so it has been brought to my attention that some people are upset with something I said about BPD in the video. I wasn't joking about BPD or saying that Joe is a monster/evil person BECAUSE he may or may not have it. the actual joke was about kids using those terms to play the game Guess Who. The joke has no deeper meaning than that. I made no comment about Joe being a good or bad person BECAUSE of his disorders/mental state. Regardless, I have cut that part out of the video and I am sorry if what I said made anyone feel as if I was speaking in a negative way about their disorder
Honestly, Love doesn't really think before she kills, letting her feelings sink in quickly. Once you slip up, the next few seconds you'll end up getting a knife shoved in your brain.
Whoever made the creative decision of giving us Joe’s narration throughout the show.. is s genius. It makes you almost like him and want him to succeed. Even though he’s batshit insane.
Spoiler? I laughed so hard when joe was dragging unconscious Cary and Love was dragging unconscious Sherry, and they met in the middle looking at each other like “shit here we go again”
“You” is super entertaining and has a lot of fucked up moments that makes you laugh but also go “that’s maybe how that would actually play out”. Even though it’s got so many flaws and plot holes, doesn’t change from the fact that it’s highly entertaining and why it’s got such a rabid fanbase. Penn Badgley totally kills it in the role.
@@Dude-dx5ns MEGA SPOILERS . . . Z Z Z S Z Z Z Things that I can remember from the top of my head includes: The whole scramble to figure out who killed Delilah when he has a nanny cam pointed at the cage, why Love doesn’t mention to Joe way earlier that she’s aware of what’s going on, paying off Cadence (probably should have just killed her earlier). From season 1: That Beck does a rant instead of just running away immediately, Peach getting hit in the middle of the day in Central Park and NO ONE saw it? The biggest plot hole is probably Joe being able to bonk people in the head and have them conveniently wake up when the plot needs to process haha. I mean there should be a lot of brain trauma to some characters haha.
Joe didnt want that. He didnt want someone like him. He wanted someone who is defenseless for he can protect them. Like he did for his mom. Mommy issues goes a long long way. And Love is more than capable of doing what joe can do, which makes her nearly a threat. He loved her before knowing she was just like him cuz all he saw was a defenseless girl he could protect. Same for beck but beck dug her grave. As for Candace, i dont even remember Candace.
Love was an embodiment of the part of himself that he hated. she was a living reminder to him that he was nothing but a killer, so when she reveals her true self to him in season two he instantly falls out of love with her. it never would have worked because joe was insanely hypocritical and deluded himself into thinking that HIS murders were any more justified than Love’s.
@@xmrximer1752 I agree, but at one part of the season when Love and him go to the couple therapy, he said that his biggest fear is that someone who will see his true self will run away, and Love saw his true self and still love him but it seems that it doesn't matter to him which is sad.
I totally forgot that Marienne saw Joe flirting with Natalie and still caught feelings for him. Like girl aren’t you noticing a pattern of infidelity here??
he did. Matthew knew Joe help Love kill his wife, or atleast that Joe knew Love killed her. That's why he left Joe to be killed by Love. Also in s2 Forty knew Beck was killed by Joe. That is why he tried to kill him, but got shot by the police. Getting caught by the law tho, yea that hasn't happened yet. But the way he get's rid of evidence and frames people is smart and it isn't that suprising that he isn't caught yet. Serial killers get away all the time, more often than not it takes years for them to get caught
its the perfect amount of coverage from cams that look from above yet everyone with any common sense would be sus to see a man thats walking in a hat thats made to protect from the sun being worn at nighttime hjdjhf like thats so shadyy
I think it was a choice deliberately made by the writers and directors to emphasize how outwardly he just appears as an every day guy who blends in with crowd.
sherry was the best character this season. she first came off as fake, narcissistic and a little bit of an airhead, but she was actually was one of the smartest people on the show. she was really fun to watch, too!
To me, the greatest parts of this season were Joe finally realizing about his mommy issues, and Sherry and Cary being the comical relieve in such a heavy series. It was most definitely needed. And also, Henry being adopted by Dante and his husband. I freaking love Dante.
Joe and his inner monologues are the best parts of the show, but since we hear them it takes away the factor that he’s just staring into space or at someone’s face for an awkward amount of time 😂
I like to think that he thinks much faster than other people on account of his being a genius, so in real time, there are very few awkward staring moments. The show slows down his internal monologues so that the viewers can understand
Well I do hate him. He killed love and we're getting another season of the same boring plot that was incredible during the first season but now is annoying. Wish 4th season was about Love, she's maniac and she kills without excuses, just because she feels like it haha would be better than another season of stalking and killing every single person on his way to the girl he's obsessed.
@@Rahmarchiori I would make season 4 about Joe obviously looking for Marienne but Joe is also being stalked. It can turn out that a female detective has been looking for him and is hot on his trail, following all his moves and truly stalking him seeming borderline obsessed. We can see him find Marienne and even see them reconcile and seeing Joe genuinely try to fight his nature. We can be being led to believe that the detective following Joe is trying to get to him before he can hurt Marienne but honestly she can just be another crazy. The detective can be so obsessed with Joe that she plays him and forces him to choose between going to prison for the rest of his life or killing her. Joe’s choice can be weighted by the cost which is losing Marienne forever regardless after searching so long to find her.
@@Rahmarchiori wasn't that why Love killed though? She was obsessed with Joe and anything that threatened him or their marriage even slightly had to die? The whole point of Love is that she's more or less the same as Joe, a season of Love as the MC would be more or less the same plot. Love even obsessed over Theo once her fling with Joe wore out which was exactly what Joe was doing with Mary-Anne. But I do agree, the obsession pattern/plot is getting dull.
Do people not hate him? He’s a serial killer. Also just generally one of the most judgmental and self righteous people I’ve ever seen. I said “you’re the worst” out loud to the screen at least like 7 times during the first episode.
The hunting trip episode is hilarious. The shot of Joe just standing there while the other men dance around the campfire is the funniest thing i've ever seen
@@sergiorodriguez1367 oooo if not for the fact that i cant take horror well, i would have loved to try out the season for my own x'D Thank you so much for explaining!
I think Joe murdering Love was less about him "going back to square one" than showing the audience once and for all he never really left square one to begin with. He's stuck in a pattern, an endless cycle of obsession and stalking and murder, and the first couple of episodes were little more than an illusion that he was finally breaking free of it. He is far too fucked up to ever really be free of it. He recognized the signs cropping up when Marienne becomes his latest target and what starts as a little bit of an "innocuous" indulgence soon culminates with him wanting to leave Love and be with Marienne because he has now decided she is The One. Yes, and if he murders Marienne, he will quickly move on to the next girl, and the next, and the next, because it is all a pattern to him. I think this is one big thing about him people are failing to catch on when they say they hoped Love was it for him because even though yes she is his soulmate, he's never going to find anyone as fucked up as he is to accept him as he is, The One remains an unattainable fantasy that he is going to keep chasing after.
I agree! And like Love was someone who was probably the person who could best understand him because she was somewhat similar and that scared Joe. Even the person who was near perfect for Joe, wouldn’t work with him because while most others were not enough she was too much
I haven't finished the season but definitely will be doing so tomorrow, Love was annoying in season 2 and more annoying in early season 3, they try to bring the charachter back but I still find her annoying. I think Victoria pandretti is gorgeous and goes a good playing love, originally hearing she will finally be killed off is kind of a relief but now the show will be stale same old same old. Also the realization he will just be a serial killer there is no point where he stops sucks because you can see his humanity and he cares for people but killing love is the staw that kills joes character. I now hope love is still alive because that romance with Marianne is stale and doesn't work, I want a season of love tracking him down and the 2 reconciling. The moment they toss Joe in jail the show is dead I see people saying they wanna see him pay for his crimes, like fuck no if you wanna watch someone pay for their crimes watch madea goes to jai, not you.
it was so entertaining to watch them argue over what to do with Natalie's dead body while trying not to wake the baby up. It was hilarious yet so messed up. Their acting performances were so good
i think he wanted a girl because in his mind he is very capable of "protecting" women. he's never had a good relationship with men which i think is also why he seemed to be unable to bond with henry
ME a spin-off showing the show from the perspective of their targets. Season 1 is from Beck and Peach. Season 2 is from Love, Ellie, Delilah, and Candance. So on...
What the show does so well is just showing how Joe justifies himself. We the audience are aware he is objectively awful and evil, but his inner monologues offer his perspective and make it compelling. It wouldn't be as compelling if it wasn't from his perspective.
It's HIS show so it's his POV. Most of the audience has been manipulated by him. All of his monologues practically justify his actions. Everyone knows he's horrible but there are people who still romanticize him.
Actually a lot of people in the audience aren't aware of how evil he is and actually do fall for his justifications...so those monologues are really working 😬
I don’t think Joe ever actually loved Love. He was obsessed with her, Beck and Candance. And he constantly needs to change the object of his obsession, so when Candace didn’t match his expectations he got rid of her and moved to Beck then same thing happened so he got Love and when she again wasn’t this perfect version that he created in his mind he tried to kill her, the news about pregnancy stopped him because he could switch his love and affection from Love onto the kid. Thats why Henry was so important at the beginning of the season. Joe stayed with Love for him and Henry was his primal motivation. However as he started falling for new girl Henry became less and less valid and eventually Jos just leaves his son because his obsession found another person to praise, another you. So maybe Love was his soulmate but the problem is Joe can’t stay in one long term relationship doesn’t matter how much he believes he is in love
I think that this show is a pretty interesting experiment in how many things people (the viewers in this case) are willing to forgive and defend once they understand. The thing is, Joe is a psycho - Love too. If this story was told from someone elses perspective, we would all feel differently. But then they show some humanity, they justify their actions in a way that feels convincing and we all recognize their primary drives within ourselves, like jealousy, attraction, need for recognition, even obsessiveness - the difference is that we don't let it control us like they do and, most importantly, even when they get the better of us, we would never act out in the same ways that they do. We'd get angry or say something petty. We'd never kill, stalk or keep someone trapped. But even those of of who feel pretty sickened by the main characters find yourselves understanding - and even rooting for - them from time to time. I find that interesting.
i would not root (and did not root) for any of these behaviors and i know i would not take the same route if i was in their place. "we ALL recognize" - have you met everyone, that you know that well what their drives are? no matter how much this media/culture promotes degeneration, we "are" not like that - at least not all of us. understanding is logical and forgiving is emotional - some of us can really do one and not the other in the same time
If only that empathy is applied to real people. Or maybe, the reason we can feel that empathy is partly knowing that this is a fictional character. Would we feel the same if he was a real human being?
This show is brave. In most kind of shows like You (Dexter is one that comes to mind), they usually try to justify what the character is doing so that the audience roots for them. (In Dexter, he only kills people that are "bad", for example.) This show doesn't do that really. Yes, they do show that Joe and Love have reasons to have become the way they are, which might make us pity them slightly, but it wasn't enough for me to actually root for them which was new for me as a viewer. That's why, when the couple was in the cage, I genuinely was not rooting for Love and Joe, but for the couple, and Theo, to get out of there. I kept rooting against them even though Joe and Love are the "protagonists" of the show. I found that so cool of the writers. I can't wait for the next season!
I really like how this season doesn’t romanticize Joe nearly as much. For the most part, everyone who Joe killed was pretty bad in one way or another. I’m not saying they all deserved it, but seeing Rob get killed in season one was incredibly satisfying. This season, it felt a lot uglier. Other than Ryan getting knocked off a building and stabbed, everyone who was murdered had depth to them. Gil dying was really hard to stomach
but like… there were only two people (other than ryan) who died in this season, and both of them did because of Love not Joe. He had even saved theo’s life. And he killed Love because if he wouldn’t she would’ve killed him. So in this season joe was pretty good imo
The only people Joe actually killed on purpouse Season 1: Benji Peach Beck Season 3: Ryan Other killings by Joe Ron S1 (Self Defense) Jasper S2 (Self Defense) Hendy S2 (Accident) Love S3 (Self Defense) So overall, he is trying to be a better person since season 2
*Alex Meyers Rating System:* "pretty great" "craziest" "good" "weird" "bizarre" "doesn't make any sense" "kinda dumb" "pretty dumb" "hilariously dumb" "unbelievably dumb" "dumbest" "the worst/made me want to get a lobotomy" "Riverdale"
Season 3 was so much more interesting and hilarious to see them tackle parenthood while juggling domestic life and you know, the constant urge to kill anyone and everyone that even slightly ticks Joe or Love in the wrong way.
And it showed us how much of a hypocrite they both were. Love was so jealous of other women but was cheating on Joe. And Joe was cheating on her 🤦🏾♀️ the most toxic relationship. They didn’t need to be together, they needed to be thrown in an insane asylum. So many lives could have been saved smh
@@iammar1159 I was glad Mathew and Theo(that kid needs to get his shit together) got away, even the Conrads for that matter, they were fucked up in their own way but that doesn't mean they needed to die.
I read something recently about how now everything you watch or enjoy has to be the best of the best or groundbreaking or even good, just watch or enjoy it because you enjoy it. It is so weird to have lived through the "everything needs to be perfection, if you don't agree than you're trash or if you like unperfect things than you're trash for liking it" and I'm really glad to finally see the return of 'just fucking enjoy what you enjoy".
The way Joe was so disinterested in charades while texting Marienne and then randomly laughing to join in with sherry Cary and love 😭 THAT SCENE IS STUCK IN MY HEAD
I love and hate this show. It's such a fascinating piece of melodrama that somehow manages to keep surprising me. Although I did fully expect them to kill Joe off by the end of this season and change the focus to Love going forward. Cannot wait for season 4!
@@NikitaDlima Would have been an interesting twist. Love and him are eerily similar. She could have definitely pulled off being the new lead.. And there were some comments in the last episode especially that were possibly leaning that way.
I would've much preferred love to be the main character, she atleast can see her and Joe are similar, Joe seems to think he's way above love even though he's much more pathological and psycho than she is, she's emotional, he's supposed to be really smart yet has 0 self awareness, it doesn't make sense to me
what i loved about this season was the deep dive into joe's past and the realization that his love interests are a pattern of unresolved mommy issues. it doesn't justify his actions but it does help to get into the mind of the killer and psychoanalyze him. same with love. her mother confronts her about how she doesn't like joe anymore because to her he can't keep being fixed. love likes finding broken and sad people and fixing them, and adapts herself to them completely by clinging onto them as much as she can.
this is true but it’s the same with Joe. With all of his “you’s” his first impressions were their actions and behaviors (like beck with her love for books, loves interests in the little things and eventually much more) which leads him to assume and usually be right about their broken pasts. he has even admitted that he wants to protect them and fix them from what they’ve went through bc he’s had such a bad past with being an orphan and having a rough childhood all together. all he wanted was true love from his peers and he puts that onto his “you’s” instead of fixing himself first. him and love are literallyyy soulmates and he clearly couldn’t handle basically another version of himself
Easily one of the best shows Netflix has going right now with all three seasons so far being really good, and that Season 3 finale was absolutely worth the two years we had to wait for it. Definitely one of the best shows to binge, and Netflix has already announced/confirmed there will be a Season 4, so that can’t get here soon enough. Now, if only we could get the new season of Ozark sooner rather than later…
I hope that S4 is the last season and it focuses on Joe actually getting what he deserves for all his crimes. Or that it at least ends with him facing repercussions.
“I’ve BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE TURN IT UP” but seriously Alex always makes me laugh and I’m sick rn and not feeling the best so I need this thank you alex
Same, sister! I also liked the contrast between Love and Joe's perspectives when it came to him, when she struck Theo I wanted to scream. I was hoping Joe wouldn't hurt him and was sighing out in relief when he felt pity and helped the boy.
@@tainii-san5879 I think that was the one time I justified joe's killings. Helping Theo. Well if he was still in love with Love he would have hurt him but again Joe doesn't hurt kids, he protects them in his own way
@@gracesteph6966 Yes, that. I think he would be conflicted if he still cared for Love like that. Since devoid of emotional attachment to her he felt pity even thinking(I'm paraphrasing here) : "What has my wife gotten you into?". And I think his distain for her began with Delilah, as with her death Love screwed another kid over without thinking of the consequences. I legit home Elie comes back in season 4.
you get it. She screwed her brother for the better part of his life while acting like a saviour. Screws Ellie, didn't think twice about Theo. I mean.....no words
this season was the best of them all and Victoria Pedretti(Love Quinn) is such an amazing actress like she is 10/10 phenomenal in every role she takes on
Haus of David, what?! Love was 100% pure sociopath. Joe is only, um, 30% (more or less). Joe would never harm a child. Love, OTOH, would slit a baby's throat. That's why she needed to go. You gotta have SOME standards.
@@d.lawrence5670 You just think that because Love doesn't have a narration like Joe does. The fact that Love doesn't kill Marianne as soon as she sees she's a mom is proof that she's not 100% sociopath... if that is even a term. Love would not only never harm a child, she wouldn't even harm that mother's child even if she was a threat to everything she holds dearest. Love is the exact same as Joe but the woman version... and that's exactly why their relationship could never work. They have their differences like... Love just wants somebody to get her... and nobody would be better in this role then her male copy (she thinks)... but unfortunately her copy is not looking for someone to see him for exactly what he is... he is looking for some damsel in distress to see him as a hero and not his true self... and Love is no damsel in distress... sooooooo...
I feel like each season gets better. Love was super annoying, but she knew him so well. I liked his newest idol. But no way she would ever accept the real him like Love did.
@@PaperMario64 but that made up the whole season and you just said that this season was better than the rest,and tht is y it was imp for her to be like that.
This show has achieved the absolute greatness of not faltering after a good season like shows tend to do. If only someone asked me watching the first season if I was prepared to watch this man do this exact same shit while changing diapers.
@@pippa_peg I hadn't stopped to consider that Joe might end up legit 'stalking' Marienne in Paris in a moment of truth i'm actually just a crazy stalker moment. He'll probably have people all over the globe looking for him because of Love's families connections. I hope he get's caught out next season. I don't want another YOU for him to obsess over.
I really like this show. I feel like this season evolved from the last two since it wasn't necessarily the same plot MO. The fact that Joe is feeling even more conflicted about his "usual" actions, and becomes more self-aware of his choices while reflecting on his childhood, while he's trying to raise a son and also in conflict with his wife just creates even more layers of intrigue and it felt so much more engaging that way. I especially liked how even though he has killed multiple people, he almost found disgust for it when Love would so it was this really weird moral imbalance that makes the audience question their own allegiance to the characters. In summation, loved this new season.
@@jessica5470 He is not, even before this season she was shown to be much more impulsive (and in this season she makes their lives much more worse). She was also really hypocritical, her mom was a bad parent but she was right that Love blames everyone but herself and that she only liked Joe as a problem go fix because then she had a problem. Joe thinks he can change but we know he wont (he tries sure, but even if he moved to a monastery in the middle of nowhere with no women he would be the same). Theyre both delusional but because Love was born as a spoiled rich girl she didnt have to worry consequences and if she was left alone for a few days she would endanger her kid over whatever petty bullshit she would end up getting caught for. Everyone is petty to an extent but the average person is mote careful because they know you cant just get away with it.
@@jessica5470 hes not 10times worse tho. Shes impulsive and kills out of jelousy. Apart from benji and peach i‘d argue joe kills for good reasons. He‘s obviously still a piece of shit but some people deserve to die and throughout season2 he tries to ‚get it right‘ and actually only kill the people who deserve it.
This season really lived up to the hype of season 1. Was so worried that it was going to be a bit cringe like season 2 but was thoroughly surprised and I really enjoyed it! Glad you did too!
The best thing about this show is summed up in one quote from Love to Joe. In season3 she tells him "The lengths of insanity you drive me to" It sounds like something a normal couple would say to each other when they fight. But then when you see he is on the floor can't move and she has a knife and is ready to slit his throat. You realize this is not normal. I started watching with season3 but it is this dichotomy of normal abnormal that makes me want to go back and watch the other seasons.
8:56 You know, knowing Joe's behavior and Love's personality, I ain't surprised. I both pity Nattalie for getting Joe's attention and getting killed for it yet find her a complete idiot for try to get with Joe.
I was pretty much done "rooting for Joe" after season 2. SPOILERS: Love - crazy as she is - was absolutely right about the two of them being "soulmates." Who else would have Joe? Who else but Love has seen every twisted, ugly side of him and not at least tried to get as far away from the maniac as physically possible? This is not to say that they were good for each other, this is not to say that either of them are good people, and this is not to say that I think "happily ever after" - in the traditional sense at least - could've been in any way feasible for them. But, if the entire show from that point on had just been about two literal sociopaths trying to hold their codependent crapshoot of a marriage together, I would've wanted them to make like, 20 more seasons. It would've been a great antithesis/commentary/satire on the "good girl heals literal sociopath with her vagina" story we've seen a million and six times, and I know this is just a matter of personal taste, but I would've loved it. Instead Joe had to go and be ... Joe.
Exactly, I thought after the therapy sessions this was going to be the direction but then suddenly we were back to square one out of nowhere. Maybe I missed something though.
I completely agree! It was a really good season but ending and Joe killing Love totally ruined it. There's literally no one more perfect for Joe than Love. No one is gonna love or accept him for who he is. Every other woman that comes in his path will end up like Beth and Candace. Love on the other hand is also a hot psycho and knows/accepts every facet of who he is. He won't be able to be authentic with anyone the way he (mostly) was with Love. I only say mostly because he persistently gaslighted her as soon as he was interested in someone else. I really hope they somehow bring Love back in season 4 (even though it seems impossible). I really liked her as a character and found her just as compelling as Joe. I hope he realizes that they're soulmates and that she's the only one who could truly love him. I feel like he'll feel regret in the next season about killing her and eventually come to that realization. Love and Joe both wanted to be better people but honestly miscommunication and lies led to Love's murder spree (lol). She only killed when Joe's love for her strayed (Gil was accident on both their parts). In a way I feel like they could have gotten past their issues if they openly communicated, Love got help for her impulse control, and Joe self-actualized and accepted how they're equally evil therefore perfect for each other.
@@emilyc9079 Only in the sense that you root for every protagonist that's a shitty person. Walter White, Tony Soprano ... Joe. Awful people that repeatedly do terrible things, and convince themselves that those things are justified - yet we don't want them caught because ... then there'd be no show.
Yeah I mean they are both twisted but Love stood by Joe no matter what, and accepted him, she only got crazy when she felt neglected by Joe. I really felt that she, as crazy and impulsive as she may have been, just wanted Joe to reciprocate her feelings and efforts for him. Meanwhile his focus was always elsewhere, first Natalie and then Marienne.
both joe and love are horrible disgusting people but man did love's victim complex bug me this season lmao. she keeps making all her decisions all by herself but always goes "well um it's not my fault i'm the victim here" like cooome ooooonnnn. i hope joe also gets what's coming to him and leaves marienne alone
@@lamb9770 yeah? and i hate his musty self too lmfao. but i see way more people justifying and "forgiving" love than i see them do joe. i hate both of them
Her poor mental health was understandable tho. Post pregnancy depression is a real and relatable for some thing. And her twin was murdered and she left her friend group behind. Joe's tragedy is at least 2 decades ago and he had time to move on and chose not to
I really liked this season omg, at times I felt like I was watching a comedy series, I was constantly laughing my ass off, and Joe's narrating made it 457% better 😂
I love the way Joes creep factor is really increased this season with lighting, angles and the voice modulation. It was lovely. But I absolutely hate how much of a joke they made the guys part of the swinging scene. Was a real lost opportunity.
Just finished season 3 , i liked this one better than season 2 . It's funny, at times stupid and love is total crazy obsessed wife who will kill any woman who looks at Joe .😂😂
@@k.marcie to be nice. It's said, women are very fertile after giving birth... I mean, why do you think he was upset when he finds out she found him boring? LOL
I mean the book Natalie picked was right, he did loose everything. Also Joe would of been caught in the second episode if they checked the Teslas cameras. The only reason Joe is still running around, is pure luck, and a little bit of skill.
At some point during this season Joe actually reached a point of character growth but Love brought the worst out of him every single time he tried to change
I mean he tried to cheat on her, why would she try and be good to him when he's repeatedly fucking her over, he brought out the worst in her if anything, it's mad that people see it this way, like Love was supposed to be "oh you're obsessed with the neighbour, oh that'ds nice"
@@jessica5470 so everything is joe fault? Everything that happened in joe and loves life from the point they met and until now, is joes fault? I honestly hate women like you. Everything isn’t his fault. They both are crazy and kill people but it’s all joe fault and only him.
@@kpj2224 no not everything is on him, the fact he tried to cheat on her was on him, which led to breakdown, I'll say it again, love knew they are both psychos, Joe only thinks love is a psycho, love was okay with that concept because she knew they're extremely alike, he didn't, he thinks he's nothing like her
I feel like Marianne has some secrets up her sleeve. I feel like she’s lowkey a sociopath too just knows how to control her persona because she always caught Joe in certain moments and they relate to one anothers background stories. Maybe they came from the same system when they were abandoned as kids?
I don't think so. They came from the same system but some of them become the next perpetuators of the system and others become the one who try take the system down. I think she just have been abused for too long by narcissistic men and eventually took a turn on her life to learn how to recognize them so she can protect herself.
The most disappointing thing about this season was that I was expecting them to at least pay a nod to all of the pieces of evidence Joe has left behind, because let's be honest he isnt exactly not messy about it to pile up against him. Like the jar of his own fricking piss he left at peache's House in season 1 and the private eye that reopened peache's death case? Or even the therapist who spoke to Forty and knew that something was wrong or even Ellie we didn't get any glumes of how is actually doing. They just seem to you know forget for the sake of tv character convenience. By now some one has to start piecing it together especially since he was married to love, Forty, candence died, delillah died, now love is dead, Joe is supposedely dead. But like how can no one look into Joe if everyone around him just ends up dying. Plus what about delilahs police friend who basically started to piece together that Joe isn't who he says he is then delilahs dies that's like the nail in the head.
I can kinda see how he's cool for now. Investigations take time and can only go forward once there's enough evidence to make a case. Since they have no dna from him other than the piss which means they don't have anything on him till he's matched to it so he's free till that happens. Plus the fact that he moved to the whole other side of the US after Beck. As well as the fact that he's now "dead" and living in France so yhh he's been messy but his tracks are pretty covered now unless the PI has been on his case the whole time
I think that girl he rebounded from Becks with in the first season will come back in some form. She clearly looked into Candace and the story of the Quinn’s will certainly be National if not international news. She’s going to start picking up the pieces, I’m calling it now
“I don’t think about what Love is” she is you buddy lol. I mean a version that’s more reckless but still basically like you sir lol I’m happy he didn’t find the woman that works at the library in France (my bad I forget her name they barely say it lol)
I always think about how Love’s friends always said she bakes when she is stressed, she opened a bakery and went on a killing spree🤣🤣🤣🤣 we all should have seen it coming
Oh my! I literally binge watched the entire s1, s2 and s3 between yesterday and today and YOU POSTED THIS! Also, I love how s3 shows so much of Joe's childhood!! 🥺
"Its funny because I do actually like things from time to time" that's crazy because I was literally reading through your video titles yesterday looking for a show that you actually enjoyed lol
3:45 You skipped the part where Natalie gives Joe a box of condoms & tells him to keep having loads of sex (that is what makes him think that she might be flirting with him) not the nappies
What I find so intriguing about the show is how Joe is constantly explaining stuff from his perspective and justifying his actions. But it’s a good show with fleshed out characters who are all intriguing and layered
I hope you never stop doing these videos. I always start a playlist of your videos to fall asleep. I'll have like 5 videos of yours in the queue and rain sounds queued at the end and your videos are perfect to listen to while I drift off. Interesting but not something I have to keep my eyes open for and theyre always so relaxing!
I honestly didn’t think that I would end up watching and liking ALL of the seasons of YOU. I was like how much can they extend this sociopath shit?! But NO, I was invested in the series throughout.
so it has been brought to my attention that some people are upset with something I said about BPD in the video.
I wasn't joking about BPD or saying that Joe is a monster/evil person BECAUSE he may or may not have it. the actual
joke was about kids using those terms to play the game Guess Who. The joke has no deeper meaning than that. I made no comment
about Joe being a good or bad person BECAUSE of his disorders/mental state.
Regardless, I have cut that part out of the video and I am sorry if what I said made anyone feel as if I was speaking in a negative way about their disorder
People misinterpret and then get upset over the most trivial of things... (facepalm)
@bored ! he is on his community thing he says if it’s too late to make a squid game video
disappointed you cut it
I was VERY confused at first
Purposeful misinterpretation gets worse every day lol
The way Joe talks to himself in his mind are the most fun conversations on the show
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Try watching the show with no sound on when joe is having those mind conversations, its so creepy
He's not talking to himself he's talking to his obsession
I fucking love it, its so raw and real.
''is he flirting with me or inviting me to fight club" was honestly one of the most funniest lines this season
He truly was about to become the next YOU for a moment ahahah
That one quote carried the season. Legit kept thinking about it every episode.😂
😂😂😂😂
@@irmashizumi..9858 when does that happen?
Which is also an interesting forecasting because it was both ;d
I find it funny that Joe is like "Love is so crazy, I cant believe she kills people" like sure Mr self aware lol
Honestly, Love doesn't really think before she kills, letting her feelings sink in quickly. Once you slip up, the next few seconds you'll end up getting a knife shoved in your brain.
Whoever made the creative decision of giving us Joe’s narration throughout the show.. is s genius.
It makes you almost like him and want him to succeed. Even though he’s batshit insane.
It reminds me a lot of the show Dexter, who is a serial killer. One of my favorite shows.
Yes, it's actually their intention. This show is a lot more than most see.
@@chotanya oh one of my top shows as well.
I felt that way up until this season, I hope she kills him in the next…although I love the show and don’t want it to end
@@MonieHemmings who kills him? Love woulda been the most likely candidate to kill him. And that’s no longer a possibility
Spoiler?
I laughed so hard when joe was dragging unconscious Cary and Love was dragging unconscious Sherry, and they met in the middle looking at each other like “shit here we go again”
omg YES
I was like "gOaLs"
I honestly thought the two of them and Theo were dead. Yet it looked like she got no injuries from Love
Who else laughed when Joe got salty when he found out Natalie thought he was a “boring neighbor” 😂
Me lol
He's suuuuuch a Nice Guy I was laughing
It was hilarious!!
He switched off his obsession so quickly after reading that! I was scream laughing at that part. 🤣
I literally kissed my teeth like sir!?
“You” is super entertaining and has a lot of fucked up moments that makes you laugh but also go “that’s maybe how that would actually play out”. Even though it’s got so many flaws and plot holes, doesn’t change from the fact that it’s highly entertaining and why it’s got such a rabid fanbase. Penn Badgley totally kills it in the role.
What are the plot holes you saw? Genuinely asking
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Things that I can remember from the top of my head includes: The whole scramble to figure out who killed Delilah when he has a nanny cam pointed at the cage, why Love doesn’t mention to Joe way earlier that she’s aware of what’s going on, paying off Cadence (probably should have just killed her earlier). From season 1: That Beck does a rant instead of just running away immediately, Peach getting hit in the middle of the day in Central Park and NO ONE saw it? The biggest plot hole is probably Joe being able to bonk people in the head and have them conveniently wake up when the plot needs to process haha. I mean there should be a lot of brain trauma to some characters haha.
@@Dude-dx5ns Without spoilers: some plot holes revolve around how police/forensic investigations work. Still a fun show, though.
“Totally kills it in the role” funny.
@@Sana-rk6xu haha glad someone caught it 👌
I love how the show YOU is a stalker kind of show and Alex’s sponser for this video is a knife company😂
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@Squid Game 🅥 your mum?
ikr I saw the sponsor and thought "I see what you did there Alex"
Joe should've been grateful for actually finding a girl who was down for his weird stalking murder hobby
Joe didnt want that. He didnt want someone like him. He wanted someone who is defenseless for he can protect them. Like he did for his mom. Mommy issues goes a long long way. And Love is more than capable of doing what joe can do, which makes her nearly a threat. He loved her before knowing she was just like him cuz all he saw was a defenseless girl he could protect. Same for beck but beck dug her grave. As for Candace, i dont even remember Candace.
Ikr as if someone is gonna want him once they find out how many people he killed
Love was an embodiment of the part of himself that he hated. she was a living reminder to him that he was nothing but a killer, so when she reveals her true self to him in season two he instantly falls out of love with her. it never would have worked because joe was insanely hypocritical and deluded himself into thinking that HIS murders were any more justified than Love’s.
@@xmrximer1752 I agree, but at one part of the season when Love and him go to the couple therapy, he said that his biggest fear is that someone who will see his true self will run away, and Love saw his true self and still love him but it seems that it doesn't matter to him which is sad.
@@xskygirlx he wants someone like his mommy. Mommy issues
I totally forgot that Marienne saw Joe flirting with Natalie and still caught feelings for him. Like girl aren’t you noticing a pattern of infidelity here??
Shiiitttt never noticed this
You don't get to choose who you "catch feelings" for?
yea but she also mentioned that she was always attracted to toxic men
"Caught feelings"
Marienne is the worst
I love how he never gets caught like he had so many reasons to get caught this season especially with someone as reckless as Love but he didn’t.
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It's called plot armor, show will end if Joe gets caught
@@ogdanny5933 but it didn't had any plot hole though it's ok to have plot Armor
@@micky63 stop this spam
he did. Matthew knew Joe help Love kill his wife, or atleast that Joe knew Love killed her. That's why he left Joe to be killed by Love. Also in s2 Forty knew Beck was killed by Joe. That is why he tried to kill him, but got shot by the police. Getting caught by the law tho, yea that hasn't happened yet. But the way he get's rid of evidence and frames people is smart and it isn't that suprising that he isn't caught yet. Serial killers get away all the time, more often than not it takes years for them to get caught
I love S3, it’s well written and unironically comedic
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same! the characters were campy and the pacing felt less flat
It was my favourite season overall. I honestly think the acting and writing in episode 1,2 and 8-10 were the best in the entire series so far
Are you serious ? This was the worst season
The way Joe can hide in public using a simple hat blows my mind
pretty sure the scene where ryan tackles him is a great example of how it does not. lol
its the perfect amount of coverage from cams that look from above yet everyone with any common sense would be sus to see a man thats walking in a hat thats made to protect from the sun being worn at nighttime hjdjhf like thats so shadyy
the MCU disguise method
Superman Syndrome? 🤔😩🤣🤣
I think it was a choice deliberately made by the writers and directors to emphasize how outwardly he just appears as an every day guy who blends in with crowd.
sherry was the best character this season. she first came off as fake, narcissistic and a little bit of an airhead, but she was actually was one of the smartest people on the show. she was really fun to watch, too!
She and her husband were genuinely hilarious to watch. Love them.
same, at first I wanted her to die but the end eps made me root for herrr
sherry and cary are the best side characters i was so glad they didn't get a bad end
ikr thought they're those plastic
I heated her the whole season especially after what she said during the Natalie’s search but I liked her and Carry on the 2 last episodes
To me, the greatest parts of this season were Joe finally realizing about his mommy issues, and Sherry and Cary being the comical relieve in such a heavy series. It was most definitely needed. And also, Henry being adopted by Dante and his husband. I freaking love Dante.
Who was henry again?
@@falloutgamer347 Love and Joe's son
@@IrenJahan-ru5tx oh ok, thanks
Joe and his inner monologues are the best parts of the show, but since we hear them it takes away the factor that he’s just staring into space or at someone’s face for an awkward amount of time 😂
And he has the nerves to be offended when Natalie calls him boring😂
I laughed way too hard at this.
I like to think that he thinks much faster than other people on account of his being a genius, so in real time, there are very few awkward staring moments. The show slows down his internal monologues so that the viewers can understand
forty actually comments on that and says its creepy when he gets quiet lmao
@@aaryanshah2063 I don’t think anyone thinks as slow as joes inner monologue
Honestly without Joe's narrative, everyone would hate him
Well I do hate him. He killed love and we're getting another season of the same boring plot that was incredible during the first season but now is annoying.
Wish 4th season was about Love, she's maniac and she kills without excuses, just because she feels like it haha would be better than another season of stalking and killing every single person on his way to the girl he's obsessed.
@@Rahmarchiori I would make season 4 about Joe obviously looking for Marienne but Joe is also being stalked. It can turn out that a female detective has been looking for him and is hot on his trail, following all his moves and truly stalking him seeming borderline obsessed. We can see him find Marienne and even see them reconcile and seeing Joe genuinely try to fight his nature. We can be being led to believe that the detective following Joe is trying to get to him before he can hurt Marienne but honestly she can just be another crazy. The detective can be so obsessed with Joe that she plays him and forces him to choose between going to prison for the rest of his life or killing her. Joe’s choice can be weighted by the cost which is losing Marienne forever regardless after searching so long to find her.
@@Rahmarchiori wasn't that why Love killed though? She was obsessed with Joe and anything that threatened him or their marriage even slightly had to die? The whole point of Love is that she's more or less the same as Joe, a season of Love as the MC would be more or less the same plot. Love even obsessed over Theo once her fling with Joe wore out which was exactly what Joe was doing with Mary-Anne.
But I do agree, the obsession pattern/plot is getting dull.
@@Rahmarchiori I kind of hope the next season ends with him getting caught or something
Do people not hate him? He’s a serial killer. Also just generally one of the most judgmental and self righteous people I’ve ever seen. I said “you’re the worst” out loud to the screen at least like 7 times during the first episode.
I love how his sponsorship ad is about knives in a video about You
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I was looking for this comment lol I know right
I didn’t even realize how much that Fitzgerald book literally foreshadows the basic plot of the show and the next season
What's the name pls
@@emmanuellaedah8423 tender is the night
The hunting trip episode is hilarious. The shot of Joe just standing there while the other men dance around the campfire is the funniest thing i've ever seen
Same 🤣 I died when he was just standing there shirtless while all the men were dancing
I think he wanted a girl because he thought she wouldn't become like him.
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@さゆり Joe is not very sane
And prolly because he felt a need to protect. Seeing a small girl being more in need of protection than a son would. Its just joes toxic masculanity
@@Nomi_112 *mommy issues
He wants to control women.
This show fascinates me. Or maybe Joe’s mind is what fascinates me.
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Likewise, is this the real life, is this just fantasy?!
joe, when you eliminate his inner monolgues, is just a dude standing there looking constipated while people talk to him, its hilarious
Really wanted him to get caught so bad 😭
The third season of You shows what happens when two yanderes get married.
omg really? (never watch the show here)
im kinda interested to know about the wife now. Is she a crazy one too? She really finished off natalie? OwO
@@akabaneaki actually she does most of the killing this season
@@sergiorodriguez1367 oh dangggg OAO does the main guy know?
@@akabaneaki yeah, in fact he gets mad at her for causing him so much trouble
@@sergiorodriguez1367 oooo if not for the fact that i cant take horror well, i would have loved to try out the season for my own x'D Thank you so much for explaining!
I think Joe murdering Love was less about him "going back to square one" than showing the audience once and for all he never really left square one to begin with. He's stuck in a pattern, an endless cycle of obsession and stalking and murder, and the first couple of episodes were little more than an illusion that he was finally breaking free of it. He is far too fucked up to ever really be free of it. He recognized the signs cropping up when Marienne becomes his latest target and what starts as a little bit of an "innocuous" indulgence soon culminates with him wanting to leave Love and be with Marienne because he has now decided she is The One. Yes, and if he murders Marienne, he will quickly move on to the next girl, and the next, and the next, because it is all a pattern to him. I think this is one big thing about him people are failing to catch on when they say they hoped Love was it for him because even though yes she is his soulmate, he's never going to find anyone as fucked up as he is to accept him as he is, The One remains an unattainable fantasy that he is going to keep chasing after.
this. 👏🏽
And season 4 (if there is) is still gonna be the same Joe's modus operandi. I honestly was rooting for Love, and take over season 4 hahaha
@@jedodedo well netflix renewed the show for season4 so there is
I agree! And like Love was someone who was probably the person who could best understand him because she was somewhat similar and that scared Joe. Even the person who was near perfect for Joe, wouldn’t work with him because while most others were not enough she was too much
I haven't finished the season but definitely will be doing so tomorrow, Love was annoying in season 2 and more annoying in early season 3, they try to bring the charachter back but I still find her annoying. I think Victoria pandretti is gorgeous and goes a good playing love, originally hearing she will finally be killed off is kind of a relief but now the show will be stale same old same old. Also the realization he will just be a serial killer there is no point where he stops sucks because you can see his humanity and he cares for people but killing love is the staw that kills joes character. I now hope love is still alive because that romance with Marianne is stale and doesn't work, I want a season of love tracking him down and the 2 reconciling. The moment they toss Joe in jail the show is dead I see people saying they wanna see him pay for his crimes, like fuck no if you wanna watch someone pay for their crimes watch madea goes to jai, not you.
it was so entertaining to watch them argue over what to do with Natalie's dead body while trying not to wake the baby up. It was hilarious yet so messed up. Their acting performances were so good
ok but s4 joe gets obsessed with emily in paris, it's joe in paris, that would be like hilarious cross-promoting
I haven't watched Emily in Paris, but from what I heard of this show, I guess people wouldn't be super mad is Joe killed her
@@beatrizgomes4094 LMFAOOOOO!!!!!!!
@@beatrizgomes4094 exactly hahaah i’d be like joe if you’re gonna kill her now is the time
@@beatrizgomes4094 IMFAO TRUE-
Except YOU is an amazing show like a 9/10 and Emily in Paris is like a 1/10 on a good day
i think he wanted a girl because in his mind he is very capable of "protecting" women. he's never had a good relationship with men which i think is also why he seemed to be unable to bond with henry
@@lordspark3989 how literally left his son to follow a woman with a daughter....
@@lordspark3989 you're not paying attention. You can't trust Joe. He's not reliable. And no, Love influenced him with "he'll know what you are".
He kind a give me vibes for someone who has OCD
@@bratsss What exactly is your interpretation of Joes motivation to leave Henry with Dante instead of raising him on his own?
@@_cj__ that he's perpetuating the same toxic cycle. That's it.
YOU deserves the sequel and it's called ME.
You’re right, it should be about their son of Joe & Love and put it in his point of view
ME a spin-off showing the show from the perspective of their targets. Season 1 is from Beck and Peach. Season 2 is from Love, Ellie, Delilah, and Candance. So on...
Is the sequel to the sequel US?
Yeah then it’s the son of joe and love and about his story and how he turned into a serial killer too
@@mgelliott86 Great idea!
What the show does so well is just showing how Joe justifies himself. We the audience are aware he is objectively awful and evil, but his inner monologues offer his perspective and make it compelling. It wouldn't be as compelling if it wasn't from his perspective.
It's HIS show so it's his POV. Most of the audience has been manipulated by him. All of his monologues practically justify his actions. Everyone knows he's horrible but there are people who still romanticize him.
Actually a lot of people in the audience aren't aware of how evil he is and actually do fall for his justifications...so those monologues are really working 😬
@@slayyyjayyypeople will ignore his stalking and killing because he’s attractive. If he wasn’t they wouldn’t be fans of the character
@@slayyyjayyy remember ladies " penn badgley is hot but joe goldberg is not" joe us awful than love
I don’t think Joe ever actually loved Love. He was obsessed with her, Beck and Candance. And he constantly needs to change the object of his obsession, so when Candace didn’t match his expectations he got rid of her and moved to Beck then same thing happened so he got Love and when she again wasn’t this perfect version that he created in his mind he tried to kill her, the news about pregnancy stopped him because he could switch his love and affection from Love onto the kid. Thats why Henry was so important at the beginning of the season. Joe stayed with Love for him and Henry was his primal motivation. However as he started falling for new girl Henry became less and less valid and eventually Jos just leaves his son because his obsession found another person to praise, another you. So maybe Love was his soulmate but the problem is Joe can’t stay in one long term relationship doesn’t matter how much he believes he is in love
i feel love and joe make the best pair irl, he pretty much messed things for himself
there is no reason for joe to leave love, he made the situation for henry like it was for paco.
I think that this show is a pretty interesting experiment in how many things people (the viewers in this case) are willing to forgive and defend once they understand. The thing is, Joe is a psycho - Love too. If this story was told from someone elses perspective, we would all feel differently. But then they show some humanity, they justify their actions in a way that feels convincing and we all recognize their primary drives within ourselves, like jealousy, attraction, need for recognition, even obsessiveness - the difference is that we don't let it control us like they do and, most importantly, even when they get the better of us, we would never act out in the same ways that they do. We'd get angry or say something petty. We'd never kill, stalk or keep someone trapped. But even those of of who feel pretty sickened by the main characters find yourselves understanding - and even rooting for - them from time to time. I find that interesting.
it’s using our own empathy against us
@@avery-4223 exactly!
You nailed it👏🏻👏🏻
i would not root (and did not root) for any of these behaviors and i know i would not take the same route if i was in their place. "we ALL recognize" - have you met everyone, that you know that well what their drives are? no matter how much this media/culture promotes degeneration, we "are" not like that - at least not all of us. understanding is logical and forgiving is emotional - some of us can really do one and not the other in the same time
If only that empathy is applied to real people. Or maybe, the reason we can feel that empathy is partly knowing that this is a fictional character. Would we feel the same if he was a real human being?
They topped the most irritating character of Peach with Sherry and I'm lovin' it ✌
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@I'm So Tired loooll yes I was rooting for Sherry and Cary to survive 🤣🤣
She was annoying in the beginning but the couple quickly became a favorite at the end
@@iammar1159 I liked peach
This show is brave. In most kind of shows like You (Dexter is one that comes to mind), they usually try to justify what the character is doing so that the audience roots for them. (In Dexter, he only kills people that are "bad", for example.) This show doesn't do that really. Yes, they do show that Joe and Love have reasons to have become the way they are, which might make us pity them slightly, but it wasn't enough for me to actually root for them which was new for me as a viewer. That's why, when the couple was in the cage, I genuinely was not rooting for Love and Joe, but for the couple, and Theo, to get out of there. I kept rooting against them even though Joe and Love are the "protagonists" of the show. I found that so cool of the writers. I can't wait for the next season!
Thought I was the only one rooting for the couple as well, lol
@@dionysus3774 When Theo found them I WAS SCREAMING AT THE TV like, "CALL THE POLICE. CALL THE POLICE. CALL THE- oh Love is here he's screwed."
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I love how the protagonists are the bad guys, the characters are made for you to hate and fear them.
@@an-qo6by Theo was so stupid 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I really like how this season doesn’t romanticize Joe nearly as much. For the most part, everyone who Joe killed was pretty bad in one way or another. I’m not saying they all deserved it, but seeing Rob get killed in season one was incredibly satisfying. This season, it felt a lot uglier. Other than Ryan getting knocked off a building and stabbed, everyone who was murdered had depth to them. Gil dying was really hard to stomach
Who is rob again?
@@readmydescription8240 Ron* sorry lol he was the piece of shit step dad from season one that Joe took care of
but like… there were only two people (other than ryan) who died in this season, and both of them did because of Love not Joe. He had even saved theo’s life. And he killed Love because if he wouldn’t she would’ve killed him. So in this season joe was pretty good imo
The only people Joe actually killed on purpouse
Season 1:
Benji
Peach
Beck
Season 3:
Ryan
Other killings by Joe
Ron S1 (Self Defense)
Jasper S2 (Self Defense)
Hendy S2 (Accident)
Love S3 (Self Defense)
So overall, he is trying to be a better person since season 2
@@zecarrinho4940 benji
*Alex Meyers Rating System:*
"pretty great"
"craziest"
"good"
"weird"
"bizarre"
"doesn't make any sense"
"kinda dumb"
"pretty dumb"
"hilariously dumb"
"unbelievably dumb"
"dumbest"
"the worst/made me want to get a lobotomy"
"Riverdale"
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂
I love how Riverdale has its own category 😂😂
Season 3 is definitely the best one.
Ending was great.
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The ending was wild but I kinda wanted to see Joe finally what’s coming to him 😭
Indeed, and it's already getting a fourth season!
I prefer the second season but I am still looking forward for the fourth season
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Season 3 was so much more interesting and hilarious to see them tackle parenthood while juggling domestic life and you know, the constant urge to kill anyone and everyone that even slightly ticks Joe or Love in the wrong way.
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And it showed us how much of a hypocrite they both were. Love was so jealous of other women but was cheating on Joe. And Joe was cheating on her 🤦🏾♀️ the most toxic relationship. They didn’t need to be together, they needed to be thrown in an insane asylum. So many lives could have been saved smh
@@iammar1159 I was glad Mathew and Theo(that kid needs to get his shit together) got away, even the Conrads for that matter, they were fucked up in their own way but that doesn't mean they needed to die.
Yeah love is more violent than joe and can be more wreck less
"Oops! My Wife keeps killing people!"
I read something recently about how now everything you watch or enjoy has to be the best of the best or groundbreaking or even good, just watch or enjoy it because you enjoy it. It is so weird to have lived through the "everything needs to be perfection, if you don't agree than you're trash or if you like unperfect things than you're trash for liking it" and I'm really glad to finally see the return of 'just fucking enjoy what you enjoy".
The way Joe was so disinterested in charades while texting Marienne and then randomly laughing to join in with sherry Cary and love 😭 THAT SCENE IS STUCK IN MY HEAD
Joe will meet Emily in Paris, a dark comedy spin off lol
Ironically, it will be the best thing that happens to Emily in Paris
@@ezelfrancisco1349 Exactly 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏻
I used to be a fan, but after watching this masterpiece, I'm a whole air conditioner
@Rapunzel ♪ selena gomez a foot model? :D i didnt know
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Nice joke from 2012
LMAO OMG I CRIED
Haha, best joke ever! 😂
I love and hate this show. It's such a fascinating piece of melodrama that somehow manages to keep surprising me. Although I did fully expect them to kill Joe off by the end of this season and change the focus to Love going forward. Cannot wait for season 4!
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But...why would they kill Joe? The show is narrated from his pov. If he gets killed, the series gets over
@@NikitaDlima Would have been an interesting twist. Love and him are eerily similar. She could have definitely pulled off being the new lead.. And there were some comments in the last episode especially that were possibly leaning that way.
I would've much preferred love to be the main character, she atleast can see her and Joe are similar, Joe seems to think he's way above love even though he's much more pathological and psycho than she is, she's emotional, he's supposed to be really smart yet has 0 self awareness, it doesn't make sense to me
@@jessica5470 ikr i found love's personality and emotional behaviour much more interesting
what i loved about this season was the deep dive into joe's past and the realization that his love interests are a pattern of unresolved mommy issues. it doesn't justify his actions but it does help to get into the mind of the killer and psychoanalyze him. same with love. her mother confronts her about how she doesn't like joe anymore because to her he can't keep being fixed. love likes finding broken and sad people and fixing them, and adapts herself to them completely by clinging onto them as much as she can.
this is true but it’s the same with Joe. With all of his “you’s” his first impressions were their actions and behaviors (like beck with her love for books, loves interests in the little things and eventually much more) which leads him to assume and usually be right about their broken pasts. he has even admitted that he wants to protect them and fix them from what they’ve went through bc he’s had such a bad past with being an orphan and having a rough childhood all together. all he wanted was true love from his peers and he puts that onto his “you’s” instead of fixing himself first. him and love are literallyyy soulmates and he clearly couldn’t handle basically another version of himself
Cary was the MVP for me this season, he was fucking hilarious
he was so dumb yet kinda insightful on a completely different level than everyone else in the world haha
"If you don't fuck yourself how do you expect anyone wanting to fuck you?" -Chad Cary
@@ThaYoungChad The superior man is the bi-sexual man😂
@@kuivia “optimized” 😂😂😂
@@eazybaby5094 man those kinda lines cracked me up hella hard haha
Easily one of the best shows Netflix has going right now with all three seasons so far being really good, and that Season 3 finale was absolutely worth the two years we had to wait for it. Definitely one of the best shows to binge, and Netflix has already announced/confirmed there will be a Season 4, so that can’t get here soon enough. Now, if only we could get the new season of Ozark sooner rather than later…
you and ozark my favorit shows bru
I hope that S4 is the last season and it focuses on Joe actually getting what he deserves for all his crimes. Or that it at least ends with him facing repercussions.
"So Natalie got into joes head , its her fault you know for being pretty and existing " #savage #relatable
“I’ve BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE TURN IT UP” but seriously Alex always makes me laugh and I’m sick rn and not feeling the best so I need this thank you alex
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hope u feel better :)
I am just glad Theo didn't die....I was rooting for him
Sameee
Same, sister! I also liked the contrast between Love and Joe's perspectives when it came to him, when she struck Theo I wanted to scream. I was hoping Joe wouldn't hurt him and was sighing out in relief when he felt pity and helped the boy.
@@tainii-san5879 I think that was the one time I justified joe's killings. Helping Theo. Well if he was still in love with Love he would have hurt him but again Joe doesn't hurt kids, he protects them in his own way
@@gracesteph6966 Yes, that. I think he would be conflicted if he still cared for Love like that. Since devoid of emotional attachment to her he felt pity even thinking(I'm paraphrasing here) : "What has my wife gotten you into?". And I think his distain for her began with Delilah, as with her death Love screwed another kid over without thinking of the consequences. I legit home Elie comes back in season 4.
you get it. She screwed her brother for the better part of his life while acting like a saviour. Screws Ellie, didn't think twice about Theo. I mean.....no words
this season was the best of them all and Victoria Pedretti(Love Quinn) is such an amazing actress like she is 10/10 phenomenal in every role she takes on
"You" Just doesn't miss, this season was the best one yet
Alex: “YOU is the craziest show you’ll ever see”
Me, currently watching Hannibal: “Uhhh….”
Hannibal is far greater than you
@@rahulgaur3130 Hannibal is art. In Congress, too.
@@babsgalv6556 you are right
@@rahulgaur3130 so true. The entire cast and crew really did their thing with Hannibal. I’m still sad they never got to finish Bryan Fuller’s vision.
@@randombrokeperson i have the same feeling bro...
"sometimes you just like stuff because you like it."
This statement is actually pretty deep, not even joking.
I honestly wasn’t rooting for Joe, I was rooting for Love. Kinda hoped she’d take over in season 4. But I knew it wouldn’t happen.
Haus of David, what?! Love was 100% pure sociopath. Joe is only, um, 30% (more or less). Joe would never harm a child. Love, OTOH, would slit a baby's throat. That's why she needed to go. You gotta have SOME standards.
Same, I loved Love
Joe is starting to get boring, I'm more interested to Love now.
@@d.lawrence5670 You just think that because Love doesn't have a narration like Joe does. The fact that Love doesn't kill Marianne as soon as she sees she's a mom is proof that she's not 100% sociopath... if that is even a term. Love would not only never harm a child, she wouldn't even harm that mother's child even if she was a threat to everything she holds dearest. Love is the exact same as Joe but the woman version... and that's exactly why their relationship could never work. They have their differences like... Love just wants somebody to get her... and nobody would be better in this role then her male copy (she thinks)... but unfortunately her copy is not looking for someone to see him for exactly what he is... he is looking for some damsel in distress to see him as a hero and not his true self... and Love is no damsel in distress... sooooooo...
@@winterishere440 yes, thank you!! literally my thoughts
I feel like each season gets better. Love was super annoying, but she knew him so well. I liked his newest idol. But no way she would ever accept the real him like Love did.
love was annoying ? /gen
she’s the reason i kept watching
@@_hannigram_ I felt she was annoying because she kept making problems bigger, with no plan. Joe was her cleanup guy the whole season.
@@PaperMario64 but that made up the whole season and you just said that this season was better than the rest,and tht is y it was imp for her to be like that.
Joe was being so boring and predictable, it was Love who carried the show.
Season 2 is the best
This show has achieved the absolute greatness of not faltering after a good season like shows tend to do.
If only someone asked me watching the first season if I was prepared to watch this man do this exact same shit while changing diapers.
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I’m just glad Marianne got away. Joe wasn’t in love with her, he wanted a new victim and I’m so glad she got away 😭😭
@@iammar1159 He's in Paris though, I don't know how she might be able to dodge him considering who he is.
@@pippa_peg I hadn't stopped to consider that Joe might end up legit 'stalking' Marienne in Paris in a moment of truth i'm actually just a crazy stalker moment. He'll probably have people all over the globe looking for him because of Love's families connections. I hope he get's caught out next season. I don't want another YOU for him to obsess over.
I really like this show. I feel like this season evolved from the last two since it wasn't necessarily the same plot MO. The fact that Joe is feeling even more conflicted about his "usual" actions, and becomes more self-aware of his choices while reflecting on his childhood, while he's trying to raise a son and also in conflict with his wife just creates even more layers of intrigue and it felt so much more engaging that way. I especially liked how even though he has killed multiple people, he almost found disgust for it when Love would so it was this really weird moral imbalance that makes the audience question their own allegiance to the characters. In summation, loved this new season.
I honestly love this season a lot. The trailer was AMAZING
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The absolute quenchiest? The juice of the cactus??
Girl talks to guy.
Guy: "Is she hitting on me?"
Certainly been there
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And funny enough, most of them really were, lmao
I like how they foreshadowed the ending by saying “it’s always the husband”
I don't think Joe wrote Natalie on the Coffee sleeve. Most likely it was the barista at the coffee shop ☕
ofc it was a barista, I was searching for this comment, thank you!
YOU is genious and in my opinion one of the best shows ever to air on Netflix. I loved watching it and their satiracal approach on the woke madness.
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I liked the 1st 2 seasons but the third one made me very angry, it done my head in hearing Joe talk about love as if he's not 10 times worse than her
@@jessica5470 He is not, even before this season she was shown to be much more impulsive (and in this season she makes their lives much more worse). She was also really hypocritical, her mom was a bad parent but she was right that Love blames everyone but herself and that she only liked Joe as a problem go fix because then she had a problem. Joe thinks he can change but we know he wont (he tries sure, but even if he moved to a monastery in the middle of nowhere with no women he would be the same). Theyre both delusional but because Love was born as a spoiled rich girl she didnt have to worry consequences and if she was left alone for a few days she would endanger her kid over whatever petty bullshit she would end up getting caught for. Everyone is petty to an extent but the average person is mote careful because they know you cant just get away with it.
@@jessica5470 hes not 10times worse tho. Shes impulsive and kills out of jelousy.
Apart from benji and peach i‘d argue joe kills for good reasons. He‘s obviously still a piece of shit but some people deserve to die and throughout season2 he tries to ‚get it right‘ and actually only kill the people who deserve it.
This season really lived up to the hype of season 1. Was so worried that it was going to be a bit cringe like season 2 but was thoroughly surprised and I really enjoyed it! Glad you did too!
just realized that “Tender is the Night” foreshadowed where Joe ended up at the end of season 3 :O
The best thing about this show is summed up in one quote from Love to Joe.
In season3 she tells him "The lengths of insanity you drive me to"
It sounds like something a normal couple would say to each other when they fight. But then when you see he is on the floor can't move and she has a knife and is ready to slit his throat. You realize this is not normal. I started watching with season3 but it is this dichotomy of normal abnormal that makes me want to go back and watch the other seasons.
8:56 You know, knowing Joe's behavior and Love's personality, I ain't surprised. I both pity Nattalie for getting Joe's attention and getting killed for it yet find her a complete idiot for try to get with Joe.
I laughed when Love clobbered her. I know I shouldn't have, but it's not that hard to notice that a weird family is weird.
The storyline is nuts but I appreciate the performances from some of the actors. It’s good acting that we don’t see often these days.
I was pretty much done "rooting for Joe" after season 2. SPOILERS: Love - crazy as she is - was absolutely right about the two of them being "soulmates." Who else would have Joe? Who else but Love has seen every twisted, ugly side of him and not at least tried to get as far away from the maniac as physically possible? This is not to say that they were good for each other, this is not to say that either of them are good people, and this is not to say that I think "happily ever after" - in the traditional sense at least - could've been in any way feasible for them. But, if the entire show from that point on had just been about two literal sociopaths trying to hold their codependent crapshoot of a marriage together, I would've wanted them to make like, 20 more seasons. It would've been a great antithesis/commentary/satire on the "good girl heals literal sociopath with her vagina" story we've seen a million and six times, and I know this is just a matter of personal taste, but I would've loved it. Instead Joe had to go and be ... Joe.
Exactly, I thought after the therapy sessions this was going to be the direction but then suddenly we were back to square one out of nowhere. Maybe I missed something though.
I completely agree! It was a really good season but ending and Joe killing Love totally ruined it. There's literally no one more perfect for Joe than Love. No one is gonna love or accept him for who he is. Every other woman that comes in his path will end up like Beth and Candace. Love on the other hand is also a hot psycho and knows/accepts every facet of who he is. He won't be able to be authentic with anyone the way he (mostly) was with Love. I only say mostly because he persistently gaslighted her as soon as he was interested in someone else. I really hope they somehow bring Love back in season 4 (even though it seems impossible). I really liked her as a character and found her just as compelling as Joe. I hope he realizes that they're soulmates and that she's the only one who could truly love him. I feel like he'll feel regret in the next season about killing her and eventually come to that realization. Love and Joe both wanted to be better people but honestly miscommunication and lies led to Love's murder spree (lol). She only killed when Joe's love for her strayed (Gil was accident on both their parts). In a way I feel like they could have gotten past their issues if they openly communicated, Love got help for her impulse control, and Joe self-actualized and accepted how they're equally evil therefore perfect for each other.
You were rooting for him in the first place???😭
@@emilyc9079 Only in the sense that you root for every protagonist that's a shitty person. Walter White, Tony Soprano ... Joe. Awful people that repeatedly do terrible things, and convince themselves that those things are justified - yet we don't want them caught because ... then there'd be no show.
Yeah I mean they are both twisted but Love stood by Joe no matter what, and accepted him, she only got crazy when she felt neglected by Joe. I really felt that she, as crazy and impulsive as she may have been, just wanted Joe to reciprocate her feelings and efforts for him. Meanwhile his focus was always elsewhere, first Natalie and then Marienne.
both joe and love are horrible disgusting people but man did love's victim complex bug me this season lmao. she keeps making all her decisions all by herself but always goes "well um it's not my fault i'm the victim here" like cooome ooooonnnn. i hope joe also gets what's coming to him and leaves marienne alone
joe has the exact same victim complex you’re talking about along with a savior complex lol
@@lamb9770 yeah? and i hate his musty self too lmfao. but i see way more people justifying and "forgiving" love than i see them do joe. i hate both of them
@@idunno3370 ikr.
Agreed.
Her poor mental health was understandable tho. Post pregnancy depression is a real and relatable for some thing. And her twin was murdered and she left her friend group behind. Joe's tragedy is at least 2 decades ago and he had time to move on and chose not to
2:34 'Just FIRETRUCKING let me do it Joe!'
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I really liked this season omg, at times I felt like I was watching a comedy series, I was constantly laughing my ass off, and Joe's narrating made it 457% better 😂
I know right! His inner monologues are gold!
a knife ad... on a sociopath themed series review... gotta love that
I love the way Joes creep factor is really increased this season with lighting, angles and the voice modulation. It was lovely. But I absolutely hate how much of a joke they made the guys part of the swinging scene. Was a real lost opportunity.
Love the way the sponsors are a knife company, Joe would've loved owning those
I was really rooting for him this season, he’s mellowed out from compared to the first season
Just finished season 3 , i liked this one better than season 2 . It's funny, at times stupid and love is total crazy obsessed wife who will kill any woman who looks at Joe .😂😂
I like how joe at one point was thinking about marriene and was like oh no my wife is going to kill you!
Natalie trying to be nice: *Heres some extra dipers*
Him: *_iS sHe FlIrTiNg WiTh Me?_*
She handed him condoms
It was the condoms she gave him, dude.
@@k.marcie to be nice. It's said, women are very fertile after giving birth... I mean, why do you think he was upset when he finds out she found him boring? LOL
@@bratsss Why would she give him condoms then? Something that physically stops fertilization from happening?
@@k.marcie it was as a joke. He was literally sleeping in the car and she figured it was due to baby being a lot, which he implied.
This season was insane, i loved it so much
Joe Goldberg and Love are such interesting characters to pick apart
I mean the book Natalie picked was right, he did loose everything.
Also Joe would of been caught in the second episode if they checked the Teslas cameras.
The only reason Joe is still running around, is pure luck, and a little bit of skill.
Season 3 was actually so well done. I was really happy with the ending
At some point during this season Joe actually reached a point of character growth but Love brought the worst out of him every single time he tried to change
I mean he tried to cheat on her, why would she try and be good to him when he's repeatedly fucking her over, he brought out the worst in her if anything, it's mad that people see it this way, like Love was supposed to be "oh you're obsessed with the neighbour, oh that'ds nice"
@@jessica5470 so everything is joe fault? Everything that happened in joe and loves life from the point they met and until now, is joes fault? I honestly hate women like you. Everything isn’t his fault. They both are crazy and kill people but it’s all joe fault and only him.
@@jessica5470 So her killing the neighbor is fine? Wtf Jessica
@@kpj2224 no not everything is on him, the fact he tried to cheat on her was on him, which led to breakdown, I'll say it again, love knew they are both psychos, Joe only thinks love is a psycho, love was okay with that concept because she knew they're extremely alike, he didn't, he thinks he's nothing like her
@@gibsonn2018 Joe seemed to think so a few seasons ago?
Shrek 2's tagine is literally, "What happens after the Happily Ever After is over?"
That last episode was amazing. They laid out all the hints throughout the show and executed them perfectly.
I feel like Marianne has some secrets up her sleeve. I feel like she’s lowkey a sociopath too just knows how to control her persona because she always caught Joe in certain moments and they relate to one anothers background stories. Maybe they came from the same system when they were abandoned as kids?
I don't think so. They came from the same system but some of them become the next perpetuators of the system and others become the one who try take the system down. I think she just have been abused for too long by narcissistic men and eventually took a turn on her life to learn how to recognize them so she can protect herself.
I can agree with you that she may be since she said she's glad her ex is dead and she didn't seem to mind or care when Joe told her he killed someone
The most disappointing thing about this season was that I was expecting them to at least pay a nod to all of the pieces of evidence Joe has left behind, because let's be honest he isnt exactly not messy about it to pile up against him. Like the jar of his own fricking piss he left at peache's House in season 1 and the private eye that reopened peache's death case? Or even the therapist who spoke to Forty and knew that something was wrong or even Ellie we didn't get any glumes of how is actually doing. They just seem to you know forget for the sake of tv character convenience. By now some one has to start piecing it together especially since he was married to love, Forty, candence died, delillah died, now love is dead, Joe is supposedely dead. But like how can no one look into Joe if everyone around him just ends up dying. Plus what about delilahs police friend who basically started to piece together that Joe isn't who he says he is then delilahs dies that's like the nail in the head.
I can kinda see how he's cool for now. Investigations take time and can only go forward once there's enough evidence to make a case. Since they have no dna from him other than the piss which means they don't have anything on him till he's matched to it so he's free till that happens. Plus the fact that he moved to the whole other side of the US after Beck. As well as the fact that he's now "dead" and living in France so yhh he's been messy but his tracks are pretty covered now unless the PI has been on his case the whole time
Didnt he change names aswell?
@@TY-km8hj chekovs gun. The piss will come back to bite him.
I think that girl he rebounded from Becks with in the first season will come back in some form. She clearly looked into Candace and the story of the Quinn’s will certainly be National if not international news. She’s going to start picking up the pieces, I’m calling it now
_A show more insane than riverdale?_ *WHAT KIND OF SCORCERY IS THIS*
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Look at season 5 of riverdale(specifically look at Cheryl)and come back to me
riveredale is still worse
But "you" is actually well written lol
YOU is insane in a "good" way. Riverdale is insane a "bad" way.
CS Lewis wrote a lot about how “happily ever after” is a terrible idea.
Could you tell me where, please?
“I don’t think about what Love is” she is you buddy lol. I mean a version that’s more reckless but still basically like you sir lol
I’m happy he didn’t find the woman that works at the library in France (my bad I forget her name they barely say it lol)
marianne
i doubt marienne would ever want anything to do with him anyway.
I always think about how Love’s friends always said she bakes when she is stressed, she opened a bakery and went on a killing spree🤣🤣🤣🤣 we all should have seen it coming
6:31 the RIVERDALE posters in the background cracked me up 😂
Omg I literally just started binge watching this show last night! And then this pops up 🤩 I love it when Alex laughs 😂
Oh my! I literally binge watched the entire s1, s2 and s3 between yesterday and today and YOU POSTED THIS!
Also, I love how s3 shows so much of Joe's childhood!! 🥺
"Its funny because I do actually like things from time to time" that's crazy because I was literally reading through your video titles yesterday looking for a show that you actually enjoyed lol
3:45 You skipped the part where Natalie gives Joe a box of condoms & tells him to keep having loads of sex (that is what makes him think that she might be flirting with him) not the nappies
Tbf Alexs channel is mainly PG so that's why
What I find so intriguing about the show is how Joe is constantly explaining stuff from his perspective and justifying his actions. But it’s a good show with fleshed out characters who are all intriguing and layered
i literally had to pause my you episode for this alex omg 😂
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hey, this guy is really good at summarizng and reviewing books; he should summarize and review tv shows and movies too :)
What's insane is that season 4 was announced before the 3rd one arrived 😂
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wait how did i miss that? are they really making another... i know they have 3 books so far...
@@samanthamorton3397 yeah, they announced it 5 days ago 😂
@@MarleneSilva-np5tn oh okay thanks!
I hope you never stop doing these videos. I always start a playlist of your videos to fall asleep. I'll have like 5 videos of yours in the queue and rain sounds queued at the end and your videos are perfect to listen to while I drift off. Interesting but not something I have to keep my eyes open for and theyre always so relaxing!
I honestly didn’t think that I would end up watching and liking ALL of the seasons of YOU. I was like how much can they extend this sociopath shit?! But NO, I was invested in the series throughout.