Should I Save My Marriage?

How will you know if you should save your marriage or not? I recommend you take a look at these 7 elements for a happy marriage. If you can check most of these boxes, get some marriage therapy right away and save your marriage. If not, you will want to consider moving on from your spouse.
Here are the 7 elements for a happy marriage:
1. SPEND TIME TOGETHER. Do you enjoy spending time together? Do you enjoy being around this person? If it is simply annoying to be with your spouse, it's probably not going to work.
2. TRUST EACH OTHER. Do you trust each other? If you don’t trust each other, you’re going nowhere.
3. SHARE CORE VALUES. Do you share core values? You need to have most of your value system line up or it will be difficult to navigate a marriage (but not necessarily impossible).
4. SIMILAR CONFLICT RESOLUTION STYLE. Do you have similar conflict resolution styles? If the two of you can come to terms with the method of resolving your conflicts in a productive, rational, respective way, that could very well be your key ingredient for a happy marriage.
5. RESPECT EACH OTHER. Do you respect each other? You cannot have a happy marriage if you don’t respect each other. You don’t need to worship your partner, but you both need to think that you are worthy of each other’s respect.
6. SUPPORT EACH OTHER. Do you support each other? If you don’t feel supported, or if you don’t have a desire to support your spouse, you have big problems in your marriage.
7. IS THERE A PHYSICAL SPARK? There’s got to be something going on between the two of you. If not, extramarital affairs are often the result.
Whether you stay married or get divorced, you deserve to be happy.
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[@neohermitist]

1. SPEND TIME TOGETHER. Do you enjoy spending time together? - NO
2. TRUST EACH OTHER. Do you trust each other? - NO (or rather I trust her to be a lazy person)
3. SHARE CORE VALUES. Do you share core values? YES
4. SIMILAR CONFLICT RESOLUTION STYLE. Do you have similar conflict resolution styles? MAYBE (but we have unresolvable conflict)
5. RESPECT EACH OTHER. Do you respect each other? NO (this one really pisses me off because I go the extra mile but she still doesn't respect me).
6. SUPPORT EACH OTHER. Do you support each other? Her NO, Me YES
7. IS THERE A PHYSICAL SPARK? NO (however I do make a lot of effort to pleasure her which she doesn't seem to appreciate).

[@GraineMediation]

Sounds like this is the end. Sorry.

[@neohermitist]

@@GraineMediation Yes, probably, but this will make a good list to go over before marriage counseling as key stuff to work on.