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- Are you wondering if she likes you? Or signs that he likes you? Sometimes, someone can be so shy that the way they show that they like you might not be what you expect. For example, a shy person is more likely to text you instead of wanting to see you in person, because it is just too intimidating for them. A shy person is more likely to avoid your eye contact, but they blush when you look at them. If you're looking for the signs of attraction of a shy person, then this video could make your day. Lastly, a shy person is rarely if ever going to make a move, so you have to be the one to initiate if you want that date with them!
Writer: Ananya Sawarkar
Script Editor: Denise Ding
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Khin Fong
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
References;
Randy Skilton (May 2, 2022). 26 Easy-To-Miss Signs A Shy Guy Likes You. Retrieved May 9, 2022 from;
www.yourtango.com/experts/randy-skilton/how-to-tell-if-a-shy-guy-likes-you
Ratika Pai (April 11, 2022). 27 Clear Signs To Tell If A Shy Guy Likes You. Retrieved May 9, 2022 from;
www.momjunction.com/articles/signs-to-tell-if-a-shy-guy-likes-you_00688095/
The most important thing in any relationship is caring for each other and having a sense of us-ness (sorry couldn't really find a word for it). And when dating someone who is really socially awkward, reserved or just really introverted you just have to take the time and grow into it together. Don't try to rush things or everything will just crash.
I'm with somebody for a year and a half who has social anxiety and is usually the awkward type when it comes to group settings. And here's what I've learned,
Everybody is different, not just a little bit different but radically different! Just because they are a bit awkward doesn't mean they fit every mould in your head.
So, I think we should just forget our expectations and observe people as who they are. And then decide what we like about them and what we don't. Please remember in a healthy relationship any unhealthy behaviour from either person has to be resolved through mutual agreement, communication and patience.
Also, spending quality time is key. Simply doing things both of you enjoy. Don't force yourself or your partner to do something you or they don't like. The former is the mistake I made. Just do simple things, nothing too extravagant. Your goal should be to grow closer, not impress the other person.
And for the awkward silences, in the beginning, you have to get used to asking most of the questions. But remember, not to go too deep too soon just stay on the same wavelength. Soon enough you'll get used to just sitting around, having coffee, just chilling together in silence. Sometimes even saying nothing and just being together can be the greatest gesture of affection!
Amazing comment! More people should pay attention to this. I'm the more socially awkward/anxious/introverted one in my relationship while my bf is extremely extroverted with endless energy. We always "worked," though, as he's so open, confident, and holds no judgement so even after the first 5 min of knowing him, I felt completely at ease around him and could let my walls down, something I had NEVER done so quickly before. It took a little time to figure out all our quirks, but he eventually learned that when I get really quiet or just give short one-word answers, I'm not angry but instead hitting a low point in my energy levels and need time to relax and get it back up.
Relationships are never a "one size fits all" thing. We are all individuals and should be treated as such. If someone truly cares about you, they'll accept you, faults and all. It may take time, but being open about what you're feeling is key to understanding each other. No one can read minds, and for example, if I never told my guy about my energy draining in social situations, he probably would have always assumed I was either being super shy or was upset at him.
It's a two-way street. He gives me the time I need to recharge, and I give him time to be as outgoing as he needs to be. We go out and do a variety of things together, but in situations that would be majorly stressful to me, I have no problem "letting him go" to be his endearingly obnoxious self. 😊
thank u sm
Beautiful comment. Reminds me of my love.
I wish you the best.
@@sluttymctits4496 that's great! wish you all the best 😊
@@MrJimbissle Thanks!
Who else is shy and wants to see if this is accurate.
Me-
Me loll
Me and it is true😂
Me I-
@@kuhanlim1762 yeah honestly
0:26 They become silent and fidgety around you
0:56 They create opportunities to be around you
1:34 Talk to you online
2:09 They seem to be imitating you
2:28 They struggle to make eye contact with you
3:00 They notice everything about you, even social media posts
3:41 They surprise you with small gestures
AAAAAAAA NOO IF SHE WATCHES THIS IM SCREWED SHE WILL KNOW RIGHT AWAY
Thank you for posting this, helps to go through the video faster.
I figured I was the shy one, but looking at this, I am DEFINITELY the shy one. And he doesn’t even notice me, so he’s not the shy one. 😭
@@alexissey4023 AAAAAAAA SAME BRUHHHHHHH ADSFSFDFDDGDG
so VBD likes me.
@@someguywhoplaysroblox9533 Lol
It's even better when you're a shy person who likes another shy person 😅
this is legit my case. hahaha
Because you both can love each other at a comfortable distance?
I get it!
ME AND MY CRUSH IN A NUTSHELL BRO.
@@sabcuesame
As a shy person I can agree with what’s being said. Each shy person uses variations of these.
AAAAA YESSSSSSSSSS
Yes agreed bro
Totally
Exactly right, 100%
Yep, I’m not as shy as some shy people but I am very much an introvert and I can say I can relate to almost all of these, especially not being able to look them in the eye (,:
He smiles when he sees you.
He goes silent around you.
He listens attentively to you.
He stutters or trips up around you.
He blushes when you compliment him.
He asks a ton of questions.
He gets fidgety around you.
He volunteers to help you.
As a shy person I can guarantee that these are legit signs. I've done most of them every now and then
Which ones did you relate to the most?
@@Psych2go as of now, 2, 5 & 7. I like this one person at work and we're not very close. I know what time she would pass at the corridor or canteen of the company and I just wait for her to pass by that area even if it means I'm about to be late. I just really love creating opportunities to see her, BUT then I couldn't make eye contact with her whenever we're about to pass by each other (I'm such a weirdo, I know). I also love doing grand gestures for them ( I think mostly for my friend that I think I fell in love for) it was easier to make or do something for her that I know she would love because she's my friend and she'll think I only do those things because I'm just being a good friend. The rest of the signs especially the talking online and noticing their posts online, I used to do that when I still had my socmed accounts. But I don't do that anymore. The fidgety thing I can control myself not to do that (fortunately). Wow! This is long ass comment. I just really needed to get it out my system, so thanks
To be honest,I was struggling with mental health problems and I was always thinking low of myself without even knowing of what I was suffering with...but your videos helped me to understand mental health and psychology better...and now I know how to deal with such issues.....Thanks a lottttttttt🧡
Same here🙂
Same
Same
Same
Yea same, Psych2Go are amazing, i self diagnosed and learned many things and i need to visit mental healt proffesor i guess.
Ah yes I did all this around my crush who’s an extrovert. My shyness was so extreme that whenever he asks me to buy him something and give stuff, I literally walked backward towards him so I won’t have to make eye contact at all. I could barely make a sound. The day he confessed, he bought me cake while I wanted to give him a plushie. I walked towards him with my face and head wrapped with a towel and we exchanged gifts without making eye contact. Another one, my friend wanted to invite him to her room (we lived in a hostel) cuz we had extra food we couldn’t finish (and also cuz they wanted me to be closer to him). Obviously I freaked out and when I saw him coming, I ran behind the door screaming and hid in the toilet. Yes it was really extreme. I was dying of cringing while doing it, but was worthwhile since he found it quite fascinating. Fast forwarded to present day, he’s now my bf of almost 3 months!
Is he still your bf?
congrats 🥰
@@kaiackerman3727 I mean, this was posted 2 hours ago, I don't think they broke up in an hour??
@@mina.mnys.217 Oh Lmao somehow my phone glitches it sum but it was showing me it was a year ago 😃
@@kaiackerman3727 I'm dead😂😂😭😭😭
Whoever is reading this, I pray that whatever you’re growing through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out great as your circumstances will change. Have a fantastic day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤️
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Thank you, I really needed this
Thanks for these videos. Was diagnosed with cancer today so need all the great TH-cam videos I can get! Keep up the good work
I’m so sorry, stay strong we believe in you!
Stay strong bro
I hope you will overcome cancer.
Sending love 💕
stay strong. 🤍
Thanks to your videos I’ve been able to figure out that nobody has feelings for me
Is that a good or bad thing for you?
@@Psych2go not to sound rude but it i thinks it’s obvious that it’s a bad thing- i also don’t think anyone has a crush on me
At least you have lungs (probably)
@@ursjakey u guys only think???? Lmao I believe there can't be a single person in this planet earth 💀
I have a crush on this one person, but they are really really quiet and shy- so I'm trying to observe 😭
Oh my word, if only I could have seen this video months ago!! This just made me realize not only do I do these exact things with my crush, my crush does them too! I’ve been overlooking them. Everything makes so much more sense! I was seeing his lack of engagement as him being uninterested, not shy. I can recognize now that I definitely fall into this same category. The thing that I can relate to doing the most is not being able to make much eye contact and having to look away and only glance , my feelings being too strong and overwhelming that I just can’t 😝😊
Never too late to initiate!
I can relate to "never being able to keep eye-contact". I feel like this is what I do the most around my crush.
Hi again! 🎉
yippee!!! 🎉
Heyy!!
Hii
Hiiiii
Hi
1. They become silent and fidgety around you (0:25)
2. They create opportunities to be around you (0:55)
3. They talk to you online (1:34)
4. They seem to be imitating you (2:08)
5. They struggle to maintain eye contact with you (2:27)
6. They notice everything about you, even your social media posts (2:58)
7. They surprise you with small gestures (3:40)
*Imitating.
This is like a guide to notice understanding an autistic person trying to make friends with someone. lol
Feels like I'm the shy one 👉🏻👈🏻
@@dannochoa2 omg HAHAHAH the typo ☠️☠️☠️
@@FoxesATrot It happens.
My crush is the cutest guy ever. We go to the same tuition together and we always sit next to each other and study together. I’ve watched all these types of videos to look for signs that he likes me back and boy, I feel like he watches these as well. He is a true gentleman to me and showers me with compliments and teasing. With other girls, he is your typical chaotic guy best friend who insults you from time to time. I feel so calm and safe around him whenever I feels stressed at some point in my life. I want to ask him out but I occur as a uptight, smart girl who is very loud. I worry that I may be reading his signals wrong.
As a wise man said "jump into th pull as bare as you were born and have no shame." Wich means just do it at maximum it'll be akward
Today I found out my crush knows I liked him & someone told him. But I’m so confused because I never told anyone who my crush was. How would they find out? :/
they probably just guessed.
Maybe your crush guessed?
Mindreading is real they used their psychic power to get precious information
Joke's on you, I am the shy person and I do catch myself doing some of these.
Haha Jokes on you all, am the not shy person just here to see if the one crushing on me likes me and I don't know because I'm a potato. 😝
That's cool i'm the person who was called wall eating mcgei after i ate dry wall
This was very helpful... Love is a very hard thing to understand. But it's a normal part of life! Love can end up healthy, negative, or unhealthy. I've never felt love yet... and this helped me understand what love is actually like. Love can start with something small, Like having a conversation at lunch! Thanks for this, It helped me understand a little more! :)
You guys make things so simple and helping. Luv u ❤️💜
One thing I’ve struggled with is trying to reject or say no to a shy person who has displayed these traits. If I didn’t feel the same, it feels crushing to me and like I’m a bad person for not feeling the same. But it’s also not fair to string them along and make them more withdrawn to people going forward if their trust is broken. Also, shy people are not immune to hearing what they want to hear or seeing what they want to see. So even when I’ve tried to be nice but blunt, they haven’t seen that I’m saying no and then when I do say no some have tried to negotiate and then called me mean. Relationships are complicated.
just saying, your not a bad person if you choose to reject someone you don't share the same feelings with.
at the end of the day, all of us have our own preferences and yours is just as valid as everyone else's so don't feel bad for not feeling the same.
That just means that person is simply not shy. I mean if he can be capable of being entitled to have you, then he is not shy. A real shy person would of hide their feelings to a point where they don't bother competing for attention at all. If that person never ask you in the 1st place, then you cannot claim you were rejecting. If he is the one doing the initiating such as asking you out, then he is not shy at all. Being able to chase and having a guts means he have courage.
I’m not shy at all until it comes to romantic feelings. Like, I’m waaaay to good at hiding my feelings and acting normally, so people don’t think I’m shy, but can never tell if I like them
this is so accurate for me. i’m constantly struggling with eye contact and i look away as soon as i see him glancing at me. i also stalk his social media but can never talk to him lollll
Your voice is so calming 😌💜
As a shy person and well also a Lil socially awkward person i think this viedo is correct except the imating one i don't do that one but maybe others do.... So just look out for these and basically if u help out ur shy crush is any way, trust me they will always think about it 🤧
This just makes me realize how obvious I am
this is all honestly how i act around everybody mutually, its unintentional. especially the eye contact one
as someone with social anxiety, this is very relatable
As a shy person, I would be so horrified to have someone think I like them and they don't believe me and tell me I do because of this video and because I'm shy I won't know what to do 😂😭
Lovely video.
Yup. This was my hubby around me. I’m so glad I picked up on a lot of these, or we would not be celebrating our 25th anniversary meeting this month🥂😍👩❤️👨
That's fresh Stacey LaValley Lambert
2:27 is that me being exposed?
The whole video described me, i didn't even know that I was shy until someone recently told me, and this video really made me finally agree that I am shy. Thanks for the amazing videos!
I'm that shy person and I have done all things(almost) you mentioned. 😁
Yess! I have waited for this video😊
Woowww, para ser sincera sentí un poco de miedo al darme cuenta que me describía a la perfección cada punto.
gracias por hacer estos vídeos, hacen que me comprenda un poco mejor 💜
X2 aunque más que todo diría que soy miedoso xd
I remember being that person.
She Loved me through it.
She let me Love her back.
I am so sorry she is gone.
She was my 1st love. Alas,
I learned how to feel Love
Before I knew how to show it.
To share it. To hold it.
To Be our love, in all that is our life.
. . . All that was our life . . .
[ sigh ] I am so damn sorry.
and I cant even tell her that.
I literally show all of these signs towards my crush (minus the social media/texting stuff cause I’m too shy to ask her for that). I usually see her like once a week at work for the past 2-3 months. We have a lot of similar interests and she’s the person I feel most comfortable talking to. Even then I kind of freeze up a bit, especially when I think about asking her for her number so we can hang out outside of work. Ugh I wish I had more confidence in myself.
awww.
your gonna make me cry
I don’t want to assume about my crush’s feelings towards me, I just find it funny that we tend to avoid having eye contact with each other lol.
I love your channel !!! It comforts me and also give me some facts that people should know
Glad this video could help you!
That's a really useful video. Thank you again 🙂.
Also I am currently helping a lot of people with dating lol
I'm helping lots of people with rumbling their high perspectice of themself by making smart and calculated insults at the internet in a goofy way. Keep doing the work out there man
@@bumpkin8009 That's really Nice.
And yeah, you too man, keep the good work going
For awhile I'm happy that I subscribe to this channel it's helps alot
I’m pretty shy, but I don’t go out of my comfort zone to go to my crush. I feel like i’m too suspicious and I get really nervous around her. I want to get close to her, I’m just too nervous.
This means Psych2Go cannot expose you. All the other people who complains in the comment of being exposed is because they were not shy in the 1st place. They chose to get everything out of their chest and confess. So when they get rejected by their crush, all they would do is blame it on Psych2Go. 2:11 for example, why copy their crushes? See this example. A person needs to already be out of their comfort zone to mess with their crushes like that. When I have a crush on someone, I also would not expect them to have a same hobbies or any same personas as me. As a shy person, I would not be dumb enough to be somebody I am not and I don't think copying somebody is a way to impress anyone. I am not going to end up pretending to like something just to fit in. By looking at 2:11, I know you would not go around trying to be like your crush because that will make you suspicious and will give your crush a reason to walk away from you. I mean sure, you can admire from afar but no need to draw suspicions right. Some of these traits that Psych2Go named aren't classified as shy. Rules of being shy is to avoid creepy behaviors. So for 2:11, Psych2Go had forgotten the #1 rules about being shy.
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I love potatoe peels and ocasional, drywall
I honestly do these a lot more than i actually thought i am a very shy person and when i do like someone i never really realized the things i did i would occassionally but not as much as i thought
This is completely true, my girlfriend always do these 💕
I love your videos!
😄😄so true,thank you Psych2Go 🤗🤗.Liked the animation and the content 😇😇.
7 Subtle Signs A Shy Person Likes You
1. (0:25) They become silent and fidgety around you
2. (0:55) They create opportunities to be around you
3. (1:34) They talk to you online
4. (2:08) They seem to be intimidating you
5. (2:27) They struggle to maintain eye contact with you
6. (2:58) They notice everything about you, even your social media posts
7. (3:40) They surprise you with small gestures
Great animation
Great video 💯👍
As a shy or reserved person I can agree with the points made in the video like especially when I was younger
Can you make a video on types of aesthetics people love?
I love your videos!💙
I’m shy and I act the same way around her and she watches this channel I know it’ll be good that she sees this video because I’ll know when to just let it go but I’m scared of rejection
Hii I love your content keep up the good work
I always like these videos and really appericate them
I can surelly relate and I done alot of them!
Yeah I'm definitely freaking shy alright but I'm an extrovert or something because being alone tires me down and hanging out with people makes me energized but it depends on people
Thats weird, but you do you
@@bumpkin8009 yeah but I think my shyness was developt through embarrassment so I can't interact with people if I don't know if they'd laugh with me or laugh on me
As a shy person... I admit that Im been doing this towards my crush every single day🤭💗💗💗
Which signs do you see yourself doing the most?
Me too. The thing is that my crush is outgoing and not shy, but I am. So I'm afraid that I have to be different just for him when im not ready.
watching this as a shy person to make sure i don’t do any of these so they can’t tell
I noticed some of these in myself mostly because I highly value my friends and want to show them that I care about them but I think it’s funny because it was a video about how to tell if a shy person likes you and I am not shy nor do I have interest in anyone
this actually describes me!
Im a hard introvert and this is so accurate lol, Im glad that im already in a loving relationship now.
YOU ARE TALKING SOOO RIGHT ABOUT ME!!!
Why am i even watching this
i love these videos 😍
when they said U had a crush and U wanted to see if they like you
me: randomly clocks this vid out of curiousity
1. Yes, it seems like my crush gets shy around me sometimes unless he’s with his friends, then he’ll be talking to his friends if they’re all around me.
2. No, I don’t think so on this one
3. We don’t have each others numbers or socials so this one is a no
4. No, I don’t think this is the case. I can’t tell though
5. Yes, sometimes I feel like
6. No, my crush and I hardly talk to each other, we made like a sentence to each other within the past two years of middle school.
7. No, never.
This is pretty spot on. If I like someone and not even in a romantic I get them little gifts or share my food/snacks so that’s how you really know that we’re cool LOL
Very good video yes yes I approve
I noticed: talking to me online, always sending me videos/memes that make me laugh, recommending series that he finds good.
As for me: making myself bump into the guy, being silent and fidgety, talk online, notice everything about the guy and surprise him with small gestures. Oh wait, that's almost all of them LOL
“Being unafraid of not being liked is the best way to be liked.” - Ines de La Fressange
I do the mirroring thing on purpose all the time
I love your videos
Yeah, I've done most of these things
Seems like a good video
My God, how I love it when the character answers the narrator himself 🥰
as a ‘shy’ person, ABT THE EYE CONTACT.. i’ll stare into your soul and my heart will be beating fast asf but i wont be able to remove my eyes from you 💔💔💔 idk whats wrong w me but i just cant
I love your videos psych2Go✨💜
Am i the only type of person that acts unbothered around her crush? I know i shouldn't do it, because he can take it as a sign of me not liking his presence, when in reality its the exact opposite, but i just can't stop. Like I'll go out of my way to NOT talk to him, NOT make eye contact, and i just run away when i see him. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO STOP IT 😢
I can confirm it's accurate, i did all of them :)
the notifications for these videos arrive at an oddly specific and correct time 😶
Ikr!!!
Thank you
Can you please do a video on how to recover from emotional trauma? It would help me a ton. I won't go into the nifty gritty, but I have moderate depression and severe anxiety, and I'm also a very emotionally sensitive person. I'm a strong empath. I have a hard time saying no. I'll never get mad or blame someone even if it's their fault. These traits have been used against me, and resulted in a nearly successful suicide attempt about a year ago. I still haven't recovered from the emotional trauma I experienced. My medications are no longer working, and I don't know how to communicate my thoughts and feelings to my therapist. I know it may or may not help, but your channel has helped me before, and I'm running out of ideas.
I really hope you see this. I'm desperate at this point. I want to say thank you for making this content. Even if you're not often told this, it saves lives.
@@deska9985 lots of love friend :) ❤️❤️
Thank you. You too.
@@deska9985 xoxo fellow trauma survivor
Hi Deska, you might want to look up Dr Gabor Maté and Bessel van der Kolk on TH-cam. They are experts on emotional trauma. Then there's 'past reality integration' which has helped me getting rid of anxiety. But I know there's no one solution that helps for everyone. I hope you get better!
i would like a show like there is the main character or multiple characters go through different mental disorders and learn to overcome them to do what they want it will probably be in this same style
Someone pls send this to Adrien from miraculous ladybug cause he is ✨blind✨
Cutiepie ! ... so relatable
Thanks
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Bro these yr recommendations tryna give me hope even if it's clear she doesn't like me 💀
I’m a very shy person, and the guy I like is also, watching this is to see if it’s accurate for me and to see if it’s like how my crush acts
That would of meant that guy secretly likes you but refuses to admit it. If he were not interested in you, he would not investigate you in the 1st place. So how would you know that guy is watching this video? I mean if I were to like a girl, I don't even tell her I watch this video to begin with.
@@hp2546 ik he’s not watching this video bug maybe he does like me
i need this
I think I’m the shy one… my crush is talkative…
Wow, a video about me
I can totally relate
As a shy girl this is soooooooo accurate 😭😭😭😭
I have an issue with the eye contact thing, but not to that intensity, and not for that reason. I just have issues with maintaining it, and "eye" don't know why.
KRISTIAN, I LIKE YOU A LOT. -from that girl sa room 305 ng Monchere HAHAHAHA di ko na kayang iapproach ka, ubos na ang lakas ng loob ko 😭
I don’t create opportunities to be around someone I like, I create opportunities to get away from them bc I’m more awkward in their presence.
I need a video that helps a shy girl talk to her crush n fight that shy voice telling me to hide
Charlotte / Shantotto as "young red"
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