I just saw my ex’s true colors. He abondoned me when I needed him the most in my hardest situation. That’s alright. This message opened my eyes to turn my sadness, disappointment and anger to fire for me to move forward.
❤Be encouraged sister😊GOD WILL NEVER FAIL YOU!!!! I AM exactly going through the same thing and I was married for 21 years to a wonderful Christian Godly Gentleman ❤and I became widowed at 51 years young and buried him on 5-10-2019 which was also my 4 year sobriety milestone 😊we don’t plan these things however I waited 17 months before saying yes to a man in sobriety (42 years sobriety) and he turned out to be a selfish narcissist that wants nothing to do with Jesus Christ 😢anyhow I AM packing my things after living in his house for 2 years. I feel like I AM grieving all over again yet my HOPE IS IN JESUS AND I WILL CELEBRATE 8 years sobriety on 5-10-2023. This man did not love me he just loves himself .
I chose the wrong person I was with a narcissist! For almost 12 years. Now it's been five months since I have I have talked to them! It was hard at first because I thought they were helping me but they weren't! But I realized I didn't need them I could do it for myself! And moved forward. I was compromising who I was for someone who never cared about me in the first place! I need to be who I am and be happy with that!
An I’m goin thru this as I’m watching this,,my heart is so broken,this hurt is so deep,but they constantly throwing the same thing over an over in my face like I wasn’t a good mom,when they no good father wasn’t with them physically,but financially,,that has a lot to do wit why I’m getting this treatment I think,like I’m getting all the heat cuz of him not being in there lives like I was,,they are 29yrs old twins (men)..be 30 in July,,an I just so done,I’m walking away,they don’t deserve me😢
My worth and value never depends on other people, but on who I am in Christ It has taken me decades to finally realize it. Trying to maintain relationships where the other person is uninvolved, drinking from my cup, but never adding to it, is exhausting. No more!
Trent is so true i have had 3 toxic relationship when i stopped giving and stood up for myself then i was the bad person God has shown me to love myself some people go along to get along no more toxic relationship for me if you are in a toxic relationship get out they are not going to change without Jesus Christ in their life sign Cynthia Smith
Thank you so much for this I just don’t care what people say or feel about me anymore why because they never love me they only wanted something even family but it’s ok God never leaves he is always there so I’m loving me even more❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Trent, your timing couldn't be more perfect. I hadn't spoken to my son for 2 years. He said, he needed my help. So, I gave him another chance. But, what he really meant is he needed to use me. I gave him rides to/from work, allowed him to sleep at my house, borrow money, ect. But it did not end well. When he got paid, I asked for the money back. He told me F*** you & didn't give me a dime! I am so disappointed with the whole situation and myself for allowing him to take advantage of me once again. 😢
@@kimgordon3695 Not sure what you meant by your comment... I was a single mom who raised my kids the best I could. I always provided for them and then some..
Its about time everyone needs to choose themselves as soon as they do they and you will have a whole new level of peace,love,joy,happiness, yes indeed i chose myself 4 years ago and its such a beautiful , freeing, joyice, loving,peaceful,graceful,spiritual, happy feeling you will never want to go back to your old way of living i promise🔥💯🥰🤗😘💙🇺🇲✝️😇🌹🌹🥳
I feel like I've lived my entire life for someone else. A husband, kids, friends, social commitments. No More No More. I've been using that feeling as shackles and as an excuse not to live my life the way God intended me to. I'm still afraid but I am courageous. Thank you Trent!
I am hearing this LOUD! Experiencing it right now from my ex. Im not being another version i dont like of myself anymore i refuse to be anything besides my real self now. Hes on a smear campaign now because i told him no. Im not worried about it though, at all. I trust God. Thank you for the message Trent
6:45pm This was so empowering Trent. Thank you 🙏 this video was priceless. I been saying this to myself in 2023 I have had a lot of judgement. So I am choosing me peace and self love.
😢 I'm currently on the road to pour the love that I gave to others into myself.....ts is hard!!!! Thank you so much for your wise words, advice and encouragement, TRENT SHELTON
The reality is that no matter how many times plp hear this, they still don't have the strength enough to make the decision ferm into a better path, n iam speaking, including my self I pray that God helps me remove everything that makes me worthless n every one that's toxic in my life even ur own family
This world to me is like the ending scene of Stranger Things season 4 where the wicked Upside Down underworld blends into the real world. Now more than ever are we surrounded by demogordons. Heartfelt preaching man! Subscribed.
Trent your amazing I appreciate you 🤗❤️🙏🏻🙏🏿 God bless you and your family 🙏🏻🙏🏿 Thanks for everything you do.. You just Saved My life 🙏🏿🙏🏻👁️👁️💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
THANK YOU TRENT YOU SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO ME. THANK YOU GOD 4 SENDING US TRENT GOD YOUR MY HEALER AND TRENT YOU TEACH ME SO MUCH WHEN IT COMES TO THE HUMAN MIND,BODY,SPIRIT,AND SOUL GOD BLESS YOU N FAMILY
You are saying the truth about all of this message today today I am who am changing my life and my self and by listening to Trent and god and following what god has for me
Good morning, my friend. Thank you for all you do for me. Without knowing it or knowing me. I'm in Guyana. South America . I'm so grateful to your messages 😢😢
Amen to that! Reminds me of part of something I wrote once about being famous, not that I am " I go out on stage and hear the crowd screaming, I love you, I love you, but they don't know the meaning" seems it could be more relevant these days with the uprise in internet or social sites creating or generating popularity or a type of fame. Keep creating what inspires you and take care.
Narcissists don't love anyone, especially their current spouse
I’m going through that now😢
True dat
Too true!!! Learnt that the hard way.
I just saw my ex’s true colors. He abondoned me when I needed him the most in my hardest situation. That’s alright. This message opened my eyes to turn my sadness, disappointment and anger to fire for me to move forward.
❤Be encouraged sister😊GOD WILL NEVER FAIL YOU!!!!
I AM exactly going through the same thing and I was married for 21 years to a wonderful Christian Godly Gentleman ❤and I became widowed at 51 years young and buried him on 5-10-2019 which was also my 4 year sobriety milestone 😊we don’t plan these things however I waited 17 months before saying yes to a man in sobriety (42 years sobriety) and he turned out to be a selfish narcissist that wants nothing to do with Jesus Christ 😢anyhow I AM packing my things after living in his house for 2 years. I feel like I AM grieving all over again yet my HOPE IS IN JESUS AND I WILL CELEBRATE 8 years sobriety on 5-10-2023. This man did not love me he just loves himself .
I hope you find the spiritual strength within to move on to better times.
I've been down that road. I've learned that as that song goes, it takes a fool to learn that love doesn't love anybody. So very true!
@@toniaparker3543 Yes. The Spinners-"Love Don't Love Nobody." I have that on my playlist. 👍
Phillipians 4:13
Once those benefits leave that’s when that loyalty expires SERIOUSLY 💯🙅🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
True 🎯
4:10 “If you can’t love me for my heart, then I don’t want you in my life.” Now that’s a word!🎤
Thank you my friend
You don’t need to fit into society or reform in order to make an impact. Be you, spread love, raise your vibrations - that’s what’s important.
It's ❤
@@venessatymes7306 Love Heals ❤
I chose the wrong person I was with a narcissist! For almost 12 years. Now it's been five months since I have I have talked to them! It was hard at first because I thought they were helping me but they weren't! But I realized I didn't need them I could do it for myself! And moved forward. I was compromising who I was for someone who never cared about me in the first place! I need to be who I am and be happy with that!
When you’re not beneficial & you choose you even your adult kids may have nothing to do with you. Real talk Trent
Exactly. The conversion of a child growing into an ADULT child can be a time of division, or a time of unity, and growth as a family.
Especially if one of your adult childeren might be a narcissist.
@@eyeoffthetiger2691 or both of them. 🤷🏻♀️
@@beachgirl6565 true 😪
An I’m goin thru this as I’m watching this,,my heart is so broken,this hurt is so deep,but they constantly throwing the same thing over an over in my face like I wasn’t a good mom,when they no good father wasn’t with them physically,but financially,,that has a lot to do wit why I’m getting this treatment I think,like I’m getting all the heat cuz of him not being in there lives like I was,,they are 29yrs old twins (men)..be 30 in July,,an I just so done,I’m walking away,they don’t deserve me😢
This applies to your family too. Sometimes even your children.
"Let them think what they think and you know what you know"
What they keep showing you is real..
God's revealed this a lot lately. Appreciate it. Don't need no counterfeits in my life. MSG IS ON POINT! 💯 ❤
"Holistically rich is better than financially rich," that is a great perspective!
My worth and value never depends on other people, but on who I am in Christ
It has taken me decades to finally realize it. Trying to maintain relationships where the other person is uninvolved, drinking from my cup, but never adding to it, is exhausting. No more!
I'm worthy of love honor dignity and respect
Yes
I Care less who anyone thinks or Care about me 💯💯💯💯
NOTHING BUT GRATITUDE TO YOU FOR THIS!!!💪😇👑 JESUS IS WORKING MIRACLES ❤️🔥
I'M REALLY GLAD THAT YOU ARE PROUD OF YOURSELF YOU DEFINITELY DESERVE IT 😊
People only love you , because of the benefits, y’all please love yourself
Be the best you don't shrink the world is yours🎉❤💯👍
Trent is so true i have had 3 toxic relationship when i stopped giving and stood up for myself then i was the bad person God has shown me to love myself some people go along to get along no more toxic relationship for me if you are in a toxic relationship get out they are not going to change without Jesus Christ in their life sign Cynthia Smith
I love me for my heart, not for what you can get from me ❤ so true 💯
Word!🙏🙌 I’m a woman and I need to hear what’s real and raw.
So true!!!! They love you for the moments they need you for something.
You have me crying like I need that like thank you for the truth
Amen! You can never forget how someone made you feel. Be You! ❤
Amen
Trent is the motivation I need, his messages have got me through so much.
Go where you’re celebrated not tolerated.
Be you no matter what ❤
I know your dad is proud of you guys. Y'all are wonderful.
Thank you so much for this I just don’t care what people say or feel about me anymore why because they never love me they only wanted something even family but it’s ok God never leaves he is always there so I’m loving me even more❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Following the drip is most people today
Blessings brother my name is Tonya and I'm from Rochester NY. Jesus is in control of my life thank you Jesus much love ❣️
Trent, your timing couldn't be more perfect.
I hadn't spoken to my son for 2 years. He said, he needed my help. So, I gave him another chance. But, what he really meant is he needed to use me. I gave him rides to/from work, allowed him to sleep at my house, borrow money, ect. But it did not end well. When he got paid, I asked for the money back. He told me F*** you & didn't give me a dime!
I am so disappointed with the whole situation and myself for allowing him to take advantage of me once again. 😢
Sorry to hear all this! I hope you find your strength and not let it keep you down. How old is he?
@@IWearACrown My son is 37 years old.
O my God he better be very careful.
Generation of neglect backfiring now
@@kimgordon3695 Not sure what you meant by your comment...
I was a single mom who raised my kids the best I could. I always provided for them and then some..
What’s up Trent? You hit the nail on the head with this one!!!! This is a WORD Man. Thank you for your continuous motivation. Stay blessed.
Watching from the Bahamas 🇧🇸. Thank you for letting God use you to speak to me. 🙏🏽❤️
This message hit me, thanks you brother!
Its about time everyone needs to choose themselves as soon as they do they and you will have a whole new level of peace,love,joy,happiness, yes indeed i chose myself 4 years ago and its such a beautiful , freeing, joyice, loving,peaceful,graceful,spiritual, happy feeling you will never want to go back to your old way of living i promise🔥💯🥰🤗😘💙🇺🇲✝️😇🌹🌹🥳
I feel like I've lived my entire life for someone else. A husband, kids, friends, social commitments. No More No More. I've been using that feeling as shackles and as an excuse not to live my life the way God intended me to. I'm still afraid but I am courageous. Thank you Trent!
💜💜💜Like the late PRINCE SAID " I AIN'T GOT NO MONEY BUT I'M RICH IN PERSONALITY"!💜💜💜
Never compromise what you stand for ❤️💯❤️
🔥You always keep it real💪🏾Keep it going tell the truth and shame the devil 🙏🏾
I am protecting my peace. Thanks to you.
I am hearing this LOUD! Experiencing it right now from my ex. Im not being another version i dont like of myself anymore i refuse to be anything besides my real self now. Hes on a smear campaign now because i told him no. Im not worried about it though, at all. I trust God. Thank you for the message Trent
TRUTH, TRUTH, TRUTH! IT TOOK A WHILE BUT I'M FINALLY FREEEEE! HALLELUJAH!!! GOD BLESS YOU!
It all starts with YOU!!!
STRAIGHT UP 👍💯✝️
6:45pm This was so empowering Trent. Thank you 🙏 this video was priceless. I been saying this to myself in 2023 I have had a lot of judgement. So I am choosing me peace and self love.
😢 I'm currently on the road to pour the love that I gave to others into myself.....ts is hard!!!!
Thank you so much for your wise words, advice and encouragement, TRENT SHELTON
"You are replaceable". WOW!! I never realized how much I needed to hear this perspective... People will leave, move on, jobs will end, etc.,
Priceless, lifesaving message!
Love the energy and message. I am enough just the way I am! ❤
When I made this decision for myself everyone in my life at time disappeared.
Love me for my heart or be removed.
God bless❤️
God does and God matters who cares what others think
Yes Lord...joy unspeakable Joy ❤❤❤❤
The reality is that no matter how many times plp hear this, they still don't have the strength enough to make the decision ferm into a better path, n iam speaking, including my self I pray that God helps me remove everything that makes me worthless n every one that's toxic in my life even ur own family
I appreciate all that you are doing. Thank you for sharing your journey and keeping it 💯. I’m sending love and light to you and everyone. 🙏🏽❤️🤗
I don't Care no more only for my self and children 💯💯💯💯💯💯🥰🥰🥰💯💯💯
Realtalk
Man you are truly ministering to me. Thank God for you.
When people show you who they are, believe them.
This world to me is like the ending scene of Stranger Things season 4 where the wicked Upside Down underworld blends into the real world. Now more than ever are we surrounded by demogordons. Heartfelt preaching man! Subscribed.
Thanks again ❤
Thank you Trent! I needed this!❤🎉
They always respect me 💯💯💯😇😇🙌🙌🙌
This made me cry it's so true my kids my relationship my family I don't have anyone but you are so right God bless you😢
Your amazing Trent.
I DEFINITELY see that now
STRAIGHT UP TRUTH 💯💯💯😇😇🙌🙌
It is a great message. Be authentic. Amen 🙏 We need to ❤ ourselves First, God is inside of us.
❤ your passion!
Thank you for this word Trent you are appreciated! All Glory be to God...Amen!!
❤❤❤TRUE TALK.... PEOPLE ONLY SEE YOU HOW THEY NEED YOU..GOD BLESS YOU SIR 💜💜
5:00 💞 they have pedestal goals. #ProtectYourPeace 🙏🙏 #Always
Nothing offensive about real Love
2:22
Trent your amazing I appreciate you 🤗❤️🙏🏻🙏🏿 God bless you and your family 🙏🏻🙏🏿 Thanks for everything you do.. You just Saved My life 🙏🏿🙏🏻👁️👁️💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
100 percent correct ...I've been following you for years now and everything you speak is real man
You have been very helpful and inspiring for a while now 😊 THANK you so very much 💓 and GOD BLESS YOU 🙌 POWER IN PRAYERS AND IN THE NAME OF JESUS ❤
Speaking truth...feeling you❤❤❤
Preach brother it feels like this message was strictly for me 😭 keep speaking the truth our and sister need to hear this thanks again 🙏
Years ago I'm am blessed by FATHER GOD ABOVE 💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌😇😇😇😇😇
That was BEAUTIFUL 💜🙏🌹
Trent I love your heart you have a beautiful heart and that’s why I listen to you because of your heart not because of what you have or who you are❤✝️
Thank you for sharing this beautiful message. This year I am choosing me!!!! May God bless you and all who receive this message. ❤🙏😇❤🙏😇
That is how I feel ,it's like you know what I need to know
I'm in the Cleveland Clinic Hospital right now watching this. Thank u I needed this message
Love this so much! Just got rid of my last friend in the area I live! I vibe alone now!
So true as soon as you choose you, they all run
I love y'all. I miss my boy Jimmy. I pray he's doing okay.
THANK YOU TRENT YOU SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO ME. THANK YOU GOD 4 SENDING US TRENT GOD YOUR MY HEALER AND TRENT YOU TEACH ME SO MUCH WHEN IT COMES TO THE HUMAN MIND,BODY,SPIRIT,AND SOUL GOD BLESS YOU N FAMILY
You are saying the truth about all of this message today today I am who am changing my life and my self and by listening to Trent and god and following what god has for me
My Precious Friend Trent,
God has used you to help keep me! I love ❤️ you for you! God bless you
Wow!!! Powerful!!
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN THANKS 🙌🙌🙌😇😇😇💯💯
I'm dealing with this right now, and Trent is speaking realness to my heart, i.truly needed this message, much love Trent!
Yes sir 💯
Yes SIR STRAIGHT UP TRUTH 💯💯💯
By my self 💯💯💯💯💯😇😇😇😇🙌🙌🙌🙌and father God above all #1
You 💯 percent right
GOD LOVES US FOREVER ALL DAY EVERYDAY
Good morning, my friend. Thank you for all you do for me. Without knowing it or knowing me. I'm in Guyana. South America . I'm so grateful to your messages 😢😢
Amen to that! Reminds me of part of something I wrote once about being famous, not that I am " I go out on stage and hear the crowd screaming, I love you, I love you, but they don't know the meaning" seems it could be more relevant these days with the uprise in internet or social sites creating or generating popularity or a type of fame. Keep creating what inspires you and take care.
WOW THIS WAS POWERFUL ❤
I've been everything FATHER GOD ABOVE ALL MADE ME 💯💯💯💯😇😇😇😇🙌🙌🙌
Chosen one, it's always like that,whe you are a good person and respectful..
Thank you for all you do ❤ people really do need to hear 👂 this💯