Life Update | Facing Separation & Divorce
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
- UPDATE ON HOW I AM DOING NOW - • How I Got Over My DIVO...
This was incredibly hard for me to muster up enough courage to film this video for you guys. I just wanted to share with you what has been going on with me over the past 4 months. I have felt as though it has an elephant in the room and I needed to talk with you guys about it so that I can get closer to all of you. Also, maybe some of you are going through this same situation and we can both be here for each other and help each other get through this very hard time. Just know that if you are facing separation or divorce that I understand what you are doing through and that you are not alone my thoughts and prays go out to you as well. If you want to get in touch with me personally you can always e-mail me at julie.dawn.olsen@gmail.com. I just want to thank each of you for the encouraging words, prayers and support that I know each of you will be sending out to me! I love y'all very much! xo Julie
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I am so overwhelmed with gratitude thank you so much for your encouraging words and support! You are amazing and I couldn't ask for better subscribers you guys are the best! I was so nervous to put up this video but I am so glad that I was able to open up and talk to you guys :)
Julie Dawn Olsen
..so sorry to hear this, I hope everything will get better for you,
keep the hope & all the best to you !
jees this is like being buried alive...
29 1/2 years and I never saw it coming
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Lovely Video! Forgive me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Taparton Returning Love Takeover (just google it)? It is a good one off product for learning how to stop divorce without the normal expense. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my close friend Aubrey finally got amazing results with it.
I was married for 8 years to my first husband. Had 2 children and divorced when they were little. I am married again now for 20 years so far and I have a beautiful son with him who graduates this year. I don't regret my divorce we were to young and rushed it. I tried to make it work but you can't like you said make someone do something they don't want to do. He (1st husband) had another son with his present wife. And she is much older then him and that's what he needed all along. So my divorce was a blessing in the end I have 3 wonderful kids by birth and 1 stepson whom I love just as much. I am a proud (young) grandmother of 2 Lily and Jaxston. So in time you may find your blessing in this. But I know it's hard right now. Stay strong you are such a wonderful person and you deserve a wonderful life.
Thanks, U are a great and strong lady who faced divorce so easily. I am still crying for my divorce. Because I loved my ex hubby lot.
@@nishamishra6726 my divorce just finalised this month and we have separate for 7 month. I'm facing anxiety and uncertainty about the future now. Send a lot of prayer to all divorcee woman out there. May God bless us with strength and replace someone who gone with someone who much way better. Amin 🙏
Wow. I'm so glad I came across this. I'm currently going through a divorce and my husband and I just divorced for the same reason. Keep your head up and it's all a part of God's plan.
Keep praying for his salvation. I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder and said to him, "Be born again in Jesus' name." And he's been believing in God ever since. God is changing him, he doesn't ignore me so much anymore. You can pray it for your loved ones too. Remember to pray for you and your loved ones angels everyday.
@God'sdesire Tomquin Keep praying for his salvation and spiritual maturity. I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder and said to him, " Be born again in Jesus' name." And he's been believing in God ever since. He doesn't ignore me as much anymore and he isn't always out drinking with his buddies anymore. Pray for your loved ones salvation and for your enemies salvation. And it just makes me feel better to pray for the world's salvation everyday. And pray for angels protection every day.
Quannie Nikki God knows what’s best for us. We have to trust HIM in spite of how uncomfortable it become. I’ve been there
I am currently going through the exact same thing as you have. I want to continue to TRY while she has completely checked-out and says the same things your husband did you you. We have 2 children, and that makes it even harder. Keep believing, thanks for giving me someone I can relate to, because i am going through all the emotions at once the same as you. Just lets us know that we're not alone in this. God bless!
Pray for her salvation and spiritual maturity. I layed my hand on my spouse's shoulder and said to him, "Be born again in Jesus' name." And he's been believing in God ever since. God is changing him, he doesn't ignore me near as much anymore. The right one for you is out there and you can pray it for her too and for your loved ones. And remember to pray for you and your loved one's angels everyday.
Julie, I feel like you are telling my story. When I went through my divorce my ex husband said the same thing, I care about you but I'm not in love with you, which I think is a copout because nobody feels like they are in love all the time in a marraige. My faith is what got me through it. God took care of me in so many ways and he still is. I can tell that you have a strong faith too. It was very brave for you to do this video and you have no idea how many people you are helping by telling your story.
Same situation for me as well Debbie; thank you for sharing your story Julie!
I'm in this same situation too. These men that do this are broken and choosing to stay so because they are selfish. Did things get better?
same my husband said to me same
I'm so sorry that you are going through this, Julie! Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. Big hugs, girlfriend!
Jen Luv's Reviews Thank you Jen! It has been a rough 4 months and like I was saying I still have my days but I know that God's got my back and I know that you and all my other subscribers and friends have my back too and that is such an amazing feeling! I have been loving your channel btw! Keep up the amazing work! Big hugs to you too Jen! :)
Julie Dawn Olsen You are so right about having so many that have your back. And thank you so much for the compliment on my channel. It means a lot to me! :)
divorce doesn't make it better they think it does
Lovely Video clip! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your thoughts. Have you researched - Taparton Returning Love Takeover (do a search on google)? It is a good one off product for learning how to stop divorce minus the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my BF finally got astronomical results with it.
Julie! You are so sweet and graceful through this whole thing. Your faith in God is inspiring and uplifting. I KNOW things will work out because His hand is in your life!! You are in my prayers, sweet friend. Hang in there, and I am here for you if there is anything I can do! HUGS!!!!!
FancyThatwithCandice Candice you are such a blessing girlfriend! I love you :) Thank you for your support, encouragement and prayers. You are so right in saying that God will work out all the things in my life! Big HUGS!!
Internet hugs to you, Julie! I can't imagine the difficulties you've been going through so I admire the graceful way you communicated this to us. thank you for letting your TH-cam friends into your life, and I'm glad this helped! Sending good thoughts your way! ❤️❤️
I wish I could give you a hug! Let this time in your life make you stronger! You never know how much happiness could be ahead of you! Relationships are hard, marriage is harder, but gods love will never fail you !
I was served divorce papers and guess what ... We got back together. Sometimes men go through a mid life crisis and basically lose their minds. Pray and put in it God's hands.
I'm living through my estranged husband's early mid-life monster of a crisis for the past 5 years... And yes, "losing their minds" is an understatement
Trust in the Lord. He can make the impossible, possible. Pray and have faith. 💛
I am so very sorry for all you are going through and appreciate your opening up to us. Having experienced separation then divorce, I think this is a sign of your acceptance that things may not be resolvable. While that's a difficult realization, it's also one that can lead to your own future happiness since you can now evaluate, truly, what's best for you, too. Please keep your faith and know that you are cared for by many. Sending prayers of love and support!
I am praying for you Julie. I almost lost my husband 4 years ago and I can honestly say it was a terrifying feeling. I am so sorry you are going through this. love you girl. Stay strong.
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Sweet Julie, bless your heart! Sending prayers for peace and comfort your way. You will definitely have a huge support system here as you go through this difficult journey.
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Aw Julie, I'm so sorry you are going through a difficult time. You are brave for sharing. I hope God brings your heart and your head peace, and things work out for the best. Big hug! Xoxo
Julie...you deserve someone who loves you completely just the way you are. There is hope and I always feel like there is a reason for everything. You are very brave making this video. I will be praying for you. xoxo Laura
Thank you so much Laura! You are right ❤️ love you!!
you are a sad human. must be horrible to wake up and be a troll
divorce doesn't make it better they think it does my mom stayed with my dad and still does she got smacked bam boom etc and I will tell you my mom made the sacrifices and I told my mom what she went threw and she said divorce is worse ... for the family and woman doesn't care about the kids where is the sacrifice of your life choosing man I agreed woman with education and think of options that confuse them thinking it's better they are wrong and its too late ... the people these days have to realize sacrifice
I feel your pain. I've been through divorce myself, and yes it's so hard to go through, but thats just it. You will get through it, stronger and wiser. Sometimes theres lessons to learn to help you with your next marriage, the stronger marriage. I like to say "well, that was just practice, and this one is for real." Talking about my current marriage. I'm not making light of marriage, but sometimes things are just beyond our control and you have to look at the bright side, or you're going become depressed or bitter. Stand up, brush yourself off, and try again because you're a strong, beautiful woman who deserves a good man worthy of all you have to offer. You will have that man one day, and will be happier, probably more so than your ex. Cause honestly if he's not man enough to even try to work through this one, then he isn't gonna work through the next one. Marriage is hard work with ups and downs etc. But thats later .... Personally, I would use this time and enjoy not having someone to answer to. Go out on fun nonserious dates or out with girlfriends. ::hugs to you::
I've been there. Maybe not the same exact situation because we weren't married, but very similar a year ago. You will look back on this moment and be grateful you went through this experience. It will make you stronger and life has a funny way of making good things fall apart so better things can come together; wether it be with your husband or with someone new. You deserve nothing but the best ❤️
Hi Julie I stubbled across your channel today and I'm very glad that I did. You have an enormous amount of courage and heart to put yourself out there by posting this video. Being able to help others with your videos will definetly make you stronger and find inner peace. Leave it up to God and know that what's meant to be will be.
Sometimes people loose sight of what they had. They get lost in the routine of things and I know that you'll find happiness :) stay strong!!!
Hey Girl,
I watch all of your videos but I don't usually comment. I think it is so sweet of you to make this video to help encourage anyone out there who is going through the same issues!
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this trial! I know that I used to think of divorce the same way that you did. IT really changes things when you really realize that you can't change someone or work hard enough to save the relationship!
I know that you have had a hard time and it is so good to see that you are starting to feel better! When a similar situation happend for me, God was what helped me through it. I think that what you said is spot on and that He will help us and bring us to the place that we need to be!
Thinking of you!
Xoxo,
Janna
I'm so sorry you are going through this...you are so right though about not being able to make someone else do something they don't wanna do. Will be totally praying for you and your husband. Lots and lots of love
You are a strong woman and deserve the best! Sometimes we choose things, people, friends that are not for us and God removes them from our lives to place His best for us. Be patient my sister in Christ for I too am going through similar circumstances and am better bc of it!
Beatrice P hey sorry to ask ,but I m also going threw same phase ,but wanted to know is second marriage is successful
Julie, I have only recently started getting into you tube makeup tutorials over the last month or so and I have enjoyed your videos and tutorials so much! I just want you to know that I firmly believes everything happens for a reason and to not underestimate the power of prayer! It was very brave of you to publicly express such a personal situation. I wish the very best for you and will keep you in my prayers.
Very brave of you to put it out there Julie. Sending positive, happy, and healing vibes your way!
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Much respect for your understanding. Knowing that there is only one person that can change that person and that is that person. Letting your higher power take over and give it up to your higher power.
No judgement here girl! You're so brave for doing this and this is going to be a huge encouragement for others who are going through this. You're awesome 😊😊😊
Page Vue Thank you for saying that! I hope this does help others and lets them know that they are not alone and that we are in this together! :)
Julie, thank you for having the courage and consideration to share this with us! It shows the trust and caring that you have in us, and that you think of us as more than viewers, but also as friends, and also, it shows that you recognize that we care about you as a person as well! I can't offer much in the way of helpful advice, because I've not really been in your situation (yet) But just know that there is a lot of love and good wishes coming your way, and I will be praying for you and keeping you in my thoughts! God bless you and keep you sweetie! *hugs and lots of love, and my best wishes to you* :) ♡
Im im tears!!! :,( i feel exactly like u do. Im going through the same thing and i feel hope as well and have lots of faith this is going to get better! U now have a new subby! Hope all is great!!
Prayers for you Hun! So sorry you have to go through this. On a positive note, this is not the end for you. You are so right about having hope because your future is bright and can be anything you want it to be! Praying your heart heals quickly. Much love! Anna
This broke my heart, I'm so sorry Julie! My parents divorced as a child so I get it a little & trust me, my husband & I have had our issues! I am praying for you and I admire your courage to help others that are struggling as well. You are in my prayers and God definitely has a plan for you! :)
I really do feel your pain because Ive also been going through a separation for nearly 4 months now and we still live together! I've felt soo torn over all of this. She also fell out of love with me in the end. I have never felt the emotions like this in my life. I'm trying to look forward but like you said you have your good and bad days, I find it a lot worse when I'm alone. I think keeping busy or being around people is key in this situation. The worse thing out of all of this is I messed it up (not by cheating in any shape or form) but just personal stuff. I have learnt a lot about myself in this marriage and on a positive note I will delete my flaws which would do the same if I ever fall in love again like I did with the one I married. People who truly deeply loves someone will only ever feel this pain. Love and peace to you all.
I'm up early feeding my newborn. I'm currently going through the same situation and at the moment I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel. Listening to you was like listening to myself. I have faith in God, still some hope my husband will want to fix things but also knowing that I can't force him to stay. it's a hard process we have two daughters which makes it more difficult for me. I grew up in a home with my biological parents whom love each other and stayed together through all the difficult moments. so it gets me sad to know that my husband doesn't want to work things out. thank you for your video and we will get through this. God bless.
Julie my prayers are with you in this difficult time. I think you are so brave and courageous for posting this video! I can totally tell you are hurting but trust in God and His plan for your life. I know how hard that can be but just remember He won't put more one us than we can take!!! God Bless you and know that you are loved!!!!
Oh Julie, that is tough. God will see you through. Sometimes, we have to let people go down their path and we have to go down ours. Give it time and either way it will all work out in the end.
I’m so sorry you are going through this, I am facing the same thing. So i know how devastating this can feel. Just know that God WILL bring you through it all! Be encouraged, better days are ahead of you!!
I'm so sorry Julie :( my parents divorced when I was 5 and my mum went through the exact same thing as you're going through. Basically the same situation. We all love and care about you and are here for you during this time
This meant a lot to me to hear, going through the same kind of thing. It is not easy and thank you for being brave and talking about it. It's nice knowing we aren't alone. Love and prayers.
Julie, I started being your fan sometime last year. I didn't know about your background. That is why I came here to take a look. You are so sweet & so REAL. Everyone deserves to be happy. You are a kind, sweet, & beautiful person...inside & out. You are strong & I know by now (7/2019), you are in a much better place. You give so much of yourself. I truly believe one reaps what one sows. I wish you ALL the happiness in the world!! I hope you get to see this message. :) XOXO
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. Regardless of what happens, please remember that you are never truly alone. Huge hugs!
I just came across your channel. I'm so sorry that you're going through such difficult time in your life. God will provide and you will get through this! I admire your courage and strength for sharing this video with us. Hope you feel better soon!
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Oh Julie!! Im so sorry you're going through this, i could tell something was off with you these past few months, didnt realize it was so serious, julie, you are a wonderful, beautiful, caring, amazing woman and person, you will get through this! it is terrible, i know it doesnt really help, but i have been there before. you are strong and things will carry on, you take all the time you need to heal, and get through this on your own time, no matter what the outcome... i have so much respect for you, sharing this is a huge deal!! personal things are hard to share. i am here for you julie, if you need to talk any time day or night, message me xoxo
My husband just left me after 17 1/2 years of marriage, saying that he doesn't love me anymore and hasn't for a long time. Super painful and confusing, especially having 4 kids together. He's been gone 3 months and we are in the process of divorce. I appreciate you sharing your video.
how r u now?
How are you now ?
Hugs and prayers. Try to rest in GOD'S grace and love. All things work together for good for those that Love the Lord. It's his promise, and HE never changes his mind.
God will take this sorrow and replace it with joy, and abundant blessings, in his time. Stand strong and hold your head high.
Julie! I am so glad you were brave enough to make this video! I am going through the same thing and I am trying everything I can to make my marriage work but Ive always been told it takes more then one to make it work and my other half is not willing to make it work! I love you sweet girl!
Where are the real men at? Love is NOT a "feeling". It's a commitment. Marriage is not rainbows, fuzzy bunnies and sprinkled cupcakes 24/7.
Sorry he has abandoned you. That's exactly what this is.
mark, you may be the last one.
Thanks for that, but I assure you I am not the last one. I am single though! Be warned, I am not a "10". I have flaws.
Maybe someday God will grant me a princess I can dote on. Till then, carry on.
I totally agree! My husband and I had countless conversations about this before we got married. We have confidence in each other that we will stay, regardless of any change of feelings. Feelings are fickle and you will not always feel in love. There will be dry spells, but if you ACT out love regardless of your feelings, those feelings will return, whether it's sooner or later.
Must have been a really dum guy......doesnt know what he has lost.........she is a fighter......strong women.
"Real men?" Lol Real men fail...ask Moses...Paul...Peter....and on. Are you the voice of The Real One? #nope
I am so sorry Julie. You are so right that you can't make someone do something they don't want to do. Do what is in your control. I will keep you in my thoughts and admire your courage for sharing this. ♥ Elle
Don't be scared it will all work how it is suppose to and you are a strong woman ... I got married at 18 to my high school sweetheart at 23 he basically told me the same thing and it ended in divorce and I felt completely devastated because nobody I knew ever had divorced before .... I decided to take what was through my way and I took off and moved across the country and here 5 years later I met the love of my life and we have 2 beautiful children and I'm the happiest I have ever been ... Weather you end up working it out or move on .. it's the hardest at first but it will be better and you will be happy xoxoxoxoxoxo stay strong girl you will be okay
Be strong Julie! God is with you and you're going to overcome this.
I'm right there on the compatibility thing. In a semi-similar situation. You are so strong! Especially to bring this forward and be so personal, I commend you. Maybe your husband is confused , but I know your subscribers ,weather we know you personally or not love you plenty! We're always here for you! Hang tough, God always has a plan for you , before you know what's going to happen he's already planned it out.
Wow I guess I got lucky...
To be honest I’m the one in my marriage who struggles often with the challenges of being married. I love my husband so much but I find myself wondering sometimes if I have the strength to overcome these hurdles. He tells me all of the time that he is 100% confident that we will make it to death together and that love is a choice that we must continue choosing every day, especially when times get tough.
Love isn’t just a feeling - feelings are fleeting and they change instantly. Love is a choice. The difference between the couples who split and those who stay together until their deaths is not that some people have problems and others don’t (we all have problems in our relationships); it’s that they believe their partner is worth overcoming these problems with.
I know this is an older video but this is exactly what has been going on between my wife and I since November. This is the video I need to see right now.Thank you.
You are such a beautiful person inside and out. I admire your bravery posting this video. As someone who was once in a similar situation, I can promise you that it WILL get better even though at times it seems hopeless. Just remember that everything happens for a reason and sometimes good things come to an end so better things can begin! Those words got me through some pretty rough times! Much love xoxo
I knew something was going on with you. I'll be sending prayers up for you. Hang in there things will get better. It's always darker before the dawn. I'm glad you can talk positively about your husband. I think that is lovely. You are such a kind person.
julie i'm so sorry to hear that you have to go through something like this, but you are such an inspiration to everybody and i know that god will bring you the strength to get through this, it will just make you a stronger person.. you will get through it!!
So so happy to see that you seem so much happier now in 2016. You were really brave for putting up this video. It looks like it's helped a lot of people know they aren't alone.
I'm sorry that you are going through this Julie. I've been through a divorce and it is very difficult. Just know that God has a plan for you and he will help you in these hard times. I know you have many blessings to come! You are a beautiful person inside and out.
I am so sorry to hear this Julie and admire the way you are dealing with it. It's important, I find to go at your own pace when dealing with major life events like this. Just be kind to yourself and take each day as it comes. I would love to see more variety in your videos, giving an insight into your life. Peace and blessings to you. 🙏🙏🙏
thank you for sharing, im going through this now, and im not sure what to do. im so sad and upset. he just whats out.
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Oh girl, I'm praying for you! Don't lose hope. May you find happiness and peace. Xx
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I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I can't imagine how hard filming this video must have been for you. I hope things will get better for you soon.
I watched a few of your videos earlier and just subscribed. I feel for you and admire you for showing your vulnerability and being real. I am sure you are helping others feel not alone. You seem so very sweet and are beautiful and very talented and appreciated. I truly believe things happen for a reason and good things will be head for you. You're kindness and grace during this difficult time show your true character. Hang in there Julie.. Things will turn around if they haven't already! Xoxo
Hope you come out of this a stronger person. You are a beautiful lady and you deserve better. I've been married six years this April. My husband had been thru a divorce and he thought he would never Marry again. I usually hate this saying but things happen for a reason. I believe you are meant to find the real love of your life like we found in each other 🌈
This video was helpful for me. My situation is almost a mirror iamage or yours. My wife told me about three months ago that she didn't love me anymore and that she didn't think we were compatible at all. It's great to see this video as I know now that I am not the only one out there going through the emotional trauma of having your best friend/lover/spouse abandon you. My emtotions have been all over the place and I have had good days and bad just as you describe in the video. Hoping to find some happiness and solitude soon. Thanks
Thanks so much for posting this!!!! Totally going though something like this too! I'm so sorry that your going through this I know how alone and unsure of the future you may be because I feel the same a lot! You are SO amazing and beautiful and I love the perspective you have on life! Praying for you!
Prayers going out to you. I had had a horrible suspicion these past few months that this was what was going on--so I have already been holding you up to God. I think you have the right attitude. God WILL work this out--one way or another. All the best to you always, Julie.
Hi Julie. So sorry to hear about your difficulties. I wanted to let you know, that as you said, so many of us have gone through what you are experiencing. Many, many years ago (I'm old enough to be your mother!), I cried the
hardest "cry' in my life on the shoulders of my mother as I grieved the loss of my five-year marriage. I pray that whatever is best for you will happen...whether that be a reconciliation with your husband or you are set free to find that person who loves you 100% as you deserve to be loved. You are a beautiful, sweet girl and rest assured, the sun WILL shine again (as that old hymn says)...you just have to hang in there. Take care and keep the videos coming. They are good for us and you too I think! Love, Pam
Hi Julie,
I know exactly how you feel. My husband and I after a 12 years of marriage, he has asked for separation.
Everything your saying and feeling and even the way your breathing is exactly like me at this moment.
I'm so sorry your going through this as well. Just know someone in another country is going through the same exact thing.
It's been 4 weeks since he asked for separation and it's so difficult. Due to finances and the fact we own a house together makes this do difficult cause we still see each other on a daily bases.
Sending u big hugs and know your in my thought.
Sara. From Toronto Canada
Hi, My name is Yolanda, and I just recently went through a separation as well. I decided to separate from my spine of 5 years, but been together a total of 9 years, because he treated me poorly. I tried many things, and expressed feelings to him that were unheard. I had 4 of his children. I just gave birth to our twin boys almost two years ago in June. The way he treated me in front of prople, including my own family was humiliating to say the least, because I had to come home to this man to continue taking the verbal and emotional abuse I enfured, even while being pregnant he had no sensitivity. I am not saying I was perfect at all, but I tried to make things better, while he wanted the negative environment to continue. He would ignore me on a daily basis like I was not even there, and it seemed like I had to kiss his assistant in rider for him to talk to me. This went on for tears, and I had to decide what I had to do for my own sanity because I was holding on to a thread mentally. Thank God I had the strength and faith that I have in order to put things into perspective. Sometimes things happen for a reason, and we have to see the lesson we need to learn from it. It is so hard, I do underdtand, but if you hold on and see the real message through this transition you will become the true person you are meant to be through this. Just trust trust the process. God Bless.
Thank you for this video. I'm having a hard time with a separation from my husband of 21 years. I am so full of every emotion right now...anger, hurt, jealously...just everything. it helps to hear encouraging words. Thank you.
I’ve been through this process myself. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Trust me!
Thank you for opening up, you are definitely in my prayers. I truly think you have a kind and gentle spirit and I am sure things will get better, just have faith! What will happen, will happen. Hugs!!!
I'm so sorry to hear this ! I understand how you feel I been there too it's tough I don't know what to tell you to make you feel better everybody handles emotions differently 😞 . When I saw the title my heart sank for you because I know the feeling . Sending you hugs and I wish for you to find happiness soon Julie ❤️
I am truly sorry for what you're going thru, I can relate to how ur feeling being that im going thru a similar situation right now and I want u to know ur not alone , lean on ur friends and family and pray, I sensed something wasn't right but u will be blessed, ur such a sweet girl and God knows ur situation and we aren't given more than we can bear,and at times it seems so unfair but things always work out the way they're supposed to , so they tell me ..hang in there !! ONE day at a time and stay busy, you are a beautiful person inside and out and you are in my thoughts and prayers👍❤️
m going through the same phase julie...u r an inspiration...trust me its very tough
I have gone through this myself and it was really hard. My situation was alot different because my ex was emotionally and physically abusive and severely bipolar but wouldn't get help. He did alot of really terrible things to me and instead of me leaving I did things to get even which I never should have done. It was 6 years ago and I had to make the decision to get away from him. He honestly thought he could do anything he wanted and I would stay. I met someone else who treats me with love and respect and has never done anything to hurt me. I honestly look back and I am thankful for the experience although when I married him I truly believed we would forever be together. Sometimes people aren't who they seem to be and no matter what u do or say u can't change that person. The best advice I can give is to get up, get dressed and put on a smile regardless because it will get better. Each day will get easier. I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason and doors close to bring us to a new beginning. Just stay close to family and friends and maybe join a support group. It's very hard when u love someone and don't want to let them go and having to come to terms with the fact that they no longer want to b married. Its not easy waking up everyday and carrying on as if everything is ok but I promise it will be ok. Just don't give up hope that u will find happiness again.
My heart goes out to you girl. To be so open about such a hard time is truly brave of you. I pray that you can find comfort in whatever the outcome be. I also pray that your husband will remember what an awesome and amazing woman you are. With or without him I hope you know how loved you are.
So sorry you have been going through this, this video was put up a while ago so I don't know what your situation is now. I can say no one should be judging you…you are the one that wants to work this out, don't be hard on yourself, there is nothing you can do to change the situation that you haven't already done! I hope things get better for you soon!!
Julie....
If I could give you a big sister hug I would! I have tears in my eyes after watching this. I have faith that our God can do great things in brokeness. Thankyou so much for being open, and I know you will help so many people because of this video. Love you sis!
Julie, I randomly came across this video. It's really helping me get through my divorce process, which just started 4 days ago. Thank you for being real.
Julie, I feel for you. You'll be in my daily prayers! Keep knowing God has a great plan for you
Thanks for sharing! I'm going through the same thing right now. I hate that the kids have to be pulled into this. I wish child support would be more fair in the state of Georgia.
I'm so sorry. That takes a lot of courage to make this public, even though it's not something you have to do. I wish you both the best and hope whatever happens works out the greatest in the end.
Hi Julie, first I would like to say that you are a very strong woman to talk so openly about your separation. You said the key words, you can't make someone do what they don't want to do. I myself went through a separation. It was hard in the beginning but it all works itself out in the end. Take things day by day. You will get through this. No ones life is perfect. God Bless you and keep moving forward. 🙏
I can't tell you how helpful this was to watch...I️ know it’s an older video, but going through these life changes are scary. :( It helps to see that others have done so too. You seem like such a wonderful person and I️ love your positivity!! :)
After 23yrs of marriage & one week after my youngest moved out, my husband said exactly the same. I think its BS & a cop out. Prayers for you Julie, I have cried night & day for 15 months now. My your life return to joy and happiness.
Aw, Julie, I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you. Big hugs.
You're very brave for being
open and putting yourself out there. Wishing you strength and all the best...
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Julie I'm so sorry you are going through this. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
Hi Julie I can't tell you how very bad I feel for you! I went through the same thing. I was crushed and distraught and didn't think I would live through the pain. We both remarried and divorced our spouses the same time. He found me 20 years latter and begged me to remarry him. I laughed in his face and said " you wish ". I don't miss him or love him one ounce! Ahhhh.......I must say it felt so good. Love ya girl! Stay strong 😘
It's always best to be honest, especially since you will have days that stink! Your viewers that care about u won't criticize you, they'll stand by you. I wasn't married but with someone for 7 years and just broke up almost 1 year ago....it's still hard but i know i need this time to heal and like you said i feel very strongly that god knows what's best. He does this for a reason and it might not feel good at the time but always have faith there is a reason for this and someday you will be ok and be with who you are meant to be with! Hugs!!
It took tremendous courage to share what you've been going through. I admire you doing this - it shows wisdom way beyond your years. I love your videos and what you do here on youtube. Please keep sharing.
I am going through this now and my husband said the same thing to me.I thank you so much for posting this.
+melissa thomas same here, it is a rough pill to swallow. Stay positive & hang in there!
I hear you, I feel you. I have just found your video.. seems like you don’t post new video anymore, hope you are doing great and at peace. I am going through divorce which my husband initiated. He told me we are not compatible, he doesn’t love me anymore. Pretty much I am in same situation that you had. Julie, thank you for sharing I appreciate you opened up your emotions and feelings.
Stay strong Julie! You'll be in my prayers
Julie I am so very sorry. I feel your pain. I can feel it in your voice. I have been there. I know how hard and heart breaking divorce can be. Especially when you are in love with that person. You will get through it. When I got divorced I felt like my life was over. I was a single mother. I didn't really know how I was going to raise 2 kids on my own but with the help of God and my mother I did it. They are both grown now and I am a grandmother. I raised 2 great kids. I am now remarried to a wonderful man who is so good to me and my whole family. It won't always feel like this. Just leave it in God's hands and he will work it out whichever way he see's fit. Either way he is right there with you. I haven't been watching your videos very long but I can tell you are a sweetheart not to mention you are gorgeous! Lift your head sweetheart and hold on. It will all be alright later on.
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I came through this video and I’m just going through the same situation in my life right now ! My husband is leaving just because he doesn’t feel the same way and he doesn’t feel like working things out 😭😭😢 ! It’s like a roller coaster some days you feel great and want to smile and sometimes you just want to stay in room under the blankets ! I never thought I had to face this in my life !
Divorce is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Wishing you love,strength and happiness in the future. ❤️
You are an amazing women, who is so courageous and strong. Thank you for opening your heart to us! We are your friends and family even though we aren't. You will get through this and God has a plan for you. Just take it one day at a time because this too will pass. And there will be your prince waiting in the sideline when you least expect it. But for now lean on family, friends, and US!! Your such a beautiful person inside and out and you will be just fine because you have GOD on your side. Keep your head up and know you will be in my prayers. Xo
My heart goes out to you. I have been there and you are def not alone. I divorced 3 years ago after being married for 14 years. It was painful for all of us, including our kids, but we knew it was time, and we are now great friends who parent together even better now than we did while married. Sending you lots of hugs, and just know you will get through it, and learn a lot from it♡♡.
Thinking of you!!! My prayers are with you right now!!! Your so strong!
I love your channel. Thank you for being so open. I think you are a beautiful person inside & out. I'm so sorry for what you are going through but I understand. Hang in there girl. Everything will work out the way it's supposed to.