HIS NEW SUPPLY WAS A NARC TOO.. SHE USE HIM UP AND GAVE HIM THE BOOT, HE'S IN SOOO MUCH PAIN I ALMOST FELT SORRY.. LOL!!! SHE LIVES RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER.. HE HAD THE NERVE TO RING MY BUZZER AT 2:45 AM AND I JUST LET HIM.
This is what I’m going through right now in my divorce. My ex is financially abusing me at the highest level and not contributing at all towards our son’s daycare fees or livelihood, even though he’s a millionaire. Mind you, I’m the only reason he’s a a millionaire. As soon as he got his first paycheck he was ready to throw me out.
Iv dealt with alot of abuse, torture and mistreatment throughout my life. I never turned into a devil. I continued to want to help others. Narcissism is absolutely choice to be that demon/devil. It's a spiritual disorder...not a fake psychological problem. I asked my narc what will it take to help you. She straight up said " a exorcism".
So true! My husband of 12 years started devaluing me about 2 months prior to discarding me. His new supply is the secretary at his work, shes just as vile. My marriage was ALL a Lie. So disturbing
He’s not happy. That fruit from the ground will never be the woman I was for him. I just want to drive by his mama’s house and watch him break and chase my car with his new hip replacement. Forgive me Lord! I am a nice person, I’ve been around the queen too long.😂
Please stop being a nice person be righteous instead. Thinking of urself as nice keeps u feeling sorry for him and thats how u stay their victim and they can end u thats the truth
@@bravesoul7777 with no disrespect to you, no one tells me how to be nice or otherwise. I’ve been around the sun many times and know how to conduct myself according to what is required in many situations. No one has a hold on me and never has. I have been successful in my life, and have raised my children to be good people. I am on these channels as a beacon of Hope. I really don’t need advice as to when or how to conduct myself. Have a good day.
Hario. This sounds like my "life" with my ex-narc in a nut-shell, Learned early on not to do the joint banking thing. But I did have to constantly have to safe and bail, that nut out several times until I learned, this nut is like a duck. Get them out the water, and they going right back ASAP. They will keep you stressed tf out everyday , all day. I mean EVERYDAY!! We have to learn to save ourselves, and let these duck float on down stream.
I have realized that I have been raised, as well as surrounded by narcissists my entire life. I have also picked up a great deal of narcissistic behaviors. I won’t go!!!!!! God is in control, if HE is before me…. WHO CAN BE AGAINST ME?!!! FIGHT!!!!!! In the name of JESUS!!!!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
All I know and believe is what Hario is saying about KARMA.. IT'S TRUE.. but let us LIVE our lives, b happy, and keep movein forward...The narcs life is DOOMED and they have NOTHING 2 OFFER ANYONE!!!
I HAVE BECOME A PERSON THAT CAN ONLY LOVE LIKE I'M BEING LOVED, IM LIKE A FAUCET AND CAN TURN OFF AND ON.. THAT IS THE WAY IT HAS TO BE TO KEEP YOUR PEACE OF MIND.
Dear Harip you rigth ,the Narc just hovered ask to see our kids in my house? ,after 2 years disappeared, no, messages at all,that he even asked if our kids need food or clothes? I guess the grass isn't greener after all,I said is has to be an a public place ,and you have to send a driver,you know he s not willing to do that way becausehe don't really care about the kids , ,trust me ,I have enough !smh!
I'm greatful 2 God for him allowing me 2 leave the narc and 2 come across ur chats Hario. I'm continuing 2 heal...Also I'm greatful 2 God cuz I have no idea what the ex narc is doing or who he is with cuz he has never been on social media and so I'M LIVING MY BEST LIFE!!! U/WE WIN and things do get BETTER...KEEP THE FAITH!!!
Hario, you are invisible, because apparently, you were in my home during this entanglement, AND I NEVER SAW YOU, lol...This is so amazingly accurate, it's scary. God Bless!!!
Unbelievable how twisted they are, processing this is so painful 🥵I hope I beet him before he found a new supply, he prepared himself , I know his life isn’t better, but the damage I need to heal my💔💔He attacked everything, I will arise, I will be a narc slayer, no I held back some, I suspected from the beginning held back more and more. One more ridiculous lie drama, chaos. No no no You sound like the Angel from Heaven who saw it all🙏💔knowing you understand and believe me is healing to me🙏😭❤️thank you
Man, yep the truth. Every car I've had, he is messed something on it. Knocked off Mirrors, dented doors, wrecked a jeep 2 days after it was driven off the lot. I would of been so much further ahead in life. 3 children are the only good things out of the Marriage.
Thank you So Much. He use to just Break out Crying and We be out on A Date Several Different Times I use to think what is Wrong because I did Everything Beautiful and I Always looked So Pretty. He would Say it's not You and I finally realized he already Was in a Relationship and he knew I didn't deserve his filthy ness
❤It took me over 2 years but I feel nothing for them and now I laugh 😂 at there mirroring into my home and say hi and God is watching you 😢😢and the stalkers that follows me everywhere 😅😅😅to them. God bless you really great topics.
Hey Hario! I really don't think I could walk around happy and get away with destroying many people's lives. I would have to get some serious help in therapy, intervention, deliverance, get saved, and so much more. Have a relationship with our heavenly father and Know Jesus Christ and be consistent with it. Thank you Hario for this message. ❤️💙🙏🏾🙌🏽
Remember, you're talking about what YOU would do. The narc will NOT get therapy, not get delivered, not get saved...NOT DO MORE to be their best. It's easier to manipulate/lie/cheat because there IS someone that will play the fool for them....to a certain degree.
Thank you for your videos! My ex narc opened up about their past really quickly, telling me they were abused as a child and I as an empath of course started to feel bad for them and I though wow this person is so open and vulnerable! Now I understand it was his tactic. He also told me he loves me like within the first week we saw each other irl. That should've been a red flag right there for me
It was like you were speaking right to me when you talked most of us have to either find somewhere else to live or you're living where there are nothing but bad memories. I was so depressed and sad in that house before I left. It was like being under a dark cloud constantly. I swear I should write a book about this. I'm so traumatized.
I let him have the big house. Everytime I had to go back in it while moving out my stuff, I was messed up for 2 or 3 days. I Knew I didn't want that house. Got my own house. SO Much better! This video was spot on.
My marriage was very abusive in so many ways. I truly loved my husband at the time until I found out I was married to a Narc. I'm finally free I learned that he could never love me like I deserved to be loved. I'm healing and I educated myself during the marriage what I was dealing with. It was beautiful in the beginning until we got married he completely changed. He was lying, cheating, talking about me to my family and friends. He even tried to cut my throat and put sugar in my gas tank when I managed to pay off my car that man is the devil in my eyes. I was married to the devil...
One of the most spot on and realist videos out there .. play by play down to the Tee . So happy I’m living my life and more blessed than ever. I made it and I can say it feels good to beat that devil
Off the subject perhaps, but I'll tell you this Hario....I ran across my ex and her new boyfriend / supply, and I actually felt bad for that guy. He struck me as innocent and unknowing and was none confrontational. Perhaps he was well into the devaluation stage....I just felt like shaking his hand and saying...."I'm sorry you're going through this with her too! Now THAT'S a real empath - me!
He messed my head so much he messed up my business my financial it took 4 months after discharge to recover this is so sad been discharge 5 months now really hard road but know i will make ir
If a narc don’t love you he’ll treat u substandard cuz u are only supply the ones he has feeling for they r treated like sweethearts therefore the narc only treats those he like special and wouldn’t have the same experience This is from personal observation
She was roommate for 2 years so it's not so bad, feels bad only that I let my guard after one year and that's because I was tired from work so I opened to her a little bit, but it's all fine 😄 I entered the space highly energized and protected so she had injury for a long time at start, didn't give any attention to the toxicity but it caught up to me a little bit later
I don't think she is doing that well but she has gain some weight and keep popping up at my work place for me to see her still can see the hate in her face!!!!!
My opinion we aren't God so even if they are looking great in their lives don't mean they are doing bad they could be living good and that's ok we need to learn acceptance and move on and stop looking for bad inside people that we separated from because not everyone who wronged us will be bad in the next relationship people can change people can live happy after us
You're all about narcissists in couples. There's other ways narcissism applies. No one would fall for it in couples if they weren't raised with it in families first and didn't realize those familiar things were exactly those wrong things to avoid. Parents did it to us first. You want more subscribers? Visit home. That's where it starts. Only families make bullies and Black Sheep. Bullies can spot us from there. To us they just look normal.
I was improving his life while he was destroying mine
WHEN YOU GIVE MORE THAN YOU GET YOU'RE IN DANGER.. BELIEVE IT.. AND WHEN THE BAD OUT WEIGHS THE GOOD.. TIME TO GO.
The bad far outweighs the good
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OKAY!
HIS NEW SUPPLY WAS A NARC TOO.. SHE USE HIM UP AND GAVE HIM THE BOOT, HE'S IN SOOO MUCH PAIN I ALMOST FELT SORRY.. LOL!!!
SHE LIVES RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER.. HE HAD THE NERVE TO RING MY BUZZER AT 2:45 AM AND I JUST LET HIM.
This is what I’m going through right now in my divorce. My ex is financially abusing me at the highest level and not contributing at all towards our son’s daycare fees or livelihood, even though he’s a millionaire. Mind you, I’m the only reason he’s a a millionaire. As soon as he got his first paycheck he was ready to throw me out.
Iv dealt with alot of abuse, torture and mistreatment throughout my life. I never turned into a devil. I continued to want to help others. Narcissism is absolutely choice to be that demon/devil. It's a spiritual disorder...not a fake psychological problem. I asked my narc what will it take to help you. She straight up said " a exorcism".
They must all know they have handed themselves over to their father the devil.
@@karriesaunders8597 absolutely correct 👏
So true .... ! EVIL personified.
Definitely! I felt like I was dealing with the devil. I was even looking for a crucifix one time 😆
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I love that photo. It depicts a narcissist well. the golden trash bag 🤣🤣Jackpot!
Its a great picture,makes me chuckle.
Yes 🤣💯
I was forced to leave....he just smirked at me and said, "It is your decision."
Gbu me too I was pushed over the cliff
So true! My husband of 12 years started devaluing me about 2 months prior to discarding me. His new supply is the secretary at his work, shes just as vile. My marriage was ALL a Lie. So disturbing
He’s not happy. That fruit from the ground will never be the woman I was for him. I just want to drive by his mama’s house and watch him break and chase my car with his new hip replacement. Forgive me Lord! I am a nice person, I’ve been around the queen too long.😂
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Is he on a 🚶♀️ 🚶♂️ walker...
@@TASHAS_CROWN no, he isn’t.
Please stop being a nice person be righteous instead. Thinking of urself as nice keeps u feeling sorry for him and thats how u stay their victim and they can end u thats the truth
@@bravesoul7777 with no disrespect to you, no one tells me how to be nice or otherwise. I’ve been around the sun many times and know how to conduct myself according to what is required in many situations. No one has a hold on me and never has. I have been successful in my life, and have raised my children to be good people. I am on these channels as a beacon of Hope. I really don’t need advice as to when or how to conduct myself. Have a good day.
I figured it out I look better I feel better I am incredible
Hario. This sounds like my "life" with my ex-narc in a nut-shell, Learned early on not to do the joint banking thing. But I did have to constantly have to safe and bail, that nut out several times until I learned, this nut is like a duck. Get them out the water, and they going right back ASAP. They will keep you stressed tf out everyday , all day. I mean EVERYDAY!! We have to learn to save ourselves, and let these duck float on down stream.
I have realized that I have been raised, as well as surrounded by narcissists my entire life. I have also picked up a great deal of narcissistic behaviors. I won’t go!!!!!! God is in control, if HE is before me…. WHO CAN BE AGAINST ME?!!! FIGHT!!!!!! In the name of JESUS!!!!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
All I know and believe is what Hario is saying about KARMA..
IT'S TRUE..
but let us LIVE our lives, b happy, and keep movein forward...The narcs life is DOOMED and they have NOTHING 2 OFFER ANYONE!!!
Real talk coach . It's sad 😢to say these people are all alike!! WOW 😳 a demonic spirit.
I have always believed a demon to be behind their acts. How else would they know things about you that you haven’t told them or anyone else?
I HAVE BECOME A PERSON THAT CAN ONLY LOVE LIKE I'M BEING LOVED, IM LIKE A FAUCET AND CAN TURN OFF AND ON.. THAT IS THE WAY IT HAS TO BE TO KEEP YOUR PEACE OF MIND.
This may be the most st8 forward, no holding back description of exactly what a narc does. Thank you 💪🏾🙏🏾
Let the Narc GO and stay GONE. 🧐
Dear Harip you rigth ,the Narc just hovered ask to see our kids in my house? ,after 2 years disappeared, no, messages at all,that he even asked if our kids need food or clothes? I guess the grass isn't greener after all,I said is has to be an a public place ,and you have to send a driver,you know he s not willing to do that way becausehe don't really care about the kids , ,trust me ,I have enough !smh!
I'm greatful 2 God for him allowing me 2 leave the narc and 2 come across ur chats Hario. I'm continuing 2 heal...Also I'm greatful 2 God cuz I have no idea what the ex narc is doing or who he is with cuz he has never been on social media and so I'M LIVING MY BEST LIFE!!! U/WE WIN and things do get BETTER...KEEP THE FAITH!!!
IM JESUS NAME!!THANK YOU
This whole video is exactly what I experienced
Hario, you are invisible, because apparently, you were in my home during this entanglement, AND I NEVER SAW YOU, lol...This is so amazingly accurate, it's scary. God Bless!!!
Unbelievable how twisted they are, processing this is so painful 🥵I hope I beet him before he found a new supply, he prepared himself , I know his life isn’t better, but the damage I need to heal my💔💔He attacked everything, I will arise, I will be a narc slayer, no I held back some, I suspected from the beginning held back more and more.
One more ridiculous lie drama, chaos. No no no
You sound like the Angel from Heaven who saw it all🙏💔knowing you understand and believe me is healing to me🙏😭❤️thank you
Love the picture of the golden trash! 😂😂
Man, yep the truth. Every car I've had, he is messed something on it. Knocked off Mirrors, dented doors, wrecked a jeep 2 days after it was driven off the lot. I would of been so much further ahead in life. 3 children are the only good things out of the Marriage.
Hey Hario...Knowing that trash bag is amongst the others it most likely is gold-plated as their imagination supercedes who they truly are....
Thank you So Much. He use to just Break out Crying and We be out on A Date Several Different Times I use to think what is Wrong because I did Everything Beautiful and I Always looked So Pretty. He would Say it's not You and I finally realized he already Was in a Relationship and he knew I didn't deserve his filthy ness
❤It took me over 2 years but I feel nothing for them and now I laugh 😂 at there mirroring into my home and say hi and God is watching you 😢😢and the stalkers that follows me everywhere 😅😅😅to them. God bless you really great topics.
SO TRUE THOUGH THIS TIME INSTEAD ME RUNNING I GAVE UP AND RAN MY HUSBAND THE FUCK OUT MY LIFE SHOWED HIM BY SILENCE IM THRU
I love the trash is still trash analogy lol.
Hey Hario! I really don't think I could walk around happy and get away with destroying many people's lives. I would have to get some serious help in therapy, intervention, deliverance, get saved, and so much more. Have a relationship with our heavenly father and Know Jesus Christ and be consistent with it. Thank you Hario for this message. ❤️💙🙏🏾🙌🏽
Remember, you're talking about what YOU would do. The narc will NOT get therapy, not get delivered, not get saved...NOT DO MORE to be their best. It's easier to manipulate/lie/cheat because there IS someone that will play the fool for them....to a certain degree.
This is 100% accurate. This broadcast is so helpful it’s as if you were in my house.
Dang Hario! I feel like I can't even talk 😭, wow 😳🤯! These MFS are super crazy 😧🤣
Thank you for your videos! My ex narc opened up about their past really quickly, telling me they were abused as a child and I as an empath of course started to feel bad for them and I though wow this person is so open and vulnerable! Now I understand it was his tactic. He also told me he loves me like within the first week we saw each other irl. That should've been a red flag right there for me
Love the way you explained in "a life as the narcissist " I can understand so much more. Thank you so much hario ❤🙏❤
This is so spot-on for me. I needed to hear this TODAY. Thank you, Hario!
That’s the best thumb nail / picture I have ever seen. Thank you for everything!
It was like you were speaking right to me when you talked most of us have to either find somewhere else to live or you're living where there are nothing but bad memories. I was so depressed and sad in that house before I left. It was like being under a dark cloud constantly. I swear I should write a book about this. I'm so traumatized.
I let him have the big house. Everytime I had to go back in it while moving out my stuff, I was messed up for 2 or 3 days. I Knew I didn't want that house.
Got my own house.
SO Much better! This video was spot on.
@@knowtruth2773 I hear you, I totally felt that❤️
My marriage was very abusive in so many ways. I truly loved my husband at the time until I found out I was married to a Narc. I'm finally free I learned that he could never love me like I deserved to be loved. I'm healing and I educated myself during the marriage what I was dealing with. It was beautiful in the beginning until we got married he completely changed. He was lying, cheating, talking about me to my family and friends. He even tried to cut my throat and put sugar in my gas tank when I managed to pay off my car that man is the devil in my eyes. I was married to the devil...
You always keep it real in the field HARIO !!!!!!!
So true said I was going crazy he made me crazy
One of the most spot on and realist videos out there .. play by play down to the Tee . So happy I’m living my life and more blessed than ever. I made it and I can say it feels good to beat that devil
Excellent, excellent, excellent perspective and advice in this video. I appreciate your work!
You are the best speaker on this particular subject...this was incrediblely well put together bro 🔥
I’m given this video a thumbs up just for the title . I already know it’s going to be on point do your thing Hario .
God Bless all the Survivors 🐺💪🏻 To all still fighting to break free KEEP PRAYING🐺❤️
It was a learning experience
New subscriber here. Well done explaining what narcs do.
You Completely Right
Because he has MORE Money MORE Supply.😮
Thank you, for what you do!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
This one is Solid Truth all the way.
Your doing Gods work Brother. Peace
Thanks!
You are my angel and we love you for everything you do keep up the good work keep your head up and may God open doors for you in every way 😇👍🎉👋👏
Great stuff right here!!
Went out and came back in, I have audio now....thank God! 🎉
You’re breaking it down Hario❤️❤️
The cover photo made me laugh so hard 😂😂😂😂
Great class hario 100% great ( facts) in all your classes 💎✋🚀🚀🚀
Wow! You told it exactly how it happened and panned out for me. They do follow the same play book. You are telling my story!
Off the subject perhaps, but I'll tell you this Hario....I ran across my ex and her new boyfriend / supply, and I actually felt bad for that guy. He struck me as innocent and unknowing and was none confrontational. Perhaps he was well into the devaluation stage....I just felt like shaking his hand and saying...."I'm sorry you're going through this with her too! Now THAT'S a real empath - me!
Thank you…you’ve given me a bit of strength with your words…
He messed my head so much he messed up my business my financial it took 4 months after discharge to recover this is so sad been discharge 5 months now really hard road but know i will make ir
Good video! A little perspective from the Narcs side. 👍
Hey Hario!❤️❤️❤️
What's up Dr. Hario for helping me much Love and Respect...I can't hear what you saying I know you dropping some jewels.. Peace
Real talk I relate to this video u answered questions I was wondering thank you so much Hario ❤
The Jezebel spirit is what they are for sure .
Thank you 😊😊
Thanks for this video. It helps a lot
If a narc don’t love you he’ll treat u substandard cuz u are only supply the ones he has feeling for they r treated like sweethearts therefore the narc only treats those he like special and wouldn’t have the same experience
This is from personal observation
And this is what hurts I wanted to be treated special 😢
begged me to stay,. every time I left her, I was grade a supply. She still have the new supply all along?
You 🎯 this one ☝️
She was roommate for 2 years so it's not so bad, feels bad only that I let my guard after one year and that's because I was tired from work so I opened to her a little bit, but it's all fine 😄 I entered the space highly energized and protected so she had injury for a long time at start, didn't give any attention to the toxicity but it caught up to me a little bit later
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He took all life and change it to his life and give us his life
I see you know my narc husband lol
@Elisa, are you getting sound?
I do have sound.
@@ElisaForHealing Two other people commented no sound. Strange....
83,000 in debt because of him
But just observe and wait till my God bless me through this storm 🙏 I don't give up
I don't think she is doing that well but she has gain some weight and keep popping up at my work place for me to see her still can see the hate in her face!!!!!
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My opinion we aren't God so even if they are looking great in their lives don't mean they are doing bad they could be living good and that's ok we need to learn acceptance and move on and stop looking for bad inside people that we separated from because not everyone who wronged us will be bad in the next relationship people can change people can live happy after us
I can't hear you
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You're all about narcissists in couples. There's other ways narcissism applies. No one would fall for it in couples if they weren't raised with it in families first and didn't realize those familiar things were exactly those wrong things to avoid. Parents did it to us first. You want more subscribers? Visit home. That's where it starts. Only families make bullies and Black Sheep. Bullies can spot us from there. To us they just look normal.
Thank you❤