We Were Told To Give Up Our Autistic Twins

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  • @vinnietomic9004
    @vinnietomic9004 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3065

    They look disconnected from life until that one guy started spinning them, you can see them snap into reality in a way. That's amazing.

    • @pirate__crewman
      @pirate__crewman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      orange peel oup, there goes gravity

    • @tigbittygf
      @tigbittygf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Captain Davy Jones oh there goes rabbit he choked

    • @cia898
      @cia898 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      they say a reality check is yur greatest weapon against an autistic. now, i guess it’s a reality spin. HA HA HA HA HA!

    • @sophievega4637
      @sophievega4637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      so beautiful

    • @amywebb2029
      @amywebb2029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Stimulation

  • @k333nya
    @k333nya 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2863

    "Autism isn't a choice, acceptance is."
    -EHCCS, 2017

  • @FabulousCthulhu
    @FabulousCthulhu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3991

    The doctors told my mom that my brother he would never talk, would never be potty trained and would need assistance and medication till death. He was around 4, he's now 10 and uses the restroom himself, can talk, and do his own thing. As he's gotten older, he seems more like a socially awkward person. He still has behaviour issues, but he's better.

    • @arinonko1375
      @arinonko1375 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Fabulous chutulu you’re here

    • @morganrussman
      @morganrussman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Fabulous Cthulhu yep, I know a little bit of how that feels, am autistic myself ( I might be borderline, but still autistic), my parents (maybe my mom) were told when I was about 5 years old that I would never have a sense of humor, I'm am just about to have my 22nd birthday next month ( this is posted in the early part of april of 2018 for those who see this year's later), and guess what, I have a sense of humor, I proved that person wrong.

    • @passenger2888
      @passenger2888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm glad that he's been able to learn so well.

    • @yaboiaxe4771
      @yaboiaxe4771 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Fabulous Cthulhu Also best of luck to your brother.

    • @joshpowell2454
      @joshpowell2454 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      If this isn't bs then bless you your brother is amazing and make himself feel happy everyday please.

  • @crazymeh1691
    @crazymeh1691 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1368

    They look so much like their mom

  • @olliepop5162
    @olliepop5162 6 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    It's like us autistic folks have been saying for years: trying to understand us will work way better than trying to ignore our problems. Glad to see people who get that, and who are using that to better their lives.

    • @the_ace_of_spades71
      @the_ace_of_spades71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I like this on it
      learn from the people who have it rather than what people say it’s like because more often than not it’s actually way more educational when you just take the time to learn from those people and see what they see rather than the blinding rest of the world

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

  • @christopherf6251
    @christopherf6251 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1431

    as an autistic teenager i love this because they're so understanding and they encourage stimming and i love this

    • @pirate__crewman
      @pirate__crewman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Christopher F lmaoo

    • @_RiveR__
      @_RiveR__ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I stim most of the time either shaking my leg or hitting my chest or verbally clicking

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christopher F God bless u and u kid

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hang your wang no they won’t and don’t say that they will be dumb if you treat them dumb that’s not true

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      GabePlays God bless u

  • @tashmaxwell3774
    @tashmaxwell3774 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2343

    This is so so important. Seriously, autism is not some sort of thing that always requires for institutionalization. It's as simple as developing an understanding for how to work with the way they learn and experience life. They walk down a path unimaginable to any of us

    • @tashmaxwell3774
      @tashmaxwell3774 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      siri chauvaux yes, but oftentimes such as in this case, people see them as incapable and want to throw them into institutions where often they don't get help, but rather are further pushed into their own worlds. it's important to not simply diagnose and throw away

    • @nancyreichenbach8250
      @nancyreichenbach8250 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bad Parents! Not all are ok with living with it. Bad parents! So, a 55 year old single mother can't do it anymore and she is a bad parent? Sorry, but an ass whooping at her age is not good. And besides, what institutions! They are RESIDENTIAL HOMES! JUDGING ONES SITUATION IS BULL.

    • @jjlexiana9640
      @jjlexiana9640 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Autistic Cancer i hope you said that just to get attention cuz u need help

    • @jjlexiana9640
      @jjlexiana9640 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Diego Correa i know that, but it seems like he needs help too cussing them out while aware of their conditions. thats just being ignorant

    • @jessop5125
      @jessop5125 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Diego Correa Not all of them.

  • @elizabethy2912
    @elizabethy2912 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    As a mother of an autistic daughter, who wasn't diagnosed until age 20, I admire the dedication and love these parents are exhibiting. My daughter is now schizophrenic, and needs 24/7 care which we provide. It's been a very, very hard adjustment. These parents have all my admiration, respect, and empathy. Life is a journey, some folks have rougher bumps, and bigger mountains to go thru and up than others. What excellent progress from these boys!!

    • @John44004
      @John44004 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      God Bless you !

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are an angel on earth for caring for your daughter

    • @elizabethy2912
      @elizabethy2912 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@winning3329 Thank you for that sweet thought. There are many other parents in our situation as well. Angels as well.

    • @shaynemhopkins
      @shaynemhopkins ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wasn’t diagnosed till I was 17 I’m 22 now and I have some issues which I’m pretty sure is from not getting the proper care I may have needed. I have had moments where the police have been called on me as a result of said issues while I don’t need 24/7 care I can understand to a extent.

    • @genevieveburtt9441
      @genevieveburtt9441 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are a good person, my mother and father dealt with a lot with me, but are just as brave of fighters as you are, hang in there love! Have a wonderful life, and you are stronger than you know!❤️

  • @animeluchia5405
    @animeluchia5405 7 ปีที่แล้ว +866

    This is beautiful… I have Asperger’s Syndrome, which is on the autism spectrum, and looking at this… it’s just beautiful… seeing these 2 go from unable to really… deal with social interaction, and such, to slowly getting to a point where they can look in someone’s eyes… it’s beautiful.

    • @Lanoman123
      @Lanoman123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      AnimeLuchia I have Aspergers it’s very high in the spectrum and it means High Functioning

    • @karlifran6584
      @karlifran6584 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I have aspergers too

    • @_RiveR__
      @_RiveR__ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I also have aspergers and one of the worst things are sayings or phrases and taking things literally because i didnt understand

    • @tiabelle3346
      @tiabelle3346 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have Asperger's to Xx

    • @shortgtantheman4829
      @shortgtantheman4829 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have autism and ADHD but I’m high on the spectrum

  • @silverdoe9477
    @silverdoe9477 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I remember when I babysat a precious little 5 year old non-verbal girl in my late teens. The parents said she wouldn’t communicate, but she played/stimmed with her hands. So I let her clap & play with my hands. After a few days she saw me making breakfast, looked me dead in the eye & laughed. Most powerful moment with a child I’ve ever had. ❤ You may not now it, but they see you.

    • @SavortheMomentblog
      @SavortheMomentblog 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow, you’re an angel. I’m so glad you knew what to do naturally so she was able to connect with you.

  • @louisestewartscott1870
    @louisestewartscott1870 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1856

    Wow that was so touching, I have so much admiration for those parents

    • @jenbustos4480
      @jenbustos4480 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Louise Stewart Scott , Yesss!!!!! Amazing people right there!!👏👏🤘

    • @Royalsprincess1
      @Royalsprincess1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      its amazing how they have stuck with their children and never gave them up. they truthfully are taking so much care of their children, that is amazing.

    • @shammajoseph2219
      @shammajoseph2219 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Xx_VULPIX _xX I love your profile picture

    • @cristychumney157
      @cristychumney157 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      id be the living hell out of both theses kids.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

  • @Harleigh_19
    @Harleigh_19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    I work with Autistic kids and I've been using similar techniques to interact with my kids. A lot of them smile and laugh when you copy what they're doing but on the flip side some hate it. That's the most difficult thing with kids with Autism is they are all so different, you just have to find what works for them.

    • @dutchik5107
      @dutchik5107 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      CarbonGril Gt you can't diagnose someone that easily, you'd definitely if you have it, high functioning, so that would take a lot of tests and all. to get a diagnosis

    • @kawaiithings2570
      @kawaiithings2570 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +CarbonGril Gt I have aspergers, which is more on the me side of the spectrum, but it still affects me. Don't listen to your friend, you have to get an actual diagnosis.

    • @kawaiithings2570
      @kawaiithings2570 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      *mild, not me

    • @c.s.6993
      @c.s.6993 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's amazing! I'd also love to work with autistic kids but I don't know which studies would lead me there. May I ask which type of education you followed? Good luck on your path!

    • @mickspen5709
      @mickspen5709 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kawaii Things I have Aspergers too and it is also very mild. I think most people don't understand it and think that all autistic people are the same but every single person is different.

  • @shannonbriggs100
    @shannonbriggs100 7 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    I have autism and this is heartbreaking. My mum was told I'd never get better. That I would just always be naughty and unmanageable. That I'd never get anywhere in life.
    ... I'm now 20 years old. I've done my GCSEs, I've done three years in college with all Distinctions, I'm planning to go back to college again and I'm in a relationship.
    When I was younger, I was bad. I couldn't leave the house, I was always self harming, I was destructive and had meltdowns everyday. It wasn't until I got help when I was 14 that my life improved. I went to a special needs school. One that had only 40 students. Every class had 5 kids and three teachers. They improved my life beyond what I thought was possible. They made me into the person I am today.
    I still have meltdowns sometimes, I'm sill autistic. But I'm able to manage it. The one thing that still upsets me is that if I had got early intervention (help when I was still a little kid) I would be even better than I am now. It was only because my mum fought for me to have help for years that I got into that school. And it shouldn't be that way. It just shouldn't.

    • @oakpkdude
      @oakpkdude 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Don't focus on the negative Shannon. You have done wonderfully and should be very proud of your accomplishments.

    • @SOML98
      @SOML98 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have ASPEGERS Syndrome and was homeschooled

    • @patricejackson6718
      @patricejackson6718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      There is DIFFERENT LEVELS of it you're clearly not too bad not trying to be funny just being honest

    • @annabiing2570
      @annabiing2570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for sharing this! My son has autism and goes to School for Autism. He really enjoys it. Before he started we had considered 1/2 general 1/2 autistic school but now I hear more and more stories like yours and am glad we made this decision. He has two younger brothers so has definitely opportunity to socialise in a variety of environments...

    • @ericamae7287
      @ericamae7287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keep doing what you are doing x

  • @MadisonElaine
    @MadisonElaine 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2462

    They are so cute aw

    • @koaps
      @koaps 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Madison Brooke ikr

    • @rosesivan1140
      @rosesivan1140 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Madison Brooke ikr 💕💕😍

    • @cia898
      @cia898 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      who is cute? the tards or the comments? you have me a bit confused.

    • @tamale_wolflilli8474
      @tamale_wolflilli8474 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@colonelyungblonsk7730 excuse me, there is nothing wrong with autism and if you have a problem your mind is extremely dameged and ugly

    • @stefanbarnerrasmussen1274
      @stefanbarnerrasmussen1274 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Akari- Chan so you come in this comment section just to say R I P X, just keep that stuff to yourself, he died, that’s it

  • @kiajames7737
    @kiajames7737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I can’t get over the cuddles and the kisses. I couldn’t have imagined that outcome for them. The eye contact. That’s such a blessing.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

  • @heathers5319
    @heathers5319 7 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    4:41 - 4:51 made me cry so hard. My 3 year old son has autism and he is very similar to these boys and I feel like hes trapped in his world where he feels like hes alone and nobody can understand him or communicate with anyone. one day i did start copying him and he looked up at me as well like mama you understand me!! my heart is hurting so much right now and I'm crying. I want him to know mommy is here mommy understands you and I love you more than my next breathe!!

    • @europianbob
      @europianbob 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Heather s. He knows you love him!

    • @heathers5319
      @heathers5319 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thank you! Miss Amber

    • @europianbob
      @europianbob 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Porter Lockert. I didn't know it was showing... ;) excuse me. *covers my lady parts*

    • @mymykisses5980
      @mymykisses5980 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heather s my brother has autism and he's 3 turning 4 your not alone.

    • @kaiceecrane3884
      @kaiceecrane3884 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As a person with autism talking to others with autism, this is what I have found autism is. Autism is a different way the brain can be "wired". Some observations may lead an outside observer to think one way, but without the rest of the context it can be very misleading. People with autism take in more information from their surroundings. While doing some activity the neurotypical person (not autistic) may take some time to process said activity and some of their surroundings, an autistic person takes in everything around them that is going on while doing an activity. Take eating lunch in cafeteria for example; while sitting with their friends a neurotypical person will be eating food, talking with their friends, and listening to what they are saying while an autistic person will be doing the same while taking in every sound difference in their friends voice, eye movement, body language, and doing all of these things with anything they also see and hear. Because of that a delay in time to respond may occur as they are taking in and processing more information before they can respond. A lot of autistic people also have Sensory Processing Disorder, which is a disorder that manifest itself in such a way that the individual with it processes their senses either more dramatically or less. For example, take the cafeteria example again; the autistic may be hearing every noise and conversation at once in that room and the lights may be fine for some people and so bright for an autistic person it is physically painful. This can get overwhelming as all of this stimulus can be too much. Stimulus is any information gathered by any of your 7 primary senses: sight, touch, hearing, smell, taste, proprioceptive (sense of where you are in space and movement), and vestibular (sense of balance). While these are external stimuli, internal stimuli can affect an autistic person in the same way; internal stimulus being things such as stress or anxiety to name a few. It is important to let an autistic person know how they live and process information is normal and fine, there is nothing wrong with them. They are perfectly normal people, just with a nerotype that isn't typical. Too much can cause a meltdown sometimes, or a shutdown. A shutdown is straightforward as they just shutdown like a computer and need to rebute away from all that stimulus. A meltdown is when the autistic person goes into a fight or flight response, where they will act accordingly as does anyone when their subconscious feels threatened. Keep in mind, too much stimulus is painful, and be drastically so. You could say that a shutdown is when the fight or flight response goes so extreme they freeze. To combat all of this stimulus an autistic person needs to do one of two things, and may sometimes need help doing them: 1.) Remove the negative stimulus, say like going somewhere darker or quieter 2.) Stim. Stimming can be with any of the 7 primary senses as it replaces bad information, or stimulus, with good. This may be repeating some sound, rocking back or forth, touching some textured object, or hand flapping. These are just a tiny few examples of stimming. Stimming is good stimulus, so an autistic person may stim sometimes just because it feels good to do so with no other reason or maybe to express themselves as is natural and feels good to them. Sometimes when an autistic person has too much negative stimulus they may become nonverbal, or in other words may not be able to talk or use their words. Sometimes they may still be able to make sounds, write, or communicate in some other alternative fashion. Some autistic people take in more stimulus than other autistic people, and can be prone to experiencing more meltdowns and being nonverbal. Nonverbal occurs when the mind and body has to divert resources to dealing with other tasks. An autistic person may normally not be nonverbal but become so during a meltdown or when overwhelmed. Sometimes instead of being nonverbal, there might be a stutter instead. An autistic person has a certain amount of “spoons” they have for every day. Spoons the resources (mentally, emotionally, physically) you can use to do some task. Some days you may have more spoons, and other days you may feel like you none. Getting up out of bed cost spoons, dressing oneself cost spoons, brushing your teeth, showering, eating breakfast, going to work, going to class, anything you do cost some amount of spoons; with little resources of spoons available, you may only be able to accomplish only a few tasks, and that is perfectly okay. Sometimes a task can cost a lot of spoons, and sometimes the same task may cost more spoons than other times. Sometimes looking at a person's face or communicating with someone can be difficult. Communication is like a dance, and can be very difficult to follow. There are 3 ways of communication: what is said, how it is said, and body language. A person's face goes through a lot of changes over a short period of time to reflect how they are feeling, and looking at a person while talking can take a lot of spoons at time. It can be very overwhelming to try to pick up on a lot of cues people have in any form of communication. A lot of times an autistic person may only focus on one form of communication, if any, to be able to communicate. Communication in of itself (talking, listening, changes in subject) yet alone looking at some, taking in all the noise, and light, among some many things happening at once can be too much. If things feel that way, that everything is overwhelming, it is okay to remove yourself from that situation or choose not to be there in the first place. There is nothing wrong in taking care of yourself

  • @anjalisharma3648
    @anjalisharma3648 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1388

    bless these angels and bless their parents.

    • @jessop5125
      @jessop5125 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Anjali Sharma No religious bs pls

    • @anjalisharma3648
      @anjalisharma3648 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      in what way was that religious?

    • @brandonkay2285
      @brandonkay2285 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      'Bless' is a Christian term. and 'Angel' is what you become in the afterlife in heaven. Also Christian. However you are correct. They should be blessed.

    • @zaaapzaaap8737
      @zaaapzaaap8737 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jessop yes no b.s.

    • @l_Hxmicide_l
      @l_Hxmicide_l 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anjali Sharma amen❤❤❤

  • @videlvasq
    @videlvasq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    People with autism have their own thoughts, emotions, ways of communication, opinions; these vary between every individual ..Just because """normal""" minds can't understand them doesn't mean they aren't being coherent and it doesn't make them uncaring or uncooperative. .

    • @mksabourinable
      @mksabourinable 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yea they are very clearly trying to communicate that something is WRONG with their home environment. People (nor animals for that matter) don't try to escape a place half a dozen times if they feel safe and happy there......

    • @jessicacoleman8862
      @jessicacoleman8862 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Videl Vasquez I have Aspergers and everyone thinks that I don't care or that I'm such a mean person. I don't know how to show that I care to others.

    • @emalsfd
      @emalsfd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jessica Coleman exactly. I have it and I had a cover teacher once. I was rlly upset because my dog had died. She asked my after class what’s wrong. I told her and she also knew I have autism. But then she said “But if you feel empathy your obviously not autistic are you?” I walked out of the class because that’s really disrespectful

    • @leggingphambers7054
      @leggingphambers7054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      MinionPink!!! That teacher is horrible

    • @fairymairah
      @fairymairah 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree !

  • @smolseptic1289
    @smolseptic1289 7 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    My cousin has very severe autism and sotos (an over growth syndrome. Basically the posited of Down syndrome.) When he was born he was told he would eat, breath and walk by himself. They where told he would be blind and deaf. Today he is 14 years old and about 6 foot and he is walking without help, talking amazingly and communicating with my aunts clients. He only needs glasses and has no hearing difficulties at all. Though he will never be able to live alone or be left alone for a long period of time he has proven doctors wrong. We all love him to bits. Anyone struggling with anything like this know you aren't alone. :)

    • @t0mc4t.
      @t0mc4t. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      joe trohman

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

    • @sudokuacrobatics
      @sudokuacrobatics ปีที่แล้ว

      Where did your brain keep your grammar? In your arse?

  • @kaitlyne1870
    @kaitlyne1870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Finally a program that wants to help us by understanding us instead of all but beating us into submission until we learn to pretend to be "normal" and just stop doing what actually calms us and helps us cope with the world around us! ❤️

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

    • @kaitlyne1870
      @kaitlyne1870 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juniormako6184 lots of autistic kids start talking when they get older with or without speech therapy or other interventions. A lot just start talking perfectly fine once they're ready. As far as the behavior, if he's behaving as though he's not autistic at all now, he's masking due to the trauma from your "treatments" and "cures" which is detrimental to the psychological well-being of an autistic person and significantly increases the risk of a mental health crisis as an adult or even teen, up to and including suicide attempts! Please, for the love of all things good in this world, learn to love your child as they are instead of risking their lives for your comfort and convenience!

  • @mariemorgan4986
    @mariemorgan4986 7 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I have autism and the hardest part of it is knowing about the world and how it works.

    • @miyaisu
      @miyaisu 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Marie Morgan same but with adhd

    • @mickspen5709
      @mickspen5709 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I'm 13 and I have Aspergers, and I have a higher understanding of the world than most people my age. I think I agree with most 30 year olds than the people of my generation.

    • @joeyhernandez5304
      @joeyhernandez5304 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marie Morgan so ture

    • @joeyhernandez5304
      @joeyhernandez5304 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have autism to

    • @vidna0
      @vidna0 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lexi Burke I'm also 13 with Asperger's, but it's mild-ish. I've skipped two classes, so I'm interacting with 15 year-olds on a daily basis; combined with my high understanding of the world, it makes it difficult to truly connect with any age group. How can I be 11, 13, 15, 18, and 20 all at the same time?

  • @MamaWhit87
    @MamaWhit87 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1916

    you would have to have ALOT of patience dealing with this...

    • @Harleigh_19
      @Harleigh_19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      whitwhit87 You do. This is my job too but in a public school setting and it's definitely hard but I absolutely love my kids.

    • @benjaminarya829
      @benjaminarya829 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      whitwhit87 * a lot

    • @gear7546
      @gear7546 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      zach healey (i have autism just so u know)

    • @tammycornejo9155
      @tammycornejo9155 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      whitwhit87. they only require love. lots of it.

    • @jessop5125
      @jessop5125 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes... you need a lot of it.

  • @shmielkleinman5085
    @shmielkleinman5085 7 ปีที่แล้ว +948

    Autism is the toughest of all physical and mental disorders for parents to deal with their kids, they get zero recognition and love for their hard work and soul they put in. This video is so incredible, parents should keep on working for many years without seeing any positive results nor did they get any lovable return. Just wow!

    • @HulluRichie
      @HulluRichie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I have autism and it took me years to realise that I was not very "giving" towards my parents. I apologised for that as a 20 year old and told my mum that I love her. It made her cry. I believe, as we grow up, that we are to realise the fault in our ways and it will be worth it in the end. But if I had been told that I had been cold towards my parents, I would have apologised and showed affection sooner. I think.

    • @HulluRichie
      @HulluRichie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      You're right, I have high functioning autism (aspergers). I used to be in my own world as a child, pretending I was an animal and not responding to people in a "human" way for years. I'm still in social therapy and I'm almost 21. You could argue that I was an "easy" child compared to other autistic children, but I do know for a fact that I was not and I still am not easy to be with. I do know folk who have low fuctioning autism though, who have gotten great results from therapy like the one in the video. I myself at least got more in touch with reality from all the therapies I went to.

    • @elsakristina2689
      @elsakristina2689 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      shmiel kleinman Since when is autism a mental disorder?

    • @hel117
      @hel117 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I wouldn't say its the toughest condition, especially since there is such a range as to how much it effects people...
      That said, you're right! Good on them...

    • @VixxyMcN
      @VixxyMcN 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      shmiel kleinman but our children are beautiful and special no matter how tough it is

  • @rubyrootless7324
    @rubyrootless7324 7 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    My brother is autistic and this video actually made me cry.
    It's so hard to love him sometimes because when he's angry I'm just a person that gets in his way instead of someone who you would want to talk things out with. It hurts, sometimes. But we'll get through that all together.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

    • @teresacorley7874
      @teresacorley7874 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kids with autism need to know you are thier for them no matter what just because your child has a disability like autism doesn't mean you give up on them or abanoed them you stick with them and learn new ways to communicate with them it is aled most like a newborn learning new skills everyday they will eventually bond with you when they see that you are fully comitt

    • @teresacorley7874
      @teresacorley7874 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fully committed to them they eventually will trust and build that bond with you but everyday is going to be different for you and other siblings that don't have this promblems may feel left out but that's when you try and teach the other siblings how to recognize the behaviors and help them find their own way of communicating with them once your a family your always a family you should never just give up on them because they have different needs and learning issues you bond with those and create a environment for each kid so they feel connected and loved and trust you even when the going gets tuff easier said then done but loving them should never stop and you pick and choose what really is the best for your children when dealing with the outside professional world of doctors and therapist they are their to just help guide you but the end result is you know what works best for your children on a individual basis even though they might be twins they still have individual needs that are different it is a very long road to journey down with your children but it is so rewarding also even when things get tough these kids can learn and can become successful in society in their own unige way music therapy is a great tool and interacting the music with them is so rewarding and you don't have to be a good singer your natural talent will be the best reward of building this with your children they will rember this the rest of their life and it will build a special bond with them

  • @tomjones648
    @tomjones648 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Way to show the world to never give up on their kids! Thanks for being great parents!

  • @billgam4581
    @billgam4581 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    My brother has autism. He is 16 years old in high school. Before a year or two ago, he had no close friends from school. Now, he has friends from a special class he was moved to with all special needs kids. There he met Daniel, who has been his best friend ever since. Even in high school, I hear students call others like Daniel and my brother weird or joke about them. They just don't understand. People like my brother don't see a difference between someone who has down syndrome or someone in a wheel chair. That's what makes them special. They accept everyone, no matter what. The complete opposite of most kids today.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

  • @avclayton5
    @avclayton5 7 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Beautiful. The recent push to understand the human behind the autism is wonderful to see. The more we try to communicate on their wavelength, to *listen* to them, the better these therapies will become.
    What lucky kiddos. Wishing them and their folks the best.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

  • @pineapple8383
    @pineapple8383 7 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    My little brother has autism, but he can talk. He can't read though. He is still smart, for he can build a replica of a plane quickly and with no instructions.Though he can't behave well at school (he is getting homeschooled soon) ,He truly blows my mind and defies the odds every day. that proves all he needs is LOVE! our father has been in prison all our life and he's been through so much. I love him dearly and when I'm older I plan to make a book for him

    • @rhi1989
      @rhi1989 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That isnt how autism works. Autism is autism, theres no such thing as mild/severe/high functioning/low functioning. Its a spectrum and it isnt 'completely different' at all. Maybe do some research (I recommend ASAN).

    • @genericname6444
      @genericname6444 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pineapple homeschooling is illegal without filling in a bunch of forms and such

    • @the_weeb_lord1017
      @the_weeb_lord1017 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pineapple
      My friends cousin has Autism, but he's really smart too. He knows every US president. I only know the more famous ones like George Washington or Abe Lincolnl

    • @da_cupcake1015
      @da_cupcake1015 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My little brother has Autism too. He is really smart and kind...it's sorta like he doesn't know how to be mean or hurt anyone. He can fib in a joking way, but he never actually lies. It's really cool. He is very fun to be around and thankfully I'm moving to my Mom's house in a little less than a week, and that is where he is. :)

    • @LVAI27
      @LVAI27 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me to and he always bends his knwe s and sits down like that he is smart fast and I luv Mt Lil bro

  • @quackity3343
    @quackity3343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I have a autistic cousin. Hes a year older then me and on a scale from 1-10, he is a 11. Its to the point where my aunt has started thinking about putting him in a assisted living home at 15 years old. Now before anyone says anything about how selfish and cruel it would be to put him in a home, he is big for his age, he self harms, he put holes in the walls with his head, he hurts his younger siblings, and he is very emotionally draining. My aunt has 4 kids and he is the second oldest. We all love him so much because he really tries to be good and to not hurt anyone but he is getting almost unmanageable. He is very a very sweet boy and i hope they find a way to help him.

    • @ulusxs1096
      @ulusxs1096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I hope he’s and your families situation gets better 💕

    • @kittehboo7119
      @kittehboo7119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      There is no shame is asking for help even if it comes to someone else being the one who does it

    • @venessaabrams8687
      @venessaabrams8687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Maybe your aunt can get some professionals just like these two on the story to help turn things around.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

    • @pyro2809
      @pyro2809 ปีที่แล้ว

      That literally sounds just like my family like exactly like it

  • @ZomBeeNature
    @ZomBeeNature 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    People often want to clamp controls onto kids instead of joining them in harmless activities, so the kids see them as opponents.

  • @princessali8394
    @princessali8394 7 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    i have never commented on one of these but i couldnt help but show how much this makes me so happy, i love this so much.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

  • @hankhillyourself
    @hankhillyourself 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1941

    do they communicate with each other?

    • @VoiceNerd
      @VoiceNerd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +457

      It's hard to say but as someone on the Autism spectrum I would imagine that they communicate to a minor level. Not so much verbally but more physically.

    • @chrisverkuil55
      @chrisverkuil55 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Voice Nerd that's not always right depends on with diagnose people get inside the autism spectrum

    • @skatercreavey8209
      @skatercreavey8209 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      skye furlong omfg Skye how did I find you here I was just scrolling down the comments and I didn't even realise it was you haha

    • @blueicefiredemon3265
      @blueicefiredemon3265 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Voice Nerd people with autism do communicate physically and verbally depends on how severe it is

    • @venny5589
      @venny5589 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      yes telepathicly

  • @garfieldshow5626
    @garfieldshow5626 6 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    You can't blend in when you were born to stand out

    • @dirtsoils
      @dirtsoils 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Garfield show yeah

    • @Zackislivid
      @Zackislivid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah i prooved you wrong i have aspergers and people respect me

    • @ev-sb
      @ev-sb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ~Dr Seuss

  • @DilipMutum
    @DilipMutum 6 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Son Rise changed our lives as well. Thanks to Jack and other angels.

  • @misscindy1596
    @misscindy1596 6 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    These boys are very lucky to have such wonderful parents.i wish all of you alot of succuss, i hope to see an update.bless you all

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @daelyg8930
    @daelyg8930 7 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I think they're doing the right thing. People are so quick to abandon others when times are tough. Those are their children and they'll always be their children, autistic or not.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

  • @elisehurley6839
    @elisehurley6839 7 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    My brother has autism. I HIGHLY recommend iodine. Having iodine has helped is behaviour and cured the fog.
    He is now 18 and is amazing now. It is such an amazing relief.

    • @neikoo7785
      @neikoo7785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      --_-- iodine?? really??? you know what iodine is right?? It wont help, autism is a permanent neurological disorder that cant get fixed or treated with a halogen

    • @countd.2582
      @countd.2582 7 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Neikoo Iodine is a supplement and it helps because there is a link between iodine deficiency and autism, I believe. She/he didn't say it cured it she/he just said it helped.

    • @neikoo7785
      @neikoo7785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Mate i have taken Iodine before to help with a muscle spasm and it dident change shit with my autism. Mate there is no link just a bunch of Jenny Mccarthy bs

    • @Ego-de4dt
      @Ego-de4dt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Neikoo pleas educate yourself with deficiencies and WHAT OUR BODY NEEDS!!!! Shame on you read a book

    • @yassinazarkan4207
      @yassinazarkan4207 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Neikoo maybe it's a plasebo lol

  • @silpae
    @silpae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    This is so cute and inspiring. I want to be a special ed. teacher or a carer for children with autism (or Down Syndrome). DIdn't know about the Son-Rise program. Thank you so much for sharing, Barcroft! And koodos to those parents and the carer for giving those children so much love!

    • @thecuriousbeing254
      @thecuriousbeing254 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Silpae Kang Wow. You must have a big heart and passion to care for them! I work as a special education teacher and it does takes a lot more than just patience to handle them. it takes passion, genuine heart and great interest. I wish you all the best and hope there would be more people like you :)

    • @c.s.6993
      @c.s.6993 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I would love to be a special needs teacher aswell! Which type of education are you going for to get there, if I may ask? Good luck on your journey!

    • @shawnafsworld7431
      @shawnafsworld7431 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Dashaun Wright Everyone with disabilities just Wants To be Accepted by those around us. Look, IT'S NOT OUR FAULT WE were Born Different, No one can help it That's Funny Because Last time I Checked NO one Had any Say so on WHAT skin, Hair and Eye Color / Abilities That We are born with. . .

    • @shawnafsworld7431
      @shawnafsworld7431 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +Dashaun Wright Your Not very Smart are you !? People like you Are Rude and Disrespectful to those of us Who can't help the way we were born, We didnt ask to have Disabilities Yeah we're Different SO WHAT ?! You don't Get to decided Who lives and dies. Your not better then Me or others who are different in the end Were ALL EQUIL and human at theend of the day.

    • @adventator0951
      @adventator0951 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shawna Fletcher Jesus fucj then no need to get butthurt

  • @NiamhTu
    @NiamhTu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    My brother has autism and he is so intelligent and kind. I love him to bits

  • @airies1680
    @airies1680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    They're both so handsome 😭💚

  • @stupiidbee
    @stupiidbee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This inspires me so, so, so, so much. As an autistic 12 year old girl with high hopes for the future, I feel like I can change amazingly just like these two. I've been through a lot, too. I've been bullied my whole life, but I stay strong through it. I'm more different than others and that's fine, because I'm unique.

  • @kare-n
    @kare-n 7 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    why are there so many people in the comments talking about them like they're brain-dead vegetables? frankly, that's rude and ableist.

    • @jaydenrussell7595
      @jaydenrussell7595 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Karen Y where

    • @cia898
      @cia898 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Karen Y cause that’s the impression they leave on the masses.

    • @maggiel5937
      @maggiel5937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Karen Y we are just saying we can relate is all, and I hope you have a good day/night

    • @hannahscott6604
      @hannahscott6604 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Karen Y they are brain dead

    • @mattymarlin9684
      @mattymarlin9684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They are brain dead vegetables though

  • @hannahmaynard5599
    @hannahmaynard5599 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The twins are cute! The boys and their parents are so strong. I love the willingness and patience the parents and everyone involved with autism has.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @Alskdoenfkemfnek
    @Alskdoenfkemfnek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Looking for residential care is not always ‘giving up’ not every parent has the skills or funds to monitor children like this 24/7. Especially when other children are in the house that deserve safety and attention, and the child in question can be extremely violent. Too many negative comments from people who haven’t lived through this.

    • @raea3588
      @raea3588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm autistic and while I am in great favor of the Son-Rise program, I understand what you're saying. Every child who is autistic is different and they all have a family that's different and they will all grow up differently. It's not easy to live with anyone who is on the spectrum and sometimes people who are autistic do better when they live in a residential environment that is more structured than a typical family home.
      As long as we love our children, make sure they are safe and we're doing what is best for an entire family there should be no judgement

    • @elainewhitelock5347
      @elainewhitelock5347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What is in the best interests of each child with autism is what matters.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful 🙏🙏

    • @catherinespark
      @catherinespark ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raea3588 Yes, that is true. I think the issue with how these parents were told to institutionalise their boys, and what they felt it would equate to as a result, was that they would be going against their gut of what was right for their boys based on what society was telling them was right and necessary for society. So it wasn't what was being said that they were upset about exactly, but the subtext of it, and the reason for it. I can completely understand that, and agree that was pretty monstrous. It doesn't mean it isn't the right solution for some people though, or that there aren't good places and people that benefit from them, or that there aren't right reasons to go down that route. It just was handled really badly in their own particular case, and thus it's good they found a different way.

  • @suewallace2845
    @suewallace2845 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am a 74 yr. old female who was diagnosed with Autistic Spectrum Disorder just 1 year ago. During this year I have progressively been understanding more and more about myself. What was said in this video about autism being the inability to connect socially helped me understand another thing about myself. Even though my ASD manifests itself in a much milder way than that of these boys, there are still basic similarities between them. I have always wondered why I have never been able to keep friends; I always drift away from them and don’t have the deep, caring feelings for friends that most people have. Through this video I now understand that I’m that way because of the ASD. Thank you for your video, and I’m SO glad your sons are improving.

  • @maysmama1273
    @maysmama1273 7 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Great parents!

  • @sidneylevy81
    @sidneylevy81 7 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    Wouw! I really love this types of videos! I learn so much.

    • @sidneylevy81
      @sidneylevy81 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Lit Sniper Thank you! Im Panamenian, i just watch it to practice my english 😉

    • @ianmooresguard1721
      @ianmooresguard1721 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sidney Levy wow*

    • @sidneylevy81
      @sidneylevy81 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      stuartc2838 really????

    • @jessop5125
      @jessop5125 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sidney Levy ?*

    • @jordandaiey7612
      @jordandaiey7612 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sidney Levy me to

  • @Kill3rKBee
    @Kill3rKBee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    this video made me so happy. i hope to, in the future, to adopt children. and i would like to adopt a child who is autistic. i have friends and family who are autistic and i know how wonderful they can be and it upsets me no one is willing to give these children a chance

    • @shwetayadav-ei8bb
      @shwetayadav-ei8bb 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Grinch you are so mean

    • @thegrinch9059
      @thegrinch9059 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      shweta yadav, I'm not called The Grinch for nothing.

    • @lucky-doll9857
      @lucky-doll9857 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck then.

    • @joeyhernandez5304
      @joeyhernandez5304 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adopt me jk

    • @rubyrootless7324
      @rubyrootless7324 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You just restored a tiny bit of my faith in humanity. It's gonna be hard, really, but they're still children, nevertheless.

  • @mood8710
    @mood8710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The therapist helped them so much God bless him and the parents for not giving up on their babies

  • @MylifeMollybrazier
    @MylifeMollybrazier 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Me and my twin brother are both on the spectrum (I also have ADHD , mental issues , multiple personalities , anger issues , learning and behavioural issues and possibly bipolar) and I find it hard to hear this I think the parents are doing a good job

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @problemsfan4132
    @problemsfan4132 7 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I have a mild form of autism.
    I feel kind of odd looking through these comments- because some of them make me feel like you think THIS is the way all autistic kids act.
    Sorry if this upsets anyone, but I hope you understand.

    • @fifiimensah4136
      @fifiimensah4136 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madjickal Boi same

    • @SuperSuperNova
      @SuperSuperNova 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ShermTank same...

    • @MarieOlesen
      @MarieOlesen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too I was diagnosed with adhd and asperger about two months ago and I’m still trying to get used to it

    • @Fujiyamamakeup
      @Fujiyamamakeup 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are different not less❤️ it’s a spectrum some are severe mild moderate

    • @een4964
      @een4964 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MarieOlesen It's hard to accept at first but now that you've been diagnosed you can hopefully get help and grow as a person 😊

  • @courtneyraiyn-eshaiyn7815
    @courtneyraiyn-eshaiyn7815 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Wow. That son-rise program is brilliant!

  • @tamayotomato185
    @tamayotomato185 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have autism. When I was younger the doctors told my mom I would never be able to talk or use the restroom myself, things like that. But now I am 15, and I just got into the gifted program at my school. It still amazes me that even doctors don’t know enough about autism to know how much and how fast it changes and how different it is for each person.

  • @AxesBeLike
    @AxesBeLike 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is amazing. My older brother has autism and autism really does manifest for everybody differently. No two individuals with autism are exactly the same, they are all so unique.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @Totalchaos0228
    @Totalchaos0228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I have asperger's syndrome, it's hard because I have no filter, so people who do not know me think I'm rude...which is very embarrassing for me because I worry about it alot. I admire any parent who's child is on the spectrum, it takes love and patience and a good sense of humor.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @baldpterodactyl9112
    @baldpterodactyl9112 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I have aspergers and it's gotten milder as I grew up, being almost 21 now. It's nice to see things like this and know I wasn't a freak like I thought as a kid. I wasn't diagnosed until I was 13, even though I clearly showed signs of being on the spectrum. My mom just didn't know.

    • @kaylaearl2869
      @kaylaearl2869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have apsergers got diagnosed at 21 and I’m 24 now it’s a battle everyday for me

    • @renroxhrd
      @renroxhrd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have Asperger's and I'm also 21, got diagnosed as a kid

    • @elainewhitelock5347
      @elainewhitelock5347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone is different with or without autism and you are all special. We all have value and something to offer. So stand strong. Be the person you are. And be kind to yourself

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @ruphite9521
    @ruphite9521 7 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    Guys read the sign
    DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS IN THE COMMENTS

    • @cia898
      @cia898 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      сукф вlуат

  • @carolyn9758
    @carolyn9758 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Such caring parents. I’m a twin, and this melts my heart.

  • @belindahearn721
    @belindahearn721 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Never give up, I have a autistic nephew and he has been such a blessing in our life! He is very special and he continues to get better and better.

  • @vintagetitanic26
    @vintagetitanic26 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s so wonderful to see people who care! My brother has had autism my whole life and he is the dearest person in my life!
    Thank you!
    MJ

  • @MegaDerpification
    @MegaDerpification 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is incredible. Good for these parents for pursuing and pushing to help their children.

  • @nanika3228
    @nanika3228 7 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    When they said Montague I thought of Shakespeare:)

    • @ruphite9521
      @ruphite9521 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      **distant Capulet rage**

    • @Wildcat8111
      @Wildcat8111 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Xeon Hawaik Right.

    • @takukubwalo2800
      @takukubwalo2800 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nanika I was looking for *this* comment😰

  • @giveyandmyla1859
    @giveyandmyla1859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I used to care for a child with autism. The family had so many different caregivers come and go. I was the only one who stayed for as long as needed. Truly patience and love will change things around. I saw and know how very difficult this situation can be. One was already a challenge, I can only imagine with twins. God bless the parent; I admire them both.

  • @holycopy
    @holycopy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this channel. I have a disabled sister and Im greatful that channels like this help spread knowledge about this.

  • @auroralanimations4731
    @auroralanimations4731 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh! As someone with autism as well, it seems to me that they felt isolated in their thinking, which is a extremely difficult experience. When the dad started spinning with them, they felt connected for one of the first times in their life to their parents. It’s kind of hard to put it in to words, but I can imagine the ease they felt when they saw someone who accepted them/ someone who were similar to them. I believe they then began to trust the parents as they accepted the world around them. Profound it is. They never forgot that their sons were as human as them.

  • @cad9751
    @cad9751 7 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    And the capulets

  • @graceaxisa4213
    @graceaxisa4213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What an innovative program. One that I have never heard of, but it makes so much sense. These parents are incredible. So devoted to their sons and desperate to find a way of coping with everyday life, so that everyone is happy. Seeing the boys interacting with their parents towards the end of the video was so wonderful!

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @bashucksebreich8459
    @bashucksebreich8459 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    honestly this almost made me cry... just to see those boys be so happy. I'm so elated that there are people who actually care on a level that isn't fueled by embarrassment or the need to change their child. seeing them be worked with instead of Changed is just beautiful. so many parents will go through great lengths to "fix" their autistic child by using abusive therapies such as ABA and other coercive treatments and just to see parents that truly want the best for their kids and would be open to encouraging them and realizing that autism isn't a disease that it's just a different way of being. there is no cure, and there doesn't have to be. this is just so refreshing to see, as an autistic person. I hope more people like this get a bigger stage to encourage others to be accepting!

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @paulmuir8774
    @paulmuir8774 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have an 8 year old brother with autism and I don't know what I would do without him he is my everything. The fact that if I am crying at a sad movie or crying in general he starts crying to and gives me hugs and kisses it melts my heart

  • @hgmedia3447
    @hgmedia3447 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My brother has autism, and he’s four. People think when they meet him, that he’s weird, or just naughty - but people don’t know what actually goes on in people’s head. These parents are truly inspiring. I hope no one should judge a book by their cover.

  • @juiceboxjocelyn3979
    @juiceboxjocelyn3979 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    My best friend has autism and it is so sad but all I think of is he's happy I need to be happy too

    • @pauljohnson5065
      @pauljohnson5065 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      JuiceBox Jocelyn I have it but no offence but can you not say it's sad.

  • @connorf_ong
    @connorf_ong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This gives me hope for anyone whom suffers from autism I hope that today they have a great day and I will always remember that it will take 1 person to make change thanks to these boys

  • @faeiryz
    @faeiryz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    these boys are my age and im literally crying so hard😭

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @chrystalmunroe4375
    @chrystalmunroe4375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I genuinely wish I could speak to these parents today. I have autistic twins and I want to give her a hug and tell her she’s absolutely amazing.

  • @bodywellgroup2671
    @bodywellgroup2671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Annie and Mark, you an inspiration to all. It is a real pleasure to take care of your family. Keep sharing your story so others can have the strength to learn and take care of their children too.

  • @bellaluvv6159
    @bellaluvv6159 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Don't beat yourselves up; You are both doing the best that you can do as parents for your boys and don't let anybody tell you any differently. I am proud of you for taking such good care of them parenting is already a difficult around-the-clock job I can't even begin to imagine what the two of you must go through on a daily basis and I love how patient and sweet you guys are with them.

  • @mltdnandomo1986
    @mltdnandomo1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I highly recommend these boys go through sensory learning I went through it and it is a simple process that opened up all of my problem areas.

    • @shinu1923
      @shinu1923 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It rarely has any effect though, and majority of the time it can actually be very traumatic for the child depending on which center you go to and which "course" you go through. Like this one course that ABA provides, they will starve the child, hold the child to the ground, force them to be touched, force them to keep their eyes open in bright lights no matter how much pain they are in, etc.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @arnold4875
    @arnold4875 7 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    remember people:
    autism is not a disability, it's just a different ability.

    • @coltboys4781
      @coltboys4781 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      ummm No its a disability

    • @arnold4875
      @arnold4875 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ReVeL mhhmmm suuuure

    • @justjello7599
      @justjello7599 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what that makes no sense.....

    • @Ozzianman
      @Ozzianman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Coltboys It's a developmental disorder.

    • @lewiswright2063
      @lewiswright2063 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Coltboys it is on a technical note but some people can function normally with it and even better in certain situations , its quite variable and should be viewed differently for each individual with the diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder.Personally I have It and it limits me in some ways but also provides me other advantages .

  • @woodenkat8971
    @woodenkat8971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    'The future for...them is limitless.' And that is all any parent wants for their kids. Great parents.

  • @lovethebeatles1271
    @lovethebeatles1271 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it’s sweet that there are people out there who want to help people like the twins

  • @ajimenez1719ify
    @ajimenez1719ify 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My 9 year old daughter is autistic. She wasn't diagnosed until she was 7 because she is so high functioning that nobody saw it but us. She is such a kind child, and the way I describe her to most people Is, she lives in such a beautiful world in her mind, its not reality but, it is sunny and beautiful all the time where she lives in her head and I am so thankful for that.

  • @nathanielwamsley6332
    @nathanielwamsley6332 7 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    those two are SO handsome!

    • @George_E1907
      @George_E1907 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spoder man are you gay

    • @nathanielwamsley6332
      @nathanielwamsley6332 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      sorry, that was my mum watching stuff on my laptop :/

    • @robslayermc5350
      @robslayermc5350 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spoder man hahah

    • @angelahe2932
      @angelahe2932 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think the one with longer hair's really good looking

    • @lorenebonsu7266
      @lorenebonsu7266 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      N o x o r F u e l 😂😂

  • @lorenzcobretti9862
    @lorenzcobretti9862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    spoiler alert: this video has a happy ending! ❤️ hope for it to continue forever! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @heathermac4024
    @heathermac4024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is absolutely such a touching story .and I'm so so glade that they have there boys interacting and playing with them most of all the boys showing them love and kindness is so heartwarming,good luck with you're boys and I believe they will keep improving with you're love,you never gave up on them and they will never give up on you,❤️🇦🇺

  • @terafarnum9576
    @terafarnum9576 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My brother was autistic and the doctors told my mom to just put them in a corner and he wouldn’t learn how to do anything while he knows he knew how to tie his shoes he could feed himself change himself he could go one place one time and then tell you how to get back there. We had a school called Truman and it was built for people with disabilities it had the special teachers that had special equipment that they could use. Before my brother passed away of leukemia I made him a promise that I would always take care of people with disabilities and I’ve been working with people with disabilities since 99 and I love it

  • @victoriasalter1701
    @victoriasalter1701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There is nothing wrong with having Autism. I’m Autistic, and I’m quite high-functioning (Asperger’s). I am an extremely kind and caring person, a great writer, a good artist, very knowledgeable and love animals...

    • @PLuMUK54
      @PLuMUK54 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I too have what was called Asperger's. I've had a successful career, people tell me I am kind, generous and caring, and a nice guy. It seems that people like me far more than I like them. I like very few people, maybe just two.
      My friend's nephew has severe autism. He is destructive, aggressive, and will never be able to live an independent life, at 15 he still wears nappies.
      Had I not known severely autistic people, I may have thought, because of my own experiences, that there is nothing wrong with autism. At it's worst autism has little or nothing positive about it.

  • @obnoxiousbluebird6634
    @obnoxiousbluebird6634 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is quite similar to my son. He's 13 and he's very affectionate to me and to a lesser degree his dad and younger siblings. What's interesting to me is my other kids (aged 1 to 7) have always done the joining in with my son too and you can tell he enjoys it because he feels he's interacting with them in a way he knows. What a lot of people don't realise is that these kids do actually want to be part of the world, they just find it confusing and overwhelming so they don't know how. At any age if people just give them a chance they'll see there are some amazing strengths in them, and when they get to working age if they could be put into a job that suits those strengths they'd blow all their colleagues out the water!

  • @taketheredpill1441
    @taketheredpill1441 7 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    First time I've seen British boys with names other than "James" "Harry", or "George"...

    • @imgcqt
      @imgcqt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Zahn Saunders I'm British and called Harry. fuck

    • @taketheredpill1441
      @taketheredpill1441 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eleven Studios Lol

    • @taketheredpill1441
      @taketheredpill1441 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ***** Well then, I stand corrected

    • @natethegr8183
      @natethegr8183 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahaha Harry Potter reference

    • @oldacc4118
      @oldacc4118 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know someone named harry but im in greece 😐

  • @lublyghost
    @lublyghost 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Stories about children with autism always touch me. I was diagnosed with autism at a very young age, and my mom was able to get me therapy. Thanks to that, I live a normal life. So these parents...I am very appreciative for not giving up on their kids. I also appreciate how autism is becoming more known, so...yeah~

  • @Magazinelady
    @Magazinelady ปีที่แล้ว

    The love and patience these two parents have is just wonderful. It must be frustrating and yet rewarding. I know you want the best for your boys. I am glad they are making progress. May God continue to bless and protect you. May He continue to guide you to good programs for the boys.

  • @dragonicat8309
    @dragonicat8309 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm autistic and this therapy seems so much better than ABA! I love the video it's very cute and touching

  • @analuisa1214
    @analuisa1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Before reading, a note: all the " are the words neurotypical people would use, I don't like them but it will be easier for you :)
    I am so happy that these parents didn't choose the "easy path". As it is a spectrum, every autistic has a different experience. My cousin, for exemple, his autism is a little "lighter" than the twins, but it doesn't mean he is "easy" too. My autism is very low, so you wouldn't think I am autistic unless we spoke for more than 10 minutes, and even so you would need to pay attention to the specific things. A lot of it has to do with masking, and it was undiagnosed for 18 years, so this is how you know I can "act normal" and go unnoticed. But I am still autistic, and I feel them. I've seen horrific stories about autistic people that can't communicate very well, and seeing this new technique makes me so happy that it can actually help them manage better their feelings and express themselves more.
    There's no such thing as "cure" for autism because it is a disorder, not a disease. But with proper help and resources we can live a normal life (now that's up to you to change your broken perspective of what normal is!) and be happy and enjoy things! It's all up to society understanding differences and embracing them (because no one is equal to anyone, everyone has differences and that's what makes us who we are - not robots, not "perfect", not copies)

  • @makaylaruhlman142
    @makaylaruhlman142 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I have Austim but my parents divorce when I was 1. I am 18 now. I never once took meds. I don't live with my parents. I have a bf and a job and getting my license soon. I always get straight A's and I'm on Gold Honor Roll. These are good parents from the video. I wish my parents didn't divorce and I wish my dad didn't go to jail.

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Makayla Ruhlman im sorry for the devorce my perents got devorced too

  • @silverdoe9477
    @silverdoe9477 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t believe this still happens today. ALL children thrive with love. Where do these doctors draw the line for who’s deserving of a childhood, a life? That where it’s really terrifying. That’s where history repeats itself.
    I hope more parents get help to keep their children at home.

  • @gxthgf8096
    @gxthgf8096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a person who works with autistic kids. They are a gift. Watching the way they interact with things and people is amazing. Joining them with their behavior instead of preventing it is like an amazing bonding experience. Because you suddenly understand them in that moment of chaos. These kids are gifts

    • @sudokuacrobatics
      @sudokuacrobatics ปีที่แล้ว

      If you can call them a gift, then say that about most kids, they need it too

  • @lesleylaurence6056
    @lesleylaurence6056 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Autism is NOT the end of the world!
    My beautiful son Morgan, was perfect when he was born. When he was 2 I started to notice lots of different things he would do. He was diagnosed with severe Autism at age 3. I was told he’d never be able to talk, interact or make eye contact. I was heartbroken, any parent would be I wanted him to be independent. I was told that the best place would be a residential institution as his behaviour was challenging. I never had even considered giving my child away. Now I have learnt to accept and appreciate my son. We have highs and lows but, I love him I really do and always will, it’s hard to think that just 4 years ago I thought there would be no hope for him. A few months ago he started making I contact and listened to me! And we are very slowly progressing.
    ( my hopes for the future is that he will be able to communicate with the people around him who knows when that will be, maybe a few weeks maybe a few years but I don’t care what happens I will still love and support him ❤️💖

  • @bevlowes2537
    @bevlowes2537 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    my older sister has ADHD and Autism I love her so much

    • @eE-wn3fs
      @eE-wn3fs 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I dont have autism but i have adhd but its very slight

  • @sydneyroberto9533
    @sydneyroberto9533 7 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    this is so cute

    • @sydneyroberto9533
      @sydneyroberto9533 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Spoon it's cute how there helping them

    • @spicketspaghet7773
      @spicketspaghet7773 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nothing should be cute about it. World war 2 isn't cute, and solving problems isn't cute. You just say it's cute to join the bandwagon of blind support.

    • @juniormako6184
      @juniormako6184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got this herbal supplement from Dr Oyalo channel and used it on my son for 4week and within the period of using it there was positive changes which really urge me to continue and I can say my son is free from autism now.

  • @breannaneering6802
    @breannaneering6802 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    it's amazing what therapy can do for autistic children! I work as an behavioral therapist for the Wisconsin Early Autism Project, and my kiddos that I work with are improving each and every day. I'm so glad there is more awareness and programs to help these children learn to express themselves and communicate 💙

  • @hannahs2077
    @hannahs2077 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been recently diagnosed with autism and I wish that I had parents who were this supportive