@Rollwithcole&charisma thanks for the heart reaction for my comment.. I hv been waiting for that.. very happy.. my jaws r hurting 😁😁. ❤✌n stay positive
Try watching the 'Lauren and Ari' video about what they did to have twins. They had a lot of good advice. Good Luck. You'll be great parents when the time comes!!
Just enjoy trying because the less schedule almost it will happen....and even with upcoming appointment and whatever way you both go down your make fantastic parents when the time comes. Xx
Okay so this might be one of the weird comments you guys get, but watching your relationship has made me feel better about my break up. I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 5 years, and just seeing how nice you are to each other and how well you work to communicate and be mutually caring, it gives me hope and understanding that I wasn't in the right kind of relationship, and that it's going to be fine. Thanks guys.
Hey guys! We are the Chavanas. We are an interracial and inter-abled couple as well. My husband has a c5-c6 incomplete SI. I love watching your videos because it reminds me of us when we were younger. We were going through the process to grow our family 3 years ago. If you ever need a community of people who are going through similar situations we are out here. Good luck to you all!!
Charisma, trying to conceive can be mentally and physically exhausting. I have been through that path. In fact, I have been trying since 2010 to be pregnant without any luck. From Oct 2015 to Nov 2016, I went thru two rounds of IVF, got pregnant but lost my babies (embryos). When I lost my baby or embryo for the second time, I was mentally and physically exhausted. I decided that being a mother wasn't for me until God decided otherwise. In July 2017, I realized that I was pregnant. I became pregnant naturally and now, my little man is turning 3 tomorrow. This to say that, I sincerely hope that the IUI works for you both as the steps for the IVF are hard due the hormonal changes that you will go thru. I'm hoping that the IUI works or that you naturally get blessed with a little baby. Blessings and wishing you both the best.
Charisma, I agree with@Mimi. I, too, went through failed IVF. Not trying to discourage you, at all, trying to encourage you to take your time. You are newlyweds, enjoy each other first then let the babies come. My son is 7 yrs old now and a joy. They will come at the right time.
I feel if u stop trying and stop thinking bout it u get pregnant I had three miscarriage n was like I guess being a mother is not for me then boom a baby now I’m a mother of 5 thank you god
After 3 losses my husband and I stopped trying and just decided to enjoy the holidays. I was having a blast not worrying and just enjoying some holiday drinks this past December. Come January 5th, I found out We’re pregnant. I walked in egg eggshells until the 2nd trimester due to my losses but thank God here we are at 22 weeks. And every day with this little girls in my tummy is a blessing 💕 I would say don’t stress and don’t listen to negativity. God has a way of finding the right time for everyone.
@@tayperine8473 hello! I’m 31 weeks I’ll be 32 on Sunday. I’m so happy I get to feel my baby girl move and kick and although I get a good 3 hours of solid sleep at night I’m just so grateful I get to carry my baby 💝
@@priscillaarredondo9680 I'm so happy for you mama! And so glad your baby girl is doing well. I'm praying for your safe delivery. I had a few losses too before my son was born. I share the pain and the joy, it makes us cherish every moment with our baby. Rainbow babies are special. And Rainbow mamas are warriors ❤ lol sad to say you'll never sleep again but its alllll worth it 🤣
Trying for a baby can be so stressful. My husband and I went through that, I said lets stop. Two months late I was pregnant, that guy is now 18 and heading to University. Don't Worry
Same with me too! I was ready to tie tunes..and at the appointment only did test and he will be 19 this year! It will happen when you least expect it..stress and worry can inhibit results...enjoy each other..you two are a gem!!
To the people who are always passing judgment, criticizing, and being negative, keep your mouth close and put yourself in Charisma's shoes. I just can't stand people sometimes.
@@lovingmayberry2000 theyre talking about the people on TikTok that kept telling Charisma to put him in the bath tub and lift him (which obviously didnt work). They mean that those people should relax because they dont know the situation
Don't have to prove anything to anyone.Dont get caught up in social media and what they think .I took care my mother and work in the healthcare industry.Bless You Charisma for really loving him and taking care of him. Old Fan!
@@Mike_Jones281 that's true but for this kind of thing I think it just makes people feel safer to jump to conclusions because they don't like the feeling of uncertainty. makes them feel a loss of power so to regain it they jump to a conclusion
I agree, this is not a fail. And you don´t have to prove to anybody neither, so look at this challenge as an exercise check for yourself only. Still I appreciate you did this bath tub part to teach us all something. Thank you. Lots of love from me and my baby Fíbo (york) - he says hi to Sophie :-)
I just want you to know, after trying for 5 years, a miscarriage, then failed IUI, 2 failed IVF we finally stopped trying and I gave up and enjoyed life we then got pregnant naturally 2 months later!!!!! She is now 14 months and a blessing!!!
Just remember you don’t owe the internet every answer to your lives. I feel like this is a more private topic, which if you wanted to share it that’s awesome, I just hope you didn’t feel pressure to share it with the internet. You guys are an awesome couple and trying for a baby can be extremely stressful and emotional, don’t feel like you need to take your followers along with that ride.
I retired from nursing here in uk 12 years ago amazed to see the old hoist is the same nice to see charisma having same nightmare I used to have!! Swinging patients !
I used a hoyer many years. I was getting a little nervous there with him sideways. I always turned it so the person's legs were straddling the vertical bar. It can get a little tipsy when moving with the hoyers legs closed. 😉 wish yous the best 💜
Take it from the old school don t stress out about all the temperatures and watching this and that. Go back to the old ways and just have fun and enjoy being together. It will happen when you don't stress out. Have fun guys
I wish that was true for everyone. I would not have my 2 beautiful girls had it not been for science as both me and my husband have fertility issues. If I had a dollar for every time someone said to just relax and have fun, don't stress it, I'd be a childless millionaire.
My wife and I tried for 7 years. Then finally we had our first son born June 17, 2020. He’s almost a year old now. Don’t give up trying just because it’s not happening as fast as you want it to.
Don't be discouraged!! My husband and I prayed every single day for 5 YEARS before I got pregnant. Always hold on to hope. Sometimes thats all we have, and thats enough. Y'all will be great parents no matter how you get there.
The words are easy to say, stop trying but it is difficult. However I have to agree with others, just keep it between the two of you and it will happen sooner than you know, especially when you're trying so hard. Six months is a lot of trying. All your followers are so focused on you guys and watch your every move so just take it away and try to stop sharing with everything you do, and do only what suits the two of you. Go away for a weekend or week to a relaxing place and just take it as it comes. There are times that you just need that ME-TIME and shut off the cameras besides, the two of you keep everyone entertained all the time. So much pressure on you guys. Two wonderful individuals. God bless you both!
I think this topic should be kept private. when she concieve she can surprise us with the announcement , there will be 4 of us. Don't tell us how you all been trying. Only God knows when this actually will happen, fully rely on his timing.
Hey guys, get rid of the word trying. Just love each other and keep things normal and B4 ya know it, TWINS!!!!!!!! God has already blessed you with each other. How ya say, BEEEEEEEEE Positive and keep looking at each other the way you do. Wobble Charisma Wobble
I’m very happy seeing Cole and Charisma together and it’s their desire to have a baby , but at the same time you have to think that it would be too stressful for her to take care of the baby and Cole . So don’t be disappointed because it didn’t work ,because God knows everything and whatever he does it’s all good and perfect and sometimes we are not to be too anxious for something so badly ,you just have to wait and if it is God’s will he will give it to you in due time .
The best piece of advice I ever heard was from my mom. I heard her tell all of my aunt's and uncles, so I took it when I was trying for my baby. She always says to stop trying. Don't track, don't worry about temps or anything, don't pee on a stick until you're late. Because like you said, it gets to be very stressful and doing the baby dance becomes too much of a chore, rather than something fun you do as a couple. Just have fun and enjoy yourselves. The only thing I did was made sure I paid attention to my ovulation dates by looking at my period tracker on my phone. Good luck you guys, it'll happen.
Look at the way she looks at him when he's speaking... all that love for him just pours out in her expression...You're both so blessed to have each other!
Whenever y’all start trying again, Don’t fix your mind on getting pregnant so much, just focus on enjoying each other and don’t think about it. I swear when you least expect, it will happen. My daughter turned 3 in Jan. 😂😂😂😂😂 I understand. After 6 months of trying I was soo burned out, and I just let it go and then bam, I got preggers. Y’all are gonna be awesome parents when the time comes. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
7 years ttc here. Relaxing and not thinking about it doesn’t always work for everyone. The average time I’m for a normal couple to get pregnant is 6-12 months x
I battled infertility for over a decade before having my second. Respectfully, telling people who are trying to conceive not to think about it, can be offensive. It's similar to telling people with any other issue, "Meh, don't worry about it." I know this wasn't your intention, but I think it's important for people who are unaware to know how some people facing infertility may feel. The truth is, whether they relax or not has no impact on whether a couple conceives. That's why even some people who are assaulted, who are under immense stress, might get pregnant.
Health issues here...married at 31.5 started trying around 33, IVF 2x at 36. Baby Girl 2nd IVF. Then SURPRISE natural at 39, a son. So Thankful. Bless you on your journey. I was ancient.
I’ve been trying for 5 years now. I don’t even think about it anymore. I try to enjoy my life and wait on God’s timing. Have fun trying, don’t let it consume you. Enjoy your life and it’ll happen. 💕
You two - don't worry about the baby. The stress alone can wreak havoc! I'm willing to bet that once you both give yourselves a break about this, you'll be delivering the good news to your followers. In the meantime, enjoy this time together. Once you have a baby, your life will not be your own for MANY years.
I have a cycle every month on time as well, so I was under the impression that everything was “okay on my end” as well. But after seeing a fertility specialist I found out I have a blocked tube. For sure worth seeing someone but if Cole is normal I would def wait to see a specialist until you’ve tried for a year. I was so nervous to see a specialist but now I am super glad I did.
OK I'm sure Cole is stressed too, he didn't look like himself in this video. Not just one of them. Trying makes things stressful, love each other, no time line, nothing and it'll happen. You guys are going to make such wonderful parents and I am praying for you both.
My dear as I was watching this video I’m actually registered nurse, have been in the healthcare for longest, I really suggest you ask for a better Hoyer lift, I’m talking about the lift that is less manual for you, It has the buttons and you don’t have to manually do it, it is actually covered by most insurance but all you need to do is ask for it, I think you guys are doing a good job and are a great couple and team💗
As someone who suffers from infertility this isn’t true for everyone and can be a hurtful comment. Just FYI, not everyone would take this comment kindly.
I love to see you guys showing person in similar position like cole, that no matter your condition you are NOT LIMITED TO ANYTHING in this world. #staypositive
My sister tried for several years before conceiving! She now has 4 beautiful daughters. Don’t lose hope! Pray! Pray! Pray! The Lord loves blessing his children! I’ll be praying for you too!
I love you guys so much and im rooting for all your dreams to come true ,but relax for a while and dont ever change! You bring a smile to me as i worked with disabled individuals who were unable to communicate with me ,but how chill is cole when the hoyer lift had a malfunction! Oh my god! Love you two crazy kids!
“Each day brings new opportunities, allowing you to constantly live with love - be there for others - bring a little light into someone's day. Be grateful and live each day to the fullest.” Happy Sunday Cole and Charisma, Enjoyed watching this great vlog. You guys are so open and honest about your lives. Thank you for sharing this with us. Sending positive vibes your way. Stay safe and positive. You guys are such a warm and loving couple.✌🏻🙏🏻❤️
We weren’t lucky enough to have a child, but we never called it trying. My husband always said we were practicing and we would just keep practicing until we got it right. So, when you’re ready, practice a little. 😉
OMG! I was rolling when Charisma was talking about how people were talking ab her not wanting Cole to take a bath with her lol. God will Bless this Union, Trust In Him!
This video teaches one never to judge others when you don't really know anything about them. There is a lot that goes in to making videos on TH-cam. Goodness!!
You guys are so beautiful and blessed! Your babies are on the way, definitely within God’s timing and especially for two amazing parents like you both! Just breathe and believe...❤️🥰😉
I commend you guys for all your strength. You are a match indeed made in heaven. I can see you standing the test of time at 100+ years old. Still as loving as you are. Thank you for sharing your stories and dear lives with us.
I am now exhausted, I cannot imagine how you do it. Just take it easy. You are both wonderful, I feel so for you and I give you so much credit!!!!!!!!!!
I have a tremendous amount of respect for you putting such personal aspects of your life out there for everyone. Take your break and do what you have to do to stay healthy, mentally and phyically. On another note. Y'all showed how much more independent Cole's nighttime routine has become. Has his morning routine changed since any since the last one you posted?
It's admirable how she handle so much and still looking as if what she does is so easy to do...but it's not. You are an inspiration. Love from Spain to both of you. Have a wonderful weekend
CHARISMA YOU ROCK. You are truly COLES ROCKSTAR.💖💖💖May GOD Continue to BLESS you with all you DESIRE TO ACQUIRE, REQUIRE and MORE. Sending WISHES OF HEALTH,WEALTH, and WELLNESS from NYC💖💖💖
Charisma does so much with joy, it has helped me look at the things my husband does for me and how he cares for me. I have had chronic pain for 50 years. He never complains and is always ready to help me.
CHARISMA AND COLE...INSPIRING COUPLE....THANK YOU FOR SHOWING PEOPLE WHAT LOVE CAN LOOK LIKE.....YOUR EXAMPLE IS IMPORTANT FOR US ALL.... GOD BLESS YOU BOTH
I know it sound strange but can't wait to know about how the little swimmers are swimming 😂 we basically want you to have this baby as much as you do 🤣
They have wonderful tubs where the door opens and you can slide in or use a hoyer to get in. You shut the door and fill it up. Even has jacuzzi jets and a handheld showerhead.💗
It took me 8 months to get pregnant the first time. After that I got pregnant very quickly. The thing that helped me more than anything was a book called “Taking Charge of Your Fertility.” I learned more from that book than I did in nursing school!
I just ran across this couple a few days ago, and I just can’t stop watching. I have gotten so addicted to the videos. love this couple. THEY ARE THE BEST!
It’s all on God timing. Take this time to seek him. “Draw near to God and he will draw near to you. Clean your hands you sinners and purify your hearts, your double minded” -James 4:8
It can take some time for a lot of people. Even though I chose to wait until I was 33. I got pregnant right away... it usually happens when you aren’t stressed and trying... no joke. I was never had a normal cycle and had been on birth control since I was 16 because of horrible periods. Good Luck and blessings to a healthy pregnancy!❤️🥰
When we were struggling to get pregnant I HATED for people to tell me to stop trying. Alas, when I finally gave it up to God and his timing and didn’t track or try anything. That month was when I got pregnant. God bless you both!
Thanks for watching everyone! We appreciate all of your support! ❤
@Rollwithcole&charisma thanks for the heart reaction for my comment.. I hv been waiting for that.. very happy.. my jaws r hurting 😁😁. ❤✌n stay positive
Thanks for sharing and always being so open with your lives :) And Charisma, you take those alone bath times lady! :D
Don't worry Charisma, your fans know how dedicated you are to Cole! This was a great educational experience.
Try watching the 'Lauren and Ari' video about what they did to have twins. They had a lot of good advice. Good Luck. You'll be great parents when the time comes!!
Just enjoy trying because the less schedule almost it will happen....and even with upcoming appointment and whatever way you both go down your make fantastic parents when the time comes. Xx
Can we just take a moment to commend and acknowledge Charisma for all that she does...a strong Queen indeed💖
💯. Facts!
Indeed!!!
I was just about to say this!!!!
EXACTLY what a woman ( or man) will do for the one they love & adore! #2rockstars
An amazing woman through and through! 💖
He’s so handsome and she’s so beautiful. Beautiful couple
Exactly my thoughts!
Okay so this might be one of the weird comments you guys get, but watching your relationship has made me feel better about my break up. I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 5 years, and just seeing how nice you are to each other and how well you work to communicate and be mutually caring, it gives me hope and understanding that I wasn't in the right kind of relationship, and that it's going to be fine. Thanks guys.
That’s tough, hope you’re good❤️
You will have an amazing rest of your life. Hold on to hope and trust that the best is yet to come for you 💜
May the Lord be with you. Stay positive. Your own person will find you
Stay in God's love. Break ups aren't easy but you deserve the right love for you❤️❤️
@@oratuwe8114 there not breaking up. They are taking a break from getting pregnant.watch the video
Hey guys! We are the Chavanas. We are an interracial and inter-abled couple as well. My husband has a c5-c6 incomplete SI. I love watching your videos because it reminds me of us when we were younger. We were going through the process to grow our family 3 years ago. If you ever need a community of people who are going through similar situations we are out here. Good luck to you all!!
This girl is a champion. So positive and light, even though she is working so hard.
Charisma is a bundle of joy and light! Cole too!! I can't get enough of these two; they make my day.
As a spinal cord nurse for 4yrs, I think yall are doing a fabulous job!!! keep up the positive vibes!
Hello how are you doing 👋☺️😀☺️😀😀
They do a great job as a couple and educating viewers as well.
Charisma, trying to conceive can be mentally and physically exhausting. I have been through that path. In fact, I have been trying since 2010 to be pregnant without any luck. From Oct 2015 to Nov 2016, I went thru two rounds of IVF, got pregnant but lost my babies (embryos). When I lost my baby or embryo for the second time, I was mentally and physically exhausted. I decided that being a mother wasn't for me until God decided otherwise. In July 2017, I realized that I was pregnant. I became pregnant naturally and now, my little man is turning 3 tomorrow. This to say that, I sincerely hope that the IUI works for you both as the steps for the IVF are hard due the hormonal changes that you will go thru. I'm hoping that the IUI works or that you naturally get blessed with a little baby. Blessings and wishing you both the best.
Charisma, I agree with@Mimi. I, too, went through failed IVF. Not trying to discourage you, at all, trying to encourage you to take your time. You are newlyweds, enjoy each other first then let the babies come. My son is 7 yrs old now and a joy. They will come at the right time.
Hallelujah 🙏❤️❤️❤️
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I feel if u stop trying and stop thinking bout it u get pregnant I had three miscarriage n was like I guess being a mother is not for me then boom a baby now I’m a mother of 5 thank you god
God Bless and Happy 3rd Birthday little one 💖
After 3 losses my husband and I stopped trying and just decided to enjoy the holidays. I was having a blast not worrying and just enjoying some holiday drinks this past December. Come January 5th, I found out We’re pregnant. I walked in egg eggshells until the 2nd trimester due to my losses but thank God here we are at 22 weeks. And every day with this little girls in my tummy is a blessing 💕
I would say don’t stress and don’t listen to negativity. God has a way of finding the right time for everyone.
Hello how are you doing 👋☺️😀☺️
I hope your baby is so healthy and growing like a wild flower
@@tayperine8473 hello! I’m 31 weeks I’ll be 32 on Sunday. I’m so happy I get to feel my baby girl move and kick and although I get a good 3 hours of solid sleep at night I’m just so grateful I get to carry my baby 💝
@@priscillaarredondo9680 I'm so happy for you mama! And so glad your baby girl is doing well. I'm praying for your safe delivery. I had a few losses too before my son was born. I share the pain and the joy, it makes us cherish every moment with our baby. Rainbow babies are special. And Rainbow mamas are warriors ❤ lol sad to say you'll never sleep again but its alllll worth it 🤣
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Trying for a baby can be so stressful. My husband and I went through that, I said lets stop. Two months late I was pregnant, that guy is now 18 and heading to University. Don't Worry
I had the same experience when we stopped moved on....then buummmmm pregnant. I am now 6months ofter trying for 3 years.
Same with me too! I was ready to tie tunes..and at the appointment only did test and he will be 19 this year! It will happen when you least expect it..stress and worry can inhibit results...enjoy each other..you two are a gem!!
Congrats
Omg.. do sweet
That was us. Except we 7 months when we found out. Lol
To the people who are always passing judgment, criticizing, and being negative, keep your mouth close and put yourself in Charisma's shoes. I just can't stand people sometimes.
Yes I agree keep your uneducated rud comments to yourself shame on you
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Am I missing something, or are they just delating certain comments, cause I haven't seen a single negative comment! Love you C and C! 💙
@@lovingmayberry2000 theyre talking about the people on TikTok that kept telling Charisma to put him in the bath tub and lift him (which obviously didnt work). They mean that those people should relax because they dont know the situation
Foh real
Charisma is just one of the sweetes women in this world. Her heart is just too big
Don't have to prove anything to anyone.Dont get caught up in social media and what they think .I took care my mother and work in the healthcare industry.Bless You Charisma for really loving him and taking care of him. Old Fan!
Beautiful ❤️
Holding my 5 month old son makes me so proud that I waited 13 years for him!!!
IT WILL HAPPEN 💙💙💙
Congratulations! 13 years waiting for my son, as well!! God comes thru!
@@arianedavis4309 awww!!!
That’s so awesome & yes GODS TIMING!!!!
My boy is 16 months old now 😭
"People think they know everything" lol that's unfortunately the problem with society
That struck me. So true.
Theres always at least one person who tries to find something negative to be edgy
Unfortunately, society often teaches us to pretend to know things we don't know, or can not possibly know.
@@Mike_Jones281 that's true but for this kind of thing I think it just makes people feel safer to jump to conclusions because they don't like the feeling of uncertainty. makes them feel a loss of power so to regain it they jump to a conclusion
Micheiie LisBy 😇🦉🐬
My wife just got pregnant we started trying on june 2019 I'm so happy about it🤩
Congratulations!
Congratulations!
Congrats!!!
Not a fail. Just a learning experience for everybody. I can’t believe anyone would come at Charisma for that. Super rude and unfair.
I agree, this is not a fail. And you don´t have to prove to anybody neither, so look at this challenge as an exercise check for yourself only. Still I appreciate you did this bath tub part to teach us all something. Thank you. Lots of love from me and my baby Fíbo (york) - he says hi to Sophie :-)
I love how respectful you guys are of each other when the other is talking, taking turns and not interrupting ♥️
I know that praying is a great way to guide you guys, give yourself time. I have faith that everything will work out for you guys.
These two are two beautiful people. Inside & out.
Charisma body = goals 😍
I just want you to know, after trying for 5 years, a miscarriage, then failed IUI, 2 failed IVF we finally stopped trying and I gave up and enjoyed life we then got pregnant naturally 2 months later!!!!! She is now 14 months and a blessing!!!
Off topic but charisma outfit is awesome!!
Agreed!!
100%😍🔥
And, SHE wears it well!👗
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I was thinking the same thing. And she is so fit. People don’t realize how much she does for Cole. You can tell she loves him a lot.
Just remember you don’t owe the internet every answer to your lives. I feel like this is a more private topic, which if you wanted to share it that’s awesome, I just hope you didn’t feel pressure to share it with the internet. You guys are an awesome couple and trying for a baby can be extremely stressful and emotional, don’t feel like you need to take your followers along with that ride.
I retired from nursing here in uk 12 years ago amazed to see the old hoist is the same nice to see charisma having same nightmare I used to have!! Swinging patients !
I used a hoyer many years. I was getting a little nervous there with him sideways. I always turned it so the person's legs were straddling the vertical bar. It can get a little tipsy when moving with the hoyers legs closed. 😉 wish yous the best 💜
I love how Charisma looks at Cole with total love in her eyes and vice versa! You guys rock!
Take it from the old school don t stress out about all the temperatures and watching this and that. Go back to the old ways and just have fun and enjoy being together. It will happen when you don't stress out. Have fun guys
I wish that was true for everyone. I would not have my 2 beautiful girls had it not been for science as both me and my husband have fertility issues.
If I had a dollar for every time someone said to just relax and have fun, don't stress it, I'd be a childless millionaire.
True, when least expected.
My wife and I tried for 7 years. Then finally we had our first son born June 17, 2020. He’s almost a year old now. Don’t give up trying just because it’s not happening as fast as you want it to.
Praise the Lord
Do what is best for you guys.
Don't be discouraged!! My husband and I prayed every single day for 5 YEARS before I got pregnant. Always hold on to hope. Sometimes thats all we have, and thats enough. Y'all will be great parents no matter how you get there.
The words are easy to say, stop trying but it is difficult. However I have to agree with others, just keep it between the two of you and it will happen sooner than you know, especially when you're trying so hard. Six months is a lot of trying. All your followers are so focused on you guys and watch your every move so just take it away and try to stop sharing with everything you do, and do only what suits the two of you. Go away for a weekend or week to a relaxing place and just take it as it comes. There are times that you just need that ME-TIME and shut off the cameras besides, the two of you keep everyone entertained all the time. So much pressure on you guys. Two wonderful individuals. God bless you both!
Charisma, love that you kept your desire to get dressed up even if you're just in the house. You look GREAT!
My daughter is due in June from IUI, after trying for a year, fingers crossed for you sweet folks
Congrats!! ❤️❤️
Way to go!
Alrighty now!!
What is IUI?
I think this topic should be kept private. when she concieve she can surprise us with the announcement , there will be 4 of us. Don't tell us how you all been trying. Only God knows when this actually will happen, fully rely on his timing.
💖💖💖 y’all are so Blessed 💞💞💞
Hey guys, get rid of the word trying. Just love each other and keep things normal and B4 ya know it, TWINS!!!!!!!! God has already blessed you with each other.
How ya say, BEEEEEEEEE Positive and keep looking at each other the way you do. Wobble Charisma Wobble
Amen and Very well said!
@@victoriawatson4538 i agree
Just trust in God all things are possible
I agree
Amen. Its God's plan and just continue loving, caring for each other. It will happen. Much luv 💞
“Be still and know that I am God!”
“When the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen”
Just thought i should share these with you today ♥️
I’m very happy seeing Cole and Charisma together and it’s their desire to have a baby , but at the same time you have to think that it would be too stressful for her to take care of the baby and Cole . So don’t be disappointed because it didn’t work ,because God knows everything and whatever he does it’s all good and perfect and sometimes we are not to be too anxious for something so badly ,you just have to wait and if it is God’s will he will give it to you in due time .
The best piece of advice I ever heard was from my mom. I heard her tell all of my aunt's and uncles, so I took it when I was trying for my baby. She always says to stop trying. Don't track, don't worry about temps or anything, don't pee on a stick until you're late. Because like you said, it gets to be very stressful and doing the baby dance becomes too much of a chore, rather than something fun you do as a couple. Just have fun and enjoy yourselves. The only thing I did was made sure I paid attention to my ovulation dates by looking at my period tracker on my phone. Good luck you guys, it'll happen.
Kaitlyn you have a wise mother, mom's the good ones are great
Look at the way she looks at him when he's speaking... all that love for him just pours out in her expression...You're both so blessed to have each other!
Whenever y’all start trying again, Don’t fix your mind on getting pregnant so much, just focus on enjoying each other and don’t think about it. I swear when you least expect, it will happen. My daughter turned 3 in Jan. 😂😂😂😂😂 I understand. After 6 months of trying I was soo burned out, and I just let it go and then bam, I got preggers. Y’all are gonna be awesome parents when the time comes. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sadly, it doesn't always happen for many women. I do hope it happens for them
7 years ttc here. Relaxing and not thinking about it doesn’t always work for everyone. The average time I’m for a normal couple to get pregnant is 6-12 months x
I battled infertility for over a decade before having my second. Respectfully, telling people who are trying to conceive not to think about it, can be offensive. It's similar to telling people with any other issue, "Meh, don't worry about it." I know this wasn't your intention, but I think it's important for people who are unaware to know how some people facing infertility may feel. The truth is, whether they relax or not has no impact on whether a couple conceives. That's why even some people who are assaulted, who are under immense stress, might get pregnant.
@@girlfromsouth214 I believe they just meant not to stress about it as some things happen when you least expect it.
Health issues here...married at 31.5 started trying around 33, IVF 2x at 36. Baby Girl 2nd IVF. Then SURPRISE natural at 39, a son. So Thankful. Bless you on your journey. I was ancient.
Charisma is beautiful inside and out...COLE IS SO BLESSED TO HAVE HER💞
I’ve been trying for 5 years now. I don’t even think about it anymore. I try to enjoy my life and wait on God’s timing. Have fun trying, don’t let it consume you. Enjoy your life and it’ll happen. 💕
You two - don't worry about the baby. The stress alone can wreak havoc! I'm willing to bet that once you both give yourselves a break about this, you'll be delivering the good news to your followers. In the meantime, enjoy this time together. Once you have a baby, your life will not be your own for MANY years.
Forget about trying and just enjoy your selves it will happen in time by the grace of God
I have a cycle every month on time as well, so I was under the impression that everything was “okay on my end” as well. But after seeing a fertility specialist I found out I have a blocked tube. For sure worth seeing someone but if Cole is normal I would def wait to see a specialist until you’ve tried for a year. I was so nervous to see a specialist but now I am super glad I did.
Thanks for sharing and advice ❤️
God bless you both. Sometimes when you can relax a little bit, you get the results you want.
Yes, God bless you all, just relax God got you all!
Unconditional love and labor from Charisma ❤❤❤
OK I'm sure Cole is stressed too, he didn't look like himself in this video. Not just one of them. Trying makes things stressful, love each other, no time line, nothing and it'll happen. You guys are going to make such wonderful parents and I am praying for you both.
My dear as I was watching this video I’m actually registered nurse, have been in the healthcare for longest, I really suggest you ask for a better Hoyer lift, I’m talking about the lift that is less manual for you, It has the buttons and you don’t have to manually do it, it is actually covered by most insurance but all you need to do is ask for it, I think you guys are doing a good job and are a great couple and team💗
My thoughts , also, she should have a better hour lift, push button
They do have that one, but they needed the manual to try to get him in the tub. That’s why they went out to their garage where it’s stored.
Yes this is def the old model but I think this one takes up a little less space and easier to put away
There's better floor hoists out there that are automated, for sure. Preference is a big motivator though
I agree the electronic one was used at the NH where I worked. No way would that life been used on a daily basis.
When you’re not even thinking about it is when it will happen trust me mother of three❤️
That's so true, prayer changes things
As someone who suffers from infertility this isn’t true for everyone and can be a hurtful comment. Just FYI, not everyone would take this comment kindly.
This isn't always true.
Agree, not a comment taken lightly. Im a mom of two adopted children whom I love with all my heart but the path of infertility was very difficult.
I just love the way you cared for each other. Blessings
I love to see you guys showing person in similar position like cole, that no matter your condition you are NOT LIMITED TO ANYTHING in this world. #staypositive
Wow what is this girl charisma she is such a happy giggly person love her energy and her attitude bless you girl ! Cole you are a great guy
Dont put yourself in danger trying to please anyone. Love you guys stay safe
My sister tried for several years before conceiving! She now has 4 beautiful daughters. Don’t lose hope! Pray! Pray! Pray! The Lord loves blessing his children! I’ll be praying for you too!
Babies are hard work, conceiving when you’re ready is the hardest part. I’m sending you sticky baby dust!!
Cole is shows a lot of courage to be so trusting. I admire you both!
Hello how are you doing 👋☺️😀☺️
I love you guys so much and im rooting for all your dreams to come true ,but relax for a while and dont ever change! You bring a smile to me as i worked with disabled individuals who were unable to communicate with me ,but how chill is cole when the hoyer lift had a malfunction! Oh my god! Love you two crazy kids!
Charisma gives me body goals! Dang gurllll!
“Each day brings new opportunities, allowing you to constantly live with love - be there for others - bring a little light into someone's day. Be grateful and live each day to the fullest.”
Happy Sunday Cole and Charisma,
Enjoyed watching this great vlog.
You guys are so open and honest about your lives.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
Sending positive vibes your way.
Stay safe and positive.
You guys are such a warm and loving couple.✌🏻🙏🏻❤️
Wow Cole you are blessed with a true friend. Chrisma be blessed everyday.
I worked in nursing for years. I know how hard it is! ❤️
Wow! The love and admiration in her eyes are real!
God bless you both!
I get so annoyed when I’m taking a self care bath and my husband insists on getting in lol
Lol!
You are both young and when the time is rite things will take place and you be good parents god bless Thank you.
We weren’t lucky enough to have a child, but we never called it trying. My husband always said we were practicing and we would just keep practicing until we got it right. So, when you’re ready, practice a little. 😉
Beautiful comment ❤️
Stop allowing what people say to steal your Joy's, what people say should not consume you. Blessings to you both.
OMG! I was rolling when Charisma was talking about how people were talking ab her not wanting Cole to take a bath with her lol. God will Bless this Union, Trust In Him!
Beautiful couple in and out.A shout out for both families for bringing them up in a nice way.
This video teaches one never to judge others when you don't really know anything about them. There is a lot that goes in to making videos on TH-cam. Goodness!!
Will keep you both in prayer, for rest, peace of mind and continued love and joy. Thank you for sharing your life with us. 💗
You guys are so beautiful and blessed! Your babies are on the way, definitely within God’s timing and especially for two amazing parents like you both! Just breathe and believe...❤️🥰😉
I commend you guys for all your strength. You are a match indeed made in heaven. I can see you standing the test of time at 100+ years old. Still as loving as you are. Thank you for sharing your stories and dear lives with us.
Sometimes people need to watch the video without all the negative. Stay blessed😍
Whatever way works best, angels will grace you with a bundle of joy
I am now exhausted, I cannot imagine how you do it. Just take it easy. You are both wonderful, I feel so for you and I give you so much credit!!!!!!!!!!
Wow I never ever seen such a Strong woman like Charisma God bless you both.🙏❤️❤️❤️
God will bless you two with a beautiful healthy baby!! Like you guys always tell us. STAY POSITIVE !! ❤️❤️❤️
Love is Love...when you really love someone you would do anything for that person to see that they are happy..
Charisma has done an amazing job at turning your house into a home.
It’s amazing how perfect y’all are together. You’re so in sync with each other. Beautiful couple. Bless y’all ,
I have a tremendous amount of respect for you putting such personal aspects of your life out there for everyone. Take your break and do what you have to do to stay healthy, mentally and phyically.
On another note. Y'all showed how much more independent Cole's nighttime routine has become. Has his morning routine changed since any since the last one you posted?
Dont be too overwhelmed. Whether complications or not. Just let it comes naturally. Love Cole for who he is. Pray about it
It's admirable how she handle so much and still looking as if what she does is so easy to do...but it's not. You are an inspiration. Love from Spain to both of you. Have a wonderful weekend
CHARISMA YOU ROCK. You are truly COLES ROCKSTAR.💖💖💖May GOD Continue to BLESS you with all you DESIRE TO ACQUIRE, REQUIRE and MORE. Sending WISHES OF HEALTH,WEALTH, and WELLNESS from NYC💖💖💖
When little charisma or a little Cole the time will be right no fuss no mush go with the flow luv ya guys
Charisma does so much with joy, it has helped me look at the things my husband does for me and how he cares for me. I have had chronic pain for 50 years. He never complains and is always ready to help me.
You definitely do NOT need to explain yourselves to anyone! Too many critics around.. I love you guys, keep on doing you!
CHARISMA AND COLE...INSPIRING COUPLE....THANK YOU FOR SHOWING PEOPLE WHAT LOVE CAN LOOK LIKE.....YOUR EXAMPLE IS IMPORTANT FOR US ALL....
GOD BLESS YOU BOTH
I know it sound strange but can't wait to know about how the little swimmers are swimming 😂 we basically want you to have this baby as much as you do 🤣
What a wonderful man and woman that have found eachother!
They have wonderful tubs where the door opens and you can slide in or use a hoyer to get in. You shut the door and fill it up. Even has jacuzzi jets and a handheld showerhead.💗
What a beautiful couple. You guys are truly a Blessing
Yes the break will be good and before you know it Cadence,Christian,Caleb,Christine,and Christopher will be on their way lol👍👼🙏🤗💙😷
😂 I LOVE those names!
Don't forget Carmen, Camille, and Cameron!
Bless you people. I wish you nothing but the best in that journey.
It took me 8 months to get pregnant the first time. After that I got pregnant very quickly.
The thing that helped me more than anything was a book called “Taking Charge of Your Fertility.” I learned more from that book than I did in nursing school!
I just ran across this couple a few days ago, and I just can’t stop watching. I have gotten so addicted to the videos. love this couple. THEY ARE THE BEST!
It’s all on God timing. Take this time to seek him. “Draw near to God and he will draw near to you. Clean your hands you sinners and purify your hearts, your double minded” -James 4:8
You doing a good job Charisma God bless you for the kindness you show to him.
It can take some time for a lot of people. Even though I chose to wait until I was 33. I got pregnant right away... it usually happens when you aren’t stressed and trying... no joke. I was never had a normal cycle and had been on birth control since I was 16 because of horrible periods. Good Luck and blessings to a healthy pregnancy!❤️🥰
When we were struggling to get pregnant I HATED for people to tell me to stop trying. Alas, when I finally gave it up to God and his timing and didn’t track or try anything. That month was when I got pregnant. God bless you both!