Super anxiety chick
Super anxiety chick
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AVPD and fear of failure or fear of success?
AVPD and fear of failure or fear of success?
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AVPD and overwhelming shame
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AVPD and overwhelming shame
AVPD and the guilt/doubt of putting up boundaries
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AVPD and the guilt/doubt of putting up boundaries
AVPD and dealing with rejection
มุมมอง 322 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and dealing with rejection
AVPD and being socially awkward
มุมมอง 444 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and being socially awkward
AVPD and alternative medicine
มุมมอง 385 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and alternative medicine
AVPD and taking care of yourself
มุมมอง 326 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and taking care of yourself
AVPD and small vs big steps
มุมมอง 176 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and small vs big steps
AVPD and breaking through glass ceilings
มุมมอง 339 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and breaking through glass ceilings
AVPD and tough therapy questions
มุมมอง 2810 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and tough therapy questions
AVPD and crawling out of the void
มุมมอง 1910 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and crawling out of the void
AVPD and a breakthrough
มุมมอง 4211 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and a breakthrough
AVPD and sliding back into the void
มุมมอง 7811 หลายเดือนก่อน
AVPD and sliding back into the void
Avpd, morning update, more to come
มุมมอง 30ปีที่แล้ว
Avpd, morning update, more to come
AVPD and toxic shame revisited
มุมมอง 54ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and toxic shame revisited
AVPD and boundaries
มุมมอง 33ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and boundaries
AVPD and an update on things
มุมมอง 47ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and an update on things
AVPD and when you first meet us
มุมมอง 48ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and when you first meet us
AVPD and always feeling like we're in trouble
มุมมอง 54ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and always feeling like we're in trouble
AVPD and why I started this channel
มุมมอง 37ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and why I started this channel
AVPD and overthinking
มุมมอง 41ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and overthinking
AVPD and wanting/not wanting attention
มุมมอง 41ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and wanting/not wanting attention
AVPD and why we're not important
มุมมอง 43ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and why we're not important
AVPD and expressing things
มุมมอง 31ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and expressing things
AVPD and a conversation with Cluster B Milkshake
มุมมอง 54ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and a conversation with Cluster B Milkshake
AVPD and being assertive
มุมมอง 33ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and being assertive
AVPD and getting to know your personality
มุมมอง 28ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and getting to know your personality
AVPD and being socially awkward
มุมมอง 39ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and being socially awkward
AVPD and setting intent
มุมมอง 25ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and setting intent
AVPD and that we shall not name
มุมมอง 48ปีที่แล้ว
AVPD and that we shall not name

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  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Aww, that's great that you've taken up the guitar again super-chick 😊. I should say for a beginner, nothing will improve your playing more than stencilling the word NOISE on your guitar and sticking on a picture of Che Guevara 😁

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Super-Chick. They do say if you have mice, you don't have rats

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @FreeBrunoPowroznik Hahaha, good to know. Rats would have freaked me out . Mice = embarrassment, rats = terrified

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello Super Chick. Good to see you again 😊. Do you know...I used to think nobody cared when I had serious depression and maybe they didn't. Somewhat annoyingly, the more confident/happy I've become and the less I need others support, the more I seem to be able to get it 🙄

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FreeBrunoPowroznik people are weird like that. But it is kinda true I guess. Could be the cynic in me, but I sometimes if people only start caring to bring us down again 😂 Im just rambling lol, it's early. But you're right, the better you feel the less you need others approval.

  • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
    @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If someone wouldn't wave back, I'd get angry. How dare they ignore me. Do they think they're better than me? These are all protective measures from feeling rejected. Lol But like you, I'm working on not taking things so personally but these are the thoughts that rush in. 😅

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cLuStErBMiLkShAkE both views are self centered, just with a different tone, but both about feeling rejected. Your how dar you reject me is my ofc they reject me lol, neither based in reality. Ego is one hell of a monster, and a liar. But we need(ed) it (ID) to survive. Learning now that that kind of survival isn't survival at all, it's just a way to keep people out and ourselves in. AVPD and npd do really seem like 2 sides of the same coin.

  • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
    @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey, I wanted to let you know that I got rid of FB a few weeks ago. I hope all is well!

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you deactivated or are you abandoning fb for good? Either way is awesome for mental rest. All is ok, I'm 4 days away from completing the microdosing, so if you're still up for a conversation, I would love some Cluster B Milkshake time ❤

  • @49ilovemusic
    @49ilovemusic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💜

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! You look like super anxiety 80s chick today. I thought I was watching a Wendy and Lisa music vid for a moment there 😁.

  • @eraaspr1
    @eraaspr1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi. I'm from Sweden and havet benen diagnosen with avpd and dysthimia. I do find it useful just listening to other people talking about situations that I recognize as tricky. I can participate in discussions for the most part but I have a lot of thoughts afterwards. I can't feel confident that I didn't cross any red lines. Even with family it feels odd. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eraaspr1 Hi, Sweden is nice. Glad to have you here. I understand the crossing of red lines so well, but never know what an actual red line is. Sometimes everything feels like a red line bc of how people react. Even just asking if they have any vacation plans, I feel like I'm over stepping or just being weird/annoying and the conversation just ends bc I don't know how to continue. I am much more comfortable talking to people during walks, but I guess that's not how society works lol.

    • @eraaspr1
      @eraaspr1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@superanxietychick7035 i guess it varies in different situations about what to say in a particular conversation. I know how to talk about weather and other common things. I think I've learned as I got older. Usually I need extra time to try figure what would be a good answer. Right now I have been writing and deleting over and over, because I don't want to be offensive. I do appreciate to be able to talk to people with the same diagnose I got. Thanks.

  • @49ilovemusic
    @49ilovemusic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting, I'd love to experience quiet mind. That'd be a game changer. Thanks for sharing.

  • @pdquestions7673
    @pdquestions7673 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    very interesting

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It has been an interesting week for sure. I'm hopeful for rest of the month. What keeps surprising me daily is how all the inner noise just vanished, I should start journaling these moments.

    • @pdquestions7673
      @pdquestions7673 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@superanxietychick7035 absolutely... and, of course, I have to wonder if this could have a similar impact on other PDs... Has your therapist talked about any research on this?

  • @Pico_CR
    @Pico_CR 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what are your talking about? Anxiety ? Ngl not a good video. 😢

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to repeat to myself: "This is good, this is you taking care of yourself" every time I did the washing up for a couple of years before it stopped stressing me and actually gave me a sense of pride. In fact, I deliberately didn't buy a dishwasher when I moved in here because I did not want to lose that feeling of pride I get in motivating myself to care for myself 😊

  • @fridgeanon
    @fridgeanon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi :)

  • @electricfishfan
    @electricfishfan 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m in a spiral and it’s everything I can muster not to overeat or overcaffeinate or drink and sabotage myself, and the only way I manage that is dulling my emotional heights with youtube and constant mental stimulation. I’m completely out of clothes too so I’m going to do laundry and sit back with some movies this afternoon, try and settle down, take that pounding pressure off. It’s preoccupied me too much already past the point of usefulness. I’ve had success reorganizing and paring down my belongings, too. That and cutting my own hair were two initial actions which enabled me coming out of my shell. I hope your goals go well and they’re easier than you imagined!

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you. And yes, sometimes I just need to watch stuff on YT that holds my focus or need mental stimulation. Then I feel recharged again the day after. I often felt guilty or even more so shitty for doing so and that thinking would drag me down bc the shame became overwhelming. Now I know that I need it for a few hours and back to business tomorrow. No more guilt or feeling shitty. If I take more than 1 day though, the icky feelings return.

  • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
    @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Woohoo! 🎉 I don’t like asking for help either. I have to really need it! 😅

  • @anxious_and_avoidant
    @anxious_and_avoidant 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thrilled to see you. Can’t wait to watch. ❤

  • @49ilovemusic
    @49ilovemusic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great to hear from you💜

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh, no! Can't believe you didn't get to go to Thailand Super Chick! Such a shame. Good to see you back, though 😊

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hope everything is going well for you atm, Super Chick. Not heard from you in a while

  • @eraaspr1
    @eraaspr1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big thanks for sharing thoughts about avpd. Trying to manage myself in this. Good to hear others struggle and recognize i'm nor the only one. I also struggle wirh dysthimia.

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thailand will be amazing, SuperChick

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you. From the looks of it I'm in for a treat. I'm very excited

  • @SMPfanfiction
    @SMPfanfiction 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I used to believe everyone was better than me too. But I do not anymore.

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm getting there, I think. It still feels uncomfortable thinking about myself or others in a certain way

  • @SMPfanfiction
    @SMPfanfiction 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for posting

  • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
    @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm assuming that Care is different than Love. People can care about your wellbeing and hope good things for you. People who follow your journey can care by doing little things like commenting support. Does care have to be a constant? I think that's more of what Love is?

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I dont think caring for someone is a buffet to choose when we do or don't when we say we care about someone. I do see it as constant, but that's my view on the world. I dont like thinking about people caring for me, let alone love. Its not about not believing them, it generally makes me uncomfortable to acknowledge it. Is that same for you? Or is like you've said in your earlier videos; we're lying.

    • @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE
      @cLuStErBMiLkShAkE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@superanxietychick7035 You’re right about caring on a continuum. I think my lack of emotional permanence was talking. Haha I just don’t remember TO CARE. I have to really think about it.

  • @SMPfanfiction
    @SMPfanfiction 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for posting

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't forget to put yourself and your youtube subscribers on your list, Super-Chick 😊. I used to struggle with self-esteem/self-worth. None of the techniques worked because I didn't want self-esteem or confidence. Took me years to realise I had many unconscious negative thoughts and pain attached to people who loved themselves. I hated strong/confident people and did not want to be one. I erroneously associated them with bullies

  • @InvisibleBorderline
    @InvisibleBorderline 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Urinary track and kidney infections can affect your mood. Ask anyone who works in a nursing home. Maybe when you finally kick the infection, you’ll start on an upswing. My thoughts are with you. ❤

  • @InvisibleBorderline
    @InvisibleBorderline 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Leah Remini is the bomb! I’ve always found the whole thing fascinating also.

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Leah is a Trooper. Nothing but major respect for all those exposing and taking on Scientology

  • @SMPfanfiction
    @SMPfanfiction 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for posting!

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good to see you back Super-Chick 😊. For procrastination you need the Butt-Kicker 2000 😁

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's exactly what I need 😂

    • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
      @FreeBrunoPowroznik 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@superanxietychick7035 I got one to start my car when the batteries flat. I presume it works with people too 😉

  • @dc56789
    @dc56789 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best wishes for 2024. 🎉

  • @InvisibleBorderline
    @InvisibleBorderline 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just started the video and wanted to say your skin looks great.

  • @SMPfanfiction
    @SMPfanfiction 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I learned to be more vulnerable and authentic during my recovery journey

  • @SMPfanfiction
    @SMPfanfiction 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like your hairstyle today

  • @SMPfanfiction
    @SMPfanfiction 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for posting

  • @dc56789
    @dc56789 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is going to happen multiple times on your journey. Especially during holiday times. The fact you made plans with your friends and are following through with them is testament of how you are sticking to the plan. Well done. You work in a kitchen? Well Marco Pierre White says perfection is made up of little things that are done correctly. Rooting for u from 🇮🇪🙂

  • @FreeBrunoPowroznik
    @FreeBrunoPowroznik 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Merry Chrimbles Super Chick!!! Glad to hear you had a nice Christmas with your Mum 😊. I've been feeling really good recently, mostly just using all the luvvy duvvy self-talk Paul Gilbert talks about in his videos and book on depression. He reckons just that simple thing of being compassionate to yourself and talking in loving tones, saying supportive stuff to yourself switches off the brain's threat mechanism and reduces anxiety massively. It works really well, shrinks the inner-critic massively and, here's the fun part...suddenly the outer-critic flares up. Happened to me - I've suddenly started calling other people all sorts of horrible things in my head 😉, but easily managing that with thought stopping. Anyway, after about 6 weeks of it I'm feeling all luvvy duvvy donuts now 😁. Reduced my social anxiety MASSIVELY.

    • @superanxietychick7035
      @superanxietychick7035 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Merry Christmas to you too. Glad to hear you found something that works. I dont know Paul Gilbert but will check him out. The inner critic really is a stubborn thing if you don't keep eye on it at all times lol