When You Have No Friends
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ก.พ. 2024
- Meglio Solo Che Male Accompagnato "better alone than badly accompanied"
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What have you not done because no one wanted to come?
For the longest time, all I would do was sit on my computer all day and hit up my friends to see if anybody wanted to go kayaking or cycling or something and 9/10 times, they would be busy or wouldn't want to. But four days ago, after watching your video "When You Fail At Fitness," I have started working out every day, for at least 30 minutes a day. This so far this has included weight training and cycling. This all to say, I used to hate doing things alone because I couldn't stand myself, and because of fear, but alone time has helped me grow my self worth and I feel a lot better overall as well. Your videos are a huge inspiration, thank you and have a blessed day.
@@Curv0987 I have been in your same place dude. I always needed to wait for someone else to come for me to go and do something. Now I am like If I want to do this I am going to do it with or without you.
I love hearing my video about fitness inspired you to act! It brings tears to my eyes hearing this!
I can't wait to see progress pics or hear about your progress.
Have a Blessed day as well!
I have went and spent two weeks homeless in the national forest there in Colorado sleeping in a tent (at end of winter so still cold), riding with complete strangers I had just met so I could Wait till my next paycheck hit so I could try to stay in Colorado. My friend who was with me trying to relocate with me said heck no lmao I was determined tho to make somthing happen and was an wild journey very memorable and have story to tell now.
@@TruckDogTrailer Storied like this are the best! I know it is better to try and give it a go then not.
I have also considered camping in CO for a night to see some stars and make a fire. still a bit too cold
@@calebquimby the experience was completely worth it it sucked a little bit but was mostly enjoyable. I've got story's like it for days. My life could be a movie I swear sometimes.
That's practically me, doing things alone seems right, don't have to wait for someone and etc, surely it sometimes feels lonesome but most of the time I appreciate it more than ever.
Sometimes it can be lonely. I have found I can always connect or talk with strangers when I want to connect with someone. I may not be able to go super deep with that person. Even thought I have run in to people Who I can go deep with and they can go deep with me to.
It's all a perspective thing.
Hi Brother, Its only God who can be with us all the time. People come and go but He stays. Do what pleases your heart. The Almighty cares. Keep trusting. On the other hand we need each other
I do a bit of both. I believe there need to be a balance. Spend time with God. Along with spending time with others who light us up. I feel as if I am at a point in my life where the old friends aren't at the same place as me and I don't have the proof for the new friends. I have faith God is guiding me in the right direction. I believe first we have to be comfortable with ourselves before we can truly have anyone else.
I am going to keep doing God work! I hope you have a wonderful blessed weekend. and I hope to chat with you agian!
When a girl posts that she don't have friends she gets thousands of views but when a guy do so he barely gets some compliments life is cruel
Yeah Man. It's how life is. It's why us men have to stick strong and hold each other up because society won't.
Building a community of like minded strong willed men or Men who want to become strong willed.
It's why Men are valued later in life Kind of like a Fine Wine
with lots of things in life it is easy to make excuses as to why you cant or wont do something, generally you feel so much better for trying weather you stick with it or not. I have been alone for a long time and it took some time to come to terms with that but you are 100% correct on the fact it allows you to learn about yourself. Many people hide from that truth by drugs and alcohol as well. Thinking through things and experiences can be very hard when those experiences are not positive but in the end it so worth the effort.
It hurts in the moment. and is the best thing. Best to not have substances clouding our mind.
Have you wanted to make friends?
Thanks for sharing Caleb. This idea reminds me of Cal Newport's idea of the benefits of practicing solitude, where we experience time without other people's ideas / thoughts. I've found time spent without external inputs has made me calmer and given me self awareness.
I hadn’t listen to a lot of Cal Newport. I might have read about him once. And heard about his books.
I know the world would be a lot better place if people could be alone with them selves. I was listening to an Allen Watts lecture today and he was talking about a similar thing. When we are silent the noise in our heads starts to become quiet.
I like being alone, I used to like having lots of friends, now I'd rather have a few good friends then a bunch of fair weather friends. Quality over quantity.
One of quotes I like is somthing along the lines of there are three friends in our lives.
One for a reason, one for a season and ones for lifetime.
I like that quote too. I think some do stay and some will leave. I have found if they are meant to be in our life they will. we can't hold on to them.
I do like the Quality of Quantity.
I could go out and make a lot of friends. would they have the same goals and focus as me or want to do big things. Most likely no.
And that's great.
Last night I was at the gym and heard a guy talking next to me who was gonna go home and play COD. And I was like that's great for him.
I ended up listening to a lecture by Napoleon Hill and making dinner.
I believe we all live the life we want and there is no right or wrong way to live.
Live as we want. and have the friends we want!
Come to car culture I think that would be an intelligent mood there is always a friend
It is why I make the videos I do. It's an easy was to make new friends! Going to try and stop by the next one you guys have
Find out what personality type you are. Probably INTP, these ones are very introverted and really really need time to themselves
So the funny thing is I can start up conversations with anyone about anything.
I have wanted to try something different. I also love talking with people. It feels different now.
And just took the test and ENTJ-A. Some days are different. Because I need time alone and 99% of the time I do spend alone. Now if I am with the right person and we are talking about something I find of interest. we will talk for hours.
@@calebquimby That's interesting. Do you mostly think and work with what is present, or do you mostly think ahead, forward thinking into the future?
@@calebquimby if you can talk for hours, you are definitely an intuitive, xNxx
@@muma6559 I do both. for many years I would only work and think with what was present. Over the past 6 months or so I have started having more forward thinking.
I do what I can to balance them both. Like when I am run, workout, bike there isn't anything going on 99% of the time. I may have a though here and there. For the most part there is no Dialogue or images in my head unless I "force" The image or thought.
I have talked with other people and they say they always have thoughts going on.
@@muma6559 I can see that. I have always liked the Big Five Personality Test more then Myers Briggs. Seems like it goes more in depth.
like I am incredible conscientious, Highly open, And not very Agreeable