How to Get Over The FEAR of COLD CALLING (Guaranteed)

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  • @BrandonMulrenin
    @BrandonMulrenin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What is your biggest fear with making prospecting phone calls?

    • @valgin
      @valgin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      not having the right answer to move the conversation forward.

    • @Shamilt3
      @Shamilt3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I dont have any particular fear, but it tends to be a glass wall. I have the headset on and stare. I know exactly what to say from a-z, my listing presentation is tight, my pricing presentation is tight, my skill set is great, except the starting the dialing process.

    • @melodybedoya5194
      @melodybedoya5194 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been wanting to cold call. Can I get a one on one appointment with you? I’m on stage 1 😩

    • @scatpack1381
      @scatpack1381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not getting a yes. Phone call after phone call.

    • @mariambaloch4399
      @mariambaloch4399 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what if they ask something that I don't know about

  • @cm1133
    @cm1133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Brandon, I’ve been a weekend Uber/Lyft driver for almost 5!years. I have mastered the art/skill to be able to quickly read someone and instantly know how to adapt to they personality type. Because of this trial by fire, I have zero fear of picking up the phone and talking to strangers. I have countless real estate conversations on my Uber/Lyft trips every weekend. Almost every one I transport gets my card, especially if I pick them up or drop them off at a nice home. If you’re afraid of cold calling, be an Uber driver for a while. That fear will rapidly disappear. That’s just what has helped me. You will know you’ve conquered your fear of the phone when you can call a nationally broadcasted sports radio show and debate the host for like 15 minutes forgetting that millions of Sirius XM users can hear every word you’re saying. You live by sword. You die by the sword. Just start dialing for God sakes. That phone sits between you and whatever income you desire to make. Don’t let the damn phone win!

  • @latricesingleton-vielot
    @latricesingleton-vielot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Definitely in stage 2. Fight or flight. I choose to fight. Thank you for this video. Very helpful

  • @whyflorida-realtorjayden5702
    @whyflorida-realtorjayden5702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Excellent video! I am generally a very confident person and finding the one thing that makes me uncomfortable (cold calling) has been difficult for me. My fear surrounding cold calling really comes down to the fear of the unknown. What’s going to come up in this conversation that I may not have the answer to? I personally don’t have a fear of rejection, but the unknown has been my down fall. This video was right on time! Thank you!!

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m glad you found value with this video! Work on detaching 100% from the outcome.

  • @HawkVision1992
    @HawkVision1992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This video is awesome, man. Never really had a fear of anything until it came to prospecting. Breaking it down like this is huge.

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks! It’s so interesting because you’re exactly right! There are people in the military that are not scared to die in the face of battle but can’t seem to overcome their fear of prospecting and calling strangers.

  • @OliverZhang
    @OliverZhang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Im in stage 2. Thank you for this video, I’m gonna do this, I’m gonna push through it no matter how nervous i am or how many rude fsbo’s i have to talk to.

  • @nakishaoverton4817
    @nakishaoverton4817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's so nice to read the comments and know that I'm not the only one feeling what I'm feeling.

  • @geovanysantibanez3800
    @geovanysantibanez3800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’d give this video ten thousand likes if I could, it’s so true what you say! I was about to quit because I knew that I sucked at cold calling, but the more practice I had the better I got at answering objections and the more confident I grew. Really appreciate your videos Brandon, thanks!

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏

    • @johnroedbacting6620
      @johnroedbacting6620 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice you just have to keep going and a have lot of practice. I'm also a newbie in this industry too. Cheers!

  • @nakishaoverton4817
    @nakishaoverton4817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is literally one of the best content I've seen...Gave me so much clarity of where I am and where I need to be. Thank you!

  • @coletonfischer8076
    @coletonfischer8076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video will help so many people who struggle with call reluctance!

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As long as people make peace with going through all 4 steps.

  • @realtybydrc778
    @realtybydrc778 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gems after gems 💎 I do use your videos to help me get into action. I was able to meet Ron and in just a few minutes I took valuable information. Thank you Brandon, you definitely helping my career. It is unbelievable how in my first day of listening to you I set my first listing appointment in just 20 calls and 2 conversations. When I recorded that I said wow wow this really works!!!!! Now I am in week one of following exactly what you share and guess what last night I did two virtual presentations one for a divorce case which I got it in the bag 😄 the second was an absentee owner that has no clue how much equity he has. I mean literally daily I am generating more leads then ever. Super excited and now it became fun honestly I laughed now when people become mean I just take it as a joke and he (caller) doesn’t know that I am truly trying to help him. When I call with the thought that my goal is to genuinely help them and be curious as to why they think and always ask permission 🎯

  • @desalearegay7378
    @desalearegay7378 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After mike ferry retreat watching this is not a coincidence. Thank you for sharing,I enjoy your videos every day.blessings

    • @AG89673
      @AG89673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here! Mike ferry in Las Vegas.

  • @tanyaannbrown
    @tanyaannbrown 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video was made for me!

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What part of the video Resonated the most with you?

  • @CelinaBelizan345
    @CelinaBelizan345 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is exactly what I needed to hear! I've always been afraid of cold calling! Amazing content! New subscriber here!

  • @djpyramidz3756
    @djpyramidz3756 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am heavy in stage 1, making a resume today and going to start today. I am glad I watched this video so I know of whats to come!

  • @mdg6117
    @mdg6117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Brandon. The last couple weeks have been so dry and it crossed my mind more than once to quit. But I don't want to give up such a great opportunity. This video reassures me that my feelings are normal, and I have to push through to get the result I want. This is gonna take time lol

  • @valgin
    @valgin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fascinating! - stage 2 - navigating to stage 3 - calendar will help

  • @rimakhosla1307
    @rimakhosla1307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had anxiety of driving to unfamiliar places. But I overcame it in the past 2 years. Finally I can drive anywhere and don't have any anxiety. Now I am working on my phone anxiety. I feel I am not prepared yet or not good enough to help them the best being a new agent. I need to overcome that imposter syndrome so I can pick the phone and start calling. Anxiety = no business.

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did you overcome your anxiety or foreign places? I also struggle with that...

    • @rimakhosla1307
      @rimakhosla1307 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just told myself no one is going to help you...you have to help yourself. Now I am trying hard to apply that to prospecting and cold calling. Still 4 months and no call yet. But I will overcome it soon.

    • @wiemahdickson8713
      @wiemahdickson8713 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rimakhosla1307 how is it going now?

  • @champlifehomesolutions1367
    @champlifehomesolutions1367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very helpful. Thank you

  • @lashondacarter6225
    @lashondacarter6225 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so helpful, thanks Brandon !

  • @jentaylorrealty3938
    @jentaylorrealty3938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so in Stage 2 right now.

  • @tayooladimeji6506
    @tayooladimeji6506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the way you teach.... amazing content.

  • @sethgowen
    @sethgowen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was great advice

  • @PiotrBemowo
    @PiotrBemowo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot. Greetings from Warsaw (Poland).

  • @jahbah123
    @jahbah123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh so that’s why that company is called RedX😂

  • @Krazilok
    @Krazilok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel I went from Stage 1 to then stage 2 and just started stage 3 when the pandemic started and lockdowns happened. I had such a rough time on the phones during that time that I stopped calling. Now I don't know what stage I'm at because I can't get myself to start dialing again. I always find something else that takes priority over the calling, it's like a mental block.

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes that’s called creative avoidance. Have you watched me video on that?

    • @Krazilok
      @Krazilok 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BrandonMulrenin I have not. I literally found your channel this morning!

  • @yourfrenchpropertysearch
    @yourfrenchpropertysearch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where were you when I needed you! Awesome training 👍thank you

  • @wicklandrealestategroup9908
    @wicklandrealestategroup9908 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Call reluctance Brilliantly explained!

  • @Raysery14
    @Raysery14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Appreciate your videos Brandon

  • @ThomasDavisRealEstate
    @ThomasDavisRealEstate 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good job. Occasionally need reinforcement to keep plugging away at it. This is great content.

  • @BlacksParson
    @BlacksParson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dope shit Brandon.

  • @TheRealEstateInformant
    @TheRealEstateInformant 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so very important and will help so many reach the next level awesome work!

  • @pristinelcr4363
    @pristinelcr4363 ปีที่แล้ว

    just wow! thanks for this.

  • @humorhavenmedia
    @humorhavenmedia 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is actually a really informative video! Thank you

  • @rcannon88
    @rcannon88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @dexlex2002
    @dexlex2002 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video thank you

  • @SocialConfidenceMastery
    @SocialConfidenceMastery 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so important to learn how to sell!

  • @funwithoutstress
    @funwithoutstress 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's kind of like learning to drive a motorcycle. At first, it seems crazy, there are so many things going on, and the sequential gearbox seems like a lot of work. But eventually, it just becomes second nature. You stop thinking about it and just enjoy the ride, you quickly perform emergency stops and know what to look out for to drive safely. Yet, a lot of people will buy a bike, let it sit for a few years, after only a thousand or 2 miles on the odometer, and sell it.

  • @SocialConfidenceMastery
    @SocialConfidenceMastery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a great topic!

  • @XaneDaniel
    @XaneDaniel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic, Brandon!!

  • @malcM.A.D.E.
    @malcM.A.D.E. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this

  • @Brisingr2392
    @Brisingr2392 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Focus not only on the goal, but on enjoying the journey also!

  • @randalllawkin
    @randalllawkin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm stuck right here.....thanks

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are you struggling with the most?

  • @ijsellsatl
    @ijsellsatl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great content!

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m glad you’re getting value from the videos!

  • @jennifernoser9155
    @jennifernoser9155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome take aways!

  • @RickyCarruth
    @RickyCarruth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Getting close to 10k subs

  • @manuelberroa4261
    @manuelberroa4261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good!

  • @ryanmulrenin4022
    @ryanmulrenin4022 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Makes total sense!

  • @gennerobootz6490
    @gennerobootz6490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Brandon I’m a realtor with Berkshire Hathaway I just joined a team with some hot shot realtors and when I cold calling I feel kinda uncomfortable cas I feel like I’m going to be laughed at are made fun of if I screw up so what happens is I freeze up a lot I’m fairly new to this I just got my license last may what do you think I should do

  • @kevinhansenexpcommercial
    @kevinhansenexpcommercial ปีที่แล้ว

    I am looking for multiple cold calling accountability partners. I want to schedule zooms and alternate calling your list and mine and giving feedback.

  • @omart25
    @omart25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your favorite movie of all time is Top Gun? It most be a sign. Because is mines also.

  • @BladesForFury2090
    @BladesForFury2090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why doesn't this channel have more subscribers?

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good question! It’s just started to grow now! 😂

  • @lisadupree9289
    @lisadupree9289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its like you know me! 😆

  • @wolvertonlecensura9541
    @wolvertonlecensura9541 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are postcards a "shiny object"?

  • @commanderkilleragent
    @commanderkilleragent 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    stage 2! Definitely LOL

    • @BrandonMulrenin
      @BrandonMulrenin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s the hardest to get through and where most quit.

  • @BullofWallst
    @BullofWallst 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Working as a Bail Bondsman I could kick in doors to arrest armed people. Yet cold calling in my financial business its a huge problem.

  • @Sergiosuarezrealestate
    @Sergiosuarezrealestate 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow

  • @gas4money_46
    @gas4money_46 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stage 2 😪

  • @tiffsterritoryonyoutube
    @tiffsterritoryonyoutube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Without a doubt Stage 2 😩

  • @LLO227
    @LLO227 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🌟🌟🌟