No, that is only a problem when the parents do not really know their child. When I was a kid a teacher accused me of cheating on a test but my parents know I would never do that, so they stuck up for me. They corectly knew I would never cheat.
This guy had some serious guts. He cut off his own balls to stop himself from doing anything horrible to people. He was brainwashed into his situation by his parents and couldn’t find a way out. He openly admitted that he had a problem and that he needed help. Many others would just be silent but he took action the only way he knew how.
@@Dylan-bm1jn it's a lot different than that. We need a better comprehension here. It's not about emotions. It's about presence of mind. And impulses, urges, compulsions. It's more on the psychiatric side. Some people really need help with their behaviour. Not only pure emotions, it looks like something like obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) a real behavioral issue that can be treated but is indeed a pathology. (Different types of OCD) this is not only about '' having emotions ''
I apologize to anyone who feels i didn't pay justice to OCD sufferers when doing a comparison with this guy's case. I do not have a panoramic view of all possible diagnosis, he might receive another diagnosis than Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, obviously. It's always difficult to judge what disorder it can be at first. Trained psychiatrists normally do NOT label people with a diagnosis after only one hour of consultation. Also there could be overlaps between diagnosis, it's sometimes a spectrum. A better compréhension is needed for this guy knowing himself better, and experiencing what can help him not hurting himself or others. Be safe, take care. Xxx
And the dad ended with "how did this happen". I used to think the things in these shows do not happen in real life, but the older I get the more of these kind of people I see.
@@siobhanconneely4199 well his parents are very very alienated and ignorant they have no idea of how to raise a child. And this comes from someone with a drug addict father that almost never shows up, rather that than those in the show
In Ontario Canada, the need for getting the parents consent would not exist. Ontario law does not list an age for medical consent. It is instead entirely based on the client's capacity which is assessed at the time of the interaction. In this case, competence would be easy to prove in him, and allow the parents to be out of the circle of care.
It's like the episode with the 56 year old with pedophilic urges and had never acted on them but was so extremely scared of actually, eventually harming a child he denied getting a throat tumor removed and eventually died from it - clean of consciousness as well.
It genuinely is sad that his parents didn’t let him do the one thing that probably would have helped him but instead he got hurt maybe if his parents did let him do it then he wouldn’t have gotten hurt
“What did we do?” The lack of self awareness is astonishing. Two doctors come and tell you your kid is deeply troubled and you read him verses from Thessalonians 🙄.
@@kalebmcarthur6817 the crazy ones are the ones who actually miss read the idea or even behaviour of religious stuff, the family from my father's side are heavy believers and they're all good... the bad ones are just confused and needs more guidance...I may not be the most religious Christians out there but people need to learn not to blame the religion but instead the way some people see or practice their religion (if that makes sense)
chel_ glxy fair enough ignorance is bliss I’m not saying all christians are bad believe whatever makes you happy as long as your not hurting anyone it’s fine
@@kalebmcarthur6817 yes I know and like I said some are just confused... and it's very ignorant for these type of people who refuses to actually use modern medication because for them its 'against' their religious rules
@@nodata5933 yeah but whatever who's going to take responsability if the planet is overpopulated ... they don't use contraception (me think?) so see? It's natural intelligence and common sense, somehow. Doctors '' play God '' when saving lives, all they can do is prolong them, they do not '' obliterate death '' Death will happen. When there is birth, there will be death. It's just another social norm about '' who is right '' and '' what is the right thing to do '' they see illness as a natural thing and something to live THROUGH. And not ''tip toe around it''.
@@super__sad did you even watch the video... It doesn't matter how old he is it was out of his control... He was so desperate to stop himself that he hurt himself. You think he would've done that if he COULD control himself
@@super__sad Yo, he did try to prevent it by...you know. His parents could have helped actually but they refused their son to have medication that would help his struggles. There was literally nothing this boy could do besides have sheer willpower, which was already starting to crumble.
I’m scared I’m gonna do the same , I would straight up say “do u really don’t know what uve done? “ instead of “the important thing is what we are gonna do now”
Doctors: your son wants to be chemically castrated so that he can avoid hurting a girl due to his violent impulses Parents: no! He wouldn't try to hurt a girl Son: *almost hurts a girl due to his violent impulses then tries to physically castrate himself* Parents: *surprised pikachu face*
Sex is not a bad thing. I just hate that his parents told him this and left him repressed and instead of helping him read him bible verses. This is just a show but still.
My grandmother believes that sex is just to make babies, she doesn't believe that you can enjoy sex because she never did. I've spoken to her but she doesn't believe that. My mom never taught me that. She explained the basics of sex and that it is used for making babies but as I got older I realized it was more than just that. She never told me it was just for that
@@idontevenhaveapla7224 no. She grew up believing that sex was for the husband. No matter what you want it was his choice. That's why she didn't care for it.
Here is the problem, the parents took that bible literally. The bible did help and God gave this child the amazing wisdom to know right from wrong. Something that his parents should have recognized as Gods sign. This is my opinion: "do not discard the bible by the values of inability to see its truth. Use the bible to live your truth." God showed them the way, gave them a chance to see it but they chose to ignore that with their own perception in mind. The parents just failed to listen to the innocence in his admittance and Gods mercies that their child had through the knowledge of his problem. So, they refused to accept his truth.......unfortunately it happens too much that people are losing faith in Christianity
@@marzadky4934, some psychology facts here, nature is how you are born and nurture is how you were raised, etc but God doesn't take any matter into it unless you're parents force you into it, etc.
@@marzadky4934 Shouldn't take a fucking bible to know what's right or wrong.. Just tell your kid that he/she cannot do that (having normal sex at a legal age, is not included in a right and wrong), plain simple..
The most annoying thing is that parents always assume that their kids are EXACTLY like them. Its is like oh i was able to deal with it, I was fine so will be my son.
The fact that this poor boy is acting maturer than both of his parents.... He's on the perfectly right track alright, it's just that his parents messed him up psychologically. But still, he realises that and wants to work against it out of fear of hurting others. A true hero for himself.
Ya, all those religious faith and their God would somehow deal with the issue. The sexual repressed individual was the outcome of his own parents' doing. Religious faith can do more harm than good.
I had a boy in my school who had similar problems. He would pinch, slap or pull a rubber band on his skin to stop himself from doing awful things. It came to the point where he started self harm. 8 months later, and he is starting to heal!!!
They didn’t exactly explain it well. If i was a parent and had the conversation shown here I might deny it too. They also jumped to this with no therapy at all. Bit extreme really.
Lxrelei fact is 3rd time seeing this only just realised how fucked that is dunno why I only just realised it doesn’t just cut it all of instantly you gotta like go through the tissue n shit
I think the doctors needed to communicate that sometimes the human brain cannot stop acting on some strong impulsive thoughts. They thought giving him a conscience will help. He already has it!!
C.C.M C.C.M I wasn’t joking or trying to insult you I was just asking. It would be really terrible to have hyper sexuality it isn’t this guys fault or your family members
Cheng Tang the fact that he was taking off the blanket while dr. Choi was watching him take the blanket off and you would really only do they if they were hot. And is nobody talking about the fact that she was sleeping thru the big crash of the cart and him screaming?!?!
Yes they do lock but they can be open by the outside too. Unless someone spends a suspiciously length of time in the bathroom, no-one would know what someone was doing in there... Self mutilation or not.
@@NotAnotherKuromi Correct. It depends on the facility you go to but as I understand they either don't lock or there is a master key in the room or on nurses' belts.
@@graememacleod4651 Yes so the bathroom doors do lock... they can just be unlocked too. Medical staff & security sometime have keys but that is more for rooms which have medical equipment & medicine in them. In most places where a patient will be staying for a short period of time, like the emergency department, outpatients or wards where inpatients are, they tend to not have keys on bathroom locks, they just have a twist lock on the inside & the outside can be opened by using a coin or a curved tool staff carry on a keyring. This prevents anyone from blocking the keyhole & a the door can quickly be opened in an emergency. The only places where a bathroom/toilet door would not have a lock is either if the patient was trying to hurt themselves or kill themselves, even then they are often locked in a room for their own safety. Or if they were an inpatient with particular psychological problems where they have proven to commit dangerous actions in a bathroom they may lose the privilege or privacy, this is very rare though.
They do but they can be unlocked. I’m guessing that’s one of the reasons that he called for security so that they could come unlock the door. Dr. Choi probably didn’t have a key since he’s normally in the ED and not on the ward
I know Dr choi can be pretty cynical. Pretty harsh sometimes. He is also sort of a badass, just stone cold realising what the kid was about to do and kicking in the bathroom door.
Biologically seen it is. That’s why we also have menstruation because your body is preparing for a baby and if you didn’t get pregnant everything has to go out. But nowadays society actually is that far that we don’t need it for reproduction anymore or at least we do it not for reproduction only. (Sry for my English. I’m not native)
@@nicoleengel543 Many animals with higher intelligence also masturbate and have sex for pleasure, not procreation. In fact dolphins will rape other dolphins and use dead fish as masturbation tools, as humans we have empathy and enough understanding to have the concept of consent. Biologically, as intelligence increases the usage of sex shifts.
SendarSlayer Thats also something I agree on. I think the more intelligent the species gets (like how society changes) the less sex is for reproduction.
I mean like props to this kid for being smart enough to know that he could hurt someone/he knows that he wouldn't want to hurt someone on purpose. And getting help. Like hes honestly smarter the half the population
"How did this happen? What did we do?" You didn't listen to your child and what he was warning you about. Moral of the story, let your kids have an input in their treatment. If they have a wish, listen too it and consulfa doctor.
Wow, dr Charles is such a great doctor. He knows what the parents did wrong and could lecture them on it but instead he just tells them look at the present and not to get hung up on the past.
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“How did this happen? What did we do?” Ah, classic lines from parents who take religion too serious.
@@flokevfrombx6222 You do realize him his actions are the result of his parents being a pair of religious prudes who tried to brainwash him into thinking any kind of sexual activity that doesn't involve baby making is evil thus resulting in these sexual urges because of being denied to do any sort of activity by his parents instead of teaching him how it should be done in a healthy way.
I actually have a lot of sympathy for this lad and people like this who really don't want to hurt people and reach out for support. It can't be easy because of the connotations but I wish more people would. Those who ignore help and go out and abuse others are truly scum.
I'm a Christian and I can vouch that I have come across many parents just like that. (Please read further) It's really sad to see teens go through puberty and have their parents treat them like they crawled up out hell itself. This is the time they need you the most, cause remember if you are not there for them others will be and there is no guarantee that those people have your child's best interest at heart. To all parents out there remember when you went through a time like that, that's the same thing your kids are going through. You cannot expect your kids to magically control desire when you yourself went along with every urge you had as a teen. In the very least your kids are better than you ever was cause they admit their faults and try to do better, when all you did was claim how right you were. Teach them to accept that these feelings are natural and use wisdom to deal with it. Use your life experiences and show them how human you are. Show them that you experienced the same thing and instead of telling them it's wrong to do certain things explain to them the consequences of those actions. For example: this kid in the video, instead of the parents acting the way they did. Tell him,son these feelings and thoughts are perfectly normal, but you shouldn't act on them cause although the feeling of pleasure in the moment is amazing the probability of you ruining your life is high. 1.You could become a father at a young age, which will set your life back by many years. You would not be able to reach the level you want to reach because you will have a child who you will have to feed and clothe and send to school. You will have a wife/partner you will have to take care of. OR 2. If not that you might get a STD cause by your partner or multiple partners and in the future when you finally meet someone you want to spend your life with, how are you going to have a physical relationship with that person knowing you have this disease. Waiting till you are older is better not because of religion but because your brain would have developed to a point where you can make these important decisions. Wisdom doesn't come from just reading the Bible, but through life lessons and you cannot expect a 17 year old to understand what you at 46 years of age finally through hard life lessons understand. Don't threaten them. Don't judge them. Use wisdom and Inspire them Love them Protect them And pass on what you know so they don't need to spend years figuring out. And one day the lessons that learn they can pass to their children. Lots of love ♥️♥️♥️
@@jugemujugemugokonosurikire4735 Yes it is their fault. None of it would have happened if they weren't such a pair of religious prudes who flat out believe masturbation is evil and actually taught him about natural sexual urges and how to do it in a healthy way.
The way he rolls his shoulder at 2:41 shows just how much he his scared by any touch from his mum or dad. I dread to even imagine what else he or anyone else in his position has been through 😞
Kid: "I want to be chemically castrated." Parents: "No." *reads him a bible verse instead* Kid: *cuts off his own 🅱️alls* Parents: 👁️👄👁️ "What did we do wrong?"
I'm just so used to see the ER and the trauma section that I forgot the hospital has regular room and wards for patient. I was confused when Dr. Choi entered a room 😂
This is exactly my point. We ask for help (people with mental health issues of any kind) and nobody wants to, or the few who do can't for whatever reason, then we do something we begged for help to prevent and they say "if only we'd known" or "they should've seen someone"
OMG Dr. Choi 😍😍 I bet that ending was hard to film trying to calling out in pain while you've got some dude holding your junk nearly. Would love to see bloopers if there were any 😂😂
This hits pretty close to home for me. I'm planning on doing what he did because he/I couldnt get the medical treatment needed. The emotional pain... mirroring the physical... spot on. Powerful stuff. Never heard of this show before but Im fast becoming a fan.
How horrible it must be to be trapped with parents like that. They actually believe what they are doing is best for you, when in reality, they destroy you
I have to hope that if you get to most of these future offenders early, that there is a chance that someone who would have been hurt, wasn’t hurt and traumatised because the person who would have committed that crime had the bravery to say, “I don’t want to hurt somebody, I need help” It doesn’t always work, but I’d assume it’s like most things, the earlier these thoughts and behaviours are challenged the more likely you are to prevent another predator from going out and attacking people.
This is why, ultimately, a minor needs to have the final say on their own healthcare decisions. Body autonomy is extremely vital and should be a right for everyone.
Yes, so 13 year olds can decide to mutilate their bodies because they feel uncomfortable in their body. We have that now in some western countries, and it's not good.
The parents want what's best for their son without knowing what that is. The kid knows his own thoughts and body, to him the chemicals would be better than attacking someone or hurting himself but there was nothing he could do when faced with that choice, his parents can't blame themselves for loving him but they NEED to listen.
It’s so sad that his parents are so blinded by their faith and beliefs that they can’t give their son the help he needs and that in the end he came to the conclusion that he had to castrate himself. I have nothing against religeous people btw but sometimes I think some people go overboard
Yes like how some people unfornately and wrongfully got burned ALIVE in the 1500s apparently PURELY because of some difference in religion or maybe something like that
„that’s stupid he would never do something like that. we want to take him home you guys are sick“ ten minutes later „oh no how did that happen what did we do“ smh
Honestly, this is also the kind of parents you need child services for. Jeez. It's a gift to have a child who recognizes the problem and asks help but parents dismiss them.
'Where did we go wrong?' Er, shoving those damn ideas down his throat and seeking help from the Bible instead of medical help, when u had the chance. That's what -_-
Couldn't they have even derived wisdom from Bible verses to help him instead of just reading them at him? My parents are pretty religious and they don't just read verses from our Holy Book when something goes wrong as though that magically fixes things.
Perfectly said, they ignored Gods reply when there child knew his problem before he could act on it. If that wasn't insight from God and their faith in His words, then why the hell were those parents reading the bible. The bible is not a tool for fixing issues but one that helps in understanding them.......My mother is an evangelist so I deeply understand where you are coming form and how much frustration I have with those who claim to know Christ and Christianity but never get it.
I hate parents who are like "She/he/they would never do something like that"
Loving someone is not the same as knowing them
No, that is only a problem when the parents do not really know their child.
When I was a kid a teacher accused me of cheating on a test but my parents know I would never do that, so they stuck up for me. They corectly knew I would never cheat.
It’s a parents job to love and know their kids. You’ve failed as a parent if you don’t know the person you’ve raised.
He would never do something like that... it's why he is asking for help
That's a deeply profound quote
@@invictafilms2690 lots of times kids shut everyone out. Its not always the parents.
A teen admitting to his own perveted-ness, a man of true power
Ya!!! He even tried to stop himself and to do that he even hurt himself
it's not that he has power, speaking from personal experience its fear of hurting others is what causes people to admit such things.
@@himanshutiwari5390 Arguably an alternate definition of power
Fantasmic Art 2312 yes
This guy had some serious guts. He cut off his own balls to stop himself from doing anything horrible to people. He was brainwashed into his situation by his parents and couldn’t find a way out. He openly admitted that he had a problem and that he needed help. Many others would just be silent but he took action the only way he knew how.
I feel so bad for him. He knew he was gunna hurt someone and then he ended up hurting himself
Its fake
No it’s not!
Abbz de Llama r/whoooooooosh
Abbz de Llama it’s a tv show we know 🙄
It is very sad ya know like brooo
Can we all just say at least he wanted help. At least he was open and actually admitted he had a problem
Yeah he couldn't resist his emotion,technically not his fault
@@Dylan-bm1jn it's a lot different than that. We need a better comprehension here. It's not about emotions. It's about presence of mind. And impulses, urges, compulsions. It's more on the psychiatric side. Some people really need help with their behaviour. Not only pure emotions, it looks like something like obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) a real behavioral issue that can be treated but is indeed a pathology. (Different types of OCD) this is not only about '' having emotions ''
I apologize to anyone who feels i didn't pay justice to OCD sufferers when doing a comparison with this guy's case. I do not have a panoramic view of all possible diagnosis, he might receive another diagnosis than Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, obviously. It's always difficult to judge what disorder it can be at first. Trained psychiatrists normally do NOT label people with a diagnosis after only one hour of consultation. Also there could be overlaps between diagnosis, it's sometimes a spectrum. A better compréhension is needed for this guy knowing himself better, and experiencing what can help him not hurting himself or others. Be safe, take care. Xxx
I believe if it was more accepted for these type of men to seek help, it could really save alot of people
yes
that's actually sad, he knew what he could do to prevent that but his parents didn't let/believe him..
And the dad ended with "how did this happen". I used to think the things in these shows do not happen in real life, but the older I get the more of these kind of people I see.
@@St-ik5zb exactly, when he said that I first thought "Uhm I know what happened, you didn't listen" but this is actually pretty common.
the thing that is sad is how bad these actors are and how i still love this series
Eline Esmaeli his parents should listen to him and try to talk about other possible situations or smth
Le pauvre garçon
"it's temporary, Ethan. Raping someone isn't". Someone gets it ❤️❤️
most people get that raping is bad, apart from the twisted minority
His parents wants to have grandchildren, they don't believe that their son will be a rapist
@@siobhanconneely4199 well his parents are very very alienated and ignorant they have no idea of how to raise a child. And this comes from someone with a drug addict father that almost never shows up, rather that than those in the show
I love this showe
@@talos2384, it technically isn't twisted, just different from you
At least he is aware of his actions
it is fake dude
@@woutrnick4397 no shit Sherlock
It’s even worse if he’s aware of his actions and not being able to stop himself
For a movie yes, but sadly in reality no man with high sexual desires would ever do that.
@@invictafilms2690 but he asked for help, and it wasn't given
I love how he was aware of his actions and wanted to prevent other people getting hurt. I understand it’s weird but at least he’s honest 🤷♀️
In Ontario Canada, the need for getting the parents consent would not exist. Ontario law does not list an age for medical consent. It is instead entirely based on the client's capacity which is assessed at the time of the interaction. In this case, competence would be easy to prove in him, and allow the parents to be out of the circle of care.
That's the bare minimum of human decency.
I fully agree, they often say listen to your kids
@@oliviaocasain9980 no actually it can be hard
It's like the episode with the 56 year old with pedophilic urges and had never acted on them but was so extremely scared of actually, eventually harming a child he denied getting a throat tumor removed and eventually died from it - clean of consciousness as well.
It genuinely is sad that his parents didn’t let him do the one thing that probably would have helped him but instead he got hurt maybe if his parents did let him do it then he wouldn’t have gotten hurt
it is not real
@Clarissa Edwards I'm a lifeguard and work for the dutch red cross and EMS, trust me this is not real nor can you compare it to the real work.
Woutr Nick ik it’s not real
I like sex but I know that if I have sex then God will punish me so I don't . Most of people who rape are not relegious they are not scared of god
@@woutrnick4397 its a fucking tv show get over it
“What did we do?”
The lack of self awareness is astonishing.
Two doctors come and tell you your kid is deeply troubled and you read him verses from Thessalonians 🙄.
@@kalebmcarthur6817 the crazy ones are the ones who actually miss read the idea or even behaviour of religious stuff, the family from my father's side are heavy believers and they're all good... the bad ones are just confused and needs more guidance...I may not be the most religious Christians out there but people need to learn not to blame the religion but instead the way some people see or practice their religion (if that makes sense)
chel_ glxy fair enough ignorance is bliss I’m not saying all christians are bad believe whatever makes you happy as long as your not hurting anyone it’s fine
@@kalebmcarthur6817 yes I know and like I said some are just confused... and it's very ignorant for these type of people who refuses to actually use modern medication because for them its 'against' their religious rules
@@pogshet prolly JWs. They would rather let a child die from blood loss because "transfusions are unclean"
@@nodata5933 yeah but whatever who's going to take responsability if the planet is overpopulated ... they don't use contraception (me think?) so see? It's natural intelligence and common sense, somehow. Doctors '' play God '' when saving lives, all they can do is prolong them, they do not '' obliterate death '' Death will happen. When there is birth, there will be death. It's just another social norm about '' who is right '' and '' what is the right thing to do '' they see illness as a natural thing and something to live THROUGH. And not ''tip toe around it''.
I legit feel bad for him like he wanted to prevent it
@@super__sad, you mean that the parents could of.
@@super__sad it's mental health he couldn't had controlled it... you're just ignorant
@@super__sad did you even watch the video... It doesn't matter how old he is it was out of his control... He was so desperate to stop himself that he hurt himself. You think he would've done that if he COULD control himself
@@super__sad Yo, he did try to prevent it by...you know. His parents could have helped actually but they refused their son to have medication that would help his struggles. There was literally nothing this boy could do besides have sheer willpower, which was already starting to crumble.
super_sad in America it’s different you have to be over 18 in the UK it’s 16
This is the reason I would be an awful doctor. Sooner or later, I’d start yelling at people
Dr Manning does 😂
@@genius2655 fr, if she sees someone she disagrees with she goes OFF 😂😂
Same I would be like “YOUR SON IS HURTING OTHERS, HE ASKS FOR HELP AND WHAT DO YOU DO???? WHIP OUT A BIBLE???”
I’m scared I’m gonna do the same , I would straight up say “do u really don’t know what uve done? “ instead of “the important thing is what we are gonna do now”
@@aliyah4683 YES honestly I have 0 patience for that
He's completely lucid, and understands what his impulses may lead to and what he needs to do to stop them, he's way more mature than his parents
I hate those type of parents. Ignoring the signs and advices, and then getting shocked when something bad happens.
Exactly they are always so close minded and never accept new ideas. They just think that their way is the high way 🖐
Religion is stupidity
Doctors: your son wants to be chemically castrated so that he can avoid hurting a girl due to his violent impulses
Parents: no! He wouldn't try to hurt a girl
Son: *almost hurts a girl due to his violent impulses then tries to physically castrate himself*
Parents: *surprised pikachu face*
I hate parents like that
"Oh no he will never hurt a girl"
Bruuuh just because hes your son and you love him dosent mean you know who he is
@Vicky59ma 0 lmao i just noticed it lol il change it
"How did this happen?"
Buddy, you know EXACTLY how this happened.
"he would never do that!"
come back in a few years time when he's in jail because of it.
Sex is not a bad thing. I just hate that his parents told him this and left him repressed and instead of helping him read him bible verses. This is just a show but still.
Well how is it a goood thing its absolutely messed up
@@veraguga5316 It makes you feel good and allows you to procreate.
It's messed up when it's used to hurt people, that's all.
It makes people much more angry and more violent ...by experience
My grandmother believes that sex is just to make babies, she doesn't believe that you can enjoy sex because she never did. I've spoken to her but she doesn't believe that. My mom never taught me that. She explained the basics of sex and that it is used for making babies but as I got older I realized it was more than just that. She never told me it was just for that
@@idontevenhaveapla7224 no. She grew up believing that sex was for the husband. No matter what you want it was his choice. That's why she didn't care for it.
When parents put more faith in their bibles than their own child.... tsk tsk.
Here is the problem, the parents took that bible literally. The bible did help and God gave this child the amazing wisdom to know right from wrong. Something that his parents should have recognized as Gods sign. This is my opinion: "do not discard the bible by the values of inability to see its truth. Use the bible to live your truth."
God showed them the way, gave them a chance to see it but they chose to ignore that with their own perception in mind. The parents just failed to listen to the innocence in his admittance and Gods mercies that their child had through the knowledge of his problem. So, they refused to accept his truth.......unfortunately it happens too much that people are losing faith in Christianity
It's ok to have faith in the bible
..these parents are just naive, thats all.
@@marzadky4934, some psychology facts here, nature is how you are born and nurture is how you were raised, etc but God doesn't take any matter into it unless you're parents force you into it, etc.
Marzadky 🙌🏻
@@marzadky4934 Shouldn't take a fucking bible to know what's right or wrong.. Just tell your kid that he/she cannot do that (having normal sex at a legal age, is not included in a right and wrong), plain simple..
this was disturbingly acted.
just wow. that kid has real future ahead of him.
I just opened this and it came out with “I’ve had sex, all the time” I was like what 😂
thevoiceKK xx
I think he said, "I think of sex all the time". I don't know for sure.
// Tired Eyes \\ either way I was like woahhh 😂😂
thevoiceKK xx
Same,tbh 😂😂
r/ihavesex
Lol
The most annoying thing is that parents always assume that their kids are EXACTLY like them. Its is like oh i was able to deal with it, I was fine so will be my son.
The young guy is a great actor 😆
He sure is! 👍
They are ACTORS , YOU MEAN ALL CHICAGO MED IS ACTING LIKE NOT REAAAAAAALLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀🙀
Sondus Jabali same! I was like that when my Brother recognised the doctor/actor at the start!
Then he told me and I was like “WHAT!?”
True, he gave me the creeps.
@@sondusjabali7922 how did you not know who would want cameras shoved in their faces at the hospital
The fact that this poor boy is acting maturer than both of his parents.... He's on the perfectly right track alright, it's just that his parents messed him up psychologically. But still, he realises that and wants to work against it out of fear of hurting others.
A true hero for himself.
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So basically, instead of helping him, the parents decided the best way was to tell him about different bible verses and to stay holy
Ya, all those religious faith and their God would somehow deal with the issue. The sexual repressed individual was the outcome of his own parents' doing. Religious faith can do more harm than good.
@@Noa...... you know not all religious people are like this right?
@@notzoitsa8261 Thanks for sharing. It was nice.
Actual haha
@@Noa...... Prayer can help, but the most important thing is accepting the help he sends, like psychiatrists and therapists
I had a boy in my school who had similar problems. He would pinch, slap or pull a rubber band on his skin to stop himself from doing awful things. It came to the point where he started self harm. 8 months later, and he is starting to heal!!!
The parents: No chemical castration
Elliot:*Cuts his own testicles*
The parents: What did we do wrong?
BRUH
I KNOW RIGHT. SOME PEOPLE SHOULDN'T BE PARENTS I SWEAR TO GOD.
Some people shouldve been in the airport when mw2 happened i dunno bout you
They didn’t exactly explain it well. If i was a parent and had the conversation shown here I might deny it too.
They also jumped to this with no therapy at all. Bit extreme really.
Lxrelei fact is 3rd time seeing this only just realised how fucked that is dunno why I only just realised it doesn’t just cut it all of instantly you gotta like go through the tissue n shit
execute the parents in public
"Your son is hurting others"
"Oh no"
"What do we do?"
"We know..."
**WHIPS OUT BIBLE**
It works but therapy does too. And having hobbies
I think the doctors needed to communicate that sometimes the human brain cannot stop acting on some strong impulsive thoughts.
They thought giving him a conscience will help.
He already has it!!
The same book that tells to stone your kid to death for cursing at you. Or that eating shellfish is a mortal sin.
The first step is understanding you need help. You can't suppress natural urges but you can manage them with help.
C.C.M oh do you have a similar thing to this guy?
@@depressoespresso3931 one of my family members suffers from hypersexuality or scientifically called Satyriasis. It's not something to joke about.
C.C.M C.C.M I wasn’t joking or trying to insult you I was just asking. It would be really terrible to have hyper sexuality it isn’t this guys fault or your family members
C.C.M I don’t joke about medical conditions
@@depressoespresso3931 no biggy👍🤝
This show is so addictive, I wish they played it in my country 😢
Kathleen L where are you from ?
Same
Ela x pervert why do u know where she’s from
Kiwi Daily because she said it doesn’t play in her country so I was just curious what country she’s from for this show not to be aired.
Does it play in Britain?
Man, I would have thrown hands at "what did we do?" I admire the doctors' restraint.
"What are you doing, Elliot?"
"She looked cold."
ngl that made me laugh a little
Same.
especially since he was taking off her blanket instead of putting it on.
Cheng Tang the fact that he was taking off the blanket while dr. Choi was watching him take the blanket off and you would really only do they if they were hot. And is nobody talking about the fact that she was sleeping thru the big crash of the cart and him screaming?!?!
@@oliviahasenhindl2048 she wasnt sleeping, pretty sure she was on anesthesia
@@oliviahasenhindl2048 maybe she was in a coma?
Technically, the hospital can report the parents for that.
Glad I’m brunette
I’m glad I have black hair
😂
Well shit I guess im screwed
Sophie Jane lmao same
lucky you
At the end when the parents asked “wHaT DiD wE dO wRoNg?” I literally started screaming 😱
Me too! Had to stop myself screaming profanities at my phone…
"she looked cold"
*was removing blanket*
For this exact reason, hospital bathrooms don't lock
Yes they do lock but they can be open by the outside too. Unless someone spends a suspiciously length of time in the bathroom, no-one would know what someone was doing in there... Self mutilation or not.
@@NotAnotherKuromi Correct. It depends on the facility you go to but as I understand they either don't lock or there is a master key in the room or on nurses' belts.
@@graememacleod4651 Yes so the bathroom doors do lock... they can just be unlocked too.
Medical staff & security sometime have keys but that is more for rooms which have medical equipment & medicine in them. In most places where a patient will be staying for a short period of time, like the emergency department, outpatients or wards where inpatients are, they tend to not have keys on bathroom locks, they just have a twist lock on the inside & the outside can be opened by using a coin or a curved tool staff carry on a keyring. This prevents anyone from blocking the keyhole & a the door can quickly be opened in an emergency.
The only places where a bathroom/toilet door would not have a lock is either if the patient was trying to hurt themselves or kill themselves, even then they are often locked in a room for their own safety. Or if they were an inpatient with particular psychological problems where they have proven to commit dangerous actions in a bathroom they may lose the privilege or privacy, this is very rare though.
Graeme MacLeod true girl smashing smart
They do but they can be unlocked. I’m guessing that’s one of the reasons that he called for security so that they could come unlock the door. Dr. Choi probably didn’t have a key since he’s normally in the ED and not on the ward
I know Dr choi can be pretty cynical. Pretty harsh sometimes. He is also sort of a badass, just stone cold realising what the kid was about to do and kicking in the bathroom door.
Dr. Choi has to be the most intense character in this show. Brilliant actor
The real miracle is how that girl managed to stay asleep
Lol right?! Girl was in a chemically induced coma, only thing I can think of lol
ikr, maybe she was in a coma?
Wait,did he already rape her?
May be she was on meds,u know, since thats a hospital
@@sparshitasahu2539 nah he was about to
In the end when Dad asked "What did we do?", dr. Charles should have quoted something from the Bible...
Why do some people think that sex is only for reproductive purposes?
Because of their religion or cultural views.
Biologically seen it is. That’s why we also have menstruation because your body is preparing for a baby and if you didn’t get pregnant everything has to go out. But nowadays society actually is that far that we don’t need it for reproduction anymore or at least we do it not for reproduction only. (Sry for my English. I’m not native)
@@nicoleengel543 Many animals with higher intelligence also masturbate and have sex for pleasure, not procreation. In fact dolphins will rape other dolphins and use dead fish as masturbation tools, as humans we have empathy and enough understanding to have the concept of consent. Biologically, as intelligence increases the usage of sex shifts.
Thank religion
SendarSlayer Thats also something I agree on. I think the more intelligent the species gets (like how society changes) the less sex is for reproduction.
I mean like props to this kid for being smart enough to know that he could hurt someone/he knows that he wouldn't want to hurt someone on purpose. And getting help. Like hes honestly smarter the half the population
I love Chicago med u have 2 make full episodes available on TH-cam
they did click the button to the left and buy a episode
That would be sooo cool😍
You can watch them
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Hey
"How did this happen? What did we do?"
You didn't listen to your child and what he was warning you about.
Moral of the story, let your kids have an input in their treatment. If they have a wish, listen too it and consulfa doctor.
Wow, dr Charles is such a great doctor. He knows what the parents did wrong and could lecture them on it but instead he just tells them look at the present and not to get hung up on the past.
“How did this happen? What did we do?”
Ah, classic lines from parents who take religion too serious.
I hate when parent don't listen to their kids and always think any decisions they make is always the right one smh
I feel so bad for the kid. His parents are so selfish.
Wow, I've never had so many likes on a comment before! Thanks!
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You feel bad for a Peeping Tom that keeps hair of a girl as trophy/souvenir and almost undress a sleeping teen patient ?
@@flokevfrombx6222 I agree what he did was horrendous. but he wanted to have temporary chemical castration and his parents said no.
@@flokevfrombx6222 You do realize him his actions are the result of his parents being a pair of religious prudes who tried to brainwash him into thinking any kind of sexual activity that doesn't involve baby making is evil thus resulting in these sexual urges because of being denied to do any sort of activity by his parents instead of teaching him how it should be done in a healthy way.
I love how they placed him next to a blonde girl even when they knew that was his type
Emma N exactly
“how did this happen”
*flashback to Doctor’s recommendation*
“what did we do wrong”
Someone bit temp up
I actually have a lot of sympathy for this lad and people like this who really don't want to hurt people and reach out for support. It can't be easy because of the connotations but I wish more people would. Those who ignore help and go out and abuse others are truly scum.
When they refused i knew he was going to hurt himself, and the way he did it
I'm a Christian and I can vouch that I have come across many parents just like that. (Please read further)
It's really sad to see teens go through puberty and have their parents treat them like they crawled up out hell itself.
This is the time they need you the most, cause remember if you are not there for them others will be and there is no guarantee that those people have your child's best interest at heart.
To all parents out there remember when you went through a time like that, that's the same thing your kids are going through.
You cannot expect your kids to magically control desire when you yourself went along with every urge you had as a teen.
In the very least your kids are better than you ever was cause they admit their faults and try to do better, when all you did was claim how right you were.
Teach them to accept that these feelings are natural and use wisdom to deal with it.
Use your life experiences and show them how human you are. Show them that you experienced the same thing and instead of telling them it's wrong to do certain things explain to them the consequences of those actions.
For example: this kid in the video, instead of the parents acting the way they did.
Tell him,son these feelings and thoughts are perfectly normal, but you shouldn't act on them cause although the feeling of pleasure in the moment is amazing the probability of you ruining your life is high.
1.You could become a father at a young age, which will set your life back by many years.
You would not be able to reach the level you want to reach because you will have a child who you will have to feed and clothe and send to school. You will have a wife/partner you will have to take care of.
OR
2. If not that you might get a STD cause by your partner or multiple partners and in the future when you finally meet someone you want to spend your life with, how are you going to have a physical relationship with that person knowing you have this disease.
Waiting till you are older is better not because of religion but because your brain would have developed to a point where you can make these important decisions.
Wisdom doesn't come from just reading the Bible, but through life lessons and you cannot expect a 17 year old to understand what you at 46 years of age finally through hard life lessons understand.
Don't threaten them.
Don't judge them.
Use wisdom and
Inspire them
Love them
Protect them
And pass on what you know so they don't need to spend years figuring out. And one day the lessons that learn they can pass to their children.
Lots of love ♥️♥️♥️
It’s all his parents fault
Not all.........
@@jugemujugemugokonosurikire4735 Yes it is their fault. None of it would have happened if they weren't such a pair of religious prudes who flat out believe masturbation is evil and actually taught him about natural sexual urges and how to do it in a healthy way.
The way he rolls his shoulder at 2:41 shows just how much he his scared by any touch from his mum or dad. I dread to even imagine what else he or anyone else in his position has been through 😞
Kid: "I want to be chemically castrated."
Parents: "No." *reads him a bible verse instead*
Kid: *cuts off his own 🅱️alls*
Parents: 👁️👄👁️ "What did we do wrong?"
More "my little angel would never do such thing"
Exactly
I'm not surprised that the parents aren't aware on their actions.
I got the same type of parents
Now I came to know how harmful actually it is
I'm just so used to see the ER and the trauma section that I forgot the hospital has regular room and wards for patient. I was confused when Dr. Choi entered a room 😂
This is exactly my point. We ask for help (people with mental health issues of any kind) and nobody wants to, or the few who do can't for whatever reason, then we do something we begged for help to prevent and they say "if only we'd known" or "they should've seen someone"
OMG Dr. Choi 😍😍
I bet that ending was hard to film trying to calling out in pain while you've got some dude holding your junk nearly. Would love to see bloopers if there were any 😂😂
This hits pretty close to home for me. I'm planning on doing what he did because he/I couldnt get the medical treatment needed. The emotional pain... mirroring the physical... spot on. Powerful stuff. Never heard of this show before but Im fast becoming a fan.
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Either the door is really bad or Dr.choi is strong asf because he broke the damn door with one kick
He have a pure heart. But the chemical in his biology need to be treated.
How horrible it must be to be trapped with parents like that. They actually believe what they are doing is best for you, when in reality, they destroy you
I love how he is pulling the cover of of her and then says she looked cold
The actor who played the boy was phenomenal
damn, it’s 3:00am
2:16pm
@@margarbieadams8200 time zones, its 7:20pm in London
11:17pm
21:40
8:44pm
I have to hope that if you get to most of these future offenders early, that there is a chance that someone who would have been hurt, wasn’t hurt and traumatised because the person who would have committed that crime had the bravery to say, “I don’t want to hurt somebody, I need help”
It doesn’t always work, but I’d assume it’s like most things, the earlier these thoughts and behaviours are challenged the more likely you are to prevent another predator from going out and attacking people.
This is why, ultimately, a minor needs to have the final say on their own healthcare decisions. Body autonomy is extremely vital and should be a right for everyone.
Yes, so 13 year olds can decide to mutilate their bodies because they feel uncomfortable in their body. We have that now in some western countries, and it's not good.
Good on the boy for actually realizing he's wrong and wanting to do something about it. People should be like that
dude please i legit started crying when he castrated himself. he knew he was endangering others so instead he hurt himself.
Poor kid, and poor son. I felt his pain and the parents just sweep it under the rug in the name of their pride.
I kinda feel bad for doctor Charles because he have seen/dealt with some messed up docky
The parents want what's best for their son without knowing what that is. The kid knows his own thoughts and body, to him the chemicals would be better than attacking someone or hurting himself but there was nothing he could do when faced with that choice, his parents can't blame themselves for loving him but they NEED to listen.
Omg 😲 the blood at the end when he was in the bathroom
good chap, he understands there is something wrong with him and he makes the ultimate step to try to stop him self before its too late. good für him.
I'm happy he confused to the doctor before he hurt a girl. That's so mature of him
Very brave young man to admit these violent urges to Doctors.
6:09 i loved the authority in dr.choi's voice. He knew what was happening and he was making sure he doesnt hurt that girl
girl :sleeping
boy:hiding
his pp:”YOU DIDNT HAVE TO CUT ME OFF”
Guy: there was this one girl, Lacey.
**my phone opens siri**
Isa Harbers OMG that happened to me
Lol
Sometimes parents can be so delusional that they don't even realise they are hurting the people they love
It’s so sad that his parents are so blinded by their faith and beliefs that they can’t give their son the help he needs and that in the end he came to the conclusion that he had to castrate himself. I have nothing against religeous people btw but sometimes I think some people go overboard
Yes like how some people unfornately and wrongfully got burned ALIVE in the 1500s apparently PURELY because of some difference in religion or maybe something like that
„that’s stupid he would never do something like that. we want to take him home you guys are sick“
ten minutes later
„oh no how did that happen what did we do“ smh
Ah Joey Luthman, possibly the BEST background actor ever, he does what he does amazingly without needing a huge role to show his talent
Honestly, this is also the kind of parents you need child services for. Jeez. It's a gift to have a child who recognizes the problem and asks help but parents dismiss them.
When Ethan found him in that girls room, my blood ran cold. This clip was kinda scary ngl
He's strong for confronting his disturbing feelings like that, it would take an enormous amount of strength and to talk about it❤️❤️❤️❤️
'Where did we go wrong?'
Er, shoving those damn ideas down his throat and seeking help from the Bible instead of medical help, when u had the chance. That's what -_-
That door shutting after he said "NOW"
Seriously perfectly times performance
Amazing video! I watch you guys all the time it makes me want to be a doctor/nurse. THANK YOU SM CHICAGO MED YOU GUYS ARE MY IDOLS
These doctors are so patient 😫😫I would’ve told them piece of my mind😭😭😭
He went nuts.
6:29 something about the door closing as soon as he says 'NOW' is incredibly satisfying, adds a lot of impact behind his tone and word
he freaking cut his own you know where.
LITERALLY EVERY MALE HERE CAN FEEL THE PAIN AHHHHH
I can respect someone who admits that they have a problem.
IS IT JUST ME OR DID ANYONE ELES REALISE WHAT JUST DID AT THE END ?!?!?
The cringe 😭😫
No but now I did lol
the noise the doors make when they open is so satisfying
His parents are ridiculous they don’t know his son clearly.
Couldn't they have even derived wisdom from Bible verses to help him instead of just reading them at him? My parents are pretty religious and they don't just read verses from our Holy Book when something goes wrong as though that magically fixes things.
Perfectly said, they ignored Gods reply when there child knew his problem before he could act on it. If that wasn't insight from God and their faith in His words, then why the hell were those parents reading the bible. The bible is not a tool for fixing issues but one that helps in understanding them.......My mother is an evangelist so I deeply understand where you are coming form and how much frustration I have with those who claim to know Christ and Christianity but never get it.
@@marzadky4934, no one knows Christ
@@marzadky4934 It is called faith for a reason. Not facts. Also, one should not conflate belief with...knowledge based on evidence.
People are dumb. God can't prevent that. The Bible is a text open to interpretation. People will use it whichever way they want to.
@@blardyhell3095 A character can be whoever you want them to be.