I am a board certified therapist and a consultant in the field of advanced communication. I can honestly say that I have never heard anyone speak on these issues in a way that I agree with more. Throughout this entire video, I found myself agreeing with every point you made, having reached the very same conclusions, myself. Great job, laying it all out there!
@@toniarouxhe665 I made aswell. I wish I would have learned this sooner. Had to pay the price of a broken heart for this :/ But it makes sense. If your life is structured and you are structured (not easily moved), that brings a lot of safety. Woman are more emotional and their minds can change often. If you always swing along, they can't depend on you. Then you're more like a child.
No, you make God your priority. Also, God's grace of protection (Divine Economy/Provenance/Governance) flows through the man. That's why when she leaves your authority, she is no longer protected under the umbrella of grace that the man has for his family (from God).
@@Karll541Hypergamy and female emotions are mostly subconscious. Done mostly by instinct. Sometimes under bad advice or influence from social media or "friend". At times people know is wrong and proceed anyway. In the long run They can regret these decisions. Is important for both men and women to learn about themselves. See the signs. Know when you might be self sabotaging
@@truthtelleranon no you don’t get what I’m after either. Maybe my question is worded poorly but both you and the person replied to me stated the extremely obvious part that I’ve heard an obnoxious amount of times. Ffs the explanation of female nature/instinct has been repeated in bp channels over and over again ad fucking nauseam. What I mean is, if someone becomes aware of their nature does that mean it can be tempered? How might their behavior change if they’re aware of their own nature? And how much potentially? And if they’re not aware does that mean a complete separation of conscious thought at times or most of the time? Just saying women don’t know what they want to me is a cop out for deeper analysis
@@Karll541 being aware of one’s nature especially for women does change things. Most of us don’t want to be manipulative or conniving. It’s subconscious, sure, but it’s a learned social behavior to avoid being too assertive or needy. It’s a lot easier to be direct once you know what’s up.
I am fifty-four and a father of four. I have been married to my wife coming up on eighteen years. I have been through a lot with my first marriage ending due to my first wife's infidelity. I had to learn all of the things you are sharing on my own through trail and error and a lot of introspection. Your advice to men is excellent. It is refreshing to see someone put out this positive information.
Woman will only leave you if they know it will absolutely break you. 1. Make yourself a man by having a "life setup" 2. Check the boxes off that are universally attractive to all woman(finances, status, future, skill, fitness[v taper]) 3. Never make woman your number 1 priority in life 4. Never lose your vision, and your masculine creativity 5. Remove all spectator sports and leisure activities( which were created to keep you in sedation and deprive you of your masculine competence) 6. Wipe away limiting beliefs and limiting sense of identity. STAYED WITH YOU TO THE END
The key is to be indifferent with women and focus on prioritizing whats truly important, you're job your fitness and hobbies and God should be your number 1 priority over women
As a creative person, I agree that being in a commitment with a woman will only drain you of all your imagination and drive. Keep your creativity as your #1 priority always.
Casey, I stayed to the end... your point 6 is solid gold. Men MUST avoid attaching too strong of an "identity" to their present selves in order to allow themselves to grow into the new identity of the better man they want to become.
So sad i pissed away the greatest relationships of my life just because I didn't understand this at the time. I destroyed love by simple loving too much and now it's too late.
That depends on you actually. Take 6 months and go monk mode. Become a new you. Go absolutely no contact. She we contact you and if not you will attract another.
I can’t even tell you how broken I have been in 39 years of life.. I am finally learning how to fix myself listening to you as I’m sobbing like a goddamn baby and then shutting it off like a goddamn man…. Everyone listening to this is…. if you actually hear it like I do, you will finally be able to live your life the way God wanted you to. This is truly the only podcast that is helping me survive and I only learned about it four hours ago. When I make it, #Zander… I’m coming to give you retribution.
I know man, I'm 2 yrs out after 13 yr being a step dad etc. Recently was talking w a real pretty chick and seemed to go well for a month. She got a second job said she couldn't offer me anything maybe someone else can. That one hurt worse than the 13 yr relationship did for some reason. That was couple months ago. Definitely feel ur pain man. U have to be like iron and steel out here brotha. 💪🔥
@@daviedood2503 fuck that bitch. They never say what they mean. Basically she said "I wasn't that interested in you from the start but I was bored so I tried you out. The more I saw the more I didn't like about you. You mean nothing to me and I want to end this quick and simple because I'm not attracted to you... but I met this other guy I am going to put some time into". That is exactly what that bitch said to you without saying it honestly. That's when you say fuck her. If it bothers you think of times with her and realize that it was her lying to you and being fake. She probably was trying to figure out if you had money and would spend it on her. When answer was no not really... she cut the act real quick. By her saying she has nothing to offer you.... she was projecting. She actually was saying you had nothing to offer HER! Pay close attention to what people say. They always bring things up even in small ways that tell you how they feel about you. And often they will Revere and project onto you what is actually going on with them in regards to you. Also watch people's eyes. It all adds up and you can read them like a book. It gets uncomfortable alot because you will find that almost everyone is a piece of crap and will fuck you over in an instant. It's depression
Stayed with you until the end. This was the best self development video I have seen. I realized 3 years ago that it wasn't the woman's fault that I couldn't keep a relationship together. I have been watching and reading for 3 years and I have made many improvements, but this is the best I've seen.
You have to be in a position to leave a woman without feeling lost or broken. You leave those feelings up to her, when you leave, on your own terms. Never, ever commit to a woman so deeply, such that you can't quit the relationship without feeling vulnerable. Always have backup options. Remain stoic and in control.
Stayed till the end. Point six hits hard. You showed up in my feed a couple of days ago, ironically at the height of my pretty brutal divorce. Your insight had been extremely helpful with my current situation, and it has opened my eyes to where I went wrong in my marriage. I wish I had your insight years ago.
Perfect video Zander. My GF, we about 4 months of breakup, actually this gave me the "gas" I needed, I as most man after 3yrs I started getting confortable. She left my in my worst moment, lost my job too. She knows I'm a red pill awareness, and teach guys this, so is more reason to her try to break me 😂
“The number one of fight club is you don’t talk about fight club” you shouldn’t let her know your insight she’ll think your playing a character. They want some one to just get it
True love. A man can love MORE THAN ONE WOMAN just as a woman can love more than one child. You can have 2 or more wives that are devoted to you alone and harmoniously cooperate to keep you happy.
It's true. I was dating this guy who purposely was late to work because he wanted to spend time with me. It was a serious turn off because it showed he didn't have his priorities straight. And also, if it's so easy for him to put pleasure before priorities, how will I know he won't cheat on me further down the line with another more attractive woman? What if I have kids with him, and he puts pleasure before being a father? So yeah, Zander is right
How are you only at 1.8k likes… Casey Zander explains women better than any other man, woman human being, that I have ever heard in person on video on podcast on any social media…. The wavelengths that I have been feeling since about four hours ago, listening to him has surpassed anything I have ever lived or felt or believed in in my entire life..
Casey, what a powerful message! I cannot thank you enough and how spot on you are. I wish I would have known this powerful mesage before, being an MBP student has changed my whole view on life. In the end no one is coming to the rescue and us as men need to take full responsibility and empower ourselves rather than weaken ourselves with so much vice and distraction out there. We all get 24 hours and it is up to you what you do with those hours. It all starts and ends with you not your chosen companion!!!
Your right Women will leave You if they think it will absolutely break You My Ex did that to Me and she was feeling Pretty Good about herself, that was until she saw Me the following week out and Happy with another Woman who looks 10 times better than her, I don’t know I think that might have broke her, oh the irony.
Love this video. I'd just add "get help when you need it but make sure the therapist knows you want to be stronger in masculine virtues". Its hard to find a therapist but if you dealt with tons of early abuse it might be a game changer.
Stayed till the end!!! It’s mind blowing how much bullshit we have been fed especially about women the things even my own mother would say about loving them and making them happy and all that’s got me was pain my girlfriend of 5 years the first year was amazing lots of sex and love from her the last 4 years were brutal and energy consuming, trying to please her and make her happy, gained like 70 pounds because I made her my priority I wish I knew about you back in 2014 😫😫 barely now I’m starting to get myself back together from that darkness
Stayed to the end ... Im older man...& What you're saying is so true..... They want a man that knows who he is----- first& foremost. Good job young man...💪👍 N
Never make her ur number one priority. Never show all ur cards early on and go all in, dont stick to the same routine with her. Keep her guessing and dont sacrifice ur wants n needs to give her ehat she wants. Dont ask her where she wants to eat or go do this weekend, you tell her you're picking her up at 7pm tomorrow that u made plans for u two. Take charge and make all the decisions for date nights she will respect you. Keep that woman curious she will chase u
You changed my life with this video Casey I wish I had the money to Inroll in mbt but I will eventually I'm a recovering addict living in sober living and my entire life I've felt something missing as a man this information is priceless my father was didn't teach me anything about being a man I'm 34 and for the first time I'm hopeful for my future I can't put into the comments all the things I want to say just know you changed my life I watch all your videos thank you for what you do
Before I told my girl that I like her, I did an exercise all by myself. I imagined the whole thing fall apart after reaching its greatest height and I asked myself, "can you survive that?" Only and only when my answer was absolutely firm, that I'd not only survive but emerge stronger (if it were to happen), that I finally decided to approach her. Also, I told her straight up about my inner dialogue. So the very beginning she knows that I will not only be alive if she leaves but alive and kicking harder. Thank you, Casey. So much valuable than the "Top G" non sense going around in the manosphere at the moment.
Adaptation is indeed just a way of life. But it is as Casey said a learned skill. One thing I have learned through the wisdom of others and experience is the importance of vision. The more powerful your vision is with regard to any one aspect of your pursuit in life, the easier it is to maintain focus and overcome the inevitable obstacles. Excellent work.
Congratulations on checking out the real estate. I thank god for having you follow your purpose. I've seen so much value more so now recently. The content has been ideal and spot on. From being divorced and rebuilding one day at a time. It's awesome to learn from my mistakes and pick up strong tools like this channel to move forward on my God-given purpose. Thanks, Casey
Thanks bro. I took me this year to realize my self worth and started working on a better body and giving myself goals in live. I spent the most part of my thirties. Just partying and wasting my god given time. I am in a spiritual journey to better myself.
Facts bro! Avoiding feelings for a chick cuz you're afraid of what may happen is cowardice to the max. Go all in if it's worth it, just never sell yourself out. Haven't made it to the end of the vid yet but I definitely fkn will! Let's gooooo 🤙
Made it to the end. Wish I would have had this when I was younger. I'm old by society's standards. However, this is MY life. I will do the best I am able from here. Thank you Casey for your wisdom and inspiring guidance sir. Time to put in some work. Let's go!
Hi Steve, bro… Even posit when I left the room… Even switch to my cell phone so I can make the comment from my TV… Good words thanks for the bolster💪🏽😎
“Stay with me till the end”. Of course bro! This is top notch insider information that every man, especially young men need to know and take notes if necessary. Thank you Casey for telling it like it is.
I once met up for a catch up with some former workmates )male and female). One of them was someone who I was attracted to but did nothing, because at the time she was married. When we had a catch up, she had been with her boyfriend for 3.5 years (after divorce) - possibly being ploughed by the guy even BEFORE she was divorced. We hadn’t seen each other in over 3 years, and all she could do was *bitch* about her boyfriend and how she couldn’t stand him and thought of ways to k*ll him (😬). 6 months later I heard from someone else that she had been off on holiday with him - neglecting the friendship she had with this friend. Holly f***, man.
This is a situation where a nice guy would want to fly in with his red cape and tights and "save" this woman when in reality, she doesn't want to be saved. It sounds like she's with a man she couldn't break and she's complaining about it yet she's still with him. Even went on holiday with him! And that's women's nature in a nutshell. Don't pay so much attention to what they say as much as what they do! It's crazy!
It broke me because I thought I had a family not necessarily because I lost her....I told her I'm hurt more for my legacy and children not so much her. If we had no children I would have gladly allowed her to leave with no fight smh
Stayed to the end. Good morning Casey, just wanted to say. I think your videos are awesome. My relationship just ended and she broke me bad. Started to watch your videos and they have been a huge help in giving me the knowledge and more of understanding it all and wanted to thank you. I'm gonna continue watching. I don't want to be a broken man ever again. Thank you Casey Zander P.s. Your videos do not, are not, the same. Gotta watch it to the end. There be haters.
I agree with this for the most part for dating, it tends to get complicated when coming from a marriage and you both build a life then a divorce happens and everything changes.
Reminds me of my teen sister, she started dating and began advising me, "life is all about relaxing, letting go and going with the flow" and I could never understand that. Letting go is a feminine role along the path of least resistance that leads to entropy. Boys were probably telling her that in order to seduce her mind. Men need to persevere uphill with a sense of purpose and responsibility because anything else is not masculine. To not do so is either feminine or childish.
You nailed it! Go with the flow is feminine and was said to me to convince me to date him! Now I am dating that man who wants to go with the flow in life. 🤦♀️ Thank you for this comment.
i had a lady friend of 10 years, never been intimate or romantic... then new years this year, we partied and slept together for the first time. 3 months later after the most intense love making sessions i've produced, she became emotionally conflicted. at the same time i didnt care if she wanted a relationship or not, further confusion. i ended up leaving her alone because i wasnt reacting the way other dudes do and she could not handle it at all. the fact i left with no problem nailed her coffin shut.
Honestly bro,that's a chad move. My breakup with my ex put me into the exact same mentality right now believe it or not. Like literally I'll probably do the same thing you did with the next girl when the opportunity presents itself and honestly bro...I will give zero fucks about it unless she is the one.
She may have had a change in feeling toward you after sex because female orgasm releases a bonding hormone. She felt the connection because of biology.
You are absolutely correct. I have had 4 careers in my life and will soon be starting my fifth and final one. I'm 62 and starting another career. I have never been into sports, tv, movies or all the social crap that people just sit and "watch" get out there and "DO". Participate in life. Have a plan and execute. If your woman is worth anything she will follow your lead and take her part in your life. Don't ever think you can't do something. Its your life, take it by the horns and enjoy the ride. Some will be better than others but its only a one time deal. As you get older you'll realize that life is exactly what you make of it. You want a top tier life, make it. You want to succeed in a career, do what others won't and you'll be "the guy". Its your life make the most of it.
Glad I stayed until the end. Number 6 drove it home for me. Very helpful video when I needed it the most. I have had success in my life. And I've had failure as of recent. It's never roo late to fo after new things. And get focused the way I was supposed to. Sometimes we get sidetracked but you have to dig deep. Thank you Casey
I had a girl tell me about a month ago that she was gonna leave me and she wanted me to know she will always be the best thing to ever happen in my life like I will never be happy again when she leaves. It’s been really hard but Casey hit home with this one.
Hahaha, tahts exactly what my ex told me, but backwards, she said she wouldnt me happy without me, (im the one who broke up with her, you will see why) she calls me one night, coz she wanted to go to a party with a griend of hers, she calls me and ask me if I wanna go. I say no, cant im busy. Under common condition she would have made a tantrum for such answer, but she didnt, she just said "okay". Then i knew something was off, i tracked her, she went to the party anyways, i noticed her facebook feed, a certain guy appeared in the background in almost every shot. I decide to break up with her the next day. The mentioned day comes, she makes a ugly cry, she tells what you already read. 10 days later, she started dating the same guy in the party. Long story short, dont trust women blindly, much less their tears, they will try to gaslight you to get leverage, and they rage when we do not need them.
😂 thats her dream. My ex wife thought id fade away into oblivion and ive never better within weeks of her absense. I built myself up during the months of seperation she despised me even more 😂
@@LiamRaphael Yeah that was a year ago and I’ve done a lot better since to the point I don’t even want a relationship and am completely fulfilled with myself
Learned this at 36 after divorce. 41 now and re learning while in a LTR. I slowly backslid through my current relationship. I’m not stuck though. I choose to move forward again. Stayed with you till the end.
During my separation and now divorce, I went into full on self development physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually I’ve never felt so awesome in such a long time. I’ve survived divorce real well due to the fact that my ex was NOT my priority but only GOD JESUS was and will always be my priority. This Bro is right on! By the way, I quit watching football after high school which was long time ago cause it’s just vain.
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I stayed!
Stayed with Casey till the end .
"Modern women are living in a world MEN CREATED...." Damn that's heavy...
I wish I had your amazing insights when I was your age…
Don’t you think that it is sad to never see someone you love again? I think it is.
I am a board certified therapist and a consultant in the field of advanced communication. I can honestly say that I have never heard anyone speak on these issues in a way that I agree with more. Throughout this entire video, I found myself agreeing with every point you made, having reached the very same conclusions, myself. Great job, laying it all out there!
Wow. ❤that’s crazy I thought Casey was just another Rico Sauve opinion. But therapist approved? That’s crazy.
"Women will leave you ONLY when they know they break you..." Words of absolute wisdom!!!!!!!!!!!
When you say it like that, that's pretty f'd up though lmao.
@@ScrimaGames1what's more fucked up is that its true 😂
That’s how nice they are 😂
If that‘s really true, then every relationship is just a powergame and deep down not real love.
Women are incapable of giving love
To add to that, friendzoning you is also leaving you
never make a woman your number one priority - words to live by
I make this mistake.
@@toniarouxhe665 I made aswell. I wish I would have learned this sooner. Had to pay the price of a broken heart for this :/ But it makes sense. If your life is structured and you are structured (not easily moved), that brings a lot of safety. Woman are more emotional and their minds can change often. If you always swing along, they can't depend on you. Then you're more like a child.
Also women: why am I not your number one priority?
No, you make God your priority.
Also, God's grace of protection (Divine Economy/Provenance/Governance) flows through the man. That's why when she leaves your authority, she is no longer protected under the umbrella of grace that the man has for his family (from God).
@@harlanhock6486god is B.S.
I'm a woman watching and this man is helping me understand my own nature.
That is interesting. Are you saying you don’t understand your actions and why you do them? Like do you have an example?
@@Karll541Hypergamy and female emotions are mostly subconscious. Done mostly by instinct. Sometimes under bad advice or influence from social media or "friend". At times people know is wrong and proceed anyway. In the long run They can regret these decisions. Is important for both men and women to learn about themselves. See the signs. Know when you might be self sabotaging
@@madjunir thanks for the non answer lol 🤣
@@truthtelleranon no you don’t get what I’m after either. Maybe my question is worded poorly but both you and the person replied to me stated the extremely obvious part that I’ve heard an obnoxious amount of times. Ffs the explanation of female nature/instinct has been repeated in bp channels over and over again ad fucking nauseam. What I mean is, if someone becomes aware of their nature does that mean it can be tempered? How might their behavior change if they’re aware of their own nature? And how much potentially? And if they’re not aware does that mean a complete separation of conscious thought at times or most of the time? Just saying women don’t know what they want to me is a cop out for deeper analysis
@@Karll541 being aware of one’s nature especially for women does change things. Most of us don’t want to be manipulative or conniving. It’s subconscious, sure, but it’s a learned social behavior to avoid being too assertive or needy. It’s a lot easier to be direct once you know what’s up.
I am fifty-four and a father of four. I have been married to my wife coming up on eighteen years. I have been through a lot with my first marriage ending due to my first wife's infidelity. I had to learn all of the things you are sharing on my own through trail and error and a lot of introspection. Your advice to men is excellent. It is refreshing to see someone put out this positive information.
What changed with your second marriage? Any tips to a lasting marriage? Do you have to be financially stable in order to even date seriously?
You should listen to Rich Cooper. He’s excellent for the seasoned gent.
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They’re cheating if they have Instagram
You are a great source of inspiration man.
Greetings from Spain.
Woman will only leave you if they know it will absolutely break you.
1. Make yourself a man by having a "life setup"
2. Check the boxes off that are universally attractive to all woman(finances, status, future, skill, fitness[v taper])
3. Never make woman your number 1 priority in life
4. Never lose your vision, and your masculine creativity
5. Remove all spectator sports and leisure activities( which were created to keep you in sedation and deprive you of your masculine competence)
6. Wipe away limiting beliefs and limiting sense of identity.
STAYED WITH YOU TO THE END
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So why be with a woman when you know they are this evil?
@@janerikpe5852not all women are evil
Thank you for the summary 🤝
Thanks. Didn't need a 24 min vid to state 5 things.
At 65, I’m finally understanding what happened
With my relationships! Thank you Casey
The key is to be indifferent with women and focus on prioritizing whats truly important, you're job your fitness and hobbies and God should be your number 1 priority over women
You're not allowed to have hobbies. You have to work work work because if a woman sees you doing something for leisure, she loses interest lmao
Cuz you said so, right?
@@pepepez6335work work is ONLY for the poor ones.
I'm kinda wealthy but i go after My hobbies everyday, and i have several girls dating
As a creative person, I agree that being in a commitment with a woman will only drain you of all your imagination and drive. Keep your creativity as your #1 priority always.
true
Casey, I stayed to the end... your point 6 is solid gold. Men MUST avoid attaching too strong of an "identity" to their present selves in order to allow themselves to grow into the new identity of the better man they want to become.
snort coke and smartass on.
So sad i pissed away the greatest relationships of my life just because I didn't understand this at the time. I destroyed love by simple loving too much and now it's too late.
My friend it's never too late
It wasn't just you, bro! She knew how to pull the puppet strings!
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That depends on you actually. Take 6 months and go monk mode. Become a new you. Go absolutely no contact. She we contact you and if not you will attract another.
You'll find a something waaaaaaaay better brother... Believe in yourself and be patient... good things happen to good people ‼️👊🏽‼️
Love and respect from jamaica. Changing men for the better one video at a time. 💪🇯🇲
I can’t even tell you how broken I have been in 39 years of life.. I am finally learning how to fix myself listening to you as I’m sobbing like a goddamn baby and then shutting it off like a goddamn man….
Everyone listening to this is…. if you actually hear it like I do, you will finally be able to live your life the way God wanted you to.
This is truly the only podcast that is helping me survive and I only learned about it four hours ago.
When I make it, #Zander… I’m coming to give you retribution.
I know man, I'm 2 yrs out after 13 yr being a step dad etc. Recently was talking w a real pretty chick and seemed to go well for a month. She got a second job said she couldn't offer me anything maybe someone else can. That one hurt worse than the 13 yr relationship did for some reason. That was couple months ago. Definitely feel ur pain man. U have to be like iron and steel out here brotha. 💪🔥
@@daviedood2503 fuck that bitch. They never say what they mean. Basically she said "I wasn't that interested in you from the start but I was bored so I tried you out. The more I saw the more I didn't like about you. You mean nothing to me and I want to end this quick and simple because I'm not attracted to you... but I met this other guy I am going to put some time into". That is exactly what that bitch said to you without saying it honestly. That's when you say fuck her. If it bothers you think of times with her and realize that it was her lying to you and being fake. She probably was trying to figure out if you had money and would spend it on her. When answer was no not really... she cut the act real quick. By her saying she has nothing to offer you.... she was projecting. She actually was saying you had nothing to offer HER! Pay close attention to what people say. They always bring things up even in small ways that tell you how they feel about you. And often they will Revere and project onto you what is actually going on with them in regards to you. Also watch people's eyes. It all adds up and you can read them like a book. It gets uncomfortable alot because you will find that almost everyone is a piece of crap and will fuck you over in an instant. It's depression
“All of life is work” I love this. Make your work your pride and passion.
Stayed with you until the end. This was the best self development video I have seen. I realized 3 years ago that it wasn't the woman's fault that I couldn't keep a relationship together. I have been watching and reading for 3 years and I have made many improvements, but this is the best I've seen.
You have to be in a position to leave a woman without feeling lost or broken. You leave those feelings up to her, when you leave, on your own terms. Never, ever commit to a woman so deeply, such that you can't quit the relationship without feeling vulnerable. Always have backup options. Remain stoic and in control.
Stayed till the end. Point six hits hard. You showed up in my feed a couple of days ago, ironically at the height of my pretty brutal divorce. Your insight had been extremely helpful with my current situation, and it has opened my eyes to where I went wrong in my marriage. I wish I had your insight years ago.
Perfect video Zander. My GF, we about 4 months of breakup, actually this gave me the "gas" I needed, I as most man after 3yrs I started getting confortable. She left my in my worst moment, lost my job too. She knows I'm a red pill awareness, and teach guys this, so is more reason to her try to break me 😂
“The number one of fight club is you don’t talk about fight club” you shouldn’t let her know your insight she’ll think your playing a character. They want some one to just get it
@@thefootballer3664 Facts, actually some girls find it attractive, but if she is your girlfriend, she can use it against you
congrats
True love. A man can love MORE THAN ONE WOMAN just as a woman can love more than one child.
You can have 2 or more wives that are devoted to you alone and harmoniously cooperate to keep you happy.
Casey, you're a real genius in this department. Well done and please keep on helping.
*It’s eye-opening to see how easily relationships can fall apart when this mistake is made.*
It's true. I was dating this guy who purposely was late to work because he wanted to spend time with me. It was a serious turn off because it showed he didn't have his priorities straight. And also, if it's so easy for him to put pleasure before priorities, how will I know he won't cheat on me further down the line with another more attractive woman? What if I have kids with him, and he puts pleasure before being a father? So yeah, Zander is right
Stayed till the end. Pure gold.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Stayed till the end. This resonates heavily with me. I've been such a fool. No more foolishness.
"It's good to love a woman." This is the goal of all this real talk.
How are you only at 1.8k likes…
Casey Zander explains women better than any other man, woman human being, that I have ever heard in person on video on podcast on any social media…. The wavelengths that I have been feeling since about four hours ago, listening to him has surpassed anything I have ever lived or felt or believed in in my entire life..
Ikr
Stayed with you to the end. Good video straight facts! “Be about it, don’t talk about it!”
This is sooo true - "Women will leave you when they know it will break you"
Great video. I been preaching this stuff my whole life.
Good bc so have I and maybe not my whole life. But women will call you a women hater or that you’re backwards. As tho they want to keep men weak.
Stayed till the end. At 55 years, U got me completely engrossed with the wisdom you shared. Thank you
Stayed with you till he end
Some of the best advice in the manosphere right here.
Great content brother.
Casey, what a powerful message! I cannot thank you enough and how spot on you are. I wish I would have known this powerful mesage before, being an MBP student has changed my whole view on life. In the end no one is coming to the rescue and us as men need to take full responsibility and empower ourselves rather than weaken ourselves with so much vice and distraction out there. We all get 24 hours and it is up to you what you do with those hours. It all starts and ends with you not your chosen companion!!!
Your right Women will leave You if they think it will absolutely break You My Ex did that to Me and she was feeling Pretty Good about herself, that was until she saw Me the following week out and Happy with another Woman who looks 10 times better than her, I don’t know I think that might have broke her, oh the irony.
Love this video. I'd just add "get help when you need it but make sure the therapist knows you want to be stronger in masculine virtues". Its hard to find a therapist but if you dealt with tons of early abuse it might be a game changer.
Stayed till the end!!! It’s mind blowing how much bullshit we have been fed especially about women the things even my own mother would say about loving them and making them happy and all that’s got me was pain my girlfriend of 5 years the first year was amazing lots of sex and love from her the last 4 years were brutal and energy consuming, trying to please her and make her happy, gained like 70 pounds because I made her my priority I wish I knew about you back in 2014 😫😫 barely now I’m starting to get myself back together from that darkness
Point 6 is solid!!! Thanks, man. God bless you.
Made it to the end of your video! Can’t believe you’re under 30 years old and have such knowledge! Thank you!
23:57 That’s some real life changing advice! Thank you!
Stayed to the end ... Im older man...& What you're saying is so true..... They want a man that knows who he is----- first& foremost. Good job young man...💪👍
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Never make her ur number one priority. Never show all ur cards early on and go all in, dont stick to the same routine with her. Keep her guessing and dont sacrifice ur wants n needs to give her ehat she wants. Dont ask her where she wants to eat or go do this weekend, you tell her you're picking her up at 7pm tomorrow that u made plans for u two. Take charge and make all the decisions for date nights she will respect you. Keep that woman curious she will chase u
Stayed to the end. Good points.
“Stayed with you until the end”. Good points - focus and live life like you’re on 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This channel is a game changer!
Your point on sports, and entertainment distractions was eye opening and smart I've never viewed it in such a way well done on the channel
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
I lost a smoke right before I found your vids. Now I have a nice rotation. Thank you, Casey! Keep spreading the word.
Bread and. Circuses. Dude I have been SCREAMING THIS for decades! CZ You are my freaking hero in this day… Stayed to to the end.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Stayed till the end. Thanks for the great info.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
My man bashing watching sports. I love it. Create!
That's right.Fix up the house,plant a garden,fish,hunt & preventive maintenance on vehicles etc,etc
Evidently my ex misjudged me when she left me with two preteen sons. It didn’t break me, I rose to the challenge and became much stronger.
The Games and ENTERtainment have been around since the Roman Empire to control the masses, great work Casey
So true, thanks for the insight
You changed my life with this video Casey I wish I had the money to Inroll in mbt but I will eventually I'm a recovering addict living in sober living and my entire life I've felt something missing as a man this information is priceless my father was didn't teach me anything about being a man I'm 34 and for the first time I'm hopeful for my future I can't put into the comments all the things I want to say just know you changed my life I watch all your videos thank you for what you do
Miss your Uncle C back in the office! intro 💪
Before I told my girl that I like her, I did an exercise all by myself. I imagined the whole thing fall apart after reaching its greatest height and I asked myself, "can you survive that?"
Only and only when my answer was absolutely firm, that I'd not only survive but emerge stronger (if it were to happen), that I finally decided to approach her.
Also, I told her straight up about my inner dialogue. So the very beginning she knows that I will not only be alive if she leaves but alive and kicking harder.
Thank you, Casey. So much valuable than the "Top G" non sense going around in the manosphere at the moment.
dont tell her everything, keep the best to yourself in case everythings wrecks appart. Hey ,just a suggerence.
Adaptation is indeed just a way of life. But it is as Casey said a learned skill. One thing I have learned through the wisdom of others and experience is the importance of vision. The more powerful your vision is with regard to any one aspect of your pursuit in life, the easier it is to maintain focus and overcome the inevitable obstacles. Excellent work.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Bro you are something else truly the only and best content creator in this area you have given me everything i needed respect
Congratulations on checking out the real estate. I thank god for having you follow your purpose. I've seen so much value more so now recently. The content has been ideal and spot on. From being divorced and rebuilding one day at a time. It's awesome to learn from my mistakes and pick up strong tools like this channel to move forward on my God-given purpose. Thanks, Casey
Thanks bro. I took me this year to realize my self worth and started working on a better body and giving myself goals in live. I spent the most part of my thirties. Just partying and wasting my god given time. I am in a spiritual journey to better myself.
Casey, stayed until the end. Powerful message and so true. Thank you.
This video is 24k gold!!!! amazing insight a how-too
Casey's examples might be extreme sometimes, but you cant miss the points. Great job brother
3rd or 4th vid… this dude drops pearls of wisdom everywhere.
Subscribed.
Thx brother!
Stayed with you til the end
Facts bro! Avoiding feelings for a chick cuz you're afraid of what may happen is cowardice to the max. Go all in if it's worth it, just never sell yourself out. Haven't made it to the end of the vid yet but I definitely fkn will! Let's gooooo 🤙
Made it to the end. Wish I would have had this when I was younger. I'm old by society's standards. However, this is MY life. I will do the best I am able from here. Thank you Casey for your wisdom and inspiring guidance sir. Time to put in some work. Let's go!
Hi Steve, bro… Even posit when I left the room…
Even switch to my cell phone so I can make the comment from my TV… Good words thanks for the bolster💪🏽😎
“Stay with me till the end”. Of course bro! This is top notch insider information that every man, especially young men need to know and take notes if necessary. Thank you Casey for telling it like it is.
I already know most of this but you are providing valuable information in this video for most people who don't know this
HELL YEAH I STUCK AROUND TILL THE END
I once met up for a catch up with some former workmates )male and female).
One of them was someone who I was attracted to but did nothing, because at the time she was married.
When we had a catch up, she had been with her boyfriend for 3.5 years (after divorce) - possibly being ploughed by the guy even BEFORE she was divorced.
We hadn’t seen each other in over 3 years, and all she could do was *bitch* about her boyfriend and how she couldn’t stand him and thought of ways to k*ll him (😬). 6 months later I heard from someone else that she had been off on holiday with him - neglecting the friendship she had with this friend.
Holly f***, man.
This is a situation where a nice guy would want to fly in with his red cape and tights and "save" this woman when in reality, she doesn't want to be saved. It sounds like she's with a man she couldn't break and she's complaining about it yet she's still with him. Even went on holiday with him! And that's women's nature in a nutshell. Don't pay so much attention to what they say as much as what they do! It's crazy!
Never listen to what she says. Watch what she does.
It broke me because I thought I had a family not necessarily because I lost her....I told her I'm hurt more for my legacy and children not so much her. If we had no children I would have gladly allowed her to leave with no fight smh
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Stayed with you till the end
I’m running my log truck listening to the wisdom. Thank u
Stayed to the end. Good morning Casey, just wanted to say. I think your videos are awesome. My relationship just ended and she broke me bad. Started to watch your videos and they have been a huge help in giving me the knowledge and more of understanding it all and wanted to thank you. I'm gonna continue watching. I don't want to be a broken man ever again. Thank you Casey Zander
P.s. Your videos do not, are not, the same. Gotta watch it to the end. There be haters.
This is your deepest concept yet
Stayed till the End🔥
I agree with this for the most part for dating, it tends to get complicated when coming from a marriage and you both build a life then a divorce happens and everything changes.
Facts..going through it now
Stayed to the end 👍🏾
Your point on spectator sports is on target. I've never been a pro sport fanatic for the very reasons you quoted.
Reminds me of my teen sister, she started dating and began advising me, "life is all about relaxing, letting go and going with the flow" and I could never understand that. Letting go is a feminine role along the path of least resistance that leads to entropy. Boys were probably telling her that in order to seduce her mind. Men need to persevere uphill with a sense of purpose and responsibility because anything else is not masculine. To not do so is either feminine or childish.
You nailed it! Go with the flow is feminine and was said to me to convince me to date him! Now I am dating that man who wants to go with the flow in life. 🤦♀️ Thank you for this comment.
i had a lady friend of 10 years, never been intimate or romantic... then new years this year, we partied and slept together for the first time.
3 months later after the most intense love making sessions i've produced, she became emotionally conflicted. at the same time i didnt care if she wanted a relationship or not, further confusion.
i ended up leaving her alone because i wasnt reacting the way other dudes do and she could not handle it at all. the fact i left with no problem nailed her coffin shut.
What a chad.
Honestly bro,that's a chad move. My breakup with my ex put me into the exact same mentality right now believe it or not. Like literally I'll probably do the same thing you did with the next girl when the opportunity presents itself and honestly bro...I will give zero fucks about it unless she is the one.
She may have had a change in feeling toward you after sex because female orgasm releases a bonding hormone. She felt the connection because of biology.
You are absolutely correct. I have had 4 careers in my life and will soon be starting my fifth and final one. I'm 62 and starting another career. I have never been into sports, tv, movies or all the social crap that people just sit and "watch" get out there and "DO". Participate in life. Have a plan and execute. If your woman is worth anything she will follow your lead and take her part in your life. Don't ever think you can't do something. Its your life, take it by the horns and enjoy the ride. Some will be better than others but its only a one time deal. As you get older you'll realize that life is exactly what you make of it. You want a top tier life, make it. You want to succeed in a career, do what others won't and you'll be "the guy". Its your life make the most of it.
Adaption is an absolute must, it can lead to greater opportunities. This video is absolute gold.
What you say is truly deep. Stayed with you until the end
Stayed with you until the end brother. Everything you say resonates with my intuition. Thank you for changing my life.
Stayed to the end💪🏾
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Watching you everyday lets me actually feel 10x better. It all make sense now
this is so true
Glad I stayed until the end. Number 6 drove it home for me. Very helpful video when I needed it the most. I have had success in my life. And I've had failure as of recent. It's never roo late to fo after new things. And get focused the way I was supposed to. Sometimes we get sidetracked but you have to dig deep. Thank you Casey
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
I had a girl tell me about a month ago that she was gonna leave me and she wanted me to know she will always be the best thing to ever happen in my life like I will never be happy again when she leaves. It’s been really hard but Casey hit home with this one.
Hahaha, tahts exactly what my ex told me, but backwards, she said she wouldnt me happy without me, (im the one who broke up with her, you will see why) she calls me one night, coz she wanted to go to a party with a griend of hers, she calls me and ask me if I wanna go. I say no, cant im busy. Under common condition she would have made a tantrum for such answer, but she didnt, she just said "okay". Then i knew something was off, i tracked her, she went to the party anyways, i noticed her facebook feed, a certain guy appeared in the background in almost every shot. I decide to break up with her the next day. The mentioned day comes, she makes a ugly cry, she tells what you already read. 10 days later, she started dating the same guy in the party.
Long story short, dont trust women blindly, much less their tears, they will try to gaslight you to get leverage, and they rage when we do not need them.
That’s disgusting, she’s probably a narcissist. Never look back man
😂 thats her dream. My ex wife thought id fade away into oblivion and ive never better within weeks of her absense. I built myself up during the months of seperation she despised me even more 😂
@@LiamRaphael Yeah that was a year ago and I’ve done a lot better since to the point I don’t even want a relationship and am completely fulfilled with myself
All the way to the end. Not missing a word
Learned this at 36 after divorce. 41 now and re learning while in a LTR. I slowly backslid through my current relationship. I’m not stuck though. I choose to move forward again. Stayed with you till the end.
During my separation and now divorce, I went into full on self development physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually I’ve never felt so awesome in such a long time. I’ve survived divorce real well due to the fact that my ex was NOT my priority but only GOD JESUS was and will always be my priority. This Bro is right on!
By the way, I quit watching football after high school which was long time ago cause it’s just vain.
Awesome video Casey! Speaking truths, thank you for that.
I'm so glad I came accross this video. Great work man.
Thanks. Great. I'm from Australia. Queensland. Toowoomba. Fantastic. All best
Stayed till the end. Makes sense to me. Thanks for teaching.
Stayed with you to the end, exceptional video
Stayed with you until the end!