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what if i pick a easy punishment

Hey Mr daniel Reason 3 was SPOT ON!

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She won’t do anything. She won’t go to school or participate in home school things that I have for her. She won’t take any classes like for music, art, drama - anything! She just wants to lay in bed every day.

Timely info. Very helpful

best advice would be not to have any children. There is already enough stress in life to add one more to bring up teen. Those who dont see any issue with their teens are just plain lucky.

Thank you for sharing your insights with simplicity and compassion. I try to watch at least one of your videos a day to help keep my parenting mindset in shape!

Thanks much Daniel. I follow your videos regularly. Learning a lot. 1) How to help my 13 years old daughter to set her goals in life? 2) Is it important for a teenager to set goals both academically and other fields? 3) At what age generally they understand the concept of setting goals? 4) What are the ways to make them understand if they are on right track? Kindly suggest.

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Daniel, my daughter will not speak to me. She doesn’t trust me at all and when she does answer me there sort of antagonistic and mean accusation questions. Can’t get past that. Suggestions?

My kid only focus in outer showing like dresses and branded shoes

Most of the time teenagers come tired of getting up early every morning to go to school and many of them like to go to bed late. When you ask them more openly to avoid a “good, fine or normal” they will answer you “I don’t know” = I am tired or I don’t want to talk.

Thanks for sharing so many useful and practical tips with us.

You can do everything right and they’ll still go wrong. Especially if you’re a single parent. Some voids can’t be filled by one parent.

not listen

The best way to measure sucess in raising a person is if they choose to raise their own children with the same beliefs and methods as they're raised.

Bull poopy be a parent first then do the best you can I raised 4 kids they all are functional adults.

My teen doesn't even want to communicate and thinks he can do what he wants.. He's just turned 13 😢

6:35 the biggest concern I have with my 15yo boy is that he'd rather forgo rewards and lose privileges rather than do the work. I have explained to him that the "privileges he is working for in the future won't be video game or screen time, but a sense of worth, the ability to provide for yourself and family, the ability to have nice things and security and some self-esteem. These are NOT things you should be willing to live without just because you're too lazy to do any work. When he does do things well (which is rare), I be sure to tell him he did a good job and thank him. However, it's difficult to stay positive when he gets fired from mowing the neighbor's lawn because, he either forgot to do the job when he promised multiple times, or did a very mediocre job. That job is one of the easiest to keep. You just have to care a little. Since he sees me working from home a lot these days, I hope he is seeing that it's not a terrible experience. He sees and hears me on calls with collogues and even having a few laughs throughout the day (9-10 hrs). I tell him I was able able to solve difficult problems that others couldn't figure out and that made their day better and I feel good that I was able to bring something to the table. So far, nothing seems to matter. He just "wants to relax."

Just finished reading ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ and it really opened my eyes to some new ways of guiding my kids in their faith. Highly recommend it if you’re looking to strenghten your family’s spiritual life

Biblical principles, PERIOD!

My son is 17.5 and only now hitting a really strong rebellious phase...he just told me he wants to move out of my house and live with his mom...Ive done basically everything you suggest. I realize theres probably not much I can do at this point...everything he brings up is about his feelings, he even acknowledges its not anything I do...what do I do with this!?

My small issue is when other kids feelings get hurt, my son is 15 and in our church there's this little 10yr old girl who hits on him, It's so interesting to see her try, attempt after attempt, I guess it's not super common for teenagers to be nice to kids, I mean for sure I know growing up us kids would just get bullied, anyhow I tell him never to reciprocate and he for sure doesn't love the attention but I just hope her feelings never get hurt

Thank you and I'm watching from Papua new guinea

Aggressive nature of my teenage son😂

Being on the phone too much. Cleaning up her dogs poop. Doing things that supposed to do, without having to nag.. to her.

Thank you I'm really interested in it and I'm watching from Papua new guinea.

Thank you I'm really interesting and I'm watching from Papua new guinea.

My teen is 15 yrs old. He was a studious boy. Now he is not concentrating on his studies. He just study the portions peripherally. He doesn't care his books and clothes. His room is messy 😞.

My boy is 13, he competes in math competions and has even made to nationals but at same time,he is stupid and Childish as hell..he says he want to spend the price money on stupid things while i told him a thousand times that it is for his future education such as college..he is stubborn and does not want to eat what is made at home..i am done with him..he throws a tantrum over something everday..any help please.

my granddaughter is very fun loving but not motivated to study. how can I help her?

Hey my kid is 7years old and i have to constantly tell him to go to play we both encourage him to go to play but he is lazy watching TV or spending time on mobile He is unable to express his feelings and lack self confidence. How do I make him more confidence and talk to people to make friends and be bold

Really good suggestions and strategies. Leads to new thinking and acting,

My girlfriend treats her 14-year-old like he’s still five years old. I see it very hard for him to be an adult soon if he’s still acting and being treated like a child.

Dude you are just reading something in front of you, you are a coach, please coach, don’t just read what’s in there…😂

Bro, I need a counseling,, how am I to contact you online for a session

My teenager just stays in his room sleep most of the time and when he is up he will be eating and leaving plates and cup wherever he is eating. When he talks he is always complaining of the past events which happened tears ago. Everything I offer is declined

My teen often talks rudely to me and lashes out in simple conversations, which I often feel bad about . Can you clarify this ?

I’m beginning to think that you weak-minded therapists are nothing more than rebellious kids stacked on top of each other, imitating adults.

You are magic!

Thousands thanks and prayers to you Daniel 😊

Hey Daniel,your video are really helpful. For natural consequences if he get late to come for dinner. He order Uber eat food if dinner not left 😅

Without harsh criticism how are they supposed to learn I took harsh criticism when I was growing up and now I could take harsh criticism has a adult man...

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Have not validated his feelings as often. That's been my biggest mistake.

Spot on

I struggled with this so bad when I was a teenager. Now I’m in my 30s, married with kids and a business partner and I still struggle with it so bad. I’ve lost jobs and missed very important things like dr appointments or been late to court because of it. Don’t even know what to do anymore.

It seem like she enjoy winding me up when I tell her off she just started singing and block me out like she not listening, but minute late she will do the opposite of what I've just told her not to do 😢

Your words make sense but the flip on all this advice is kids who keep making excuses instead of grit and learn how to play their parents into submission.