How To Deal With The Loss Of A Pet

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  • @vlasic8553
    @vlasic8553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1998

    I'm so sorry for everyone here dealing with a loss right now. I really am.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Vlasic, thank you for your compassion.

    • @emmarugers4847
      @emmarugers4847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I just lost my cat today and this comment made me cry, but thank you

    • @cubbie4_life
      @cubbie4_life 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      thank you

    • @strikerorwell9232
      @strikerorwell9232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you for putting up these videos. Im a veteran who had such a beautiful best friend who was a Briard/White German Shepherd dog called Curt. I have suffered from depression and anxiety for 15 years. My old army mate who I have known since childhood died 2 weeks before I lost my dog Curt as well so I was in the middle of handling his death when suddenly Curt got sick. I need medication to be able to eat and sleep. As for now, it feels like the pain will never go away!

    • @WooperG
      @WooperG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just got the news that my cat is going to be put down tommorow.
      This comment makes me very sad, but she is 17 but it has to happen sadly.

  • @steamsupport5978
    @steamsupport5978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +602

    Your pet might not be able to be with you for all of your life.
    But atleast you were there for theirs.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Wonkity, love the perspective.

    • @ogblick5310
      @ogblick5310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks

    • @VitaminDealer
      @VitaminDealer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's nice

    • @ancadi4ever
      @ancadi4ever 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      What broke me the most is that I didn't get to be there with my furbaby when my husband and I decided to end his suffering...Kitty was on antibiotics for some sort of aspiration in the lungs but still eating and playing as normal..breathing got gradually worse I woke up my husband at 3 am to take him to the emergency vet hospital after he had a bad episode of breathlessness..When got to hospital he was admitted and diagnosed with spontaneous pneumothorax 😭 they draw air out of his chest for 3 days hoping the luns would recover but that didn't happen..he spent his last days alone in a oxygen chamber and on the last night my husband went there because no one would clarify us on what was happening with our boy,he got to see him and he was so poorly he videocalled me to ask me what to do..we both decided it wasn't fair on kitty to suffer any longer😭😭😭this happened more than a month ago and i still cry at least once a day.Because I am a new mom everyone keeps on saying I got the baby to occupy my time with..but the baby has nothing to do with the guilt and grief I feel all the time...
      I got to say my goodbyes before his cremation and brought him home with me🖤I don't know what I can do to stop feeling this way, the pain is so real and terrible..

    • @bellahalladay6078
      @bellahalladay6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ancadi4ever I am SO sorry for your loss, I hope u r doing better now. My puppy just died this morning, but i was not there with him. I never got to say goodbye. I know I can never know the exact pain you are going through, but i feel you. God loves you

  • @mompernl
    @mompernl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +689

    “Grief is just love that has nowhere to go”

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      momperni, beautifully said.

    • @oldtymer9106
      @oldtymer9106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just copied that and will quote it often. So well said.

    • @loribothwell5493
      @loribothwell5493 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You feel the magnitude of that love & miss it tremendously. ❤😭🙏

    • @thomasjohn4649
      @thomasjohn4649 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..

    • @thomasjohn4649
      @thomasjohn4649 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..

  • @imjisooandyoucantmarrymyso7718
    @imjisooandyoucantmarrymyso7718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    I lost my dog today and I feel like this is the most painful experience I’ve ever had.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Gia Karla Martin, I am sorry, it is tough, be kind to yourself as you grieve.

    • @LA-lq1zf
      @LA-lq1zf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am so sorry. I’m with you in this pain.

    • @elvia2682
      @elvia2682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know exactly how you feel right now

    • @julianamarie8927
      @julianamarie8927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This happened to me today, I woke up and ,y dog had passed away in my floor..

    • @ernst9100
      @ernst9100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I lost my dear dog thru an accident as it was playing,the best friend and companion I have ever had. This loss has affected me in a way that has made me feel so sad , I told its dead carcass that we will meet again and I thanked her for the good times we shared on Earth as I buried her. That gave me lots of satisfaction. I know God will grant me that wish to meet her again when I too vacate this planet

  • @lufelipe78
    @lufelipe78 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1298

    Today my dog after 11 beautiful years full of good memories went away, its really painfull, ive been crying so much.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      My heart aches for you, Felipe Ochoa. Be good to yourself.

    • @Sunn777
      @Sunn777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Felipe Ochoa you r not alone...

    • @genesisminaya7727
      @genesisminaya7727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Felipe Ochoa mines had to but sleep today I know how it feels

    • @rayrannfeldt8141
      @rayrannfeldt8141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Don’t worry. I don’t know you, but we are all in the same boat. We are here to comfort you. Once again, don’t worry.

    • @gamingmoments218
      @gamingmoments218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My dog died at age 3 today im soo sad i cant stop crying

  • @tffytofu5445
    @tffytofu5445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    My dog died yesterday, I want him to go to a good place and I want all of y’all’s pets to go to a better place! Sending prayers for y’all!

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      #Tiffy Tofu#, thank you for thinking of others while you are going through your own grief, glad to have you at the channel.

    • @blueblue7223
      @blueblue7223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks...

    • @johncarding6580
      @johncarding6580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you I really needed that

    • @MrGREENWORLD95
      @MrGREENWORLD95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @greasyfries5632
      @greasyfries5632 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @rspoofy
    @rspoofy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    Our cat died yesterday, I still have that memory of his dilated eyes staring back at me. Rest In Peace koko.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cythist, I hope peace comes soon.

    • @RiSa-qm7uz
      @RiSa-qm7uz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ours too. He dies yesterday. He was just 1 year and 7months. I am still grieving.

    • @fatinsafiyya5773
      @fatinsafiyya5773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh my god both of our cats have the same name. My cat just died yesterday and I really miss her so much.

    • @notkneekill
      @notkneekill 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fatinsafiyya5773 is it okay now?😞

    • @lahkesis15
      @lahkesis15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same with my furbaby.It was the most horrific thing to experience😭

  • @jaimepacheco3189
    @jaimepacheco3189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    The pain is infinite. My precious Kera left us yesterday after 18 years. She was the most loving, educated, well mannered cat. Even doctors acknowledge how peaceful she was. I hope to see her in the next life. 😢

  • @canadianbacon5474
    @canadianbacon5474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    One day my 12 year old lab is jumping around wild and happy, and two days later he’s gone. Enjoy you’re pets while they’re in your life, and don’t worry about how long their life will be, but instead focus on making memories with them. You will be able to love them forever, but you will not always have them with you.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      CaNaDIan BaCON, yes, be present. So important.

    • @nolaw9880
      @nolaw9880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same here she was so happy day before yesterday , she was dull from yesterday morning didn't have any food I was too busy to concentrate , She was not at home from yesterday night I went searching but didn't find, and I found her dead when I went in search for her today morning, my heart broken couldn't hold my tears, I was so ignorant for just 1 day and she is gone 😭

    • @sean37723
      @sean37723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My 7 month cat died because a dog attacked him and broke his spine, so we decided to put him to sleep, he brought me so much light and happiness through out these couple months, I feel so broken and sad I don’t know how to keep on with life.

    • @dogen2233
      @dogen2233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sean37723 I feel your pain, my dog died yesterday night from getting mauled and I just blame myself for it a lot.. It's a really painful struggle.

    • @Mythics1
      @Mythics1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So well said.

  • @brianac5284
    @brianac5284 5 ปีที่แล้ว +735

    Thank you so much for this video . My dog died this morning and I’m heartbroken it happened so suddenly

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Sorry to hear about your loss, Alize m. Be good to yourself and take some time for yourself.

    • @arendhoule191
      @arendhoule191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same is happening to me today😢

    • @paris2777
      @paris2777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know it’s 5 months ago but I’m so sorry

    • @annmcneill8372
      @annmcneill8372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      So so sorry, I know how you feel, lost my Petra 2 days ago to a sudden heart attack. It is the worst time ever. I hope you are getting thru this difficult time, they will always be with us in spirit x

    • @marycleo6191
      @marycleo6191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mine to miss her so much

  • @agurod-k7p
    @agurod-k7p 6 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    thanks for this video. my 12-year-old dog died on Friday. I brought him home when he was about 2 months old. very difficult to see him leave.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Oh, Aguz Rodri. Losing a beloved pet is so difficult. We have gone through this in my family a few times. Better days ahead.

    • @nopenope7766
      @nopenope7766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ASDdoesgames I can feel that, my dog passed away yesterday and I was right there when he went, he was 15❤❤

    • @aliciawright8147
      @aliciawright8147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aguz Rodri Mine just died yesterday and he was only 6 years old

    • @unknownangel3101
      @unknownangel3101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sithlordknight
      I am sorry for you, so did mine, 9.15 am UK time. ❤️

    • @ZookHaunts
      @ZookHaunts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so sorry... my rabbit died and I have been crying even in school. I feel you.

  • @johngomez2536
    @johngomez2536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I just lost my dog today. Before she died she looked at me happily and I can see it in her eyes as if she's thanking me for taking care of her.. Its just really sad.. 😭

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John Gomez, I am so sorry. I am glad you got the time together and were with her at the end.

  • @isabellawiggett32
    @isabellawiggett32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    A pet isn’t just for life especially if it’s still in your heart

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I agree, Isabella Wiggett.

    • @mariambhket3773
      @mariambhket3773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My parents took my dog away from me..he was lying next to me when I sleep ..he was greeting me with his mouth saliva when I woke up or when I come back from outside..when I'm angry or sad of something I feel like he is comforting me .. making me laugh without reasons....he was the only reason I smile and laugh in the house,and here I am ..alone again..I wrote my words with tears and I'm sure I won't be able to get over it..

    • @blxec9394
      @blxec9394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariambhket3773 your exactly like me.. I’m extra sorry if I just reminded you about the pets death by replying, wish you well.

    • @serialeshqip9086
      @serialeshqip9086 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😞

  • @caramelsalt2975
    @caramelsalt2975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    It really hurts because I just lost my dog this morning. I've been crying for hours now and my eyes are swollen.. I really miss her, it really hurts and all I feel right now is regret and pain. I hope she's in peace right now and another piece of me is broken..

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ainne mill, I am sorry for your loss. Go ahead and cry, that is part of grief. It will get better, but may take a long time.

    • @lifestylewithcrys7044
      @lifestylewithcrys7044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes i lost mine yesterday some car knocked him down after he escaped the yard. My eyes are swollen and i am.work and have been crying all day

    • @bellahalladay6078
      @bellahalladay6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my dog just passed this morning. I wasnt there. He lived such a beautiful life with us for 10 years, I am sad but at peace to see hi go. It still hurts so much though.

    • @thomasjohn4649
      @thomasjohn4649 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..

    • @iicy_Hott_x3
      @iicy_Hott_x3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm dealing with this now.. Does it get any easier??

  • @ambikasingh6619
    @ambikasingh6619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    Both my rabbits passed away today. My heart goes out to anyone who’s going through the sane grief right now, they’re in a better place now❤️

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ambika Singh Tomar, thank you for your kindness and support. I wish you the best.

    • @_hkelley
      @_hkelley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My rabbit died this morning, I slept next to the cage and when I woke up he was lifeless, I called my mom and cried and talked to her on the phone.

    • @callsignprofessor
      @callsignprofessor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My bunny died yesterday, I'm completely broken up about it. It was very sudden and it was my best friend:'( he had a friend who said goodbye but still is searching for him at home.. Hope it get's better over time

    • @nene2328
      @nene2328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My rabbit suddenly had a seizure and I was rushing him to the vet but he passed away in my arms by the time we got there.

    • @albertthecatcat5601
      @albertthecatcat5601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel you, I had a bunny at only 6 months he passed away. We did everything we could. Even though it was only 6 months we became sooo close

  • @oldtymer9106
    @oldtymer9106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Thanks for this, Sir. I just lost my dog of 14 & a half years a few days ago. She was in such great shape and then one day she wasn't. It took about a week to figure out her time was about up and any therapies or surgeries were only going to put off the inevitable a few months. It was a tough call to make, but I had a mobile vet come to the home and put her to sleep while I held her and her daughter watched on. I drove her to the crematorium myself and took her in and watched them wheel her back to the furnace room. What a cry I had in the car back home! My wife died from CoVid seven months earlier and she's the one who insisted we get this dog! I like to think my wife was waiting to greet her into the afterlife. I hope anyway. Got a plaque and her ashes prominently displayed by the door. Having a "Cuddle Clone" designed from photos of her that permanently house her ashes. She, her daughter and I will all be buried together one day.
    To anyone else going thru this, it's okay to cry over a lost pet. It means your a decent human being.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am so sorry. You have been through so much. Thank you for reaching out to others with comfort.

    • @dreamrender5587
      @dreamrender5587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I needed this.

    • @РахилПеличев
      @РахилПеличев 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and dog.
      My cat died the other day. Tough day. Still is tough of course. This pain will never go away.

    • @tonyhou1578
      @tonyhou1578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Steve, your comment got me in tears. I lost one of my cats today. She was such a shy, sensitive, and sweet being. I miss her so much. I can't imagine the amount of pain you had to go through when your wife passed away, and then your dog. I'm so sorry, man. I truly hope you do go through another moment like that for the rest of your life. I hope more good things than bad things happen to you.

    • @johnnybgoode7983
      @johnnybgoode7983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing your story .... sad sad times ... it takes a tough person to be a kind human ..had to let my constant companion go ..for her sake ...not for mine ...miss her immensely..my dog Bailey

  • @shamoshes6980
    @shamoshes6980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    My birds just died last night and I had the 3rd one on my chest as he took his last’s breathe... didn’t know stuff like that can break you so much

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Sorry for your loss, Shamoshes.Take care and I hope the video helps to remember your bird.

    • @vincent3147
      @vincent3147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I just lost my two parrots xd

    • @daiseighelliott
      @daiseighelliott 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hristina Shopova I lost my budgie yesterday he died of a seizure after flying into a window sorry for your loss

    • @ren_12_ten41
      @ren_12_ten41 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My dog was named Sulley and he died in a car accident when he got hit and he was only 6 months old

    • @kyosthetrash9055
      @kyosthetrash9055 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i tired to rescue a bird but he died the next night..i feel like i killed him i shd have brought him to the doctor sooner

  • @georgeannepanos8132
    @georgeannepanos8132 6 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    It never gets easy. I've gone through it so many times....it's what holds me back from getting another one. Just not the right time for me.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's definitely tough stuff Georgeanne. Trust yourself to know when it is right. DrPaul

    • @drhater2318
      @drhater2318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve had 4 dogs. They have all been put down except for 1, but he is getting old, hence why I’m watching this video.and every single one broke my heart. I’m still not used to it. I’ve decided I’m not getting any more dogs. I just can’t deal with it any more.

    • @georgeannepanos8132
      @georgeannepanos8132 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drhater2318 Same here, 4 dogs, one left and he's old.

    • @CompleteProducer84
      @CompleteProducer84 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@georgeannepanos8132 Me as well. I’m down to my last dog of four after having to put my Boston Terrier down this morning. This was the toughest one, never gets any easier :/

    • @B888-h2o
      @B888-h2o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, don’t think I can get another pet. Can’t go through this again 😢

  • @nopenope7766
    @nopenope7766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I had a pet who died yesterday, I had him since I was two and he lived until he was 15 and me at 17. Thank you for this

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are welcome, Nope Nope. I am glad you had such a great relationship with your pet. What a gift. I hope the video helps you during this difficult time.

    • @amiliosauro
      @amiliosauro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is the exact same position I’m in rn, except we had to put him down this morning, I hope you’ve been able to move past the sadness and that I can too

    • @computernostalgia6293
      @computernostalgia6293 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope Nope My dog was 17 and I’m 15. We had to put him down on the 15th. Snoopy was born July 16, 2003. I’ve cried so much since he passed

    • @laurelgrace900
      @laurelgrace900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Computer Nostalgia my cat was around 12 and I’m 17 so I’ve had him for most of my life and he was hit by a car this morning and it’s been so hard 💔

    • @computernostalgia6293
      @computernostalgia6293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Laurel Grace I’m very sorry for your loss. I wish the best of luck to you.

  • @24crawf
    @24crawf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    My cat passed about a month ago.For everyone who is going through this just know your stronger than you think and you get can get through it.Theres almost like an outer covering in the beginning,just tons of grief on your shoulders,then it slowly just,lifts off.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mckinley Crawford, thank you for supporting others going through this difficult time.

    • @SkittlesGirl65
      @SkittlesGirl65 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you. I feel awful. I lost my cat of 9 years. I'm devastated. I also feel like it's my fault. Thank you again for your encouraging words.

    • @sandralujan1199
      @sandralujan1199 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so very much I needed this. I. Dealing with putting my dog down soon. 💔

  • @Khronovaude
    @Khronovaude 4 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    2020 couldn't get any worse 😭, my dog just died today..

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Khronovaude, I am so sorry, hang in there.

    • @random-kun
      @random-kun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine too

    • @NoteToFutureSelf
      @NoteToFutureSelf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 😞

    • @meliryan311
      @meliryan311 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here😢

    • @isoCBR
      @isoCBR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@meliryan311 My beautiful Pomeranian boy Bubble of 10 years just passed this morning. I've been crying all day. He is in a better place now and no longer suffering. I'm going to miss his cuddles and kisses. Rest In Peace my little beautiful boy.

  • @Honeybunnyy1
    @Honeybunnyy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    We had to put my dog down yesterday I’m heartbroken :( I was there for his last breath I held his paw and pet him as he passed I feel like I’ll never be happy again :( rest in paradise Ziggy

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      honeybunny, I know you feel this way, it is part of the grief process. It will get better, but you will always miss Ziggy.

    • @jeremybailey175
      @jeremybailey175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I lost my 18 yr old cat only 3 hours ago, im heartbroken. How are you feeling 7 months on? Hope your ok .

    • @yokedmonster
      @yokedmonster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jeremybailey175 my sister's dog was put down today I loved that dog. I visited a lot and he was my buddy when I was there, he filled the hole that was left from me not being able to have a dog due to my living situation. R.I.P Stunner you will me missed.

    • @heyfitzpablum
      @heyfitzpablum 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had to put my dog Spanky to sleep this week due to complications of congestive heart failure. I'm really feeling low. My other dog is beside himself, he looks in the backyard all day trying to see his brother. You always second guess yourself-could I have given him a few more days? Couldn't we have strung him along with another procedure? The reality is, when dogs have terminal conditions like this their quality of life can go downhill very quickly. You owe them the responsibility of looking out for their best interests-and sometimes that means making the ultimate call. I miss Spanky, very much. I hope you've found peace in the last 8 months, honeybunny.

    • @thomasjohn4649
      @thomasjohn4649 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello friend, I can recommend you to the powerful love specialist who helped me get my ex husband back in less than 3 days, he can also help you❤..

  • @kinneyay
    @kinneyay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I lost my dog this morning and it broke my heart. He died in his sleep thankfully, but I wish I got an opportunity to say a goodbye. I can't stop crying, I spent almost my entire life with him. He had a special spot on my bed and it smells like him. There's no way I can wash these sheets.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Kinley C, oh, this reminds me of when we lost our Crystal, so sorry. Be gentle with yourself, you are not wrong about how you feel and you will heal. Peace.

    • @pamelambyrne
      @pamelambyrne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just lost my furbaby lasting he has been sick with cancer for the last 8 weeks I cant cope with the pain I can smell his medication on my pj's as I spent the day snuggling him before we went to the vets iv been up all night smelling my clothes I'm devastated I'm not sure how I'm gonna cope

    • @cliffordthebigblackdog6300
      @cliffordthebigblackdog6300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m so so sorry for your loss, my dog isn’t doing that well and his back legs are starting to not work anymore which means he can’t go to the bathroom so he doesn’t have much longer...he is been in my life since I was born and it’s going to be so hard to deal with his death,.

    • @kinneyay
      @kinneyay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cliffordthebigblackdog6300 Wishing you the best

    • @bobbymashoby8038
      @bobbymashoby8038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kinneyay Sorry for your loss. I feel you.

  • @maryranz
    @maryranz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I never thought I would go to TH-cam to search about this. I just lost our dog Dunkin and was crying while watching this but I laughed when he said think of the annoying things you had together with your pet. I remembered how he hates taking a bath. Thank you for this. Definitely in life it's useful to be realistic during this tough times. Hugs to everyone who's dealing with the pain. We'll get through this!

    • @scauldyy
      @scauldyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Head high

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your support of others while dealing with the loss of your own beloved pet. Much appreciated.

  • @walkingthroughlife3517
    @walkingthroughlife3517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    That pain never ever goes away, l have lost many pets through the years, the pain is exactly the same today as it was yesterday.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Walking Through Life, my sincere condolences for your losses.

  • @bluedragonfruit5385
    @bluedragonfruit5385 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    My cat died today. Chillest, most behave and most loving pet I've ever had. It's been tough. I wasn't prepared for this...

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Blue Dragon Fruit, it is hard to be prepared for something like this. I wish you the best.

    • @glock_9ine956
      @glock_9ine956 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s been 9 months since then, can you please tell me how you have moved on?

    • @samennaheiress8076
      @samennaheiress8076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am going through this just now. He died a few ours ago and I feel as if I am in a bad dream😔

  • @thatweirdwhitegirl2134
    @thatweirdwhitegirl2134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I lost my dog in summer of 2019, I soon lost my other dog in September 2020. I miss both of them and afraid of losing my other dogs. I cry almost everyday, sometimes I think if they even remember me. I suffered more when a person said “it’s just a dog.” I was torn because I knew they never knew what happiness pets bring. Pets bring the happiest days of our lives and the saddest days. Whoever is reading this and lost a pet, remember it’s okay to be sad for however long it’s been. I feel for you, I know your pain.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Janimal Plays, thank you for your compassion.

    • @adamisaac4685
      @adamisaac4685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry for your loss.
      My sweet golden retriever Bodhi Bear, is dying in the next couple days.
      I can’t stop crying.
      I’m just having such a hard time.
      I want more time with him so bad.
      But we all know that just isn’t how life works. And these moments are here to teach us. My tears are filled with so many emotions, so many memories. An entire decade of my life was spent attached to this great spirit! Oh god now I’m crying.
      Here comes the rain again
      Falling on my head like a memory
      Falling on my head like a new emotion.
      ~Annie Lennox

    • @homemakerandglamour29victo29
      @homemakerandglamour29victo29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Animals bring so much peace and happiness us humans will never understand. They are our life. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    • @jacksonmonk6525
      @jacksonmonk6525 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

    • @cristinapainter3765
      @cristinapainter3765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My baby died this past September was so unexpected , she was only 3. I still cry everyday, I keep going over that day. Thinking I could have done more to save her

  • @bjquilts29
    @bjquilts29 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lost my beloved 11 year old lab a week ago. I am lost without him. I am devastated. I miss him so much. He was my buddy, always at my side. Even with all this pain, I feel blessed to have had him in my life.

  • @thomasloydon9198
    @thomasloydon9198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    My rabbit of almost a year old died today, I watched the color drain from his eyes and his little heart stop beating while I held him in my arms. I still feel like I’m in a dream I just want to wake up and hold him again. RIP Bib, August 2018-July 28th 4:01pm 2019, the best little buddy I could ever have. I love you and I hope you’re last hours weren’t painful. You had the best life a rabbit could ever have, you were loved greatly and I will never forget you.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Beautifully said, Thomas Loydon.

    • @amandamitchell5291
      @amandamitchell5291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My bunny had to get put to sleep today too she was 1.5 my heart feels so broken I'm so lost

    • @trampbrosvlogs9878
      @trampbrosvlogs9878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My bunny’s 4.5 a motivate she is alive and my other one died but it’s a miracle for me

    • @jewel7012
      @jewel7012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t have a rabbit but a guinea pig that died at 3:29 this morning. He was four turning five in July. He was such a good guinea pig but he had to die a painful death because no vet near us could cater to “exotic” animals. I have his brother by me and I honestly don’t know what to do. Like I want to buy another Guinea pig and keep the brother happy but I don’t want to deal with the deaths of pets again - it’s a horrible feeling.

  • @elisa1164
    @elisa1164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Earlier today my dear dog passed away. I hope I made her happy for the 12 years she was with me I wish the best for anyone else going through this right now and remember that I’m sure you made them happy.❤️

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ezra ;P, thank you for your positivity and compassion.

  • @locolobo2849
    @locolobo2849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Just lost my dog today... he passed peacefully but man, I just can’t stop crying 😭 rip my good boy

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Loco Lobo, the loss is fresh. It will take some time for you to process this loss. Go through the grief and you will feel better.

    • @glock_9ine956
      @glock_9ine956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Loco Lobo how have you moved on since then?

    • @johncruise496
      @johncruise496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So terrible 😞

    • @ErnieJJr1476er
      @ErnieJJr1476er 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lift yours up to The Joy of Salvation O'Human like Me. Eternal Treasure.

    • @decarlocalloway01
      @decarlocalloway01 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry man

  • @carlosurbina8252
    @carlosurbina8252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    6 days without my dog after being with him everyday from ages 12-30 😭. I am
    Beyond broken. He was perfectly fine aside from his age. This is harder than family. I knew he would pass, but I thought he would show signs. Not just one day and done. I knew my dogs parents years before he was born. I was there for his birth. He came home at 4 weeks. This hits completely different. I want my dog back 😢

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Carlos Cecilio Beauty, how sad. You are on the grief journey, be kind to yourself. We are here for you.

    • @didye6311
      @didye6311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry...we.lost our beautiful girl Bella yesterday and there are no words for the love we had for her and will for the rest of our lives...stay strong theres a little lost soul out there needs rescued and lots of your love ...after some time maybe ....

    • @SkittlesGirl65
      @SkittlesGirl65 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry for your loss. I feel the same way. My cat died 2 days sgo. She developed something and vet said she needs to be put to sleep. I'm crying since she's been gone.

    • @connorhewson4405
      @connorhewson4405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My dog has just passes and i have been thinking the same exact thing i thought there would be a sign that she was going to pass not just so sudden like i should’ve done more

    • @lisasasse4
      @lisasasse4 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had to put down my 1 yo cat last night due to a disease. I rescued him from the alley behind my house and he was the most loving affectionate cat. I miss him sooo much.

  • @uwuppa
    @uwuppa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Thank you for the advice. My cat passed this morning and I loved him very much. He gave nothing less than unconditional love. He was only two years old and his illness happened so suddenly and took him so quickly. I know that he’s found a place in heaven now. Ollie will forever live in my heart. Even if his presence in my life was brief, he helped me through so much in such critical years of my life.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautifully said, Snivy for SSBU.

    • @amuginho7535
      @amuginho7535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Almost the same here, our beautiful boy just 1,5 half years old passed away yesterday. He helped my mom to get out of depression and we loved him so much. The pain is indescribable. Thank you very much for the video and the comments, now I feel less alone.

    • @LensToHorizon
      @LensToHorizon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This happened to me this morning, I was at work when I had a call that my cat Links had just been killed outside our own house by a car, needless to say I’ve been In tears since this morning. He was 1.5 years old and has truly left an imprint on my heart, he gave nothing but true love and never expected anything back . What have you guys done to help remember your cats if you don’t mind me asking?

    • @freyafugl3137
      @freyafugl3137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My cat (first cat ever) just died last night. Only about 6 months old🥺🥺😭 She came in our house bleeding and suffering and we had no idea why. I feel so bad for her even though we did what we could do to help her. She also made me feel happy and helped me and my mother out of depression... But right now I feel like my depression is coming right back😣😣😣😣😣 It’s so painful and I don’t know what to do with myself right now.

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@freyafugl3137 you will get over it. I promise.
      I lost my cats 10 of them in a fire 2016. And now my rescued cat of 3 months, shes 5-6 months old is dying.
      Its so hard. Her brother just ran away i cant find him coz its covid.

  • @whatisthisbruhh
    @whatisthisbruhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    My dog just passed away today, he was laying in my arms when he stopped breathing. Im gonna miss you bud hope you crossed the rainbow bridge safely..:)

  • @Cosmogirl014
    @Cosmogirl014 6 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Thank you for your video. I lost m 14 year old Italian Greyhound i raised from pup. It's just her and I and i'm 58. I lost my parents also within the scope of of past 8 years .... all 3 to cancer. This to me is by far the most horrible loss I have ever encountered being she was as your video states pure LOVE. It's been almost 2 weeks i had to make that decision to let her go and the visuals of that day haunt me. She was still happy but suffering. I seriously don't think i'll ever get over her she was my best friend. I've had many animals growing up but at this age and from a baby she was mine and i was hers. She taught me LOVE like no other human. I have to say i never gave thought to losing her ... which was living in the now i suppose but wow - i'm grateful for the time i had spending as her caretaker during cancer and loving her up and her loving me back as always. I cry constantly. I've lost work. I see therapist. It's awful roller coaster. That hug you speak of i so need but my friends seem to have nothing to say, they don't understand she WAS my family and always will be. I journal and I still talk to her. I bought some plants in her memory and also crystals to keep her safe. Yes i had her cremated she is here with me now. For anyone who feels as deeply as I do please reach out for support don't go it alone. xx

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pamela Perry, thank you for reaching out to others and being there for those who has experienced a loss similar to yours. I am glad you are journaling and working through your grief.

    • @MmostlyRandom
      @MmostlyRandom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hi Pamela I am so sorry for your loss, if you read my comment above , I am in a very similar position to you and I could sure use some support.
      I'm on day 1 and I'm heartbroken. I would love to just talk to somebody.... anybody. (my situation makes it hard for me to even have friends)

    • @Alkaline_Saint
      @Alkaline_Saint 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m here for exactly the same reason. We fostered an Italian greyhound, she sunk into inconsolable pain, we exhausted our funds just to find her illness was incurable bladder cancer. This was my first dog, I had her for four months, I wanted my dog my whole life. I’m 30 now, I waited until I was ready.
      This was so unfair.

    • @sumoneindiadigital5011
      @sumoneindiadigital5011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my pet too. He was my baby. I feel broken and guilty

    • @luzaidaperrone6407
      @luzaidaperrone6407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pamela Perry I relate completely with how you feel . I had been with my boston for 10 years and he got i feel completely empty everything seems black the thought of him haunts me and my stomach hurts i cant eat or sleep . I miss him so much i cant stand it . Thank you for sharing and im sorry for your loss .

  • @CommanderOutdoors
    @CommanderOutdoors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Lost my best friend of 11 years a few weeks ago.
    Still brings tears to my eyes just at the thought.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry for your loss.

    • @itsme-ut4lt
      @itsme-ut4lt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Channel24377 im so sorry that happened

    • @Adhdorwhatever22
      @Adhdorwhatever22 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The hurt never fully goes away.

  • @capybun
    @capybun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My pet bunny died 3 days ago, my heart has this burning feeling that just doesn't go away. I hope everyone else who's going through such a thing takes care of themselves.

  • @chickennuggetpaw1017
    @chickennuggetpaw1017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    My 1 year old dachshund, Lilly got hit by a car. She was just being her normal, curious, adventurous self, and she just didn’t notice the car until it hit her. I miss her so much.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That is very tragic, to lose a family member so young. My condolences.

    • @AngxlicSunsetYT
      @AngxlicSunsetYT 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my goodness! I am so sorry. 😰😰🥺🥺

    • @roayaninunez9217
      @roayaninunez9217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same thing to my puppy he was 8 months I loved him so much.

    • @pranavchitrabanu7578
      @pranavchitrabanu7578 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you deal with it ?! Our dachshund got it by a car because she was being a little too adventurous. She somehow got to our neighbours place and the gate was open and aaaagh! Stupid dog. She was 11 months old.

    • @Noraeve
      @Noraeve 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My French bulldog just got hit by a car tonight - I’m devistated. She was only 15 months old and was attached to me at the hip. I looked forward and hoped to have her with me fit at least 10 more years. This is such a shock

  • @georgiabrindley5039
    @georgiabrindley5039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    My dog died this morning a very important part of my heart broke

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Georgia Brindley, thank you for sharing. Sorry for your loss. I remember how difficult it was to go through.

    • @spidermonkeygus
      @spidermonkeygus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Georgia Brindley my pet dog died today..

    • @RiSa-qm7uz
      @RiSa-qm7uz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My cat died yesterday and he was still 1 year; and 7 months.

    • @jme9875
      @jme9875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please stay on your healing journey and know that you remain in my prayers..sending you love & positive healing vibes right now...🙏💓
      We got this😘

    • @kaoshiyuki
      @kaoshiyuki 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mine also, today morning, in my house 😣

  • @kool-aidman2797
    @kool-aidman2797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I lose my pet yesterday and I really wish that I still have him for a little longer. My heart goes to those people who are grieving right now. May all our pets hanging out in peace out there. I am missing you everyday, 8. I love you! 💕🐾

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kool-Aid Man, Thank you for your support and encouragement to those going through what you are.

    • @DavidLopez-is3pp
      @DavidLopez-is3pp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ♥️♥️

  • @fleurelika
    @fleurelika 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Today my dog of 11 years Tilly, is being put down. She had cancer, and watching her suffer was enough for us to know that it was her time. My heart is completely broken, but I know that she is going to a better place. Rest in peace Tilly 💓
    26/09/2020

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      x.elika_ x , sorry to hear.

    • @whatwillbem6825
      @whatwillbem6825 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😔

    • @mjpinot39
      @mjpinot39 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand you I lost mine as well hate cancer

  • @Kanggo
    @Kanggo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Today our dog after 16 amazing years passed away. 😭😢 The true definition of unconditional love is from the dog towards you. The purest love. I am so happy I found this video.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      David Lam, I am glad you found it also. Know you are not alone.

  • @chappelchastain9194
    @chappelchastain9194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Lost mine just yesterday, had him for 17 years, I i grew up with him and its rough, but he is in a better place

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chappel Chastain, thank you for sharing.

  • @TotallyActing
    @TotallyActing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Been a few months since my baby passed, I still don’t see getting over her any time soon, it makes me tear up every time I think of her cuteness and how she could still be with me.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Grief takes time, Totally Acting. Hang in there and remember you are never wrong about how you feel.

  • @chanho8198
    @chanho8198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Hey my dog died today in a very bad way and to see that's how he died I can't. Everything hurts but this helped a lot.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Martha Soila, I am so sorry. Glad the video helps, take it easy and work through the grief.

  • @pamelaroman5939
    @pamelaroman5939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    My sweet baby Ranger got hit by a car lastnight and he’s been on my mind ever since... this pain is unexplainable, he will be missed! Rest in peace baby.

  • @vexy814
    @vexy814 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My dog passed away on Nov 2nd,2022 on my brothers birthday coming home from a fun day to a tragic horrible death... He was found deceased in the middle of the road from a car that didnt care how fast they were going in a 10-15mph street...I already see visuals of my little Buddy laying in his bed/barking/his toys.
    I love/miss you soooo much [BUDDY]

  • @wade_says
    @wade_says ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wife and I lost our cattle dog of nearly 11 years. RIP Rocky. He was the best. Smart, obedient, funny, so much more.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss. My wife and I recently lost our little dog recently. Glad you have someone to share the grief with.

  • @alihazari7494
    @alihazari7494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My dog was hit by a car yesterday and passed away. Trying to cope with the loss of my best friend. The only person who loved me unconditionally weather am rich or poor, ugly or cute, fat or thin. Tried watching many videos to come to terms with this loss. This video really helped me a lot. Thank you 🙏

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ali Hazari, that is so hard. Thank you for watching and know that things will get better. I am glad you are watching this and other videos to help you process your loss.

    • @Natalia-gp9os
      @Natalia-gp9os 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My dog died the same way just a few days ago, my whole family is still grieving his loss, all we have are the beautiful memories we shared with him and how happy he was with us.

  • @jepppe11
    @jepppe11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    my best friend of the last 10 years passed today. i’m broken.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jeppe Fjellerad, I am so sorry, it is such a tough thing to go through.

    • @GhostyPopx
      @GhostyPopx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel you. I hope it gets better

    • @ocota831
      @ocota831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mine just passed today its been just me and her the last 14 years stay strong brother I am devastated she not next to me anymore.

    • @Yt_Xen24
      @Yt_Xen24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so sorry for you

    • @logitech4365
      @logitech4365 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless you sir. I grieve with you.

  • @creativetitle6193
    @creativetitle6193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My pet of 6 years died today. Facing towards the corner of the cage, laying down. When I saw it, all the good memories I’ve had with him flashed before me as I saw he wasn’t breathing. I’ve been feeling sorry since I had not spent as much of my time as I should’ve with him. I could’ve done better for him.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Creative Title, I am sorry, take some time to work through your grief. If you have happy memories, cling to those.

  • @_hkelley
    @_hkelley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My rabbit was dead when I woke up, I called my mom and talked to her on the phone and balled my eyes out. I don’t know why but I did. I know he is in a better place and I also want to say thank you for replying to all of these poor people who have had to go threw this. thank you for making this video. And thank you for helping me rap my mind around things. For anyone who has lost a pet, you are in my prayers and your animal is in a better, peaceful place. Bless all of you.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your kindness during your time of grief.

  • @jackdavidsen2083
    @jackdavidsen2083 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    My dog sadly got put down today after 11 years and I’ve never lost someone before, and it’s horrible I already feel empty, Rip poppy 🙏😓

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jack Davidsen, it is very difficult. Allow yourself to grieve over this loss.

    • @ogblick5310
      @ogblick5310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea I have to put my dog down this Friday and I literally never felt this sad and depressed

    • @Mythics1
      @Mythics1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand. I put mine down last night. He was my heart and soul and he died while I held him. I am terribly sad and I think it will only get worse. I wish you all the best.

    • @anubhuti3804
      @anubhuti3804 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same... She was on the way to home on stairs when it happened I was late to reach there. Every second is way too much pain to me and my family... How are you now?

  • @chr0n0s17
    @chr0n0s17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I took a snip of my dogs coat hair days before his passing, 2 years later and i still open the pouch I have it in from time to time, it helps me as he had been with me my entire life. I miss you raider.

  • @meroastisruined3039
    @meroastisruined3039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My 16 year old cat was put down 5 hours ago, he just had his eye out 2 weeks ago and he was back to being like a kitten now that he was free from the pain. I was so happy he was like himself again, 5 days ago he was diagnosed with kidney failure and now he’s gone. It was so sudden and I just need some help man.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is sudden. I am so sorry. Be grateful for the years you had and hold onto the positive memories.

    • @gomezfrancisco4577
      @gomezfrancisco4577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      today I lost my 13 yeard old cat, friend, love, he was my everything, i will miss him

    • @steelhurricane4041
      @steelhurricane4041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry about your beautiful cat. The vet claimed my cat was dying so she was put to sleep. I keep questioning if the vet was right or not. It's one of those free mobile vet clinics, for low income or no income. She had edema, and she couldn't eat just drink water. I just don't know. 🕊️

  • @chriskeck3689
    @chriskeck3689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My sweet little silly Lilly passed away over a week ago. I'm struggling badly, but this video and everyone's comments are helpful to hear. Sure, it has me crying my eyes out, but that's just proof that I truly cared for her as much as I've ever cared for anyone on this planet. I will be memorizing her by getting my first tattoo of her paw print on my upper left arm. I miss her so much! So grateful to have had her in my life!

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry to hear this, I hope the video is helpful for you as you work through your grief.

  • @afatcatfromsweden
    @afatcatfromsweden 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Lost my cat who was my bff on tuesday the 30tg of july 2019, he is in a better place right now and i can’t wait till i see him, his absolute heart of gold has saved my life and i will get a sucessor for him today. I don’t know how long it will be untill we meet at the rainbow bridge but when we do i will be the happiest man in heaven and he will be the happiest cat. I will spend the whole day cuddling with him and the whole night sleepingnext to him, he allways slept next to me becuse i brought him the comfort he needed and he brought the love i needed to be happy.
    I love you Tusse and we shal meet again. Ps i will make some chicken for you!

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautifully said, A fat cat from sweden.

    • @RiSa-qm7uz
      @RiSa-qm7uz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just lost my cat yesterday too. I am still grieving.

  • @crillexx1273
    @crillexx1273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you, I just found my cat dead outside today and i’ve been crying for hours straight. he was my best friend🥺

  • @normiejeanj
    @normiejeanj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you for this video. We had to make the difficult decision to put down our precious family cat of 11 years. He helped me raise my four kids. Our hearts are split in two.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, Norma James. Sorry for your loss. Mend your hearts together.

  • @sofiachevez4259
    @sofiachevez4259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My cat of 14 years passed a few months ago back in February and I’m still accepting the loss. I was thankfully able to come visit from college when he passed, but I had to go back only a few days after we lost him. Now that I’m a college grad I am living at home full time again and am feeling the loss way more. We have his ashes which we keep in the box he used to sleep in. I remember him everyday and the unconditional love he showed me. It isn’t easy to not having him here, but I remember just how much he gave me and I fell grateful

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sofia Chevez, I am sorry for your loss. It is hard and I am glad you can feel gratitude.

  • @keithhern3797
    @keithhern3797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Just lost my black lab today. He had to be put down at the vet and I just can’t get past the moment where he stopped breathing. It all happened so suddenly. He gave me and my family 10 years of amazing joy and I’m so so so happy to have been his owner. RIP my baby boy❤️🐾.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautifully said.

    • @f22jax
      @f22jax 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My labradoodle was just put down today due to leukemia. I just couldn’t stay for her euthanizing, it was so painful to see her the way she was. She wouldn’t eat and she was losing hair and couldn’t walk. She could hardly open her eyes when I talked to her and her tail no longer wagged when she saw me. Normally when I scratch her belly, she’d kick her hind legs rapidly and it was always funny. She didn’t do that this time. I couldn’t help myself but to cry in that moment seeing her for the last time. I knew it was time to let her rest and that’s exactly what I did. I miss her already and it hasn’t even been 30 minutes. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope I can get over this easily.

  • @afloatcashew6828
    @afloatcashew6828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My dog passed away about 5 hours ago, they started having seizures back in December but they were very infrequent and minor. Today, he fell down, and never got back up. It was like on off switch, I've never seen a living being die so fast for seemingly no reason. It's hard to deal with, I've had him since my earliest memories. Thanks for the tips.
    Rest in piece Hunter
    2011-2022
    I'll always have you in my memories.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am sorry for your loss. That is sudden. We never know how much time we have together.

  • @flowfitnessandmentalhealth3380
    @flowfitnessandmentalhealth3380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Totally heartbroken as I lost my dog Susie on her birthday yesterday,as a tumour mass erupted in her stomach which went undetected,and I’m devastated.Love to everyone who has went through this xx

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tommy Kelly, sorry for your loss, it is a tough time.

    • @flowfitnessandmentalhealth3380
      @flowfitnessandmentalhealth3380 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Live On Purpose TV thanks so much and for all the great work you do.

    • @ironcowgirlbree
      @ironcowgirlbree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just lost my soulmate Lilly a boxer/lab 9yrs old suddenly from a tumor that ruptured her spleen and she passed away during surgery 5 days ago!! I'm grief stricken to the max!! I'm right there with u!! 🐾🐾💔🙏😭😭💔

  • @iknowcharley5
    @iknowcharley5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    i cried all day today, i hope he’s up there with Jesus. He died on Resurrection day

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      iknowcharley, I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @jexic2938
      @jexic2938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they are, lost my 13 year old labrador today

    • @oldtymer9106
      @oldtymer9106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear you. My dog of 14+ years had to be put to sleep two days ago.i lost my wife to CoVid seven months ago and she's the one who made us get this dog! I like to think she's there greeting him into heaven!

    • @lenni332
      @lenni332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My rabbit (Peter) died today and it was painful 😣

  • @marissaanderson6225
    @marissaanderson6225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I lost my dog Bella today. I'm 14 and I had her for almost 11 years. I don't know if I can live without her I can't remember a life that didnt have her in it and my boyfriend and friends are acting like it didnt happen and its not affecting me but I just cant stop crying. I'm sorry for venting and thanks for listening.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can live without her, it is hard, not impossible. This is grief you are going through and it will get easier. You need support now, time to remember and feel what you feel.

    • @aldubm2234
      @aldubm2234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same situation. Just I’m 15 and nobody seems to care. I told my friend and they were like “oh yeah I’m sorry” and acted normal after

    • @rena2578-p4w
      @rena2578-p4w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand how you guys feel about people not understanding the immense pain losing your beloved pet causes. It's so frustrating and makes you realize how much more our furbabies loved us unconditionally 💔😭😭😭😭

    • @johncruise496
      @johncruise496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry to hear this, this was like a sibling in a way, and a dear friend, as you had Bella most of your life. I wish you peace and to be able to communicate with her and see some signs.

  • @TheOlPoopLoop
    @TheOlPoopLoop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I personally couldn’t be part of the drive to the vet today because someone had to be home for my nephews and I’m the most emotional so me driving wouldn’t be safe. Every part of me wishes I could be there for Bobby cat. So my sister and mom are gone right now and I’m here watching this and bawling my eyes out. We had him since we had to hand feed the litter just over 12 years ago. He doesn’t know starvation or abuse. All he knew was warm beds, love, full belly, and so so so many purrs. I’ll miss him so hard.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Becca H, I am so sorry. I know it will take some time, but you will feel peace as you did everything you could for Bobby cat.

  • @hipointc9987
    @hipointc9987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I think one important aspect is that when pets get elderly, we can't keep bringing them to the vet for life-prolonging treatments, because we're then just trying to postpone our own inevitable sadness.
    Know when it's time to say goodbye.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for commenting, Hi Point C9. This is a hard thing to know sometimes. I am thankful for a great vet that is able to talk to us about our animals and help us understand what is going on.

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What if theyll get better?

    • @noroutine5752
      @noroutine5752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mightyobserver12 I recently lost my dog, and I think I'm switching between the denial and the bargaining stage of grief, I hope someone who reached the acceptance stage answers this.

    • @embracedchimera5886
      @embracedchimera5886 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@noroutine5752 i also am in between denial and bargaining .how are you now?

  • @clouddog2393
    @clouddog2393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    l'm watching this with tears rolling down my cheeks . My lovely dog was put to sleep a couple of hours ago after a short illness . You,re video and kind words and advice helped a lot . God bless and thank you .

  • @rubyxcuby
    @rubyxcuby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank You so much for this video.. I don't know why I'm hurting myself like this. I just lost my dog a few hours ago and I feel like my heart's been ripped out. It hurts like shht and I cannot stop crying until now. I don't know what to do without him 💔
    He's my best friend 😭

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rubyxcuby, you are never wrong about the way you feel and losing your dog is a huge loss. Take time and be patient with yourself. Find a way to remember your friend.

    • @rubyxcuby
      @rubyxcuby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LiveOnPurposeTV Thank you so much .. My tears will never stop from falling but I want to help myself to move on slowly

  • @ee-td3ex
    @ee-td3ex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My cat died yesterday. I dont think he died peacefully, he died while he was awake. His eyes werent blinking, his body was cold. I felt so sad, i cried the whole day. He was a good cat to my family and me. He didnt deserve to die.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      e e, I am sorry you are going through this now. I hope your family is there for one another.

  • @vanessamorgan3939
    @vanessamorgan3939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for this. I lost my dog this week, I was searching for some help in grieving and came upon your video. So many people undermine and don't get the grief of losing a Beloved Dog that is your best friend for many years. I have been literally ill with grief, he was a part of my life, every minute of every day of his little life, an especially as he struggled with the illness that took him and we struggled to help him through it.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope the video helped, Vanessa Morgan. Please accept my sincere condolences. Take the time to feel what you need to feel.

  • @TheRedBastion
    @TheRedBastion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Maggie, my dog and best friend of 12 years, passed away yesterday morning. Thanks for this, it helped. I loved her like a sister. Unfortunately I was out of the country, but she passed in piece. Too anyone going through the same. God bless to you, your family and most of all, your wonderful pet who is resting happily in heaven.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss, thank you for your kind words to others going through a loss.

  • @sammyshehole
    @sammyshehole 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    July 3rd, my dog of 14 years went suddenly yet peacefully. I’m 31 now and she was with me since high school. Needless to say, I’m going to miss having her here to greet me any time I come home. I’ll miss the walks. I’ll miss her begging for my food any time I eat. But when I decide to get a new dog, whenever that may be, it will be a rescue from a shelter. So in some way, my old dog’s passing will be helping another dog to live and I think that’s one of the best ways to honor her.

    • @drdiablo7827
      @drdiablo7827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My pet rabbit of 7 years also passed away on the 3rd. He went in for a routine bladder stone removal but ended up having an infection and didnt pull through post op. Stay strong. Death is not the end but only the begining. Hopefully time heals

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That sounds like a great way to honor her, Bloody Persistent. Thank you for sharing.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your words of comfort, Dr Diablo.

  • @jeanfis
    @jeanfis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've lost some important people in my life, but loosing my dog last week was the most painful thing I've ever been through. Please don't compare those losses.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tena Fistonic, I hear you and am sorry for your loss.

  • @dianal8387
    @dianal8387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I just lost a beloved pet. This video was wonderful, thoughtful, and compassionate. Best I've watched so far, on this sensitive subject.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for your loss, Diana Latzanich. I have lost a few beloved pets, we are here for you.

    • @blerksnarfgut7332
      @blerksnarfgut7332 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm truly sorry for your loss. I recently lost my best friend Fancy and the emotional pain and confusion has been pretty unbearable. I miss her so desperately.

  • @clairebear2975
    @clairebear2975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you so much for this video. My cat has been missing for 3 days, its not normal for him at all, he is my soul mate, i am gutted, praying he will be home soon. My heart goes out to anyone reading this who is in pain over the loss of their precious pet. Truely. 💜💜💜🙏🏼🎇

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry to hear that. I hope he comes back.

    • @kcloud1186
      @kcloud1186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did he come home? :(

    • @neospori
      @neospori 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kcloud1186 cats usually leave home when they’re close to death, most likely so their owners don’t have to see them in that state. It’s actually a super interesting fact about house cats they’re pretty affectionate little creatures.

  • @alliemsfts
    @alliemsfts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    My 7 year old Boxer dog passed away today. He was just fine the other day and then he dropped dead this morning. He was my childhood dog and I just can’t believe he’s gone. I feel so lost without him here.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      alliemsfts, I am sorry for your loss.

    • @j.r.sandoval8498
      @j.r.sandoval8498 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We just lost our 6 month old Boxer this last weekend. It’s so hard to accept. I’m sorry to hear about your boxer.

    • @glock_9ine956
      @glock_9ine956 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry Allie I hope u feel better now

  • @lizamiran4149
    @lizamiran4149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I' m a bit offended when he said "low cost"....its not low cost, it cost my heart when my cat died. I was shook and i've never felt such raw pain and guilt. Low cost.....yeah right.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I didn't mean it like that, liza miran. The value our animals give us is precious. Hopefully we can be a blessing in their lives also.

    • @oliversdrawings4896
      @oliversdrawings4896 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My cat died today my mum took him to the vet and when she came back she told me he has to be put down. 😫😢😭

    • @_dabbe9676
      @_dabbe9676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dude, he didn’t mean it like that

    • @jamesrperry
      @jamesrperry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He didn't mean it like that, he meant that it is an easier introduction to death than losing a human member of your family. I love my pets dearly, but this is true.

    • @groovedynasty3929
      @groovedynasty3929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for saying that, I felt exactly the same, I was offended and tbh it took all the credibility from the video, even if he "didnt meant it that way". I personally was able to move on rather easy when close relatives died, but the unexpected death of my dog just broke my heart. I hope you are doing well, wherever you are.

  • @spicyturtle21
    @spicyturtle21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My dear left us too young he was just 5 years, I loved him like nothing else.
    I will always keep his memory alive

  • @babyct4801
    @babyct4801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's been a month since I lost my rat and I still feel like I'm permanently being inside that vet clinic, looking at him, having him slowly falling asleep in my arms after the injection. I blame myself for his death. My friends and family keep saying it wasn't my fault but I know it actually was. This rat was the only creature that needed me and that I truly unconditionally loved and I let him die. I didn't do enough and now he is gone.
    I'm sorry, baby. I'm so sorry.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      baby ct, you are replaying events without giving yourself an end. It will be an eternal loop until you write the ending. Tell yourself you are fine, place your beloved pet in circumstances that are favorable to him and of the time you will be reunited.

    • @delicateBruise
      @delicateBruise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He knows how much you loved him and he forgives you ❤️

  • @coraleehalla6269
    @coraleehalla6269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thank you for this video. Late last night my cat Gabriel died very suddenly 😭. I'm extremely sad right now. I've been through this before, but its still very hard. But thank you again for the tips.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss, Coralee Halla. Hang in there.

    • @giavannaa4462
      @giavannaa4462 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coralee Halla how did you deal with it? My cat doesn’t have long left.

  • @sofiajjk
    @sofiajjk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for this, I lost my 9 year old dog today. I remember the first day we brought her home and I'm so grateful that I got to meet Tina, she was the light of my life. This is all new for me since she was my first and only dog, so I didn't really know how I was going to get through it. So, again, thank you for this video.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      • sofia • You will get through this, it may be hard, but you can continue.

    • @sofiajjk
      @sofiajjk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you so much :-)

  • @beans8239
    @beans8239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Although mine may seem silly to most, but it has now made a scar in my mind. My hen who I have raised since she was a chick died today. I have a problem with bonding with animals to closely which causes me to be heartbroken for weeks. She was 3 years and she had been battling a illness for 2 weeks. We tried everything and went through many thoughts on what it could be. Just today we thought she had cancer or something similar. So I had kept her inside all day. At 1:00 she came to the edge of the box and sat on the towel. I took a picture and rubbed her. We had already concluded we were going to put her down, just not now. And she look at me then...
    ( MENTIONING SOME SAD STUFF BEYOND THIS POINT, BE WARNED )
    Then she all of the sudden flopped down her head and spread her wings. I lifted her head and it flipped down. She started flapping around in panic. I called my mom. She rushed in and turned the box toward her. She started crying as I could here the little clucks from the hen until silence. She looked at me. And that was it. I’ve been crying every since. I just can’t get the picture of her eyes wide red in fear, how scared she looked. I didn’t see her ever since my mom turned the box around, I didn’t have the guts to. I’m sorry I’m explaining this but it feels good to explain what’s going on in my mind. Rest In Peace my sunshine, Dixie

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am sorry for your loss, That Animal Lover. It sounds traumatic. Give yourself an ending to the story with peaceful thoughts.

  • @bambitaylor84
    @bambitaylor84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Well needed video. My Pomeranian went to heaven September 5th 2021 after 16 years with me. I was 27 when I got her, I'm 43 now.... I am not ok but dealing the best way I can. My Condolences to anybody that has lost a fur baby, it's not easy.. I cry everyday & I don't feel I'm myself anymore... 💖🙏😔

  • @Kikimarie96
    @Kikimarie96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just lost my dog of 11 years two days ago. I’m at such a low point... my heart is aching. That was my baby 🥺

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rissa Koch, I believe that your dog was your baby. Pets have a way of working themselves into our hearts like that. I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Eleven years is a long time to love someone; s/he must of felt your love immensely.

  • @duck7237
    @duck7237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I just lost my 14 year old soul mate. I'm an introvert and he was my everything. I will love and miss him forever. But right now I am inconsolable and broken.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Duck, it is o.k. it is hard and will take time to heal.

    • @whatwillbem6825
      @whatwillbem6825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so sorry 😞

    • @duck7237
      @duck7237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@LiveOnPurposeTV thank you.

    • @duck7237
      @duck7237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@whatwillbem6825 thank you for your kind message.

  • @GlamorousTitanic21
    @GlamorousTitanic21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My dog was put down today. She had congestive heart failure and could barely breath anymore.
    Rest now Bella. You’ll always hold a place in my heart.😭

    • @sk8hillzz
      @sk8hillzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      RIP to your dog Bella :( My dog had the exact samething, heart failure and couldn't breath and passed away Monday. So difficult to deal with the pain. I hope you are doing well and healing.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ethan Nelson, it is so hard, but I am glad she isn't suffering now. Take care.

  • @alexandraoster7872
    @alexandraoster7872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just wanted to say thank you... Lost my dog after she just turned 14. I knew they day was coming but there is no escaping the feeling of loss. To greive her feels not only necessary but also a way to give her respect. She was a very deer friend, so clever and in tune with her family. I will take my best photo of her and put it on the wall along with the rest of my family photos. Thank you again for this video.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't think we can prepare for the huge loss and emotions. Beautiful tribute to a wonderful friend.

  • @willevans3726
    @willevans3726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My dog collapsed this morning and couldn’t walk,my mum out her to sleep in my arms.We had a her for 13 years and i can’t bear a life without her

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Will Evans, it is hard, but you can go on. Live in the grief right now and be sad for the loss. It will get better.

  • @antoninaconert
    @antoninaconert 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Today me and my parents needed to say goodbye to my 13 year old dog...it was really painful to see it and I’m still crying...

    • @Fifthcell
      @Fifthcell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am sorry for your loss. I lost my 14 year old border collie this past Monday, and I can’t stop crying either. I wish for the best to you and your family

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am so sorry, I am glad you have a family to help one another.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fifthcell, thanks for your support.

  • @MsCppnpa
    @MsCppnpa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My pet dog died last Saturday and until now I'm still in "denial" stage. I always cry at night and Christmas this year will never be the same. His ashes will be delivered this week I know he will be with us emotionally and spiritually. I just want to share something Last Monday I had a dream while I was walking at the beach I saw my him but he was just looking at me, I kept on calling him but he's just looking at me then a man wearing white came near him and they are walking away from me. I know he is already pain free, happy and at peace. Thank you for being with us for 10 years I don't want another pet anymore this is so traumatizing for me.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MsCppnpa, there are stages of grief and you need to be gentle with yourself and go through the stages. The dream is a gift for you to begin healing.

    • @islimeyewout6316
      @islimeyewout6316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yh I understand I dont want another pet after the death of my budgie my stomach is churning

    • @victoriac8814
      @victoriac8814 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesterday I had to let my 12yr old dog bo go. I was numb and my jaw locked I felt as though it was a dream. Unfortunately it didn't go well as she had bad anxiety. I had to stay stop. Please give a sedative. I whispered in her ear I love you so much. Then a senior vet rushed in and took over. As soon as she done it I saw my bo in spirit she looked back and left with a man in white. And I also had a image in my head of a forest with a winding brook all my dogs were running free. I did cry out it's so heartbreaking. And also I know she is pain free and happy. I just miss her like crazy. The spirit realm is super hd earth where you can create. But I know when I go we will see all our beautiful animals. Thank you for sharing with me.

  • @Ichigo-gp9vq
    @Ichigo-gp9vq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I lost my pet rooster last night to some severe respiratory disease. He was the sweetest person in my life. I feel empty and I miss him so much

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so sorry. I hope the video is helpful.

  • @Lolabellacoco
    @Lolabellacoco 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For the past 13 years my dog and I have been inseparable. Every time I came home she was always there waiting for me and so happy to see me. She’s so smart and loving but tomorrow is her last day with me. She has congestive heart failure. This will be the hardest thing I have to go through so far in my life. I’m not ready to never cuddle with her or never see her again..

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't know how we can be ready for that, lolabellacoco. Plan how you will remember your dear friend.

    • @luzaidaperrone6407
      @luzaidaperrone6407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I understand completely i lost my dog yesterday my boston terrier of 10 years to bladder cancer i am haunted by the whole thing i feel completely destroyed inside i hope i can get over this me and my husband cant stop crying we dont have children our dogs are our children they sleep with us and live indoors . I feel as though i lost a son and no one understands how deep a love for an animal can go until this happens .

    • @donnakuhn9752
      @donnakuhn9752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly the same for me and my boy. Tobe. In two hours, he will be leaving me after 14 years. My heart and soul is breaking. He was MY baby and I was HIS mommie.

  • @casualbowloframen77
    @casualbowloframen77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My dog of 12 years, 4/5 of my life that we shared, just passed. She was my best friend, my pseudo-parent, and my closest therapist. She was a beautiful puppy. R.I.P Lily

  • @mcphan6881
    @mcphan6881 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This helps me alot, even though my puppy passed away a month ago, I still have a broken heart, he was my best friend even though he was only 4 months old. For anyone who also lost their pet, just remember that their not meant to last your whole life, YOUR meant to be there for them their entire life.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joan Historillo, what a great thought. Thank you for sharing.

  • @_JEBUS
    @_JEBUS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My chihuahua Toby was with me for 7 years. He was the best friend I've ever had. I had to put him down so I spent 10 good minutes with him and was with him the entire time of his passing. The pain is worse than heartbreak. There is no better experience in life than unconditional love. To have a little buddy who just wants to spend every moment with you. They're just to good for this world.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      jebusm86, honored to be on your team.

  • @Washiez
    @Washiez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Today I lost my best friend too early. He was only 4 years old. I held him in my arms and didn't want to let go.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry for your loss, Washiez. I am glad you could be with him.

    • @skipah2012
      @skipah2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Washiez same here bro, lost him this weekend, struggling with grief at the moment, glad I found this video

  • @sk8hillzz
    @sk8hillzz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    thank you for this video, put my pet down after almost 13 years of life, 2 weeks from her 13th birthday. had her from birth, difficult day.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for you loss, Craig Duke. Please remember the good times and be kind to yourself. You are never wrong about your feelings.

  • @MmostlyRandom
    @MmostlyRandom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    thank you for this video, I had to have my best friend Roger put to sleep today. (he was diagnosed with a cancerous lump on his tail about 3 years ago, they cut off half of his tail which slowed the cancer down and he was on various meds, the last few months he's just not been himself and it turns out that the cancer had moved to his bowels.
    yesterday he took a severe turn for the worst and I had no option, I had to face the thing that's been in the back of my mind for 3 years) last night i slept on the floor cuddling him just so he knew that even at the end I loved him as much as when he would sleep in my bed as a puppy. I think he knew he was dying and I can only hope that this brought him some comfort.
    he was 15 years old and I got him when he was 9 weeks old.
    he's only been gone for about 9 hours and I already miss him so much., I feel completely in limbo because I'll have to wait about a week to get his ashes back.
    (I'm going to have a little plaque made and bury the ashes next to his favourite shady spot in the garden)
    in the past year I have lost my Father, my brother and now my dog, I'm 45 years old and today I've cried more than i ever have in my life.
    losing my Roger has brought everything flooding back in one big final blow (it feels that way right now at least)
    I feel guilt because I know I should have taken him earlier (we've known about the bowel cancer for 6 months) but I simply couldn't face losing another member of my family so soon I know it was probably a bit selfish to try and hang on for so long.
    (since the death of my father i have moved back to the family home and become my mothers sole carer , she is a stroke victim and as you can imagine she's very upset too but Roger was my dog and I was his human, we lived together just me and him for most of his life and we did everything together during that time, at that time i was big into wildlife photography so me and Rog would go out for hours on end just enjoying each others company, him chasing squirrels up trees me desperately trying to get shots of them :)
    talking to my mother isn't helping me because she just bursts into tears which sets me off.
    throughout this past year Roger was the only one who would always bring a little smile to my face no matter how down i got or how stressed i was with the caring role for mum and I don't know how I'm going to cope without him.
    I have had 4 dogs throughout my life and although I remember them all fondly Roger was the once in a lifetime dog.
    I stayed with him as they euthanized him and he was very peaceful (they gave him a sedative before the injection) I know I did the right thing for my boy but it is so hard to sit here without him under my desk
    thank you for giving me some things to think about and a place to just write down my thoughts

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for writing and letting me know how the video has helped. I am glad you can write about Roger and how much he has helped you and been there for you through life's challenges. I am glad you are thinking about a way to have him close and a spot to remember him. Take care of yourself, MostlyRandom.

  • @djddhbdbd2581
    @djddhbdbd2581 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love how you choose your words carefully, saying things that are true but hard to deal with or accept. when I was younger i never thought my cat would die, but i started to realize that over those 20 years.

    • @LiveOnPurposeTV
      @LiveOnPurposeTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Djddh Bdbd, thank you for watching, I wish you the best.