Don't forget to put yourself and your youtube subscribers on your list, Super-Chick 😊. I used to struggle with self-esteem/self-worth. None of the techniques worked because I didn't want self-esteem or confidence. Took me years to realise I had many unconscious negative thoughts and pain attached to people who loved themselves. I hated strong/confident people and did not want to be one. I erroneously associated them with bullies
I'm assuming that Care is different than Love. People can care about your wellbeing and hope good things for you. People who follow your journey can care by doing little things like commenting support. Does care have to be a constant? I think that's more of what Love is?
I dont think caring for someone is a buffet to choose when we do or don't when we say we care about someone. I do see it as constant, but that's my view on the world. I dont like thinking about people caring for me, let alone love. Its not about not believing them, it generally makes me uncomfortable to acknowledge it. Is that same for you? Or is like you've said in your earlier videos; we're lying.
@@superanxietychick7035 You’re right about caring on a continuum. I think my lack of emotional permanence was talking. Haha I just don’t remember TO CARE. I have to really think about it.
Don't forget to put yourself and your youtube subscribers on your list, Super-Chick 😊.
I used to struggle with self-esteem/self-worth. None of the techniques worked because I didn't want self-esteem or confidence. Took me years to realise I had many unconscious negative thoughts and pain attached to people who loved themselves. I hated strong/confident people and did not want to be one. I erroneously associated them with bullies
Thank you for posting
I'm assuming that Care is different than Love. People can care about your wellbeing and hope good things for you. People who follow your journey can care by doing little things like commenting support. Does care have to be a constant? I think that's more of what Love is?
I dont think caring for someone is a buffet to choose when we do or don't when we say we care about someone. I do see it as constant, but that's my view on the world.
I dont like thinking about people caring for me, let alone love. Its not about not believing them, it generally makes me uncomfortable to acknowledge it. Is that same for you? Or is like you've said in your earlier videos; we're lying.
@@superanxietychick7035 You’re right about caring on a continuum. I think my lack of emotional permanence was talking. Haha I just don’t remember TO CARE. I have to really think about it.