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Super anxiety chick
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 25 ส.ค. 2022
Hi
Super anxiety chick here and I use this channel to share my struggles with AVPD aka Avoidant personality disorder, anxiety and all the other fixings. Based on my own experiences and research as I'm not a professional.
Hoping this will be helpful to others out there struggling and ofcourse to grow stronger on this journey.
Super anxiety chick here and I use this channel to share my struggles with AVPD aka Avoidant personality disorder, anxiety and all the other fixings. Based on my own experiences and research as I'm not a professional.
Hoping this will be helpful to others out there struggling and ofcourse to grow stronger on this journey.
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AVPD and the guilt/doubt of putting up boundaries
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AVPD and the guilt/doubt of putting up boundaries
AVPD and breaking through glass ceilings
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AVPD and breaking through glass ceilings
AVPD and always feeling like we're in trouble
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AVPD and always feeling like we're in trouble
AVPD and a conversation with Cluster B Milkshake
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AVPD and a conversation with Cluster B Milkshake
AVPD and getting to know your personality
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AVPD and getting to know your personality
Aww, that's great that you've taken up the guitar again super-chick 😊. I should say for a beginner, nothing will improve your playing more than stencilling the word NOISE on your guitar and sticking on a picture of Che Guevara 😁
Hi Super-Chick. They do say if you have mice, you don't have rats
@FreeBrunoPowroznik Hahaha, good to know. Rats would have freaked me out . Mice = embarrassment, rats = terrified
Hello Super Chick. Good to see you again 😊. Do you know...I used to think nobody cared when I had serious depression and maybe they didn't. Somewhat annoyingly, the more confident/happy I've become and the less I need others support, the more I seem to be able to get it 🙄
@@FreeBrunoPowroznik people are weird like that. But it is kinda true I guess. Could be the cynic in me, but I sometimes if people only start caring to bring us down again 😂 Im just rambling lol, it's early. But you're right, the better you feel the less you need others approval.
If someone wouldn't wave back, I'd get angry. How dare they ignore me. Do they think they're better than me? These are all protective measures from feeling rejected. Lol But like you, I'm working on not taking things so personally but these are the thoughts that rush in. 😅
@@cLuStErBMiLkShAkE both views are self centered, just with a different tone, but both about feeling rejected. Your how dar you reject me is my ofc they reject me lol, neither based in reality. Ego is one hell of a monster, and a liar. But we need(ed) it (ID) to survive. Learning now that that kind of survival isn't survival at all, it's just a way to keep people out and ourselves in. AVPD and npd do really seem like 2 sides of the same coin.
Hey, I wanted to let you know that I got rid of FB a few weeks ago. I hope all is well!
Did you deactivated or are you abandoning fb for good? Either way is awesome for mental rest. All is ok, I'm 4 days away from completing the microdosing, so if you're still up for a conversation, I would love some Cluster B Milkshake time ❤
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Wow! You look like super anxiety 80s chick today. I thought I was watching a Wendy and Lisa music vid for a moment there 😁.
Hi. I'm from Sweden and havet benen diagnosen with avpd and dysthimia. I do find it useful just listening to other people talking about situations that I recognize as tricky. I can participate in discussions for the most part but I have a lot of thoughts afterwards. I can't feel confident that I didn't cross any red lines. Even with family it feels odd. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@@eraaspr1 Hi, Sweden is nice. Glad to have you here. I understand the crossing of red lines so well, but never know what an actual red line is. Sometimes everything feels like a red line bc of how people react. Even just asking if they have any vacation plans, I feel like I'm over stepping or just being weird/annoying and the conversation just ends bc I don't know how to continue. I am much more comfortable talking to people during walks, but I guess that's not how society works lol.
@@superanxietychick7035 i guess it varies in different situations about what to say in a particular conversation. I know how to talk about weather and other common things. I think I've learned as I got older. Usually I need extra time to try figure what would be a good answer. Right now I have been writing and deleting over and over, because I don't want to be offensive. I do appreciate to be able to talk to people with the same diagnose I got. Thanks.
Interesting, I'd love to experience quiet mind. That'd be a game changer. Thanks for sharing.
@@49ilovemusic it's been bliss
very interesting
It has been an interesting week for sure. I'm hopeful for rest of the month. What keeps surprising me daily is how all the inner noise just vanished, I should start journaling these moments.
@@superanxietychick7035 absolutely... and, of course, I have to wonder if this could have a similar impact on other PDs... Has your therapist talked about any research on this?
what are your talking about? Anxiety ? Ngl not a good video. 😢
I had to repeat to myself: "This is good, this is you taking care of yourself" every time I did the washing up for a couple of years before it stopped stressing me and actually gave me a sense of pride. In fact, I deliberately didn't buy a dishwasher when I moved in here because I did not want to lose that feeling of pride I get in motivating myself to care for myself 😊
Hi :)
I’m in a spiral and it’s everything I can muster not to overeat or overcaffeinate or drink and sabotage myself, and the only way I manage that is dulling my emotional heights with youtube and constant mental stimulation. I’m completely out of clothes too so I’m going to do laundry and sit back with some movies this afternoon, try and settle down, take that pounding pressure off. It’s preoccupied me too much already past the point of usefulness. I’ve had success reorganizing and paring down my belongings, too. That and cutting my own hair were two initial actions which enabled me coming out of my shell. I hope your goals go well and they’re easier than you imagined!
Thank you. And yes, sometimes I just need to watch stuff on YT that holds my focus or need mental stimulation. Then I feel recharged again the day after. I often felt guilty or even more so shitty for doing so and that thinking would drag me down bc the shame became overwhelming. Now I know that I need it for a few hours and back to business tomorrow. No more guilt or feeling shitty. If I take more than 1 day though, the icky feelings return.
Woohoo! 🎉 I don’t like asking for help either. I have to really need it! 😅
And even then 😂😂😂
Thrilled to see you. Can’t wait to watch. ❤
Great to hear from you💜
Oh, no! Can't believe you didn't get to go to Thailand Super Chick! Such a shame. Good to see you back, though 😊
Hope everything is going well for you atm, Super Chick. Not heard from you in a while
Big thanks for sharing thoughts about avpd. Trying to manage myself in this. Good to hear others struggle and recognize i'm nor the only one. I also struggle wirh dysthimia.
Thailand will be amazing, SuperChick
Thank you. From the looks of it I'm in for a treat. I'm very excited
I used to believe everyone was better than me too. But I do not anymore.
I'm getting there, I think. It still feels uncomfortable thinking about myself or others in a certain way
Thanks for posting
I'm assuming that Care is different than Love. People can care about your wellbeing and hope good things for you. People who follow your journey can care by doing little things like commenting support. Does care have to be a constant? I think that's more of what Love is?
I dont think caring for someone is a buffet to choose when we do or don't when we say we care about someone. I do see it as constant, but that's my view on the world. I dont like thinking about people caring for me, let alone love. Its not about not believing them, it generally makes me uncomfortable to acknowledge it. Is that same for you? Or is like you've said in your earlier videos; we're lying.
@@superanxietychick7035 You’re right about caring on a continuum. I think my lack of emotional permanence was talking. Haha I just don’t remember TO CARE. I have to really think about it.
Thank you for posting
Don't forget to put yourself and your youtube subscribers on your list, Super-Chick 😊. I used to struggle with self-esteem/self-worth. None of the techniques worked because I didn't want self-esteem or confidence. Took me years to realise I had many unconscious negative thoughts and pain attached to people who loved themselves. I hated strong/confident people and did not want to be one. I erroneously associated them with bullies
Urinary track and kidney infections can affect your mood. Ask anyone who works in a nursing home. Maybe when you finally kick the infection, you’ll start on an upswing. My thoughts are with you. ❤
Leah Remini is the bomb! I’ve always found the whole thing fascinating also.
Leah is a Trooper. Nothing but major respect for all those exposing and taking on Scientology
Thanks for posting!
Good to see you back Super-Chick 😊. For procrastination you need the Butt-Kicker 2000 😁
That's exactly what I need 😂
@@superanxietychick7035 I got one to start my car when the batteries flat. I presume it works with people too 😉
Best wishes for 2024. 🎉
I just started the video and wanted to say your skin looks great.
I learned to be more vulnerable and authentic during my recovery journey
I like your hairstyle today
Thanks for posting
This is going to happen multiple times on your journey. Especially during holiday times. The fact you made plans with your friends and are following through with them is testament of how you are sticking to the plan. Well done. You work in a kitchen? Well Marco Pierre White says perfection is made up of little things that are done correctly. Rooting for u from 🇮🇪🙂
Merry Chrimbles Super Chick!!! Glad to hear you had a nice Christmas with your Mum 😊. I've been feeling really good recently, mostly just using all the luvvy duvvy self-talk Paul Gilbert talks about in his videos and book on depression. He reckons just that simple thing of being compassionate to yourself and talking in loving tones, saying supportive stuff to yourself switches off the brain's threat mechanism and reduces anxiety massively. It works really well, shrinks the inner-critic massively and, here's the fun part...suddenly the outer-critic flares up. Happened to me - I've suddenly started calling other people all sorts of horrible things in my head 😉, but easily managing that with thought stopping. Anyway, after about 6 weeks of it I'm feeling all luvvy duvvy donuts now 😁. Reduced my social anxiety MASSIVELY.
Merry Christmas to you too. Glad to hear you found something that works. I dont know Paul Gilbert but will check him out. The inner critic really is a stubborn thing if you don't keep eye on it at all times lol