The ULTIMATE Validation WOMEN get from modern men (NEVER give her THIS)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
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    • @HeartNDagger18
      @HeartNDagger18 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey man, what cologne do you wear?

    • @iloveamerica4891
      @iloveamerica4891 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Snoop Dogg gave up smoking -- I don't recognize this America

    • @Martialxhaki
      @Martialxhaki 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@HeartNDagger18Get the “Cupid” I saw on a promo supposed to attract women lol. It’s probably bs but look it up

    • @El.Jefe.Tribal1
      @El.Jefe.Tribal1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@HeartNDagger18i think he wears Creed Aventus (Batch 13Z01) or maybe Armani Acqua Dio Gio (original)... My scent of the day is Ralph Lauren Polo Blue edt, but my Signature scent is Chanel Platinum Egoiste

    • @roarbillion2255
      @roarbillion2255 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ur starting to just say bs now

  • @ThaTurdBurglar
    @ThaTurdBurglar 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +185

    A wise man once said - "men are here, to test ideas.... women are here, to test men.."

    • @colepeltier8472
      @colepeltier8472 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Awesome fucking quote, never heard of that.

    • @doyoueatrocks
      @doyoueatrocks หลายเดือนก่อน

      My 14 year old self told my best friend that ‘women were put on the earth for one purpose only, to fk with men’s heads,’
      My best friend agreed 😂😂

  • @jessekuchinski1172
    @jessekuchinski1172 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +667

    I just went no contact with a girl for 2 days that started going silent. Today shes blowing up my phone. Women are all the same lol

    • @Jon-dk4qu
      @Jon-dk4qu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@romankozlovskiy7899no

    • @giovannipantorno884
      @giovannipantorno884 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

      Two days is like nothing

    • @brucelston
      @brucelston 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      7 days for me

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      That just means she’s insecure. Women who are secure - or don’t give a crap - wouldn’t text you…

    • @jessekuchinski1172
      @jessekuchinski1172 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      @@JohnM... everybody has insecuries tho

  • @jonathanbryant148
    @jonathanbryant148 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    "We try to get her to be a bad girl for us and then we expect her to not turn out like all the rest." Powerful.❤

    • @jimbo7551
      @jimbo7551 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      don’t participate lmao

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are not babies. Casey just lets them off the hook all the time

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are not babies. Casey lets them off the hook which does not help

  • @painter8237
    @painter8237 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +349

    Casey you are correct about this. If men were not such slaves to their sex drive they would not be such slaves to women. In your other marker board videos you point men in the right direction; a sense of indifference, non-attachment, etc. having a standard is key. If men choose to lead with the sense that the woman has to earn him, through good behavior and doing what you want otherwise she’ll lose out on him, this would all change the game for the better. Unfortunately the majority of men are not going to get on board with this. They’re weak, their beta, and blue pilled to the max. It’s a select few that are going to elevate themselves with material like this. You are doing men a service with your material Casey. More men need to listen and apply it. “It is our job to say no, it is our job to have a standard”. Gold!

    • @nickkl1988
      @nickkl1988 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Also- the faux, self proclaimed alphas and metrosexual males.

    • @mba2ceo
      @mba2ceo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it is child thinking !!! does NOT work in real life

    • @AuthoritativeChadWarrior
      @AuthoritativeChadWarrior 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nickkl1988true

    • @AuthoritativeChadWarrior
      @AuthoritativeChadWarrior 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nickkl1988 high body counts doesn't make you an alpha in my opinion.

    • @painter8237
      @painter8237 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Agreed. What it boils down to is a guy that knows the game or he doesn’t. We’ll call him the enlightened man, if you will. Every guy that finds this material and sees the error of his past ways is an enlightened man. Sure we all f’d up in the past as most guys do, but now we know and can course correct in the right direction.

  • @ralphthomas7868
    @ralphthomas7868 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +193

    There appears to be a lot of wisdom in old school, traditional dating through the lens of a moral compass. It builds a stronger, more resilient society and probably a happier one.

    • @brent4073
      @brent4073 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Traditional dating prevented women from their harem tendencies. They all want to have kids with the Tom Brady’s of the world

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      100% FACTS

    • @user-sn1se8kh7z
      @user-sn1se8kh7z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes. I used to believe this in HS and college. I made a few mistakes here and there but discipline kept me on track and I lead a pretty decent life.

    • @leealex24
      @leealex24 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A relationship shouldn't just be about sex. You are dating for a "life partner" not an escort. Men must be able to resist this and have sex available via "other options" too. Once all men get a handle of this, men would regain what men traditionally has and possess just like the old days where they have dominance and control over women, which is also good for the society sustainability overall. Men has this all along, and women crave for that too, deep inside.

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@leealex24yes, patriarchal societies allowed us to adapt to harsh conditions in the world because of strong ordered leadership as opposed to chaotic female energy leading the world nowadays

  • @captainsickooso7087
    @captainsickooso7087 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +237

    Best content I've tuned into in a long time. Groundbreaking and up to date with the times. I'm a Christian and this helps me understand why God is so strict about sexual temptation. Thank you Casey, keep up the great work.

    • @mateuszsmagacz8332
      @mateuszsmagacz8332 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Exactly brother, I realised God gives us many laws which we now don't understand and I used to rebel but now I see Father was right all along. I really am right in waiting till marriage.

    • @sayantanpaul1864
      @sayantanpaul1864 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      God knows the best!

    • @eddaimes2247
      @eddaimes2247 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lol .. he made men permanently horny so he could lecture them about temptation .. you may as well accuse him of failing.

    • @RyanTheHandyman
      @RyanTheHandyman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haha ok. Man wrote the Bible for one. 2. God created us to fuck.

  • @nickkl1988
    @nickkl1988 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    Once of your best yet.
    One point Casey- there is a big difference between a man and a male.
    A male does not become a man until he has experience and wisdom.
    Your primary audience is males on their way to being men
    This video destroys PUA, game, thirst and notch count boys.
    Your wisdom is beyond your years.
    Keep up the good work bringing these important insights to modern matrix programmed males.

    • @pelinalwhitestrake1176
      @pelinalwhitestrake1176 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      10/10 comment as a male trying to be a man

    • @agatastaniak7459
      @agatastaniak7459 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or males on their ways to female panties being given advice that the way to her panties is not thinking about getting to her panties. Either way, depending on level of intelligence of a male this channel is either useless yet harmless or deeply damaging on the verge of being seriously harmful. If any half-truths or random observations in here make any sense, I can tell that for very inexperienced young adult finding such info in all this must be very tricky. As for this ultimate "form of validation", from my feminine experience if anything like this exists in my mind it's definitely not this. And calling masculine private parts "a shaft" makes me wonder why not a single male protests about "objectification of males" since it really sounds as if a woman during sexual act would be operating a machine of a sort instead of dealing with a fellow human being. Makes me wonder "is he talking about a female having sex or flying a plane? ". But suit yourselves guys, as Woody Allen would say "whatever rocks your boat". As for a male becoming the man, I think developing ability of critical thinking for onself is generally something that tells apart kids of both sexes from adults of both sexes. But looking at such channnels I am wondering that maybe humans of male sex have recently decided to set some new standard for their own mental and social development. Such as "we need an online guru with random thoughts to teach us how to walk straight using legs". That sort of thing I suspect.

    • @nathanu.6931
      @nathanu.6931 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@agatastaniak7459Casey doesn’t know everything, nor should he because he’s only 27 or 28 and nobody achieves all wisdom if any unless they have experience and recollection. But his advice is better for young men to watch than to not watch and be left aimless in this modern, lust-drive western society. Unfortunately, we are more disconnected from community and family than ever before, so any wisdom that could be shared, found in the men of older millennials, genX, and boomers, is not shared unless it’s intentionally sought after

    • @TheDennyslash
      @TheDennyslash 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm not entirely convinced, this whole channel is about women

    • @instructoruldemeditatie2367
      @instructoruldemeditatie2367 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@agatastaniak7459These men exist as a reaction to the women who exist in society. I'm not saying it as an excuse, but that's the truth. The woman has descended to the animal level. Today's woman is not loyal, she has sex randomly, she has several partners at the same time, she poses all the time as if she is in the mating season, she is always thinking about sex, she chooses her partners only after animalistic criteria (height, muscles, money-power). For today's woman, these are above love. And today's woman even openly admits that she is disgusted and hates nice men. There are videos of very outraged women, as the man says good morning to them and asks them if they are healthy or wishes them a nice day... And because you are a woman, I ask you if these things seem normal to you. Even women who say these things are not normal still choose abusive men. And what are these men doing right here on this channel? They descend to the same animal level as women because otherwise they are rejected. Is it the man's fault? Or the woman's?

  • @tahirshareef1401
    @tahirshareef1401 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    An 75 years old grandfather of 12 grand kids and father of 5 told me one of the secret of his successful marriage, that he never initiate sex with his wife, except first few times of his marriage, and never say no when she ask for it, and he never said first that he loves her, but only reply to her that he loves her too when ever she said so. it is only possible when we THE MEN learn how to control our sexual drive, and do not give it to woman unless she submit herself to a MAN

    • @d.l4055
      @d.l4055 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You keep believing that friend....If society and it's collective influences were the same today as it was 75 years ago I'd lend and ear. Social pressure is ultimately what keeps people in check. Especially when kids leave home. We didn't get here because things were done the same, we got here because over time people fell more in love with the Taboo than they did their Loved ones.

    • @degosiejani2774
      @degosiejani2774 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sound advice. Thanks

    • @brian7537
      @brian7537 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🤔simps have been around much longer than I thought then😁

    • @Edward-xd1td
      @Edward-xd1td 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah what is this he never says no to her if you never say no to her then you're weak still who cares who initiates it and not only that when you realize what he says that a woman will never truly fulfill you then you'll learn to be a real man and not just a pleasure seeking dog that just wants to hump anything that allows it

    • @raschidmalik464
      @raschidmalik464 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is also important that we get out of this forced heterosexuality and start to realize that the attraction between man and woman is forced and only fake.

  • @artpuente3401
    @artpuente3401 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Listen to this guy. Don’t waste your money on women. Have walk away power will be weak

  • @t.o.p.6483
    @t.o.p.6483 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    That's why I don't be giving my attention away like it's free. I stay in busy mode. I give my attention to the ones that show respect and get along with. There's no beating around the bush. I value having talks with women who are nice to talk to,collaborate and hear vent out. Yeah, your right Casey it's our life force we are giving away everytime we have sex. It's something we take for granted at times and not knowing/understanding the sacred value of it.

  • @dariodurandis7304
    @dariodurandis7304 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    You turn my life around bro got me to see it clearly

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree bc i am fully catching on due to the repetition of the realizations shown to us here

  • @rubinmitchell6823
    @rubinmitchell6823 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    The Holy Spirit speaks through you 💯 Keep leading the way with your content, this information is life-changing.

    • @drpyrex8993
      @drpyrex8993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Facts. He might not see it. But it's definitely God speaking through him

    • @nathanstice8456
      @nathanstice8456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      FATHER God is trying to steer western men (His sons) back into a place of authority. It’s His way, outlined in numerous text in the Bible. Look at all the misery and confusion that has developed in our society when we let women lead!

    • @jonwakefield6490
      @jonwakefield6490 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree, I caught the Holy Spirit in several of his videos. Subtly done, nice job!!

  • @PassionateSpirit88
    @PassionateSpirit88 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I think I'm one of the very few men who have turned down sex from lots of women. It feels powerful.

    • @TheFriendlyPsychopath
      @TheFriendlyPsychopath 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Nickolas are you transgender?!

    • @PassionateSpirit88
      @PassionateSpirit88 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@TheFriendlyPsychopath No...

    • @nathanstice8456
      @nathanstice8456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Because it IS. There is a lot of power dynamic you attain/retain when you withhold.

    • @hekutoru_2131
      @hekutoru_2131 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You think, but that's just your ego...

    • @Tgogators
      @Tgogators 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I'm 35 and have only slept with 2 different women my whole life (one from my ex-GF of 4 years, and the other ended up being a fling). I'm a guy and have a high sex dive, but I will not sleep with a woman until me & her are monogamous. I used to feel that my body count of 2 was horrible (some of my bros and females friends counts are in the double digits) and made me feel off. Now I see the value in it. Stick to your morale values and don't enable her bad behavior..She will have the utmost respect for you (even if it doesn't work out to a relationship). To where when she declines your romantic interest to pursue monogamy, it has more to do with her than it did you “I’m a wreck, you’re too good for me. I wouldn’t want to fall in love and I screw it up.”

  • @jazyredd
    @jazyredd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    Repetitious information that you value (consume) and put to use by default becomes a part of who you are on a deep subconscious level. Fellas this is the reprogramming that we need.

    • @srinavin
      @srinavin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yea he can come and talk same sh for next 10 years it's still valuable.. let hime earn greens for this.. support my man fully

  • @lukelittle7830
    @lukelittle7830 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Such an incredible point.. I’ve validated so many toxic.. repulsive women in my life. Finally healing by quitting alcohol and hitting the gym , waking up at 4 am. Being alone and rediscovering my identity.Got rid of all the toxic women in my life at 40. So unbelievably on point with this. The Change happens with us as men and we get led around by toxic women until we stop being toxic ourselves. I noticed when I started respecting myself, I started getting respect. And people only respect what is hard… not easy 🫶
    I’m done validating women who are not up to my standards. Shitty guys too. Fuck em🙌
    Keep teaching Casey!.Guys need to hear this.

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its Incredible the number of shitty toxic women out here made worse by beta male enablers

  • @barrellcooper6490
    @barrellcooper6490 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Decades ago it hit me like a diamond fired from a rifle. My goal was to be married and have a family. But instead of holding for a woman of marriagable character who wanted the same thing... Instead of that I would stay with a woman because she was sleeping with me. I would stay with women l knew l would never marry because they supplied sex. Once i realized i needed to stop wasting my time with would never consider marrying things began to change. It was hard as hell to endure. To wait to find a woman who met my standards for a wife. But l did find that woman. And even though it ended 22 years later l had the life l wanted. I never doubted her fidelity.

    • @hollismallory2757
      @hollismallory2757 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nice image: “a diamond fired from a rifle”

    • @angrysnek4445
      @angrysnek4445 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why’d it end? Im curious

  • @user-km5ye6qy8g
    @user-km5ye6qy8g 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Deep spiritual thinking .. out of the mouth of a good man comes the abundance of his quest for truth.

  • @chandlersmith-stetson5063
    @chandlersmith-stetson5063 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    This content might be a hard sell for some of your audience, but this IS what men need to hear. There are a few ways sex has power over a man-through pleasure, ego, protection, and status. Pleasure-which you outlined really well here. Ego-if I can sleep with a beautiful woman I must be powerful, right?! Protection-from loneliness AND from fear of impermanence/mortality/death (in that sex can lead to some sort of continuation of “self” through genetic legacy). Status-through affiliation with an attractive woman who other men want to be with.
    Each of these has an antidote, and men MUST learn what this antidotes are and implement them. Hope you continue down this road, even if it means losing some views.

  • @pacman071
    @pacman071 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    You pretty much summarized everything that I wanted to say. The validation, instant gratification, and lust has killed a lot of the game. It's time that people start differentiating themselves from the game by prioritizing themselves over short-term temporary pleasure and instead should focus on long-term success and personal fulfillment.

  • @mustangjack06
    @mustangjack06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I agree with what you're saying with one contention. You say we make women bad, No, women have an internal compass and therefore, personal responsibility. If she is bad she wants to be that way. Start holding women accountable for their actions.

  • @plammenn888
    @plammenn888 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I had 3 relationships in my life, 1 of them for 2 and a half years. Each and every time at the beginning I was never head over heels for any of my girlfriends.
    Absolutely every single time the more sex we had the more attached I got the more problems in the relationship started to occur.
    The more validation through sex I give the more the woman in front of me started to detach.
    This is a hardcore rule. It's so evident for me, and I regret this every time I think about it.
    I could have given those women $100K and not be that much attached, but when I gave them 1000 percent of my sexual attention.
    Boom I started to believe in ghosts because all of them disappeared and I did not change anything else I was the same guy if not better than I was at the beginning.

  • @esk6a
    @esk6a 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Well said man! What people dont understand is pain and pleasure are just the different sides of the same coin. If you are chaseing pleasure you will always try to avoid pain. If you want heal yourself from chasing pleasures you have to deal with your pain first. Face your demons head on, and you will naturally stop chasing pleasures and outcomes.

  • @jocrp6
    @jocrp6 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was taking a girl home one time and asked her, Are you going to hate yourself in the morning? She said, I hate my self right fucking now!

  • @dobbzmotorsport3939
    @dobbzmotorsport3939 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Gotta say this is the best channel for men to learn about how to hold their frame, and treat the women in their life, bar none no exception. 2 yrs into my marriage, and things have always been great, (ive naturally done some of these things, and failed to do some admittedly,) but recently had some power dynamics shift after having our child, was able to stand firm and hold frame about things that IMMEDIATELY had an impact on her femininity toward certain situations. MEN NEVER LET UP, and keep these ideas present or else her genetic programming WILL TAKE OVER.

  • @bobd9116
    @bobd9116 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This might be my favorite video you've made. There is a ton of truth in this and its something I've contemplated. I am a male and even I lose respect for guys I know that are so beholden to their animal pleasures. Not just simps fawning over women. I'm talking about guys who are able to get them and spend their lives on tinder and every ounce of energy into getting them. My advice to any male watching this is to transcend this.

  • @fredslayton
    @fredslayton 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    This is entirely true…I had no car, was living on my sisters couch, working night shift at a gas station. Withheld sex from a girl for the first three weeks we were together, even when she offered.
    She would later sleep on the floor behind the counter while I worked just to be around me.
    She saw me as so different from the men who were ready to go the minute she said, “go”, that she was following me like a literal puppy waiting for a treat.

    • @mortalbonds
      @mortalbonds 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      More bland the better. A biker chick would demand equal or more excitement than her bike from you, if you can offer higher octane thrill then good on you but be advised you'll be spending more time on her. And that shows her that you got nothing much else going on with you... But hey you do you.

    • @chunknorris6299
      @chunknorris6299 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jeansollot6419 Women always end up distracting you. You have a 1 in 80 trillion chance of getting one thats not like that but other than that unless your goal is sex, you're wasting your time trying to get with women.

    • @JamilLynch
      @JamilLynch 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jeansollot6419If we're honest, most of them don't.

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jeansollot6419you wouldnt know, soyboy

  • @jmfernelius
    @jmfernelius 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is truth. I have had alot of girls sleep with me only to never hear from them again.

  • @sammyg4765
    @sammyg4765 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Prefer this style of video, the more gentle you speak its draws in my attention more. Too many loud brash know it alls on youtube already. You’re messages have been on point, this delivery style shines big Dog 💪💯

  • @nataliexrd256
    @nataliexrd256 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Im only 7 mins in but I deeply feel what youre saying. My partner, when we met, was not lusting after me, which is what so many, if not all men typically do towards me. Im not saying he was playing mind games either to make me feel insecure to then sleep with me. I mean he was truly interested in me as a person. Like you mentioned, he had enough respect for himself to see what I'm about. I didnt realize it at the time but him not being so sexually focused made me trust him and respect him. I also felt like he respected me as a person and not just my body. Even though now i know he very much loved me from the start, his sexual urges were not known to me and it allowed us to build a deep connection and we've been together almost a decade. The men that have just thrown themselves at me sexually, even if i was interested (in the past) certainly did not keep my attention nor did I become attached to them.

  • @alanwakeup3344
    @alanwakeup3344 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Ha! I've never validated any women! Feels good to be winning at life.

  • @ArchMage7
    @ArchMage7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    This is why you must be on no fap. Sex and withholding sex is the only way she can have power over you. Having control over your sexual desires is one of the rarest and most important traits that you can develop
    As long as porn exists, this dynamic will never shift

    • @ray-viation
      @ray-viation 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I tried this honestly for 2 months no fap. the problem is when I met up with a girl I haven't seen for a long time I was very forward. My personality changed and I came across very thirsty.

    • @ArchMage7
      @ArchMage7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ray-viation As long as you have options, you will never be thirsty

    • @ray-viation
      @ray-viation 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      my point is options or not it makes you thirsty.@@ArchMage7

    • @ray-viation
      @ray-viation 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It wasn't just no fap I stopped, it was semen retention. I like to try experiments and practice discipline. It may of had benefits but when you are close to an attractive female it definitely makes you too forward. I was constantly thinking im
      alpha and its my duty to seal the deal. @@jeansollot6419

    • @ray-viation
      @ray-viation 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There were no options as it wasnt just no fap, it was a semen retention experiment of over 8 weeks@@ArchMage7

  • @norwardradtke1361
    @norwardradtke1361 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was my favorite video you’ve ever made, and I’ve filled two pocket notebooks with notes from all of your other videos of which I have watched at least 20 of now if not more.
    You struck a deep deep deep chord with this one bro. Keep making videos in this vein. it’s the way.

  • @argiletuminsa
    @argiletuminsa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Damnnn this makes so much sense and needed to be said. Casey - big respect to you. I've gone back to the dating market recently and noticed that I'm pacing myself in a way I hadn't previously. I think there's a connection to what is driving me and the ideas in your video. An element of self respect and a hope that I can respect the girl I'm considering as a girlfriend.

  • @MistaMagic52
    @MistaMagic52 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Finally someone is saying this! You can't just give yourself away and expect to retain value.

    • @DevPythonUnity
      @DevPythonUnity 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      nonsense, this ideology would say NO, sex, nothin, insanity , stupidity

  • @j-star1
    @j-star1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Casey for being the only one who’s brave enough to tell the hard truth men need to hear, not what sells, keep up!

  • @El28z
    @El28z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Casey, this video is Gold. Fellas, if this video doesn't sink in, it's going to get worse. Guys, do better, Link up.

  • @idi4m0nz91
    @idi4m0nz91 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This type of content should be promoted more, Thank You Casey I have slowly realized that too, and have greatly Impactyed my life as well in dating, I have seen the difference. God bless everyone

  • @anthonyromeo824
    @anthonyromeo824 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Thank you for these videos. I learned so much from watching these the past few weeks already working on your points and getting results. Men need to learn this in modern dating in America if they are to get something of value.

  • @adambarton6978
    @adambarton6978 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said brother. It took me 3 years on and off with my kids mom to fully understand this concept. Good material brother. Keep it up.

  • @aucapllc3486
    @aucapllc3486 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brother Casey,
    This is one of your best videos. No pleasure without pain on the back end. So true. We need to hear this

  • @sigig4278
    @sigig4278 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Every time you post a new video I’m like hell yea lol. Love your content 👍👍

  • @yasskb
    @yasskb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Yes these kinds of videos are good, you go straight to the point

  • @derekyoung1591
    @derekyoung1591 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is verbal gold! Instill good qualities in yourself to attract that. Not giving in and taking the power back. Only greater respect and rewards will be given to you. Long time listener

  • @Amlo589
    @Amlo589 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    One of the best videos and advice for men I’ve seen in a while. Allowed me to see more clearly one of my main issues and how it has lead to many downfalls in my life. Thank you for your work.

  • @christophergonzalez3152
    @christophergonzalez3152 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lately your videos have been making a lot of sense to me. Every time I watch I can feel my perception being changed little by little the better I understand.
    Now it’s about actually implementing these thought processes as I go through the world
    Appreciate the knowledge you’re spreading 💯

  • @KevinoVP
    @KevinoVP 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Casey, this was packed with value. Thank you very much for helping me become a better, more masculine version of myself!

  • @anthonyrainey3025
    @anthonyrainey3025 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've watched a lot of his videos but this is pure gold. All facts and no other platform speaks about this.

  • @ablincoin
    @ablincoin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Casey, you probably hear this all the time. But deep down genuinely your videos are life-changing. This video and the last one were a complete game changer. I’ve always tried to chase money looks fitness, truly mastering your emotions and not seeking validation is the way !! Also, hearing it from somebody who is very successful shows that your actions match your words much love !

  • @_Shadow10.
    @_Shadow10. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I like this new era Casey! I appreciate this channel FAR more noww

  • @jonathanbryant148
    @jonathanbryant148 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This style video actually connects with me more. It speaks to my soul and I internalize it more.

  • @TheFriendlyPsychopath
    @TheFriendlyPsychopath 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Everything in the world is about sex, except sex, which is about power.

    • @agatastaniak7459
      @agatastaniak7459 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everything on this channel is about sex, apart from parts suggesting nothing should be about sex since everything about sex is abot power. Anyway, I do find this channel hilarious form of easiest entertainment I have recently discovered. Whether or not it's quality advice egarding dating, that's the other story. Yet a different story is trying to make sex being about everything else but sex in essence. And when I hear " just the thoughts I have" I wonder how come males who often claim that they are so "rational" fail to understand that not all private thoughts that anyone can get at random have a lot if anything to do with reality. But yes, I will stick around for laughs. After all it's interesting to watch what messes up with male brains these days.

    • @user-uc7qb1su4e
      @user-uc7qb1su4e 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@agatastaniak7459 you seem angry

    • @TheFriendlyPsychopath
      @TheFriendlyPsychopath 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@user-uc7qb1su4e It’s most likely a female or a feminized male.

    • @agatastaniak7459
      @agatastaniak7459 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the conclusions about my assumed emotional state is based on what evidence if I may ask? Since I have never heard one man saying to another man commenting that he considers something to be irrational or illogical "dude, you seem angry". For naive or misinformed, even social research experts to not try to infer someone's emotional state out of social media comment section content.@@user-uc7qb1su4e

    • @hamesh5175
      @hamesh5175 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The only power women hold nowadays is their sexual attractiveness. Are you scared to lose that power? If men had the control of their sexual urges women would be absolutely powerless. Scary for you huh?

  • @1ncandescence
    @1ncandescence 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im so glad I found your channel. I think this video made me a better person and respect myself more.

  • @NeverSarcasticMan
    @NeverSarcasticMan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Been following red pill content for 1-1.5 years, this is probably the best piece of content in this space I’ve come across. Keep creating this content.

  • @WinAllDay2023
    @WinAllDay2023 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bro this was so spot on, every single thing you said was 100% right…

  • @Jennifer-di4nl
    @Jennifer-di4nl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He's right. High value = self control. I just dumped a doctor and a lawyer for a yoga teacher who Im absolutely crazy about. BECAUSE he has shown a high level of self control. After 4 LONG great dates he didnt even try anything sexual with me. He wants to get to know me first. Driving me insane! He's short (the doctor was 6'6!) and hes not particularly my type physically. I have so much respect for him now. Men listen to this man, he knows!

  • @Daniel-co7sc
    @Daniel-co7sc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These types of videos are good, Casey. You should keep doing them. Thanks for your content.

  • @plasmamig
    @plasmamig 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Loved this vid Casey, this year I really mastered sexual discipline and standing on my boundaries not taking any disrespect from women and raising my standards looking back at this year it’s insane the amount of sex and women I turned down Which made them think I was playing hard to get but really I meant it since I was just/ am just focused on my goals right now 💯no distractions

  • @radzhurl8711
    @radzhurl8711 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Absolutely correct Casey, i went thru this whole game with a princess looking narcissist and slept with her before and when she left 2 yrs back felt real heartbreak and incredible pain, went to educate myself daily everday since then and men should see your video. Thank you Casey.

    • @repeatrerun2047
      @repeatrerun2047 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If a narcissist doesn’t destroy you, what you learn afterwards is INVALUABLE.

    • @RamadonPiano
      @RamadonPiano 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Better over the horizon.

  • @paulypaychecks3385
    @paulypaychecks3385 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the flow text in the beginning. We all deal with this. I’d never skip a video. Your past content is too elite. Keep it up sir. 🐐🤝

  • @baronsamediabracad6213
    @baronsamediabracad6213 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You have a gift.. keep it going … I sent this to 3 people just half way thru.. what yr touching on is how society starts to come apart tho

  • @gpena4264
    @gpena4264 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think you hit the nail on the head with this video!!

  • @youngmoneykilla18
    @youngmoneykilla18 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Casey zander bro you are a true life saver we need to take our power back as men!!

  • @guidogazzo1117
    @guidogazzo1117 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm SO GLAD YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT THIS TOPIC!!!
    THIS IS WHAT'S IMPORTANT!!!
    THIS IS THE REAL CONTENT THAT SHOULD BE DISCUSSED!!!
    BUT ALMOST NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THIS TOPIC!!!
    THANK YOU!!!
    🙏🙏🙏

  • @issamezaitoun5117
    @issamezaitoun5117 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Casey, this has been one the best concepts you have shared with us so far! I feel like you touched on this point so many times before but never to this depth! Deep respect for you brother.

  • @ricktxv
    @ricktxv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. Well said. I am 66 so I have been around awhile.

    • @nathanstice8456
      @nathanstice8456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How does it look in the dating game compared to when you were in your teens/20’s?

    • @ricktxv
      @ricktxv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nathanstice8456 my first gf was a city girl and was very close to what we see today. i had to go way out into the rural area to find a wife.she was in her teens before her family had indoor plumbing. to me city girls seemed to be ether very loose or very bossy. the guys were taught back then, find them, f*** them, then leave them was the way to be cool. it was where most all this new thinking started. and it has progressed to what we have now. it was always a lie. happiness comes from having a strong, very strong tie to your wife and children.

  • @muhammadaashernaeem4670
    @muhammadaashernaeem4670 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Beautiful,
    Very well said !

  • @balasaravanan500
    @balasaravanan500 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've never thought you would say this. Everything is spot on, 100% Truth. My respect for you increased many folds.
    And also you have given me a solid mental point of origin to think about sexuality. I will never forget this video and you. Thank you very much big brother 🙏

  • @billyb2631
    @billyb2631 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very good Casey, this looks like a turning point for you, ride it, don't worry about anything, you are headed to the light

  • @user-sn1se8kh7z
    @user-sn1se8kh7z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is one of his best videos. It’s probably one of the best videos concerning relationships and society today.

  • @Vic64Y
    @Vic64Y 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So true, to say "no" to a woman who doesn't behave as per moral standards, who does not respect you, not matter how beautiful and feminine she is or how much you are in love with her... it's the most important thing for you and also to earn and keep her respect, regardless if she will give you sex or a relationship or not.
    Paradoxically, if you keep respect for yourself and don't give you away for the hope of having sex with her, you have possibilities with her but without this crucial requisite, you don't have any.
    Moreover, to treat you poorly after she tries to seduce you it's a subtle way how modern women try to feel superior than men.

  • @Victoreeuss1
    @Victoreeuss1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Casey, I started following you recently. I've been Red pilled for about 2 years now. You are at a different level. This video is so important, it's 🔥. We men have forgotten that we are the Apex predator. We forgot that we are the ones who should be in complete control of everything starting with contour or impulses because we are conscious being who can manipulate our environment. We need to be the leaders a civility Brescia m because we are the most logical and tend to look after everyone who depends on us. We need to chase excellence, be impecable in everything we do or strive for it. Like you said, we need to value ourselves for who we are. The highest form in this planet. Without US, there would be chaos. And it's becoming chaotic because we have handed over the reigns or SHARED them. BIG mistake. I am glad I found your channel because you have helped me organize my thoughts in these issues and understand THE GAME so I don't get played like I did. And now I feel like I'm in control because the rules have been revealed to me. I thank you for that. 🤜🤛

  • @grantdelmege2724
    @grantdelmege2724 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This might be your most powerful video yet. Thanks Casey👍

  • @AKRXI
    @AKRXI 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This guy woke up and chose to speak pure facts, these have been my exact thoughts for a while, but looking at how everything is sexualized more and more (IG, tiktok etc...) men being slaves to lust is only going to get worse from here

  • @argiletuminsa
    @argiletuminsa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thanks!

  • @mussaaaron6382
    @mussaaaron6382 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is the first time casy said something that changed everything in me as a man!thank you

  • @kostasl3
    @kostasl3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I liked all your videos but this one is the best! Thank you for uploading it!

  • @cavewater7220
    @cavewater7220 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Stay around the same topics that you’ve been speaking on in the last 3 videos I swear you are on top something I hope u see this comment I don’t hear anyone talk about this stay talking like this bro trust m3

    • @cavewater7220
      @cavewater7220 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about if you have a girlfriend though???

    • @drpyrex8993
      @drpyrex8993 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      This that next level truth. He's literally exposing the social programming that been happening for years.

    • @nathanstice8456
      @nathanstice8456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cavewater7220same principles apply. Just because she’s a gf doesn’t mean she has full rights to your d#ck whenever she wants it. You can give and withhold based on your desire to sleep with her, not hers. You can even withhold in marriages yes marriage I have done it for years. Give it when you want it. It’s the same game they play.

  • @attensecallaway9752
    @attensecallaway9752 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is so true. God taught me this through the Bible as a kid/teen, then later on after I got submerged in the culture more I had to relearn it through reading metaphysical descriptions. But sometimes I feel like the only way to truly understand this would be to sleep around. Temptation is always around the corner for me but this video is encouragement to stay strong.

  • @jacobg3340
    @jacobg3340 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video completely changed my perspective, thank you Casey

  • @kieronbilton5595
    @kieronbilton5595 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great Channel Mate. Mental Stimulus through the Roof. Fast becoming My Fav YT Channel

  • @georgepay
    @georgepay 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Dam Casey you hit the nail on the head with this one. Men are so far off from what we use to be and it’s only getting worst. Woman control the chess board and are only getting better at winning this game we call “relationship”. It’s literally a one sided coin in these modern days. Scary hours! 💯

  • @SBrown001
    @SBrown001 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The answer is to look at our grandparents who celebrated there 50 year wedding anniversary and this video is getting closer to that. Good job Casey, a very mature presso!

  • @iuk4280
    @iuk4280 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is my best video from you man. You don't have to apologize!

  • @wazborn321
    @wazborn321 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is amazing! My mind sees so clearly now and all my mistakes. Thank you

  • @michaeldavis1227
    @michaeldavis1227 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    PREACH CASEY PREACH!!!!!!!!!

  • @kevinmahan9521
    @kevinmahan9521 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said and an eye opener that more men need to hear.

  • @bitchbasket
    @bitchbasket 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great stuff, love the format of sharing deep thoughts. Keep it up my man!!

  • @sabine4867
    @sabine4867 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I,as a woman thank you for this message to help men value themselves again & also help the women that say no to mindless sex urges even if they R attracted physically to the guy
    Here's to us all building a better society.
    Cos it's pretty screwed up atm .but reversable 👌

    • @marcusknoll9500
      @marcusknoll9500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Life is bad

    • @sabine4867
      @sabine4867 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marcusknoll9500 no it's not..just what people do that's screwed up stimes..but we're not perfect.

    • @marcusknoll9500
      @marcusknoll9500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sabine4867 no...life IS bad.....you're just not paying close enough attention

    • @sabine4867
      @sabine4867 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marcusknoll9500 I don't pay attention to negative shit .try it some time 👌

    • @grahamhill6544
      @grahamhill6544 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stop warbling, get off the internet and go make me a sandwich.

  • @IronNike929
    @IronNike929 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    casey you have to understand, it’s difficult for men to have a standard for women because majority of them won’t meet it. i think what’s overstood doesn’t need to be explained with that one. sex becomes the only thing men ask for because the other things we may ask for, we can already provide them ourselves. just think when the last time it was you really needed a woman for something, where you really needed her for your own success specifically: my answer to that is never.

    • @paulbienvenu5494
      @paulbienvenu5494 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Who needs a woman if not for sex that's a good question. BS tests all the time and never any support or help for anything. Food for toughts

    • @Anvita444
      @Anvita444 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You guys have a lot to learn about life.

    • @IronNike929
      @IronNike929 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Anvita444 you do as well.

    • @rogdongamsay7595
      @rogdongamsay7595 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂​@@IronNike929

    • @leealex24
      @leealex24 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A relationship shouldn't just be about sex. You are dating for a "life partner" not an escort. Men must be able to resist this and have sex available via "other options" too. Once all men get a handle of this, men would regain what men traditionally has and possess just like the old days where they have dominance and control over women, which is also good for the society sustainability overall. Men has this all along, and women crave for that too, deep inside.

  • @zeno3385
    @zeno3385 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are really important teaching young boys to be men with strong backs. God bless you

  • @darrinelford1473
    @darrinelford1473 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Wisdom here. Your shaft has power and needs to be used selectively

  • @yahuahsgirl
    @yahuahsgirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Never thought I'd actually give one of your videos a like, but today I did! This video really humanized you from my perspective. That's the problem with the internet...you can't always gain an accurate perspective from someone else.

    • @commonsense3921
      @commonsense3921 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So he don’t seem like a human in his previous videos? Why would you continue to watch someone you feel isn’t human like? He seemed like a human to me who’s not giving men the programmed message that doesn’t work but because he doesn’t usually say the programmed stuff you saw it as not human? You see how programmed Women are?

    • @jsouniss
      @jsouniss 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Did you previously think that he was AI generated, girl math

  • @user-xn9qf7ip8v
    @user-xn9qf7ip8v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I absolutely love this type of content casey and i consider myself very fortunate to hear what you have just said in this vedio at an early age.Go casey🔥🔥✊

  • @rogermagnus1226
    @rogermagnus1226 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That's a direct hit! We need more videos on that

  • @Vicky-st1cm
    @Vicky-st1cm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    As a woman I find this to be true for us in a different way, we get told by other women to have fun and be young and have as much sex as possible but I personally know women who have lived this lifestyle only to deeply regret it and find themselves lonely and feeling empty. We all got sold a dream thinking sex is everything. There’s sm much more to life, you are a human being not an animal you have the ability to make something beautiful and meaningful out of your time here don’t waste it on meaningless sex
    I also have found that men that I will like and see as potential partners end up disappointing me so much because they’re not looking for anything serious they all just want to see how many women they can be friends with benefits with. This has made me feel like they hold all the power because they’re heartless when I care about them.. I genuinely don’t know the solution other than to just focus on myself and then give chance to someone who isn’t only interested in sex but it seems to not exist these days

    • @Bogdyindahous
      @Bogdyindahous 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When men look for something serious in women, they're not taken seriously by the women they're into and they get turned into friends(friendzone). How do you expect to have a relationship if you don't go all in? I don't know the answer to this question. What I do know, is that I'm sick and tired of playing games with women. I'll just do me and keep going alone. It's not worth the effort to invest yourself. Women will treat you like a child for this. Been disappointed to the max for trying to care for another only to find out she doesn't care for me.

    • @Tushar_Talwar_09
      @Tushar_Talwar_09 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Guys that go for girls out of their league get rejected.
      Girls that go for guys out of their league get pumped and dumped.
      Your league is not the man that will sleep with you but the man that will commit with you.
      Chances are that due to social media you overvalue your SMV.
      Objectively find out where you are on the hierarchy and date across your level.
      Go too high and you'll get played.

    • @Bogdyindahous
      @Bogdyindahous 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Tushar_Talwar_09 There simply aren't people out other people's leagues, because everyone is human. We all have dicks and pussies, and the same bones, brains etc when we are born. If you forget about this, I'm sorry. If someone treats you like they're out of your league I can surely say to you, she/he doesn't deserve you.

    • @Tushar_Talwar_09
      @Tushar_Talwar_09 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Bogdyindahous
      Ignorance is bliss.

    • @Bogdyindahous
      @Bogdyindahous 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Tushar_Talwar_09 You're the one ignorant to what is right. If you have corrupt values that doesn't mean you're better than other people that don't go by the norm. It just means you're wicked

  • @lynsonalleyne9133
    @lynsonalleyne9133 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is something I just went through it's so weird. I wish I saw this a month ago.

    • @nathanstice8456
      @nathanstice8456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Start following these principles now. Never to late to start.

  • @crlfff
    @crlfff 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I really appreciate these videos. I never had a father figure to teach me these kind of things. I really appreciate you for making these videos.

  • @Apostrophy_S
    @Apostrophy_S 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video was the best
    You , Casey
    You really bared all and said what was most important

  • @godfo
    @godfo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You the real deal man