5 STEPS to make WOMEN wildly ATTACHED and Obsessed WHEN DATING YOU (Female Nature Fantasy)
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Hey Casey, thank you for the video! There is a few things I would like to point out:
1. The start is a bit paradoxic "do not be needy, because then she will like you", makes the only motivation to not be needy: neediness. There has to be a more important reason for deciding to not be needy than only her approval.
2. This (as all your videos) is talking from the position of you (as a man) taking control over the whole relationship. Unproductive imo, because most guys fail out of insecurity and the feeling to have to control everything and not trusting the woman to also see their imperfect side. Sounds stressful like hell. The most fulfilling interactions I had with women, when I did not need to think about if I am weird or weak or whatever. If she judges me for who I am, she is not right for me. Sometimes I even behave a bit weirdly on purpose to test, if she can handle it.
3. You do not say, how to achieve these mindsets you are talking about. Here some information on that:
a) Meditation, if possible with a master (I can recommend Zen-Buddhism, but christianity also has some nice things to offer). Go for silence retreats, that help to accept emotions and not run away from them.
b) Therapy, but first read some books on it, because the outcome will depend on you.
c) Survival trips in the wild. You learn how to be alone, without distracting yourself from your feelings and how to enjoy the nature.
d) Men's groups, where you both do cool stuff together but also share feelings, even the weak ones. One way to not be weak in front of a woman is to get other places, where you do not have to perform every time. Instead of punishing each other for being weak, men can support each other in their vulnerability. If you ever helped a man, while he was crying, you know what I am talking about.
e) Improvisation theater. Helps with learning, that it is ok to fail and not punishing yourself for it. Also helps a lot for self expression and charm.
f) Dancing. Apart from it being a great way for getting emotions out, learning to have a nice body language, liking your body and learning some nice skills, the most important part is, that you will meet some hot women there, you will never sleep with -> that is how not to be needy.
g) Martial arts. Defend yourself, and handle concurrence between men in a productive way.
I know, that you say "concentrate on one thing", but if I look at the comment section under your videos, I'd say that a lot of the guys first need to get a good self-worth before they can even think about substantially producing something long-lasting in the world. I did those things for a long time and now I am concentrating on my job (quantum engineering research) with only one hobby atm (dancing).
1) 0 sexual thirst
2) inconsistency
3) remove romance
4) provide a lot
5) well connected social circle
#4 sounds like being a mark or a target
Please be careful with 4
@@Dansenpai8 No authority is absent of responsibility, a mark would qualify as one who does the opposite of the other 4 principles, 99% of women who possess genuine desire for a masculine man who provides will not view him as a mark, though you must take care to screen your options for any and all discrepancies
@@Mrrlegit 4 must be practiced in conjunction with 1-3 none of these steps are isolated
All of these are contrary to indoctrinated belief and true btw, this is why. They want challenges and when they get it they lose interest it is just how and what they are petulant children
Detachment is the key. Understand that your desire for sex is utterly and completely irrelevant. No matter how much sex or female validation you receive, it will never be enough to satisfy. Let go of the need for intimacy and you will be free to explore the world without the smudged up glasses provided by horniness. You are infinitely more valuable than whatever sex you provide and you should only associate with women who offer the same. Sex is the byproduct of a real, healthy, strong relationship. Be still and grounded by yourself, with yourself and in your own mind. Those are the ONLY things you actually have ownership of; no woman will ever be able to fill the spiritual hole you have in your heart. Delve within and discover the truth, that or suffer the consequences of attaching to fleeting feelings.
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Amen, my friend, God bless you. It is a true wisdom.
Thank you I needed this
Beautiful words yo!!
Mmmkay
my favorite quote from casey zander: "This is not good."
"This couldn't be furthure from the truth"
"The hungry never gets fed"
"This is total bullshit"
@@nimamz1999 he says this every time 😅
"This is very important"
4:18 men have lost the abundance mindset and it's now women who have that. Men today try to rush things with women because they lack multiple options, they are afraid another guy will reach the finish line with her before him or she lose interest etc. Listen, once you are THE MAN she will NEVER lose interest. Next, no matter who else she is seeing or even sleeping with OR EVEN MARRIED, once you are THE MAN she WILL make herself available to YOU.
Abundance mindset =mature masculine ; scarcity = childish immature
This guy knows.
I'm like facts! Dats facts!
Yes I have rushed things over her.now i hardly she see her.but whenever we made eye contact.please guide me what should I do?? My brain keeps demotivating and sometimes motivates me.plus she lives in my area I cannot avoid her.
@@kv999o41We need more information to work with if we're going to be able to help you. Who, what, when, where, why, & how?
6:05 not sure why i made this video go on so long, but listen. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE BY NATURE FOR A WOMAN TO LOVE A MAN. She can only love how you make her FEEL IN THE CURRENT MOMENT. She doesn't love YOU, she loves the CIRCUMSTANCE. This why they say they bored, grow apart and all that jazz because how you made her FEEL initially is GONE, now you are routine and predictable and not throwing her emotions all over the place. So yea, do all this, but it is not YOU she loves, it's the CIRCUMSTANCES / EMOTIONS you make her FEEL doing these things.
Nonsense, most women are like this now but that’s not the way they’re biologically designed. The women you’re talking about are all too damaged to pair bond.
The definition of love here is very important. A healed woman who knows her value and worth and loves herself will absolutely be able to love a man, especially if he is equally yoked. The kind of woman you are speaking of is a woman is wounded and traumatized and needs to work on her inner healing. And the fact that you believe a woman can not love a man indicates you need to some inner healing as well.
Underrated comment. I agree for sure. The two comments above are merely reactions to your comment. Here is the thing: the original comment is true and the two reactions are true. The question is which one is more true? There is no doubt that 90% of the time women are only in love with how they feel in the moment. Women are fickle. So its always best to be aware and protect yoursel guys with what will be true 90% / majority of time.
Thankfully, I've recently learned that only the worst of women fit this category. There are plenty of good women out there too, but you won't find them on apps or in clubs or at the gym.
@@DrMic2112 so why do some women stay with the same guy 60 years until death then? Doesn’t really add up
Thing is men need to have patience when dealing with women and not be so concerned about who else she might be seeing or dealing with..... Just stay in frame and not be anxious for anything from her..... And preserve your masculinity until she shows you that she deserves it from you and no matter what she's doing away from you, you will get the best from her when she is with you.
Nice one 💪
@spruce5123 It’s a gamble.
"If the answer zero, thats why im makkng this video"
😂😂😂😂😂😂
The 1st column is pure gold
These concepts have made me into a beast bro...this guy knows what he's talkn about ive been applying these things over the years (unconsciously) but I never knew why women responded certain ways when I showed less emotion and was distant...it's crazy to see someone actually break these things down in a way that can be internalized...
Casey and his zen-like understanding of women. This is solid gold info I wish I had 30 years ago!!!
This is great advice. I can confirm all of this from my own experience. I particularly like the idea of ordering lots of stuff to give a feeling of abundance. That is actually more important than going to an expensive place. The problem with these expensive places is often that they give a "boring" vibe, be it a hotel or a restaurant. They are mostly full of stuffy business people or crusty old folks, which most girls do not like. Places should be more fun and chaotic and not the regular place where all guys with a decent income take women. Try to find some "secret" place in your city or nearby, some place which has great food and service, but that is not well known. Then you will come across as someone who really adds value to the girls life, way beyond simply spending a lot of money (which any guy could do).
In other words, put your purpose first. Retire your parents, get your money up, pay off debts. If she’s the one, she’ll be there for the ride.
5 is so important. One friend can fuck the whole thing up.
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Casey your content is great. Most of it is spot on. And I am a psychologist. Very impressed with your knowledge and advice.
you're a hero casey
i rock with casey heavy,his not coaching to men that just want to hook up but man that are looking for long term love in this modern era
Sleeping with women is overrated. We want their souls
Diggin' the board
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6:10 and listen, if u not CONSTANTLY DOING THINGS that keeps her in her friend group COMPLAINING & PRAISING YOU ALTERNATELY, she won't be around with you for long because it means you are not engaging her FEELINGS/EMOTIONS.
Appreciate ya Cas! Your a real game changer little bro.
That was a pretty good video!!! Keep up with this model!
Soo good! 👍🏽 thank you Casey 🙏🏽
Very well done Sir!
Brilliant. Love your work Casey.
Thank you Casey my real hero....... I learnt a lot from your videos & thus have been to ignite feelings in my girl who never had any affection towards me...... With lots of love from India.......
Thanks Casey for comign in to my life bro 🙏❤
Thanks bro it helps me to understand so I can teach to other guys.
social circle-Yes. Thanks for the video as usual.
Gratefully for the knowledge 💯 ( 🇿🇦 - cape town ).
I don't agree with telling men to save money if they don't have enough for dates. Because this will only create a false perception. Whether you have the money or not, you shouldn't be splurging on first dates..
And women don't mind spending money on someone they like. However never take advantage of that because that means they value your presence. Always try and repay rewarding good behavior. Money is only a tool
My favorite Casey quote. It could be more far away fr the truth 😄
This is like a fkin treasure man amazing!! ❤
casey youre an expert: what is the best option to do when youre "in love". whats the best thing to do for self control, and reduce feeling "emotional" in those cases? i presume distancing would be appropriate but would like to hear your thoughts. ps its a colleague at work, im not dating her, just trying to act masculine as possible in her presence. thanks
unsubscribed to every other dating coach, Casey the only one speaking the fact right now!
Hey Casey. Great vid! Can you make a video that talked about how to reinvigorate established relationship and keep the woman wanting you and not wonder if.
Visit Amsterdam with
Out her
Learn eachothers love languages. Try couples counseling. Court her. Make her feel loved and appreciated, express to her your desire to be respected and honored. Communication is key!
need more Casey videos on LTR game
how is showing abundance in a restaurant any different from buying planetickets for her from the last video? like where is the difference?
Food is resources
Id say the food is also for us to enjoy together
Very nuanced. Abundance mindset is having enough provisions to feed the women in your life no problem. Flying one girl out shows high interest because if you had hundreds of women in your vicinity wanting to see you then you wouldn’t have time for the ones not in your vicinity let alone pay for them to come there. Hope you understand friend
10:12 - 10:45
@@YTSpirit1 how did zander lose his gf? I want a video on what went wrong.
great advice...followed it to the T but still got dumped eventually. There are no guarantees. Probably failed to satisfy hypergamy.
Don’t be too hard on yourself if she had a high body count, it’s always gonna be and uphill struggle if she’s damaged and ran through
You fail because you listen to Casey PS. If you were genuine and not playing a stupid game, you might still have her.
Inconsistency... in "conditioning and learning" (psych) class I learned that the most effective "schedule" of programming through reward/punishment conditioning is an inconsistent schedule. It is more natural, and frankly it is what God uses.
Bro I love Casey
If I exercise all that, I'm never talking to her, she keeps making eye contact inviting me but I have to somehow talk to her, get her contacts and not show her Im interested at the slightest. This won't work at a bar. This will work with a girl you see frequently, like yoga class or something.
Partly true, it's harder at the bar because it relies on true rizz to start conversations nonchalantly
I've been watching ur videos for a while now and used ur tactics on a girl. At some point I made her mad at me and a few minutes later she replied that she fell in love with me and that she wants to be with me. 😂😂 I thought she was gonna insult me or say leave me alone but she did the complete opposite. She's obsessed with me now and she says things like "don't be so mean to me I love u". Women are so weird she had other guys too that wanted her they were showering her with compliments and simp behavior I gave her the complete opposite and she is now attracted to me. Their brain is just so twisted it's interesting that's why a lot of women feel attracted to murders they will take a guy who came out of jail, they don't care. They want to fix them.
That's not love, it's trauma bonding. She's not going to respect you and give you what you need in the long run, she's only stroking your ego...for now.
@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife No it's not, your sprouting drivel. It's the fact that she has beauty and all men have said the same boring crap that her mind and body has gone dormant. He got her riled up, held his composure - which is very masculine.
@@bobbyj-x7v I was responding to the commentor. We don't know if she is physically beautiful as this was not mentioned in the comment. And I'm not speaking drivel. I'm speaking from experience. Many women carry around a lot of trauma and they project it outward onto men. They don't understand how to recognize a healthy man and when they do find one, it feels unfamiliar and scary. They tend to be more attracted to toxicity because that feels more familiar. And if you are a guy who is playing psychological games with a broken woman, you are toxic and likely have trauma as well. All facts.
Does anyone else notice that he use that woman in his most popular video, that so cool I’m getting flashbacks
Something I read in 3% man! “Never go double dutch and providing is important, but the abundance date can get a bit fury as you could attract money grabbers! if you don’t have the resources, she will expect it every time, it not only will hurt your bank you will train her to expect it every time, and when you can’t she will think your lying and this erodes trust”
Do a video on where to set the first date/link, depending on if their a 304 or a girl worth dating
304s don't get dates fam... meet up at your house or theirs or hotel
Once you stop giving a damn, nothing bothers you, and things get better 😂
How many times can I make the same video using different words?
Casey: Yes
12:40 she wants you to have competent friends so she can move onto them once shes done with you
Knowing this knowledge makes me not want to deal with women rn and just focus on myself. I’ve only been with women so I don’t feel lonely
Nah Casey drop the video you just dropped bro, dont delete it. I'm struggling with it.
genius.
The viewers of this channel are high quality (“don’t watch this if you don’t have an attention span”) also why his views are low
Basically headman nation has cool ppl
Casey, does these apply to a long term relationship too?
I know I need real friends... the ones I have could probably not be more unhelpful. The harder I work to improve, the more they hate.
love it!
"Women do not like men who are cheap" ~Casey Zander❤
Can you clarify the inconsistency of your advice?
A few videos back you said to give her a terrible first date and cut it short.
Now it’s 5-star experience? 😂
What’s the trigger for the change?
Casey you mentioned in some previous front end game video that the date should be short as possible and give her signs of inadequacy , now you’re saying it should be the best time of her life?? i don’t get it
please explain
true brother don't listen to him total confusion
Why can't both be true? Is easier to make sure a short time period is fun than to make sure a long time period is consistently fun
@@somethinderpsterious It means you are saying women will fall for money in 10 minutes date and not for words. First of all I don't care about any modern women at all if she want to spend time with me then she have to earn it. Actually this video of Casey is only about marketing . There is nothing wrong in being a provider but don't provide it to 304s.
Didn't he say wrap up the date in just 20 minutes & leave early? Now he's got us ordering 4 meals & staying extra long. 😆
7:07 It sounds like you want to be emotionally unavailable perhaps because that’s usually how their fathers work
I usually like your information, it's good but there is a differnt strategy. I prefer to meet them in coffee shops for a first date. Then skip to a bar - crossing a road by firmly gripping her wrist - being slight ahead of her, as her might have done and looking left and right - releasing her when we are on the other side, then another bar, then to a different part of the bar by putting out my hand - letting her grasp it and leading her. Getting a bite to eat, always teasing her. I'm always leaned back, not validating her on her looks. She feels the romance. I've provided a lot but in different places. If a man is commanding and in control in the bedroom, dominate - she will feel the cuddling instinct and it's a good place to ask "when did you know this was going to happen". To also, set boundaries and expectations too.
Sometimes I wonder whether all this is just satire. Probably Casey Zander and his brother Cole Zander are high diving each other, and laughing that people fall for this crap. I was in the MBT course and their Discord server, they don’t practice what they preach.
What specific examples make you say this?
Yes please give examples
Firstly, this MBT thing is run by Casey and his brother Cole. Casey said in his modules to never go down on a woman, because it makes you submissive. Cole said he disagrees and he goes down on women. Casey mentions how never to tell women things like “I miss you”, Cole said he does that. When asked about this, he mentions I have my shit together, I can do whatever, y’all can’t. Also, his modules in MBT is mostly Rollo Tomasi rip-off. You’re better off reading “The Rational Male” for a much lower price.
Trust me, I had zero results following his course. His philosophy is that women aren’t shit, and men are these macho dudes, who should just put women down.
Why would you want to be someone you’re not ? Why would you want to be inauthentic?
If you’re having trouble dating, putting on a facade won’t help. You have deeper issues, self-worth, self esteem, which need to be dealt with. Deal with those, everything will fall naturally. You don’t need to some stupid modules that give you stupid instructions on how to get women.
@@BayalRehman I understand what you’re saying but I do find the advice in his TH-cam videos can be useful (not to be taken as gospel) but paying for the courses is a different story. So many of these online courses by TH-camrs are a waste of money
@BayalRehman I guess the Zander brothers are not congruent 😂🤣.
Now I see why my last relationship tanked. I did the opposite of all this
The last video I just watched from you told me to make sure that the date I take her out on is horrible
Exhausting = The intentional emotional manipulation of an adult female in order to keep her interest or better yet “entertained”is not worth my time. I have many priorities that require my time & management. Hence why the world’s oldest profession exists. At least there’s honesty in the transaction as opposed to BS.
By red carpeting the woman wouldn't it show a lot of investment? Also related to this whats your take on giving gift/flowers to the girl you are seeing. Would be nice to have a video on that.
I got one that I broke up with 1.5 years ago. She mad obsessed and hates me. She been tryna work shit out for EVA. 😂
You go back and forth a lot on your advice you give
Holy spirit leads to all truth your right what your saying thow
We haven any HeadMen in Central Florida? I'm about to join and want a wolf-pack with me, socially. I moved to Orlando a year ago so don't have many male friends ( just started jiu-jitsu) in high status lives.
Mathers social...is a good spot for chicks..in Otown
@@HANZELVANDERLAAY Thanks for the heads up!
I also just put in an application to bartend. They have 5 different venues, they all look cool.
Don't text her back quickly, turn off the thirst
3:25 "I dont care how her waist to hips ratio is" 😂
Well moving into the feminine energy is only dangerous, if you have not integrated it. Then you have suppressed it for so long, that it overwhelmes you, when it happens and you get this unattractive breakdown reaction. But showing emotions is great.
I’m actually getting a little too good at game and girls aren’t shy about letting me know that it’s obvious
You are deluded .. If you truly were good at gaming they wouldn't even know you were gaming them.
@@frankarellano6948 Stupid comment. I once stopped a woman heading my way outside a bar - 7 minutes later, we are making out on the sofa inside the bar and she pulls back to say - "You should teach this to men."
Also if money and looks are not important etc.. can a guy if physically not well(disabled) whether through serving or genetic still get high quality woman if this makes him unemployable.
Genius
watch hank moody californication
How do you do this if you work with the woman?
Seriously for being inconsistent until upto 3 months? I have a friend and he was doing it over 6 years and now that girl don't even bother to respond by typing a message all is that she reacted with just a emoji. I was astonished to see his chat but I still get it if we didn't take a long time won't she pulls away from us?
We are missing marker board casey
Casey makes normal men real men
thanks G
Great news for foodie call girls,
What about the woman who goes absolutely head over heels for a guy within 2 weeks to a month what does that mean does that mean she wants to hypercharge everything and have the feeling of her perfection with someone? What does that say about the girl?
A lot of girls that love bomb are damaged
If the girl says want to come over after our date, should I say no I have to be up early tomorrow, maybe next time?
play it cool just be like “yeah i’d be down”
But how to make her attracted to you for a fling or short term your openion wanted
Casey you're not wrong not one bit. But stretching out a relationship of inconsistent get togethers over months and months is just not feasible
Everything here is cool. Usual stuff. What i have a problem with is the spending. Isn't over spending over validating? Then you say well no cause you dont see her often. But the over validation still stands, if you're willing to do something you usually don't do just to impress her or show her you're a good provider then Isn't that going against being authentic? I mean buying her food Isn't the only way to show you're stacked no? For example if i pull up in quality clothes, a good car and can generally afford better than average restaurants and locations then I'm pretty sure she's going to know that i have resources. Long and short of what I'm saying is that, why not just say to spend reasonably? Because to be honest, i would like to think women will appreciate the fact that as a man, you can spend reasonably when needed but can all spend lavishly when needed cos at the end of the day all that money being spend is just vanity and a normal meal would have satisfied you the same way.
He made a video titled "how to be the loser they love"... he meant a rich loser I guess lmfaoaoao....
Bruh idek wtf is going on, his videos before him starting the andrew tate model was truer ig
The goal is to make the girl obsessed and in love with you, if you for example give a girl the best date of her life and then she doesnt hear from you for 2weeks she will start missing and constantly thinking about you.
@@borawindson4624 you know I was thinking about this too during the video. Lately I've been finding myself disagreeing with his stuff but I guess that'd good too. It shows I can think critically about these thing on my own and make my own deductions. The one he brought his brother was a tough one
@@Kingg4453 I understand that train of thought but again I say, isn't it going against being authentic? Why do something u don't usually do just to impress. Spending a lot of money is relative anyway. How much is enough for her to feel that way? And do you think you're special in that way? U can spend all you want on her and she still ends up "falling" for someone else for whatever reason she wants. It all seems like too much outcome dependency.
Last video "be a loser." This video "don't be a loser." 😂
Moral of the Story: Its not worth it. Sorry I dont want to be a constantly thinking, constantly checking in, constantly practicing to be someone im not and that i dont want to be. I dont want to be a robot brick of a man. Its not me. Im weird, im awkward, i have feminine traits. Everything Casey teaches here is correct, its just that for me its too much energy to be someone im not.
Ill tell you boys the one thing that has transcended all of these teachings. The one thing that has transcended all the thinking and the trying and that is Semen Retention. Its the number one life hack for men. Nothing even comes close.
Authenticity will attract the RIGHT woman. All these men desperate for women to want them, going online looking for hacks from hacks. Here is the magic pill: GROW. EVOLVE. Become the best version of you - mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. Be yourself. Follow your passions. That is what will attract a woman who will respect and cherish you. Otherwise, you will only keep attracting women who are wounded and traumatized and they will not be able to give you a good quality loving relationship long term.
Here is the problem, you can dating maybe 10-20 women in a year, and when you click with someone, you need to have 0 sexual thirsty….It’s very true what’s Casey says….
I will use it for evil .l am vangeful.james from Kenya ( Africa)
Big J is here to play 😈😈😈
this shit is good
Casey if the woman activley pursuing and wanting to see you every single night , do you need to actually push them away to keep attraction? Ive literally spent like 28 nights straight after 8 pm with the same girl😂
You aren't thinking long term.
That is exactly how she will get bored and resent you.
Been there dozens of times dude. It doesn't make you special to her. That's how every girl loses interest
You need her pursuing you
You're only special if you say no half the time. Be smart about it. Very fine balance
Like Josh said. Get the hell away from her before you wreck everything!
If you pull back a bit it will give you leverage
No romance at all stages ? or just when dating? because i know some girls they love romance at least in early stages
It depends on the girls body count let’s be honest. Casey’s channel is a man’s guide to dating 304s. He never talks about the most important thing, which is the girls you select.
I get not texting her back first or at all but 3 weeks seems insane to me i’d usually do 4-5 days.
Yes, in 3 weeks girls will often hook up with another guy or feel butt hurt you never answered them. Women don't want a needy man, but they do want to feel like a special snowflake. Like all things there is a balance, and it depends on the girl. You could be higher value on paper but if you miss your window and the girl hooks up with another guy, you are often dead in water. Even if he has "lower SMV" than you, he's the one that made all the right moves to get her.
@@mattj8758 ya exactly sometimes i feel like some of the advice is too extreme at times
@@mattj8758definitely is a difference between too hot and too cold
Guys what do i do if her mother passed away. Like should I keep checking on her, or behave distant as usual
I would tell her that she can open up to you emotionally about it if she wants, make yourself out to be a rock. But don’t get emotional about it yourself obviously
Preach
How am I this early
Truth
Say that with me again!
That with me again.