Yoga & You: How to choose your Life-Partner? | Dr. Hansaji Yogendra
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.พ. 2019
- It is the month of February, where we celebrate relationship and love. Watch how Maa Dr. Hansaji beautifully encapsulates what are the things we should keep in mind when we choose our life partner, so that one leads a happy and satisfied life.
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Only a strong women will look for a strong man. So first of all make urself a strong, stable and confident person then look for a match. 😊
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Podi munda
Same thing applies to you girls as well. You sounded like it’s only the boy’s responsibility
Very true
Very wise words
Very good video. In my opinion there are two aspects to a successful relationship-
1. Chemistry - This deals with emotional aspects such as do you like the person, are you attracted to them, can you trust them, do you feel comfortable around them.
2. Compatibility - This deals with logical aspects such as are your career goals compatible, are your lifestyles similar, food habits, socioeconomic standing etc.
When parents choose a partner they give full importance to compatibility without considering chemistry. When someone chooses a partner himself he often bases his decision on chemistry without considering compatibility. That's why both love and arranged marriages fail. You need both the factors to be considered properly for a successful marriage.
I fully support your views. Married for 40 plus years. No chemistry or compatibility. Dysfunctional family!!
Well said
wow! Well said. Never thought from this perspective. I think every parents should talk to their children on this aspect of life. It would definitely help younger generation choose their partners wisely.
I completely agree with your view sir
Soo true, so that means it's best to enjoy your life being and invest on yourself . Because there is nothing such as right person or perfect partner. It's all about your chemistry and compatability with that person.
Whenever I watch your videos, I feel like mother is passing her wisdom to daughter. Thank you
Want a right person? Be the right one first.
U guys are really ego
Well said. When one is self sufficient to stand in her strength. She magnetises the right partner to her. You don't need to search for one such person. Universe will bring that person to you.
Im on the left
thats what i thought..... if you want something you should start with yourself first.. happiness respect love everything
It's like if u don't eat the lion then it's not going to eat you.
Whatever u hv said sounds good in theory only, sometimes ppl get lucky but reality doesn't work that way & no, i m not judging this on the basis of my experience only.
1. Self-sufficient
2. Health Conscious - Mentally , Physically
3. Hobbies
4 . Faith, confidence, positive
For both men and women
Be flexible and understanding in relationship. Give commitment only when you r ready.
Yes 100%
Right
Perfect lines .....
And you summarised the video
Marriage is a big thing
Marriage Is a life time project of commitment and responsibility...love is actually a reaction when you grow bond to one other...
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Exactly!
Exactly
1. whether a person is self sufficient
2. is he health conscious
3. what is he doing for free time ( social life )
4. faith in himself - confidence , self dependent
1.self sufficient (earning financial stable or caple
2 health concious
3pasinate about life
4confidenfence,faithfullness, practicle
Adjustment,mutual bonding ,commitment,focusing on what is good for u not wht u like
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Get to know each other before you get married is most important and being honest with yourself and each other because sometimes you don't know the person until you live with them
For all women. Love yourself. Respect yourself. Be strong. Be a better person each day. Work hard. Make your parents proud of you. Make yourself proud of the person you are becoming. You will attract the right person for you who is strong and amazing as you are and both of you will work equally to make the relationship work. Until then, work on yourself and enjoy each moment of your life... You don't know how long you'll live so be grateful for the life that you have. Prioritise your mental and physical health..do something that you love and just be happy from within.🙏 And do not rush to find the one for you. You will get into a marriage that's wrong for you and lose your peace of mind for life.
Good advice
🤝🤝🤝
Super advice
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@@umeshdave619 Then pay her some money, if that advice is really worth to you...
I don't think delaying marriage changes anything, delaying won't give birth to new guys the right guy is already there, just need to accelerate search.
People also loose peace of mind when they have issues in fertilisation & birth complications as they get old.
It's dumb to chasing jargons.
Life will have its ups and downs, so I make sure that I will find a life partner who makes me laugh.
A girl can also be self sufficient rather then depending on her husband
she meant in general.. all 4 qualities for both men and women:)
Its ok if a girl depends on her husband ! But she should be capable of being self sufficient in case she becomes single for any reason.
its not just that wives depend on husbands, husbands also depend on wives.... dependency is not just financial its emotional or in terms of responsibilties too.... marriage is a partnership, you need both players to perform for the best results, else we may loose the match.. :D :D
@@shariquemohammad1215 exactly
But most of the girls realise this after their marriage
Every points are really practical and sensible, which completely relate to my thought process. Thanks madam, you are such a great advisor. 🙂✌
A conversations from two elegant ladies is thoughtful. It opens the perspective of looking at life in profound way. Appreciate your effort in making this video.
Dr Hansaji..... We love you and we are extremely fortunate to have you amongst us. Giving us advices which our elders did give us, however the affectionate tone of yours melts our heart. And makes us rethink of our egotistic decisions. You are a gem. Jazakallahu khairah Hansaji
God bless you Grandma, you're great person
Really loved the way she explained the things, hope everyone gets right person for a beautiful life 👍
1. Self sufficient/earning - both parties
2. Health conscious- both parties
3. What do they do in their free time? Workaholic? Hobbies? Family time? Volunteers?
4. Faith in a higher power? In themselves? Not specifically religious.
These are the 4 important things so far.
I'm so happy for watch this channel because I want to increase my spoken English skills and there is a channel Will be helpful my English skills. Thanks for helping our career....
You are amazing, Mam! Lots of respect and love! Thank you for sharing your insight in such an amazing way! 🙏🏻
Amazing... Really all people must listen to this before they decide to partner up
...it seems like more than 50% people on planet doesn't fit to eligibility criteria for marriage itself 😂
😅 fucking shit was just thinking that only, single hi Maru ga mein, haha!
Esa kuch nai hota
That's why they shouldn't marry. It shouldn't be a compulsory thing
😂😂😂
If we don't wanna adjust little bit then yeah even 50% is high
Very true. I have seen examples of people who are completely devoted or they show they are religious and have bad thinking and darkness in them which they try to hide by showing how religious they are. I think mind and heart should be pure as well as one’s actions.
Yes, adjustments are necessary . Both hv to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too . Expecting only from girl is unfair .
Aap hamari aukat dekhogi to hum bhi aapki aukat dekhenge....... it's gender equality
Both way trust and faith is very important
@@ranjitassi990 👍 yes i agree . To make both the arranged and love marriages work it is necessary that the girl and the boy as well as their families respect each other and help the couple in solving any disputes between the two as they are still immature and not worldly wise . Today marriages are not surviving because of lack of above .
@@manjushamishra5849 totally agree 💯
Yes adjustments are necessary.both have to understand each other and also try to respect each other's family too. Expecting only from girl is unfair.
Madam u forgot to say first main point...he/she must respect each other...Trust nd respect plays a vital role before everything....Since I saw my family where they do all this practically but inside in heart they don't respect nd love each other😕
Exactly. Love is the first step for a happy family and have their own space to enjoy life...
Aap ladke ki aukat dekhogi to vo aapka respect q karega......tit for tat
You r 💯 correct... Trust n respect do a vital role.
Loved this, got this vid at the perfect time🙏
Lv u Mam the way u explain everythg in such a sweet way, u have a very calm personality, stay blessed.
Regards.
Miss.Shafaq Malik
Dr. Hanshaji, Really 100% True
That felt like listening to my mom.
Marriage needs good team work to be successful. So the team has to be picked carefully with clear awareness of roles and responsibilities along with regular maintenance of the team through healthy communication between the partners.
I m blessed because my parents have all these qualities...and i raised by them ❤
Thank you ma'am, it's very wonderful session.
enjoying learning about Indian culture 🤎
Self sufficient, Health conscious, Good hobbies in free time, Confidence: A man would be really lucky if a woman is looking at only these 4 things. But unfortunately thats not the case in reality.
Amazing,life is beautifull just for those who know how to live!
I understand pal
Very good opinion mam
I recognise your all points
I change myself to get all this points.
Both must be all-around education for development ..Thank you
Mam You exactly explained what I expect...... I thout that I'm Overthinking about marriage but I was right☺☺☺
She just gave a female oriented answer, same applicable for men to choose, and they should make sure they are not bringing some toxic women (Mudevi) in to your home....
Luv this!! Thank you.❤🙏🙏
really beautiful piece of advice
Wonderful Advice!
You're a wise woman, filled with wisdom.
Best advice ever
Chose what n whom u love..rest all can be achieved with love
Relationship are business according to this video
Marriage is match between imperfect peoples to make their lives perfect by helping each others
Relationship should be like friendship it should not be materialistic
Exactly bro.....
I think praveen ji become angry seeing video becoz couple are equally capable to decide everything...ofcourse men are men ...ego hurt ..
It's just an idea for choosing somebody! You are seeking a advice from this video after committed with one partner! That's y you couldn't agree 👍
Everyone has their own thoughts and view points ,if I agree or not agree it won't change the outcome of someones life. I saw this video and expressed my thought, if u get too much attached to only one particular standard of living then what about the ups and downs in life u,me and all of us here, have to face in life
Bro even friendships develops depending on having same frequency, same hobbies, similar likes, compatible personalities.
It's how human relations works
Thank you so much
Well said Madam 😊
I am following these advices with great believe ...i hope i can find my right man
Thankyou so much maam. It was so inspiring and learnt several realities in the world
This! Thanks you Dr. Hansaji ❤️
best advice ever ☺️☺️☺️
Life is wonderful ❤️
Beautifully described.
Awesome madam........100% practical words u said wic really make life happier.........i found this channel more informative towards life in positive way...thank u so much.....................
According to You.. I’ve found my Soulmate. Even though he is 19 years Older than I am, he is the one. I Do Love him and He Loves Me. Thank You. 🤗❤️🙏🏽
But 19 years is huge age gap, mam. Think twice before proceeding. Sry if it hurts u
@@keerthipriya196 rightly said!
@@therapist_theminus 👍
@@keerthipriya196 Fake account, fake story
This is very helpful now as I search for a life partner. Thank you!
Thank u mam a priceless advice still my thoughts are cleared what i want in my life a big big thanks mam God bless you. Such a model woman u r for all women.
Wow.... Her mindset is wonderful
👏🏻🌹💚Very beautiful speech💙🌹👍
Your all words becomes the pillar of my strength... Thank you for showing a right path to all of us...
Thankyou so much mam, it was really needed.
Yeah. Certainly needed for everyone but can't applicable in arrange mrg bcz before mrg we even don't get know a single thing about boys or girls.
Nd we Sanskari youth never try to find any girl friend bcz it is considered a curse or sin.
So what to do
Very good video. If TH-cam and phones are influenced during 2010-11 . I would have choose better one. Now there is no option.. Have to move on. Any how, it's useful for young generation. ☺ 🙏
All the points mentioned in this video are extremely good and this is exactly how people should choose their partners. And this is exactly how I think. Otherwise, if the person has none of these qualities - then it is better not to be in such a bad relationship...after all it's your life - move on...
And First of all be a good, confident, self-sufficient, independent, intelligent person yourself - only then marry, else before that I think it's better not to marry.
And I am interested in both travelling and yoga......
Thank you ❤🙏mem for your valuable suggestions
Wonderful Speech 🙏🏻❤️💐
Thank you very very very much ma'am 🙏
I'm greatful to find this channel..
Wonderful advice Hansa Madam ,🙏
Nice stuff
I love the video..
now i understand y it's better to be a recluse....no contact with ppl,no commitments,no adjustments and hence no scope of exploitation.
True there is no social life like a dog or cat in the house
Gratitude 🙏🏻🌿😇🌺
Thank you
Lovely .how true
Thank you ❤️
so nice mam tq so much
amazing
Great points to consider when dating and considering someone for your soulmate.
I hv given up on this question years ago & not interested anymore. Things r difficult but learning to manage. Given up on physical relationship & emotional attachment too. Don't want to be a beggar anymore. Masturbation & dwelling in the past, creating ur own realm is not healthy but it's far better than dealing with fake ppl in life. Money is d only thing important in my life now while actually it was of least importance once.
Nobody gives a damn abt how good, honest, handsome(hritik roshan), loyal, hardworking, entertaining you r & sometimes rich (bill gates) too.
Very inspiring
Thanks Hansaji!!!
Superb and interesting mam
Mam good knowledge thanks ,
Thank u mam
Dr handsaji can you make a video of if marriage is essential or necessary?
Well said maam
Amazing words,🙏🙏🙏 watching from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
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Thank you❤🌹🙏
Thankyou mam
Thank you 👍🏻👏👏
Yes just live in reality, practically
Seriously, this power is in the hands of parents,only Fantasy talks
😂😂 true
Useful...msg tq
Super mam u r absolutely rit
Nothing is permanent. A person who is good today may change and vice versa.
Yup...this is what I was thinking
She explained the trio in person which is looks (Health) + Education (Job etc.) + Nature (Personality & Social aspect). It's hard to find all 3 in one person, especially in girls.
Over all @9.15 made some sense!
Very nice
I liked what she said about divorce