If Someone Broke Your Heart Watch THIS (by Coach Lee)
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- Coach Lee provides encouragement and hope that you can survive heartbreak and thrive on the other side of it. He provides powerful steps to overcoming a broken heart. Get his Emergency Breakup Kit at myexbackcoach.... and the Emergency Marriage Kit at myexbackcoach....
Thanks!
Thank you for the tip (a.k.a. the "THANKS") Jay!
Thank you also coach but if i just saw your video after my very first broke up I should’ve got my ex back…now i think its too late now😔
Watching the emergency breakup kit rightnow😢
How are you getting on Jay?
I bought your marriage breakup kit 🙏
*Listen to Coach Lee on repeat as much as you need to. Jesus is my savior, but Coach Lee is his sidekick!*
Absolutely!
Well stated my friend!
Mine too savior love you Jesus thank god for your beautiful son who died on the cross for me
Amen bless his name.
Yep I listen to his videos every time I feel like texting him and I just feel better and don’t text
"It's in God's hands", thank you very much coach Lee. You said it all. God bless you.
I am a 66 year old Licensed Psychologist who was brought to my knees by the ending of a 10 year relationship. I cannot thank you enough for the gifts you have given me through your videos and the ways in which your kind wisdom reminds me of my worth and helps keep me on track. Thank you.
It’s truly the worst pain next to the loss of a child. Truly excruciating. I’m praying for your heart🩷
These videos used to be the only reason I could sleep I’d watch them till I could fall asleep. I couldn’t eat, I had thoughts of self harm or worse, I cried every day, I felt physical pain from my breakup. I just celebrated my 2 year anniversary with the absolute love of my life, he’s everything I’ve ever wanted and more. I’m so happy. I promise you’ll be okay, it’s small steps, every day and that’s all it’ll be for a long time; pushing yourself to take the small steps every day until one day you notice you haven’t cried in a week. Then you eat your meals like normal. Then someone new makes your heart jump. I promise you’ll be okay, please take care of yourself, you can do this you’ve gone through so much, I promise you can do this
Thank you so much
I used to watch this on repeat after an incredibly hard break up with a ex who coldly left me. Now I watch because these videos are a great reminder of how to value yourself- break up or not. And they are a reminder of self control and the need for strength and dignity. If a person is meant for you and you are wholeheartedly working on yourself in the relationship to show up and have equal give and take with solid boundaries and strength. and you know you showed up in the best way and treated your partner respectfully. And they did something like left you randomly without voicing things bothering them, or maybe they have been cheating the whole time or wanted to see if the grass is greener. Then this person isn’t someone you would ever want to be with anyways. Let them go. Let them make that decision. But if it changes and they want reconciliation and you have seen their true colors, it just might be too late.
Did they try to come back
Well said
My ex did try to come back. It had been over a year since we had broke up. As soon as I walked away and started dating someone new. He actually showed up repeatedly at my apartment and begged and cried. He called repeatedly. But he has drug addictions and is a narcissist and I knew I deserved better now. when I looked back at how he treated me it was sickening how blinded I was at the time. I wasn’t seeing how bad he was for me. I’d rather be alone the with a liar and a cheat. They aren’t worth the stress people, and they will ruin your self esteem when you are likely more attractive then them and have a lot more going for you then them. And even if that’s not the case- it still isn’t about you- it’s likely an issue they have that isn’t resolved. And they will continue repeating the pattern with a new person and put them through the same crap.
WOW !! I read your words, you went threw alot, I do understand your feelings.I personally just change my number , i to was heart broken.Thank you for sharing your past feelings
🤯 yes girl!
This guy and his "Breakup kit" probably saved my life....
How so?
I bought it too and I’m currently in the process of using it, I feel so much better and I’ve seen so much improvement in myself and I’m glad I did them for myself. Maybe she’ll realize what she lost one day
Update?
This is week 7 & I haven’t cried since last week so I think I’m finally accepting the break up & feeling better. Thanks for helping me get thru this Coach🤗
I hope you get what you deserve . Alot of this boys are playing off. God help us 😭
The hurt doesn't go away sadly to say...Even when your happy and years past by the thought of the betrayal always become a thought in your head..Don't want to get your Ex back its like quitting smoking cigarettes and wanting to get smoking back very very toxic for you...
Did they reach out to you?
How you doing now?
@@Loveskelly-hr No he has not reached out
If you live in the past, you live with depression. If you live in the future, you live with anxiety. If you live in the now, you will live with happiness. I am 6 months into a separation from my wife of 15yrs. I was a RECK! But I picked myself up with the help of Coach Lee, and you know what. You start to focus on you, the rest will fall into place. Not right away though, time is your friend. Use it and use it to your advantage!
I have been with my wife 40 years 4 children and she left me for someone else 4 months after she left she is living with him telling me she is not commiting adultery on me and that she didn't plan this out before leaving me or had any affair before leaving me, but introduced my daughter to this same scum bag , forcing my daughter to give him a hug a year before leaving me because he had given my daughter a small satchel of sage. This guy is supposed to be some elder healer.we are still married , and She still claims to not be committing adultery on me . I have been left with PTSD and in solitude for 11 months now. Living in my past with depression because of what these demons have done to me . The future doesn't even cross my mind and the moment is a living hell . There are some very evil people in this world and I always thought my wife was a treasure and I always treated her like a gem . And this was how I was repaid . 🤬
@@SamuelMcGregor-sn7dfdamn man It hope I got better
@@SamuelMcGregor-sn7dfsorry man that sucks
It’s been almost a month and a half since we broke up and since I started no contact, Coach Lee’s videos helped me feel better and get to the point where I don’t want my ex back even if he reached out. Things do get better but it starts with realizing your own self-worth!
Dear, it gets better as time goes on.... Btw I'm also about to be 2 years no contact 😊 stand strong and you will be fine.
@@hwdareu5848 2 years ?! oh my... i.m only 1 year , and i gave up... but i.m hurting like the day she left
@@Alexxander100 6 months here. I think I've already accepted the breakup but i can't accept not seeing her anymore; it still feels absurd (we got along well). What take her (or him) to make that decision can really make a difference in how painful for the dumped is gonna be the breakup and "aftermath".
Damn, it can take awhile. How is it now
One day you'll come back here in the future to thank Mr Lee for guiding you put of the pain. Once you focus all energy on your health, fitness and style and get that self esteme back up and ate proud of your accomplishments the heartbreak goes away and you're unbelievably strong, content and proud. She'll even probably reach out but honestly you won't be interested and it will feel good to ignore her!
"You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you." YES!!!! 🙌🙌🙌 Thank you for helping those of us with abandonment issues learn to value ourselves. Honestly, I'm not even going through a breakup; I just listen to you to prepare for my next heartbreak. LOL. I am well prepared! You're doing such important work, Coach!
No doubt it helps. Of course most of us came upon his videos because of hard breakup, But had I known then what I know now, probably no break up would have happened, and if so, the pain would have been much much lessened. Good tools to have beforehand.
Lol thanks I needed that laugh
I’m living with my husband and I know he’s different. He used to do exactly what he’d say he was, now he tells me things but then, for example, somethings changed in the plans. He calls my emotions drama. I caught him lying not long ago he said he only lied once. He doesn’t want to have sex with me. I found pictures of him a few months back with his mouth on some woman’s breast and the thing is he’d recently put them there cause I’d never found them before. He acts secretive on his phone and I told him all we are is roommates. I’ll die before I break down again in front of him. Im so lonely. So depressed. I feel uncomfortable. Who doesn’t make love while married? I know that answer and all I wanna do is stay asleep. I feel so crushed.
@@angiemiller3408 that’s so heartbreaking, I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
@@LK-sk2wv thanks
Coach Lee, this is the best video I have seen from you so far! When you said "I ONLY want to be with someone who wants to be with me, NOT someone who would walk away" it was like someone turning on a light in a dark room. Suddenly I saw my situation completely differently - I was no longer the"flawed individual" he rejected, suddenly I was a person who knew my value! And anyone who doesn't see my value is not welcome in my life. THANK YOU for your wisdom... My whole perspective has changed! THIS STATEMENT will be my rallying cry going forward!!
6:10 The holy Spirit talked to me right there. What you said was true.
Jesus said- Matt 6:34 So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.
Thank you big dog !!
i love this comment👌❤
Amen!!
Amen
Amen
"At the end of a storm comes a golden sky" - This fellow is highlighting and clarifying the obvious - and it's good timely advice.
Thumbs up to all of us in this comment section with a big, loving heart that's been broken. But we are strong. We are worthy and will repair it once again. The world needs lovers like us even though we must often suffer for it. Make no mistake, the people who cast us aside will realise one day the love that they had and threw away because it doesn't come around often. Then they too will see our worth and know what they lost. Stay strong and let's move forward together. Stronger! ❤️💪
I dont think that my ex will get back to me but i am listening to this anyways to get me through this heartbreak
I almost died when he left me..i begged and pleaded for him to not leaving me but he still left ..it’s been almost a month and I’m in NC even i saw him texting and calling me sometimes…i always watched your videos to stopped myself of contacting him..not easy ..i keep crying 😢 but I’ll get through this in time 😢😢😢💔🙏
That one is nice. No contact will help you heal. But he or she is contacting you. Just ignore. They might playing mind Games. That why a situation like is good to blocked them. So that you focus your energy and love to yourself. ❤
Keep going, there's light at the end I promise you, well done for no contact.. Big hugs x
You will definitely be fine sis. 😊
It's so nice to know I am NOT the only one going through this shitty time in my life 💖
❤BE STRONG EVERYONE!❤
This is a very different type of Video and honestly, one of the best. Its realistic and encouraging. We should Never be someones option. Thanks, Coach. You are awesome.
I never thought I'd be betrayed and abandoned by my husband of 15yrs. I've never had my heart and soul crushed so much in my life. It made me hit rock bottom. 😢
“Stay right here” nearly had me crying when he said that.
It really is in Gods hands now there is nothing I can do to bring him back to me. All I know is that my heart aches and the pain is unbearable. This too shall pass
It has been 4 weeks now and I feel much better. Something just clicked yesterday. It was the way he was handling the break up. He was cold and dismissive. Telling me I will find someone else but he still loves me and always will.
Exactly, I survived other heartbreaks and I sure will survive this one, the toughest one thus far.
Thank you Coach Lee!
This is exactly what my ex is saying. How are you getting on 10 months later?
@@fudgemcmuffinsame, my boyfriend left 3 weeks ago and he’s been so cold and distant it kills me. My pain is raw. I cannot wait to feel better
@@fudgemcmuffinfollowing this
I've had my heart broken, before...but it's different this time...I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her...and I'm no spring chicken..
Your advice is spot on. It hurt so bad when he dumped me. He's a Narcissist. It took me almost 5 yrs to get over him. Once I learned about myself. & what a Narc is, it was easier to heal. Now I'm stronger I wouldn't go back with him if he asked me. He's not the man I met...i found out he's a selfish & angry person. God helped me and you've been a blessing, Coach Lee.
the absolute best advice from coach lee is to bow out politely and quietly. do not beg and chase and plead. when you are easy to break up with YOU ARE EASY TO COME BACK TO. because the dumper knowss they hurt you and they do not know if they can be in this relationship anymore and they knwo if they come back you have to break up AGAIN. when you are easy and quiet about it you make it easy for them to consider returning as they know this process already, and how you react. cheers
I'm loving someone who doesn't exist anymore she isn't the same and it hurts a lot 😭
That's me now. Maybe I did not really know this man. He is acting like a stranger.
They choose to leave you
Anyone who might be reading this just know one thing and keep telling yourself that every time you feel anxious or heartbroken every single time keep Reminding yourself
THEY CHOOSE TO LEAVE YOU AND HURT YOU AND THEY KNOW THIS HURTS
BUT THE CHOOSE TO LEAVE YOU!
even if you get them back imagine the trust issue you will face with them you will be constantly anxious and in constant state of worry and you will end up or they will end up sabotaging everything and you will go through it again and again
Please dont do this to yourself
THEY CHOOSE TO LEAVE YOU
THEY CHOOSE TO HURT YOU
And remember they didn't break your heart
You heart is much stronger than them
They broke your expectations of them
Great video.
In my case, my ex did not make a mistake breaking up with me. She had to choose herself and she also had to push me to break out of my bubble. If she hadn't dumped me I would most likely still not be doing the things I have to do to become a better, stronger person. I'm doing meditation to battle against depression and social anxieties, I've started driving lessons and dancing lessons and I'm much more invested in finding a new job. I started doing these things with the objective of reigniting her passion for me but I now know that I am doing them for myself. Whatever happens, I will be happier than before.
Thank you, Leon. Very insightful.
I noticed a lot of people write posts like "If he/she left me she doesn't deserve me" like Coach Lee said humans are not perfect. They lose their focus, make bad decisions, misinterpret their feelings and so on. Good things are not easy and for good things you need to make an effort. Everyone wants a job that pays 20k a month but nobody wants to study and go to college. Everybody wants to drive a brand new car but nobody wants to work for it. Same thing with relationships. To make a relationship good means to put effort in it if the 2 people have a connection Sometimes people need to grow and be stronger than before. Learn the skill of forgiving guys it really helps in life ;). Also a lot of the times you aren't a second choice or as people say "Their relationship failed and now the are crawling to me" it may be true but you don't know for sure. Drop that ego my friends and you will be surprised at how many things you misunderstood. Have a good one!
Love it!
Settimg standards is something I need to do...the no contact does work but she's rejected me 3 times in 3 months. I'm 50 now...really don't need this...3 times going through break up with the same person. Far too much now.
She told me, now isn't the right time for us. She needs to fix herself first before anything else. Cause she's immature for her age, and insecure with herself and her peers. but i will try again after a few years. hopefully she opens her heart to me again. it's not that she dont wanna be with me, she made the decision for her own development and i understand and respect her wishes. I plan on coming back to her after i've found a job and become a more dependable and more God-centered man for her. Hope and Pray it all goes well.
5 minutes to new year, how many are here for strength to carry on this new year eve alone for the first time after a long while?
I felt so much pain when my partner who was once a loving, kind and funny person became a person who is indifferent, dismissive, rude, entertaining other people, distant and so on. You gave so much even in hard times to a point where he started to take me for granted. I sometimes do wonder why people hurt so such to someone whose only intention is to love you genuinely. One thing i understood, when you give someone something which is so genuine and pure, they dont have value for all those things. Trust me its rare when people truly realise their mistake. Most of the time, they come back to compensate their guilt or for ego reasons. May God bless all the heartbroken people like me❤
It's crazy because I was not looking for love he came in my life just to promise fake dreams, tell me things I wanted to hear, and he moved on so quickly, and quick to start an argument, he broke my heart, I'm over it!
Being authentic sometimes means the intensity of your hurt makes it hard to recognize how valuable and powerful these truths are - keep listening. Truth has a way of sinking in.
I needed this video. Even if it’s 4 month sometimes it’s hard to move on. From today I decided to allow myself to grow to heal and heal and heal. Im almost there.
Same boat, 4 months. Found out she went back to her ex before me. I found that hilarious because she always talked so much shit on the guy. Guess I'm now that guy, but it's her loss. Been dating others and having a good time
Dude it's been 6 months for me and I'm not all the way there yet. We dated for 2.5 years and she blindsided me. When you really love someone, it's hard. 3-4 months is not enough sometimes, and there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, it probably says good things about you and your ability to care about others that you ARE still hurting after 4 months. Don't judge yourself, everyone is different.
@@ryanmccarter9859 I’m glad it’s not only me thinking this way. We dated for 8/5 month I truly loved him unconditionally he had a commitment issue that was the only issue
Coach Lee was my go to channel after my breakup over a year ago now, my ex tried several times to come back . I was and am able to get over it and move on with my life. Thanks , Coach Lee!!!
Hi did you ever respond to his messeges? Mine has been trying to reach out I have been ignoring his messeges...
@@Itspaolatina yes… I responded to her messages! We ended our relationship over two years ago now, however she wishes to still see me and stay connected! I haven’t decided to see her!!! Her and I are amicable!!!
I HOPE COACH LEE REALLIZES HOW VERY MUCH HE IS HELPING THE. BROKEN HEARTED, GOD BLESS COACH LEE
My motto ( lyrics from a song) for my broken heart has always been " if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with. " And I did just that and the one I was with, helped my heart heal. The one you're with will help your heart heal. :)
Been 4 days since he broke up with me due he cannot cope with his issues. Cried but did not beg to him, he was cold and distant even offered to be nasty to me to "help" me to get over him. I said beside being hurt I do not need to be humiliated on top.
Don't want him back though your videos are very useful and cannot stop binge watching g them.
Sent an "I forgive you, I hate what you did to me but cannot hate you" message the next day and that's that. Just focusing on myself and not forgetting the lessons I've learnt from this experience.
Don't need him back just because he feels sorry for me or something like that. I don't need pity, I need love.
This is the hardest situation I had to endure thus far😥
How do you feel now?
Coach Lee, God bless you and thank you for your videos. This is the 1st time I've felt compelled to share part of my story so here goes.... My wife and I married on October 22, 2009. We had always enjoyed an adult beverage in a social setting. Unfortunately, beginning in 2016 through December of 2017, I was drinking excessively. January of 2018 I checked myself into a rehab facility. Praise The Lord I'm still sober to this day. But on Oct 21, 2019. The day before our 10yr anniversary, I was handed divorce papers and she asked me to leave. I packed my bag and explained to our daughters(at the time was 9yr and 3yr old) that Dada had to leave and to pray about things and made sure they knew it wasn't their fault and that I love them with all my heart and they would always be my baby girls. I believe this had to be the most difficult day for all of us. With my babies crying and screaming "Dada stay! Please don't leave!". I drove to the closest gas station and parked. I wanted to be close in case they needed anything. I lived in my truck until it was repossessed due to being laid off because of the Covid shutdown. After 2weeks(during Feb)of staying behind the dumpster at the gas station and freezing, I finally swallowed my pride and asked for help. I called my mother. She left work, picked me up and brought me to her house. At 41yr old, I still live with her and cut grass within walking distance to pay child support. Her attorney/the court, only allow 3hr supervised visits every other weekend until I complete a 24week substance abuse class at $2,305. If I miss a week, I have to start over. With visits being 3hrs, every other weekend, that totals 78hrs a year I am blessed to see my girls. Plus still being in love with my wife. I humbly admit to being far beyond heartbroken and in an effort to remain transparent, not a day goes by that I don't break down in tears and pray.... I do appreciate you and your videos. They do help from time to time. Thanks again Coach Lee and GOD BLESS.
Just want to say you can work on yourself and continue to be better. The first which you have already accomplished is to acknowledge your problem and weakness. Now you just have to work to solve it. You can do this, your might change your wife mind and take you back, but if not, you will be great daddy for your kids. Cheer up!!
@Blythe Girl Your words of encouragement are appreciated more than words can say. I too believe this "new day" will come. Plus the combination of choosing to TRUST in GOD'S TIMING on everything, has provided a peace within that wasn't there. In return I've been more focused on my baby girls and we have grown closer as a result.... I can't help but being reminded of "ISAIAH 54:17) No weapon formed against thee shall prosper".... Thank you again for the kind words. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙇♂️
Sending you love and energy brother. I admire your strength to continue working on bettering yourself.
@@optikadayz3659 Ty sweetie for sharing your story. It’s so empowering. Trust me, you WILL grow from the experience and as time passes you’ll continue to have a terrific relationship with your kids and get out there and be the best YOU that you can be!
made me cry reading this bro. i wish you the best. we can't give up
Thank you Coach Lee. On Nov. 7th, it'll be one year ever since my ex broke my heart and continued to break it after the relationship.She was friends with me at first, but then I became the guy who heard every update about her love life, which broke my heart even more. I ultimately had to let her go. But thanks to you and your videos that I've watched time and time again, I'm in a much better place than I was in 2020. As for my ex, I highly doubt she's going to come back because when we were together and after we broke up, she told me every time that when she broke up with someone, she forgot about them and moved on to the next best thing. Wherever that takes her in life doesn't concern me because I live my own life. Thank you again Coach Lee, you are truly a life saver.
Lee I’ve said it before and I’m saying it again, you are doing gods work with these videos. They really lift me up!
Keep it going!!!
Always trust that whatever you need to know is revealed to you
I appreciate you saying “you don’t want someone that doesn’t want to be with you”. I’m at the point where I no longer want him back. I still love him but him not texting me or calling me back made me realize that I’m okay with him. He was actually teaching me how to live without him and a few weeks ago, I realized I could live without him. He was not even being a good friend by not showing up without a text or call that he couldn’t make it. His action made me realize, “you know what, I don’t want you in my life…. You only care about yourself… I’m done too”
This is an incredibly powerful video. I have no family near me since I live in a different country but this video speaks to me like my dad would. This video was THE video I didn’t know I was looking for but needed. Gives me goosebumps.
My ex broke up with me and moved 4 doors up. It’s been so tough but made things a lot easier to get through it quicker. She has been seeing guys but I am taking the better route.
Thank you Coach Lee it has been 19 months since my ex husband left me & my beautiful 4 kids, I have done all the wrong things to try & hold on to my family but it has taken me almost 2 years & hours of watching your videos to realize I can move on without him! Time to wipe the tears from my eyes & focus on me & my kids not on getting him back. Thank you!!! You really are an angel in disguise🙏🏻
Carmen Carmona,You look stunning 🌹🌷,Hope you are not with a narcissist!
Best wishes on this difficult journey. Hope your children are doing well.
My husband if 32 yrs just left two weeks ago to go back to his family in another state. His family told him he can replace me fast that he needs to go back home with them . He left made it look so easy to leave me and our daughter . We are both going through it I'm not able to sleep or do much. His been sending me songs . Just tonight he sent me two one was I'm letting you go another do you remember. Crazy both are so different. Other is for give me instrumental sad and numb instrumental. But as I looked up his picture on Facebook looks like his got hickes his not wearing a shirt has his hair down and says his separated . I've been crying like crazy. I'm pissed off my daughter is upset and she's been helping me . This is just so much. Looks like his doing great when we aren't. I hope you are doing great and your children. 🕊️
I’ve been where you’re at and have come out the other side with my faith. My kids are fine and God lifted my head everyday when I thought I couldn’t. It’s on them what they have done leaving their own family not on us. They’re carrying the sin and surely they’re not having the time of their life trust me.
I was doing pretty good with no contact. I only responded to him if he reached out first. We broke up 3 months ago, but never stopped contacting each other. I finally said I couldn't be just a friend, and that I need to heal. He abruptly stopped saying goodnight 5 nights ago. And then last night I accidentally send him an emoji (it was an accident)! He replied and then we both exchanged xo's. It seems silly that even getting that took away so much anxiety. But I am alone and missing him more every day! 😔 and on top of things, I only prolonged our separation by contacting him. I'm so sad and feeling hopeless. I love him so much. We were planning to live together and our move in date was yesterday. So this week is really emotional for me. I am 57, and I am a Christian, and there are so few men out there that I would consider dating. So my question is, how bad did I ruin things and is there any hope?
I believe a lot of it is how the person breaks up with you. If it is done in a cold hearted and cruel way then that, to me, shows the inner character of that person. So, why would I want him back. Someone who is kind and caring does not break up in a cruel way, they still do it kindly and as least hurtful as possible. This person can be forgiven and taken back.
Hi Coach Lee. It has been one year after my break up and I looked back when a year ago I kept listening to your videos, alll I can say is what you said is, so, fucking, true!
Thank you so much for accompanying me through down times. I’m really
Happy now..
Did ur ex come back
When will it start to feel better? When will the hurt stop? Because it’s taking forever & I hate feeling like this.
Coach Lee, you are helping me through a terrible break up. I feel so heart broken and having a hard time getting through it. I appreciate your uplifting advice.
ashleysales1958, I suggest you book a Coaching session with Coach Lee or a coach on his staff
myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/
Fourteen months still broken hearted but healing slowly. Healthy healing is the goal. But, I do know in my case, once they are gone they are gone. So realize that and focus on healing.
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Destroyed and consumed with grief. Trying to explain to people heart break is like trying to bite your own gums, impossible...
Destroyed, meanwhile they smile/laugh and move on as if it were nothing...
...Thank you for the video...
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Hey there, how are you doing, I know how it feels to get heartbroken
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±19515998468⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works i can't believe i am with my lover back after many years of break-up.,...
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Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.
I found your video as someone suggested you on Reddit. My boyfriend of almost 5 years broke up with me last night, so it's raw. I'm 39 next month and this has hit me hard but maturity has given me a different viewpoint. I didn't beg, I accepted that if he doesn't want me around anymore, then I will give him what he wants. Your video has really validated how I feel, and I have started no contact as soon as he left my home. Thank you for these videos, I am going to watch daily until this raw feeling is gone (and I subscribed) :)
Good luck to you. We're in this together. My ex of 9 years just finally moved out of our home together. I'm 40.. It's been about 4 weeks now since he broke up with me. I'm taking it one day at a time and giving myself markers to check in on myself (8 weeks, 12 weeks,6 months) and watch how much I've grown and changed. I just wanted you to know... You are not alone. We got this
@@Volvaura Thank you for your kind words. It’s comforting when others reach out.
Milestones are a good idea, it helps you move forward and focus on yourself ❤️
God will give a good a man the will do better than your ex,am going through the same right now,my was last 2weeks I feel like the sky is coming down on me,I so much love her,but I thank God am here with coach lee
You are not alone. I am 39 also, married for 10, together for 12. Stay strong we got this!
I can definitely relate to your breakup. I was devastated after being with my Fiancé for 5 years. I ended up in Therapy and reading self help books. THE BEST thing that happened to me is when I found Coach Lee. I BINGE WATCHED HIM! It takes TIME, but I got over him, and the Love & missing feeling went away. Take care of yourself, and keep listening to Coach Lee. Good luck to you..⚘️
Coach Lee is awesome! He’s the only way I’m getting through this. I just wish the pain from the betrayal would go away. I wish I wasn’t such a good woman who cared for him and cared and helped so much with his child. Why do good people get hurt and the the ones who hurt others continue living life as if nothing ever happened?
Coach Lee your videos are by far the absolute best. Thank you for all that you do.
Omg yes! You took all the words right out of my mouth. I’m in the exact same boat as you Lola. May God bless and heal your heart ❤️
Yes :( they get to move on while we struggle to heal.
I'm going out with my ex tomorrow, 2 years after our break up. I've met her recently after we haven't talked in a long time, and she seems way more mature and i feel like I've matured a lot too (we're still in our early twenties though, so we have a lot to learn still).
I reached out the day after i met her cause i was really impressed with the progress she made in these 2 years (she was in a very bad place mentally) and i felt truly happy for her. I asked for a coffee and she accepted without a second thought.
As far as tomorrow goes, I'm gonna go there with nothing in mind, i just wanna talk about our last 2 years and how our lives are right now, i think it could be fun. Feel free to leave an advice if you want, i will be appreciated
After you guys break up. She's in a relationship or not?
Who broke up with who
Hope it goes well, brother. I understand the feelings of people who say "an ex is an ex for a reason," but in my opinion, it's not always true. Very few people are exactly the same person today that they were yesterday, and over time, two people can develop in ways that make them better suited for each other. It won't always be the case, obvious, but just to preclude the possibility with blanket statements seems to me like you could potentially be depriving yourself of something really special.
@@norellmarksalaan9587 no, she's in an open relationship right now. But i don't have the time nor i want to be in a serious relationship, so it's not a problem.
If we end up hooking up it could be fun, but i don't want anything serious, at least not now
@@_Diaryofwealth she broke up with me, but i think 2 years is plenty of time to make that irrelevant
Over a year later since the last time I seen him. I only miss what I used to have with him and can't find with anyone. But I am moving on. It's time. He's not the same person now. Just the memories.
Wanda Yarbrough. What you say is TRUE. You miss the memories with him, and all the things you used to do. That is NORMAL! Let me recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you which will help you. It has EVERYTHING in it including strategies for every situation.
myexbackcoach.com/ebk
You WILL be fine. The Kit will really help you also. ❤
As always, great video! This message is definitely something to keep in mind. "You don't wanna be with someone that does not wanna be with you. So true!
Love your videos. You helped me get through a break up and find myself again. And he came back. He is here and we are talking. It isn't the same but we are here taking it slow. And yes I agree with setting boundaries.
how long did it take ? its been two months
life is full up and downs. I'm here if you need a shoulder to lean on
Bro yesss. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t wanna be with u!! ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾. The beat words to live by
This is the best topic during my stage of brake up.. I want to hear more videos like this to make me strong. This is all true - we got married for 3 yrs- she promise to loved and stay for me forever for better and for worst but end up into brake up after Using me for her own benefit.. I grieving right now but I have friends a relatives who loved me and cheer me up.
Thanks coach Lee for this videos..
I loved this woman I met at my job. Two and a half months of giving her everything I had and loved her so much. She went from being my lover, lots of intimate moments to wanting to be "friends" and felt rushed. I am still devastated after going no contact immediately, not a peep from her in 33 days. My grief and heartbreak is so difficult right now.
Going through this now...Sucks!!!! But if she doesnt want me, too bad
Update: No longer want someone who didn't want to end up being with me. I thought I was never going to be able to get over this terrible gut punch. I am about as healed as I am going to be. I am content without her at this point. If she ever tried to come back, I'd likely just tell her I'm not interested.
If you were married to a narcissist for 33 years it’s different. It’s very very hard to get through it. It’s like a trauma bond. It’s the worst break up I’ve ever been through I’m 60 and knew him 35 years.
saying narcissist and trauma bond just made me realize what's going, thank you RS
This sounds like a person that I know. Can you tell me his first name?
we should chat. I'm on fb .
My love was good, unique, and I reserved it for my partner. I listened, communicated, compromised, and would have moved mountains for them. My partner of 2.5 years would not do the same for me. I was taken for granted. They checked out weeks ago then left me. I'm feeling every emotion under the sun. I watch these videos every day when I'm not busy because they keep me sane and they keep me going. I won't contact my ex until they reach out to me, and I won't even consider taking them back unless they've made some significant changes. I know my worth and someone willing to toss me aside has lost their privilege to my love. Know your worth friends. Lean on the people who won't leave you and don't settle for anything less than the people who would move mountains for you too.
Going through the same thing after a 4 year relationship, I could feel the distance growing and I just had to keep going. These videos are the best thing to play in the silence so I don’t do something stupid.
Coach lee is premium. He is the worlds number 1 of elite coaching of relationship dynamics and separation. Coach lee has changed my life. I have delt with so much anxiety. Lee, you have helped me understand my worth….. thank you
Coach Lee , in my own perspective is the best coach out there on love and relationship . He talks precisely ,direct to the point and with substance that makes him stands out among other dating relationship coaches there that i watched. His words resonates to all heartbroken . He is on a diamond level!!! After more than 1 month that i listened to him,,its like a healing therapy to me,,the pain gradually fades away and i started to move on. I am a person who has a BPD and find it hard to regain myself after break ups but his words and advices helps me to control my anxiety. Thank you so much. You deserve a million subscribers!
I listen to Coach Lee daily. It helps so much after getting dumped. Helps me return to self care, doing the daily things to make me be the me I can be…then let fate chart my destiny
It's been three months of no contact rule; I learned a lot and met so many good ppl, she might not come back, but I will never forget her
Did you forger her?
Coach Lee, you are truly an angel. Thank God for you sir
It’s been 2 years actually over 2 years,,, lol,,, glad I didn’t hold my breath,,,No relationship on my part since our divorce,,, I’m enjoying myself right now,, independence is nice like 98% of the time ty coach Lee
I am watching this for a second time. I liked this man but he didn’t like me but still fooled around with me. I got really hurt so did no contact for 9 months. Then he reached out to me just to hurt me again by dangling a dinner date as a carrot. So I just finally blocked him everywhere. I think this person enjoyed hurting me.
Feels like someone on this planet can hear u and understand ur pain .thanks coach lee ..Been through a bad heart break ...Not single day since after the breakup he crossed my mind ...I wish he could had understand and felt what I have felt for him ...The pain is immense and the fact that he is dating someone else , speaks a lot in itself ...I get him back or not but I want him to realise what he has lost ... I had adored him from the depth of my heart
Coach lee is the most practical no bs coach he doesn't just say things that sound good or what you wanna hear
Good advice is always appreciated, but what really makes these videos great is how heartfelt they are. I feel like Coach Lee is my best friend.
Although I could've used a video like this yrs ago, I just stumbled across it right now & decided to take a listen. I just wanted to say this was VERY NICE & VERY KIND OF YOU to help those who are hurting. You're not just using this platform to make a buck but you are genuinely helping mankind & for that I THANK YOU. Some ppl can really lose it and end up hurting themselves or hurting somebody else. So from someone whose been there & Thank God I'm doing better, THANK YOU for this "special" video. It is NEEDED MORE THAN YOU COULD EVER KNOW. When it's all said & done, Everybody just wants to be loved and loved the right way. I'll be sure to SAVE this video & share it to as many ppl that needs to hear it. I THANK GOD HE MADE AN ANGEL LIKE YOU 😇
Day 21 of NC . Stay strong champs ! We got this !
Thank you Coach Lee you have helped me so much - God and You literally my best friends atm 😢
Hey, Coach Lee, and all you other wonderful humans. I was seeing someone for a year that just broke up with me a few weeks ago. Just found out a couple of days, he has been in a long-term relationship for two years, the entire time he was seeing me. I had absolutely no idea, as we were in a soap pump committed relationship, I was hanging out with his family, being in, what I thought, was a committed relationship. Started therapy when he initially broke up, and was beating the crap out of myself wondering what I did wrong. So yes, we should never want someone that doesn't want us. There are plenty of people in the world, and we will all meet someone that is appreciative, and deserving of our love. Knowing the truth now, has made things so much better. Of people would just be honest from the beginning, and we would follow our own instincts, we wouldn't need videos like this. LOL much love to everyone
Thank You coach for helping me with my mental health and extreme pain. She moved on and doesn't want me to be in her life. You are my guru through pain and I appreciate you all my life!
Oh my God this channel is a real gold mine. Honest, relatable and professional.
I wish you all the success with the channel, definitely worth a subscription ❤️🙏
I think it's a very smart decision after a breakup to focus on your hobbies and improving yourself, since during the relationship, you are putting their needs before your own, you sacrifice personal growth and development.
Once your focus shifts to yourself, it becomes less about your ex and healing accelerates and you can give yourself the opportunity to fill your life with people who may well care for you more than your ex did.
At the end of the day, it's your ex's fault! XD
I'm speechless right now with the hurt I'm feeling but thank you. I needed to hear this.
Coach Lee you are awesome! My ex and me are not going back together, but I knew if from the beginning, and thanks to you, today i don’t think it’s too bad. I am actually happy with that. And I am able to live and breathe again, and am seeing somebody wonderful.
The crazy thing is seven years ago the same woman that just walked out on me was on her knees begging me to not leave her because she wouldn’t stop saying I was cheating and I wasn’t I was working my ass off to provide for us it was so frustrating
Coach Lee's videos helped me so much after my BF broke up with me. it was so hard, I cried every day for weeks and did the no contact method and it worked. my BF missed me and he came back to me and I know that he fell in love with me all over again because I was acting like I did when we met - happy and carefree (even if I was hurting a lot inside). I was trying to be my best self and when he saw me like that he realised what he was missing.
You cant live there! AMAZING words. Live for today be the best for yourself today! Not for just yourself but best version of you which is caring, thoughtful of others, kind and al the rest! lee is one his game! So we should be ON ours!
It’s been almost 4 months and I’m still struggling. I found out he’s with someone else and ended things with me without explanation. I’m hurting because he was the unstable one and I really gave him the benefit of the doubt that it was his depression causing issues. He lied to me. I wish he had told me he didn’t want me instead of pretending like it was depression. I should have ended things with him when he was up and down with me - again I just kept putting my heart out there to show him I would be with him through thick and thin. He dumped me overnight. I want to let go fully and find someone who actually appreciates me. It’s really left my mind in a funk. At least I’m not having panic attacks daily anymore. 😢
You are beautiful and sensitive, sure you will find someone else who will deserve it. I struggled during 5 months with regrets After break UP, she finally reach me out when her New boyfriend dumped her (for his ex..). We Saw each other like Friends several week and started a relationship 3 weeks before she dumped me again.. it was less hard than the first Time, but still struggle too, i miss her. But I think now that s the way things must be, i don t regret anything anymore, and this vidéo helps me to see things from higher. I remember my past breakup and strangely i figure out i rarely think at my exes who dumped me, so hard it was, i think more to the ones i dumped and who loved me
@@giuseppebonsignore4397 I’m so sorry for your experience. People who just come and go and treat us as unworthy are terrible. There’s no other word for it. I cannot stand it when people lie or think of themselves as better than others. I’d rather have someone be honest and say it’s not working than to lead me on. One day at a time ❤️
Ocheerup, let me recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit for you. It's excellent and it has strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
You doing ok now?
@@jonsayler3317 HA! Yes, thank you for asking....I say "ha" because it seems so long ago now. I got over that one. Probably took about 6 months-1 year. He texted me after 3 months after going no contact because for some reason, in his egotistical mind, he thought I had ordered him doordash breakfast? Yeah, okay bud. After 3 months of us not talking, I randomly ordered you breakfast. Bizarre. Anyways, then I met another guy online, and this time it was different. He said he wanted a relationship, really liked me, and didn't want to lose me. However, he slowly pulled back making me appear clingy. He told me I had too many red flags after promising to call me for almost 2 months! How do I keep finding these stupid guys? I'm in no contact for 2 weeks now after telling him he needs to work on himself and that I hope he grows as a person...
Its Kind of interesting That Coach Lee uploads this Video. You see, this man's work is based on relationships and getting Exes back and here hes telling us to have dignity and Not accept breadcrumbs or being someones options, instead of taking advantage like many others and sugar coating your situation just to give Money. Truly, truly remarkable. Coach, you deserve way more subscribers and Clients in General. Thank you is just not enough.
13 months NC, after she broke up with me, showing a terrible attitude and behavior ( "I don't want anymore. Am I imprisoned? Can't I leave?").
I saw her and a gf of hers in a bar last week. We smiled at each other, I said hi, then turned and went to a corner to drink my vodka. Earlier I asked a way younger chick to go out with me for that drink. I'm 45, ex is 41, chick is 21.
Her face changed. I know her expressions. Her mood became dark. I can't say if she didn't expect to see me with another woman.
I stayed NC in order to heal myself, keep my dignity and manhood, and allow her to realize she made a huge mistake.
Only time she contacted me was during my birthday, I thanked her.
I can't see any real possibility we two get back together. She has a lot of work to do for that. I want to move on with my life, but she carved deep scars in my heart and soul.
As always, thanks Coach Lee
OMG! Every word you said was right. I am experiencing this heart break. It was suck but it is best to know now. No contacts is the best remedy and keep you self busy.
@@idirisundagiyaya7628 where do you get them. I don't want bad goes back to me. Just want him back to love me. How much cost and telephone or websites
Tere Jaise Yaar kahan all the love From India Thanks Coach lee You are a god to me
I am a strong man. Strong enough to move on from this, knowing I did everything the best I could and with good intentions. Strong enough not only to endure this pain, but to use it as fuel to become a better and kinder person. I am strong enough to face my faults and the mistakes I made during our relationship, and to work on correcting them and bettering myself. I am strong enough to not fall in the traps of resentment and hatred, knowing she is doing her best to find happiness and her own well-being, as we all should.
I will be forever grateful for the wonderful years we spent together, filled with loving memories.
You are strong, indeed, and it is obvious you learnt so much from your experience - which is, after all, the purpose of all connections! 💪👏✨💫💗 Keep it up! Everything will be okay!
@@livbeyond Thank you, Liv! 💗
Coach Lee gave me strength and hope when I needed it. I can stand on my own 2 feet now. But when I couldn't, coach Lee's videos gave me hope, courage, and confidence. Thanks you!
Day 3 of NC and have to make it back to work… i needed this message rn bc im hurting so badly 😞 thank you for these words of encouragement
I will survive!
I will thrive!!
I will get to the other side!!!
💋💋💋
Monica C,You are beautiful,I think you deserve better
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Amen.. More than anything else, just want this broken heart to heal.
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I know the feeling all too well. The answer is TIME. Also, I picked up a hobby, I read a lot, and my friends helped me also.
I recommend you get Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which will help you immensely. myexbackcoach.com/ebk
Read this and you will feel much better.
A hug for you. ❤❤
@@jannlewandowski5540 🙏
@@jannlewandowski5540 it’s the betrayal…. It hurts so much because he promised me… and yet here I am again! I am shaking and just want to scream my heart out….. what did he want from me……. 8 years, all wasted….
It's been over 6 months, that we have had no contact.... I still at moments feel undeniable urge to contact this person.... But resist myself because I know it won't lead to anywhere
@Wale Aina However much it hurts, I won't force a person to be with me, just because I want it to be.....or maybe even I also don't, because you know within that this changed person is not someone you dreamt your life with
Thanks for your suggestion though.