Life Update | Divorce Emotions How I Deal with it, You're Not Alone!
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ค. 2015
- UPDATE ON HOW I AM DOING NOW - • How I Got Over My DIVO...
Hey Guys! Sorry, that I have been MIA with responding back to comments here on TH-cam, I have just been dealing with a lot of emotions lately and because of that I wanted to update you on how I have been doing and feeling. I hope that if you are going through a divorce or a loss of some sort that this video is helpful to you. Know that you are not alone in what you are facing and that it is ok to have emotions, intense emotions, and that it is normal to have all these feelings when going through a loss or divorce. I hope that this gives you some insight on what I have faced and what I do to deal with it and get past these emotions. I am by no means an expert and I am still dealing with this stuff on a daily basis, it is a process and somedays are better than other days. If you want to send me a private message you can e-mail me at julie.dawn.olsen@gmail.com or you can always leave me a comment here on this video. As always I try my best to respond back to everybody but sometimes that is just not possible for me but just know I read all your messages and comments and I try my best to respond back. I love you guys so much and it means more than the world to me to know that I have 20,000 plus friends supporting me (all of you!) and loving me through this, you guys are amazing! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING!
xo
Julie
Life Update | Facing Separation & Divorce
• Life Update | Facing S...
Here are the Podcast that I listen to, these just get me out of my head and get me thinking about other things in life:
The Chalene Show
turbochargedlife.libsyn.com/rss
The School of Greatness with Lewis Howes
lewishowes.com/feed/podcast/ - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
Hey, Sweetie. I'm a 60-year old woman, and I want to assure you that you can and will get through this. And not only this, but everything else life dishes out. When you're in the middle of pain, it's hard to see ahead, but take heart, because one day (and it will be sooner than you think), you'll be beyond this. Time really does heal. You are young and strong, and you still have your whole life ahead of you, all those chapters still waiting to be written. Good luck, and God bless you.
Thank you for this i needed it. I'm going through a breakup and probably divorce
Me to
Thank you for your encouragement
The 5 stages of death is the same for divorce. In time it will get better and you will become a stronger person from all of this. I too went through a divorce. Oh the denial, sadness, hurt, anger and numbness................very draining. There will be a day that you don't even think about it. When that day comes you see the light at the end of the tunnel! Keep your faith and for those days you cannot walk, God will carry you! I wish you peace!
Val Knight very good advice. I love it.
amen!!
How long did it take you?.... I was married for 10 years, and my wife (and mother of my two girls) left me for one of our friends. That was 3 almost 4 years ago. Now I'm better than i was three years ago, but still find I'm stuck in my moving on.... I still see her in my dreams and lose my shit, and wind up waking up in a super bad mood. I also don't like how its changed my view of females. I try and tell myself, "In another year you will get over it." But here i am almost four years latter, and its still eating me up.
Cheers for the Video! Forgive me for the intrusion, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Taparton Returning Love Takeover (search on google)? It is a smashing one of a kind product for learning how to stop divorce minus the headache. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my mate after many years got great success with it.
Val Knight this is exactly how I have been feeling it’s real grief that comes in waves.
Thanks for this. After 30 years my husband decided he doesn't want to be married anymore. It is very hard and I am going through all these same emotions.
All of those feelings you are having are completely normal. I went through a divorce with my first husband after being married for 11 yrs. the struggle is real. My kids were small then and i had nowhere to live because i was a stay at home
Mom. Even though i am a stylist, it wasn't enough to do everything i knew they needed. I had the depression, anger etc... All those feeling you are experiencing and then some and still had to function everyday, as if nothing was wrong, to try and protect my kids from it.
I understand how you feel.
But, i will tell you this, that was in my 20's, I'm now 41 and remarried, my kids are fine and my ex and I are civil to each other.. Life goes on and you will one day, no longer cry or be angry. You will find love again too.. ❤️😊
Thank you so much! I needed to hear that. I am getting ready to proceed with the divorce process. We tried to rebuild but he's still unfaithful, so this time we are letting go for good, after 7 years of marriage and 12 years together...😔
Thank you for this ♥️ I'm hoping everything is okay in my future.
This has helped. Even though I'm a guy, I'm going through a lot of the same emotions. My wife left me 4 months ago. Our divorce isn't official yet, but I've been having a terrible time. I feel like I won't find another woman to share my life with. This video has helped me quite a bit. Thank you.
Joshua Tiller how are you now tho?found someone else?
Oh yeah, I'm good now. Getting married in March haha. Thanks!
@@xSpcManSpiffx how did you get through it bro cause I’m going through it and having a tough time
@@benacero9617 a combination of time, family, friends, video games, diet, exercise, and coming to grips with the fact that I just had to keep going. You'll get through it, Ben. And you'll be stronger for it.
Joshua, I definitely can relate to you and I know is 4 years but hope you doing ok now.
I'm going through a divorce right now. 15 years together and 13 years married. It's all good now, Awesome Video...💪
I know exactly what you are going through... I'm separated have been for 5 months and I spent my birthday and Valentine's day and mothers day by myself. I was married for 6 years and I have faith in God and him healing my heart.. we have to stand strong in our faith that there is something better for us out there. I pray that you heal and find someone who really loves you.
You are definitely not alone!! Going through the same situation after 14 yrs of marriage and a little one! Hugs to you!!!
i was married 21 years and my wife left ur videos helped me thank you
Thank you for sharing I got told after 31 years by my husband that he's leaving me tomorrow!! Because I grew and changed.. I'm feeling so many emotions right now so thank you. I journal too so that will help thanks for the reminder ♥ all the very best in your journey too
I could relate to you
Thank you so much for making this video! I am currently just starting to go through this myself, it is eating away at me and I keep feeling so depressed and alone that I can't even focus on normal daily activities.
I've only been a subscriber for a short time, but I always get excited when you post new videos and I can't wait to watch them and spend a few minutes with you. You are such a sweet, genuine person and I am sorry that you are going through such a rough time. I am 55 and there are a lot downsides to getting older, but one of the benefits is realizing that these difficult times in our lives do pass, and you will feel happiness again and you will go on. There is SO much exciting stuff ahead for you - you don't even know yet what amazing adventures you will have. Best of luck to you!
Thanks for the help, I guess I'm not alone. It feels good to know I'm not going crazy with all of these feelings and emotions. Thanks again and the best of luck, Peace!
It sounds like you are doing all of the right things in your situation. Surrounding your self with positive family, friends, and professionals and looking to your Faith for comfort. I have never been through a divorce, but have dealt a lot with fear, depression and anxiety. Keep pushing through it and take "baby-steps". One day at a time and set small goals. This too will pass and believe you will be stronger for it!! Thank you for your videos. I can tell you are a genuine, sweet-spirited lady! Hugs.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with so much vulnerability. I am going through a separation, and I can totally relate to everything you said. It really helps even to just hear you say you don't have the answers to some of these struggles, as I so often put so much pressure on myself to have everything "figured out" and to heal and move on. I definitely feel there is a stigma that comes with divorce, so it is incredibly helpful to hear that I am not alone and there's someone else who can relate to what I'm going through. Thank you so much, you are an inspiration:)
i know this video is old but I'm going through this today. Just found out my husband wants a divorce and I'm super depressed over it. trying to get my emotions in check. can't stop crying behind doors
I'm so sorry you're going through this. My emotions were mostly quite down and I had very delayed anger. But the anger was very helpful because it is fuel to light a fire under us and move us forward :-) I hope you find some peace in this process.
I just found out today that my husband wants a divorce. How did you get through it? How is life now?
@katizig hello there. I went through depression which is normal. Had my highs and lows. When I found out he cheated it made me feel better but angry (I no longer thought it was something that I did wrong). I don't fully suggest this next part, but I did it. I moved on months later. partied hard lol. While I wasn't looking for a relationship many men tried to be in a relationship with me. In the end I chose my best friend 2 years later. He tried to marry me, but I wasn't ready at the time. It was too fast. Right now, 7 years later I'm ready to be a wife lol. Hopefully this helps. My ex has received his karma. I still wish him the best though. He tried to do a lot of malicious things to me during the process. I'm just glad I survived it. Good luck to you and if you need anymore insight I am here to answer questions
That dark hair is beautiful on you! I went away for 3 weeks for my birthday and just got back - just remember the saying for your life right now is "and this too shall pass" it may take awhile, but life does go on, so choose to be happy to have what you have because as millions have proven, there is still plenty of life to live after divorce, and I am living proof of that. Please keep sharing that beautiful smile of yours with us.
Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry you had to go thru a divorce. At the same time, it's nice to know other people have felt the same way I do right now. I hope and pray it does get better.
Everything you said!!!! Sending huge hugs and lots of love and wishes for strength and healing across the Pacific from a fellow recent divorcée 💖💐
I've been subscribed to you for a while and have always enjoyed your videos -- this topic doesn't really relate to me, although it does give me a different insight to my parents divorce (even though that was years ago) BUT I just want to say thank you for sharing because I know this is truly helping others! I love your advice of letting yourself be angry and feel emotion. Let yourself cry it out! Sending love and prayers out to you, beautiful. ♡
Time is everything, it's real ... When you have to cry, cry; when you have to laugh, laugh!; when you have to be anger, really do it! There's something that helped me through a seriously bad breakup relationship, and it's "everything is temporary, nothing is forever" ... So, every bad thing will pass, is up to you to make it sooner. Learn and practice karate or self defense, try to do something new; find a new passion; focus on You Tube; don't care about traveling alone and have time with yourself; find that courage to leave behind those chains that you have; love yourself more and don't give up! And don't ever think that it's your fault and you didn't deserve him (or something negative like that) ... Keep doing all these beauty videos, I love them all, you are so talented!! Kisses and hugs!
Hi Julie, you will get through this journey. I was married for 18 years and with my ex husband for 21 years. I know exactly how you feel and the emotions you are dealing with. Trust me when I say, what's on the other side is amazing! This journey will make your stronger in ways you never thought! On another note you look amazing! Hugs! Maria
You make amazing videos and I love being part of your community! (Lip swatches are my favorite!) Thank you for sharing your experiences! I've been through it as well, and you will look back and see how much adversity helped you grow and blossom. Congrats on your channel's success!!
I'm currently going through a separation and after watching you're video it was very uplifting for me. I have a good days and I have my really bad days. Just having to reboot my life all over is hard enough since I don't know where to begin. I admire the strength and courage you have to move forward.
Facing your fears is the most powerful thing anyone could do!!! Sending lots of positive vibes to you Julie! I know that you will be alright because it looks like you are already starting on the right path!💞
You definitely have my love and support! I'm here if you need to talk, vent, whatever. Be whatever you want or need to be :) I am here and everything is going to turn out the way it is meant to be. Keep your faith and trust in the long run more than the short term.
Julie you are the sweetest!! I'm so sorry you have to go threw all of this. Just think how much your learning & growing from it all!! You'll be able to take on the world when it's all said & done. I absolutely love your videos, their so "real". God bless you & keep your head held high!!!
Julie, I'm new to your channel and I was watching thru your videos and found this one. 10 years ago, I was you, except I had a 4 and 6 year old in towe. I'm the youngest and only girl of 4 children and a daughter of a family where the mom and dad and my brothers are not and don't believe in divorce, but never was judged by them. I too moved back in with my parents. Then 2 years into my divorce, I met back up with a teenage friend, he hadn't been a boy friend, but just a friend and he swept me off my feet. He took my kids in and we had a little girl, it was what God wanted and knew I deserved. He is the best husband and father ever, he will send you someone, I truly believe that. Many prayers to you.
Thank you for sharing with us! I just went thru a divorce this past June. It was probably one of the hardest things I've had to do but in the end, that's what was best for the both of us. I still emotionally sometimes but I try to push past it and look at the positives. Just know you're not alone and watching videos like yours has helped me understand that i'm not alone either. PS. Dark hair on you=incredible!
Hi Julie, Bless you heart, and please know that confidence in yourself will grow. The routine the majority of us fall into when we are married does change, and we have to be open to change. So often we take the concept of being "one" to a level of almost losing ourselves when we are married, but we do that because we love our spouse and want that closeness. It would be beneficial if we all could try to remain conscious of being an individual when we are married. You are moving forward, and I know you will become so very strong. Whatever class you want to take to feel secure, please do it because you owe that confidence and knowledge to yourself! I'm praying for you. Hugs & Blessings xoxo
Thank you for sharing how you are doing. I know how difficult divorce is and it's hard to imagine the rainbow at the end of this because your heart is broken, but I promise you the rainbow is there waiting for with much happiness & love! xoxo
Time heals a broken heart. Sometimes we can't explain why things get shifted around in our lives, by honestly, it's true when they say that things fall apart so that better things fall into their place. It's not easy, but it will get better.
Thank you so much for sharing your life and posting this video. I am currently going through this and I don't know what's next but thank you so much for letting me know that I'm not alone.
This is the most relatable video I have seen yet. Sadly, I am currently going through divorce and the most difficult part about the process is doing things on my own.
You are so strong. You will get through this! Love your videos and your honesty. PS LOVE the hair and makeup!
I have been divorced for 12 years. I know how hard it is to have someone that you love just leave. It hurts and the pain is great. I can tell you that you will survive and that you will be happy again. You will grow and be a better and stronger person after you are able to put this all behind you. I can tell that you are a strong person and that you are doing every thing right. Take care and remember that with every passing day that you heal just a little bit more. The pain will end and you will be just fine.
Mike
Thank you 🙏🏽.. needed to hear this
Thank you for your supporting video. I am going through that with my little two year old. And right now its been 4 days of useless work days i just go as a ghost and spend most of the time thinking and cant be productive. I am inhaling cake. And trying my best not to loose hope in the future.
I know this is an older video, but I wanted to let you know this has helped me so much and our situations sound very similar. I wish you all the best you are a very confident and honest person. Sending good vibes and positivity your way!
I personally think that divorce feels worse than a death...because the person who leaves...chooses to leave..and every time you see them..it seems to rip open the wounds..
So very sorry hear about your divorce . I'm in a separation myself(2yrs).The emotions are really hard,we blame ourselves & the other half.Just move on by happy with yourself.Love,respectfully yours Micala,from Toronto Canada.
P.S.I love your videos.
Your right you are not alone! Everyone's situation is different and we all handle them differently. So your right, others may not totally understand because of that but most everyone can relate is some form or fashion. And you are very brave! It takes so much courage to put yourself out there and share such personal items with us! You are in my thoughts and prayers! And on a side note I love the new hair color 😁
So sorry your going through this Julie you're such a lovely lady & I know you said it was such a shock. Your heart will heal pet 💜
You are Brave and you are Courageous. Thank you for being open, honest and sharing!
Everything you described is how I currently feel. I'm currently going through a divorce after a three year marriage.
I'm pulling for you. YOU are going to make it! positive energies to the universe on your behalf :)
Even though your feeling heartache, your still so positive. Beautiful inside & out. Keeping positive will help you move onwards & upwards for the future and to stay a strong woman ❤️❤️❤️ love is all around from here. Sending hugs & love xxxx
I love your positive attitude Julie. Your experience as sad as it is, will only make you stronger and enrich your outlook for the future. :)
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO. I KNOW I'M WATCHING THIS 3 YEARS LATER BUT IT HELPED SO MUCH. GOD BLESS YOU
First of all you look absolutely stunning in this video! Second, I am so sorry you are going through this. Even though I don't know you personally I feel the pain that you are feeling because I know heartbreak. 😢
I can't imagine how hard it is to go through a divorce but I wish you well and hope that your heart heals and you can move happily into the future 😘
Thank you for your words...I'm going through a divorce and your words really is helping me
Good luck with everything! Brand new subscriber right here and I love how real you are. I really wish you the best in life
I recently subscribed to u n just wanted to tell u that am sorry for what u r going through. I know it isn't easy but it will get there wit time. I can relate to u because I was in a 7 yr relationship wit my daughters father n it wasn't easy. But just know that everything happens for a reason n that God has better plans for u. He works in mysterious ways n just know that we r here for u n whenever u want to express urself to us we will b here ready to listen to u. Thanks for sharing this difficult time wit us much appreciated. N just have faith n know that everything will b just fine. Xoxo 😁😘
I am so sorry that you are going through this. I can imagine it must be scary and lonely at times. I hope it brings you some joy that you make so many people happy with your videos!! PS you look great as a brunette!
Thank you for being brave enough to post this video. I am not going through a divorce, but I have had the most difficult time getting over a break-up with the guy I thought I would be with forever. We never had a legal document or a wedding ceremony but I imagine that the pain is similar. Anyways, everything you said was so on point with the way I feel! It's comforting to know that everything I've felt is completely normal. I wish you the best! You seem like a genuinely sweet girl and you deserve to be happy. We'll get over this crap & live the happy lives we deserve, right?? :) Take care & again, thank you so much for sharing your feelings because I feel a weird sense of relief now. :)
I went thru a divorce in 2012 and NOW, my fiance and I just broke up. I feel like the biggest damn failure and the fact that I have to go thru this all again, KILLS ME. :(
I am so sorry that you are going through that all over again. I know divorce and breakups are so hard but you will get through it and things will get better. It is better to find out now then to have to go through a divorce after you have a ton of stuff together. I know it sucks but you will get through it. Make a list of the things that you want in a husband/boyfriend and look for those qualities. Reflect on things and try to learn from it, let it go and have faith that God will bring you who you need, don't lose faith, have hope. I know it is hard right now but it will get better. Take time for yourself don't feel like you always need a man in your life to be happy, do things that bring you happiness, do you and get confident in your own skin. Use this time to heal. I am sorry that you are going through this, hugs and positive vibes to you! :-)
Julie Dawn Olsen thank you so much! Unfortunately we are pretty much married without the paperwork so it's been hard to split accounts, decide who's taking what, and splitting up our animals. I love him more than I did my exhusband. My heart is on the floor. I know I will be ok..... I just hope this pain leaves soon rather than a year from now.
Aw, yeah that is so hard when you have so much invested. I completely understand! I know it is hard right now but things will get better in time. It just sucks to have to go through all the emotions and everything. I know it's easy for me to say because I am not in your shoes but hang in there you will get through it and be even stronger than before! :-) I got through my divorce and you will get through this!
I am so sorry that you are in this place now :( I discover you recently so went through your videos and fall in love with them ( not in creepy way- mean I enjoy them ) hope you doing better now. x
You're beautiful his loss! I'm going through a really hard time as well it's the emotions that are the hardest be well god bless!
you are such a strong person!!! I will pray for u!! you should never apologize for how u feel or that your saying too much... we love u!!! hang in there.
I'm so very proud of you Julie! You are an amazing and beautiful person and don't you lose sight of that. God is so good to all of us and we are all so very blessed each and every day to have Him in our hearts. Keep up the positive attitude and do what's best for YOU. Everything's going to be ok. You're young and pretty enough to bounce right back into the social world and start having fun again with your friends and someone that will make you feel so special. Girl, once you're back out there somebody's gonna snatch you up so fast...Yeah!!!! : ) Just take this time to heal.
Julie you are not alone! we love you and we are proud of you! You are an independent, strong and beautiful woman with a huge heart. I promise you will be succesful with your channel.. You deserve whatever you want in life you don't need anyone more than your own power. And always remember after the storm the calm comes. Hugs from this part of the world.
Thank you for your sharing. I'm going through a divorce as well. I wish I do not have to deal with him anymore but I still have to as we will share the custody with him. It's a very tough situation to deal with.
Just divorced back in January. She left me in March. So painful. Taking the opportunity to heal, learn, and grow.
You are so beautiful on the inside and out ,praying for you girl! xo
Hugs to you Julie :) reminds me of the quote, "just because today is a terrible day doesn't mean tomorrow could be the best day of your life, you just gotta get there!" Stay strong, better days are coming! Xo Anna
Awww Julie I love you girl!! Just know you are not alone. All of us sweet subscribers will always have your back no matter what.
Remember that everything happens for a reason xoxo
lovely leena Yes, I completely agree with you! Thank you so much for loving and supporting me :)
You are beautiful inside and out! Love your videos. Having been there, what you are feeling is totally normal...not fun, but normal. I piece of you is missing. Time and prayer will heal. Wishing you continued success.
Thank you. My wife is leaving the house today into her new apartment and this video was a huge help to calm down. Crazy how 7 years later a video can effect someone.
I love how open you are about your feelings. I wish I could be more open like you. And great advice. Big hugs from me too. I hope you feel better:)
I'm sorry to hear about your divorce. I'm currently deciding rather I want to be with my husband or just divorce him. I feel like it's loss. You go through the stages of grief. Thanks so much for this video. I'm feeling very lonely right now.
I'm 23 and I'm married with 2 kids . he left me for drugs and for other girls . he's 21 and I've been hurting so much I feel so alone . I thought me giving him money and helping would make him love me but he told me he used me and took advantage of me . now he's talking to other girls and it really getting to me
-Julie
Sending hugs, & sending prayers to help you get through this🙏🙏🙏 hang in there Julie it will get easier I promise😜
Very brave of you to do this while going through the process yourself. I am going through the same and dealing with a difficult spouse.
I think you look great!!! The best is yet to come for you always keep positive even though sometimes it may seem hard!!!!
Dear Julie, I know this is a long time after the event but my sincere heart felt sorry. I am going through a Divorce at present and I have been devistated and in tears. Just makes no sense to me. I am madly in love with her and she will not talk about it, she refuses to give me a reason. I am broken and don't think that I will trust again. I know how you feel when you say you don't want to dump your emotions on your friends and family.
Hey bro. The only thing I can say is give your self time to heal. Keep watching divorce help videos over and over again. We are in this together. You can never make her change her mind. Ever. Don't work on making your marriage work. Don't try to become friends with her, you are only hurting yourself. Don't worry if you will ever find someone else. You have to become the prize. Work on yourself bro please 🙏 work on you.
@@robertbarboza1243 very well said man, any other advice? After so many years together how do you get over how easily and quickly she moved on? Not relationship wise but jus in general..
We are not like computers. We can't delete the bad memories and feelings. We have to make new memories to cover the bad ones. You will always remember that you loved her. It's just a memory now. The person you loved before is just is not that person anymore. It is hard to accept . Put your energy on creating the champion that you are. You are a prize that is worth fighting for. In this train of your life, let the caboose go and grab the engine that will take you to the next chapter of your life.
Hello Julie,
I want to thank you for sharing your story. After 9.35 minutes you said that your feel that you are saying allot, but your not. The things you said are realy helpfull to me. Keep up de good work and be blessed.
Bey
(sorry for my bad english)
Sending you so many hugs
Your videos really aren't long plus ppl can just turn if they need to but when we are going through the same issue, it's good 2 hear from others so we can know we're not alone & learn to apply the advice..
Thanks for this. It was a lifesaver. Going to therapy tomorrow. Please pray for me. My name is Jonathan and my wife's name is Allison. Feeling like a death happened. Alot of anger and sadness. Hope I come out of the end of this a better and stronger person 💪. Right now, feeling weak and tired. People's selfishness has been getting to me and triggering me. I feel like it's the end, but I have to remind myself that it's the beginning of something new.
Hi Julie! I am a new subscriber. I used to watch your videos when I was searching for Naked 2 palette eye tutorials and decided to lookFirst of all, I love your hair brown. You were beautiful before, but you are stunning in brown. Secondly, I am so sorry you are dealing with this. What utter betrayal! I am so sad to see you talk about being alone and being afraid. It is a husband's job to love his wife and make her feel safe. But you know that already. But I know you have faith in our heavely Father. He will never leave you. You are so young and beautiful. You will find a good forever husband someday! You will be able to use this to minister to other young women someday. Hugs Julie!!
You are SO BEAUTIFUL, his loss! And God is going to be your provider and elevate you! Remember that Vengeance is His! Keep your head up 🙌🙏💗!
i am going through it too after 7 years. i get what your going through. so painful. your not alone
I can tell you are genuinely a good person, sending prayers your way.
Thank you for your video 😢this is exactly how I feel right now
I love you. You are so encouraging to me. It’s good to know I’m not alone. Not that I want others to go through this. I’m wanting to travel. We would have fun together.
You are absolutely amazing sweety, I am recently subscribed to you , keep those videos coming. Love ya!!
I am sorry that you are going through this...on the side note you eye makeup looks great!!! Tutorial Please!!!
Liz Zurita Two Thank you so much for your encouragement! Yes, I will have a tutorial up on this makeup Wednesday of next week thanks so much!
Julie Dawn Olsen
I love you Julie! I really needed this I am in the same boat my marriage went down hill over 2 weeks and my husband is on drugs and has been stealing from our home and banks and its been a really rough situation, I feel sad and my emptions are all over the place. I am angry and sad and even with friends around once they are gone I feel alone again! I totally understand where you are coming from. \
After 22 years my husband is leaving me. It's so very hard, I still love him .. I have only ever loved him ,I move in a month and the divorce papers will be here in a few days . I am not ready for any of this it's all happening so fast . It's been 2 weeks since he told me he wanted a divorce. I have to force myself to move on, nothing else I can do.
Kelly, how are you doing? has the pain and heart break subsided ?
Hiiiiii I wish you nothing but the BEST, I cried with you knowing that you have people who love you for who U are will help you grow & your Spirit Shines your a Strong Woman for sharing with us 💛🌞🌻🌷🌸🌼 💟 ✌
cougarrain Hearing this touches me so much thank you! :)
Sending you a huge virtual hug Julie!!!!
And you CAN do anything you want. Embrace the courageous girl inside and rely on yourself. You can do this, no doubt!
I'll be praying for you dear! God bless.
I’m also going through the same thing don’t worry about it because. I know that happy things will happened
Hello dear if you need spell that works to get anything you want from her etc.... I will recommend you to a very powerful woman in the United States, that help me get my wife back...
Contact her on WhatsApp she will help you ok...
+_1_4_5_8_7_1_0_7_9_2_5
One day at a time! You're gonna make it. Believe in yourself. You are strong :)
Julie, You're such a sweet and sincere person, and braver than you think. It takes a lot of courage to share what you're going through right now, but I know you're bringing comfort to other people in similar situations by being so honest. All this pain and ickiness will pass, I promise. Some awesome guy is out there just waiting for someone like you. I look forward to seeing you heal and thrive.
My wife left me after 10years to look after other options , I have found it very hard to identify as a single person and try figuring out how to fill my days and my weekends but this video makes me feel like my feelings are valid
Hi 💢...
Sending you alot of love and positive energy 💞The relationship restorer Dr Steve who helped me to reunite back with my ex... He can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance, ever since he helped me get to back with my ex I have been enjoying a happy and a peaceful relationship with him. I will advise you seek out his help thanks....
Send him a text message on Whatsapp 💓
+2347030894892.
I'm not sure if this is your type of thing ... But I play roller derby I actually joined after my divorce from my first husband and it was probably the best thing I did, it built my confidence in being independent and it's such a great support system as well, and there's always something going on from bouts and traveling with it and you meet a lot of cool people! If you are into roller derby you can always find a local team, most players had no previous skating skills and they can teach anyone! I went from not being able to skate to being a captain of my team! It's also a great way to get anger out! Xoxoxoxo it will get better in time that's all I can say, I was a wreck after my divorce but now 5 years later I'm married to my soul mate
In regards to self defense I highly recommend jiu jitsu. It is empowering. Don't worry about being physically fit or flexible it will come with time. I'm 5 5 and weigh 235 lb and I'm taking it currently I've taken it for a little bit now and I love it. You walk around a little more comfortable each day with knowing that you could defend yourself if needed. I'm currently trying to lose weight while doing it as well as I am heading towards the road of divorce and it's a great release and it keeps me busy.
im so sorry that you are going through this, i wish i could share my story with you, im still not divorced yet but basically my husband who i was with for 8 years and married for 2 years(still married but separated) cheated on me with his co-worker whom i met and hung out with and of course he denied but its a long story but i feel stronger then ever and i moved and he is apparently filing online but im not sure if thats true, but this is so hard, im 26 and he was my first for everything we met when i was 17 turning 18 but anyways i was searching for video like this and came across yours and im so thankful that you made this video.