Girl same, I know immediately if someone and I "click". And I refuse to "lower my standards", I'm happy as a single woman and a relationship is just a potential added bonus.
I gotta say my favorite part of this video was you saying how you hoped the guys who didn’t work with you would find the right person for them. It’s a refreshing stance. I have also tried the dating app thing and something I’ve tried to work on is praying for the guys I’ve talked to that they will be able to grow in their faith and meet the right person for them too. This helps me deal with the disappointment of them not being the right person for me, if that makes sense 😂
@@SydneyElise09 I feel the same way. There really is somebody out there for everybody! But being on the same level of your faith is so incredibly important. That’s what I struggled with finding for the longest time, but God brought me the right guy, out of nowhere :) you’ll find your person!! It all happens in His perfect timing 💕
I think one of the roughest parts about being a woman is our lack of sexual attraction to the opposite sex. We have such a high parental investment so our sexual selection is higher for us than it is for men. I haven’t felt attraction to anyone since 2018!
My experience with online dating was no one can get anyone’s full attention. Especially in bigger metro areas. Everyone is getting messages from so many people and it’s hard for anyone to decide on who to focus on. Each time you login, there is more new people messaging you or responding to you. But all those people are experiencing that exact same thing, it’s like everyone is constantly distracted by someone new
Completely relate to not finding very many guys attractive. Which goes beyond looks too, obviously! It is so tough sometimes being a single Christian woman. All in His timing 🙏
I’m so glad I don’t have to date in these times! I met my husband on April Fools Day 1976, when introduced,he shook my hand and I literally heard a voice tell me,I had just met the man I was to marry! We did marry on July 31,1976, yes short time to know a person but I have never regretted a day in my life with him, we have been 50/50 partners since day one, he makes me laugh daily and he’s always got my back! Your MAN is out there and you never know when you will cross paths, I love watching your videos, keep laughing and looking!
Good grief I related to your experiences so much. I'm 29 and am also taking a break from trying the online dating apps because it's emotionally exhausting. I can also tell really quickly how I feel about someone! And I have some stories, lol. But very thankful I've always felt safe and respected. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing! This gave me a good chuckle today.
Haha! Heaven’s Adventures indeed! Never a dull moment! 😂 The Lord definitely has a plan, be patient dear, it will happen in His time. You are an incredible young woman and you know what you want, which is awesome! DO NOT compromise on any of your values or things you want in a potential spouse! 😘
Hey Heaven! its your #1 follower buddy Joseph lol.. I changed my youtube name lol but anyway..ur so hilarious! the Bible says "when a man findeth a wife, he findeth a good thing.." I pray that the right man finds you because you have so much to offer! and I totally get it on the sense of humor and sarcasm thing.. my wife thinks that I am the most hilarious person but even she had to get my sense of humor and sarcasm at the beginning and now 25 yrs (in September) later we still in there! Keep doing what you do and as always BE BLESSED!!!
I’m not attracted to many guys either, I passed on sooo many and I online dated for years! I finally gave up online dating because every guy that contacted me was a scammer but now I’m 44 and don’t care anymore if I ever get married. 😂
For all the stories and complaints… women have all the choices online. They have 10,20,50 etc guys to choose from in matches. But they always choose the guy who looks fun and has many pics of vacations etc. then they wonder why is this guy not focused? Well because he just wants to have fun like a girl. The world is done.
Few years ago, a girl-friend gave me the # to her BFF. I began texting and got several responses, but something seemed off. Finally, im like "is this Julie", the reply was "nah, this is Dan". I apologized, but he wanted me to continue messaging lol. I didnt My friend gave me the wrong # (off by one digit), but it was a nice ice breaker with Julie, who is still a friend.
I am dating someone online and oh wow I look stupid! truthfully its through playing games and I never done this before. we end up liking each other and started out so fun and yes I really got to like this person but some how I made myself look like a nut job! I not even like this in person. I am somewhat shy but online it feels like a whole another ball game.
I had the same kind of dates, then decided to just take it easier and not initiate discussions anymore. If guys wanted to initiate them, I'd reply if their picture was acceptable and not like like a psycho... then that's how I met my husband. So you never know, it can be a matter of luck.
@@HeavensAudventure thank you so much for taking time to reply & for the words of encouragement, but I gave up my search for Mr. Right in November 2014. It had consumed too much of my life, and all I was getting from it, was a broken heart and or great disappointment. I am in my 50s now, and I have been much happier since I quit dating.
When relationships don't work out, we always tell ourselves it's not our time or it's not the right person... 😔 Do you believe people actually get to choose their lover/spouse or does God/nature intend for us to be with a particular person and if it's meant to be, we will cross paths with them somehow? 🤔
We absolutely get to choose our person. God allows us to have free will but I don’t believe in soulmates at all. There are many “right” people we can be with but what’s most important is us being the “right” person. When two people are wholeheartedly seeking God, they grow closer to each other. The hardest part is waiting on God’s timing but His timing is always right! Be patient and stay faithful. It’ll happen :)
Dating is hard!! Sometimes the stories make it alright hahaha. I appreciate your viewpoints and humor when it comes to life. Please continue to share what you want and take a breaks as needed! Have you tracked any of your dates or takeaways from each person?
My whole life is a funny story I swear 😂 Considering I don’t remember some of the guys names, no I haven’t tracked anything haha I kinda hope to forget most of this journey 😂
It's rough out there online dating. Aside from that, do you think you fit the definition of demisexual? I do, and have never ever felt quick attraction to anyone. I've faked it, but for me attraction comes 2, 3, 10 dates later... basically after the surface level stuff is out of the way. By then, most people just assume I've friendzoned them. Which gets even more complicated later because that's also when I'm finally starting to feel those sparks! It's so annoying!
I had to look up demisexual and I am the polar opposite of that haha I can know immediately if there is potential. But I’m sure you’re not alone in that! That will just be something you will need to communicate to your potential ladies so they understand where you’re coming from.
@@HeavensAudventure Oh, I'm definitely a communicator when it comes to dating. Too many pitfalls if you dive in too fast and don't communicate quirks and boundaries. Like you said, you don't want to end up with parents coming up to you in church after the first date.
I came across your channel because I’m studying for the CPA exams. And I’m staying! I love your videos! I watch them in my study breaks. Your truly inspiring and I love that your living your best life and always putting your faith in him first. Gods timing is the best timing and when your future husband comes to your life, it will feel so right!
I would try to say just that - I’m sorry to say this but I’m not feeling a connection. And usually they agree or understand but sometimes they want exact reasons why not.. or they disagree and think there is a connection. And those are the tricky conversations. But I think being honest is always best.
@@HeavensAudventure Yes I agree being honest is always best! Id say if they are asking for exact reasons, in the kindest way possible its best to tell them the truth. Im pretty sensitive to other peoples feelings so it’s hard when I have to let someone down. I haven’t been on as many dates as you….as an introvert I feel like it would be too much for my sensitive little heart😂🤦♀️ But I throughly enjoyed hearing all your stories!!!
Hey heaven, just curious... what are some of the things you are looking for in a life partner? I am in a stage where I am preparing to get into the dating field and I want to obviously bring the goods to the table when I do so if you wouldn't mind sending me some good guidance in that respect I would really appreciate it. Thanks in advance and all the best to you, your loved ones and your current and future endeavours. 🎉
@@HeavensAudventure Yea, my intentions are going on it to see how are the fishes in the local scene doing. As I'm in Asia, they aren't really my cup of tea. I always will say that God will provide the right one for me. Never had one before, and I'm older. It's all in God's sovereign will.
some people are experencing Archon attacks every time they get with someone new the archon entity attaches themselves to the partner and host through them and this is why some men meet new women and keep having the same negative experences different partners same old nonsense playing out the darkforces of the archons are steping in and out of people in their life and playing them up to generate loosh the emotional upset feeds them noting every human in this world is in the driving se
I'm glad I watched this because it proves that no matter who the person is, just because someone has God, principles, values etc...a man should realize to not do the things these guys did to you Heaven (I'm one to talk, this goes for me too). This video and from what I heard from my people concludes we should control our emotions. Great person or not as a man, this is how the story goes. Like last Monday, I was shopping for a door stopper at Dicks and wanted to get a smoothie. I wanted banana and peanut butter with a shot of protein because that slaps. Then, I see this pretty dirty blonde sitting there staring into the abyss bored. I walk up and say "man, you must be bored out of your mind" then she says "I am" then I say "well, I'm here to save the day" and the whole time she made my smoothie, I made every minute count knowing that would be the last time I would see them. That is how the story should go (she even said the smoothie I got is the same as hers which I was like "Kay" lol)
As a devout catholic, I can 100% relate to this video. It's frustrating to keep failing on finding that special person but God has a plan for everyone! Keep being you. Also your videos helped me get through the CPA exam. Your videos always make me laugh. The next guy "Marathon", no he doesn't run marathons had me dying.
Oh please. A lot of men complain about having few options but the things most of these options are pure trash so it is like having no option at the end of the day.
It’s really thought having all these options, knowing you can only choose one at a time because you’d be a slut otherwise then devoting all your attention to one guy inviting him over, buying him dinner, baking for him, offering to pay for a ride, then having him cancel on you at the last minute for a 4th time in a row because he doesn’t feel like it anymore.
The options mean nothing when they all suck and go nowhere . Men are more likely to find somebody serious faster. Woman get quantity but men get quality.
I keep getting used, both by men who were below my standards and those who weren't so stfu. it's good if you want to get laid that's it, other than that trying to find someone serious has been a nightmare and they will lie about intentions to get laid
You need a country Cowboy christian to date with, then you will find him the one. Or date a Greek Spartan Warrior, in Sparta we need more Warrior offsprings hahah just joking around 😂
Before I start my message, may I give ALL the glory to the Lord Jesus Christ Who is God and His Holy Ghost 🙌🏿✝️🧎🏾 Had to laugh at 13:28...>Heaven explaining why she didn't match with the introvert at about a million words a minute
Girl same, I know immediately if someone and I "click". And I refuse to "lower my standards", I'm happy as a single woman and a relationship is just a potential added bonus.
I gotta say my favorite part of this video was you saying how you hoped the guys who didn’t work with you would find the right person for them. It’s a refreshing stance. I have also tried the dating app thing and something I’ve tried to work on is praying for the guys I’ve talked to that they will be able to grow in their faith and meet the right person for them too. This helps me deal with the disappointment of them not being the right person for me, if that makes sense 😂
@@SydneyElise09 I feel the same way. There really is somebody out there for everybody! But being on the same level of your faith is so incredibly important. That’s what I struggled with finding for the longest time, but God brought me the right guy, out of nowhere :) you’ll find your person!! It all happens in His perfect timing 💕
I think one of the roughest parts about being a woman is our lack of sexual attraction to the opposite sex. We have such a high parental investment so our sexual selection is higher for us than it is for men.
I haven’t felt attraction to anyone since 2018!
Haven’t even finished the video, and I can say that dating is so hard! Glad to know I’m not the only one! God will help us find our future spouses!
You are definitely not alone! ❤️ praying for both of us, sister!
My experience with online dating was no one can get anyone’s full attention. Especially in bigger metro areas. Everyone is getting messages from so many people and it’s hard for anyone to decide on who to focus on. Each time you login, there is more new people messaging you or responding to you. But all those people are experiencing that exact same thing, it’s like everyone is constantly distracted by someone new
Very true. I’m in NYC and that is the vibe here l!
Completely relate to not finding very many guys attractive. Which goes beyond looks too, obviously! It is so tough sometimes being a single Christian woman. All in His timing 🙏
Amen, sister!
I’m so glad I don’t have to date in these times! I met my husband on April Fools Day 1976, when introduced,he shook my hand and I literally heard a voice tell me,I had just met the man I was to marry! We did marry on July 31,1976, yes short time to know a person but I have never regretted a day in my life with him, we have been 50/50 partners since day one, he makes me laugh daily and he’s always got my back! Your MAN is out there and you never know when you will cross paths, I love watching your videos, keep laughing and looking!
Aw this is so sweet and encouraging to hear. Thank you for sharing! I love these happy love stories 😊
I’m glad you didn’t settle with any of these weirdos you mentioned in this video. Amen
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That's cold 😄😂😄
Good grief I related to your experiences so much. I'm 29 and am also taking a break from trying the online dating apps because it's emotionally exhausting. I can also tell really quickly how I feel about someone! And I have some stories, lol. But very thankful I've always felt safe and respected. Thank you SO MUCH for sharing! This gave me a good chuckle today.
@@emilywelsh1072 I’m glad I’m not alone out here! This world is crazy. Best of luck to you!!
Haha! Heaven’s Adventures indeed! Never a dull moment! 😂
The Lord definitely has a plan, be patient dear, it will happen in His time. You are an incredible young woman and you know what you want, which is awesome! DO NOT compromise on any of your values or things you want in a potential spouse! 😘
Hahah thank you so much, Mama Kim! So encouraging to hear. I really appreciate it. Thank you 😊❤️
@@HeavensAudventure ♥️♥️♥️
Hey Heaven! its your #1 follower buddy Joseph lol.. I changed my youtube name lol but anyway..ur so hilarious! the Bible says "when a man findeth a wife, he findeth a good thing.." I pray that the right man finds you because you have so much to offer! and I totally get it on the sense of humor and sarcasm thing.. my wife thinks that I am the most hilarious person but even she had to get my sense of humor and sarcasm at the beginning and now 25 yrs (in September) later we still in there! Keep doing what you do and as always BE BLESSED!!!
Aw thank you, Joseph. So encouraging to hear. And holy cow - early congratulations on the big quarter of a century anniversary! That’s incredible!
@@HeavensAudventure ur welcome and thank you so much!
met my wife on Bumble 5 years ago. I probably went on 20ish dates before meeting her. Some good and some bad.
Amen! Love your angle with this video, and the way you introduce your faith first. Praise God.
Farrigut sounds like a few homeschoolers I knew growing up! One didn’t even know who Elvis was lol
😂 this guy was a public school kid all the way through college but you wouldn’t think so
@@HeavensAudventure oh wow, that’s a shock!
Being a muslim I didn't knew your type of people exist in America.. I appreciate you❤ May God bless you and guide you to right path.
I’m not attracted to many guys either, I passed on sooo many and I online dated for years! I finally gave up online dating because every guy that contacted me was a scammer but now I’m 44 and don’t care anymore if I ever get married. 😂
I’ve had so many women waste my time with online dating it’s crazy.
Loved this video, was so funny! Praying for you girl, hope you find someone you seem like such a lovely person, God bless you 😊
Thank you so much ❤️😇
Side note, your hair looks awesome
Thank you! It’s amazing what a hair straightener can do when you actually use it 🤣
Random thought, your hair looks really good in this video 😂
Haha thank you!
For all the stories and complaints… women have all the choices online. They have 10,20,50 etc guys to choose from in matches. But they always choose the guy who looks fun and has many pics of vacations etc. then they wonder why is this guy not focused? Well because he just wants to have fun like a girl. The world is done.
Few years ago, a girl-friend gave me the # to her BFF. I began texting and got several responses, but something seemed off. Finally, im like "is this Julie", the reply was "nah, this is Dan". I apologized, but he wanted me to continue messaging lol. I didnt
My friend gave me the wrong # (off by one digit), but it was a nice ice breaker with Julie, who is still a friend.
Omg 🤣 sounds like something that would happen to me. Hilarious
Hilarious video as always! Dating sucks so much :(
We suffer the same friendzone curse girl 😮 ....I've made lots of great * friends * over the years but still searching for that special one...
@@KatePortice you’ll find him! Each one you don’t connect with is another off the list!
I am dating someone online and oh wow I look stupid! truthfully its through playing games and I never done this before. we end up liking each other and started out so fun and yes I really got to like this person but some how I made myself look like a nut job! I not even like this in person. I am somewhat shy but online it feels like a whole another ball game.
I had the same kind of dates, then decided to just take it easier and not initiate discussions anymore. If guys wanted to initiate them, I'd reply if their picture was acceptable and not like like a psycho... then that's how I met my husband. So you never know, it can be a matter of luck.
It’s all about timing for sure haha I’m glad you found your mate!
Dang sis three years ago 😮😮😮😮, thats the video that got me started, and ive been subscribed and watching your videos ever since.....
Time flies when you’re having fun 😅
I really enjoyed this video because I could completely relate to it.
Stay strong out there 😅
@@HeavensAudventure thank you so much for taking time to reply & for the words of encouragement, but I gave up my search for Mr. Right in November 2014. It had consumed too much of my life, and all I was getting from it, was a broken heart and or great disappointment. I am in my 50s now, and I have been much happier since I quit dating.
When relationships don't work out, we always tell ourselves it's not our time or it's not the right person... 😔
Do you believe people actually get to choose their lover/spouse or does God/nature intend for us to be with a particular person and if it's meant to be, we will cross paths with them somehow? 🤔
We absolutely get to choose our person. God allows us to have free will but I don’t believe in soulmates at all. There are many “right” people we can be with but what’s most important is us being the “right” person. When two people are wholeheartedly seeking God, they grow closer to each other. The hardest part is waiting on God’s timing but His timing is always right! Be patient and stay faithful. It’ll happen :)
Dating is hard!! Sometimes the stories make it alright hahaha. I appreciate your viewpoints and humor when it comes to life. Please continue to share what you want and take a breaks as needed!
Have you tracked any of your dates or takeaways from each person?
My whole life is a funny story I swear 😂
Considering I don’t remember some of the guys names, no I haven’t tracked anything haha I kinda hope to forget most of this journey 😂
Hilarious 😂 love these nick names 😅
It's rough out there online dating. Aside from that, do you think you fit the definition of demisexual? I do, and have never ever felt quick attraction to anyone. I've faked it, but for me attraction comes 2, 3, 10 dates later... basically after the surface level stuff is out of the way. By then, most people just assume I've friendzoned them. Which gets even more complicated later because that's also when I'm finally starting to feel those sparks! It's so annoying!
I had to look up demisexual and I am the polar opposite of that haha I can know immediately if there is potential. But I’m sure you’re not alone in that! That will just be something you will need to communicate to your potential ladies so they understand where you’re coming from.
@@HeavensAudventure Oh, I'm definitely a communicator when it comes to dating. Too many pitfalls if you dive in too fast and don't communicate quirks and boundaries. Like you said, you don't want to end up with parents coming up to you in church after the first date.
I came across your channel because I’m studying for the CPA exams. And I’m staying! I love your videos! I watch them in my study breaks. Your truly inspiring and I love that your living your best life and always putting your faith in him first. Gods timing is the best timing and when your future husband comes to your life, it will feel so right!
Thank you so much for your encouragement! 😇 I hope your CPA journey is quicker than mine 🤣 best of luck to you!!
I loved thisss!! How do you tell a guy you aren’t interested and is that hard for you to do?
I would try to say just that - I’m sorry to say this but I’m not feeling a connection. And usually they agree or understand but sometimes they want exact reasons why not.. or they disagree and think there is a connection. And those are the tricky conversations. But I think being honest is always best.
@@HeavensAudventure Yes I agree being honest is always best! Id say if they are asking for exact reasons, in the kindest way possible its best to tell them the truth. Im pretty sensitive to other peoples feelings so it’s hard when I have to let someone down. I haven’t been on as many dates as you….as an introvert I feel like it would be too much for my sensitive little heart😂🤦♀️ But I throughly enjoyed hearing all your stories!!!
You and me ..same Whatsapp group even the ages but one thing I know God never disappoints. Thats me right now
I fucking know who cardninal is 😂😂😂😂 oh this is great
Hey heaven, just curious... what are some of the things you are looking for in a life partner? I am in a stage where I am preparing to get into the dating field and I want to obviously bring the goods to the table when I do so if you wouldn't mind sending me some good guidance in that respect I would really appreciate it. Thanks in advance and all the best to you, your loved ones and your current and future endeavours. 🎉
We’re accountants, we do homework, not girls
Lolol
This made me laugh...yes. I'm an accountant. 😂😄😂
LOL. Never tried that. Always strange with tinder and stuff. I went on Tinder just for fun.
As long as you’re clear with your intentions and expectations with your matches!
@@HeavensAudventure Yea, my intentions are going on it to see how are the fishes in the local scene doing. As I'm in Asia, they aren't really my cup of tea. I always will say that God will provide the right one for me. Never had one before, and I'm older.
It's all in God's sovereign will.
Love love love ❤❤❤
some people are experencing Archon attacks every time they get with someone new the archon entity attaches themselves to the partner
and host through them and this is why some men meet new women and keep having the same negative experences different partners same old nonsense playing out
the darkforces of the archons are steping in and out of people in their life and playing them up to generate loosh the emotional upset feeds them noting every human in this world is in the driving se
wait...this isnt comedy, you actually believe what you are saying???
oh my....I cant even
I'm glad I watched this because it proves that no matter who the person is, just because someone has God, principles, values etc...a man should realize to not do the things these guys did to you Heaven (I'm one to talk, this goes for me too). This video and from what I heard from my people concludes we should control our emotions. Great person or not as a man, this is how the story goes.
Like last Monday, I was shopping for a door stopper at Dicks and wanted to get a smoothie. I wanted banana and peanut butter with a shot of protein because that slaps. Then, I see this pretty dirty blonde sitting there staring into the abyss bored. I walk up and say "man, you must be bored out of your mind" then she says "I am" then I say "well, I'm here to save the day" and the whole time she made my smoothie, I made every minute count knowing that would be the last time I would see them. That is how the story should go (she even said the smoothie I got is the same as hers which I was like "Kay" lol)
You’ll find your person 😊
It’s all on God’s time! ❤️
@@HeavensAudventure absolutely!
Your date was 3 inches shorter than you? How tall are you?
No, 3 inches shorter than he put on his profile lol
@@HeavensAudventureAhh ok gotcha. Haha
As a devout catholic, I can 100% relate to this video. It's frustrating to keep failing on finding that special person but God has a plan for everyone! Keep being you. Also your videos helped me get through the CPA exam. Your videos always make me laugh. The next guy "Marathon", no he doesn't run marathons had me dying.
It’s all on God’s timing! Best of luck to you too. It’s a crazy world out there! Haha
This was rough to listen to
Anything for content keep making stories up to get to the almighty dollar
Anything for a troll to make a comment to demean others without knowing them at all
@@HeavensAudventure 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂all about content
It must be so hard for women on dating apps. Having all those options and thinking you deserve better. Must be tough
Oh please. A lot of men complain about having few options but the things most of these options are pure trash so it is like having no option at the end of the day.
It’s really thought having all these options, knowing you can only choose one at a time because you’d be a slut otherwise then devoting all your attention to one guy inviting him over, buying him dinner, baking for him, offering to pay for a ride, then having him cancel on you at the last minute for a 4th time in a row because he doesn’t feel like it anymore.
The options mean nothing when they all suck and go nowhere . Men are more likely to find somebody serious faster. Woman get quantity but men get quality.
@@itsdream7630 there is no reasonable expectation that a man could find any woman out there interested from online dating.
I keep getting used, both by men who were below my standards and those who weren't so stfu. it's good if you want to get laid that's it, other than that trying to find someone serious has been a nightmare and they will lie about intentions to get laid
You need a country Cowboy christian to date with, then you will find him the one. Or date a Greek Spartan Warrior, in Sparta we need more Warrior offsprings hahah just joking around 😂
Ur gonna be single forever
Gee, I guess The Lord just isn't sending you the right man!
Before I start my message, may I give ALL the glory to the Lord Jesus Christ Who is God and His Holy Ghost 🙌🏿✝️🧎🏾
Had to laugh at 13:28...>Heaven explaining why she didn't match with the introvert at about a million words a minute