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MODEL Bailey first started developing vitiligo when she was 19 years old. She struggled with her self-image as it spread across her body and face, but Bailey grew to love her difference and feel beautiful. She now has a successful career as a professional model and barber, and she's a single mother to three children. But Bailey's love life remains unfulfilled: she's struggled with dating because men often fetishise her condition and become obsessed with it rather than with her. We follow Bailey on her first ever blind date with tattoo artist Joshua who has a surprising secret of his own to reveal. Will they want to see each other again?
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I love that they both openly accepted each other’s “secret”. Both were non-judgmental and pleasant.
I actually think they would make a great couple.
I'm right there with you on that
I hope it works out for them. They seemed to connect really well.
@@maidahaltrecht6577 I hope so too they got along really good
Me too ✨✨
I thought the same thing!!
This is probably the best blind date I've seen on here. Didn't seem faked, was an actual thoughtful, meaningful conversation between the two, about real life things. I hope these two meet up again. They really seem to work and play off each other well, feels like they would both do each other good, even if it just becomes a really good friendship and nothing more intimate.
Hello
@@ericferguson8548 hello lol
@@boogiemonstermom677 hi how are you doing
@@ericferguson8548 I'm doing good, how are you lol?
@@boogiemonstermom677 am cool thanks where are you from?
She’s gorgeous
No
@@consciousness7767 dude ... don’t be so rude
YESSSS queeen
Don't be ignorant
Everyone is except (Consciouness)
She's absolutely amazing person.She is optimistic and goal oriented.
And a racist
I THOUGHT HE WAS BLIND...! I was so confused when he says he was a tattoo artist!! I was thinking maybe he uses an extreme magnifying glass or maybe he only just went blind.
I misunderstood the title... I thought it was "My BLIND date doesn't know I have vitiligo" (because he can't see it)
Lol haha
Same i-
🤣🤣🤣🤣
saaame haha
Lol same
If your blind date oversees your skin colour and feels your soul, you have earned a date that is worth moving ahead with.
It’s a none story tbh
Skin color just doesn't matter.
Your true love will love you no matter what, even if you are different.
Self esteem and confidence are the most important things
She is everything in one
Nah she ain’t confident, she won’t be on this channel otherwise.
My husband has three kids. When I met him for the first time I fell completely in love with him. The kids never were a deal breaker. Besides, they are awesome.
Love that for you guys! I bet you all make a beautiful family too
Women are more accepting to date a man with kids. Men are not, men barely want to take care of there own kids let alone another woman.
@@jasmincass573 Gross generalisation.
@@jasmincass573 yet you see step-fathers everywhere.
Never heard of someone fetishizing vitiligo
I was cool until she said she had 3 kids, after that I was like Damn lol
Yep total turn off for me honestly
@aurora boreale ew
I said the same thing to myself. It blows me away. 3 dude 3! 1!2!3 and only at 30. I hate to judge her but it says a lot about her, she seems immature. Didn't even stop at the second child. She doesn't seem like she thinks for her future. Immaturity turns me off a lot.
People are so judgmental. Who cares if she has kids. Good on her for having time to date. I wouldn’t have time for some old man if I had 3 kids.
@@ThePeacePlant facts
First thing is not finding someone who has a fetish and then meeting someone in the adult film industry
U meet some pornstars
She was worried about men having a fetish just for her skin.
I think I didn’t get the memo where it says that you automatically have to have a fetish when working in the adult film industry - these are just normal people. You need to start seeing them as what they are. It’s not that hard.
@@panny__2247 I think maybe she meant a fetish not regarding the industry. Years ago I was asked out by a total stranger at the bus stop. When we talked on the phone he revealed that he essentially had a fetish for women with excess hair. I hadn't had it under control fully at the time and had been suicidal at one point because of it. When he told me I was silent but triggered, then burst into tears after we hung up. I might have cut too. I'm much better nowadays.
I really admire this woman and her confidence. 💖💪🏼💖
It was a blind date 🤷🏽♀️
She's so beautiful 😭😭😭😭
Well that's a lie. You can support her without lying fam
@@Oversurge_ lmao
@@Oversurge_ exactly frontin for TH-cam
@@Oversurge_ well I think she's beautiful that's my opinion, you might think otherwise because that's "your opinion "
@@Zozo77598 sure why not
I loved how respectful he was when he asked about her skin condition ! What a gentleman !
Every women beautiful in their own way....go go girl
No
@@consciousness7767 SHUT UP
@@watchme6848 he’s not wrong though
All womans two
@@AdrianEN This woman looks good, if she's your type. I don't even think Vitiligo is special, my friend has it and has never been short of boyfriends or happiness and literally never thinks about it, because she's used to it and it's not a problem. What I find far more patronising are the 'you are beautiful' comments mostly for people with disabilities or strange looks, it shows that some prejudiced people think they need the support because they are 'weird'. Now that's quite insulting to fully functioning people who just want to be part of the crowd. Think about that.
Kevin Samuels coming in the comments saying “ you’re a single mom of three kids and you’re 30... no ma’am”. All seriousness I wish her well and good luck to her finding her life partner.
Kevin Samuels is a douche bag . He dnt know people circumstances and just throws his one sided ideas out there. Why has he been married more than once.
Moran .In this day and age nothing is a guarantee
Kevin Samuels is the gawdfather for impotent men who can’t keep a woman and hate women. Never heard him say nothing about all these “Future” and “ Nick Cannon” wannabe rappers with 12 kids and 16 babymomas
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@bartender4877 Like other man said. do you fave only 1 irresponsible man and many irresponsible women. Why they continue procreate with those man and they already know those man is a bad father?! They are worst because they do that only to earn easy money and fame without think on their child lives.
Lol right
I would stare because of her beauty. Absolutely stunning!
30yo and w 3 kids & your oldest is like 8. Unfortunately, that's what's making it hard to find a good guy (especially her type) not her skin condition. I think most ppl even her preference would date her even w the skin condition if she didn't have 3 kids. Ijs
It's sad but true, I am 31 with two kids and I avoid dating at all costs! Most men won't ever consider me for a potential partner but it's all good. I am busy handling my own. I have come to the conclusion that dating and marriage aren't for me.
@@florjean965 that's sad... But I wish you happiness gurl
@@florjean965 you should look around more just because you have kids does not mean anything If they like them they like period.
Its not that hard to get wifed up having with with family members that worked in the wedding industry I saw it all the time. Of all stripes colors and economic backgrounds.
Marriage is the easy part quality is hard.
A good partner (because its not just single mothers in the world) will not be bothered with you having children (speaking from experience), many of my friends also have successful relationships with prior single partners. Its not the lack of said good partners, but a matter of looking for them. I know several that are likewise upset with the partners they have but constantly regard they are looking for a "type" that has nothing to do with forming a stable family.
Her three kids are the deal breaker not her skin condition. I’ve seen women with Brady bunch level of kids get wifed so it is possible but just harder. Good luck to her she seems to just be having fun with the whole dating thing
Exactly, I wouldn't want to date someone who already has 3 children and then doesn't even get child support.... like maybe if I get divorced in my 50s and the children are all grown up but definitely not in my 30s lol.
lol @ Brady Bunch level 🤣🤣
Women with kids get wiped up all the time. People act like this is some great phenomenon. It really isnt
@@AlmazB and many with kids don't. it can be a deal breaker for some men.
@@abc10927 I get it i understand. And single childless women should not be with men with children too.
But working with family in the wedding industry, I've seen ip close where this isn't such a great phenomenon.
They seemed to connect really well. I hope things work out for them.
I had a best friend in HS with vitiligo, its something you don't even notice after a while. I don't understand why everyone acts like its the worst disfigurement ever lol, its not even that strange looking.
Because people want to be desirable and beautiful.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns you mean "desirable and beautiful"
@@StellaRaeVon you just made me lose a brain cell.
@@calypso7636 You know society's beauty standards? Yeah, that's what they mean by quoting the words desirable and beautiful. Not only does everyone see beauty differently, but why do we have to look a certain way to be beautiful you know? Plus, some people don't even find the beauty standard attractive.
@@eautifuleagle4776 that was very confusing at first but I think I get why they put quotations- still made me lose a brain cell though lol.
‘ I like fair skinned men’ 😩 just say you like WHITE MEN 🤷♀️
White people are not the only ones with fair skin girl
Fair skin.......Hhymmmm🤔🤔Colorisim....
He is extremely pale even for a white guy
Exactly. Just say what it is.
Then she said don't fetishize her skin lol. Women in a nutshell.
This was a really good blind date, the best I've ever seen in my life. They seem like they have that,. "I've been knowing you all my life" kind of connection/chemistry. Hope they work out.
You're beautiful and raising 3 kids. That in itself is amazing. I thought you 2 made a cute couple. I hope you guys do get together again.
This was a cool clip. Their interaction seemed so genuine. I would love to see some follow-up to these dates.
I just love how confident she is
They are adorable. At the very least I think they will be friends.
Both of them are beautiful physically, but when they're opened up about themselves and just being acceptance and not judgmental towards each others,immediately i see them as a gorgeous people inside and outside
Heavenly father I pray that you keep the person reading this Alive,Safe, Healthy and financially blessed Amen🙏🙏
dear god bless this person who made this comment and make them safe,alive and all good things amen
Ugh
Amen 🤗
So, this father of urs how many wife's and how many children he has?
You too. Stay blessed. Thank you
As a single mother of 3 kids I would think that her preference would be finding a good man who can be a good father figure to her kids, not someone who is fair skinned but that’s just me. I hope she does find a good person though.
I don't see a problem with her preference, but she shouldn't pass up the good partners no matter what race they are. She definitely doesn't have to date colored people, but shouldn't pass up the good in her skin preference.
She definitely seemed humble by her disease though, which I was fooled thinking it was maturity, so she really needs to work on the maturity level. But after I heard how many kids she had at only 30, I knew she still has a lot of work to do. Like damn, she didn't even stop at the second child, one is enough two is baggage but Jesus Christ, 3! It blows me away
I have always preferred brown skin "Mexican" so I understand where she's coming from! You don't have to settle for someone that's not your type just cause you have kids ect. I wouldn't be out here looking at no white boys 🤣🤣🤣
@Elijah Spearman my point is that she didn’t mention that as a priority
@@Jesussavedme i get that lol
@@glamgirlkass yess girl 😆
“I like fair skin men” but doesn’t want her skin fetishized...lol
🎯
it's okay to have a preference though
Preferences are different from a fetish
@@kir32 not that different ... I just don’t know how you can have a preference on skin colour it seems close minded... it’s just melanin or lack of it
She means white men let's not get it twisted.... "fair skin men" LOL!!!
Strong Woman... Raising three children alone... I understand the love and the protective heart
Three kids no child support that's the deal breaker.
I think working in the adult film industry tops that.
@@StellaRaeVon I definitely agree with you!
@ Stella by a country mile...
@@StellaRaeVon Not a deal breaker if the dudes just an editor, camera man, background person, etc, etc. If the person does the adult films, its a no go.
If she finds it hard to find a man it’s not her skin or looks or personality it’s the three kids and no child support yikes...
How do you know she could have come from an abusive situation
@@AlmazB What's your point?
@@bannedmann4469 many men don't support their children. Its not always the mothers fault. Whats your point.
@@AlmazB you missed the point extremely
@@AlmazB We're talking about other men dating her afterwards. The circumstances barely matter. Smart men don't tend to other men's DNA.
Am I the only person who thinks no one on these shows are really dating.... They're just trying to get some more followers on their Instagram?
I didn't think of that until now. You are so right.
I love her positivity🥰u both deserve each other..
She’s beautiful I find her marks soo beautiful and unique ❤️❤️❤️❤️
First wholesome love don't judge I've seen in a minute
This is awesome. They really did great on the first blind date. Wishing them Peace, Love and Happiness.
Love his attitude!!!
I can see a second date. He's brutally honest. Love it.
She really is beautiful!!! Loved watching this blind date
I love the often striking contrast of vitiligo on dark skin , besides whish she's beautiful . Does that mean she'd accuse me of fetishizing ? Possibly but I think she needs to elaborate more on what that means for her .
For people who fetishize you you are just an experience. They wanna get you in bed but aren't interested in the person. Its not bad to find it striking but when people say its 'sexy, exotic' thats a red flag. Because in the end they just want the experience and not the real you
I think they would be a great couple just watching this. The comfortable real sense of peace they have and understanding is amazing 🤞 Hopefully it worked out for them.
Oh wow! Bailey is so pretty. Seems like she has such a genuine, gentle spirit❤️
Then plastic surgery ur face like her to prove u truly feel like that
She's definitely a beautiful person but I don't like how she mentioned that she likes fair skin men she's clearly fantasizing about a certain skin type while not wanting anyone else to fantasize or fetishizing about hers
She turning that way that might be why she said that
It's a preference, it is not fantasizing or fetishizing.
You telling me you don't have a preference?
It does not mean you cannot fall in love with people with different skin colours.
I don't know if they will ho on a date again or not but I am glad that they can talk about everything
Having doing everything on her on very strong woman indeed and getting out there and doing stuff is so good lots of love to her and her family. Thank you.
I actually really enjoyed this episode. I liked the honest conversation and they seem to connect and comfortable with each other. I'm a little confused about him being in the adult film industry and a tattoo artist?. Anyway, they seemed like a nice couple.
Definitely did not expect for her to reply the way she did when he said he was in the sex entertainment business. So that's good that they are exposed to each other's worlds comfortably. Happy the show did their research
Am I the only person that thinks this skin disorder is absolutely beautiful?! I have always been jealous of this and I hope anybody that has this understands how gorgeous they truly are.
You do you
vitiligo is soooo beautiful. i love it. it is so intriguing when i see someone with it. imagine someone having an intricate pattern on their body that accentuates their features.
I have the same skin condition thank you for sharing this video to show you got to keep your self confidence no matter what people's think about you and keep living your life
"I like fair skin men" in translation white men, fair skin Hispanics, Japanese men, Chinese men & Korean men😩these preferences are the very reasons other people are single & will end up old alone with 15 cats. Cause your ideal partner may be right next to you, but you busy chasing fair skin men
Also prefer men under fifty, men who have children, men over the age of 26, men who invest in growth and personal development. It's called knowing what you want. It's. A great way to stay in shape lol
Why isn’t she allowed preferences? People have a type. It isn’t her shunning any one community .
Vitiligo is BEAUTIFUL! My niece has Vitiligo❤
Never doubt your own beauty..u are absolutely gorgeous..inside and out..u are very unique..love yourself..be yourself..haters need to step aside and do the dionne Warwick and just walk on by..you don't deserve to be in my presence..only God can judge..everyone is beautiful in their own way..much much respect. God bless you..you are loved..❤👍
She's so beautiful, and warms my heart
That's so awesome 👌 he didn't shy away because of her skin she is pretty 😍
Omg, ok they are PERFECT for each other!!!! I hope that an update is done on them!!!
They dated for fame.
Doubt they traded numbers
Well this is a first! You somehow matched the qualities they were each looking for. Good job!!
She’s so sweet! ❤️
Vitiligo, no Vitiligo, still cute 👍🏾 🖤
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They’re both so likable ❤️
Awww shes so beautiful and amazin confidence .He seems lovely and the chemistry between them is awsome .Hope it works out for them both xxxxxxx .
She's so beautiful!
Why are so many people hung up on the fact that she has 3 kids, that’s not the focus of the video, let it go-
I agree.
Some people can't handle that many kids so they look at that and run. I agree with you though, the people complaining most likely can't mentally handle that lol.
I agree like what on earth they have zero insight to her situation...
Bailey is beautiful. This young man is a cutie and they actually look good together. Best to them both.
The more unique the better I find beauty in everyone and everything and it's the most beautiful ❤️
Preference is different from fetish. It’s okay to prefer light or dark or tan skin. The issue is when you fetishize a person for their color.
Anyone else just scrolling thru the comments section?
Wow!! I'm impressed 👏. They're both Gorgeous and very mature.
I love when people are themselves real talk that's a beautiful thing in life 💯
No matter what u have or not bt one thing u should have is the confidence.which she has in a very high quantity.
She's beautiful, I think Vitiligo makes people look even more beautiful.
I'm addicted to these stories
She's gorgeous. I pray that she finds the right person, that will love her unconditionally.
“I dOn’T wAnt To bE JuDgED bY my SkiN”
*In the same breath*
“I lIkE FaIr SkInNeD men”
Smh where’s the standard? Could this be why she loves her vitiligo so much? Is focusing on skin tone perhaps the reason why there are difficulties dating, having three children who are not taken care of by their fathers? So many questions…
In all honesty I LOVE that she loves Hersey and hope she finds the love and light she deserves. But baby girl needs to explore that “preference” a little deeper.
@B. Nouveau absolutely and there’s usually deep seeded issues as to why they have that “preference”. But since that wasn’t the subject that I brought to light, let’s get back on track. I’m highlighting the obvious irony of this “preference”.
@B. Nouveau So you’re defending colorist/racist dating practices because the gender changed?? Unfortunately Black women face misogynoir, icky and not ok. Black women normalizing euro “supremacy” is NOT the solution
My partner having vitiligo wouldn’t bother me a bit.
That is so beautiful its nice to know we still have people out their that don't judge by looks its rare she's a sweetheart they ll make a nice couple I wish them well god bless them
Tattoo analogy was great
Whats with everyone bashing her for having her own preferences??? For fucks sake people, stop trying to force people into your own image. Yall aint perfect saints to begin with
Aw... i wish i was 30 again😭 but datings tough...adult film industry...um maybe not! Im good!
I love your confidence momma! I love yah!
Queen, you are absolutely GORGEOUS 💜💜💜
Vitiligo is so beautiful to me, its like no two cases are the same. To me it makes them very unique :)
Ooooook
Do you have vitiligo? I have it can we talk
She is beautiful and he’s cute… Great couple!
This guy is legit, sincere and Open to diferent view
You are right, love don't judge,I love this video
I can't take her seriously when she doesn't want people to fetishize her skin, when she prefers fair skinned men.
Also, 30 years with 3 kids? It's gonna be a tough dating market for her.
Preferences and fetishes are different. Also no, the dating market is fairly simple for me but thank you for your concern
Fetish is different from preference. But I agree that having kids makes it more difficult to date anyone
@@qweenbay you're an amazing person.... Keep up the good work...... I'm a single mom of three myself and I honestly get you ..... Nb..... It'll be really great having you as a friend...... Blessings to you and your family from Grenada
Love her haircut and personality, she is very beautiful✨✨✨
As a person with vitiligo you go sis
I don't even know how to explain Josh's style, but my god he is nice looking. The button up, hair and glasses go together, the tattoos and gauges don't match the look, but somehow also do. I like it.
Okay but shes so pretty🥺❤️
No
@Loulou Bos i did the same
@Loulou Bosif u people are so genuine like u say, why don't y plastic surgery ur face like her.I also reported ur comments under sexual abuse
@@consciousness7767 Agree people wanna fake it on TH-cam
Are you guys in the house? You repeat same statement throughout the comment section
people never have this energy for a man with multiple kids from different baby mothers and he decides he wants to date a 20yo
Yessss. Why is it so tough for women?
He's got the best smile.
I love her energy 😍😍
Yeah it's called lust, loneliness, and desperation.
@@mtbiker4life918 you're wrong
That "fair skinned" comment rubbed me the wrong way... I'm all for interracial dating and having preferences; but I hope that it doesn't stem from a place of hatred, especially since she worked so hard to love her own skin. ❤
Tt also seems that way in her case since she was really glad about getting vitiligo.
It’s fine to prefer a certain skin color
Some people are attracted to a particular hair colour or body shape, skin colour is no different
@@user-pp9df6ml6i I mentioned that in my comment...
@@DM-sd1fg In my comment I said that having preferences is fine. 🤷🏾♀️
Both guys are really beautiful!!
I like people with vitiligo.
The shades of the different colors in their skin is amazing.
Both of them put their cards on the table which is a great thing. I think they will make a great couple 💖
Doesn’t want to judge but has many stipulations 🤔
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