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Amen, so glad to be free of people's crap. 😊😊😊

I would not say that your wife's non-contributions to the marriage are irrelevant. They are usually more relevant, however, to the asset distribution part of your case. If a spouse makes very little financial and/or non-financial contributions to the marriage, that is something that you will want to bring up when it comes to divide up the assets acquired during the marriage. However, judges are not likely to punish a lazy spouse deeply. More like a little slap. In a community property state, I am not even sure that a spouse's non-contributions matter at all (I am in an equitable distribution state, not a community property state). As for spousal support, judges tend to only look at whether the spouse can support herself. If she cannot, she will probably get spousal support. Why? Because the state doesn't want to support her! Your argument is usually that she should get less support and for a lesser period of time. In other words, you are looking at "how much and how long" versus a "yes or no" to spousal support. Of course, check your particular state's laws for the details on this. Some state's are more willing to cut a spouse off then others (mine, Virginia, is not one of those states). Always remember: No matter what your attorney tells you, you cannot right the wrongs of the marriage in the divorce. It just doesn't work that way. A good analogy to having to pay spousal support to the lazy spouse is this: if you spoil your child rotten, that child will probably grow up to have a lot of problems that you are stuck dealing with. You can ignore your adult kid and his or her problems, but you will probably have to deal with a broken heart for the rest of your life. It is similar in a marriage. If your spouse refuses to contribute to the marriage (financially and/or non-financially), you need to cut ties earlier rather than later. The longer it goes on, the more it will ruin your financial future. Your best bet, if available in your state, is often to invoke the doctrine of "imputation". Imputation means that you ask that your wife be looked at as being voluntarily underemployed or unemployed PLUS you prove that she could earn money if she tried. This is usually done, in court, by hiring a vocational expert (more money that you have to pay!). Imputation means that you would ask that your spouse be viewed as person who makes $X.00, versus a person who makes $0.00. Of course, as always, check your own state's laws. Sadly, however, many people wait until their spouse has many years not working before they move forward with a divorce. This is often at the point of no return. In other words, if your spouse has just been out of the work force too long to be hirable (think technology advancing a lightening speed while your spouse laid on the couch and watched TV) and, often times, these spouses are more than willing to testify to all the many, many problems that they have that prevent them from working (whether real or false). Many people will do just about anything to not work. If that if your situation, I wish you luck.

You get to that time when you say, “Ok here is half the stuff”. What about spousal support for a stay at home wife who really didn’t hold up her side of the bargain (me provider, her homemaker)? House always a wreck, no dinners, etc. I’ve spent years both working and doing most of the housekeeping while wifey sat around doing nothing all day. I assume all that is irrelevant in a court.

Money. That's usually why. There, I cut 2 the chase. Men in Western countries, DONT get married in Western countries. Instead, move permanently 2 non Western countries 4 romance & marriage, much better success rate. Don't just take my word 4 it. Look up the term Passport Brothers here. NEVER bring non Western women back 2 Western countries. EVER

They want a divorce because she is tired of being a slave. We are not valued as a person. Men stink.

I'm the only one on the mortgage. Wife has left. Don't want to sell the house. How else can I keep the house besides buying her out with a whole lump sum?

The solution for men is don’t get married. That way you won’t lose half your stuff when the female reaches her expiration date. 😎

Excellent-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him).

It’s time to realize humans are selfish creatures 😊

Im in California... My house is separate property but the judge says my husband is entitled to half appraisal differences. I was ordered to get an appraisal for the year we were married and a current appraisal and subtract the smaller from the larger and he gets half.

I want to be loved!

I am coming up on mediation with my husband whom I consider a narcissist. What should I or my lawyer look forward to?

Im in NC. Can u represent me? I have been with my husband since i was 17. Im 56 now and now, he wants a divorce. His Mom is still alive and she kives on the farm i have helped take care of and made moneyvon the farm. Now, he said it is not mine. How can i not be entitled when i help on the farm, for free.

We have had one meeting with a mediator. At that time my stbx husband was talking about marriage counseling but had taken a $150K 2-year lease on an apartment. He wanted the divorce - and I think it could have been because he really wanted to live in an active senior apartment and I didn't. But he started talking about getting rid of the car that I normally drive and then he started complaining about how I do things. I have done things the way I do them now for the entire marriage. I wanted to get a post-nuptial agreement to protect myself from his financial choices. We are in our early 70s, 22 year marriage no kids in common. He has been someone that I have always been able to trust until he took out the lease which is three times the average cost of an apartment the same size in that city. I was surprised that he wanted a divorce, he has always been kind and in my corner. We are a blended family, our adult kids are from our first marriages. He called me to go on dates, talked about it like it was a date. But then he talked about how we needed to reconcile in order to get back together, but I'm not sure what I can change on my end. He seems to disagree more often than he used to with me. He was giving away our furniture, and paying to have it hauled to the dump. He gave away all of his tools. His kids don't know what is happening financially I don't think, but they will inherit very little when it is all over. All I can do is try to protect myself financially. He says that he is not concerned about financial security, he is more concerned about lifestyle. Honestly, his apartment is tiny with two bathrooms. It has no air conditioning except for a free standing air conditioning unit. The halls look like a hospital, but this is an active senior apartment. He has no friends or family in the city, and he tells me that he is the youngest person there. I think that I would like to finish our division of assets as a post-nuptial agreement with the assumption that will lay the framework for either a separation or divorce - more options. I'm still trying to ramp up on how to do finances. I would be OK with selling our house IF it made sense financially - but I don't think it does. The home is too large for one person, but the financing makes it more affordable than buying a small home. The maintenance on the home is fairly easy because it has a small yard and the neighborhood is safe. I would have been willing to move to a smaller home years ago, but my husband said that it would cost more to live in a smaller home. Our climate is moderate, we don't use air conditioning - and it is fine. The winter sometimes has snow, and that only lasts a couple of days - with just a couple of inches at most. We are in good health, and based on his parents longevity, he will live to be 100, and I think that I will too. So my largest concern is preserving our savings to support us for 30 years. While there are no guarantees, I feel that we need to be as cautious as possible. At his current rate of spending on rent, you could buy a nicer new car every 3 months.

They divorce because the courts favor them and they get to grape the husband for cash and prizes. The rest is hogwash. Women live miney and their "happiness" over everything else...yes even their children.

Mam, you cannot fix "crazy". If they want out, let them!!! Youll be doing a favor to us men. 😅😊❤😊

The real question is why men stay with them for so long?

Why should child support cover the cost of a house and those utilities when a honeymoon is already available by the paying parent? Honestly, it’s no wonder there is a birth rate crisis.

Society has been set up for women to win. She has more advantages now than in any previous generation so marriage serves no purpose for her. She has the full support of the legal system and court system plus the police department so she is playing a rigged game. At any time, once she is no longer happy or the marriage offers enough for her to get out, many do.

What about if in a long unmarried relationship with shared property to divide

If your a man, be prepared to lose 80% in divorce. If your a woman, marry the richest guy you can get.

A stay at home mother will get the house, land, children, alimony, furniture,, child support, 1/2 401k, and the dog. The credit card debt will go to the man at 100%. I know this because I lived it. Family court is not going to be fair to the man . Equitable means " goes to the mother".

My grandmother always said that having her own clean bathroom was better than having a man. That's the standard that I live by, he must be better than being alone. We don't want to cook and clean up after yall.

That is crazy

It's not Your money. Smh. #stayignorant

Maybe you ahould listen to your clients. Women are sick of veing used as appliances by their husbands. Stop trying to encourage women to remain in shitty marriages.

Oooh freedom! So marriage is a form of slavish investment for women. Got it. This is why marriage is a scam for men. You spend a lifetime working hard to provide and protect, thinking your wife loves you and will continue to love you. She never really loved you. She loved your hard work that provided her an easy life. Now that there's equity in the marriage it's time to cash out. This is cold. Please guys don't marry these women.

My wife wants half the flat I bought before marriage and she is determined to get it. What advice would you give me. Thanks Ray

Hi… I’m disabled and my husband is a self admitting narcissist. Like I have audio of him admitting it and proof of abuse. We were living in my daughter’s house because I am disabled. She needs the house back so we have to leave. Should I put my name on my husbands house ( he agreed to) and will this give me any security?

Nice. I never got a reason.

How about if my alcoholic husband inherits a home from his father then my husband puts me on the deed with him? Is it now my home too? Can I potentially acquire that home in a divorce? From Florida

What about one spouse pays all the bills and the other refuses to help out. Both work husband pays it all and wife spends her own money and refuses to jointly save money?

#4 She heading to the streets! 304

So your part of the problem! This why men in western countries are not getting married! Repeal the 19th amendment!

How can I send you a settlement agreement for your opinion?

I think that you can get over dividing assets unfairly (and 50% /50% often times is not fair). If you have to pay alimony or spousal support to your ex who did not want to get a job, so she continues to be a parasite and live of your income is devastating.

It's basically taking the money and running.they want sit in their own house and just have the money roll in,and not deal with a husband anymore.

We bought some property and built a garage he was the cheater our whole marriage. I want to sell the property and split it 50/50. He wants to keep it and give me 500 a month ?

What happens when the spouse was involved in an accident about 7 years ago...and now the settlement of about $30,000 appears to be distributed to my wife. However, she says that I cannot have any of these funds, even though I was the one paying the car insurance during our marriage. Am I able to get any of these funds?

In summary,,, don’t marry an American girl boss,,, go overseas to find a Wife!!!!

"Men sacrifice their happiness for their family. Women sacrifice their families for their happiness." - my dad

Thank you so much for your content! I’m going to divorce mediate soon, I have a child that I had to help to overcome a developmental condition for the past years and had to postpone my career to be the main care giver and therapist. Been married 11 years and under FL law I can request moderate alimony. Can you make a video of ways to negotiate alimony if you are the obligee? 🙏🏻

I live in Australian I think it's like 75% to women and 30%for the man experienced that myself

A women dosent think twise about it because she knows that she can replace her partner husband who ever as quick as a flash ,just because a woman can

Hi! I’m Randall J. Borden, a legal advocate with over 30 years of experience, and I'm excited to reach out to you. We're launching a legal podcast series, and I believe your insights would be invaluable. I'd be honored to have you join me for a dialogue on legal matters. Your expertise would greatly enrich our content. Would you be interested in collaborating? Let me know your thoughts.

If she can court robbed you. She will.

TIERED IN GENERAL ….WITH LIFE …..I DO NOT HAVE MUCH ENERGY …..I DO NOT WANT TO TALK IT OUT EITHER ….EMOTIONAL SUPPORT IS A HUGE ONE INDEED ….COULD CARE LESS ABOUT MONEY ….JUST WANT TO WAKE UP ALONE AND DO ONLY THINGS THAT I LIKE FOR MYSELF ONLY ….REMARY IS A NO SEX IS A NO …

Make sure you get some of the pie so you can get yourself a nice hot gal no need to keep up a old hag

Divorce only benefits women!!! Today's women are impossible to get along with!😮

I’ve told my wife she’s free to leave anytime she wants😂