I’m so happy to know there are men out here being honest with other men about this. As a young woman growing up, casual sex never made sense to me and I could never understand why people didn’t see it as something to be taken seriously or something extremely intimate. I always thought red pill men were hypocrites for not being honest about the effects of hookup culture on men like they do with women. Do not believe these jaded red pill guys, traditional women do find men who have sexual discipline and self control very attractive. How are you going to be head of your household and lead your family if you cannot lead your penis in the right direction? You can’t and virgin women like me who want husbands and families do not deserve or want the baggage of all your bodies either. There is nothing special about being number 58 in line. I couldn’t agree more with Christian when he says promiscuous people deserve each other. You don’t get to roll around in the dirt, encourage other men to do the same, and then decide you want something pristine after you get tired of trash. You do not deserve it and you didn’t work for it. Leave us for the men that aren’t sheep being led around by foolish men instead of God.
Porn is also terrible for men. My husband was so saturated with it from the time he was 7 years old with the encouragement of his father. It almost ruined our marriage early on because the stuff he wanted to do was so horrible and degrading that I couldn't trust him in the bedroom. He wasn't used to a woman who didn't let just anything fly in the bedroom. It took him years to overcome that. Our sex life is much better now, but it's always there in the back of my mind.
@@anfieldreds_1892 his father said it proved he was straight. He also enabled him to engage in sexual activity by the time he was 14. His father is still a pervert to this day. We keep a distance.
@alwaysright3943 there's 100s of red pill guys who don't make it. She's grown exponentially in recent years. I know because I used to work with her. She's dominating in rationale, viewership, credibility, female & male retention, I can keep going.
@@KeandreChristianAyala She's dominating in rationale like she did here? Lmao. She's getting views because she panders to women and majority blue pill men, there's no secret trick here. Most people prefer to hear comforting lies rather than the cold truth. Let her dominate on the internet sabotaging sheltered men while red pill men dominate in real life.
This video is very well said and done. I couldn't agree more, and one doesn't even have to be religious to see the numerous downsides to promiscuity with all of the poignant arguments that are being expressed here. Sadly, telling people what they need to hear instead of what they want to hear doesn't seem to result in the same insane popularity that the toxic overgrown children behind these "red pill" channels seem to enjoy, but I'm glad this video is out here for those open-minded enough to be willing to listen.
Her reasoning is actually quite good and I don’t endorse male promiscuity, but what I will say is that theirs two types of men. Theirs the man that is Monogumous because out of lack of options, then their is the attractive man who voluntarily chooses to be monogamous, the latter is a good man. It’s like someone who drives a Camry because that’s all they can afford vs the person who drives a Camry even though they could buy 2-3 Ferraris.
it’s not that the first type of man is monogamous because of lack of options, it’s that he’s trying to date women that are out of his league in regards to looks so the women he tried to go for don’t actually desire him, so he ends up alone because of pride. Date within your actual standards.
I think "pleasure" and "responsibility" go together, even outside of relationships and intimacy. Probably a good rule of thumb for living your life - pair your pleasure with responsibility
What do you consider a high or problematic 'body count' for men, and does it depend on age (i.e. you could expect an older man would have a higher count than a younger man)? As for gaining bedroom 'experience' I think you probably get more experience inside of a relationship, to be honest, than a whole lot of single instances with different women. It usually takes time to be truly comfortable with intimacy with a woman, and to learn about each other. And I think you get more time having sex inside a relationship than seeing multiple women occasionally.
Everything in life is trade offs. I led the promiscuous male life for years and yes, while it is now more challenging for me to adjust to monogamy, the idea that a promiscuous male is less attractive to good females is untrue and a cope for males who have never developed those options. So yes there are some downsides, but like anything in life, risk and reward are intrinsically linked.
Read the pinned comment in this video. Humble yourself. Good women have standards… standards that you don’t fit in, so to stroke your pride you convince yourself that somehow promiscuity doesn’t have consequences. Newsflash; it does.
@@RelearningRelationships Humble myself? Bro you’re the one talking from an instruction manual rather than life experience. Yes women have standards, but their standards are not your standards. Humble yourself.
I would love to know from what instruction manual I’m reading from? When you start talking about “it’s a cope” it’s simply because you’re projecting. Godly women don’t want a promiscuous man. Don’t believe me? Read the pinned comment in this video or you and interact with actual traditional women who don’t have a past.
As a woman, a promiscuous man is less attractive to me especially if I’ve known about him in person for a while. I can admit that if I get to know a man for the first time and develop strong feelings before knowing about a certain past, I might be more lenient, supposing he has changed but having two men with the same qualities, I’d always choose the less promiscuous one. It is not attractive. It just makes me insecure that he can’t stick to one woman for long.
I’m so happy to know there are men out here being honest with other men about this. As a young woman growing up, casual sex never made sense to me and I could never understand why people didn’t see it as something to be taken seriously or something extremely intimate. I always thought red pill men were hypocrites for not being honest about the effects of hookup culture on men like they do with women. Do not believe these jaded red pill guys, traditional women do find men who have sexual discipline and self control very attractive.
How are you going to be head of your household and lead your family if you cannot lead your penis in the right direction? You can’t and virgin women like me who want husbands and families do not deserve or want the baggage of all your bodies either. There is nothing special about being number 58 in line. I couldn’t agree more with Christian when he says promiscuous people deserve each other. You don’t get to roll around in the dirt, encourage other men to do the same, and then decide you want something pristine after you get tired of trash. You do not deserve it and you didn’t work for it. Leave us for the men that aren’t sheep being led around by foolish men instead of God.
Well said.
“Virgins like me” lol sure
@@alwaysright3943damaged men can’t even appreciate or accept that a godly woman is real. You need some help.
@@alwaysright3943 Don't get blinded by the manosphere
@@alwaysright3943Jesus loves you. Repent and change. You too cam salvage what's left of your life.
I’ve been praying for revival in dating culture, and God has answered my prayer.
We need more videos like this. Thank you!
God bless you brother ❤
Glad it was helpful!
@@RelearningRelationships btw, are you at a church in London?
No, I don’t live in England. I
@@RelearningRelationships that’s mad. But your accent is english. Are you from London originally?
@MatticusC yes. My mother is English, my father is Polish. English is my first language.
Porn is also terrible for men. My husband was so saturated with it from the time he was 7 years old with the encouragement of his father. It almost ruined our marriage early on because the stuff he wanted to do was so horrible and degrading that I couldn't trust him in the bedroom. He wasn't used to a woman who didn't let just anything fly in the bedroom. It took him years to overcome that. Our sex life is much better now, but it's always there in the back of my mind.
That’s very brave of you to push through and forgive him. I’m happy to hear that your marriage is in a better place. Well done 🙌🏻✝️
his father encouraged him?
@anfieldreds_1892 bad role model.
@@anfieldreds_1892 his father said it proved he was straight. He also enabled him to engage in sexual activity by the time he was 14. His father is still a pervert to this day. We keep a distance.
The same things you find “degrading” with your husband you’d do enthusiastically with Chad. I’m sorry but there are no exceptions to this.
Sadia Psychology is dominating the red pill, and it shows how weak those guys are! Good body language analysis, keep up the work 💯
God bless you Keandre 💪
This isn’t what’s called dominating bud 😂
@alwaysright3943 there's 100s of red pill guys who don't make it. She's grown exponentially in recent years. I know because I used to work with her. She's dominating in rationale, viewership, credibility, female & male retention, I can keep going.
@@KeandreChristianAyala She's dominating in rationale like she did here? Lmao.
She's getting views because she panders to women and majority blue pill men, there's no secret trick here. Most people prefer to hear comforting lies rather than the cold truth.
Let her dominate on the internet sabotaging sheltered men while red pill men dominate in real life.
This video is very well said and done. I couldn't agree more, and one doesn't even have to be religious to see the numerous downsides to promiscuity with all of the poignant arguments that are being expressed here. Sadly, telling people what they need to hear instead of what they want to hear doesn't seem to result in the same insane popularity that the toxic overgrown children behind these "red pill" channels seem to enjoy, but I'm glad this video is out here for those open-minded enough to be willing to listen.
well said. Promiscuity is dangerous to women and men alike. This new generation must choose to live a life that honours God, Marriage and Truth.
This is good information I learned a lot
Thank you
Her reasoning is actually quite good and I don’t endorse male promiscuity, but what I will say is that theirs two types of men. Theirs the man that is Monogumous because out of lack of options, then their is the attractive man who voluntarily chooses to be monogamous, the latter is a good man.
It’s like someone who drives a Camry because that’s all they can afford vs the person who drives a Camry even though they could buy 2-3 Ferraris.
it’s not that the first type of man is monogamous because of lack of options, it’s that he’s trying to date women that are out of his league in regards to looks so the women he tried to go for don’t actually desire him, so he ends up alone because of pride.
Date within your actual standards.
I think "pleasure" and "responsibility" go together, even outside of relationships and intimacy. Probably a good rule of thumb for living your life - pair your pleasure with responsibility
true
What do you consider a high or problematic 'body count' for men, and does it depend on age (i.e. you could expect an older man would have a higher count than a younger man)?
As for gaining bedroom 'experience' I think you probably get more experience inside of a relationship, to be honest, than a whole lot of single instances with different women. It usually takes time to be truly comfortable with intimacy with a woman, and to learn about each other. And I think you get more time having sex inside a relationship than seeing multiple women occasionally.
Everything in life is trade offs. I led the promiscuous male life for years and yes, while it is now more challenging for me to adjust to monogamy, the idea that a promiscuous male is less attractive to good females is untrue and a cope for males who have never developed those options.
So yes there are some downsides, but like anything in life, risk and reward are intrinsically linked.
Read the pinned comment in this video. Humble yourself. Good women have standards… standards that you don’t fit in, so to stroke your pride you convince yourself that somehow promiscuity doesn’t have consequences. Newsflash; it does.
@@RelearningRelationships Humble myself? Bro you’re the one talking from an instruction manual rather than life experience. Yes women have standards, but their standards are not your standards. Humble yourself.
I would love to know from what instruction manual I’m reading from? When you start talking about “it’s a cope” it’s simply because you’re projecting. Godly women don’t want a promiscuous man. Don’t believe me? Read the pinned comment in this video or you and interact with actual traditional women who don’t have a past.
I am speaking from experience. Even my wife says that promiscuity is disgusting and she would never be with such a man.
As a woman, a promiscuous man is less attractive to me especially if I’ve known about him in person for a while. I can admit that if I get to know a man for the first time and develop strong feelings before knowing about a certain past, I might be more lenient, supposing he has changed but having two men with the same qualities, I’d always choose the less promiscuous one. It is not attractive. It just makes me insecure that he can’t stick to one woman for long.