@ Jaha You can never give a narcissist the world literally speaking, No matter what you do, how much you sacrifice for them, it does not matter . It does not matter how little or how much money you have, houses, cars...whatever material blessings you bestow upon them, genuine pure faithful love...it will never be Enough!!! Never, never. However you have a point they are aware of your goodness so once they miss you they want to come back; somestimes not only to use you even more but some Narc if you take them back will punish you for breaking up with or leaving them. If they left you they will still make you miserable if you embrace and accept them back into yourlives. I blocked my ex- narcissist he cannot call or text me nor can he visit me 450 miles between us Praise God for the peace of mind. Bless you move on Jaha. To God Be All the Praise and Glory in Christ Always🙏😇.
@@sisteroflight thank you so much for this information I'm learning everyday from different ppl and from my experiences and trust me I'm getting stronger each day and will be strong enough to completely disappear from his existence pray for me 😣😣😣
@@jahawhitaker1016 Fast and pray ask God for a portion of HIS strength and power to move on, ask God to make you invisible from the ex! Never allowing your paths to cross again but; before you do be sure you have forgiven him. Once God removes him from your space/ life you will never see the ex again. So forgive him right before you walk away whether he appreciates the forgiveness or Not, it is for you more than him. Forgiveness helps you to cleanse and break that " Soul- tie , bond you had with the ex for good. God Almighty in Christ be with, bless, protect ,comfort and keep you as HE opens doors for you. To God be All the Praise, Glory in Christ Jesus Always. Amen.😇🙏.
Most of them speak from the heart, because they have lived it. Lisa A. Romano, dr Ramani, Elizabeth Shaw, Richard Grannon, Jess Stanley, Dave of Narcology Unscripted, they are all survivors.
They will ghost you, yea... then sneak diss you in a very childish horrible Manner with a new supply because, you realized the truth & told them how you felt... instead of communicating with YOU, they will talk reckless about you, even when you weren't even disrespectful, you were only calling out fault in your partner to them.
Thing is, yes they always seem to try to get us back, but all they do is treat us badly, take us for granted, start the same old games again. They don’t come back for anything good. You always regret giving them another chance
Cathy. You're absolutely correct. Narcissist do not deserve a second chance, they see a second chance as a weakness and neediness within you,and they feel you're beneath them.When you give Narcs a second chance they feel they were " right" to treat you in a demeaning manner which is why you came back for more of the same, not that you love them and they need to do a self- inventory and at least make a strong " genuine attempt" to improve and cherish you! In some if not most cases a narcissist will punish you for leaving if you go back to them. In their " sick weak" mentality's a narcissist will make every effort to convince you that you are at fault, deserve to be treated this way and they said, or did absolutely nothing wrong.!!! Take your power back Cathy and keep it! Continue to move on without Contact!!! Enjoy your abuse, narc free life !!!💜😇🙏💯
Hario I left my ex New Year Day this year. After 2 years of every type of abuse you can imagine. I cut his ass off. He stalked me..tried to kill me. I literally saw the Devil. Just 3 weeks ago he left a voicemail on my phone saying "I Love You." He has been blocked this whole time might I add. Changed my number..never looking back. People please go NO CONTACT! Love yourself. Heal yourself. You are Great. You are Beautiful. You are Worthy! 💟💜
He told me he can't leave me alone because I will always be apart of his life tf I won't!!! I have never loved myself this much so for that I thank him for pushing me to a point where i broke and now I am healed and closer to my higher self Stay no contact forever!!!! They will try to call ur family to "see how you doing" any link they will take it
What is mind blowing is how much all of our stories sound so similar. That is the most bizarre part of the personality disorder, more like demonic possession but that is just how I swing, spiritual!
that's an unusual way to phrase it and my very best friend on earth has sat me down and told me, flat out, that my abuser is "likely a demon". And you are so right!
I just ended my 3 year relationship and 1.5 year engagement once I had finally had enough. It felt impossible at first to remain no contact and accept I am doing the right thing. But I am proud I made it through and did not ruin my life with marriage, mixed finances and babies with that monster. Thank you so much for these videos, please never stop. Anytime I feel weak or doubtful or miss the good times, I come back here for a priceless dose of reality.
So spot on about how hard it is for them to find someone even close to us. WE can seldom find a high quality person, as high quality people. The narcissist had their best shot with us and they may never see it again. Truly.
YOU START TO LOSE INTEREST WHEN YOU FIND OUT HOW THEY REALLY ARE.. THAT'S WHY THE LIES COME ABOUT BUT THE TRUTH COMES OUT SOOO MOVING ON WITH YOUR LIFE IS THE BEST THING TO DO TO BETTER "YOU"
What makes me mad is I was on top of the world in an amazing place in my life when I met him. He begged begged begged me to get with him I mean begged because I was not interested in a relationship. I was happy doing my own thing being independent and this piece of trash pursued me for weeks to the point where I thought ok let me give him a chance and boom he had me hook line and sinker. Moral of the story don’t EVER give yourself up for anyone. If you’re happy doing your own thing just carry on
I was that Grade A supply paid every bill was going to help him start a business! But God he intervine changed my number this all happened in a 5 mos period! GOD IS THE GREATEST POWER WE SHALL NEVER BE DEFEATED!!
He thought he “discarded” me but then he was trying to triangulate me. He thought I was going to continue to “play”!! No friggen way!!! I respect myself too much!! I said NO WAY to myself, sent an email the morning after the triangulation attempt that I was done and immediately blocked him!! No contact since January 3🙏🙏🙏 THE most painful thing I’ve ever gone through including childbirth…it didn’t even compare to that!…still breaking the trauma bond and cognitive dissonance but have stayed no contact 100%!!! 🙏🙏 Trusting in my Jesus every single inch of the way! It’s the ONLY way I’ve survived 🙏🙏 almost every day is still a struggle but I feel things bettering a bit🙏🙏
In their eyes yes they will - they already did before we were discarded! Narcissists will bully and take advantage of anybody who they think won’t stand up to them, which is why it’s so important to stand up to them, not just for yourself, but for others around you.
Lol! He married and bought a house with that female narc and now she is literally beating his a$$ so we ALL know who the real Alpha is and it ain't him! Barely married a month and there's trouble in paradise with them saying they no longer want each other. Karma works fast....😂🤣
@@unapologeticallyme4428 , BUT I'M STILL "PISSED" THO!! I'M BETTER THAN I WAS BUT IF I "EVER" SEE HIM IN THE FLESH AND HE SAYS "ANYTHING" TO ME, HE'S GONNA GET THE "JUMP ON"!!😜 I WAS "DONE IN" BY HIM AFTER 20 YRS. OF MARRIAGE! I WAS WIFE #2, HE'S CURRENTLY ON WIFE #4!!😳
It's been a little over two months now since I've been free. I was grade Supply . I couldn't be any happier that he left with plenty of narcassitic injuries messing with me. I rather be free than living in a hell prison.
My ex gf narc discarded me twice. N she is literally a snake in the grass in my life. She won't fuck off! Everything she did is trifflin as fuck. Tries to get reactions. Tries to make me jealous. Constantly and I mean CONSTANTLY calls the police on me. Is always snooping for anything to use against me. And uses my child as a pawn. It's clear she wants some form of attention from me. N I just will not give it to her. I think what scares her the most of me moving on.
Mine moved to Texas with a woman he met online I live in Missouri he took everything in our divorce I hate him so much never ever will I fall for that BS again
Literally my ex We legally divorced December and he got his new supply pregnant in December / Jan Then married her in the blink of an eye . Trys to make sure I see how " happy " he is. Now that I'm healing I realized how messed up all this is and how much more I deserved . But thank god I'm single now ❤️
You're soooo pretty - he is one dumb man. He will get overwhelmed with his pregnant bride and come begging you and it looks like you won't take any crap from him ! Way to go, stay strong 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wish I knew it first hand. He blamed me for everything, saying that I wasn’t “submissive “ , he went silent for a month , came back like nothing happened. I trusted him so I took him back. He’s now gone again...Every descriptions of a narcissist in your videos are 100% accurate
Massages; dinners; heavy petting; catering nurturing. Can’t get that kinda love and attention anywhere 🤷🏻♀️ too bad, I was so messed up from a past Narc that I might’ve missed an opportunity with real Love. Couldn’t see it at the time cause I was groomed from childhood by family. Cut ties with them. But 🙌🏼 for healing and self love: self care. Love the six degrees of separation we have on here. Stay strong and stay focused on doing things for yourself by yourself. 💕 my TH-cam Fam.
A narc will bluff, go all in a poker game with a 2&7 off suit....🤦🏽♀️ Straight slime balls!!! While the Empath always hold the winning hand all Ace's. My ✂️off game is on point! Blocked, no contact, backspaced, deleted, altf5.🤣 To #trifflin for me to look back.... Thanks for keeping me on my toes Hario✌🏽💞
Honestly I truly loved them, done what ever I could to please them , make them happy, found myself, cooking, cleaning, shopping, which I enjoy, was never enough, I adored her to just cook breakfast , something when we were both off, she give me a choice , she’s not , if i didn’t like it there’s the door, I was fed up, I took the door, left and never looked back! NO CONTACT ALL THE WAY AROUND. THE BEST THING I COULD HAVE DONE, 6 months out , I am so much better, no more lies, cheating, worrying about whose in your house, just peace, Greatful the MOST HIGH GOT ME OUT. Thank you for your help
I am in the process of officially ending my 11 years of torture. It has ended with a relief from abuse order, and him behind bars. I literally begged the Most High to set me free in a way that didn't transgress HIS word. My husband cheated yet again. I am grateful for the way things went down because at the end of the day, I am now free to worship and serve my Creator without hindrance and I'm free to raise my two beautiful children ( whom I was told I would likely never have) to do the same. Although this situation is not an easy one, we will finally have true Shalom, true joy, and genuine laughter in our house.
how can you miss people the abuse you ? Ain’t no good in them at all , they are devils n there’s nothing you can do to change them . You can give them the world 🌎 n it’s still won’t be good enough for them .
Hario you’re knowledge on Narcs is DOPE!...OMG thank you, this resonates very deep. Life after Narcs is GOLDEN! Hoovers and Discards were fun and games for him when I was blind. “But now I see” he has no choice but to back TF off. Life is so peaceful and bliss, my glow is attracting a lot of beautiful people...Real Self love is powerful! Darkness and Destruction is all the Narcs know. What an ugly way of living.....FATHER FORGIVE THEM! Thank you Mr Hario, another great video. 😙
My ex had me arrested on Valentine’s Day cause I caught him cheating. He’s a ex cop so it makes it easy for him. I have been mentally and physically abused by him. I never knew what a narcissist was till him. I would of done anything for him. But now by watching your videos and others has help me so much so thank you
She left me for sombody with more money. But i was there for her every need and i took such good care for her daughter i was the only father figure her daughter ever had. After 5 months of no contract she contacted me.
Thanks guys fr yea her contacting me after 5 months i kept it very short. That was 2 weeks ago. Iv not heard anything from her since. But im on full alert. Thanks to channels like this iv learned so much about narrcasist after she left me. Bless all of you who have been throu narc abuse.
This video is spot on!!! I left my narcissist ex over a month ago now and he’s been reaching out lately. I can feel it in my spirit he’s not happy and he’s so lost smh I pray for him.
Thank u for sharing. My son passed away 2 years ago and the father sigh the agreement that he would help pay. I knew he would. Well i worked overtime to pay for things myself. He told me wasn't going to help me anyway. But he wanted my sons brand new cell phone. One of his cars an clothes. I didn't give him anything. Then told me i was selfish by not doing so. He wanted something of kai's. But he was never there for kai when he was alive. I haven't talked to him sense. Of course he's still calling me from an private no# . I keep declining the no#. So i didn't no there was an name to people like this. So thank u for keeping me strong. Continuing being very bless.
I’ve been out 8 yrs, I still get hovered constantly. We have son together, thank God he is 17. She tries everything to get to me! That woman is void to me! No matter what she tries are get my son to do! I’m free never going back,,she still is looking for me in another! However she will never find me!
3:54 "They THINK they can go from a Grade A Supply (you or me) to a high Grade C Suppy and think that THEY can just swoop on in and come back." I needed to hear this because the predictable holiday Hoover is perhaps coming up for me again. This used to be my mistake, Hario. I was not chasing after them, but very nice and happy scene a good side of them for the first time in a while. Then all defenses were down, and they came in for the kill again eventually. I need to remember to do what you've been doing for a while and just close the book instead of reading the next chapter of the horror tale
As hurt as I am right now because of this man right here I have been able to laugh as much as I have over the past 2 days. You're right about it all. Thank you for going super hard on the importance of no contact and hovering. Oh my.
In the beginning stages of leaving. 2 weeks no contact. Your content was sent to me and it’s been such a help with trying to stay strong during this difficult time. Thanks for you
After 18 years together I know he will never find another me, I allowed him to live a charmed life and I was always there to come home to, basically a door mat. The new supply lasted 8 weeks, now he’s just focusing on his alcoholism, that’s his fuel, it never lets him down.
My narc ex-husband was a doper and an alcoholic. I did the same as you, treated him like a king where he treated me like something on the bottom of his shoe. Never again will I be conned by these monsters.
Same story for me, I gave my husband 12 good years as he was my Love. He started drinking 7 nights a week and then brutally discarded me for the secretary from his work
My narc does not bother me at all! His last thing he did to me was like mortal combat so I believe he’s embarrassed or whatever but it’s been a month and we’ve even went 2 months without talking and he doesn’t check Fa me! And tbh I’m HAPPY and HEALING and he’s still sick, and tearing his new supply up I’m sure because he’s definitely moved on and I’m still single. But, daily I thank God for seeing me thru!!! I never wanna feel this type of pain ever again!!!
When Hario speaks I listen bc he’s so so accurate on his assessments. What he has explained in this video is EXACTLY what happened and still happening in my situation with the narcissist. Thank you Hario. You are awesome!
My ex discarded me 5x and I can finally see him for the demon he is. He is on his 3rd new supply after I initiated the last discard 1.5 months ago! Out there looking like a real piece of work. It is like everyone can see their grotesque nature except them and unsuspecting victims. I don't go looking but people come to me with the wildest things, and can all see it for the desperate and strange attempt to get me back that it is. I am beginning work in my community uniting Sisters in a local circle, and I feel for once after going full on no contact that I can see the demon for what he is and I can see my high path opening. They are spiders looking like people, that operate in the dark and can't come up against the light we emanating! Bless you beautiful soul for your videos, I am alive today and getting through this nightmare because of you wonderful TH-camrs! Keep shining! God Bless. ♥️
You are so on point. That no contact is very real to me. I have the peace I once forfeit....NEVER, EVER will I do that again.😳 You know better...you do better.💞🙆♀️💕
They will plot and plot on their hoovers just discard and never look back!! For me I was in the workplace and couldn’t quite fully avoid them until I got fired thankfully.If you’ve reached these narc videos it’s a good sign you’re headed in the right direction.a blessing.as I’m writing this comment I clicked away and it gave me two options, keep writing or discard.don’t keep writing with the narc!erase and discard! You rule hario thank you so much for your delivery🙌🙏
What you said about how it's hard meeting a good person it's very hard these days in dating game but you know what I've given up on that if it happens one day it happens but that's not my focus been single almost a year and I think I needed to be alone this time to know what I want and what I don't want to really heal properly
THIS IS SO ON POINT 👈 THE GRADE A SUPPLY VS SLUM VILLAGE/GRADE C SUPPLY. THEY ARE INFERIOR WHEN YOU POINT OUT THEIR INSECURITIES, WHEN YOU SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES & YOU ARE HAPPY & LIVING WELL.
WE NEED THE TEAM OF YOU Hario, &!!!! THE TRUTH BEHIND THE COLLECTIVE DISGUST FOR THE IRREVERSIBLE PAIN THAT LINGERS subsequent to being manipulated into falling in love TO ONLY BE MENTALLY PHYSICALLY & /more than disclosed by survivors / also FINANCIALLY ABUSED ,. THANK YOU & THANKS TO THE WHOLE TEAM /you leaders are out here saving OUR LIVES/ WE LOVE YOU ALL & DESPERATELY NEED YOU ALL to continue,,. THANK YOU SO! HARIO. GOD'S WORK MUST BE DONE
I didnt just give her the grade A supply, i tried to save her. I learned, big mistake. After a year of no contact, after her ghosting episode. After her departure. I have received a promotion and a raise, purchaced a new car, and made many other upgrades to my life. I doubt she has the nerve to return. If she does, she get lots of silence.
Don't give ANY credence to what he said! The jealous oaf was certainly thinking about you and he knew how attractive you are. My narc ex-husband could never belittle me because I had multiple degrees and he didn't. And he confessed that he never appreciated ANYTHING I ever did. Our Father in Heaven will ALWAYS love us and affirm us!
By watching your videos; I got to know the intentions and it's very much relatable in my case ... Right now, he doesn't call and I'm assuming that he is very much happy with the other supply ... Watching your videos everyday to get more composed and not to call him back from my side for my better future...
Now that I know the truth I never want to see or deal with that ex narc again 3 months nc I been having a ball I been blessed ppl stay trying to destroy me but GOD said not that's my daughter 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏thank you coach you were the 1st coach I found Glory Glory no he can't replace me nobody can be me I'm the original baby ❤️
Same! Good job. I destroyed the path back to me haha! Never to return. I feel like Gandolf, "You Shall Not Pass"!. Also told people to let him know he was dead to me, I think it worked because his behaviour has become so bizarre as of late people are coming to me telling me some crazy things that he is doing. Self destruct! Have fun with that Karma losers. We don't have to do anything except sit back and sip tea! Much love on your journey. ♥️
Im just sad for her and me bc we cannot go back to the golden period with the feelings being mutual. Bc she brought her beast out to get rid of me. And now after what I've learned about narcisism and that she matches every description I've found, I absolutley have to stay away and keep the door closed.
Thank you, Hario. You always make me smile. Yes, he was blowing up my phone when I went on staycation last week and wants to be friends. I'm just bulletproof now. I couldn't go back even if it were an option. Stay safe and well everyone. Keep moving forward!
They bring nothing to the table. Nothing.
NOT EVEN A CRUMB
Nobody want to be bothered with that clown
Yup they always try to come back because they know you gave them the world with no hesitation smh
@ Jaha You can never give a narcissist the world literally speaking, No matter what you do, how much you sacrifice for them, it does not matter . It does not matter how little or how much money you have, houses, cars...whatever material blessings you bestow upon them, genuine pure faithful love...it will never be Enough!!! Never, never. However you have a point they are aware of your goodness so once they miss you they want to come back; somestimes not only to use you even more but some Narc if you take them back will punish you for breaking up with or leaving them. If they left you they will still make you miserable if you embrace and accept them back into yourlives. I blocked my ex- narcissist he cannot call or text me nor can he visit me 450 miles between us Praise God for the peace of mind.
Bless you move on Jaha. To God Be All the Praise and Glory in Christ Always🙏😇.
@@sisteroflight spot on!!! I built mine of from nothing and he said I did nothing for him!
@@sisteroflight thank you so much for this information I'm learning everyday from different ppl and from my experiences and trust me I'm getting stronger each day and will be strong enough to completely disappear from his existence pray for me 😣😣😣
Lol mine said he not coming back because we will always remember what we did to one another (aka I will always hold him accountable for what he does )
@@jahawhitaker1016 Fast and pray ask God for a portion of HIS strength and power to move on, ask God to make you invisible from the ex! Never allowing your paths to cross again but; before you do be sure you have forgiven him. Once God removes him from your space/ life you will never see the ex again. So forgive him right before you walk away whether he appreciates the forgiveness or Not, it is for you more than him. Forgiveness helps you to cleanse and break that " Soul- tie , bond you had with the ex for good. God Almighty in Christ be with, bless, protect ,comfort and keep you as HE opens doors for you. To God be All the Praise, Glory in Christ Jesus Always. Amen.😇🙏.
The difference between Hario and other life coaches, he speaks from his heart
Facts !!!!!!!
Yes, he does!👌💖😇🙏
Sooooo True ,
Most of them speak from the heart, because they have lived it. Lisa A. Romano, dr Ramani, Elizabeth Shaw, Richard Grannon, Jess Stanley, Dave of Narcology Unscripted, they are all survivors.
True
THEY THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER LOL... YEA OK HAHAHA THE JOKE IS. ON THEM
A narcissist will break up with you when you call them out on what you don't like about them
They will ghost you, yea... then sneak diss you in a very childish horrible Manner with a new supply because, you realized the truth & told them how you felt... instead of communicating with YOU, they will talk reckless about you, even when you weren't even disrespectful, you were only calling out fault in your partner to them.
Thing is, yes they always seem to try to get us back, but all they do is treat us badly, take us for granted, start the same old games again. They don’t come back for anything good. You always regret giving them another chance
Cathy. You're absolutely correct. Narcissist do not deserve a second chance, they see a second chance as a weakness and neediness within you,and they feel you're beneath them.When you give Narcs a second chance they feel they were
" right" to treat you in a demeaning manner which is why you came back for more of the same, not that you love them and they need to do a self- inventory and at least make a strong
" genuine attempt" to improve and cherish you! In some if not most cases a narcissist will punish you for leaving if you go back to them. In their " sick weak" mentality's a narcissist will make every effort to convince you that you are at fault, deserve to be treated this way and they said, or did absolutely nothing wrong.!!! Take your power back Cathy and keep it! Continue to move on without Contact!!! Enjoy your abuse, narc free life !!!💜😇🙏💯
@@sisteroflight every word you say is the truth. I know, I took him back 20 times, I swear. And every time was worse.
Ditto
I am irreplaceable I know my worth he lost the best thing that ever happened to him
Hario I left my ex New Year Day this year. After 2 years of every type of abuse you can imagine. I cut his ass off. He stalked me..tried to kill me. I literally saw the Devil. Just 3 weeks ago he left a voicemail on my phone saying "I Love You." He has been blocked this whole time might I add. Changed my number..never looking back. People please go NO CONTACT! Love yourself. Heal yourself. You are Great. You are Beautiful. You are Worthy! 💟💜
they are crazy!!
They are terrifying. They will never understand how we feel about them. Its not fond
Elleese, GREAT for you!!!! I am proud of you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thanks for all the love and kind words everyone! 💜 I hope you are all healing as well. We got this! 💪🏽
He told me he can't leave me alone because I will always be apart of his life tf I won't!!! I have never loved myself this much so for that I thank him for pushing me to a point where i broke and now I am healed and closer to my higher self Stay no contact forever!!!! They will try to call ur family to "see how you doing" any link they will take it
I discared the narc. Every couple weeks I get a phone call. They are still BLOCKED. I don't understand the CRAZINESS.
I prayed so much for my relationship. God had to step out of heaven to walk me out of this madness.
Amen. I was like you 2yrs ago. Jah/Jesus real true. My answers was answered. I am a narcissist survivor. You're warriors. Be strong and courageous.
You too 👌👍👍👏👏👏👏
Yes me too smh🤦
The Father did the same for me! Our Father in Heaven is so good!
Legend, I don't even care if they find another one like me or not ...as long as I ain't in that shit... I'M SUPER GUCCI...
As long as its not me it's lights out for him no power
I feel the same way, keep me out the bullcrap! Lol!
I know that's real....
Hahahahaha 😂😂😂 you done done 🙌🏽
Hahahahaha 😂😂😂 you done done 🙌🏽
He told me I was rare. But still abused me
What is mind blowing is how much all of our stories sound so similar. That is the most bizarre part of the personality disorder, more like demonic possession but that is just how I swing, spiritual!
This is what I always say it’s demonic!!
that's an unusual way to phrase it and my very best friend on earth has sat me down and told me, flat out, that my abuser is "likely a demon". And you are so right!
Because it's the same demon
It is demonic, not like, believe me when i say this
Devil is the devil 🙌🙏🏽💯
They love gambling and taking chances.📲
I just ended my 3 year relationship and 1.5 year engagement once I had finally had enough. It felt impossible at first to remain no contact and accept I am doing the right thing. But I am proud I made it through and did not ruin my life with marriage, mixed finances and babies with that monster. Thank you so much for these videos, please never stop. Anytime I feel weak or doubtful or miss the good times, I come back here for a priceless dose of reality.
$priceless you are I had to learn this
BOOM 💥 KEEP GROWING SPIRITUALLY AS WELL!! Your soul was almost snatched psalm 27
JEE I wAS SO DUMB! THEY HAVE PEOPLE ON THE SIDE LOL. HE REALLY SCARES ME:(.
So spot on about how hard it is for them to find someone even close to us. WE can seldom find a high quality person, as high quality people. The narcissist had their best shot with us and they may never see it again. Truly.
They be trading out a dime for a penny. Period. You got the best videos.
Because the penny is bigger they think it's worth more than the dime crazy fools 😂😂😂
YOU START TO LOSE INTEREST WHEN YOU FIND OUT HOW THEY REALLY ARE.. THAT'S WHY THE LIES COME ABOUT BUT THE TRUTH COMES OUT SOOO MOVING ON WITH YOUR LIFE IS THE BEST THING TO DO TO BETTER "YOU"
ikr I dont even want him for a booty call!! and he was the best!!!
@@peacefaith560 you got to live your own life but I know finally putting your foot down made you feel even better 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
What makes me mad is I was on top of the world in an amazing place in my life when I met him. He begged begged begged me to get with him I mean begged because I was not interested in a relationship. I was happy doing my own thing being independent and this piece of trash pursued me for weeks to the point where I thought ok let me give him a chance and boom he had me hook line and sinker. Moral of the story don’t EVER give yourself up for anyone. If you’re happy doing your own thing just carry on
Amen
Amen
I can relate to this I have experienced this before. Those damn narcs!
Amen Sister!
Yep
This was my favorite! “Walmart grade supply”....they come a dime a dozen!!!!
Not even Walmart , try dollar tree !!!
L😆
Oh Yeah,
The Birds are Chirping so Lovely !
I was that Grade A supply paid every bill was going to help him start a business! But God he intervine changed my number this all happened in a 5 mos period! GOD IS THE GREATEST POWER WE SHALL NEVER BE DEFEATED!!
He thought he “discarded” me but then he was trying to triangulate me. He thought I was going to continue to “play”!! No friggen way!!! I respect myself too much!! I said NO WAY to myself, sent an email the morning after the triangulation attempt that I was done and immediately blocked him!! No contact since January 3🙏🙏🙏 THE most painful thing I’ve ever gone through including childbirth…it didn’t even compare to that!…still breaking the trauma bond and cognitive dissonance but have stayed no contact 100%!!! 🙏🙏 Trusting in my Jesus every single inch of the way! It’s the ONLY way I’ve survived 🙏🙏 almost every day is still a struggle but I feel things bettering a bit🙏🙏
I’m so happy I’m happy again 🥰👼🏾
Continue to be happy ☺️. Btw you’re BEAUTIFUL 🥰
How you ended up with a narc you are to beautiful for a mutt
I felt that comment big time!!! Life just seems so amazing after going through hell with the narcissist!!
In their eyes yes they will - they already did before we were discarded! Narcissists will bully and take advantage of anybody who they think won’t stand up to them, which is why it’s so important to stand up to them, not just for yourself, but for others around you.
Ethereal. Taking our power back is key! Never looking back is highly essential! 💜🙏😇.
He did bully me but the kids are all grown up on their own doing good so I put on my boxing gloves believe me I knock him down every chance I get
I wish he would 🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊
95% of time, empath discards narc.
Lol ..they sell it at Walmart. We have a bunch of them...sell the supplies...
Lol true. It’s tough to meet any decent person male or female.
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Our modern world is saturated in evil. It's truly scary. I keep to myself a lot and like it.
Lol! He married and bought a house with that female narc and now she is literally beating his a$$ so we ALL know who the real Alpha is and it ain't him! Barely married a month and there's trouble in paradise with them saying they no longer want each other. Karma works fast....😂🤣
😔WOW, "EXCELLENT"!! 12 YRS NO CONTACT, GRADE "A"!!
12 years!! That's beautiful
@@unapologeticallyme4428 , BUT I'M STILL "PISSED" THO!! I'M BETTER THAN I WAS BUT IF I "EVER" SEE HIM IN THE FLESH AND HE SAYS "ANYTHING" TO ME, HE'S GONNA GET THE "JUMP ON"!!😜 I WAS "DONE IN" BY HIM AFTER 20 YRS. OF MARRIAGE! I WAS WIFE #2, HE'S CURRENTLY ON WIFE #4!!😳
😣WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT THE AFFAIR AND "GAVE" HIM TO THE "NEW SUPPLY", THEY ONLY LASTED 5 MONTHS!😗
It's been a little over two months now since I've been free. I was grade Supply . I couldn't be any happier that he left with plenty of narcassitic injuries messing with me. I rather be free than living in a hell prison.
Hell Prison. Exactly.
My ex gf narc discarded me twice. N she is literally a snake in the grass in my life. She won't fuck off! Everything she did is trifflin as fuck. Tries to get reactions. Tries to make me jealous. Constantly and I mean CONSTANTLY calls the police on me. Is always snooping for anything to use against me. And uses my child as a pawn.
It's clear she wants some form of attention from me. N I just will not give it to her. I think what scares her the most of me moving on.
Mine moved to Texas with a woman he met online I live in Missouri he took everything in our divorce I hate him so much never ever will I fall for that BS again
Sis have faith, you had to go through a bad marriage to appreciate a good one. Give your life to the lord and Never ever put anything before him.
it wont lost hun.
I’m sorry
Literally my ex
We legally divorced December and he got his new supply pregnant in December / Jan
Then married her in the blink of an eye . Trys to make sure I see how " happy " he is. Now that I'm healing I realized how messed up all this is and how much more I deserved . But thank god I'm single now ❤️
You're soooo pretty - he is one dumb man. He will get overwhelmed with his pregnant bride and come begging you and it looks like you won't take any crap from him ! Way to go, stay strong 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@ChristiansPrayingTogether thank you that's really sweet I appreciate it ❤️
He got a new bride and a child to torture. That crap could never be happy.
Mine did the same and still continues to try to show.
Bless you ♥️♥️♥️
Even if life doesn't have anything better for me anything even being alone is better than being with the ahole I was with.
Wish I knew it first hand. He blamed me for everything, saying that I wasn’t “submissive “ , he went silent for a month , came back like nothing happened. I trusted him so I took him back. He’s now gone again...Every descriptions of a narcissist in your videos are 100% accurate
If you are truly good in your heart, no one can do anything to change that.
Massages; dinners; heavy petting; catering nurturing. Can’t get that kinda love and attention anywhere 🤷🏻♀️ too bad, I was so messed up from a past Narc that I might’ve missed an opportunity with real Love. Couldn’t see it at the time cause I was groomed from childhood by family. Cut ties with them. But 🙌🏼 for healing and self love: self care. Love the six degrees of separation we have on here. Stay strong and stay focused on doing things for yourself by yourself. 💕 my TH-cam Fam.
I’ve needed this comment! Exactly well said!
A narc will bluff, go all in a poker game with a 2&7 off suit....🤦🏽♀️ Straight slime balls!!! While the Empath always hold the winning hand all Ace's. My ✂️off game is on point! Blocked, no contact, backspaced, deleted, altf5.🤣
To #trifflin for me to look back.... Thanks for keeping me on my toes Hario✌🏽💞
Your incite is truly amazing!!!. You have been right on every single issue.
Honestly I truly loved them, done what ever I could to please them , make them happy, found myself, cooking, cleaning, shopping, which I enjoy, was never enough, I adored her to just cook breakfast , something when we were both off, she give me a choice , she’s not , if i didn’t like it there’s the door, I was fed up, I took the door, left and never looked back! NO CONTACT ALL THE WAY AROUND. THE BEST THING I COULD HAVE DONE, 6 months out , I am so much better, no more lies, cheating, worrying about whose in your house, just peace, Greatful the MOST HIGH GOT ME OUT. Thank you for your help
I've learned from being with one for over 25+ years to leave the trash in the trash.
I am in the process of officially ending my 11 years of torture. It has ended with a relief from abuse order, and him behind bars. I literally begged the Most High to set me free in a way that didn't transgress HIS word. My husband cheated yet again.
I am grateful for the way things went down because at the end of the day, I am now free to worship and serve my Creator without hindrance and I'm free to raise my two beautiful children ( whom I was told I would likely never have) to do the same. Although this situation is not an easy one, we will finally have true Shalom, true joy, and genuine laughter in our house.
how can you miss people the abuse you ? Ain’t no good in them at all , they are devils n there’s nothing you can do to change them . You can give them the world 🌎 n it’s still won’t be good enough for them .
I can’t thank you enough for all of your videos❤
Lol 😂… Happy searching, narcs for a Noble man or a woman !! I laugh when my ex narc,told me that he hasn’t found another girl like me .
And he never will
Funny as Shit.
Hario you’re knowledge on Narcs is DOPE!...OMG thank you, this resonates very deep.
Life after Narcs is GOLDEN! Hoovers and Discards were fun and games for him when I was blind. “But now I see” he has no choice but to back TF off.
Life is so peaceful and bliss, my glow is attracting a lot of beautiful people...Real Self love is powerful!
Darkness and Destruction is all the Narcs know. What an ugly way of living.....FATHER FORGIVE THEM!
Thank you Mr Hario, another great video. 😙
My ex had me arrested on Valentine’s Day cause I caught him cheating. He’s a ex cop so it makes it easy for him. I have been mentally and physically abused by him. I never knew what a narcissist was till him. I would of done anything for him. But now by watching your videos and others has help me so much so thank you
Stay strong one door closed and big door is going to open for you
🙌🙏🏽🙌🙏🏽dam cops 👮♀️ yeah all jobs ❤
She left me for sombody with more money. But i was there for her every need and i took such good care for her daughter i was the only father figure her daughter ever had. After 5 months of no contract she contacted me.
@Andrew Eccles EXACTLY THATS THE WORK OF THE DEVIL.
Stay away from her I've been in situation like this it's not good to go back to her.
@@truefriend1128 NOPE IT WON'T END WELL.
U BETTER KEEP GOING AND NEVER LOOK BACK OR U WILL BE SORRY. BE CAREFUL THEIR POSSESSED.
Thanks guys fr yea her contacting me after 5 months i kept it very short. That was 2 weeks ago. Iv not heard anything from her since. But im on full alert. Thanks to channels like this iv learned so much about narrcasist after she left me. Bless all of you who have been throu narc abuse.
This video is spot on!!! I left my narcissist ex over a month ago now and he’s been reaching out lately. I can feel it in my spirit he’s not happy and he’s so lost smh I pray for him.
Don't go back tho...Don't allow your empathy to suck you into feeling sorry for someone who mistreated you,he'll just do it again..trust me.
Don't even let him back into your life you will be sorry let karma get him
He’s not lost, he knows exactly what he’s doing, but you’re right about not being happy, they don’t know what happy is, they are miserable
True. An entanglement with a monster.
Ding Ding Ding Hario speaking the truth
She has not destroyed me. I am too powerful for that.
What gets me is she refuses to see the error in her ways. Great video man
Dealing with the same thing it make u want to pull ur fucking hair out but I guess that’s y that say just go nc
@@dl6043 yep. It's hard at times but it's ah must if you want true peace of mind.
Honestly I’m just starting to understand that I have a female narc
@@christopherpage9261 yeah the saddest part is the gaslighting and betrayal
the enemy cant see their errors, they become blind and dont care
Thank you explain very well
Thank u for sharing. My son passed away 2 years ago and the father sigh the agreement that he would help pay. I knew he would. Well i worked overtime to pay for things myself. He told me wasn't going to help me anyway. But he wanted my sons brand new cell phone. One of his cars an clothes. I didn't give him anything. Then told me i was selfish by not doing so. He wanted something of kai's. But he was never there for kai when he was alive. I haven't talked to him sense. Of course he's still calling me from an private no# . I keep declining the no#. So i didn't no there was an name to people like this. So thank u for keeping me strong. Continuing being very bless.
I’ve been out 8 yrs, I still get hovered constantly. We have son together, thank God he is 17. She tries everything to get to me! That woman is void to me! No matter what she tries are get my son to do! I’m free never going back,,she still is looking for me in another! However she will never find me!
3:54 "They THINK they can go from a Grade A Supply (you or me) to a high Grade C Suppy and think that THEY can just swoop on in and come back." I needed to hear this because the predictable holiday Hoover is perhaps coming up for me again. This used to be my mistake, Hario. I was not chasing after them, but very nice and happy scene a good side of them for the first time in a while. Then all defenses were down, and they came in for the kill again eventually. I need to remember to do what you've been doing for a while and just close the book instead of reading the next chapter of the horror tale
As hurt as I am right now because of this man right here I have been able to laugh as much as I have over the past 2 days. You're right about it all. Thank you for going super hard on the importance of no contact and hovering. Oh my.
In the beginning stages of leaving. 2 weeks no contact. Your content was sent to me and it’s been such a help with trying to stay strong during this difficult time. Thanks for you
I love the sounds of the birds too. Thank you for the awesome content. This is really helping with the healing.
Right!Them being to busy...and doing the Most! #Ridiculous #meanwhile “Patience is a Virtue” #peace ❤️⭐️🙏🏽🙏🏼
I ddn't take him back so he started dating one of my friends to punish me, while telling me if i take him back he will dump her, I told him keep her.
How dirty!! The "friend " too!!
He’s literally parking in front of my door🤦🏽♀️🙄still no attention paid to him💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Same here! It just disgusts me.
@@monicagrant9413 they are disgusting an nasty beings.
I found out the Narc was having sex with his cousin!!!🤢. I can't look at em
@@FredaFaithkennedy2523 🤢🤢🤮🤮
@@FredaFaithkennedy2523 😩these people are just Disgusting 🤢 🤢🤢🤢
@@monicagrant9413 🤮🤮🤮🤮😤😤😤
Harbor you are a life saver and you telling it like it is.❤❤❤
After 18 years together I know he will never find another me, I allowed him to live a charmed life and I was always there to come home to, basically a door mat. The new supply lasted 8 weeks, now he’s just focusing on his alcoholism, that’s his fuel, it never lets him down.
Mine alcoholic too. 14 years later I feel like an idiot but i woke up. Now i see. For this I’m grateful. Now i understand
Same
My narc ex-husband was a doper and an alcoholic. I did the same as you, treated him like a king where he treated me like something on the bottom of his shoe. Never again will I be conned by these monsters.
The Alcoholism 🍾🍷🥃🥂🍺🍺🍹🍸
Same story for me, I gave my husband 12 good years as he was my Love. He started drinking 7 nights a week and then brutally discarded me for the secretary from his work
My narc does not bother me at all! His last thing he did to me was like mortal combat so I believe he’s embarrassed or whatever but it’s been a month and we’ve even went 2 months without talking and he doesn’t check Fa me! And tbh I’m HAPPY and HEALING and he’s still sick, and tearing his new supply up I’m sure because he’s definitely moved on and I’m still single. But, daily I thank God for seeing me thru!!! I never wanna feel this type of pain ever again!!!
When Hario speaks I listen bc he’s so so accurate on his assessments. What he has explained in this video is EXACTLY what happened and still happening in my situation with the narcissist.
Thank you Hario. You are awesome!
My ex discarded me 5x and I can finally see him for the demon he is. He is on his 3rd new supply after I initiated the last discard 1.5 months ago! Out there looking like a real piece of work. It is like everyone can see their grotesque nature except them and unsuspecting victims. I don't go looking but people come to me with the wildest things, and can all see it for the desperate and strange attempt to get me back that it is. I am beginning work in my community uniting Sisters in a local circle, and I feel for once after going full on no contact that I can see the demon for what he is and I can see my high path opening. They are spiders looking like people, that operate in the dark and can't come up against the light we emanating! Bless you beautiful soul for your videos, I am alive today and getting through this nightmare because of you wonderful TH-camrs! Keep shining! God Bless. ♥️
I thank God for this man everytime I watch him. You've helped me so much 🙏
Amen to that?? life has much better for us.
What is sad 😞 s they dropping kids and ruining the children 😮😮😮😮😮
You are so on point. That no contact is very real to me. I have the peace I once forfeit....NEVER, EVER will I do that again.😳 You know better...you do better.💞🙆♀️💕
Hario, I love your delivery!! It’s exactly what I need to hear and feel as I go through this!!
Like: being to busy, doing to much, like the Narc does.Yes,indeed. Does not have time for their marriage.Consistent Neglect.
They will plot and plot on their hoovers just discard and never look back!! For me I was in the workplace and couldn’t quite fully avoid them until I got fired thankfully.If you’ve reached these narc videos it’s a good sign you’re headed in the right direction.a blessing.as I’m writing this comment I clicked away and it gave me two options, keep writing or discard.don’t keep writing with the narc!erase and discard! You rule hario thank you so much for your delivery🙌🙏
What you said about how it's hard meeting a good person it's very hard these days in dating game but you know what I've given up on that if it happens one day it happens but that's not my focus been single almost a year and I think I needed to be alone this time to know what I want and what I don't want to really heal properly
THIS IS SO ON POINT 👈 THE GRADE A SUPPLY VS SLUM VILLAGE/GRADE C SUPPLY. THEY ARE INFERIOR WHEN YOU POINT OUT THEIR INSECURITIES, WHEN YOU SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES & YOU ARE HAPPY & LIVING WELL.
Had the narc stalking me and last week I found him sleeping in my car . Had to quickly get the authority involved
Your vids really help getting over the narc
The birds sound so good!! Living in the city you don't hear the birds to much
WE NEED THE TEAM OF YOU Hario, &!!!! THE TRUTH BEHIND THE COLLECTIVE DISGUST FOR THE IRREVERSIBLE PAIN THAT LINGERS subsequent to being manipulated into falling in love TO ONLY BE MENTALLY PHYSICALLY & /more than disclosed by survivors / also FINANCIALLY ABUSED ,. THANK YOU & THANKS TO THE WHOLE TEAM /you leaders are out here saving OUR LIVES/ WE LOVE YOU ALL & DESPERATELY NEED YOU ALL to continue,,. THANK YOU SO! HARIO. GOD'S WORK MUST BE DONE
Hi You on point I resonate with everything you say
Gave him 4 chances no change.they never learn they never change .
Trail of destruction. Fact
Nothing but destruction, death and lies.
@@joanngross786🎯
I didnt just give her the grade A supply, i tried to save her. I learned, big mistake. After a year of no contact, after her ghosting episode. After her departure. I have received a promotion and a raise, purchaced a new car, and made many other upgrades to my life. I doubt she has the nerve to return. If she does, she get lots of silence.
Congrats 🎉
Omg he always said to me … “no one is thinking about you “ I always felt so belittled and unappreciated
Don't give ANY credence to what he said! The jealous oaf was certainly thinking about you and he knew how attractive you are. My narc ex-husband could never belittle me because I had multiple degrees and he didn't. And he confessed that he never appreciated ANYTHING I ever did. Our Father in Heaven will ALWAYS love us and affirm us!
Every video I see old and new you continue to be a blessing .
The supplies need to get with one another 😅
By watching your videos; I got to know the intentions and it's very much relatable in my case ... Right now, he doesn't call and I'm assuming that he is very much happy with the other supply ... Watching your videos everyday to get more composed and not to call him back from my side for my better future...
You'll search for me in every face, Tracy- and I'll never be there.
Now that I know the truth I never want to see or deal with that ex narc again 3 months nc I been having a ball I been blessed ppl stay trying to destroy me but GOD said not that's my daughter 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏thank you coach you were the 1st coach I found Glory Glory no he can't replace me nobody can be me I'm the original baby ❤️
They may find another you. But, they wouldn't dare do all you did for them. Or ever consider keeping them. But, they will use them ,then lose them!
I made all his efforts to return NULL and VOID. I completely ANNIHILATED him, he's DEAD to me. D E A D
Oh my, I said the very same thing. I said almost to his face :" as far as I 'm concerned, he is dead to me, dead".
Same! Good job. I destroyed the path back to me haha! Never to return. I feel like Gandolf, "You Shall Not Pass"!. Also told people to let him know he was dead to me, I think it worked because his behaviour has become so bizarre as of late people are coming to me telling me some crazy things that he is doing. Self destruct! Have fun with that Karma losers. We don't have to do anything except sit back and sip tea! Much love on your journey. ♥️
@@thespiritualgenie you killed that demonic spirit in that dark soul 👏👏👏
It has to find a new home lol ❤️ to humiliate 👎👎
Exactly what the hell have I done. No contact y'all. Heal!!!!
He just ask me for money after he told me he was going to be with someone else...
@Bufftygirl 72 I didn't even respond..I just said WOW! R u serious..
He's a slime ball don't respond.
@@FredaFaithkennedy2523 I'm not because, he's not my man
Same here!
Mine asked me for money too the day before his paycheck went in his bank. Lmao. I didn’t even have a job him not paying child support. 🤦♀️ POS !!
Im just sad for her and me bc we cannot go back to the golden period with the feelings being mutual. Bc she brought her beast out to get rid of me. And now after what I've learned about narcisism and that she matches every description I've found, I absolutley have to stay away and keep the door closed.
I may be imitated but never duplicated!!!!!!
Thank you, Hario. You always make me smile. Yes, he was blowing up my phone when I went on staycation last week and wants to be friends. I'm just bulletproof now. I couldn't go back even if it were an option. Stay safe and well everyone. Keep moving forward!
I hope he never finds another me, but if a person breaks up with you they don't wanna another you.
They can not destroy a super empath