We're Not 'Gang Rivals' - We're Lovers | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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TRINO and Adam have been together for 18 years, but the couple have endured backlash throughout their relationship. Both proud Mexican-Americans, the men's Chicano culture means that not everyone approved of their love. Speaking to truly about their culture, Trino explained: "The gay man, it's an embarrassment to the family," and Adam added: "Someone said they'd rather be a drug addict than gay. It's the bottom of the barrel for some people." Growing up in Los Angeles' gang neighbourhoods, the pair's dress sense has been heavily influenced by their upbringing. Adam said: "Sometimes people will say, 'It's ok to be gay, but just dress like you're gay,'... How do you dress like you're gay?" Agreeing, Trino added: "People want us to be a certain way, they just can't understand that gay guys come from the hood!" In this episode of Love Don't Judge, Trino and Adam will have an honest conversation with Trina's sister, Brenda, about her initial concerns of the relationship. We'll also meet the couple's daughter, Natalie, who opens up on how people reacted to her having two dads. Reflecting on their relationship judgement, Adam said: "People see us and they think a certain way, but you know what, for us, we really give our heart."
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Videographer: Ben Fredman
Producers: Kathryn Lewsey, Kate Moore, Amy Nicholson & Yasmin Walker
Editor: Jonny Poole
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This is the epitome of,
“Whatcha looking at foo?”
“Looking at your eyes homie”
😂
Yo.ooo shit ☠️💀☠️
💀
😂😂😂😂😂 You foo
😂
“They were homies. They were homie-sexuals!”
- Pablo Francisco
I love Pablo Francisco 😂
"Eyy, I love you foo."
"Orale, I love you too, vato."
-How it became official, probably.
There's something very nice about their relationship. Best of luck and many blessings to the both of them 🙏🏼❤
Why would they think they are gang rivals and not just gang members?
They meant both. No biggie.
Always got to add thay lil xtra
lol right. I’m two minutes in and still waiting for clarity on that. The fact that they used it in the title clearly show that they wanted to put an emphasis on that
Same idea...they meant that ppl assume they're in a gang bc of their chiano look unfortunately
Lol
Most people only dream of being together 18 years, but these two did it, congratulations, and here’s to many more years
Much love 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Love these two! You can tell how much they love each other and that is wonderful! More power to them! 🥰
This is beautiful. Clearly they’re doing something right, 18 years! ❤
It's refreshing to see both men retain their male energy.
They both seem like, really nice people.
True. The flamboyant ones can be annoying 😑
Exactlyyyyy!!!
Lmao a lot of gay dudes are masculine, you likely pass by or interact with plenty without knowing. People think feminine gay guys are the majority sense those types are the only ones that you really know are gay.
Like if you walk by ten gay people and only three say or display that they're gay you'll base your stereotypes on them.
That’s most of them but the effeminate ones dominate the scene
They seem like some of the nicest people youd ever meet, they're incredibly lucky to have such an amazing relationship, and im so sorry for all the negativity they have had to endure. I wish them all the best
you and me belong together
Just like Adam Sandler says in Big Daddy. "Who cares if they are gay. There the same people. They just watch a different porn than I do." ❤😂
I member now 😅😂😂
😂🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Not necessarily. I watch straight porn when I'm high
Now I'm watch that movie
@@456loveluck u must 😂
They are really blessed to have each other and to be together so long
You're very sick ,do you know what's called blessings 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Gays can't be blessed
Literally my favorite couple I've ever seen. Not just lovers, but best friends.
Really? Do you know them in person?
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm🤭
I'm guessing she meant her favourite couple she's seen in this series.
They're not just lovers, but best friends.
Most of the couples are not like that. So it is nice to see.
@@sarahcaitlyn88 okay I understand you now thanks. Where do you live
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm I could be wrong, I'm just ASSUMING that was what the original poster meant.
Your response was funny though.
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm5 day old spam account 😂
Man, I can feel the love popping off the screen! Wishing the best for them always .
Love this. This is what standing in your truth looks like. Authenticity is so hard to come by these days. Kudos to yall for embracing your culture, and fully loving and accepting yourselves ❤💙🖤
No it's disgusting
@Lauraperez_4 - then why are u even here?!?
I'll bet these 2 men have a cleaner record than most straight Mexican men living in downtown LA.
Don't get me wrong im not some liberal gay rights activist, but they seem like a nice couple. And i would prefer them as my neighbors instead of a loud family that argues all the time, or a racist old white man with a huge gun collection.
Authenticity is so difficult to come by these days because people don't even go by their actual pronoun and gender and all this other made up garbage.
😢 cope@@Lauraperez_4
It’s hard to find the right person, that you want to share your life with. Love doesn’t only apply between a man and a woman. You two seem to have found true love in each other, especially since you have been together for so many years! Some people go their whole lives, and never find true love. I applaud the two of you, for being true to yourselves! I wish you nothing but happiness, and a lifetime of love! ❤❤
Absolutely. Where do you live
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm California 😀
@@beth-annrock237 can we been friends if that's ok with you
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm Baww 😂😂😂
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm??????????????
I misjudged them, they are raising a beautiful daughter
It still will never sit right with many people, but that's their cross to bare. & Completely agree. What an amazing young woman they raised. She seems like she has so much love & support around her.
They are truly blessed to be together that long. Their relationship is truly special & how they both raised their daughter Natalie together is awesome. Natalie looks happy & proud of Trino & Adam. Thank you for sharing your love story.
You looked very cute and beautiful at your profile there Lore! Do you mind been friends 🥀 if that's ok with you?
1:23 very sad and true, some family members are also more comfortable with the family pervert/ pedo than a
Gay family member 😢
Those families are garbage themselves if they rather deal with a pedo, gross
@@lalitstar2371 Yea, wth?...lesser of 2 evils scenarios annoy me. But what family is chill with another family member being a pedo? It's probably harder to mentally comprehend, not MORE comfortable. They are tryna justify 2 men, who can't have Intercourse, but can be sexually active? None of it will ever make sense to me. It's their cross to bare at the end of each day. The issue I have is that people cross the perversion boundary & if it's consensual or they care about each other deeply, they aren't still sinning? I personally don't care what other people do, bc it's their choice...but the OP is stating nothing but CAP.
The face tattoos of each other's names.... ❤😢❤😢 They are down for each other. 🥰
Relationship base in three things, love, trust and understanding
the spider on side of head eeeekkkkkkkkkkkkk!!!
Tears of love in my eyes. What a great couple to inspire the world today. Good on you guys, your sister and daughter!
Best gay couple ever! They are so not stereotypical and it feels like a fresh breeze tbh ❤
It’s so refreshing to see love like this regardless of the backlash from their community they stand by each other !
The chihuahua low-key throwing shade 😂
😂why did I think that same thing for some reason? Or are they just always low-key throwing shade...so judgy! Lmao
Wow...out of all of the different relationships you guys have put on here...this is definitely in the top! Wow! I wish you guys the best!
i admire them 😊especially coming from the chicano culture it’s not easy much love i appreciate you guys sharing bringbtear of joy ❤
This is probably the best gay couple I've ever seen..they cool and super normal 🤙
😂😅
😆😂😂🤣
I'm no gay expert but I think they'd see ur compliment as an insult. That said.....😂😂😂
@@gioluvs1893I'm gay and don't see the insult
@@bbb12124 Well then wtf do I know.
Congratulations Gentlemen. Not everyone has such a love commitment respect & devotion to their partners. You've been together this long, long may your relationship continue.
Love these two! I was born in Anaheim, and grew up in Buena Park, California. Guys who dress and speak like this have always felt comforting somehow. These two seem to have super kind hearts, awesome style, and an amazing family that loves them.
Living the damn dream! ❤
Oh crap I'm from Anaheim and Buena Park
Moved out 😭 of Cali like 16 years ago though .
Live in Texas now 😢
Love New York( visited recently ) and Florida though ❤
What a great couple . I wish more people could meet their soulmate and be happy as this couple obviously are ❤
We need to STOP caring abt who ppl LOVE and more about who ppl HATE so to combat misunderstandings and start convos.... love is the peaceful goal... but hate needs attention to be eliminated
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯💯💯
@theembersinside1420 like no matter anyone's belief... itd be so much more simple to just let ppl do them... I guess I don't have the give af to judge ppls love life
@@Ali-in-Wonderland. Exactly! 😄 I don't care what anyone else does. As long as they're not hurting anyone. 🤷🏻♀️ I never understood ppl that feel the need to butt themselves into other ppls business & try to tell them how to live. Like, if its not your life why do u care? Ugh.
Well said
@@Nerdyunicorn1you looks very great and attractive. Where do you live
My teacher told me to do my Ese, but I think I misunderstood the assignment.
😂😂😂😂
Lmaooo 😂😂😂😂😂
Its not gay if its with the homies.
Lmfao
😂😂
lol 😂
Still is
@@ManB-r6y not if you don't make eye contact.
This is so crazy to see lol
Cuz "typically " you see these types of men all "manly " so seeing them kiss is a trip lol
Aww they are all smiles and laughing, such a cute couple 🥰
I love seeing Trino and Adam on IG and I’m so glad they got to tell their full story on here 💙💙💙
It's about time they showed gay men who act like regular people rather than homophobic tropes. This channel low key shades gay men all the time with the clowns they usually show.
All gay people are valid, even the ones who act stereotypical
@jacksonhart5961 the flamboyant ones are sickening with how they act so stfu. Be gay if you want to be gay but don't be a sissy with it. Idc what anyone says. You can be gay and manly
Yea u hate for no reason put that energy on yourself boo.
@@jacksonhart5961what about the ones who are prolapsed are they valuable
You guys are awesome! I wish you all nothing but happiness and respect.
I respect these guys, despite adversity from their families and cultural background they still are together and seem happy. I wish nothing but the best for them
18 years together they must be doing something right
They are the best couple on this channel, 18+years now! That’s true love! I’m so happy for them!
Key and peele kind of predicted this. Look up vampire c-section. 😂😂
See, I was more interested when I thought they were from rivals gangs and became lovers. Then I realized they were just a regular gay couple who have been together for almost 20 years. 😂😂😂😂 I see a reality show and a fictional book genre!
I don’t understand why ppl care so much if someone is gay or not, like it’s not yur life it’s their let ppl be happy!
My favorite couple to see on this channel 😍 they’re so authentic and raw. I hope I see them the next time I visit Cali, they seem so sweet.
Yup. My best episode so far. Something very special between the two, and their family.
I am passionatley moved by you two beautiful men living out your truth. People don't realize that being gay isn't an image or a fashion statement. You guys embody what LOVE really is!!! You guys are in my heart and prayers. Thank you for being you. Sending my support and💝 LOVE FROM DALLAS, TEXAS.
Probably my favorite episode 💖
I love love this was so refreshing to watch 🎉
00:00 🏳🌈 Trino and Adam, a loving couple, challenge stereotypes about their relationship, emphasizing they're lovers, not "gang rivals."
01:09 🏡 Cultural barriers within their Mexican-American background led to familial shame and stigmatization for being gay.
03:28 🤝 Their attire, linked to Cho culture, is misconstrued as gang-related, perpetuating stereotypes and degrading their sexuality.
05:33 💪 Facing false assumptions and judgments, their bond as a couple grows stronger, relying on each other for support against societal biases.
06:13 👶 Trino and Adam's daughter, raised with love and honesty, defies misconceptions about kids raised by same-sex parents, showcasing strength and self-awareness.
07:38 👨👨👧👦 Family support evolves as Trino's sister reflects on initial concerns, regretting not discussing feelings openly but ultimately supporting Trino's journey.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wtf
@@Rachelllllll2024They broke it down by chapter. 😅
@@melissaharrison293 lmfaooooooooooo I know, it's just so bizzare
@@Rachelllllll2024 07:45 💩 Trino took a sh*t.
@@melissaharrison293 😭 I literally laughed out loud.
I absolutely love y’all family.
This is beautiful.
I feel like with these similar couples they always seem and say that they are happy and do not care about other people’s opinions yet they still do seek validation and acceptance from others, especially from strangers online. Just be yourself and love yourself the way you are. You will accept this when u realize that people will only understand from their level of perception.
Oh, I just love them! Congrats on such a long, happy relationship. Heres to many more!! 🖤🖤🖤
Sending this to all the messicans I work with. I'm ded! 😂🤣
I don't see how that was funny?
"Wassup homes, we are lovers"
*Makes out
I don't know these guys but I love and respect them!
I love you guys and your daughter is beautiful!!!!
I only hope my son finds a person like you guys. He's only felt comfortable in the last 3 yrs to walk in his truth. His dad & I knew when he was a young child that Colin was gay. Is life thru school was so bad. But he got up every day left for school with a smile on his face. and graduated from private theater college 2 yrs ago. And know owns his own theater company. Colin has always worked after school and every summer with the boys & girls club. He loved to act. Today Colin is very well known in the theater world .....
He's the happiest we have ever seen him.
Thanks for your beautiful story.
What a unique love story. You can tell they really love each other.
Words cannot express how happy I am for this couple and their beautiful daughter. I am marrying my boyfriend this year and this gives me hope that all true love lasts.
Just to give you a little more hope, my hubby and I have been married 28 years. My advice is to always make each other feel like they are the lucky one in the relationship. My husband and I both say we married above ourselves. ❤oh and communicate communication is the absolute key. Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!! This HAS to be one of my most favorite stories ever! 18 years together too, ya just don't hear much of that in today's relationships! ❤❤
You guys have what many wish to have and that makes people mad. Have a great life and let the haters be miserable.
These 2 Gentlemen have Integrity!!! And Love, and Honesty!!! I have more respect for them than any Heterosexual Marriage and I'm Black!!! Best wishes to both!!
Aww they are so sweet. They both come off so genuinely nice.
The way I click so fast looking at the thumbnail. But after watching it.. totally NOT what I was expecting😂😂 but kudos
It’s always the hardest one! Nothing wrong, but it’s true.
Most of those "gangstas" are gay.
It's refreshing to see them in living in their truth ‼️😊
Peep at how relaxing they are!🥰
I like this actually. The fact they don’t make it too obvious but accept who they are. Too cool.
They are clearly so in love and have had a whole life together. So heartwarming!!
At least they are honest,I love this for them,keep being happy❤
All the best fellas!
Amazing! ❤
I have a friend that’s secretly bisexual he says he’s sometimes mentally exhausted from trying to act super masculine around both sexes who aren’t aware of this. I encourage him to be himself m, be honest, and tell both sides about how he identifies.
This is so sweet❤ I respect and admire what they go through to be together. What a beautiful love.
So sweet! Great video! ❤
The Corona, Chihuahua, hot Cheetos so stereotypical but very much love it. I love my people 😂😢🎉
Facts!
WHAT COOL DADS 😭 Shes a lucky girl to have such great parents
Damn they just licking each other down 😂 ok we
Get it
You guys are the most masculine energy gay men I’ve ever seen.
I folllow them on tik tok singing to different music. I had no idea they were together. I was shocked and so happy to hear their story. Ugh, you guys kissing is so adorable!!
Being gay has kept you out of the gangs, therefore out of prison, free to raise an amazing daughter without missing a day of her life by being behind bars. Able to be yourselves rather than carbon copy street warriors. You've built a good, solid life together. Keep going! 💞
Probably one of my favourite of these. Love many people can only dream about
As black American Puerto Rican Women who grew up in a mixed Loving family but in Latino community tolerance LGBT people but lgbtiaqia+ people need chilling out. I am Lesbian and part of LGBT community
This helped me and my relationship for 16 yrs with alot we battled .. I have never even spoke to someone gay that's how bad my community is against our lifestyle ty TRINO AND ADAM
You guys are my favorite couple I've been following you guys on every platform since last year I love your guyses vibes I love that you guys answer questions or talk to people when they talk to you or comment some people don't care they just care about the content
Bless and respect to the both of you ❤ keep shining that light and I hope the hate never gets to you too much
Good for them nothing wrong with it. I personally find it disgusting seeing 2 men tongue eachother but they free to live how they want.
Aww man this is hilarious. I don't find anything wrong with this, just two gay dudes, more power to you guys. But the fact they are cholos is funny as shit haha. No hate, this is just a trip.
Ok this was a different one 🤯
I have fallen in love with them!!!
Love this!
18 years and still happy together. I am happy for them!
So cute. Especially the bond with their daughter.
They are definitely gang bangers
😂😂😂
Booty Bangers 😂
Gay banger
This is very disgusting
I have two cousins are gay and I really do support them and love them
Congratulations to Lil Vato and Lil Puppet! 😂😂
Thank you for allowing us to share our Story forever grateful ❤️🫶🏽🙏🏽
You guys make a lovely couple 😁 All the best!
🤢🤮
💖true love💖🥹☺️
You guys are wonderful and raised a beautiful daughter. I loved watching this :) don't let people get to you, they are idiots -_-
@@lauraanderson8785thank you 🙏🏽🫶🏽
This is so beautiful ❤
I love their vibe the chemistry all of it seem like such a great couple!! Wish u guys the best
I like the sister's energy.