It's funny how a big part of maturing isn't really to overcome ones condition but to accept it. To accept that things take time, to accept that you can only do one thing at a time, to accept our silly self who wants to have fun and so on. This seems to be true for so much more. Like accepting that one feels the way one does and therefore choosing to move on instead of combating it.
I decided to quit the 2024 reading challenge (and all reading challenges moving forward) because it made reading more of an anxious thing vs a thing of enjoyment. My reading habits have been sh*tty lately, but the last thing I wanna do is add unnecessary stress to myself.
7:57 When you said , just be in the physical surroundings...i just listened to the birds and leaves outside my house..and i dont know what happened , but i just felt *so peaceful* . *The restlessnes just stopped* . I was just able to do my work wothout touching my phone one hour later till now. Thanks
“I don’t NEED to do every single thing under the sun.” Thank you so much! I can relate, hope we can meet one day in real life (just hoping, nothin than that😂), productive mate!😂 One more thing you guys can try is taking 3 deep breaths (for a little calm moment), then ask yourself what is important to you? That’s the next necessary thing.❤
I’ve been slowing down recently. I make a habit to spend at least four hours outside and really get in touch with everything that’s around me. It becomes my place of happiness where I’m not trying to always improve on something, but I’m just allowing myself to exist. As odd as a statement, existing is the biggest gift that tends to go unnoticed. ❤
"in the end, even if i got everything i'd ever wanted, these will be the moments that i still ask for. so why trade these moments for anything else." 🥺💗
Im in my first semester break and after coming to terms of my anxiety and overthinking, I feel like it is great to stay off social media for periods of time. I felt less inclined to check up on people and thinking I am not good enough ever since I found this tip. Your channel really helped me prove myself more that I don't need to always be on my phone and I should focus on myself. Hopefully it gets better as I continue my college year.
I have never encountered any videos that I would like so much before. Your tone of voice, the choice of music, beautiful scenes of your place and nature, themes, and reflection of your thoughts - everything is perfect. You are the kind of person whose personality I find so inspiring. This video made me desire to change some things in my life to have it like this, like you showed: slow, deliberate, soft, and honestly full of love. Thank you very much for this. It really helped and I hope you will continue to upload your videos. I almost sobbed watching this.
Thank you~♡☆ I have severe anxiety and am overwhelmed these days bc of major life changes (moving out from mom + new college). To be prepared for a mature life, I tried to make as many improvements as possible in cooking, cleaning, fitness, running, cycling, yoga, finance, reading, sightseeing, socializing, mental health habits....... etc (planned to add English, French, and fashion lolll ). I spread thin and felt so stuck that I procrastinated every day for more than 8h in social media. I felt like I was betraying myself. But you know what? You opened my eyes. Thank you very much for helping me (and others) to find peace and simple joy in our lives☺️🩷💫
I teared up while listening to your reminders of wisdom and seeing your excellent video edits. In a culture that tries to keep us in perpetual perceived and real chaos, your video was much needed. Thank you.
ive been lost for the past, what, month? and i just binged your videos, and gosh. i love them so much. they feel like someone hugging me warmly and patting my head. i feel like i can do anything, and that my future is in my hands when i watch your videos. you deserve so much more recognition, i praise you
You brought me so much comfort and peace with explaining something I have been feeling. When I was little, I used to feel so alive and in the present. But as I got older, it felt like I was taking on a lot more responsibilities and tasks just to feel like I was doing something. Like, these tasks made me a productive individual, when in reality it just made me feel like a robot going through the motions of a set life or something… I want to make a promise to myself, a promise that I will only do tasks that are necessary and do them with patience and gratitude. That way I can spend more time doing fun things and hanging with loved ones, because that is what matters the most in life- living a way that makes you happy. Thanks again for making me realize this, and all the comfort your videos bring me. Keep up the good work! 😊
feel like i've found a gem with this channel..... resonated so much with this video. lately i've been becoming aware that it doesn't actually matter how productive i am in a day, i'll still feel that guilt and anxiety around not having done enough. i sort of realised that i'd actually been very disciplined over the past few days and still equally had that nagging feeling that i'm a lazy waste of potential. it was to the point that i wasn't even _aware_ of the amount i'd done until i recapped it all. i think part of that unsatisfied feeling spawns from not having actually immersed myself in the process, having done it for the sake of having done it - which ironically just leaves me feeling like i haven't actually done it. i'd read a book, write a song, go on a walk, study, meditate, and because i wasn't present throughout any of it, it would feel like just yet another wasted day. i am starting to feel like doing things just to feel like you've "done enough" is more of a waste of time than not bothering to do anything at all - the presumed value in the activity is lost to the fact that you didn't properly experience it. my next step is going to be to try and eradicate that need within me to "feel productive" and to start properly living. thank you for this
i found one of your videos pop up on my page and i sought it to be intriguing, so i put it in my playlists. now watching it, im so glad i took the time to ACTUALLY watch it rather than to just keep it in my playlist or watch later, i love your channel and your words are so simple yet so alluring, i'd love to watch you and your channel grow, xo! 💓
Honestly glad this popped up on my recommended, thank you for reminding me that living in the present is all I need for myself right now. I was feeling super overwhelmed that I wasn't doing enough, but I am, I just need to take a deep breath. Wonderful message and beautiful clips in the video!!
same , i don't know what i need to do know, life make me feel tired , i sometime ask myself that who am i , what is my purpose when i exist in the world with so much change and i can't chase with it . thank you if someone see my comment , i hope you can find the mean of life ( sr if i make mistake because i just have learnt english in a short time ) 😄😄
Thank you for this video and other your videos too. Lately I’ve been feeling so much pressure and I’ve been overthinking literally everything. I kind of felt like I’m going to lose myself because I didn’t (and still not sure) know what I even like, because I just do things automatically. It felt like that there is nothing I like in this world when it’s just actually that I have been doing just things that the internet ”kinda want me to do”. And I felt like that I have to ”filter” myself to be a happy and enjoyable person. Even now I feel overwhelmed by the fact that I’m venting here but honestly I don’t know if it even matters😅 Yeah, so I also wanted to say that this video was really beautiful visually and just so meaningful to me and surely to others too. Yeah, thank you:)
Great advice. It reminds me of something in the beginning of Tolstoy's Anna Karenina: (to) become oblivious in the dream of life.... (to) live for the needs of the day .... (to say) "we'll see later on" (like, oh well it doesn't all have to be clear to me at all times). And honestly it feels like social media tries to make folks feel the opposite way🤔. I found myself constantly being slapped on the wrist and antagonized by randos and just said whatever im out. glhf✌😑
All great advice and observations! Your cinematography and editing is improving with every video; this video is conveying great information and it's doing it in such a visually interesting way. Keep up the good work, I and many others appreciate and enjoy your efforts!
your content is literally a breath of fresh air in a world of fleshy overwhelming content that is created only for gaining views 🤍thank you for inspiring me to grow every single day. also, the quality of your videos improved a lot; so grateful to be able to watch your videos. never stop creating!
Please don't ever delete this vid 🥺 Those are the exact thought am habits I'm trying to cultivate, thanks for verbalizing it and sharing it with us. 💚💙
These videos are so beautiful to me, the editing is wonderful. Nonetheless the way you articulate these messages is absolutely eye opening. This channel is a gem!!
You have no idea how long I’ve been waiting for someone to answer this question/ make this video. I’ve been feeling this way for months now and I didn’t know what to do or what I was feeling. Thank you so much :D. You actually made my day today. I hope you have an amazing life.
thank u so much this is what i am feeling right now and the words i need to be heard. I am currently waiting to go to Japan for my work and i feel so scared and impatient to get there soon. But i can't contol the process with those documents and visa process so i guess i can only wait patiently.
Thank you for this video , a lot of the time, I feel the need to be doing more than what i am doing, and at the end of the day, I feel guilty for not doing anything. I learnt how to get away with those unnecessary thoughts from your videos. Simple and effective!
Hi I also came out of this shell you are my inspiration for starting my own real life. Character Jst having a break from social media is a big change of creating memories, then forgetting what life is.❤
I have so much anxiety I am changing school because my friends left it either but I am regretting it now going to a new place where I don't know anyone I am dying inside
Hey meiqii, I really enjoy a lot of your thought processing and the conversations you have with audience, I know I’m a stranger but do you know why we’re on earth or who created us? What’s our true purpose in life? If our purpose in life was to truly only work, sleep, education wouldn’t it be very filling? If you take a look at every single thing around you from clothes to your couch to your computer to put food we eat, we can realize we being provided for by a greater being. His name is Allah My lord and yours. I wanted to see your perspective you seem very sincere. And I agree social media is extremely brain rotting. We are not fashioned to scroll. And one more thing, try looking into Islam the religion of Muslims it was life changing for me it’s nothing like whatever bad pictures they put out on media about us. Islam answers all questions.
I think your questions and arguments are misleading. Us humans made the couch, the clothes and other utilities. They didn't come to us made, we had to craft them. And with regards to the question of who created us: it is a flawed question because it already assumes a creator and that we are a product of a creator. Both big assumptions. The reason we fit so well into this world is because we didn't come into this world, but we came out of this world instead. Just like an apple comes from an apple tree. Everything is "adjusted" to us would be wrong. We're so adjusted to everything because we evolved with this world.
And with regards to "why" we're here. You'd have to define what exactly you mean by that. Why implies a reason for being. But it assumes that we're born with a reason which I disagree with. The question shouldn't be why are "we" here but why am "I" here? Or why do I want to be here. Everyone's got their reasons. Finding a universal solution is like trying to find a pair of shoes that fit everyone.
It's funny how a big part of maturing isn't really to overcome ones condition but to accept it. To accept that things take time, to accept that you can only do one thing at a time, to accept our silly self who wants to have fun and so on. This seems to be true for so much more. Like accepting that one feels the way one does and therefore choosing to move on instead of combating it.
Malingsia
Wow that hit's deep thank you : )
Completely agreed!
I know this yet still fight against it 😢
“Sometimes we end up scrolling on social media because it doesn’t involve committing to an activity” what a line 😭💕
this was like a studio ghibli film, it was lovely.
Glazing hard
I decided to quit the 2024 reading challenge (and all reading challenges moving forward) because it made reading more of an anxious thing vs a thing of enjoyment. My reading habits have been sh*tty lately, but the last thing I wanna do is add unnecessary stress to myself.
Never thought my thoughts would resonate with someone else so much.
7:57
When you said , just be in the physical surroundings...i just listened to the birds and leaves outside my house..and i dont know what happened , but i just felt *so peaceful* .
*The restlessnes just stopped*
. I was just able to do my work wothout touching my phone one hour later till now. Thanks
2:23. This hit me, I have always considered myself patient person. but I realize I have patience with other people but zero patience for myself.
I wish we were lowkey friends irl you inspire me to write things and go experience life
girl I swear you're reading my mind or something, I've literally never had someone speak to my soul like that
“I don’t NEED to do every single thing under the sun.” Thank you so much! I can relate, hope we can meet one day in real life (just hoping, nothin than that😂), productive mate!😂
One more thing you guys can try is taking 3 deep breaths (for a little calm moment), then ask yourself what is important to you? That’s the next necessary thing.❤
I’ve been slowing down recently. I make a habit to spend at least four hours outside and really get in touch with everything that’s around me. It becomes my place of happiness where I’m not trying to always improve on something, but I’m just allowing myself to exist. As odd as a statement, existing is the biggest gift that tends to go unnoticed. ❤
"in the end, even if i got everything i'd ever wanted, these will be the moments that i still ask for. so why trade these moments for anything else." 🥺💗
Im in my first semester break and after coming to terms of my anxiety and overthinking, I feel like it is great to stay off social media for periods of time. I felt less inclined to check up on people and thinking I am not good enough ever since I found this tip. Your channel really helped me prove myself more that I don't need to always be on my phone and I should focus on myself. Hopefully it gets better as I continue my college year.
The part where you talked about patience is everything I wanted to hear...
the 'patience' section is so real oml the goodreads and to-do list part! that is my life. i had to stop using goodreads for my own health
I have never encountered any videos that I would like so much before. Your tone of voice, the choice of music, beautiful scenes of your place and nature, themes, and reflection of your thoughts - everything is perfect. You are the kind of person whose personality I find so inspiring. This video made me desire to change some things in my life to have it like this, like you showed: slow, deliberate, soft, and honestly full of love. Thank you very much for this. It really helped and I hope you will continue to upload your videos. I almost sobbed watching this.
everything you said resonated with me so much 😭 thank you for this
Thank you~♡☆ I have severe anxiety and am overwhelmed these days bc of major life changes (moving out from mom + new college). To be prepared for a mature life, I tried to make as many improvements as possible in cooking, cleaning, fitness, running, cycling, yoga, finance, reading, sightseeing, socializing, mental health habits....... etc (planned to add English, French, and fashion lolll ).
I spread thin and felt so stuck that I procrastinated every day for more than 8h in social media. I felt like I was betraying myself. But you know what? You opened my eyes. Thank you very much for helping me (and others) to find peace and simple joy in our lives☺️🩷💫
I teared up while listening to your reminders of wisdom and seeing your excellent video edits. In a culture that tries to keep us in perpetual perceived and real chaos, your video was much needed. Thank you.
ive been lost for the past, what, month? and i just binged your videos, and gosh. i love them so much. they feel like someone hugging me warmly and patting my head. i feel like i can do anything, and that my future is in my hands when i watch your videos. you deserve so much more recognition, i praise you
You brought me so much comfort and peace with explaining something I have been feeling. When I was little, I used to feel so alive and in the present. But as I got older, it felt like I was taking on a lot more responsibilities and tasks just to feel like I was doing something. Like, these tasks made me a productive individual, when in reality it just made me feel like a robot going through the motions of a set life or something… I want to make a promise to myself, a promise that I will only do tasks that are necessary and do them with patience and gratitude. That way I can spend more time doing fun things and hanging with loved ones, because that is what matters the most in life- living a way that makes you happy. Thanks again for making me realize this, and all the comfort your videos bring me. Keep up the good work! 😊
This was sorely needed today. Thankyou so much.
feel like i've found a gem with this channel..... resonated so much with this video. lately i've been becoming aware that it doesn't actually matter how productive i am in a day, i'll still feel that guilt and anxiety around not having done enough. i sort of realised that i'd actually been very disciplined over the past few days and still equally had that nagging feeling that i'm a lazy waste of potential. it was to the point that i wasn't even _aware_ of the amount i'd done until i recapped it all. i think part of that unsatisfied feeling spawns from not having actually immersed myself in the process, having done it for the sake of having done it - which ironically just leaves me feeling like i haven't actually done it. i'd read a book, write a song, go on a walk, study, meditate, and because i wasn't present throughout any of it, it would feel like just yet another wasted day. i am starting to feel like doing things just to feel like you've "done enough" is more of a waste of time than not bothering to do anything at all - the presumed value in the activity is lost to the fact that you didn't properly experience it. my next step is going to be to try and eradicate that need within me to "feel productive" and to start properly living. thank you for this
"Just do fun shit w/o overthinking it" 💯
i found one of your videos pop up on my page and i sought it to be intriguing, so i put it in my playlists. now watching it, im so glad i took the time to ACTUALLY watch it rather than to just keep it in my playlist or watch later, i love your channel and your words are so simple yet so alluring, i'd love to watch you and your channel grow, xo! 💓
Honestly glad this popped up on my recommended, thank you for reminding me that living in the present is all I need for myself right now. I was feeling super overwhelmed that I wasn't doing enough, but I am, I just need to take a deep breath. Wonderful message and beautiful clips in the video!!
same , i don't know what i need to do know, life make me feel tired , i sometime ask myself that who am i , what is my purpose when i exist in the world with so much change and i can't chase with it . thank you if someone see my comment , i hope you can find the mean of life ( sr if i make mistake because i just have learnt english in a short time ) 😄😄
Thank you for this video and other your videos too. Lately I’ve been feeling so much pressure and I’ve been overthinking literally everything. I kind of felt like I’m going to lose myself because I didn’t (and still not sure) know what I even like, because I just do things automatically. It felt like that there is nothing I like in this world when it’s just actually that I have been doing just things that the internet ”kinda want me to do”. And I felt like that I have to ”filter” myself to be a happy and enjoyable person. Even now I feel overwhelmed by the fact that I’m venting here but honestly I don’t know if it even matters😅 Yeah, so I also wanted to say that this video was really beautiful visually and just so meaningful to me and surely to others too. Yeah, thank you:)
Great advice. It reminds me of something in the beginning of Tolstoy's Anna Karenina: (to) become oblivious in the dream of life.... (to) live for the needs of the day .... (to say) "we'll see later on" (like, oh well it doesn't all have to be clear to me at all times). And honestly it feels like social media tries to make folks feel the opposite way🤔. I found myself constantly being slapped on the wrist and antagonized by randos and just said whatever im out. glhf✌😑
All great advice and observations! Your cinematography and editing is improving with every video; this video is conveying great information and it's doing it in such a visually interesting way. Keep up the good work, I and many others appreciate and enjoy your efforts!
i'm literally breaking down si bad rn, seeing this video is a literal gift from the universe ❤️🩹
your content is literally a breath of fresh air in a world of fleshy overwhelming content that is created only for gaining views
🤍thank you for inspiring me to grow every single day.
also, the quality of your videos improved a lot; so grateful to be able to watch your videos. never stop creating!
Please don't ever delete this vid 🥺
Those are the exact thought am habits I'm trying to cultivate, thanks for verbalizing it and sharing it with us. 💚💙
I adore the visual!!, its so serene~
this came exactly when i needed it so thanks
These videos are so beautiful to me, the editing is wonderful. Nonetheless the way you articulate these messages is absolutely eye opening. This channel is a gem!!
You're really underrated. Thank you so much for the content you post.
I feel like I'm always overwhelmed w something.Tysm for this.
this is an art!!
You have no idea how long I’ve been waiting for someone to answer this question/ make this video. I’ve been feeling this way for months now and I didn’t know what to do or what I was feeling. Thank you so much :D. You actually made my day today. I hope you have an amazing life.
needed this so bad!!!!
i've been binging your videos and its really made my week better :)
thank u so much this is what i am feeling right now and the words i need to be heard. I am currently waiting to go to Japan for my work and i feel so scared and impatient to get there soon. But i can't contol the process with those documents and visa process so i guess i can only wait patiently.
You are a gift. 😭 Thanks to your videos for being there for me
Exactly what I needed to hear. You potrayed everything so beautifully, this felt like the premium side of youtube. Much love
this video was so needed, i feel the same, i love this. so gorgeously and lovingly made
Thank you for this video , a lot of the time, I feel the need to be doing more than what i am doing, and at the end of the day, I feel guilty for not doing anything. I learnt how to get away with those unnecessary thoughts from your videos. Simple and effective!
Yesss....I can work with wht I have🥲😂..
Exactly the reassurance I needed right now ! Thank you ❤
THX SO MUCH, THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED, YOU SLAY GIRLLL
Thank you for this video, it was so helpful...
i love ur videos omg😭
i absolutely loved this. really needed it. thank you
Bro you're gorgeous✨
i love this video so much thank you
Thanks Mei, I needed this video
This. This is relatable
thats what I needed. thankyou
I really love your videos, your voice is so calm and lovely
Your voice heals me!!❤❤
I love these two recent videos you’ve made. Make more of them!! :D
Hi I also came out of this shell you are my inspiration for starting my own real life. Character Jst having a break from social media is a big change of creating memories, then forgetting what life is.❤
Also my inspiration for starting my own films thanks you ❤
I really like the way you word things
I have so much anxiety I am changing school because my friends left it either but I am regretting it now going to a new place where I don't know anyone I am dying inside
thank you for the video ,, makes lot of sense
Wonderful girl, thanks a bunch for sharing. ❤❤
Have an amazing wonderful day.
IM JS SOO INLOVE !! ur inspiring me a lotttttt and ur so prettyyyy nd so lovelyyy 😣😫🫶🫶 PLZZ KEEP MAKING VIDS
U save me!
Thank you ❤
Bro!?....I am curious!!!... Always loving your words ʘ‿ʘ
Really an amazing video !!
I can relate ❤
SUBHAN ALLAH, ISLAM is the religion in which patience has always been promoted
Te quiero 💕💖
💗💗💗
Omg girl where do you live cause thats literally like my dream place and life 😭
Hey meiqii, I really enjoy a lot of your thought processing and the conversations you have with audience, I know I’m a stranger but do you know why we’re on earth or who created us? What’s our true purpose in life? If our purpose in life was to truly only work, sleep, education wouldn’t it be very filling? If you take a look at every single thing around you from clothes to your couch to your computer to put food we eat, we can realize we being provided for by a greater being. His name is Allah My lord and yours. I wanted to see your perspective you seem very sincere. And I agree social media is extremely brain rotting. We are not fashioned to scroll. And one more thing, try looking into Islam the religion of Muslims it was life changing for me it’s nothing like whatever bad pictures they put out on media about us. Islam answers all questions.
I think your questions and arguments are misleading. Us humans made the couch, the clothes and other utilities. They didn't come to us made, we had to craft them.
And with regards to the question of who created us: it is a flawed question because it already assumes a creator and that we are a product of a creator. Both big assumptions.
The reason we fit so well into this world is because we didn't come into this world, but we came out of this world instead. Just like an apple comes from an apple tree. Everything is "adjusted" to us would be wrong. We're so adjusted to everything because we evolved with this world.
And with regards to "why" we're here. You'd have to define what exactly you mean by that. Why implies a reason for being. But it assumes that we're born with a reason which I disagree with. The question shouldn't be why are "we" here but why am "I" here? Or why do I want to be here. Everyone's got their reasons. Finding a universal solution is like trying to find a pair of shoes that fit everyone.
why bring religion man
is that Vancouver?
It's limbo
How about facing all this shit totally alone with no one to lean on.no one
The Same Girl, The Same...
do you record your own youtube videos?
yep :))
please don't use background music.