I had to cut people and my ex out of my life because I lost myself and peace in they life but now I found peace and I'm on my journey to becoming a woman who knows what she is worth thank you Trent keep up the good work 💞💞💞
I'm saying No! to a 20 yr. Marriage that I had to carry on my back the entire time! Working raising kids and paying bills, he was always present but everything was at his convenience! He always got the new car, he always paid the cheapest bills like water and gas just always doing the bare minimum then tried to make me feel like I was being ungrateful when I asked him to do a little more to help me! No more toting him through life on my back, plus he was a cheater! I'm saying No to him and yes to me!!!
wow I feel you i pay the rent, water, hydro, phone bill, insurance, internet, groceries, take care of the kids and when they would get paid it was $20. But they expected me to give them money or buy them things whenever they wanted.
I’m not overlooking what you have invested, or what you are investing. But that last sentence and a half is all the reason you need. Regardless of everything else you do, or don’t do. That last part is still all the reason you need. Hang your hat on it and don’t look back.
I see a situation unfolding where I’m going to be asked for help “again” when I know in the end my help won’t be appreciated… actually I’ll be kick in my teeth. And until you brought me this truth I was considering twisting myself into a pretzel to help when I know the outcome. It stops today! Thank you son.
AMEN!!!! Thanks again for speaking truth into my spirit!!! 🌟🔥🌟🔥🌟 "There is no change I can make in myself for them when they are committed to misunderstanding, using and taking advantage of me! I will no longer lose myself trying to please them!" I needed that reminder!!! Protecting my peace!
Bruh you are truly talking to my mind, heart and soul. This is nothing but of God. And I pray God help me do everything you are saying for myself. Help me holy spirit and deliver from it all 💙🙏🙌😇💯
You are like Harriet Tubman… bringing folks to personal and emotional freedom. The journey is fraught with unknowns, dangers and fear. Your mother was right about you… thank you for being a beacon and for sharing your gifts. God bless you and continue to bless you.
Young man, you are so blessed. Thank you for your share . I have a man who is breaking my heart … it does feel like I give, give. and give. And, he doesn’t.
I had to let my husband go all he was doing lie see other women in the church and out the church so to make me happy I said boy bye I'm better than that after 10years no feel like life came back to my life thank you for the words I hope everyone else listen to it
Sometimes when I can’t catch the lives I always go back and re-camp👍🏽 and this is the soul Food I need first thing this morning because WE have to always remind ourselves to not allow people to miss treats you💯.STAND UP FOR SELF💪🏽
I've shared this because I can't take someone in anymore due to my empathetic nature because they fuked their life up and their circumstances says she can build me back up no I can't I've been beaten down for far too long I'm thinking I can't even date men anymore I'm so disappointed on the type of men the quality that has been in my life
I say NO to family court, I say NO to family members that hurt me, I say NO to friendships that are one sided, I say NO to anything that tries to destroy my peace. I will conquer everything that is in my way to become happy and bringing in generational wealth. God has my back and only he can judge me.
I've been that way my whole life, worrying about everyone else happiness, being everyone else answer when I'm just now realizing this whole time I been neglecting myself. Self love, an learning who you are is important to your soul. Love you, choose you!
Amen 🙌🏽 🙏🏼 saying No and YES to me and my peace .No more chasing and I am attracting what brings me to my best self ,peace and abundance .I had to cut all toxicity out of my life. The best decision ever,it was hard at first but i would rather be alone at peace than go back to that 💯.I deserve better.
One sided friends/family/loves/agencies... when a natural disaster hit, and ppl found ways to NOT help when my circumstances were dire, & I just really needed help...OH MAN, I saw/felt this clearly. Done. No more pleasing or chasing. Trent nothing made it through that disaster but (functional) love. Now I am surrounded
I walked away from a 15 year relationship, 2 years married, and I would like to say Im not going to pretend that I don't cry and it doesn't hurt but realizing how that person never considered my emotions and continued to do the things that hurt me, I knew it was time and I am leaning on God and getting myself together and taking care of our children the best I can. Everything that hurts is meant for God's grace to empower.
straight up thank you Trent I have the signs I just need the strength to change things while I'm getting to know my worth day by day ...Amen blessings to you and everyone struggling ❤
What I want/need is not what I have n my life rn and it has to stop. The more I give, he takes, the more I express what bothers me, he does just that. I'm tired of keeping peace whn the pain from the results is weighing me dwn. I needed this. Thnk u❤
Trent, you are so right!! I have been walking on eggshells for several years in my marriage. I am no longer going to choose their peace over mine!! Thank you for speaking the truth!! #straightup♥️
I'm in a relationship of 40 years and it's a mess and I don't think I can find the ster ngth to try anymore I said I would not give up. But I'm only one trying it's draining my body and soul all my self asthma is not there anymore I have to go get my body and soul and mind back!!! Thank You and God so much Sandy
I've spent for my children by myself which I can prove because I've been with the same bank for 12 yrs. But somehow they have convinced everyone I do nothing for my kids. I recently tried to take a loan to better the life of my family they took my money and after that I asked for my money back. Now its a problem but now I gotta suffer that on my own. Bad mistake I'm dealing with on my own. I took a risk I shouldn't have which put me back but thats ok.
I am saying full no to condescending energy or people who see me as a competition or are jeloua of me instead dof celebrating me and building my up so we can both rise. I am done with caring what people think...I care what I think ❤
Stop trying to see the "good" in a person and start seeing the "truth" in them... That includes relationships, jobs etc - I felt that
I would rather be alone than stay in a situation where I feel alone... Facts
I’m feeling it…
No more gaslighting myself to keep the peace 💯🙏
I'M STILL WITH YA KING
I had to cut people and my ex out of my life because I lost myself and peace in they life but now I found peace and I'm on my journey to becoming a woman who knows what she is worth thank you Trent keep up the good work 💞💞💞
I'm saying No! to a 20 yr. Marriage that I had to carry on my back the entire time! Working raising kids and paying bills, he was always present but everything was at his convenience! He always got the new car, he always paid the cheapest bills like water and gas just always doing the bare minimum then tried to make me feel like I was being ungrateful when I asked him to do a little more to help me! No more toting him through life on my back, plus he was a cheater! I'm saying No to him and yes to me!!!
Mine is 24 and he has no left me with nothing
wow I feel you i pay the rent, water, hydro, phone bill, insurance, internet, groceries, take care of the kids and when they would get paid it was $20. But they expected me to give them money or buy them things whenever they wanted.
🙏✨🦋✨🙏🌈
I’m not overlooking what you have invested, or what you are investing. But that last sentence and a half is all the reason you need. Regardless of everything else you do, or don’t do. That last part is still all the reason you need. Hang your hat on it and don’t look back.
Love is trustworthy, commitment, loyalty, and responsibilities. 💙💯🙏🤝😇✌️
Nothing but facts!!
I say no to my 8 years relationship that had been very toxic
Chasing all the wrong things when we don't have to chase anything when we have everything we need inside us
Nothing but the truth
No more.
I am important 💜💛
I am worthy ❤️
I see a situation unfolding where I’m going to be asked for help “again” when I know in the end my help won’t be appreciated… actually I’ll be kick in my teeth. And until you brought me this truth I was considering twisting myself into a pretzel to help when I know the outcome. It stops today! Thank you son.
You said it once before a TRENT✔️don’t let your history be your misery💯🤦🏽♀️💯
Lord where would we be without the great Trent Shelton's wisdom and direction, got this bless up Trent Shelton and family.
The title is perfect. Thats it
SHARED Straight up!
I’m in tears but you speak the truth! ❤❤❤ you give me strength and pull me up
Say no to the people places and things that will risk my recovery
Amen to that
Amen Trent you have hit me tonight cause I have been doing this💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Amen!!! I’m tired of staying silent 🤫 I have to stop choosing everyone else’s peace over mine. I have to start protecting my heart and peace ❤️
AMEN, AMEN!! THANK YOU TRENT!! I will have a new life from this day on. Thank you JESUS!
AMEN!!!!
Thanks again for speaking truth into my spirit!!! 🌟🔥🌟🔥🌟
"There is no change I can make in myself for them when they are committed to misunderstanding, using and taking advantage of me! I will no longer lose myself trying to please them!"
I needed that reminder!!!
Protecting my peace!
Thank you! ❤♍
Bruh you are truly talking to my mind, heart and soul. This is nothing but of God. And I pray God help me do everything you are saying for myself. Help me holy spirit and deliver from it all 💙🙏🙌😇💯
Yes. Say no to one-sided relationships!!!
Feel u💯💯💪🏽💪🏽
You are like Harriet Tubman… bringing folks to personal and emotional freedom. The journey is fraught with unknowns, dangers and fear. Your mother was right about you… thank you for being a beacon and for sharing your gifts. God bless you and continue to bless you.
Young man, you are so blessed. Thank you for your share . I have a man who is breaking my heart … it does feel like I give, give. and give. And, he doesn’t.
I had to let my husband go all he was doing lie see other women in the church and out the church so to make me happy I said boy bye I'm better than that after 10years no feel like life came back to my life thank you for the words I hope everyone else listen to it
STRAIGHT UP!! ❤
That is true brother,Accesse denied for second chance.I am no more anybody's fool. I love myself as JESUS loved me.thank you.
Thanks for doing your thing 👍
Sometimes when I can’t catch the lives I always go back and re-camp👍🏽 and this is the soul Food I need first thing this morning because WE have to always remind ourselves to not allow people to miss treats you💯.STAND UP FOR SELF💪🏽
THE POWER OF NO ......................
I've shared this because I can't take someone in anymore due to my empathetic nature because they fuked their life up and their circumstances says she can build me back up no I can't I've been beaten down for far too long I'm thinking I can't even date men anymore I'm so disappointed on the type of men the quality that has been in my life
Needed to hear this.
This just resonates to the tee
I so feel this
Trent - thank you!!
For years I thought it was just me living this way. I'm grateful for you - truly thank you!
I LOVE THIS!!!!
No more choosing their peace over my peace!!! Done deal!!!
I say NO to family court, I say NO to family members that hurt me, I say NO to friendships that are one sided, I say NO to anything that tries to destroy my peace. I will conquer everything that is in my way to become happy and bringing in generational wealth.
God has my back and only he can judge me.
Going through that right now 💯
Straight up 💯💯💯
I've been that way my whole life, worrying about everyone else happiness, being everyone else answer when I'm just now realizing this whole time I been neglecting myself. Self love, an learning who you are is important to your soul. Love you, choose you!
Amen 🙌🏽 🙏🏼 saying No and YES to me and my peace .No more chasing and I am attracting what brings me to my best self ,peace and abundance .I had to cut all toxicity out of my life. The best decision ever,it was hard at first but i would rather be alone at peace than go back to that 💯.I deserve better.
We gotta hear this louder in 2023 seriously I’m curious I wanna see what ppl r going say 2023 is needed 🎉
Great video! I'm going to keep saying no to those who want me to do things that will hurt me. 🎯🎯
AMEN. this message was for me..🙏🏽♥️🙌🏾
I feeeeel you !!!♡
Lord Jesus you speaking to me😭😭😭i feel like ppl have abuse me and use me all my life..
One sided friends/family/loves/agencies... when a natural disaster hit, and ppl found ways to NOT help when my circumstances were dire, & I just really needed help...OH MAN, I saw/felt this clearly. Done. No more pleasing or chasing. Trent nothing made it through that disaster but (functional) love. Now I am surrounded
Straight up
❤❤❤ Preach my brother. You speaking the truth right here. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
We appreciate you Trent!!!
You have spoke to my heart frfr🙌👑
Straight up.i gotcha now.my questions are being answered scared of being abandoned again
Good video good advice I think you're wise
I walked away from a 15 year relationship, 2 years married, and I would like to say Im not going to pretend that I don't cry and it doesn't hurt but realizing how that person never considered my emotions and continued to do the things that hurt me, I knew it was time and I am leaning on God and getting myself together and taking care of our children the best I can. Everything that hurts is meant for God's grace to empower.
Perfect topic. Nice seeing you live. God bless you.
Straight up!!
OHHHHHH MAN!!! 👏👏😭
Ooh I needed to hear this. I'm in a one sided relationship and I'm not being poured into
Good word 🙏
Yes brother,when things are not working right, then turn to your left.thank you brother
I FOUND THAT I WAS DEALING WITH RELATIONSHIP THAT WAS ALL WRONG THAT SOMEWHERE ALONG THE WAY I WALKED WAY & I NEVER LOOKED BACK.....
straight up thank you Trent I have the signs I just need the strength to change things while I'm getting to know my worth day by day ...Amen blessings to you and everyone struggling ❤
Thank you Lord
I feel you on this
What I want/need is not what I have n my life rn and it has to stop. The more I give, he takes, the more I express what bothers me, he does just that. I'm tired of keeping peace whn the pain from the results is weighing me dwn. I needed this. Thnk u❤
STRAIGHT UP!!!
Your correct about the sided part my entire life has been one sided it's all I know
Trent, you are so right!! I have been walking on eggshells for several years in my marriage. I am no longer going to choose their peace over mine!! Thank you for speaking the truth!! #straightup♥️
Thank you for the encouragement Trent!💯
Thank you!! I have said yes to too many people. Now, that I am saying NO to people trying to use and abuse me.
Thank you!
I'm in a relationship of 40 years and it's a mess and I don't think I can find the ster ngth to try anymore I said I would not give up. But I'm only one trying it's draining my body and soul all my self asthma is not there anymore I have to go get my body and soul and mind back!!! Thank You and God so much Sandy
I had to disconnect from everyone I know cause they never loved me like I loved them.
Amen. I love listening to you
Facts thank you!
STRAIGHT UP!!
Trent you knew I needed this for sure 💜💜💜💜
I've spent for my children by myself which I can prove because I've been with the same bank for 12 yrs. But somehow they have convinced everyone I do nothing for my kids. I recently tried to take a loan to better the life of my family they took my money and after that I asked for my money back. Now its a problem but now I gotta suffer that on my own. Bad mistake I'm dealing with on my own. I took a risk I shouldn't have which put me back but thats ok.
Dropping Golden Nuggets ✨️
I appreciate you and thank you May many blessings rain down on you
I'm totally with your mind set. I was brought up to help others. Since I'm older, I'm putting myself first. 🙏💞
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Str8t up fam✊🏾 a real 💯
Amen idk me anymore I'm mentally exhausted and fiscally drained.im scared about failing
Amen
Thank you so much Trent
AMEN !!!!
My mom tells me all the time U show people how to treat you by what you except🤦🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️
I am saying full no to condescending energy or people who see me as a competition or are jeloua of me instead dof celebrating me and building my up so we can both rise. I am done with caring what people think...I care what I think ❤
Thank You
Straight up FACTS! I use to be exactly of the same things you’re talking about. Not any more. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for this video it feels good hearing the truth
AMEN 🙏🏽 STRAIGHT UP ❤
It's leading me back to were I to point I'm going to go back to my addictions