Hey Big Dog. You’re right. Never be open or vulnerable. I made that mistake recent by telling her straight up. She ended up coming straight home to her ex despite being my neighbor and having her dogs over while she was out of town.
You are talking very confident but you are talking bullshit too. I lost one of my best lovers due the UNcertainty. One day she asked "Would you want to move to live together?" I said "Er, not yet." She answered "Oookey, understood..." Next month she was living with another man and sent me insulting messages. So...
Let me break this down She asks you for favors or money: I'll tell her Sweetheart I was in my mother's womb 9 months by myself just me and God. I don't need you to be clingy unto my castle. A real woman is going to be hard to find because it's in a woman's nature to run stuff, she'll manipulate emotions if you let her. Your job as a man is to make yourself priority and put a woman back in her place. She may not like you but she'll respect you for destroying her mind games. I love it. It makes some womens teeth grind yet they still listen 😅
i’ve always wondered why I see so many good-looking high value men married to what appears to be basic average women. The truth is, these men are marrying women that they probably don’t like very much because that’s the only way they can continue to act in a way that will keep her around and keep her in their frame. For two years I gave my ex nothing but uncertainty and she chased me hard, despite complaining that I couldn’t be serious or that I couldn’t see a future with her. Eventually I ended up falling for her, and told her I wanted to be serious and take things further. She immediately left. Casey’s info is spot on.
Lmao my dad is the funniest mixture of like simping over my mom and not taking her seriously at all 😂🤷🏻♂️ Treats her like a queen and a child he doesn’t take serious 😂
True facts. I finally came to a place in life at 42 where i really honestly do not care if they stay or leave. Im perfectly fine on my own regardless of a womans fickle behaviour.
But then, that's exactly what drives you to stay on your path with discipline. Exactly this dynamic with women. Because if you don't stay on that path, they will ruin you. It forces you to be that stoic man. It kinda makes sense how it works well when you understand it. What else would drive you to be so disciplined in your path? The fact that doing that is the only way to keep a woman, makes total sense. So the species is in the hands of the men who actually keep their shit together no matter what. There's no better push to generate that discipline.
Emotional attachment is not the problem. Think about how absurd that would be in life, a relationship, having kids, etc. if displaying emotional attachment were bad. The problem is if you display your emotional attachment too early in the relationship OR if your emotional attachment prevents you from maintaining your standards, calling out nonsense, and still being able to behave like a man.
Very true! I was just commenting that my Dad barely shows emotion and my mom can’t figure him out but she isn’t happy either. If they had bed busting sex then maybe but I don’t care to speculate further on that lol
@@Txoldibxland how does that work in real life, you’re just as oblivious to the world around you as possible, and eventually women show up at your doorstep?
Woman don't love a man. They can lust, and they can strategically pick a man. When they like things about a man and the man doesn't care, because he is off the charts confident, she call this love
Yes, but that does not end well. When womens beauty starts to go away in her 30-40, many of those men will left them. Or loose interest in them. I heard many women over 40 complaining that their men lost interest in them. And men in their 30-40s have less sexual drive than 20s, that also does not helps. Not suprise there are so many divorces.
Wow, you articulated well exactly how a woman feels and what turns her on and off. None of this is new. This is how a woman’s attraction works since the Dawn of time. Trying to teach my sons this stuff but mom’s words only go so far. I agreed with 99% of what you said. Only problem I had , has to do with a different value system/ world view then myself. I sincerely hope you can help all the struggling men out there.
So my question is if this is how it works, how do you (as a woman who is obviously self aware of these dynamics) move to commitment/marriage without killing attraction? Or, how would you like to see it done?
@@moontreecollective6718 that’s a great question and I don’t know if I have an easy answer. It requires both people being compatible, sharing the same value system and both of you have to have a fairly high degree of mental and emotional Maturity. You both have to want marriage or commitment at the same time. If one of you wants it, but the other doesn’t, you’re not with right person. All this being said, marriage takes commitment, more than it even takes work. And don’t fool yourself, attraction comes and goes in marriage. Marriage isn’t dating. Been happily married 28 yrs, 7 children. but that doesn’t mean we’ve both been happy ALL that time. And Happiness by today’s standards, is ridiculous. I believe in contentment and joy.
@@kristinrichmond8185in my assessment,A lot of women ,like almost all of them ,deep inside ,all have desire for an imaginary person with certain traits ,and only few of the actual men pass to be that imaginary man…And of course not all women get to be with those men since all these women,they themselves are not qualified to be in the radar of those men who they want,end up settling for the ppl who aren’t their first choice…Hence the difficulty in commitment in the marriage,,what do u think
Yep. From a Woman's POV, virtues are viewed as hindrances and obstacles that are too restrictive and frustrating for them to deal with. They are greedy and selfish.
My second marriage was the best by this time I realized what was important to ME! I did all the things I had to do and wanted to do. I did not ask or want a women's opinion. It worked the best for me. I played no games and the ones that did I "threw them under the bus"! Finally I met a woman with all the right stuff plus she was smart enough to stay out of my space. We have a good marriage!
Casey you are spot on my dude. Certainty has literally destroyed interest in every good relationship I've ever had. Wish someone could have told me that 10 years ago.
Your explanation of why women can't articulate that type of thing is actually a really good point. They're not always just avoiding the truth to protect your feelings, sometimes they literally don't even know.
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Yep, this is where the games start. Everyone is playing games with one another, trying to play with these 'new rules', hiding their real feelings, and what you have is a shitshow. Show interest but not too much, don't text back directly since it will come across as needy, dont double text, dont do this, dont do that. It never was like this. It shouldn't be like this. And if it is - something is seriously wrong with society. I'm sick of this shit. Can you imagine how this is for introverted guys like me? A fking social hornet's nest.
True, times have changed and if you don't play the game, you might never get a girl. I am introverted too and it is hard as fuck. I never knew getting laid would be this difficult as I still haven't gotten anything yet.
With social media, we all have way too many options, at least in our minds. Before social media, it felt like we had a much smaller dating pool to choose from, which made it much easier to choose and made it less likely we would feel "buyer's remorse" after choosing. This was true for men and women. Now, it feels like we have infinite dating pools, so we always feel like there could be someone better than the person within physical reach, and we always feel "buyer's remorse" no matter how great what we got is. Marketing people figured this out long ago. Give us three or four options and we'll likely buy one. Give us 25 options and we'll end up not buying anything.
He is saving countless men from the jaws of destruction. Needs to be a required course for males to graduate but of course the feminized woke school system would call it misogyny and neve allow it!
Honestly I've meditated on these topics most of my life and as stark as this information is, 99.9% of my experience corroborates what this dude is saying. I'm baffled as to how much makes sense after watching these videos. I don't think women want it to be this way but the reality remains that nature is using them as the filter for propporgation of future generations. There a lot more I've been studying into psychology and all of that supports a lot of this info as well. Greatful for these videos. Keep in mind most women are not aware of why they feel the way they feel but this is why.
My 10 rules 1. Always put yourself first (Health, Worklife, Passions, Purpose) 2. The courtship “never” ends 3. Make sure she feels heard and seen (Communicate and learn to listen. Masculine does not try to win arguments as they have their beliefs and value “listening to others”. You don’t need to prove a point as by trying to do so you actually come off as weak) 4. Don’t go to sleep alone 5. Know hers and your love languages. Communicate them and cater to each others 6. Remember the little things that she likes and surprise her here and there at times with them. This is just being selfless. It is giving gifts without expectation of receiving anything in return. You simply do it because making her feel good makes you feel good 7. Keep things spicy in the bedroom 8. Know your boundaries, communicate them, and know when you need to push back “in a calm manner” to let them know they can never cross them 9. Remember to make her miss you at times to show you have your own life. It will make her want you more if you are not always available at her beck and call 10. Pay close attention always to her attraction levels to know when they are slipping. If they are you need to double up on the 9 above. Bonus - Never allow yourself to become complacent
@@KyleMcDermott1 Definitely some Corey Wayne as Courtship never ends and being heard and understood is a common theme in every book I have read and it is something that just makes sense
What I "love" about these 8 9 10 rated women is how they think they will hold that value indefinitely. Once their looks go - and they will no mater how much botox and surgery they apply - all they are left with is their personality and ability to be a mate. Most of them (not all but most) fail miserably at that - especially in western culture. So in essence their expiration date is the revenge for the misery they have caused so many men over the years. For those women who are not like this - few but out there - hats off to you.
Most very attractive women don’t even have a legitimate personality, it’s almost entirely just materialism, sex, partying and leisure. Once their looks goes, they’re finished entirely.
Yep. I have good social skills, but hardly a social life because I tend to focus all of my energy on the gym and studying. I only go out maybe once a week, so it's impossible for me to portray that I'm unavailable since I usually make plans around when they're free. I guess no matter how much I improve it's not going to mean shit because some bum with a busy social life will just come across higher value. I'm just going to do it for myself. Fuck dating.
"It's not their fault. Don't blame them" Is probably not the greatest message women need to keep hearing in this age of hyper entitlement, hypocrisy, and atrocious lack of accountability and responsibility.
Exactly! It's like you another employee having the same job title. Yet he does maybe 5 hours of actual work, while you do 50. He never cleans up the break room after he eats, puts everybody else down while taking credit for work he never did, and if they even think of firing him he has a lawyer ready to pounce. This how some men feel in the workforce and how most men feel in modern day marriage. The agenda in the West is to try and destroy men at every turn. So no, women don't need any more help than they are already getting from society.
No lie, you're advise is painfully true. It's really painful to be that kind of guy, but nature demands this for a man to 'Be'. I appreciate you revealing these secretes.
One drop of attachment ruins the hole pot of Chili 🌶 attachment is poison, it creates suffering in our minds to anything or anyone we attach ourselves to.
@@TigerPaint92 Because when you become attached, their moods effect you, and you already have enough work to maintain your own stability. You can love and appreciate them and still maintain your own self so that you can change her moods.
Awesome. One thing about what Khabib said tho, he is correct in what he meant only I would word it differently, because its not love that kills attraction and imasculates men but fear. Love is always non-attached because its infinitely abundant and needs nothing, fear is pure scarcity breeding attachment. Often mascarading as love, which it knows nothing about. Our culture has twisted our minds to corolate neediness with love when its completely governed by its opposite. We reject our own love for ourselves and seek it desperately from others, which is completely backwards. Its like the difference between being kind and being nice, kindness is simply acting in the best interest of yourself and others, and it doesn't always have to look pretty, while being "nice" is pure people pleasing and approval seeking manipulation rooted in fear and is always attached to how its being percieved.
💯👍 Very well said. Love is not something we get from others but rather something that overflows out of us when we are filled with it. We don't need others to love us back. We are filled by loving ourselves, our planet, our universe. We feel fulfilled by the feeling of loving, not by receiving others' love. You're right, our society has abused and bastardized the word "love" - what they really mean is attachment based in insecurity and fear. Fear of loss, fear of death, fear of being alone (which would lead to death in ancient times.)
This video came out the same day my girl made me an offer I had to refuse. Be strung along for a month while she 'works on her heart'. I told her I'm out. I doomed myself being too available and way to certain. I didn't rearrange my life, have everything - career, house, hobbies, but I need to find and be about my purpose. Feels bad, but I'm going to learn and just move on. Thank you for your video!
I've actually lived this. I'm amazed at how many points Casey constantly gets right. I was 110% convinced she was the one, thought I should stop playing for once in my life and be honest w such a great girl, laid it all out on the table for her in week 2, mind you, no disrespect to anybody, I have more to offer than 95% of dudes, physically and financially, didn't matter, less than six months later we weren't talking anymore. She went from "nobody made me think about babies the way you do" in month two, to "being alone (single) is so superior to any other arrangement", in month five, at which point I broke up and walked away. Appreciate you, Casey. You're of great help.
The outcome I was afraid of was her hurting herself due to her mental illness. I thought being there for her the way I was and appeasing her and taking care of her in her time of need would prove my value after we had already been together for a year. She has no want to be in each-others lives and doesn’t see me in anyway she used to. That was a mistake, and I’m glad I found your channel. It’s not her fault just how she is wired and how things are and I’m glad I understand now. I’m only 20 so I’m glad I learned now.
You can't become dark triad without losing a crucial piece of yourself. It's not worth it. "Be careful when you go fighting monsters, for when you stare into the void, the void stares also into you.."
But some of us are sick of these games; when I love you, I will care about you...that's who I am...I will not go to the gym or ghost you to get you to love me. I'd rather be single than do such nonsense.
No dude! That’s the whole point! If you do that you will loose attraction. Zander has cracked the internal psyche of a women that even women do not know about
It's not that difficult. Just stay on your grind, get money, hit the gym and value your time so she values you and is trying to get your attention and time.
Thank you for this video!! OMG I have been asking for someone to finally provide more details than simply spewing the same line about men need to be "High Value" - without providing more information on how to be one.
I wish I understood this when I was in my twenties. It would have saved me a lot of heart ache and confusion. I always believed that if you opened up, told the truth about your feelings about her and gave her your time whenever you could. It would help to create the relationship you wanted. This is what women said they respected and wanted. I believed them. But once you reveal your hand they feel they have permission to friend zone you, save you for later consideration while looking for someone better. They don’t even realize that hoarding your time and attention, that you could otherwise give to another woman that does like, is the same as treating you with disrespect. Guys don’t accept the friend zone, don’t give her the comfort in being sure of your loyalty. A woman should not receive the same benefits from you that your girlfriend would get to enjoy when she has no interest in being your girlfriend.
Literally this! I told a girl that I loved her after a few months of dating, and she bounced out of my life 2 days later. What a catastrophic move that was, saying those 3 words. Fuck....
Unfortunately I learned the hard way as well, very hard. I was married 32 years until one day she was packing her car as I was arriving home early from work one day. I almost died, literally, Ive been in great shape and muscular frame, but 6 months later, had one of my heart veins almost occluded. Had 1 percent left or as the heart dr. said, about 2 weeks before I would have died of a massive heart attack. In a relationship for 5 years now, ive learned many lessons. One is I keep some distance emotionally, love her, but keep some distance.
It is interesting how women complain that the guy they are chasing is emotionally unavailable, yet omit the part where they ran out on a guy that professed their feelings for her.
I think it only feels evil if one has the wrong information and the wrong idea. Which emphasizes the point that education is key. Understanding the truth about male and female attraction, and ignoring all that is taught by TV shows and movies. And even your own Mother.
There is some truth to this. There was times I did stuff with girls without even giving a single compliment and then their friends would literally come in like through the door saying “I’m next” it was mind boggling I couldn’t really wrap my head around it made zero sense. And then there where girls i would compliment because they looked depressed and and I wasn’t trying to flirt I was just trying to make their day better all I said was “I like your nails” and they got defensive. We live in a different society now it like what it was when our parents timeline. It’s really complicated but every time I listen to one of these videos it makes perfect sense not even going to try to debate or lie about it or poke holes into the narrative.
Yo casey! I agree with these truths and you have helped me on my path. However, I'm realizing you might be setting yourself and the audience up for a miserable marriage. Since you have never been married, I think you've been creating relationships from more of a carnal approach that will lead most men to unhappiness. Excited to see how your content changes as you become a husband
Yep. Had a girl i just hooked up with a few times and wouldnt hit her up until i wanted some again. After the 4th time she told me she loved me on snap and deleted it right after she sent the message 💀 meanwhile the one i actually like i cant seem to hold on to.
This video is 💯 spot on. Looking back with every women I dealt with, a lot of women always Express high interest in me and once I show how much I care, that's when they become disrespectful and mistreat you. Knowing female nature makes me not want to commit no more eventhough I know how to get them. Ain't worth it these days but this video is spot on 4real. Most women think the same way
Damn you guys can even have the time to get attached, every girl I seem to talk to manifests some type of illness right before the first date and dies. Crazy how that happens
Love is the key. The problem is, most people live in fear and this is why these techniques actually work. You are correct, the world is upside down. Love is seen as weak and fear is seen as high value.
Not bad, Casey. The one flaw I see is that guys will try to get from point A to point B by pretending they don't need her while they still do. Emotional dependency is a system that won't change by wishing or pretending. My advice is to actively look for disillusionment. Find the things about her that disappoint or leave you cold. They are out there, but men need to look for them. This is natural and will happen anyway, but you can help it along. Yeah, it will feel wrong at first. Do you agree?
Deeper than Rap. Good Information and Wisdom. I’m a BiProduct of these weak ways of getting back out here after being out of the market for about 13 yrs. Getting back to me and on My Purpose and Self Building.
I have a long term relationship and thanks to Casey, i noticed few mistakes I was making.. my gf started becoming more cold and disinterested, so I installed Tinder and Badoo and started swiping right in front of her.. first she started crying, one hour later she initiated sex and immediately improved.. those things are magic.. im so glad i found this channel
I never heard my father tell my mom she loves her I can’t remember maybe when I was younger but for the life of me I can’t remember And they have been together 30 years Love does make a man weak no doubt about that
Nice! You're basically making Alpha/Sigma guys. Keep it up. Guys, in order to find the right one, you still have to date do keep trying to approach them. Thiis won't work if you don't ask them out.
man this one’s a great video. i just realized after the 17:30 mark that i’ve never had a woman say she’s uncertain about our standing like that. i’m definitely applying this in my life going forward
Bruh, this whole thing is advice on how to be the best ''captain save a hoe'', how to keep a relationship with a toxic woman work and prevent her from sabotaging it. Maybe don't date damaged women in the first place instead of learning how to properly behave when dating a damaged woman? If you just want to fuck, and you don't want your hoes to cheat on you, then fair enough, but in no way shape or form will this lead to a healthy relationship.
@haroldas1 watch more videos. You'll get it. He KNOWS you'll get attached. He's just trying to minimize your poor decisions when you feel weak for her.
@@GUITARTIME2024 If you don't get attached to someone, then you just become a zombie. What kind of living is that!? It's capitulation towards Women using a Man as an ATM.
Usually it's too late once we men figure out we're losing her interest. In the old days, before social media, she might have come back because her expectation of meeting a new and "better" man weren't so high. But now with social media, women feel like there is a new and "better" man around every corner. We men feel a out the same way, but we seem to get attached more easily and come back more readily. In my experience, once a women is gone, she gone.
@@brushstroke3733 100%. She was indeed gone. I'm now in another similar situation and It is so frustrating - I'm honestly going to give up and go monk, it is NOT worth it. Too painful, and always being let down.
essentially always been this way, except necessity facilitated a greater illusion to the contrary in times past. Now, the illusion is easily shattered for those who can see.
Man the beginning of Casey's talking point sums up my current/past experience with a girl to a fuckin tee🤦🏿♂️. I told my crush I liked her boldly like that. She was flattered and was cool that day I confessed and IMMEDIATELY afterwards the next day the games started. All of sudden I can't talk to her anymore about non work related topics, (she works at planet fitness) when I would come in to badge in because my thing was always to smile and wave at her she would turn her head down to avoid eye contact with me, she would walk past me without acknowledging my presence. The last straw was when she was working out before she had to clock in and literally made me chase her just for her to turn and say hi in a giggling way. After that I was like oh okay so this shit is funny to you!! Pulled a complete reverse. Started walking past her like she didn't exist anymore, started making no effort to say hello or goodbye to her. It's like we never even knew each other and that's on her. Now I'll catch her looking at me giving me inviting eyes to come talk to her....tch.
Good Stuff. I’m trying to figure out why the disrespect started, when she created the situation and I reacted. 28 years. She purposely got pregnant & lied about birth control. Id been better off sleeping with 100 women until I caught AIDS, than my current situation. At the end It appears I did it to myself all by myself. It takes 2 . How can you avoid it or prep for it? If you don’t even know what you’re looking at you don’t even know that women are capable I’ve staying in character all their lives. During the most disrespect from both sides, I pressed buttons at key moments & spoke like I was Gods Gift to women. With a few insults. I seen her change like Mr. Hyde temporarily. Confident cocky and a look of disgust with words to match. The truth of her present opinion of me was exposed and her preference I’ve never known. 1 previous clue i remembered told me that was her preference b4 I met her. She was all over the nuttsack. Little by little I tried to be the person I thought she desired. Because it was thrown in my face constantly. She Clean just won a man to love her back and never leave her. I felt guilty when I would. I grew out of it. Gave up my friends & family & now …. LATERS! She’s gone. Always be the man that she desires not the man she wants to marry just as a side dude that’s exactly how he gets in between those cheeks top and bottom better than you ever did, and with much more enthusiasm and nastiness, you asked for from day one. Good girls or just women they haven’t been caught with a mouthful at the park
No, they just wanted to make money. Most people never have a clue when they are opening Pandora's Box, just like AI developers today have no clue what they're unleashing upon us.
I remember seeing a True Story about a TV Reporter in an African Village, where women always had to walk behind their men. But the women were walking in front of the men this time and he asked the Chief why this was happening. He replied " Since the Civil War there are a lot of Land Mines all over the Place !!! ". I think they had the right Idea !!!
Super weird you tube wasn’t showing me any of your videos and I was watching them all the time super weird why TH-cam stopped bringing your videos up for me to watch I honestly don’t know why I got some work to do and got to catch up on your content keep up the good work!
You probably missed a video or two or didn't watch one for two or three days so TH-cam algorithm switched gears on you to try to find something that would grab your attention. This happens to me all the time. If I don't watch several videos of someone I'm subscribed to, suddenly I stop seeing them recommended in my feed. The algorithms are either dumb or really don't care to be highly personalized but rather try to drive us toward videos that are "trending" at ths time.
Could this be why women often times don't show their interest in you? Because if women are turned off when a dude shows full interest in them... they might assume it's a turn off for us as well, and avoid showing full interest. Because women do in fact, often times, hide their interest completely. So I wonder of this is part of their reason for that.
They're afraid of being rejected, because as bad as it feels to be rejected by a girl you like as a man, it feels a thousand times worse for a woman to be rejected. Since most men will jump on anything that moves or shows signs of interest, it's a huge shock for a woman to be rejected. I feel awful when I feel rejected, so I can only imagine how utterly dejected women must feel when we reject them. And sometimes we don't even know they're coming onto us, that's fhe saddest part. I've rejected lots of girls simply by not being aware of their signals or confident enough in myself to take their signals at face value. And once they felt I rejected them, they became cold as ice to me from that point forward.
@@brushstroke3733 Thanks for the insights, and I can relate on that part about not taking signals of interest from girls. It's unfortunate that women take rejection worse than men even though they shouldn't, it's actually their choice to take it worse. Women have SO MANY more options than us, especially on their social media and messages. I've found women can get over breakups so much faster, I'm surprised they take rejection worse than us when they have an abundance of other men to choose from that are constantly contacting them.
My mother raised me with ideas like "women like sense5ive men who are in touch with their feelings". Add to that, she told me she regretted marrying my father and always talked bad about him. My father was jealous of me and my mother so he was my competitor. He was distant and absent. So I grew up hating men and being more comfortable with women. Addmto that I didn't have a strong father who pushed me to compete in team sports, the lies she told me, my hatred of men she had, and then overall femin8sm shaming men for being men, is there any chance I would have been shooting myself in te foot!?
Hes right about all this but IMO its gonna be very hard to facilitate this dynamic if you have no status these days. This is essential in dealing with women, but you cant really fake this. You need to actually be somebody and have alot of options to really organically shift into this mindset. You cant fake it till you make it anymore
I agree. The only way to genuinely act high value is to be high value. It's not an act that fools women of substance and intelligence, though acting might still work on the doofy girls. But you basically have to be a doofy guy to appeal to doofy girls. It pays to be low to average intelligence when it comes to getting women.
Casey and Mr locario are the only ones that get it. These 2 guys are light years beyond fresh and fit and everyone else in the manosphere. I am consistently impressed by caseys videos and the free game hes offering. This dude knows what the fuck hes talking about. He is a master of seduction and his idea of teaching "masculine behavorial techniques " is 100% on point.
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Hey Big Dog. You’re right. Never be open or vulnerable. I made that mistake recent by telling her straight up. She ended up coming straight home to her ex despite being my neighbor and having her dogs over while she was out of town.
You are talking very confident but you are talking bullshit too. I lost one of my best lovers due the UNcertainty. One day she asked "Would you want to move to live together?" I said "Er, not yet." She answered "Oookey, understood..." Next month she was living with another man and sent me insulting messages. So...
@@marguskiis7711 wrong one then.
@@marguskiis7711 Dude if she was living with another man the next month your "thing" with her was already on the way out .
Honestly though, the more i understand human or female nature the less i want to have a lomg term relationship with one.
That’s why it called red pill, look up what red pill means. U was living a lie before u took it
Facts. Just doesn’t seem worth it. Recreational use only. That’s my policy with them these days.
Let me break this down
She asks you for favors or money: I'll tell her Sweetheart I was in my mother's womb 9 months by myself just me and God. I don't need you to be clingy unto my castle. A real woman is going to be hard to find because it's in a woman's nature to run stuff, she'll manipulate emotions if you let her. Your job as a man is to make yourself priority and put a woman back in her place. She may not like you but she'll respect you for destroying her mind games. I love it. It makes some womens teeth grind yet they still listen 😅
I'm starting understand all the men on dating sites who 'only want one thing'. They only want one thing because they're sick of everything else.
The part when he said mans certainty level in that women lowers her attraction value.. Can one not just be himself lol
i’ve always wondered why I see so many good-looking high value men married to what appears to be basic average women. The truth is, these men are marrying women that they probably don’t like very much because that’s the only way they can continue to act in a way that will keep her around and keep her in their frame. For two years I gave my ex nothing but uncertainty and she chased me hard, despite complaining that I couldn’t be serious or that I couldn’t see a future with her. Eventually I ended up falling for her, and told her I wanted to be serious and take things further. She immediately left. Casey’s info is spot on.
How are families made? Is she not suited for making family.
My Dad barely shows emotion and my mom has told me that she can’t even figure out if he likes her. They’ve been married for almost 40 years now
Same lol. When my dad plays nice, my mom walks all over him. But when he activates his inner asshole, she is all over him
Women are completely clueless
Lmao my dad is the funniest mixture of like simping over my mom and not taking her seriously at all 😂🤷🏻♂️ Treats her like a queen and a child he doesn’t take serious 😂
@@michaelturley8222 w
True facts. I finally came to a place in life at 42 where i really honestly do not care if they stay or leave. Im perfectly fine on my own regardless of a womans fickle behaviour.
But then, that's exactly what drives you to stay on your path with discipline. Exactly this dynamic with women. Because if you don't stay on that path, they will ruin you. It forces you to be that stoic man. It kinda makes sense how it works well when you understand it.
What else would drive you to be so disciplined in your path? The fact that doing that is the only way to keep a woman, makes total sense. So the species is in the hands of the men who actually keep their shit together no matter what. There's no better push to generate that discipline.
Emotional attachment is not the problem. Think about how absurd that would be in life, a relationship, having kids, etc. if displaying emotional attachment were bad. The problem is if you display your emotional attachment too early in the relationship OR if your emotional attachment prevents you from maintaining your standards, calling out nonsense, and still being able to behave like a man.
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There's a difference between loving a person and being attached to a person.
100% correct... its when its done too early
@@brendanthompson2082and laying waste to a nation for your wife isn't psychopathic? 😂😂😂
Very true! I was just commenting that my Dad barely shows emotion and my mom can’t figure him out but she isn’t happy either. If they had bed busting sex then maybe but I don’t care to speculate further on that lol
Being indifferent creates uncertainty just focus more on your yourself and your purpose and care less about what others think of you
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This assumes that she actually is attracted to you in the first place. If not, why would she care?
@@JohnM... true, but you win either way. If she likes you, she'll chase you. If she doesn't, you won't waste your time on her.
@@Txoldibxland how does that work in real life, you’re just as oblivious to the world around you as possible, and eventually women show up at your doorstep?
So true. Woman MUST love the man more than he loves her
100%, Nothing Less.
Woman don't love a man. They can lust, and they can strategically pick a man. When they like things about a man and the man doesn't care, because he is off the charts confident, she call this love
The same all mothers teach their daughters 😂
Yes, but that does not end well. When womens beauty starts to go away in her 30-40, many of those men will left them. Or loose interest in them. I heard many women over 40 complaining that their men lost interest in them. And men in their 30-40s have less sexual drive than 20s, that also does not helps. Not suprise there are so many divorces.
Agree with that and if she is just using you as a tool, end it ASAP & move on, don't deal with people who are unloyal.
I will show interest but not neediness. I will express certainty, but when she backs off, I abandon her without second thought.
Wow, you articulated well exactly how a woman feels and what turns her on and off. None of this is new. This is how a woman’s attraction works since the Dawn of time. Trying to teach my sons this stuff but mom’s words only go so far. I agreed with 99% of what you said. Only problem I had , has to do with a different value system/ world view then myself. I sincerely hope you can help all the struggling men out there.
So my question is if this is how it works, how do you (as a woman who is obviously self aware of these dynamics) move to commitment/marriage without killing attraction? Or, how would you like to see it done?
@@moontreecollective6718 that’s a great question and I don’t know if I have an easy answer. It requires both people being compatible, sharing the same value system and both of you have to have a fairly high degree of mental and emotional Maturity. You both have to want marriage or commitment at the same time. If one of you wants it, but the other doesn’t, you’re not with right person. All this being said, marriage takes commitment, more than it even takes work. And don’t fool yourself, attraction comes and goes in marriage. Marriage isn’t dating. Been happily married 28 yrs, 7 children. but that doesn’t mean we’ve both been happy ALL that time. And Happiness by today’s standards, is ridiculous. I believe in contentment and joy.
@@kristinrichmond8185 Great message. Makes alot of sense.
@@TheRickfire thank you.
@@kristinrichmond8185in my assessment,A lot of women ,like almost all of them ,deep inside ,all have desire for an imaginary person with certain traits ,and only few of the actual men pass to be that imaginary man…And of course not all women get to be with those men since all these women,they themselves are not qualified to be in the radar of those men who they want,end up settling for the ppl who aren’t their first choice…Hence the difficulty in commitment in the marriage,,what do u think
Basically virtues are despised by women. Things like honesty, loyalty, integrity, humility etc. are not gonna work with those Eves. They want Satan.
Yep. From a Woman's POV, virtues are viewed as hindrances and obstacles that are too restrictive and frustrating for them to deal with. They are greedy and selfish.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica This 'liberation' from morality shows their true nature.
@@prussiansocietyofamericanah, they're just stupid AF 😂
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This is the dumbest take I’ve ever heard
A 'special' relationship built on the ability to replace one another.
right smh its all so sick
Yes, and children are so happy when their parents replace each other.
My second marriage was the best by this time I realized what was important to ME! I did all the things I had to do and wanted to do. I did not ask or want a women's opinion. It worked the best for me. I played no games and the ones that did I "threw them under the bus"! Finally I met a woman with all the right stuff plus she was smart enough to stay out of my space. We have a good marriage!
what material is she made of? ;P
@@blackflytr The Right Stuff, it's a sealant that fixes your car in minutes. *Cringe*
Awesome!
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Casey you are spot on my dude. Certainty has literally destroyed interest in every good relationship I've ever had. Wish someone could have told me that 10 years ago.
Everything Casey said in this video is more solid gold than any video I've heard from him so far.
Your explanation of why women can't articulate that type of thing is actually a really good point. They're not always just avoiding the truth to protect your feelings, sometimes they literally don't even know.
Sometimes? Always.
Finally we have a channel that understands a high value guy and not just looking at the surface.
You nailed it . your insight into masculine/ feminine dynamics for such a young person is tremendous
“The power of the relationship lies with the one who cares the least.”
Avoid too much communication ( twitter..facebook..Instagram..etc)...go do your thing..cars..planes..racing..building a business..martial arts..stay frosty....Warrior mode..
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Yep, this is where the games start. Everyone is playing games with one another, trying to play with these 'new rules', hiding their real feelings, and what you have is a shitshow. Show interest but not too much, don't text back directly since it will come across as needy, dont double text, dont do this, dont do that. It never was like this. It shouldn't be like this. And if it is - something is seriously wrong with society. I'm sick of this shit.
Can you imagine how this is for introverted guys like me? A fking social hornet's nest.
True, times have changed and if you don't play the game, you might never get a girl.
I am introverted too and it is hard as fuck. I never knew getting laid would be this difficult as I still haven't gotten anything yet.
It was like this, thats why there was contract marriage.
Getting laid is like winning mega millions, that shits sad as hell. Women think their sex is everything
granted, there wasnt texting and social media, i think with those things it causes men to become more attached then they should be
With social media, we all have way too many options, at least in our minds. Before social media, it felt like we had a much smaller dating pool to choose from, which made it much easier to choose and made it less likely we would feel "buyer's remorse" after choosing. This was true for men and women. Now, it feels like we have infinite dating pools, so we always feel like there could be someone better than the person within physical reach, and we always feel "buyer's remorse" no matter how great what we got is.
Marketing people figured this out long ago. Give us three or four options and we'll likely buy one. Give us 25 options and we'll end up not buying anything.
I needed to hear this. Undoubtedly, this vid just saved me.
He is saving countless men from the jaws of destruction. Needs to be a required course for males to graduate but of course the feminized woke school system would call it misogyny and neve allow it!
I mean… how lucky we are guys to have such a content! Thanks Casey.
It's unbelievable content. This lad is a smart dude he's a good dude to
Looking at this in 2024..bro was way ahead
Honestly I've meditated on these topics most of my life and as stark as this information is, 99.9% of my experience corroborates what this dude is saying. I'm baffled as to how much makes sense after watching these videos. I don't think women want it to be this way but the reality remains that nature is using them as the filter for propporgation of future generations. There a lot more I've been studying into psychology and all of that supports a lot of this info as well. Greatful for these videos. Keep in mind most women are not aware of why they feel the way they feel but this is why.
Facts! I am experiencing this right now, and I thought I was alpha.
My 10 rules
1. Always put yourself first (Health, Worklife, Passions, Purpose)
2. The courtship “never” ends
3. Make sure she feels heard and seen (Communicate and learn to listen. Masculine does not try to win arguments as they have their beliefs and value “listening to others”. You don’t need to prove a point as by trying to do so you actually come off as weak)
4. Don’t go to sleep alone
5. Know hers and your love languages. Communicate them and cater to each others
6. Remember the little things that she likes and surprise her here and there at times with them. This is just being selfless. It is giving gifts without expectation of receiving anything in return. You simply do it because making her feel good makes you feel good
7. Keep things spicy in the bedroom
8. Know your boundaries, communicate them, and know when you need to push back “in a calm manner” to let them know they can never cross them
9. Remember to make her miss you at times to show you have your own life. It will make her want you more if you are not always available at her beck and call
10. Pay close attention always to her attraction levels to know when they are slipping. If they are you need to double up on the 9 above.
Bonus - Never allow yourself to become complacent
I like it. Corey Wayne in here?
@@KyleMcDermott1 Definitely some Corey Wayne as Courtship never ends and being heard and understood is a common theme in every book I have read and it is something that just makes sense
@@KyleMcDermott1" it's a documented fact that women are more attracted to men whose interest in them is uncertain " or something like that 😂
This is the best relationship advice I have heard after 4 years of studying this bullshit. Peace and prosperity to you bro
Thank you! I will print this on my wall.
What I "love" about these 8 9 10 rated women is how they think they will hold that value indefinitely. Once their looks go - and they will no mater how much botox and surgery they apply - all they are left with is their personality and ability to be a mate. Most of them (not all but most) fail miserably at that - especially in western culture. So in essence their expiration date is the revenge for the misery they have caused so many men over the years. For those women who are not like this - few but out there - hats off to you.
Most very attractive women don’t even have a legitimate personality, it’s almost entirely just materialism, sex, partying and leisure. Once their looks goes, they’re finished entirely.
Yep. I have good social skills, but hardly a social life because I tend to focus all of my energy on the gym and studying. I only go out maybe once a week, so it's impossible for me to portray that I'm unavailable since I usually make plans around when they're free. I guess no matter how much I improve it's not going to mean shit because some bum with a busy social life will just come across higher value. I'm just going to do it for myself. Fuck dating.
You don*t really need them. Just rent.
Im feeling naturaly high value! I see even man bow down when i walk the streets ! Bigger taller richer im a f@cking king
He can make these videos forever.
Repetition legitimizes.
getting very redundant same things repeated for over a year now
yeah because we’re ret*rded and constantly need this reminder because we think with our d*cks. Nothing wrong with good advice
@@imfinitiamusic.4632it’s not redundant it’s a lifestyle. You don’t like it than simp over a woman
"It's not their fault. Don't blame them" Is probably not the greatest message women need to keep hearing in this age of hyper entitlement, hypocrisy, and atrocious lack of accountability and responsibility.
This.
Exactly! It's like you another employee having the same job title. Yet he does maybe 5 hours of actual work, while you do 50. He never cleans up the break room after he eats, puts everybody else down while taking credit for work he never did, and if they even think of firing him he has a lawyer ready to pounce. This how some men feel in the workforce and how most men feel in modern day marriage. The agenda in the West is to try and destroy men at every turn. So no, women don't need any more help than they are already getting from society.
Totally true but I think the point of this guys channel is for men looking to improve and also attract women.
They’re not to blame for their nature, but how they act on it is their choice and can be scrutinized.
Right but he's only speaking about men who may hate and resent them after knowing about their nature, biology and psychology
No lie, you're advise is painfully true. It's really painful to be that kind of guy, but nature demands this for a man to 'Be'. I appreciate you revealing these secretes.
Supply and demand. Constrict supply and demand goes up. You can "charge" more.
One drop of attachment ruins the hole pot of Chili 🌶 attachment is poison, it creates suffering in our minds to anything or anyone we attach ourselves to.
Why would u live with someone or get married if you weren't attached?
@@TigerPaint92 Because when you become attached, their moods effect you, and you already have enough work to maintain your own stability. You can love and appreciate them and still maintain your own self so that you can change her moods.
Awesome. One thing about what Khabib said tho, he is correct in what he meant only I would word it differently, because its not love that kills attraction and imasculates men but fear. Love is always non-attached because its infinitely abundant and needs nothing, fear is pure scarcity breeding attachment. Often mascarading as love, which it knows nothing about.
Our culture has twisted our minds to corolate neediness with love when its completely governed by its opposite. We reject our own love for ourselves and seek it desperately from others, which is completely backwards.
Its like the difference between being kind and being nice, kindness is simply acting in the best interest of yourself and others, and it doesn't always have to look pretty, while being "nice" is pure people pleasing and approval seeking manipulation rooted in fear and is always attached to how its being percieved.
💯👍 Very well said. Love is not something we get from others but rather something that overflows out of us when we are filled with it. We don't need others to love us back. We are filled by loving ourselves, our planet, our universe. We feel fulfilled by the feeling of loving, not by receiving others' love. You're right, our society has abused and bastardized the word "love" - what they really mean is attachment based in insecurity and fear. Fear of loss, fear of death, fear of being alone (which would lead to death in ancient times.)
Your statement is very poignant. Our culture continues to destroy the minds of those who seek what is really important in life.
This video came out the same day my girl made me an offer I had to refuse. Be strung along for a month while she 'works on her heart'. I told her I'm out. I doomed myself being too available and way to certain. I didn't rearrange my life, have everything - career, house, hobbies, but I need to find and be about my purpose. Feels bad, but I'm going to learn and just move on. Thank you for your video!
I've actually lived this. I'm amazed at how many points Casey constantly gets right. I was 110% convinced she was the one, thought I should stop playing for once in my life and be honest w such a great girl, laid it all out on the table for her in week 2, mind you, no disrespect to anybody, I have more to offer than 95% of dudes, physically and financially, didn't matter, less than six months later we weren't talking anymore. She went from "nobody made me think about babies the way you do" in month two, to "being alone (single) is so superior to any other arrangement", in month five, at which point I broke up and walked away.
Appreciate you, Casey. You're of great help.
The outcome I was afraid of was her hurting herself due to her mental illness. I thought being there for her the way I was and appeasing her and taking care of her in her time of need would prove my value after we had already been together for a year. She has no want to be in each-others lives and doesn’t see me in anyway she used to. That was a mistake, and I’m glad I found your channel. It’s not her fault just how she is wired and how things are and I’m glad I understand now. I’m only 20 so I’m glad I learned now.
did she have abandonment issues?
This dude is on fire. Best teacher on male/female dynamics ever.
John 3:I6 (turn to God)
Elliot Hulse would agree
Jesus Christ the only one who truly loves you, and doesn't play games. AMEN
John 8:42-8:48
This is why stoicism and the dark triad personality traits are so important. Hypergamy doesn’t care and her emotions have no timeline.
stoicism means no pain, but also no pleasure.
@@HarmonyWithin777 that’s a straight retarded statement and very wrong.
The more and more you discover red pill theory you realize Black pill theory has a lot of truths to it.
@@HarmonyWithin777 Stoicism means accepting the pain. It is accepting that which cannot be changed. Very different concept.
You can't become dark triad without losing a crucial piece of yourself. It's not worth it. "Be careful when you go fighting monsters, for when you stare into the void, the void stares also into you.."
Find them F them forget them. SIMPLE!!!!! 😂🤣😂
But some of us are sick of these games; when I love you, I will care about you...that's who I am...I will not go to the gym or ghost you to get you to love me. I'd rather be single than do such nonsense.
Yea we definitely in the last days
Thats why most of us are better off just giving up. lol.
Exactly!
No dude! That’s the whole point! If you do that you will loose attraction. Zander has cracked the internal psyche of a women that even women do not know about
Enjoy pam and her 5 sisters in your sex life
Dude. Spot on. This guy is on to something.
Watching this is like watching a real estate investor seminar.. it should not be this difficult.
It shouldn’t be, but it is.
@CaseyZander I like your work bro.
It's not that difficult. Just stay on your grind, get money, hit the gym and value your time so she values you and is trying to get your attention and time.
Can I ask tho, are the women in question here, 10/10s or your average plumpers or both in general??
That*s the way it is. Deal with it. Or, better yet, go solo.
Thank you for this video!! OMG I have been asking for someone to finally provide more details than simply spewing the same line about men need to be "High Value" - without providing more information on how to be one.
I wish I understood this when I was in my twenties. It would have saved me a lot of heart ache and confusion.
I always believed that if you opened up, told the truth about your feelings about her and gave her your time whenever you could. It would help to create the relationship you wanted. This is what women said they respected and wanted. I believed them. But once you reveal your hand they feel they have permission to friend zone you, save you for later consideration while looking for someone better. They don’t even realize that hoarding your time and attention, that you could otherwise give to another woman that does like, is the same as treating you with disrespect. Guys don’t accept the friend zone, don’t give her the comfort in being sure of your loyalty. A woman should not receive the same benefits from you that your girlfriend would get to enjoy when she has no interest in being your girlfriend.
Literally this! I told a girl that I loved her after a few months of dating, and she bounced out of my life 2 days later. What a catastrophic move that was, saying those 3 words. Fuck....
Unfortunately I learned the hard way as well, very hard. I was married 32 years until one day she was packing her car as I was arriving home early from work one day. I almost died, literally, Ive been in great shape and muscular frame, but 6 months later, had one of my heart veins almost occluded. Had 1 percent left or as the heart dr. said, about 2 weeks before I would have died of a massive heart attack. In a relationship for 5 years now, ive learned many lessons. One is I keep some distance emotionally, love her, but keep some distance.
It is interesting how women complain that the guy they are chasing is emotionally unavailable, yet omit the part where they ran out on a guy that professed their feelings for her.
@robholleb9896 it's an evil world out there - future
I think it only feels evil if one has the wrong information and the wrong idea. Which emphasizes the point that education is key. Understanding the truth about male and female attraction, and ignoring all that is taught by TV shows and movies. And even your own Mother.
A blessing to our generation 😇🖤
And if you think about it, we all want what we can’t have
There is some truth to this. There was times I did stuff with girls without even giving a single compliment and then their friends would literally come in like through the door saying “I’m next” it was mind boggling I couldn’t really wrap my head around it made zero sense. And then there where girls i would compliment because they looked depressed and and I wasn’t trying to flirt I was just trying to make their day better all I said was “I like your nails” and they got defensive. We live in a different society now it like what it was when our parents timeline. It’s really complicated but every time I listen to one of these videos it makes perfect sense not even going to try to debate or lie about it or poke holes into the narrative.
Do you mean “I’m next” as in the other girl’s turn to do stuff with you or their guy friends wanting to do stuff with their female friends?
ahahah love your perspective and experience, shows again what is the reality not the mainstream media bullshit
I've experienced this. Moment they know you're about them, you lose
This dudes channel is spot on and its honestly depressing
When I first came in the US, my roommate told me: "Treat the pig like a queen and the queen like a pig."
Yo casey! I agree with these truths and you have helped me on my path. However, I'm realizing you might be setting yourself and the audience up for a miserable marriage. Since you have never been married, I think you've been creating relationships from more of a carnal approach that will lead most men to unhappiness. Excited to see how your content changes as you become a husband
This much dedication just to give a woman what she wants is some next level simping
Yep. Had a girl i just hooked up with a few times and wouldnt hit her up until i wanted some again. After the 4th time she told me she loved me on snap and deleted it right after she sent the message 💀 meanwhile the one i actually like i cant seem to hold on to.
Walk away. You're getting set up. If you don't feel the same, ghost.
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@@GUITARTIME2024woe woe, set up how?
@@clone3249 for marriage, financial.suppprt, etc.
@@GUITARTIME2024you’re not making sense. And never ghost anyone who’s a decent person.
This video is 💯 spot on. Looking back with every women I dealt with, a lot of women always Express high interest in me and once I show how much I care, that's when they become disrespectful and mistreat you. Knowing female nature makes me not want to commit no more eventhough I know how to get them. Ain't worth it these days but this video is spot on 4real. Most women think the same way
Man this is genius . Spot on ,detailed , and articulated so well.🔥
True masculinity: Godfather
You are so natural! Like I know you! Thanks
My attachment paradigm has shifted from my girlfriend to Casey after watching his videos lol😊
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Damn you guys can even have the time to get attached, every girl I seem to talk to manifests some type of illness right before the first date and dies. Crazy how that happens
always was suspicious about those dating videos, but you scratching some deeper surfaces
😂😂😂 oh man
This is all great. One thing though: You probably should not fish in a polluted pond.
Go fish in ponds like Belarus, Serbia, Thailand, Philippines, Columbia or Argentina. These are ponds that are not as toxic.
Love is the key. The problem is, most people live in fear and this is why these techniques actually work. You are correct, the world is upside down. Love is seen as weak and fear is seen as high value.
Not bad, Casey. The one flaw I see is that guys will try to get from point A to point B by pretending they don't need her while they still do. Emotional dependency is a system that won't change by wishing or pretending. My advice is to actively look for disillusionment. Find the things about her that disappoint or leave you cold. They are out there, but men need to look for them. This is natural and will happen anyway, but you can help it along. Yeah, it will feel wrong at first. Do you agree?
Thank God for sharing how a man should be around women.🙏
Deeper than Rap. Good Information and Wisdom. I’m a BiProduct of these weak ways of getting back out here after being out of the market for about 13 yrs. Getting back to me and on My Purpose and Self Building.
I have a long term relationship and thanks to Casey, i noticed few mistakes I was making.. my gf started becoming more cold and disinterested, so I installed Tinder and Badoo and started swiping right in front of her.. first she started crying, one hour later she initiated sex and immediately improved.. those things are magic.. im so glad i found this channel
I never heard my father tell my mom she loves her
I can’t remember maybe when I was younger but for the life of me I can’t remember
And they have been together 30 years
Love does make a man weak no doubt about that
Nice! You're basically making Alpha/Sigma guys. Keep it up. Guys, in order to find the right one, you still have to date do keep trying to approach them. Thiis won't work if you don't ask them out.
This is the best video you've ever made Casey. Exceptional 💯
You are a goddamn mad genius. Your lessons leave me feeling like im peering into code of reality.
Money will let women love you , DONT LOVE THEM , let them love you , thats all.
This works for women with low self esteem ....financially I secured women.
man this one’s a great video. i just realized after the 17:30 mark that i’ve never had a woman say she’s uncertain about our standing like that. i’m definitely applying this in my life going forward
Bruh, this whole thing is advice on how to be the best ''captain save a hoe'', how to keep a relationship with a toxic woman work and prevent her from sabotaging it. Maybe don't date damaged women in the first place instead of learning how to properly behave when dating a damaged woman? If you just want to fuck, and you don't want your hoes to cheat on you, then fair enough, but in no way shape or form will this lead to a healthy relationship.
No lies detected, mate.
Yeah "you can never get emotionally attached to a woman or else she will leave you" really threw me off. He has no idea what he's on about
This man speaks truth
@haroldas1 watch more videos. You'll get it. He KNOWS you'll get attached. He's just trying to minimize your poor decisions when you feel weak for her.
@@GUITARTIME2024 If you don't get attached to someone, then you just become a zombie. What kind of living is that!? It's capitulation towards Women using a Man as an ATM.
Its exhausting to apply all of this
i needed this 3 weeks ago. but Now I'm on "no contact" to gain respect back (After leaving the ball in her court non-chalantly) we'll see how it goes.
Usually it's too late once we men figure out we're losing her interest. In the old days, before social media, she might have come back because her expectation of meeting a new and "better" man weren't so high. But now with social media, women feel like there is a new and "better" man around every corner. We men feel a out the same way, but we seem to get attached more easily and come back more readily. In my experience, once a women is gone, she gone.
@@brushstroke3733 100%. She was indeed gone. I'm now in another similar situation and It is so frustrating - I'm honestly going to give up and go monk, it is NOT worth it. Too painful, and always being let down.
So true connections dont exist, and everythings just a game? Depressing..
essentially always been this way, except necessity facilitated a greater illusion to the contrary in times past. Now, the illusion is easily shattered for those who can see.
Great points! Always good to be reminded of these things.
Man the beginning of Casey's talking point sums up my current/past experience with a girl to a fuckin tee🤦🏿♂️. I told my crush I liked her boldly like that. She was flattered and was cool that day I confessed and IMMEDIATELY afterwards the next day the games started. All of sudden I can't talk to her anymore about non work related topics, (she works at planet fitness) when I would come in to badge in because my thing was always to smile and wave at her she would turn her head down to avoid eye contact with me, she would walk past me without acknowledging my presence. The last straw was when she was working out before she had to clock in and literally made me chase her just for her to turn and say hi in a giggling way. After that I was like oh okay so this shit is funny to you!!
Pulled a complete reverse. Started walking past her like she didn't exist anymore, started making no effort to say hello or goodbye to her. It's like we never even knew each other and that's on her. Now I'll catch her looking at me giving me inviting eyes to come talk to her....tch.
Good Stuff. I’m trying to figure out why the disrespect started, when she created the situation and I reacted. 28 years. She purposely got pregnant & lied about birth control. Id been better off sleeping with 100 women until I caught AIDS, than my current situation. At the end It appears I did it to myself all by myself. It takes 2 . How can you avoid it or prep for it? If you don’t even know what you’re looking at you don’t even know that women are capable I’ve staying in character all their lives. During the most disrespect from both sides, I pressed buttons at key moments & spoke like I was Gods Gift to women. With a few insults. I seen her change like Mr. Hyde temporarily. Confident cocky and a look of disgust with words to match. The truth of her present opinion of me was exposed and her preference I’ve never known. 1 previous clue i remembered told me that was her preference b4 I met her. She was all over the nuttsack. Little by little I tried to be the person I thought she desired. Because it was thrown in my face constantly. She Clean just won a man to love her back and never leave her. I felt guilty when I would. I grew out of it. Gave up my friends & family & now ….
LATERS! She’s gone.
Always be the man that she desires not the man she wants to marry just as a side dude that’s exactly how he gets in between those cheeks top and bottom better than you ever did, and with much more enthusiasm and nastiness, you asked for from day one. Good girls or just women they haven’t been caught with a mouthful at the park
This the type of shi my drunk Dominican uncle talks to me about in a party 😂 I subbed to you
We are screwed… did people who invented Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat and dating apps really want it to come to this?
No, they just wanted to make money. Most people never have a clue when they are opening Pandora's Box, just like AI developers today have no clue what they're unleashing upon us.
Yes
Yea should be banned
Yes Je*ish people
I think this is the most important video honestly
I really appreciate your videos casey and I love your philosophy about the masculine/feminine dynamics
I remember seeing a True Story about a TV Reporter in an African Village, where women always had to walk behind their men. But the women were walking in front of the men this time and he asked the Chief why this was happening. He replied " Since the Civil War there are a lot of Land Mines all over the Place !!! ". I think they had the right Idea !!!
Really good advice. I’ve seen it and a year later this lady was addicted
Very well articulated and 💯 spot on.
Super weird you tube wasn’t showing me any of your videos and I was watching them all the time super weird why TH-cam stopped bringing your videos up for me to watch I honestly don’t know why I got some work to do and got to catch up on your content keep up the good work!
You probably missed a video or two or didn't watch one for two or three days so TH-cam algorithm switched gears on you to try to find something that would grab your attention. This happens to me all the time. If I don't watch several videos of someone I'm subscribed to, suddenly I stop seeing them recommended in my feed. The algorithms are either dumb or really don't care to be highly personalized but rather try to drive us toward videos that are "trending" at ths time.
Could this be why women often times don't show their interest in you?
Because if women are turned off when a dude shows full interest in them... they might assume it's a turn off for us as well, and avoid showing full interest. Because women do in fact, often times, hide their interest completely. So I wonder of this is part of their reason for that.
They're afraid of being rejected, because as bad as it feels to be rejected by a girl you like as a man, it feels a thousand times worse for a woman to be rejected. Since most men will jump on anything that moves or shows signs of interest, it's a huge shock for a woman to be rejected. I feel awful when I feel rejected, so I can only imagine how utterly dejected women must feel when we reject them. And sometimes we don't even know they're coming onto us, that's fhe saddest part. I've rejected lots of girls simply by not being aware of their signals or confident enough in myself to take their signals at face value. And once they felt I rejected them, they became cold as ice to me from that point forward.
@@brushstroke3733 Thanks for the insights, and I can relate on that part about not taking signals of interest from girls. It's unfortunate that women take rejection worse than men even though they shouldn't, it's actually their choice to take it worse.
Women have SO MANY more options than us, especially on their social media and messages. I've found women can get over breakups so much faster, I'm surprised they take rejection worse than us when they have an abundance of other men to choose from that are constantly contacting them.
My mother raised me with ideas like "women like sense5ive men who are in touch with their feelings". Add to that, she told me she regretted marrying my father and always talked bad about him. My father was jealous of me and my mother so he was my competitor. He was distant and absent. So I grew up hating men and being more comfortable with women. Addmto that I didn't have a strong father who pushed me to compete in team sports, the lies she told me, my hatred of men she had, and then overall femin8sm shaming men for being men, is there any chance I would have been shooting myself in te foot!?
Many such cases bro. Forgive yourself and keep moving forward.
I wish I knew this long ago, thank you so much for your insights
Thanks.
Rachid from Belgium 🇧🇪
Casey, can you make a video all
About phone communication in a relationship? How to use it properly, what not to do etc.
You are speaking to my exact situation I fucked up with a girl I thought I was settling for. Learning. Thank you
Hes right about all this but IMO its gonna be very hard to facilitate this dynamic if you have no status these days. This is essential in dealing with women, but you cant really fake this. You need to actually be somebody and have alot of options to really organically shift into this mindset. You cant fake it till you make it anymore
I’d argue you don’t really need status per say lol
I agree. The only way to genuinely act high value is to be high value. It's not an act that fools women of substance and intelligence, though acting might still work on the doofy girls. But you basically have to be a doofy guy to appeal to doofy girls. It pays to be low to average intelligence when it comes to getting women.
Casey and Mr locario are the only ones that get it. These 2 guys are light years beyond fresh and fit and everyone else in the manosphere.
I am consistently impressed by caseys videos and the free game hes offering. This dude knows what the fuck hes talking about. He is a master of seduction and his idea of teaching "masculine behavorial techniques " is 100% on point.
The more I watch , the more I’m implement this information, the more I see results !
"There's gonna be sleigh bells" 🤣🤣🤣