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Thank you so much & I wholeheartedly concur. Yep, keep your distance with the narcissist and be vigilant of those who don’t have your best interests at heart.

@@Mike_Cosentino Shaler said “People we were familiar with from our distant past. They never truly connected with you. I had a dream where that happened where I thought I was communicating with a person in a crowd and they didn’t connect. I could feel it. You’re right. “Don’t cast your pearls to the swine” they’re little piggies. No matter how smart they think they are or clever. Your content is awesome. They’ll just drag you down and off the cliff. Stagnant energy.

@@ligyasouza755 thank you!

So true @jodaniels8097 the narcissist is like a wolf in sheep clothing. Too many fake people out there, it’s not worth your life, energy, well-being!! Especially if they’re not a compliment to one’s life or reciprocal. They just use people for what they’re worth and they move on to another fuel source, but the damage has been done- for them, I mean. I’m thankful for you especially & let one’s actions speak louder than their words. The narcissist will always tell you what you wanna hear in the beginning, so one must vet people with caution. 👍

@Mike_Cosentino agree Mike, it usually is evident in the beggining when you know what to look for as we now do and always trust your instinct. If you feel uncomfortable and questioning them in your mind then trust that instinct always. Before this knowledge we were sitting ducks for these reprobates 😲 how scary is that 😳 I could not care one toss if they are all narcs I can be a loner. There are good people out there but wow the amount of narcs is shocking 😲 the fact they slither around acting like they are nice people is what really is astounding. The sheer audacity 😲 anyway that's my moan for the day 😆 the tables have turned and they can f off as I am onto the snakes now 👍 💥 😆❤️🙏🙏

That’s very common. The narcissist treats us like a dog, a pet- if that! But they had their grips around us, feeding us fake hope, fake empathy, fake love, future-faking, fake apologies (if at all) etc. The narcissist (i.e. the creature in question) is not a good person. They are lower than the dirt below the dirt for how they use and abuse others like us around them. “Source of supply” is indeed accurate. I hate to sound like a Danny Downer here, but that’s how it all goes. The New Source of Supply should not matter to us at all because we’ve discovered the monster for who that narc really is & the “new” source or whoever is drinking the kool-aid of the narcissist is just another example of someone who’ll be treated just as you mention; nothing more than fuel, someone as validation, even though nothing anyone or anything one says or does will ever make the narcissist improve. They only get worse. Thus, they then become an aging narcissist wherein they’re angrier, their charm doesn’t work as easily anymore, and they have to ruminate in all the bridges they burnt- and blown up to no return- throughout their pathetic lives. That’s on them, but the narcissist can not feel true remorse, they cannot introspect, they only see the world through one set of lenses, which are their own. Period. Only way forward to go is to block, delete, go permanent & FULL NC (No Contact) & never accept any Hoover should there be any, but the narcissist usually moves on without a care in the world. That’s the best “revenge” because indifference and invalidation destroys their fragile, teeny-weeny egos. Also, final note, as you mention w/ the online stuff, looking at their social media, should be avoided at all costs. I know it can be tempting to watch how low they continue to go but it’s outta sight & outta mind. Don’t let them live rent-free in your head. Don’t gives them the clicks. Don’t give them a single thought. Then they *maybe* have to wonder to themselves where they have gone wrong but that’s on them now. Key is this: distractions, distractions, distractions to the point that you forget all about them and your energy has shifted. I appreciate your wise words. Thank you, & take care, my friend. I’m very thankful for you sharing this 🙏. ✌️ 😎

@@Mike_Cosentino thank you as well! You're doing awesome work, it truly is helpful. 🙌🙏

@@annaburns2865 😎 👍

@Siegefya Thank You my friend & also for your words. I feel the same way. For example, it was hard to feel happy around others-just after all was done with the narcissist- or perhaps even something else that’d happen-then I’d need to put on “the happy face” for the public, even though part of me was suffering real badly. We think much alike. It’s hard to be 100% anxiety-free & strangers can walk by us and not know a tidbit about us or our life journey. But like you, I don’t wake up each day wondering who can I con next (edit: and yes, I could never sleep with myself if I gaslit, stonewalled, triangulated, projected my problems onto someone who doesn’t deserve it). Also, I try not to bother and burden others as well, but asking for any kind of help is normal and okay sometimes. We might not have had the same lives but I really appreciate your perspective. Thanks again.

Yes, I believe that both shorts & videos count as 101 uploaded in total. I’ve taken a lot of clips from videos I have uploaded and/or edited out of unused footage from the spring/early summer and lots of those shorts comprise a majority of the total 101. But you are right, I have twenty videos (not YT Shorts) uploaded as of now. I have a lot more ideas in mind. I’ll probably make make some Shorts from this video over the weekend, it’s what I tend to do afterwards. I appreciate you very much, thank you & TTYS 😊

​@Mike_Cosentino thank you for letting me know. I was ready to binge the 101 😅 won't take long to get there 😊 it's a hard topic 😢 get relaxation and self care in between the video making 🙏 onwards and upwards 😊 enjoy your weekend 👍

@jodaniels8097 you as well, I always appreciate you and love seeing your comments 😊. Hope your weekend is going well so far from the bottom of my heart 💜 ☮️..

💯 👍, very true. They do a poor job sometimes at concealing their true identities as con artists

@@jodaniels8097 yes, leave them behind and never look back at the narcissist/s or toxic ppl in general. Your peace, happiness, and tranquility can only be attained by removing toxic folks yall no longer need in life because they hinder your growth and healing. Wise words.. 💜

It's the main reason why narcissists are horrendous parents. :( And cannot truly love anyone, even their own children.

Very, very true. The narcissist can’t ever be happy because nothing is ever good enough and they must look back upon the old opportunities and relationships they blew up. They burn bridges behind them with everyone imaginable; parents, exes, their own kids, so-called friends, siblings, etc. Thanks for the awesome comment

Ah geez, that sucks.. I’m sorry to hear of that. This is why you can’t trust the narcissist with even the tiniest bit of info. Indeed we DO KNOW their cruel, twisted, manipulative mind-games by now. Can you watch it under a different username perhaps? Just a suggestion. Anyways, I always appreciate you.. Stay strong, you got this. 🫂

@Mike_Cosentino Andrew suggested that. I could 🤔 for now I will just watch, like and read our community comments on videos. I get moral support from the comments too. When I've sorted financial ties I can comment. Just not want to give them any strategies I'm doing. They not know about your channel so I'm safe here. This whole narcissist web that we unwittingly got into has really screwed me up 😔 😟 it's hideous. I'm so glad I now know what it was and can heal and move on. Keep on educating Mike, I enjoy your videos too. Thus type of subject (for me at least and I'm sure it's the same for others) needs really repeating into our minds to accept what this was. It's actually tragic that these people get a good feeling out of what they are doing 😔 😟 think about what kind of a twisted mind they have 😲 😔 the aging narc you did a video on is so true, they don't improve, they just get more warped. Have a good week Mike and keep smiling 👍 🙏

I greatly, humbly appreciate you & your kind words. I’ll keep on & share my thoughts regarding this epidemic of narcissism for as long as I humanly can. Narcissism is much more prevalent in this world than some may realize. I love this community of survivors and thrivers to support one another. You take care, too!! You are always welcome and appreciated.

​@Mike_Cosentino thank you kindly Mike. I like the channels where the person has actually gone through this crap and not just read from a text book. I'm so glad you say it is prevalent. I've been thinking about this a lot lately and it seems there are many, many narcissists nowadays. It's.extremely draining when you try to talk to people and it's all about them. Me, me, me, me, me 😮😖😞 it really drains you 😢 keep hope though there are people about but few and far between. This is worldwide too 😮 I'm in England and you america and Andrew in America. Its a worldwide plague of toxic, selfish, greedy, two faced, fake people 😅 bless you Mike and look forward to your next video 🫂

No, not that type of hoover, lol. Well, sorta. This is what google search brought up: The term "hoover" is used as slang to describe a type of emotional abuse where someone manipulates another person into returning to an abusive or toxic relationship. The term is derived from the popular vacuum cleaner brand Hoover, and refers to the abuser's attempt to "suck up" the other person's happiness to feed their own narcissistic needs. Check out some of the videos I did regarding the hoover, I go over it extensively. I’ll leave the links to these videos below 👇, but this is a great question to ask!! Great comment. Just always remember to block AND delete these narcissists. In essence, you want to become “UN-hooverable”. Hope this helps you. th-cam.com/video/MLQOsPFJJK8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=RPTnoVHpKBrIjYJp ⬅️ ‘Never Accept The Narcissist’s Hoover..’ (my 1st ever video) th-cam.com/video/FDk76lCf00Y/w-d-xo.htmlsi=veJ_avkTve6u55Xb ⬅️ ‘What Is A Hoover & Why You Must Never Accept It’

@@Mike_Cosentino thanks makes way more sense now

Thank you very much!!✌️😎 🫶

@@katecollins617 exactly right.. thank you for this.. sendin love and positive vibes your way too

You MUST detach and avoid contact with that person even if you have to move! I DID...All the way to Alaska for several years. You MUST wipe them from your memory and don't let yourself ever consider returning to them. Only remember them for the pain that they caused you, and only do that, so you will continue to move on and grow in your life!

💯 correct & you’re spot-on. No use saving someone or something that cannot be saved. It’s akin to reasoning with a brick wall, an inanimate object.

@@patriziastella6564thank you 🙏 😌, wishing you nothing but the best on your healing journey. We are indeed better off without the narcissist/s.

@@Mike_Cosentino 🥰❤️

@@br2220 much appreciated, I am very thankful to you. Glad you enjoyed them 🙂 👍

@@mvbigmagic4048 indeed, it truly is sad. Some people only see the light after the damage is done. Others knew all along but just grin and bare it for the children. It’s a pitiful situation to be in and my heart goes out to anybody who hasn’t gotten out of that toxic environment yet. It’s so sad to see and watch and go through. My heart goes out to your father, may he rest in peace 🫶.

😢 this video unfortunately is true my narcissistic person has also a narcissistic girlfriend so the two of them are truly vile they push themselves with their toxic behaviour s acting like both are angels sent to fix me Thank you Mike this video has been my life for a good while but it’s so nice to get your videos has support I’m healing I’m taking your words and skipping Thank you Mike ❤

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​@Mike_Cosentino my face looks like that often these days 😂 the 🚗 enter at right time 😮 makes the video on the money 😂😂 they even provide production for your video 😂😂 they are everywhere for sure

@jodaniels8097 so true, hahaha

Thank you my friend :)

@Mike_Cosentino it helps to hear the videos on what we all experience from them, so similar all our stories. Feel for the ones who are unaware like we once were 😔 have a lovely weekend Mike and everyone 🫂

Period, dot, end of story.

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Sounds a lot like that narcissist was blame-shifting, projecting onto you what they may be feeling themselves i.e. their own feeling of paranoia, classic example gaslighting right here.. the narcissist in question wanted to make YOU the problem when it wasn’t. The narcissist just loves to point the finger at anybody & anything but themselves.. thank you for being here, 🙂😎👍. you are strongrr than you’ll ever know 🙏.

@Mike_Cosentino anything but admit they weren't nice, so they have to make it look like it's you and they will give you another chance if you sort out the paranoia shock 😄 😏 they do everything to batter your confidence. Thank you Mike, you are strong too. We just wanted to be nice and peaceful with people and that will never be when the person is a toxic narcissist 🫂

Love this. Thank you so much for your kind words & support. I am indeed standing in solidarity with others who’ve gone through the ringer and then some. Never ever ever accept a Hoover! That’s what got me involved with making these videos, is that the narcissist wants to control others before during & after said-relationship. I’m so grateful and humble to have you aboard. Hope all is OK with you. Much appreciated, thank you. :) 🫂 🙏 ✌️

@Mike_Cosentino humbled to be here Mike and thank you for your kind welcome to your channel 🙏 😊 I shall watch your videos too now as well as Andrews, amazing knowledge we have now. It's strange but even though we are all strangers we all seem to know each other as we all talk the same sort of feelings and experiences, from all over the world. Without finding our community I really would be getting nowhere fast, just sinking further and further into a dark and lonely place. It really is a creepy thing to know that it was all done to us on purpose and thst our sadness was their joy 😖😖 I've listened to Andrew for about a year, have grown so much but still accepted that hoover 😖😧 but I guess it proved that we should never accept a hoover. They just want to drive the boot in that extra bit 😔 😟 have a lovely week Mike and look forward to watching your channel. I've watched a couple so far and both are great. I think (for me anyway) you have to really keep on top of this and watching the videos really help. I'm about 3 quarters of the way to the pinnacle and just the last quarter seems hard. I'm grieving over someone who never was kind, genuine or even normal. It's all very sad but they can't change so we have to get away from them to be happy and healthy. Lots of positive thoughts Mike and thank you for making videos too 🫂 🤗 🙏

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Thank you, you too!!

And why was that? Whatever it is, I wish you well.

I'd been asking for very clear signs of *tells* I've been collecting about someone. Today, I got the clear signs I needed to confirm exactly my worst fears about this person's intentions. ..I want to believe myself, but damn. He's good. I wish others could see it and reflect it for me, [but like... in person ] someone I know really well

Like, they take me for small n stupid or feared...but fumblin

@ShellDragonfire-lv9ze ahh I see. You had a lightbulb moment of realization 💡. Better late than never, though!! At any rate, I wish you all the best.. i feel the same way about society and people in general sometimes. That’s why I’ve said in the past that we must be our own best friend because not everyone in this world is nice, caring, and genuine. If there’s anything I can help you with, feel free to email me and ill try my best. You’re strong though and you will get through this!!

Yeah, they’re everywhere. Literally. But I can spot one from 50 miles away nowadays. And I live life with good people and I now have healthy boundaries

@Mike_Cosentino Wishing you peace and contentment always.

You as well! I appreciate that, thank you so very much.

Much appreciated brother