Step-Sister BlackListed Me From Attending Rich Dad's Funeral, Not Knowing I Control The Trust Fund
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As a 32-year-old man, I have always held a special place in my heart for my dad, who is now 60. My mom, who was a kind soul, passed away years ago and I still miss her presence every day. I often pray to have her kind spirit as I remember how brightly it shone around those she was with. My dad, however, didn't seem to struggle as much with my mom's death and moved on to a new relationship just months after her passing. This caused me anger and I eventually decided to move out and start my own life. My younger brother also moved out and we both created a life without relying on our dad. Despite this, we still respected him and he would call us during special events.
I have only had three girlfriends and none of them have met my dad. Our relationship has been distant but not hostile. My step sister, however, often answered my calls to my dad and would lie about his availability, which got on my nerves. I eventually stopped calling and my dad noticed, leading to a conversation about my step sister's behavior. After speaking with my dad, he banned her from answering his calls. However, she still managed to get my phone number and cursed me out. I hung up and she couldn't do anything about it.
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Hey Mr. Reddito. I love hearing your stories and regularly watch them. I am a subscriber and like them when I watch them. This story was a great one and OP was definitely NTA. I can kind of relate to it as I've encountered a situation in my own life not too dissimilar. It didn't involve the death of a family member, but it did involve step children. I've been married 3 times, and the third one I thought was going to be the one that would last. Unfortunately, I was sadly mistaken. My ex-wife has two daughters. As it turned out the oldest one ended up in jail with felony charges, her own doing not related to the marriage, and the youngest eventually caused the end of the marriage. That came about because she was upset that her mother and I got together and she wanted her mother and her father to reconcile and get back together. My ex-wife said that would never happen because he was abusive, and treated her and her youngest like crap. As a result, the step-daughter didn't like me. She was just as abusive with me as her dad was with her mother, and I didn't tolerate it. At one point right after she turned 21 we got into an argument and I kicked her out and told her to go live with her father. My ex was not happy with it, but she did accept it. At one point before that happened, we caught her stealing money from her mothers purse, and from a debit card. I put the fear of god into her when I was able to track the credit card purchase to her, and told her that I kept her out of jail for identity theft. I told her that the bank was going to turn her in, but I talked them out of it and just cancelled the purchase. The bank wasn't going to do anything, but my little lie scared her. Later on, she went out and got pregnant and when she had her baby, my ex invited her to stay at our house until she could find a place of her own. I tended to avoid being around her because I knew there would be a conflict, but my ex pushed me into joining them in a communal situation that as expected ended up in her making derogative comments on anything I said and me telling her to shut the hell up. I got up and left the room to cool down and before I could, she came into the room I was and wanted to talk. I refused and told her to leave. Being a stubborn brat, she got nasty with me. She ended up with a small scratch on her arm from me trying to push the door closed in her face. The door had a rough nail hole that scratched her, and she accused me of hitting her. I finally was able to get out of the room and left the house through a back entrance. I got in my car and went for a long drive to cool down. I received a call from a local police officer and it turned out that she reported me for assault. I received a ticket and had to go to court to answer the charges. My ex kicked me out of the house and filed divorce papers within a day or two of the disagreement, She recanted the charges, and I had to pay court charges, but got off without a hearing. Within 7 months the divorce was finalized and I was living in a different city. It still cost me a lot of money as it turned out that my ex had spent both hers and my money that was in a joint checking account to the point that it was several thousand dollars in the hole. Since the primary on the account was me, I had to repay the money. I had a second account with the same bank and they took virtually everything from it to pay for the joint account deficit. I had to take out a loan to pay it off. Prior to our marriage, I had been totally debt free. I've since had no contact with any of her family. Another little bit of information, my ex's two sisters also didn't like me on first sight. They felt I wasn't good enough for her. Honestly speaking, I'm glad that it's all over and I'm retired now and live several states away and have no contact with any of them. I'm relatively happy now. Thanks for your stories, and keep putting them up. I'll keep watching them.
Use that fear of God on your former family and CURSE them. They'll be wishing they didn't steal from you. I curse them for your sake!!
That would be a--whoopimg time
Terry, I'm needing to get with you as I need some help filling out financial aid stuff with the State to get on Medicaid for extra help with financial assistance, and then talk to Unity Points Financial adviser as I can't remember some things from one day to the next, I need glasses but even more importantly I need dental work and I have all of these things through my medical insurance company, but I have to get on Medicaid to qualify for extra help and better benefits, which I am eligible for but need help remembering and filling out forms that the state keeps sending me over and over again and it's to the point that I can't even think, as I'm in so much pain because of my teeth being so broken from that motorcycle accident a few years ago that fractured all of the teeth in my mouth and I was spitting out pieces of teeth everywhere right after the accident, and I had a couple of bad teeth already that had popped the caps off of and fillings out of, but especially since falling and hitting the toilet a few weeks ago and then had Jim take me to the emergency room and got x-rays of my pelvis and head and neck, which turned out that nothing was broken, but my tailbone was bruised severely from hitting the front of the toilet, but like I said before I need some help as I can't even concentrate or remember to finish filling out some of the applications, forms etc., and then I missed a telephone interview and conference a couple of weeks ago as that was when my phone on the fritz from someone hacking into it, but I severely need HELP! And my feet and legs are swelled up like puff balls and can barely walk and then I hate trying to communicate by text and phone!
Sometimes I think my Uncle should have pursued charges against family. His ex-wife and a cousin with POA emptied $250K from his bank account, hid it, and then divorced him. She wanted the house, all the cars, alimony, and child support for kids from a past marriage. The judge was flabbergasted. She got the house, the house payment, 2 cars (not all of them), and that's it. No alimony, no child support. She had to sell the house, because her "part time job" of going on shopping sprees didn't hold her over long enough, and the money dried up faster than she thought. Didn't even take her a year to go through it. On junk. JUNK.
I'm just hope you don't go for marriage number four
As a lady of 61, I can tell you he more then likely remarried so fast, because 1) he didn't know how to be alone, and 2) he was lonely. Not that he didn't love your mom.
Both reasons are understandable, but still stupid reasons to get remarried. I've seen those reasons manifest in marriage and they often end up being not so great marriages.
My MIL did the same, but she didn't remarry. Keep in mind, some people just feel that marriage is a tribute to your devotion to someone, especially at his age. I get it.
Or dad already had the sidepiece.
Or a man will out run grief and heart ache and depression by filling that gap with another woman. Usually always ends badly when they do that. They take the first woman that comes along. And their usually always not a good woman. Their gold diggers pretending.. always a bad idea. They’re out running something they need to go through.. they need time and they refuse to give it. grief after a loss of a wife is something they have to feel. But a man will run from it trying to avoid it. It has to come. They must feel it, to get better..some men don’t do grief after loss of a wife well. 😢
But 6 months isn't time to remarry. He could have dated.
Not allowing a man's children from his first wife to attend his funeral is just evil! It was cruel and without reason. ⭐
In the US it is actually illegal. Security would be told point blank to let them in or be arrested.
@@Nempo13 I'm not trying to argue, just genuinely curious- which law is this? I don't think I've heard of it but boy do I like the sound of it.
it's monstorus and unforgivable thats what it is, glad to see OP was able to nuke her.
@ammieway funerals are considered public events, so you can't ban people from them legally. You can ban them from wakes or private events, though.
So wrong on so many levels
My Grammie passed unexpectedly and step kids from her deceased husband who hadn’t talked to her in years came out of the woodwork, one being so bold as to claim that at His father’s funeral, him and my Grammie talked about how him and my mother would take care of her estate, WRONG! Mom and I are in charge. Vultures come circling it’s sickening.
Yep death does something to people, then you really see there true nature!
Don't you hate it, that anytime money is involved that the vultures come out of the woodwork, even the ones that have absolutely no business being there.
yup its disgusting it's worse when u have extended family ( ex steps ) then you have millions vultures cane out but I dint get how a biological could get banned from biological and only steps go
I hate the ones who immediately decide they're entitled to everything in the house, so they empty it when nobody is around. Some even do it while they're supposed to be at the funeral. Some people suck.😑
He should have had Lana prosecuted AFTER exposing her theft online. She got off too easy.
Yeah she still never returned the expensive stolen items
He’s a redditor. Redditors are spineless
In some countries they will kill you for stealing. I think this is one of those types of countries. One time I saw a man bricked to death for stealing a cell phone. it's not the same as here.
Bro the lawyer at 21:00 is just dead
I know right
I think the dad knew exactly what kind of people his wife and stepkids were. I also think he changed his will when he was away from them.
The dad saw right through them and acted accordingly 😌.
I hope my parents spend every penny on themselves and enjoy doing it. All I want from them after they pass is the comfort of knowing they enjoyed their lives and that I got to see them every chance we had.
Not sharing Generational wealth is the major reason people are poor and starving
❤❤❤❤❤ 100000000000% agree
OP's father really knew how to sort his new family out. They wanted his money so he made sure they had enough to avoid any challenge to the Will then left the rest to his real family.
He didn't have a will, he had a trust. At least in the USA, that's a big difference.
@@feloniousmonk3049 Remember there was a reading of the Will. It sounds like the father created a testamentary trust.
Except he gave nothing to his second born?
@Ladywizard so what that was his decision
@@Ladywizard the first born child and second born were really close. I'm pretty sure the dad knew the first born wasn't evil and would share with the 2nd son.
One day I’ll get the courage to tell my story. This story here makes me want to share.
Plz do! I give you my word of honour that I will never judge you. As it says in Bible "Judge not lest ye be judged.".
Take your time.
Is this where we're supposed to beg you to share??? Meh
@@kimdasko6952 I can’t stand negative people with miserable lives. Nothing in her post suggested wanting sympathy. You jumped to that because you’re toxic. She just said listening to this made her want to post her own story. It’s a simple request lots of people make. You’re so damaged you went left with it. Grow up.
Bless you
If it was me after not being allowed to say goodbye to my father I would've changed all the locks on set home, installed security cameras, put everything they owned on the curb. They would've been left with nothing but what my father left for them and step sister would've gotten arrested and charged with theft for breaking into the house. I would've treated them like they treated me and never spoke to them again
I think "Lana" was just her mom's mouthpeice. Stepmom was cold from the beginning...a golddigger who preyed in a grieving man, then cutting him off from his own children in favor of her's. If "Lana" was not carrying out mom's express wishes, she was just acting as she had been taught by her good ole mom, if you question that just see how fast her own mom pushed her to the curb for the sake of her own image. I think the only member of the stepfamily that might not be a total AH is the stepsister who got almost no mention other than she lived off op dad's money and would not get a job. So the real villan, I think, was stepmom. She thought she had found herself a walk ATM, not knowing her meal ticket all but disappered with his death, her daughter was just following in her mother's path...God help the next family that falls prey the OP's former stepfamily
you're spitting facts.
Mom raised her. They played the dad from day 1
They were all old enough to know and do better; they made their choices.
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Same thing happened to my family. Unfortunately, us five kids were pushed aside and the new wife and her criminal kids got all the houses and all the money. And not one of us five were there to bury the old man.
Your dad was evil for what he did to you
The first story sounds like my step monster. I blame my dad for allowing that monster and her spawn do that to us.
Same with me. It's always a competition
Glad I'm close my step mom, stepsister and half-brother. Step mom is 5 years younger than me with 22 and 24 years between stepsister and brother. Yes, my dad liked them young whereas I had a thing for older women.🤷🏼♂️
Some people just don't like being alone, they need that companionship so bad that it will cloud their judgement and they will latch onto the first person who comes along and regardless if that person is a good person or not.
Exactly! That’s what happened to my maternal grandfather. Wife of 51 years passed away and he went into a deep depression. All of a sudden a lot of ladies he knew wanted him to give them rides, go out to dinner, buy their groceries etc. eventually he got together with a secretary from his old job and he considers them companions but he knows she’s more of a gf. 6 years later he’s says he has no money and is relying on his social security checks. Half of that going towards her rent for her apartment while she spends the money she got selling her house on who knows what. She does have a gambling problem so probably that.
Idiots they are and it's nearly always men some who are not stupid but can't see that beauty is only skin deep and woman use it to disarm naive men.
Love the story, happy the sons got closer to their dad and that awful family got nothing
I liked this story. Makes me feel like his mom raised him right. He turned out the man she wanted and must be proud from heaven. Hopefully the step monsters learned a little humility.
KARMA MIGHT BE LATE !!! BUT ABSOLUTELY ALWAYS ON TIME!!!! 1. NEVER EVER GETS OVER LOST OF THEIR MOTHER !!!
If I was in OP’s shoes I would have pushed back that way it would be easier for OP to get control of what was rightfully his.
I'm sorry. But the real bad guy was the mom. She allowed the step sister to do that. She also was the main reason OP was not allowed in the funeral. The Sister in law was just the enforcer.
Story #1. NTA. Poetic justice for once. Good on you.
Yes, the stepsister was the biggest AH in the story, with the stepmother right behind. I would have sent the video to the Police IN ADDITION to uploading it so that she would have gone to jail as well and been completely destroyed.
Some of us just wait for the universe to do it.
It's always so much more satisfying when you had nothing to do with it..
Criminals will get caught. Less than 1% of people will commit a successful crime and never commit another. Everyone gets caught eventually
I would have exactly what you said.
Wow!!! I love op. He isn’t like the other doormats in other stories I have listened to.
I didn't like he let Lena get away with stealing the valuables. The police should have gotten involved in that. It was slam dump case. It also made me wonder about the truthfulness of the story.
ITS STILL NOT 2 LATE 2 PRESS CHARGES !!!! CHECK LOCAL PAWN SHOPS 2 PURCHASE FATHERS HEIRLOOM BACK !!!
I would have been glad that I repaired my bond with my father before he died. The others and crap could go to hell.
Ohhhh, so once hearing about the prenup, I understand that the stepmother knew she wasn't legally entitled to what she wanted. The only hope would've been the will.
Thanks again Mr Reddito. OP did his best
Wait, did OP get the stuff back? I'd have her in jail first, get done with court, and THEN post the video!
Since you asked, what would I do, I would confront them immediately about how and why they were trying to isolate my father from me. Then I would say that maybe they were up to no good and just after his money.
Story 1, NTA. The fact that the stepbrat even lied that op's dad wasn't there when he was, was a red flag. I wouldn't be surprised if she lied to op's dad about the phone call. The fact that she even got mad at op for telling his dad what she was doing shows that she was trying to create a bigger rift between op and his dad and is now mad that she can no longer do so. She definitely called to tell Op off and possibly threaten op to keep away. Not surprised that she got mad when op immediately hung up on her and she didn't get her chance to keep op away. If the stepmom acted like that to op then I can see why her vile daughter thinks it's okay to try to get rid of op. Also, she's probably one of those stepmoms that believe only HER children matter and not her husband's kids. She's not happy about it because it meant competition for attention and money. Op, she's trying to shove it in your face to say that she thinks she's his rightful child to the money and not you. It's not just their mentality it's because their greedy aholes who want it all to themselves. Op, people like them want free money, be lazy and not work for it. Now that their mom married a rich man they think their entitled to everything. I'm not surprised that they show no concern for him because all they want is the money and their actions show that. Op is definitely right to say that their only "caring" now because they don't want to lose "their money". Not surprised that once op's dad was gone they immediately think their get everything and can get rid of op and his brother like they've wanted. They wanted to make it seem like they were the only family op's dad had. Not surprised that the vile entitled aholes refused op's mom's side of the family to come to the funeral. Of course they wouldn't have because in their minds they think if your not there they get everything. Hahah, looks like joke was already on the evil vile step family if the lawyer already knew how they were. Not surprised that vile stepmom screamed and threw a tantrum once hearing that she didn't get everything like she thought she would. I figured that's why all of a sudden she acted nice to op. Just so she can have op's money. Good on op for tell her hell no straight to her face. Wow, instead of trying to get op's favor she should put that energy into getting a JOB and make her own money. Of course vile stepmom thought she could threaten to bully op to give her the house which was real stupid on her part. Good on op for doing a better threat that vile stepmom knew she couldn't win against. Why am I not surprised that Lana broke into the house to steal what she thought was rightfully hers after op refused her. Lana deserved EVERYTHING that happened after everyone saw the video. Heck, op saved an innocent man by showing him how vile, evil, and entitled that witch is.
Yeah. OP was the MVP of this story! I can only hope he's enjoying the fruits of his life's work now! ❤️
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly I agree 💯💯💯
Sounds like Stepmum and step sisters got exactly what they deserved. Nothing. Crappy people reap what they sow.
I hope op seek some counseling so he can work on stop letting people push him around story 1
My dad is pushing 80, Even if we all get along, he already gave all of us kids, wife and ex-wife a copy of his will and it stipulate that anyone who challenge it after his death lose his share. I think this way could save a lot of trouble in families where people don't get along. Everyone knows who gets what, no fighting.
That's exactly how I'm doing mine.
I love it when your stories get wild :D
After sharing that video I then would go to the police. Because I'm into karma
G’day, I absolutely loved your story. Thank you
lana...well if you read in reverse...
Classic and simple case of Karma…LENA!!!😂😅
This story was just heart breaking and IMO a traumatizing experience for the biological sons. I was happy to learn that the sons received 80% of the inheritance. Personally IMO, The step family should not have received anything and step sister, Lana, should have been arrested and prosecuted for theft.
It would have been great if he called the police after her life fell apart so she had to get back all the stuff and then sue her in civil court so she Burns through the inheritance
Sorry for your loss. People who are often lonely and/or don't know how to be alone and enjoy their own company are more likely to ubruptly move on very quickly after losing a spouse. It's sad and I am sure he regretted if but then felt stuck as the relationship with the stepmother had already progressed so quickly.... Any stepparent or step sibling bold and wicked enough to block the deceased 1st or other family members and close friend's, were never deserving your dad's love and generousity
Pretty sure OP could have just looked up the obituary.
Private funerals are rarely listed on public venues.
@@mbyerly9680 yep, this happened to me and my mom when her dad died. Despite our messages and cards and calls, we never heard a word until someone called us two days after the service had happened.
Had a new woman 5-6 months after Mom died. Am I the only one thinking what I am thinking?
It's not that uncommon from some things I've seen.
You have a lot of people who end up dating and other issues with some of the groups formed for people who lose a spouse...especially the people who toss themselves into doing things to keep their mind on other things which then develops into other things, especially when combined with other things coming into it.
Not all people grief on the same time line. Nor is all sexual appetites the same.
Let me spell it out for you. Most often this happens the "New" woman was already in the picture. Not always, but usually. And about grief counseling. Yeah, that was NOT a thing 20-30 years ago. People were expected to suck it up and move along, especially men.
@@AzraelThanatos the person I ended up seeing knew my late husband, and it was unexpected that I did. It normally is someone that knew/was friends with the late spouse since you're grieving together.
@@barneytaylor9338 Not for older spouses... they are statistically especially older men to remarry within 2 years of their wife dying
I have a similar story except my grandma was still around and she raised absolute hell, told my step mom that if she didn't let us come to the funeral she would pay whoever to make my step moms life a living hell
If i was in op place i would; After the inheritance reading i would've made the ex step family disappear in smoke🚬
This story triggered a lot of emotions for me. I am disable and live several states from my parents and my sister along with her kids. My dad had a stroke a year after I was diagnosed with 2 brain tumors. There were a lot of drama and bitterness cause I couldn't go be with my family when he got sick. I was in the process of getting medical attention to my own issues. Fast forward to 2022, I father went down hill and was placed in Hospice then died. This was during the time when covid was really bad as well. My sister informed me that she didn't want me around her, her children and my parents since we had different views on vaccine for covid. She stated that she discussed with my mother and she agree. To say the least, I was keep from seeing my father before he died because I was not vaccinated. Even tho I was advised at the time by Neurosurgeon to hold off of experimental drugs due to my brain tumors. My family still doesn't understand. Yet, they let friends visit who were unvaccinated or still under the doctor's care for covid. That was hurtful. Honestly, I don't even know if I will ever see my mom face to face again. Breaks my heart. There has been a lot of hurt done by all parties including me. (I am not proud of my part but I own my part.)
Hugs to you for your pain and loss. My mom endured similar when her dad died. Despite mom's efforts and adoration of her dad, mom's mom and mom's siblings refused to contact her and let her know once het dad passed away. To add insult to injury, despite my calls and cards sent to please let us know about services, someone finally contacted me after the service had already happened! I was in the exclusion because they knew I'd never agree to excluding mom from her own father's funeral. What they did in my opinion is so beyond unforgivable. There's no inheritance to fight over just both wanted to come like any family member would want to and participate and be a part of the family in a part of the grieving process. we were both denied that because my mom's mom gets off on acting like a freaking bully and is always looking for someone to take a crap on.
@@bookbeing I am so sorry to you, and to Safe Harbor. You don't deserve to be treated that way; especially by family! I know how hurtful that is, and I wish I could remove your pain. ☹️
@@ardeethomas4916 thank you for your kind words.🦋💙
I’m glad this guy’s not bitter…🤣. Both the brothers hung around for 2 weeks after the funeral, but were supposed to believe it wasn’t to see the will read? 😂. I love these tales!
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Step mom wouldn't tell me dad was in the hospital any of the times he was there so I would drive there on the way to his house before going home. Wouldn't tell me when he was dying and even his old boss got to say goodbye (my hubby was very ill and in the hospital a lot so I couldn't visit every day). I had to ask when the funeral was and showed up. Her family got our home, possessions and even my belongings because she was a hoarder and wouldn't give me my things. I waited for her to die so I could ask her daughter for my stuff. I was told no so it runs in the family I guess. Step mom was the greediest person I have ever met and that is saying something since I have met quite a few. If dad came to visit and she happened to be with him she would be trying to drag him out of the house by his arm while he was talking. We would laugh and I would tell myself she couldn't change the fact that he had 2 daughters but my dad was an idiot and she was a master manipulator.
I'm only in the beginning but it is interesting to hear storytellers say something along the lines of, " they should know that you don't have someone that love someone else"
And I hope you eventually understood that. That's what his dad did about getting remarried. That it doesn't mean that he loved their mom any less.
Just found your channel. Love it! Looking forward to more videos 😀
This has to be a fake story...
I just remembered something that happened when i was 16 and worked part time at Reavys funeral home that were my next door neighbors! Mid funeral open casket of a man in mid 60s and the place was packed with about 80 chairs in room! He sat up! ! Yes you heard me right! HE SAT UP !! not only that he turned his head just a little to the audience! Luckily Mr Reavy just always sews mouth and eyes shut! Man the whole front row fainted all over the floor and two of them their bowels let go! Then Mr Reavy arrived from a side door and pushed the corpse back flat and pulling a coil of wire from back pocket worked inside the casket ! We had to call ambulances for four people and it was quite a circus to clean up after transferred to another room!
The human heart is the most deceitful of all. It does not discriminate. Greed, entitlement, hate - it is a worldwide epidemic.
Listening to the stories you read keep me humble. Thank you.
I had an uncle who did the exact same thing. I questioned my uncle about it. My uncle went and got a letter that his wife had written to him. He was not supposed to open this letter until after her death. In her letter that was opened after her death...she wanted him to remarry...but she wanted it to be at least 6 months after her passing. Both are stil alive and in their early 90's. No one in the family resented his remarrying because she pre-approved it.
I’ve had a letter that states the same for my wife and a second one for the man that she may find. According to OSHA, my occupation is the most dangerous by a long shot and I’ve had many close calls over the years.
I want my wife to remarry, and I want her husband to be the man of the house just as I have been. My kids or wife ever tell him he isn’t the real dad he has my permission to slap a MF (except my wife) and read my own words.
My biggest priority is him filling the hole in her heart and continuing to raise my boys to become men.
He isn’t picking up my saved game, the old hero died and it’s time for a new hero to take the torch in the sequel. You aren’t saving her, I bought and paid for the house, got her her degrees, and have her setup to buy a business from a friend of mine nearing retirement. My boys are old enough that the foundation is set, they simply need a man to keep them from straying from the path. My best friend growing up and god father of my kids is a surgeon and the few times we’ve talked about it he has always said he has no problems busting out some cash to look after the kids education or whatever. Hell, before he got married I told my wife to hit him or any of my friends up but now they are all married so unless their wives are down for some concubines it probably won’t work, lol.
My wife could not be more awesome and I don’t want her joy to die with me. I didn’t build all of this so she could die alone and miserable, she is barely in her 30’s while I’m in my mid-30’s so if I were to die this year she is looking at easily 50+ years by herself.
I doubt I’d ever remarry if the shoe was on the other foot. Might find an older widowed lady and work out some kind of companionship thing or find a lady of the night from time to time. My wife has been the only woman in my life who let me dance to my own tune and believed in me when everyone thought I was crazy. I’ll be just fine but I worry about her.
What do people say--"The foot you step on today could be the same foot that would kick your ass tomorrow." OP's step family should've known this would happen!
People in today's world seem to be driven by a sense of self wanting and expectations when they are not deserving. This story reminded me of how our world has become...selfish and nothing is ever their fault. I absolutely love when people call others a narcissists when they themselves are yet try to play the victim. The way people think today sickens me. I believe the son did the absolute correct thing in this story. Money can NOT or will ever solve "all problems." The step mom and her children need to grow up. Period!
I refuse to remarry. My ex of 30 yrs passed away. My current spouse thinks he will get my house and money. I have a will and trust leaving it all to my children from the marriage. I wanted to make sure my children and not his (no contact) gets everything! I left him a little something.
You have a new fan, Sir!!!!!!! These are the best revenge stories that I heard in a while!!! Same thing happened to my Navy buddy.
I am the adopted and later ignored kid in my family. My adopted father passed away 04Dec 2020. I finally found out " by accident " when my brother let it slip 17May 2022. Until that day my brother and I texted at least once a week if not almost daily, and he never said a thing. I missed the funerals of both grandparents, 3 great aunts, great uncle, great grandmother, all under the excuse that in Arkansas adopted kids are not actually family members and therefore have no rights or privileges as such.
That is an absolutely cruel way to treat someone. I'm so sorry for your loss and for the heartless way you were excluded from the services of your deceased loved ones. I just endured the same and it hurts like nothing I've ever felt before. I just can't get my head around why someone would treat others grieving so badly! 😭
OMG 😳 that is horrible!! Shane on your ‘family’. What does adopted mean? Ugh. Praying for you 🙏🙏
I was in a similar situation only my dad gave my stepmom and he daughter everything and there was no revenge for me.
So sorry for you. Hard to get over that pain, I know , I had a similar situation.
I'D CALL THE LAWYER & POLICE QUICKLY!! GLAD THE STEP-FAM=GOLDDIGGERS GOT CLOSE TO ZERO. GLAD FOR OP
Very pleasant presentation. I look forward to all of your videos.
I’m pretty sure this is an exercise in creative fiction. Unless I’m much mistaken lawyers NEVER assemble a family like that to read the will like they do in TV. It’s great for drama for the screen, but who wants to risk that powder keg going off irl!
That would make sense.
Sounds like step family might have poisoned him?
My guess is Mr. Reddit is the only one that didn't see this coming.
Lana showed her true colors too many times. She cut OP from the funeral because she thought somehow that would get him an IN into the inheritance. Or maybe she thought if she pushed back enough he would never see the money even if he was included in the will because he'd be gone. She tried soo hard to be rid of him, and laughed in his face so many times because she thought he was beneath her. Only to become super nice when the realization dawned on her that the very person she had been rude and nasty to all her life now has nearly all of her stepdad's fortune. She lost it at that point. Probably realized how much she effed up and proceeded to go into nice girl mode to try and win over OP's favor but the damage was done.
The moment she broke into the house is when she absolutely crossed the line. After sharing that info online I still would have brought her to the police. made her return the items and charged her with grand theft. It would have sent the same message. Her friends would realize she had a record now, her fiance would see that she is a thief, and the outcome would have been the same.
Sorry I have missed your storytelling I was away now back to enjoy your readings 😊
Crazy story, love it!!
I don't understand why the son didn't just ask his father to live with him?...
He needs to press charges against the stepsister lock her up make her return the items
Just amazes me how petty and entitled I've heard some people are. If I were in OP's shoes, depending on the legality of it, I would have asked the funeral director to exhume the body and have another funeral with the ACTUAL family, or, barring that, a celebration of life ceremony, and hire that same security guard to bar the step family from attending.
The step family got what they deserved. I feel so sorry for the sons, but at least they were able to have a relationship with their dad, no matter how late.
Shout out to the OG for getting that pre-nup 👍🏾
In the Dad's defense. When you're drowning. Anything that helps you keep your head above water is a God send.
When my mother died she left us what could only be called a reverse inheritance. The credit card companies kept upping their limits and my mother in her dementia kept spending. When she died she was 65K in credit card debt. Bless the lawyer my sister found because it turns out we owed nothing.
Marrying shortly after being widowed: if a person doesn’t have something to die for, there isn’t anything to live for. Also everyone’s grieving is different.
Therefore if the second spouse wasn’t AP everyone should just get on with their lives.
I loved the outcome, but I personally would have had Lanna arrested!! 💯
EXCELLENT!!!
Im sorry for your and your brothers loss 💔 and I cant stand your step people...and glad you did what you did and love your mom and dad are together ❤
Great story..... subscribed n can't wait for the next one!
I'm listening to the story on the way home from work and as soon as he said prenup I said hell yeah
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I love this ! Good people always win
It's VERY common for older men to marry soon after they are widowed. They have a difficult time living without a spouse.
I know the sweet revenge feeling of this. I wanted everyone to see my dad that knew what a great man he was. He died in peace because of how great he was to any and everyone. Money is the root to all evil. My dad made me wait till I was almost 20 before I got my TRUST from my grandpa. My dad said it was because he didn't want to believe if someone dies, we expect something. Evil comes in all forms. They're the snakes that smile in your face holding the knife.
Why is it that I click the like button even before the video loads? Oh yeah! It's because I know the story is going to be good. Especially the stories with updates.
I would've called the police on that evil thief!! I'm glad everything worked out and ended up in his favor! ESPECIALLY after having to deal with those evil, conniving, poor excuses of humans.
I got a story for you... I'll tell you about it when I'm done with what I'm trying to do.. it involves my mom pushing me down stairs when I told her I was pregnant, even though I was already seven months along.. it's sad how family can do each other at times
I love this story..👍👍
It's a pity that this step sister Lena prevented her step brother from seeing his father's funeral. Banning him from his own dad's funeral and then finding out there's NO MONEY from the step dad, Then trying to steal from the biological son's house for her own "inheritance"? Posting it on social media? I hope the police picked it up on it and arrested her. That would be the cherry on the top for all that she's done to OP. A nice time in prison for her.
Wow this is pretty much my family. Crazy. I just wish dad would have seen this before he died
I would have gotten my attorney involved immediately and succeeded in court, which I have had to do in the past.
Never be angry that someone moves on fast. Finding someone else even within a few months doesn’t mean that they didn’t love the person that passed. Loosing someone you’ve been with for years is devastating. Plus it’s difficult to adjust being alone. If I died I would want my wife to move on and be happy.
If I was the OP, Oh i get why he did not immediately call the cops on his evil step sister. He was toying with her like a cat toying with a mouse but once she had lost her friends, been disowned by her mother, and dumped by her fiancee THEN he should have gone to the police with the crime video. I am not sure how much time elapsed but statutes of limitations are usually 5 or 7 years depending on the crime.
First video I‘ve seen from you. That was truly moving and amazing. You‘re a great man, I love what you do! 🤗🙉🤜
Ok I'm questioning this story. once more it's written in a way that makes it look like a drama film. Like when OP and his brother arrive at the funeral venue they said they were shocked to see what they saw....yet they didn't list it and we had to find out what it was in the update. Also if OP wanted to see his father and help him why not just go down there and visit him? What was stopping him from just going to visit? Also if OP and his brother weren't allowed to attend the funeral why would the step mother even tell him where it was being held? Also, how old was the step sister? OP never said, and why is it that she seems to be the whole mastermind behind this? Also while at the funeral why didn't OP call his dad's side of the family? OP never mentioned anything about them, he should have at least had someone from his dad's side that would know him. Yet all we heard is that his mom's side of the family wasn't allowed in.
Also if the best friend was there, then why wouldn't he have called OP asking where he was? OP mentioned they haven't talked for a while, so it would be assumed they had one another's numbers. Also how was the best friend allowed? Obviously if they knew he and OP were friends the step sister would have barred him from it. Also at the will reading, only OP got something yet his brother got nothing? That is kind of odd. Also again with the second to final update, OP just ends it there by telling step sister that she isn't getting a cent. No saying what her reaction was or the like. Almost like they are trying to instill hype or drama first. Again how old was the step sister? It made it seem like she was a teen, but in the end it shows she's grown up and engaged. It all didn't make sense at all, so i'm questioning this story big time.
Also if OP wanted to reconnect with his father so much near the end why not just do it and not worry what his step family did?
there are plenty of full grown ass adults that act like children still or that they are still in high school..... and as to why he didnt go see his dad.....well this is speculation based on my own experiences but i have a feeling it wouldnt be just his dad there, so the SD and SM would and probably have made trying to visit his dad real unpleasant. couple that with all the emotions surround it....well it can be really hard to get past that...
This whole story is weak pops was a grown man an so was the son. He should have acted like one instead if trying to turn the stepfamily into villains. Just pathetic..
Anyone who loses a beloved parent has to realize that there is never a right time for the surviving parent to remarry. It is unfair to judge a lonely, grieving, heartsick widower for wanting not to be alone during whatever time he may have left.
Lana was a beast. The step-mother was for: 1. Her remarks to the S-SIL when he called to ask to help pay for the funeral, 2. Not recognizing that her husband’s son would not be feeling real grief over the loss of his dad, and 3.Not reigning in Lana and ending her reign of terror.
That's a good man, that's a solid marriage. OP best know she SCORED with this guy. And damn, what hilarious comeuppance!
Something that didn't really make sense to me was when the OP said he didn't talk with his father, in fact he didn't even tell him he got his masters degree. But then in the very next sentence OP said that he still respected his father and would talk to him on the phone for important events. That's kind of a contradiction there.
I don’t know how true the first story is. Sounds like someone posted a fake story on Reddit. Step family just feels overly aggressive and antagonist. Almost like characters of bad people. Plus, you’re going to tell me his father left 80% of his estate to him and left the other 20% to be split with his new wife, step kids, and his son’s best friend but left nothing to his younger son? Then the younger son is just cool with getting left out of the will? Nah.
The father knew his son would share with his brother
I think most stories covered in this TH-cam channel are fake.
Obviously you have no knowledge of how other cultures work. In many cultures, the oldest (usually son) inherits everything. The son will then take care of the family.
That step mother makes Lady Tremaine look like a saint. And the daughter. Glad the father did see that and give OP the majority of his estate to look after.
Often people who were very happy in their marriage remarry quickly because they want that again.
I disagree, I've been married 41 years, no woman could replace my wife. And, I will protect the life money we saved for my own children and grandchildren, not that of outsider's.