Breaking Down Patriarchy
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Did 1960s Feminists Actually BURN Bras ??
Feminists are often associated with two things: bra burning and man-hating. But did feminists in the 1960s ever actually burn their bras in protests? And what exactly led people to think they hated men? Watch this video to learn how the 1968 Miss America pageant helped initiate the second wave of feminism and ignite the myth of bra burning.
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Sources and Additional Reading:
www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/07/14/most-americans-support-gender-equality-even-if-they-dont-identify-as-feminists/
www.ipsos.com/en-us/american-women-and-feminism
journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/03616843231202708
repository.duke.edu/dc/wlmpc/maddc01002
www.vox.com/2018/3/20/16955588/feminism-waves-explained-first-second-third-fourth
clas.wayne.edu/history/spotlights/grace-moore-and-the-truth-about-bra-burners-109098
www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2022/01/01/advanced-placement-history-textbook-women/
How did patriarchy begin? We made a video about that. - check it out: th-cam.com/video/LAqVPlS1Q-s/w-d-xo.htmlsi=lvfvxh6OGhokvh59
How and when did women get the right to vote in the U.S.? - check out this video to learn more: th-cam.com/video/xEJG1GClOSU/w-d-xo.htmlsi=XJR2qtLOjYb9SKVf
About:
Amy McPhie Allebest is a scholar, historian, writer, and independent podcast host. Allebest began the Breaking Down Patriarchy project during her master’s degree at Stanford University in 2020. Her studies there served as the catalyst for the project and podcast. In addition to the project, Allebest is best known for her viral 2016 Medium article titled “Dear Mormon Man, Tell Me What You Would Do.”
The Breaking Down Patriarchy project uses essential historical texts to better understand the origins of patriarchy and to deconstruct its unjust effects on our minds, relationships, and communities. The project envisions a world in which all human beings are able to flourish and reach their unique potential. We strive to include as many voices as possible, and our work is intersectional and inclusive. We are also firmly committed to the well-being of boys and men, and we enthusiastically and gratefully enlist the help of our non-female allies in creating an egalitarian world where everyone can thrive.
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Starring Amy McPhie Allebest
Written by Celeste Davis & Amy McPhie Allebest
Videographer and Editor: Ralph Blair
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The TRUTH Behind Trad Wives.
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I’m sure you’ve heard about trad wives - short for “traditional” wives - who embrace traditional gender roles like cooking all their food from scratch, homemaking, and supporting their husbands as the head of the household. Their content is causing quite a stir. In this latest episode of Patriarchy 101, we unpack the history through the lens of two fundamental works of feminist literature: The ...
Do Women Have Equal Rights Yet?
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What if You Went to Jail for Using Birth Control?
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What would you do if you didn’t have access to modern birth control? In some cultures, birth control has been totally accepted. It’s used to prevent disease, women’s death in childbirth, and the huge psychological and social burden of having more children than you can care for. But in many cultures, religious and government leaders - always led by men - have prohibited the use of birth control....
A Disturbing “Cure” for Depression
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Not All Women Got The Right to Vote in 1920
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We commonly finish the story of women's suffrage in 1920, but the truth is that many women and entire communities were still excluded from voting even after the 19th Amendment passed. Do you know who they were? Watch this video, and in just a few minutes you’ll have a much more complete story about three groups of Americans. Voting Resources: When We All Vote whenweallvote.org/ League of Women ...
How Women Got The Vote: Explained
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When White Women Erase Black Women
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Today we’re going to talk about one of the most iconic and misunderstood speeches in American history. It happened in Akron, Ohio on May 29, 1851 at the Ohio Women’s Convention, and it’s the famous “Ain’t I a Woman” speech by Sojourner Truth. Did you learn about Sojourner Truth in high school or college? If so, watch to the end of this video and tell me in the comments something that you learne...
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The Meeting That Changed History: Seneca Falls
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If you scanned the globe for gender equity in the late 19th Century, you would see that while some Indigenous populations still practiced traditions of partnership, the vast majority of official governments all across the world were patriarchies. In many places women did not have the right to own or inherit property. They did not have the right to work in professions of their choosing or attend...
Is Our Naming System... Patriarchal?
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Is Our Naming System... Patriarchal?
Why is Feminism So Controversial?
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The Personal Pain of Living in a Sexist World
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What Happened to the Goddesses?
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What Happened to the Goddesses?
Is Christianity Patriarchal?
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Is Christianity Patriarchal?
A Democracy By Men, For Men
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A Democracy By Men, For Men
Patriarchy: From the Boardroom to the Bedroom
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Patriarchy: From the Boardroom to the Bedroom
Patriarchy in the Bible
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Patriarchy in the Bible
The Biblical Creation Story
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The Biblical Creation Story
How Does Patriarchy Affect Us Today?
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How Does Patriarchy Affect Us Today?
Who is Amy Allebest and What is Breaking Down Patriarchy?
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Who is Amy Allebest and What is Breaking Down Patriarchy?
Is Male Dominance in our DNA?
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Is Male Dominance in our DNA?
Where Did Patriarchy Come From?
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Where Did Patriarchy Come From?

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  • @springbrown9769
    @springbrown9769 53 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Qow this comment section is made up of butthurt weak men. Who scream "what about us" lol. Ugh.

  • @tommymorrison6478
    @tommymorrison6478 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I'll believe in equality when women get conscripted just like men, and have to go fight on the front line just like men. I'll believe in equality when someone gives me a bad time in a restaurant and I can turn to the woman I'm with and say "are you going to let them talk to me like that?". I'll believe in equality when I'm lying in bed at night, hear a noise downstairs, and it's my wife who goes down to see what caused it. These things will never happen.

  • @psalmsreader7997
    @psalmsreader7997 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Where DID patriarchy come from? As if the answere isn't completely obvious (like men aren't stronger and better adapted to survive harsh conditions and therefore have the advantage over women who then depend on them for survival). I wonder why children aren't in charge of their parents.

  • @roberthornack1692
    @roberthornack1692 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Bonobos also resolve their tensions through sexual promiscuity. They would rather fuck than fight. Oh how I miss the 60's.

  • @jstone247
    @jstone247 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    THE MAJOR RELIGIONS ARE BASED ON THE CONCEPT OF FEMALES AS NATURALLY INFERIOR AND MALES AS LEADERS, WITH NO PROOF. DIVIDE AND RULE.

  • @janetlee4421
    @janetlee4421 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Great video. I wonder about wiccan society, because they seemed to have a more egalitarian system, compared to most indigenous cultures. Is that why they were severely demonized and destroyed? They were herbalists, naturalists, midwives, etc., from what i can decipher, a more peaceful people than most.

  • @PuppiesinSpace
    @PuppiesinSpace 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for creating this.

  • @dahawk8574
    @dahawk8574 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    7:39 - You blew it here. ...to say that bra burning "never happened", when it absolutely DID. Just because it didn't happen on that one day, that's not an excuse for Revisionist History. th-cam.com/video/vcS3QevoG0g/w-d-xo.html

  • @navideology
    @navideology 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Very insightful

  • @codeshak9962
    @codeshak9962 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    look to modern tribes

  • @Kate-lk6tw
    @Kate-lk6tw 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    When Adam had to cough up a rib? Can you imagine the whining….

  • @udanapower7688
    @udanapower7688 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Your work is amazing. ! Thank you! Wow! I grew up in the 40’s, 50’s and 60’s in a Mormon family. I vowed I would NEVER get married and become a slave like my mother. I was lucky to discover Osho (then Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh) and that was the turning point in my life. I literally experienced love for the first time (up until then I had thought it was a cruel joke). I hadn’t even thought to read Simone de Bouvior and Betty Friedan. I’ve sent your channel to 3 people and have LOVED watching your videos for the last 3 hours. It feels like I can finally take back my full power. Whew! I’ve been writing and thinking about The Return of the Divine Feminine for YEARS…. But didn’t have this context of history. (I was still recovering from the C-PTSD of my childhood.). Your work is important and timely when so many women are finally popping out of the stupor we’ve been raised in! Thank you!

  • @danielsykes7558
    @danielsykes7558 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    0:35 as long as it was translated correctly? /Jkjk

  • @AETorrePuerto
    @AETorrePuerto 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That was literal patriarchy, with actual patriarchs. Not customs within a society where capital rules.

  • @CLS-m3j
    @CLS-m3j 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting video. I've been studying this subject since I was a kid. Read quite a few books about it too so I subscribed to your channel and hope to learn more about this.

  • @0lunia.shadow.bearer0
    @0lunia.shadow.bearer0 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Men don’t exist to me.

  • @Hffefhjjhff
    @Hffefhjjhff 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yes i guess i have and am experiencing both sides...i was medicated for 27 years..which destroyed my soul...i now live off-grid, single, on 50 acres, splitting wood to stay warm where it snows in winter...yes being in nature is very beneficial....i remember as i child i rode horses...it was the happiest time of my life..

  • @marilynnoll541
    @marilynnoll541 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    To answer the question, the Bible ! Duh

  • @dragonfox2.058
    @dragonfox2.058 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    All I need to know is that it is not working for humanity. We're killing ourselves with this BS

  • @MayDay-yn3bw
    @MayDay-yn3bw 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hell. It came from hell.

  • @WillN2Go1
    @WillN2Go1 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    So what's the action plan for the future? We know what's wrong. How do we change ourselves, others, our society? The U.S. seems to have taken a huge step backward but that shouldn't deter us. I'm an ally, what's the plan? What can I do? When do we get started? What will never work is endlessly going over all the things that are wrong. I know enough to know that bras are very often uncomfortable so as a metaphor for the liberation of women they're ideal. So let morons go on about it. I liked the Women's March. Ideally a series of marches growing in size is brilliant. How about a men's march supporting gender equality? Make a list of diversity demands for universities that are shutting down affirmative action and diversity programs. They don't have to have an official program to continue with diversity equity and inclusion. Women are now the majority of college students. Pick a school, demand specific changes and then have people from other schools call that school up to ask about students who've applied for a transfer. (It'll be really successful if political leaders start whining about bra burning feminazis.) The rallying cry I learned from the Civil Rights and anti War Movements is What do we do next? And remember what Gandhi said "First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, and then you win."

  • @loony2869
    @loony2869 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It's better to check out Elisha Daeva's book; BEFORE WAR.

  • @dragonfox2.058
    @dragonfox2.058 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Until they stop rayping and killing us, we will be oppressed. As long as they feel entitled to our free labor, we will be oppressed

  • @beekind9832
    @beekind9832 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Just discovered your channel and I’m now subscribed and enjoying the content.

  • @anahidkassabian4471
    @anahidkassabian4471 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wonderful vid! We used to have an annual effigy burning party (history, irrelevant), and one year a friend burned a genuine padded bra. It was quite an experience. But without a doubt very funny!

  • @uttpiew
    @uttpiew 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Why they did what they did? What factors led to this choice of decision? How about each other civilisations that developed independently? If we are to re-run this evolution of human civilisation isolated for multiple times, will things have ended up differently?

  • @სალომეგუგავა
    @სალომეგუგავა 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    A man being the head of the household does not mean that the woman is a ''sidekick doormat'' . There is external leadership (associated with masculinity ) and internal leadership (associated with femininity) . Men and women having different and complementary roles is something very natural based on our hormones and STOP SHAMING WOMEN who do not like the corporate world , women who CAN NOT function in a masculine way at work , women who do not like to wear pants , women who do not like to drive cars , allright ? WE DO NOT NEED to cut ourselves from men totally , we only need to be independent from men when we have been too close to abusive men , but when you find good men it is totallt good and beneficial to depend on them (they will depend on us anyway , so it is only fair to depend on them too....if they deserve that level of trust from us).

  • @სალომეგუგავა
    @სალომეგუგავა 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Beauvuoir was a hater of everything that has to do with feminine qualities that are related to motherhood and domesticity. SOME WOMEN' S DREAM IS DOMESTICITY . OKAY ? GET OVER IT.

  • @lifeofjoy9404
    @lifeofjoy9404 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I feel ill with anger after watching this!

  • @davidD3968-dd
    @davidD3968-dd 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Fascinating topic. Makes me wish we could go back to partnership societies. Are male bonobos treated like outcasts? Also the part about dominance societies conquering the partnership societies deserves some more investigation. It’s as if a couple of outlier groups had some genetic variant that leads to patriarchy and dominance and it was all downhill from there.

  • @AndreaWalter-g9e
    @AndreaWalter-g9e 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Even my grandmother would be rolling over in her grave. She graduated with a bachelor's degree in 1924 from the University of Toronto but there were not many options for a women and became a high school teacher but had to quit when she got married at 31 years old. She used whatever birth control was available to have just 2 children. She spent most of her time outside the house volunteering and doing advocacy work.

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is a GREAT example of the importance of good marketing! Feminism could do with more of it

  • @qesther1241
    @qesther1241 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Therefore, these “laws” were not established by God but by wicked men in Babylon. Christians are to keep nothing of Babylon because God will destroy it. I’m sure that most seminaries know about the history but they are so bent on keeping “their place” in society it’s become a secret to keep from women. Therefore, men continue to commit this sin which is on the same line as pagan worship. Men want to be idolized, which, again is a sin.

  • @victoriaeads6126
    @victoriaeads6126 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I love that the Lavender Menace became a war cry, though.

  • @1GoodWoman
    @1GoodWoman 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m a bit surprised you stated the written laws without considering the possible reasons for them. I hoped to learn why the decisions were made the way they were made. I have pondered the need for physical size…farming, travel and fighting, the need for labor(many children) and the fact that women are generally physically smaller than men, independent control of our fertility is, as best we know, a relatively very recent development so women could be pregnant most of the time for many years and overall shorter lifespans so having many children, quickly, because additionally there were much higher rates of maternal mortality and infant mortality created a reality for a group to survive the women had to be essentially brood mares. I have no idea if there is any documentation for this but it would be intriguing to hear about these possibilities.

  • @bennycarter5249
    @bennycarter5249 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Many Native American societies saw women as equal to men, allowed them to make important decisions and own property. Native women did most of the work keeping their societies together as men got to 'play' all day hunting and fishing.

  • @so_very_charlotte
    @so_very_charlotte 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It's heartbreaking to see trans exclusionary Feminists repeating divisive patterns. We are too eager to judge importance, too willing to discard our sisters.

  •  10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    And as my Greatest Generation Mother used to say... "Society is not very kind to divorced Women." My Mother always understood how economically trapped she was by Heterosexual male patriarchy. Despite all of her Middle Class Red Lined privilege.💙

  • @brianarbenz1329
    @brianarbenz1329 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I have read that Van Gelder, comparing the feminist movement to the anti-war movement, wrote that some people are burning draft cards, others are burning bras. It was taken as literal. Re, the Miss America contestants being supported as women, note that the pageants since 1968 have done away with the crying at the end, and changed their final questions from light platitudes to deep social issue questions. And Miss America 1974 Rebecca King was a law school graduate who announced that working for feminist political goals -- including keeping abortion legal -- would be her cause. Obviously, feminists and Miss America were _not_ enemies.

  • @jenniferbelley1147
    @jenniferbelley1147 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I read The Feminine Mystique. She only seemed concerned with educated, upper class, white women.

  • @AnnemieM
    @AnnemieM 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I do appreciate all you work, and I am learning, thank you. How ever, the 10 commandments have nothing to do with it. There is not a single phrase that subjugate women. It was the criminal codes that Moses himself wrote, and some of those codes were already in place in those lands back then, where you can read about the ill treatment of women and the harsh laws of eye for an eye. God did not write those. Those laws were strictly written by people. As a matter of fact, Jesus told men to treat women only with love.

  • @TeresaWells-y7g
    @TeresaWells-y7g 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    A Roman Catholic retired priest told me that the Holy Spirit was female which I don’t remember EVER learning through 9 years of Catholic school (2nd grade to 11th grade)!!!!!!!!!!!🙊🙉🙈🐵

  • @Rasoo-hy9wx
    @Rasoo-hy9wx 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    even if patriarchy is natural that doesn't make it good, nature always chooses ways that seem cruel and unfair to us, we humans are very intelligent and advanced we don't have to follow nature's ways when we can come up with better ways, as clothes are better than thick body hair so partnership culture and egalitarianism are better than patriarchy.

  • @aul8819
    @aul8819 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    “But muh lobsters 😭” -Jordan Peterson fans

  • @Bob-h3n
    @Bob-h3n 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Am I all alone thinking a matriarchy wouldn't be any better?

    • @marilynnoll541
      @marilynnoll541 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, as far as I am concerned. Women are just smarter, when we claim our power.

    • @Bob-h3n
      @Bob-h3n 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @marilynnoll541 You didn't read what I wrote actually. Try again.

    • @marilynnoll541
      @marilynnoll541 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Bob-h3n I read it five times. Men and women should be equal. Women just have a little something extra.

  • @aikafuwa7177
    @aikafuwa7177 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    TLDR Christrianity, Judaism, Islam are all patriarchal as they are right now.

  • @EvonneLindiwe
    @EvonneLindiwe 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m black, indigenous African Woman , and engineer.. ( I phrased my descriptors from the context/ and lenses with which I view my own struggle in the intersectional movement ). I say thank you for explaining what I observed.. particularly with white American women.. and the voting based on demographics..l it explains how they vote, in a way I knew why, but wasn’t able to articulate. You have explained where the separation began and I am grateful.

  • @moonhunter9993
    @moonhunter9993 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Very informative video. I really want to show some of your videos to my daughter. We've been talking about patriarchy, the origin, values and violence of it all. She's a sensitive soul though. All the detailed descriptions of f e m i cide are important but probably too much for her at this stage...

  • @m.p.6039
    @m.p.6039 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    It came from a man's fist punching a woman's face. "If you want a picture of the future, imagine a boot stamping on a human face- forever."

  • @susanr5546
    @susanr5546 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I am old enough to remember this time. I am glad to see that you spoke the truth. The women threw the bras away! Probably the older ones that were out of shape, too! There was also a Life or Look magazine published around that time about the changes women were making, not marrying, using birth control, etc. I also remember that there was a woman around this time, who had lots of money, and was able to fly to New York from where she lived and get an abortion. I have always had positive feelings about men, as so many have been my and our allies! I once told my late husband that he was a closet feminist! He just looked at me puzzled because he genuinely liked and admired women. My mother had to deal with this, too, in the late 1950's and early 1960's. I have also checked the "pay gap" issue that was strong for a time. This issue was even worse for African-American and Hispanic women. The loss in pay equity totaled 1.1 million over a 40 year career compared to a male making the same income. I am 72. Change on this issue is long past due! We are not going to see progress until the future president and his VP are out of office.