ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 เม.ย. 2024
- Today I’ll be expanding on the topics of my previous video & briefly explain the three stages of the narcissistic cycle, the differences between processing vs ruminating in the relationship, accepting the relationship for what it really was.
I hope my content continues to be a source of relief and of value to anyone still stuck in and/or are in the process of breaking the narcissistic abusive cycle. Create a healthy exit plan and reclaim your life & dignity which the narcissist continually strips away from their victims.
#narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabusesurvivor #growth #healing #introspective #silence #hoover #lovebombing #devaluation #discard #stonewalling #silenttreatment #blameshifting #exitplan #mistreated - บันเทิง
I get a headache just thinking about wat I’ve been threw
Thanks Fella👍 we'll get through this🙏 big love from australia💛🧡❤
Much appreciated 🙏 👍 & yes we will!
I’m so glad to be done with that crazy making behavior you know as things were going on I’m like why is the narc doing this? Why is the narc saying that whatever and now that I’ve been watching all these videos all this time I have answers to those questions it’s really confusing when you’re in it if you don’t understand it and once you get the knowledge you’re good.
Glad we’re both done with the manipulation and toxicity & are now acquiring the wisdom!
I wholeheartedly concur with you that it is very confusing when you’re in it & you can’t see it because the communication was anything but healthy at times.. maybe you’ve experienced manipulative games the narc typically plays like stonewalling, giving one the silent-treatment, blame-shifting, and the narcissist is playing all these mental gymnastics with you instead of sitting down & being truthful and transparent- which is key in ANY relationship.
This is why i stress it is also key to give yourself closure & to be your own best friend because the narcissist wouldn’t do so back then and they still probably don’t have any reason or will to change for the better. There are two sides to every story; if you were just a sounding board and a doormat to the narcissist, you might have had to talk to them about it at some point and/or tap out entirely. No use staying around to be mistreated.
Thanks for watching and listening, I’m glad that you are here!
@@Mike_Cosentino thank you for your response. Oh yeah, I went through it all a lot of the silent treatment cheating, lying stealing manipulating projecting the big, flying monkeys and all the things that I didn’t know I didn’t hear or didn’t find out and all the things I did until one day that was it, you know it’s hard getting through it but once you’re past the beginning of it, it’s easier to get through the days because you’re becoming more and more like yourself again but this time around was a really big lesson. I didn’t get it all those other times, but now I’m seeing everyone in my past as toxic and possibly narcissistic and my own family and this is been a real eye-opener not before because I never really worked on myself like this but after what I’ve just been through there’s no way in hell I was going to go through one second more of that crap as hard (reversedisguard) as it was ending it it was also simultaneously a relief.
Nice video mate
Thank you!