astridsnow1966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JD-ky9ys r we having a bruh moment

    • @JD-ky9ys
      @JD-ky9ys 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Astrid Snow ye bruh

  • @ManticoreBe6955
    @ManticoreBe6955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Maybe I would have given him a fake knife instead of a REAL one.

    • @God-gi9iu
      @God-gi9iu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Manticore Be he would have realised due to the weight difference, maybe have security right outside door and blunted the knifes but it was a stupid move ngl

  • @Liluziburt69
    @Liluziburt69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Exposure therapy isnt as simple as a one time realization, it can take up to months to gain control

  • @LeonardoHamato
    @LeonardoHamato 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Reminds me of the story I heard of a teenager who started having not so good feelings about his neighbours kids so he told his parents and he started seeing a psychologist and the neighbours were thankful when they found out because he decided to get help before he acted on his feelings

    • @LeonardoHamato
      @LeonardoHamato ปีที่แล้ว

      @Brown Incel I didn't type that out right, he was having sexual thoughts about the neighbours kids, and I wasn't there so I don't think he did, but he got help before he acted on any of his thoughts so there's not really any harm done in this specific case
      Sorry I didn't make that clear
      Also, homicidal thoughts don't warrant an arrest but it does warrant counciling, and maybe a psycologist, it's only if someone acts on it that they can get arrested for that
      If homicidal thoughts were illegal then I would've been arrested years ago

  • @iamtics
    @iamtics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I struggle with anxiety and have symptoms of ocd, that man reflected those same thoughts that i had/have, but i am getting treatment

  • @sophiwithAN_a
    @sophiwithAN_a 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Y’all saying dr.resse is reckless but remember this is acting and if it gives you that vibe then she is a really good actor

  • @doveknight
    @doveknight 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Those are intrusive thought. They're not always about murder, but they are about very violent and awful thing that you could do to others and yourself. I have them. A lot of people have them actually. Trying to push them down doesn't help. Like Dr. Reese says, you have to understand they are just thoughts. You're always thinking, thousands of thoughts going through your brain throughout the day, it makes sense that not all of them can be good. It's scary, but the most important, like with any mental health struggle, is that your thoughts are not you and they're not always true.

  • @xhugeeugex8444
    @xhugeeugex8444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    BIG BRAIN
    jk-i feel genuinely bad for that man

  • @bryncarys3074
    @bryncarys3074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Damn. That must have hurt Reese so much. Being called stupid by someone she sees as a dad.

    • @ThePrincessCH
      @ThePrincessCH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Well, not a lot of people would be praised for willingly placing themselves in a locked room with a guy who's confessed to having homicidal thoughts. There was still a 50% chance he could actually kill her.

    • @bryncarys3074
      @bryncarys3074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y’all are right but I see that this episode is trying to show how Reese is using what she’s learned to her advantage. Like exposure therapy. It also shows an upbringing of her maintaining her fear levels.

    • @saminanishat505
      @saminanishat505 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bryncarys3074 It wasnt about her though. She used a PATIENTS SITUATION to her advantage to advance her own therapy. Whats the first thing shes raving about when she gets out that room? SHE wasnt afraid of him anymore. All she care about was herself. Doesnt matter if shes brave now and wants to show that, a patient is not an example to improve or develop your own personal problems. Theres a time and place for that.

    • @samanthamoore8693
      @samanthamoore8693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He call her stupid. He said what she did was stupid. Two different things.

  • @richieordeanidc536
    @richieordeanidc536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    what would she have done if he actually came at her w the knife tho lmao

  • @bellap.4623
    @bellap.4623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Smells like ocd
    Edit: I was right.

  • @hannahdawson1296
    @hannahdawson1296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Come on let's do the world a favour and put this on netflix

  • @Ni.Mh_
    @Ni.Mh_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "I wake up in the morning and I got murder on my mind"

  • @challengeocd7835
    @challengeocd7835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is pure OCD. I have also suffered from this.

  • @Xqcve
    @Xqcve 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These actors are so underrated their roles must be so hard to portray

  • @JeremiahGakuru
    @JeremiahGakuru 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally unable to stop watching these clips. They are so captivating.

  • @SamSparks95
    @SamSparks95 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had thoughts like these (not about harming others, just thoughts I HATED, they were weird and yuccckkkk) and I was told by my therapist to think those thoughts. Instead of pushing them away, think them, and show myself that just thinking them, nothing happens. Thinking about doing something you don't wanna do doesn't make you a bad person, actions do.
    It helped me a lot. I would do it in school, and looking around and seeing that nothing changed, no one looked at me, everything was normal, it really helped.
    It's hard, but after it passes it feels like a triumph, like you just won first place in a contest of skill. I still use the technique, and if you reading this struggle with thoughts you hate, give it a shot. It doesn't work for everyone, but it could really help you in daily life.

  • @harveyuwu4366
    @harveyuwu4366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    intrusive thoughts suck so bad. I get those and it's scary, especially the graphic violent ones. it makes you question whether you're a bad person or not. you don't want to hurt people obviously but when you're getting intrusive thoughts of hurting/killing people it's hard to figure out what's an intrusive thought that's out of your control and you don't want to act on and what's just a regular thought.

  • @jasminej2844
    @jasminej2844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Isn’t this a form of anxiety being so scared of something that you keep thinking about it .

  • @zoesherwin
    @zoesherwin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kudos to the guy for doing what it takes to keep his family safe

  • @itzmel7061
    @itzmel7061 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Why do I feel so bad for these people but I love these videos

  • @GlowandLuna
    @GlowandLuna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I'm not sure I like Dr R she seems very reckless and selfish

  • @sunnygraham1767
    @sunnygraham1767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I would have skOoTeD out of the room so fast

  • @firedynamyte8220
    @firedynamyte8220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Has anyone else not watched a single full episode, and has only watched these clips?

  • @sammythebeliever9916
    @sammythebeliever9916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't care that she was right in the end. The fact is that this is illegal and dangerous.

  • @brookebrookebrooke6119
    @brookebrookebrooke6119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    6:00 when the screen went black I thought the video was over and I was about to lose it

  • @geman741
    @geman741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dr.Charles is right, ppl can snap just like that. Reese got lucky

  • @ghostedmashmellow3197
    @ghostedmashmellow3197 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor dude, so glad he got help, wife was horrible for refusing him treatment

  • @honestecstasy6585
    @honestecstasy6585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Anyone with the slightest bit of knowledge in mental health would know that that man has intrusive thoughts I instantly recognised it cause I suffer from this very real and very scary mental condition myself

    • @caydos7471
      @caydos7471 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honest Ecstasy it must be a very hard thing to go through the least I can do is pray for you🙏

  • @islaymckenziewilson1682
    @islaymckenziewilson1682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg so so so good 😊 love it and am binge watching the whole series lol 😂

  • @1a2b3c4d_
    @1a2b3c4d_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1:22 someone needs to give this guy a hug

  • @martinbefartin
    @martinbefartin ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i found this trying to look for ways to manage homicidal thoughts. theres barely anything on the internet on how to manage homicidal ideation and it makes me sad. im still a person :(

  • @aswinraj4951
    @aswinraj4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Psychiatric element of this show stands out of all other medical dramas.....& Watch it just for Dr.Reese

  • @cezar3169
    @cezar3169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im simping for Dr. Reese hard right now.

  • @namjoonimthemantoo
    @namjoonimthemantoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Any real physcologist should know that to treat ocd is with meds and extensive therapy. NOT A MENTAL INSTITUTION - this is feeding people the idea that ocd thoughts are harmful and that people who have them are not in the right headspace

  • @emeraldarcher11yearsago44
    @emeraldarcher11yearsago44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How the hell did she manage to get that knife in to a hospital

  • @gamingvids7906
    @gamingvids7906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Who is wating for the crossover on Wednesday

  • @ambrusraul2297
    @ambrusraul2297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That s the wrong way to do it

  • @bengalshead
    @bengalshead 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got chills when u saw the knife

  • @rhirhiamy8614
    @rhirhiamy8614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The fact the wife needs to say to him "you're not crazy" in this situation is basically proof he isn't ok

  • @fetB
    @fetB 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like they can make a whole series around Reese

  • @FershBgas
    @FershBgas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Like I am even scared to hold a big knife when there are people within 5 meters of me.

  • @saaniasparkle5030
    @saaniasparkle5030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this channel ❤️❤️

  • @fleuve4737
    @fleuve4737 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh I hate when some people throw the word "crazy" left and right when It comes to people with mental illness. 🙄

  • @princesssofi01
    @princesssofi01 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    im dealing with homicidal thoughts too , and im glad I reach help

  • @emilynorman6526
    @emilynorman6526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This made me so nervous 😬

  • @shaydanny9642
    @shaydanny9642 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was a bit stupid of her to do that

  • @wholesomekeanureeves9466
    @wholesomekeanureeves9466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sounds a bit like severe OCD

  • @vanessarodrigues4068
    @vanessarodrigues4068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate my OCD. I just relate to this man so much. I don't know if I agree with Dr Charles or Dr Reese. I'm really confused.

  • @machopi
    @machopi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    gotta love how in every single situation reese has the facial expression and emotional depth of a wet potato

  • @auraangel1372
    @auraangel1372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    This was a good scene I missed it