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A cheating wife that monkeybranched and doesn't even WANT to get back feels even worse. Makes you question your sanity and the ability to trust someone again.
@yannisdontas745 @yannisdontas745 you’re talking red pilled regurgitated nonsense. The “women” you are referring to are not godly women. Because guess what? Women who are betrayed or mistreated by “certain men” report the same data. Immoral men and immoral women behave the same whereas godly men and women both value integrity and monogamy.
Plenty of cases of good women that ate betrayed and find out the “man moved on very quickly” whilst they’re healing. The reality is there’s good people and bad people. It’s easy to be sucked into the internet world of “modern dating advice that turns men and women against each other”.
A cheating Wife does not deserve any forgiveness, especially if she shows no genuine remorse, or continues to lie about Her actions. Maybe Jesus may forgive cheaters, I think that is unlikely, however, I am not Jesus.
”but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.“ Matthew 6:15. You should forgive a cheater, always. But, whether you choose to stay, that’s up to you. If she commits adultery, leave but forgive. Same goes for cheating husbands.
I think in my case it was a narcissistic now ex wife, I don't think evil abusive cheaters get forgiven regardless of your religious beliefs because an intent to use someone is a purely evil and selfish act of ego. God does not take lightly to those with malintent in their hearts. Forgive yourself and let the garbage see it's way out the door.
Forgiveness comes with time and understanding. This does not mean you forget or withhold accountability, it means you grow past resentment. It’s not something you simply choose to do, it takes time and suffering but once you heal and take personal responsibility for choosing and investing in the wrong partner by ignoring red flags you come to understand that they themselves were weak and seeking emotional survival. You can then make more sense of their poor decisions which leads to forgiveness. This will come as you discover peace on the other side of suffering. Forgiving someone is not about excusing their behavior or giving them second chances to be with you. It’s more about freeing yourself from the past and understanding that some people are capable of making mistakes and learning from them or not. Again, forgiveness does not mean you accept their mistakes and get back with them. That is almost always foolish and means you did not learn the first time. The second time hurts worse. Not because they betrayed you again, but because it is now undeniable that you lied to yourself and are forced to confront your fear of moving into the unknown without the fantasy you created.
One may be able to forgive a Cheater Spouse to some extent, as one might forgive a Child for a cruel act, but I cannot forgive a malicious government that maliciously weaponized her lies and betrayal against Me, forcing all the accountability and sacrifice to rest on My shoulders. This institutionalised hatred cannot be excused or forgiven in the slightest.
A cheating wife that monkeybranched and doesn't even WANT to get back feels even worse. Makes you question your sanity and the ability to trust someone again.
That is why it is important to vet carefully and make certain the woman you marry is who she says she is.
"grounds of sexual Immorality" does this mean you can't leave your wife for emotional cheating?
Does it correlate with adultery?
@@yannisdontas745 emotional cheating is painful to either man or woman being betrayed.
@yannisdontas745 @yannisdontas745 you’re talking red pilled regurgitated nonsense. The “women” you are referring to are not godly women. Because guess what? Women who are betrayed or mistreated by “certain men” report the same data. Immoral men and immoral women behave the same whereas godly men and women both value integrity and monogamy.
Plenty of cases of good women that ate betrayed and find out the “man moved on very quickly” whilst they’re healing. The reality is there’s good people and bad people. It’s easy to be sucked into the internet world of “modern dating advice that turns men and women against each other”.
A cheating Wife does not deserve any forgiveness, especially if she shows no genuine remorse, or continues to lie about Her actions.
Maybe Jesus may forgive cheaters, I think that is unlikely, however, I am not Jesus.
”but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.“
Matthew 6:15.
You should forgive a cheater, always. But, whether you choose to stay, that’s up to you. If she commits adultery, leave but forgive.
Same goes for cheating husbands.
I think in my case it was a narcissistic now ex wife, I don't think evil abusive cheaters get forgiven regardless of your religious beliefs because an intent to use someone is a purely evil and selfish act of ego. God does not take lightly to those with malintent in their hearts. Forgive yourself and let the garbage see it's way out the door.
Forgiveness comes with time and understanding. This does not mean you forget or withhold accountability, it means you grow past resentment. It’s not something you simply choose to do, it takes time and suffering but once you heal and take personal responsibility for choosing and investing in the wrong partner by ignoring red flags you come to understand that they themselves were weak and seeking emotional survival. You can then make more sense of their poor decisions which leads to forgiveness. This will come as you discover peace on the other side of suffering. Forgiving someone is not about excusing their behavior or giving them second chances to be with you. It’s more about freeing yourself from the past and understanding that some people are capable of making mistakes and learning from them or not.
Again, forgiveness does not mean you accept their mistakes and get back with them. That is almost always foolish and means you did not learn the first time. The second time hurts worse. Not because they betrayed you again, but because it is now undeniable that you lied to yourself and are forced to confront your fear of moving into the unknown without the fantasy you created.
One may be able to forgive a Cheater Spouse to some extent, as one might forgive a Child for a cruel act, but I cannot forgive a malicious government that maliciously weaponized her lies and betrayal against Me, forcing all the accountability and sacrifice to rest on My shoulders. This institutionalised hatred cannot be excused or forgiven in the slightest.
@Clayton_White very well said!