What is "baiting"? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships)
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One of the last things I told my Narc before we separated was, “the reason you are so cruel and mean to me is because when you look at me I am EVERYTHING you are not.”
You’ll also often see a sadistic smirk on their face once you react. These are sick individuals
This woman is raising me better than my parents are my life has changed so much since I started watching
“Exploiting your vulnerabilities instead of protecting them.” This explanation helps make it clear for me. Thank you. 🙏🏻
They will accuse you of what they are guilty of.
Not giving the Narcissist what they want is one of the most enjoyable and powerful gifts we can give ourselves.
It destroyed me how my reactions to the abuse was turned on me as if I were the problem. It is the most head muddling situation I have ever been through. Be careful with opening up on your mental health to people like this.
My favorite is when they bait, you comment, they get offended and dismissive, and the word salad happens, the conversation rapidly devolves, and you’re left reeling for days reflecting on how it went. This is every conversation with my family member.
My narc discarded me today. I'm still celebrating.
They are addicted to drama. People getting along is just boring to them.
My rotten mother was a FULL BLOWN narcissist. When she died it was one of those "thank God THAT'S over" moments!
Perfect example of baiting: I have very tightly curled hair that I let grow in after years of straightening it. I found a brush that really glides through the curls and showed it casually to a narcissist. Their response-"Wow, that reminds me of those brushes they use for dogs." My response-"I don't know about dogs but it works wonderfully on my curly hair. I'm so glad I found it!" I literally saw his whole countenance fall and a very disturbed look on his face immediately after my not taking the bait and him not getting his supply.
No one is allowed emotions or reactions except the narcissist. They only want a positive mirror of who they imagine themselves to be. Give them anything else and you’re the bad guy.
When I stopped engaging, he didn't know what to do. He really believed things were getting better between us. I was compliant and agreeable. I really just accepted that he wasn't going to change. I got a plan together and got out of Dodge. He was blindsided. 🤯 It was awesome watching him squirm for once. He no longer had control once I left and was scrambling to find a way to get me back. I had done so much research and finally understood his mind games that I was immune to his manipulation.i had already mourned the death of the relationship for so long before I left that I was DONE. I accepted that he was a liar. Anything he promised was a LIE. Even when trying to get me back he could not own up to ANYTHING. He just kept repeating "please come back" , but was not willing to acknowledge the millions of reasons I left to begin with. It just confirmed that I had made the right decision.
I was 48 y/o before I learned about NPD. This needs to be explained in high school, it would save many people a lot of grief. Dr Ramani has over one million subscribers so narcissism must be quite mainstream
My mother is a TEXTBOOK case of narcissism. I didn't have a word to describe her until now. Any time you talk about narcissism, i have a story of her behaving that way somewhere in my traumatic memory. I forgave her horrible behavior every single time. The last straw that broke the camel's back is when she tried to ruin my wedding 2 days before my wedding. Canceled 60 guests by lying to them. Tried to cancel the vendors and the priest. Thankfully I spoke to all the vendors since I was paying them and clarified that they are still hired. But that was it. Ruining my wedding that i planned for 2 years was the final assault. Never looked at her again.
there is no dealing with a narcissist.
This lady is a true genius who has focused her immense intellect on this subject. We are all very blessed to have her.
I'm so ashamed when I actually react. I do know better. Then he just smirks and so happy he got to me.
I just tried these strategies with my abusive ex wife, and she did all the responses- baiting, gas lighting, avoiding the issue, etc. I’ve never felt so clean after dealing with her, usually I feel like spending the day crying. Thank you so much, you’ve literally changed my life