Sometimes is better to not say anything at all and keep the thought to your self. She should of said, I feel very elegant in this dress, I feel me, this is my dress. I think the sex kitten word was too strong for her mom.
If she would of stopped throwing the words "Sex Kitten" when describing the dresses she was trying on her mom probably would of came around! No mom wants to think of their daughter as a sex kitten!
For real😭 and I’m with her, I love accentuating my femininity with a little sexiness in my daily outfits. But I would NEVER refer to myself as a “sex kitten” in front of my mom. In the bedroom, sure lol. But in front of my mama? Noooo fucking way. I could be in a turtle neck and pants covering my ankles, but as soon as I refer to myself as a “sex kitten” my mom would like want me to cover up even more.
I think that it was wise not to buy the dress that day. I think that the Mum just needs time to digest the mermaid look. I was impressed by the bride's decision to respect her Mum's request and try on other dresses. They both seemed to come to the understanding that if she didn't like another dress, she would come back and buy this one.
Yes true, but her mom needs to understands that is her daughter's wedding and that weddings dresses change styles as year's pass and new designs come up. I think her mom should let her daughter choose the wedding dress that makes her feel like a bride and that looks good on her. I think her mother needs to think that eventhough she wish to see her in x or y kind of dress to her liking is not fair, she should be more to her daughters side . When my daughter when to buy her wedding dress, we pick up 3 and ,I said to her, pick up the dress that make you feel the beautiful bride to be that you are. And I pick dresses with her and she try the 2nd dress for a second time and she love it, she said she did not want to take it off, and the dress looks so beautiful on her. And she said yes to her wedding dress. All mothers out there just beacause you are paying for your daughter's wedding dress , don't that is have to be the one you like.
@@Tatianathn okay so she should just waste her mothers money and wear something she hates? That defeats the whole point. Us as family, offer to pay because we want them to not stress about money and also feel gorgeous on their big day. Not to leverage our money to guilt them into pleasing us.
I think it’s smart that her mom wrote her a check for the amount she wanted to contribute. If the bride isn’t happy with that or wants something a little more, she can pay the rest. That’s just my opinion.
@@Lina_unchained my dad said he’ll give me a budget. I can do with it whatever I please, but anything that goes out of that budget I have to pay for. Reasonable enough to me. He could say, nah you have to pay it all
Agree with you!!! If the bride wants a n expensive dress she must pay it for her self, and that's something smart and generous of her because in the store has been brides who want a dress over the budget and they want there parents pay for it when they must cost the extra or the fiance.
Didn't she say her budget was 3k! Really getting fed up with the consultants putting brides in over budget dresses, very disrespectful and completely unnecessary.
She said her mom gave her 3k, but she wanted to put in some of her own money if she found the right one. That also explains why she wanted to take her mom’s opinion into account.
Indeed.... I said without hesitation “I know mom definitely had laced sleeves” 😆 It’s kinda sad how strict it was for our parents and generations before. Whew I wouldn’t have survived. I’d be that prodigal child 🥴🤦🏽♀️
I agree that kleinfelds put to many brides in budget busting dresses. Quite the shopper turn off. I wouldn't recommend using their consulting service. Their consults are there for the commissions so they pick not so nice cheap dresses then put you in a show stopper over budget. Not fair business practices! 👎🏻👎🏻
Really? Even the bride said she could probably add more to the budget. This is how these people make their money, their job is to sell you stuff the more the better.
If they had chosen an in budget mermaid, then there would have been enough money for an overskirt for the ceremony and sex kitten for the reception. Instead the dress was $5,300 or $2,300 ( 44%) over the $3,000 budget. If you don't agree with Mom's opinion at least respect her budget.
@@dietotaku Who are you to decide these things for others? You follow that. That's okay. No need to disrespect anybody else for their choices Edit: They edited their comment the moment a couple of us bombarded them.
@@dietotaku I totally agree, I am all for the freedom to wear what you want, but If I attend a wedding with the bride's lady parts jumping over the dress, wiggly here and there, I wouldn't pay attention to her, it would be all about her body and her "sexiness". However, a bit of sexy is nice, too much is vulgar.
For real😭 and I’m with her, I love accentuating my femininity with a little sexiness in my daily outfits. But I would NEVER refer to myself as a “sex kitten” in front of my mom. In the bedroom, sure lol. But in front of my mama? Noooo fucking way. I could be in a turtle neck and pants covering my ankles, but as soon as I refer to myself as a “sex kitten” my mom would want me to cover up even more. And rightfully so. No mother wants to see their daughter as a “sex kitten”. She should’ve kept her “sex kitten” act till after the wedding with her husband💀
Especially if it's a church wedding. I don't care what denomination the church is, overly sexy, see through and low cut, skin tight dresses have no business in a church wedding. Show some respect, buy a second "sexy" dress for the reception if you have to have sexy
@@pamfink4052 Oh please. The whole point of this ridiculous argument is that “God sees.” Does He not see in the reception hall? Why is it disrespectful in a church but totally fine elsewhere? People truly need to take a minute to examine the beliefs they hold and the lack of sense they make.
@@winter_s_44 it's a matter of being polite. I'm not gonna wear my stuff that I wear for fronting my old rock band to church. Your husband is gonna get to see all your spicy bits for the rest of your marriage and besides, sexy is an attitude. You can run around half naked and still not be sexy.
I’ve a feeling this daughter will be forced to eventually compromise on her dream wedding dress because her mother clearly wants her in a less form-fitting dress. I’ll be sad for her if that happens because then her dress will become a compromise, not a wish fulfilled.
Why can't they just respect the damn budget?? She will have to pay almost double the price like this. Why do they ask for budget if they don't plan on respecting it???
This was a whirlwind! I love the feather dress on Stephanie so I'm sorry she couldn't get what she wanted, but I'm glad she also respected her mother's thoughts. Two weeks ago, I went with my soon-to-be daughter and her mom to try on wedding dresses. It was a magical experience! And I am thankful for *Say Yes to the Dress* because I've watched so many of these videos, and complained about the overly opinionated mothers, that I did the exact opposite. My new daughter's mom and I celebrated every dress she tried on. We encouraged her. And when we didn't like something, we were positive about it and only talked to each other about negative opinions after she left the room. Strangely, the dress she loved the most is the one both me and her Mom hated. Her second choice was the one me and her mom loved! Either way, as long as she walks down the aisle and says 'I Do' then my son and our combined family will be joyful because *It Is Their Day and we all recognize that!!* 🥰🤵🏽👰🏽
Love this!!!! When its my turn to be mother of the bride, I too will only be supportive. Its her day and I just want her to be happy. She's 16 right now so we have a while before these things will happen. When it does I will be approaching it the same way you did. I hope your son and daughter-in-law are very happy.
I don't like the consultant in this episode, i am sorry. She didn't respect the client budget at all. And she didn't even try to give a 'middle' (between sexy and conservative) dress to make the mom and the bride compromise to each other.
There's a difference in saying you want to feel sexy and saying you want "sex kitten" - like girl, get married in your bedroom with no one else if that's what you want. You want your fiance to want to "rip" the dress off of you during the ceremony??? wtf????!!!!!!!
She might want to raid Morticia Adam's wardrobe. The mermaid dress looks impractical. I suggest flying overseas to talk to Gok. He is amazing if not the best in his field.
@@odetteborg4232 Yeah by far the best dresses seem to be on SYTTD Lancashire, I'd be straight to Gok if I was getting married 😂 I didn't mind this dress though, I thought it suited her well
I feel if her daughter would have stop saying “Sex Kitten” maybe her mother would been on board. To me the daughter just kind of throw that in her moms face
I like this mom! No drama, just quietly stuck to her beliefs that there's a time and place for everything. I like that she quietly requested her daughter try on more dresses. I admit, I'm actually thrown off when the salesperson tries to override the mon, especially for something as personal as a wedding dress!
Whenever it say Yes to the dress in America they never give the bride a dress inside her budget. Say Yes to the dress Lancaster always puts brides in dresses under their budget 🙄 not one dress they put on her was inside the budget even though it was pretty generous of a budget 🙄
I honestly think her daughter was beautiful in that and the first dress. But the mermaid definitely fit the style she wanted and she looks beautiful in it. But I love how sweet she is to her mom tho. I hope her marriage is a good one. ^^
The dress, head piece, veil, was perfect for a non-church wedding. I'm wondering if Mom would have liked it if she had tried on a shrug or some sort of top for the ceremony part and for the reception take it off making it two dresses in one? I believe Mom had asked about something like that and she was ignored, making me think it was the top she had trouble with. She could have tried on what her Mom asked for and maybe her Mom would have liked it.
She asked that useless "consultant" about a shrug, but the girl just looked blank and didn't bother to respond. Had Randy been in this one, he'd have had a solution that would have worked---and he'd have pulled dresses within budget, because he's a huge advocate of staying within it.
@@jb6712.. Yes I think Randy would have handled it differently. It is important to stay in the budget they want. I paid for my dress and was given a dress to try on that was beyond my budget to my surprise, even after 50 years I have never stopped thinking of that dress that I couldn't have.
This bride is just trying to windup the mother by saying comments like “I want him to rip this off me” etc. just disrespectful, and once again the consultant pulls dresses so much more than the budget 🤦♀️
I agree with you and I said something similar. I think the bride needs to grow up. Her mother was not disrespectful to her daughter. Even when her mother said try on a few more, she said we come back, mom said ok.
I love how open and considerate they are of each other. The bride knows what she wants and is comfortable saying it but also loves her mom and values her opinion. Her mom has concerns about the sanctity of her daughter's marriage, but is understanding and willing to listen to her nonetheless because she also loves her. It's so relieving to see a familial relationship like this.
I don't think the bride should wear something she doesn't love just to please her mum, but I'm happy they left without a dress. Those dresses weren't just a little bit over budget, they were $2k more, that's offensive to common decency.
Now when I started watching the show decades ago, they usually fit pretty well with budgets. But they're in the $5,000 range, unless the bride has already told him it's okay to go in that range. That's a little off for them...
I absolutely love how respectful and loving the bride and her Mom were toward one another. Praying this was/is a really happy occasion and that the bride finds exactly The Dress.
Oh, it's a new Say Yes to the Dress upload! I've been binging episodes on youtube for the last week and it threw me off to not see any comments re: what was happening in the video lol. Edit: after finally watching, I do gotta say I kinda agree with mom! It seems like the daughter was just going for sexy/sexy kitten/shock factor almost, instead of just looking for that 'bridal moment" like most are. I wish her and her fiance the best though! I think their approach (talk it out, leave, think it over, try on a few more, then come back) was correct
yeah, when these brides start talking about wanting to look super sexy and ripping off bodices and whatnot i'm just like "well then just have sex in the middle of your ceremony and be done with it."
The atmosphere of Kleinfeld’s-knowing they have a reputation for expensive gowns, paired with the attention of being filmed for SYTTD, is a heady cocktail for a young woman looking for a bridal gown-hopefully a once-in-a-lifetime experience. There are other stores out there with lovely gowns and lower prices. Best choice was to walk away; I cannot imagine paying $5,300.00 for a wedding dress. $3,000.00 is a healthy budget to start with, Mom was quite generous.
The first dress was awful. I agree the blue trim is so random and out of place. It sits weirdly on her hips too and the top and skirt don't go together- the top is all elegant and bejeweled while the bottom is like a big underskirt. It's something you'd put on a babydoll. The second one suited her except for the skirt, which was too big and made it look like a street sweeper. Too bad because the shape suits her, the detailing is lovely and sweetheart necklines are flattering on her. The third one was hideous. When you have beaded corset tops you can't contrast too much with the skirt, which is what they did by adding on that six year old's craft projects. The feathers on the fourth one would be so impractical and will be tattered and filthy by the end. They also look like a carpet. The top is nice.
It looked like someone dunked it into a vat of dye. Katie could have shown her ivory, blush or champagne gowns and she would've had her pop of color and still been traditional enough to satisfy her mother.
Honestly with the headpiece, I felt that 3rd dress was so perfect, but I get that feathers are not for everyone lol Also the way she was selling the dresses to her mom was so extreme, like no wonder mom was uncomfy despite none of those dresses being overly revealing
Also everyone saying she’s a good daughter (and she is)…but kudos to mom, i strongly believe that its because she has a good mom that shes a good daughter!
At least Mom is willing to compromise. Shouldn't be any compromise, should just be "your my daughter, you look beautiful in anything, pick what you want", but. Since it is so important to her daughter, it's nice that there's a compromise available and a willingness to come back if she wants to.
I hope she ends up in this dress or a dress similar because it really suits her figure. I think it was unfair that they put her in a dress way over budget, when i know they have similar dresses that fit her budget.
these mothers need to remember that this will mpst likely be the most elaborate, expensive dress she will ever wear, unless she has more than one formal wedding. SHE needs to feel that she looks her very best, on her most important day of her life. The most important word is HER day, not mothers day.
I love the ruffled "cupcake" dress. I think she looks beautiful in it. I don't think, however, that she should be throwing the phrase "sex kitten" around so freely. it's just not how a bride should look on the most important day of her life. but maybe I'm just old fashioned.
I thought dress number two was gorgeous on this lady! And I also thought it was modest. Her girls weren't falling out. Don't understand mom's problem. I agree with the other comments that the bride should have quit saying the words sex kitten!
I disagree with most of the people here. It is not her mother's wedding, it's hers. It's not disrespectful of her if she wouldn't choose the one her mother wanted.
My mom talked me out of the dress that I FULLY fell in love with and I can't stand looking at my wedding pictures to this day. Don't do it ladies! She even made me borrow my neighbors dress. The one I wanted was $225. Thankfully, with hard work and love, the marriage has lasted!!
In my opinion, the way Mom is dressed, Mom wants her daughter to be dressed like that on her wedding day. In my opinion, I believe Mom wants her daughter to get a loose fitting ball gown wedding dress with sleeves and the top part of the dress that covers the brides chest completely. I'm a Mom myself, I would let my daughter pick her own dress that makes her happy because if I chose my daughter's wedding dress than she will be unhappy on her wedding day and I wouldn't want that. I think this bride won't find the wedding dress that she chooses. I believe this daughter will wear a wedding dress her Mom picks.
I jst wish people could jst let go of what THEY want and just support the bride!! It what the bride wants! The bride is wearing the dress, not mamma. There is nothing scandalous about that dress! She looks beautiful!
i dont think there was anything scandalous about the dress a lot of people love and rock mermaid dresses. i do feel like it was off putting the perspective she was putting it out there as a 'sex kitten' I understand wanting to look sexy on ur wedding day, I certainly do as well but how she is putting it over makes I sound kinda pornographic and over-sexualized. i bet if she said that she wanted something fitted because she got great curves and wanna show off her body her mom would've been open to it more but the whole 'sex kitten' part is offputting. it doesn't make it feel like u wanna look sexy and beautiful on ur wedding day it kinda makes it look like u wanna be looked at as a sex object.
@@M.A.Y.Y If she would have worded it differently then yes. I get where you are coming from . I thought the dress was fine. But her mamma is soooooo conservative, which I get and I think she was paying 4 it too. But still she could either leave without a dress, like she did, or compromise w/her mom in the middle and find something that will work for the both of them. Or SHE could jst buy what she wants, she's grown she can do that, and surprise everyone on her wedding day with the dress of HER choice. It's jst one day, they will get over and be ok. If not then they can seek therapy lol 4real tho! People need to work thru what they are going thru and put it to the side its not about them. It's about the bride.
I like that Mom did not say no, instead she asked that her daughter try a few more before finalizing her decision. I think mom wants to make sure her daughter isn’t rushing into something she might regret later, looking back at the photos. It never hurts to take a little time to be certain of your choices.
So her budget was $3k, but the consultant was showing her dresses 2-2.5k over budget *sigh*. I know the bride said if she liked something she could add a little to the price, but almost double is not a little, I was thinking a few hundred over at most. I've seen plenty of these videos and there are some perfectly lovely dresses within her budget. I'm kind of pleased she went away to think some more on what she wants for a dress. Maybe her mum will be able to come around. Although, I'm more on her mum's side on this one. Sex kitten isn't quite right for a wedding. Keep that for a night out. Having a dress that's a little sexy isn't bad, but sex kitten just seems a tad much.
Why??? Why can these consultants not respect the budget??!! This is ridiculous! The bride said $3000.00! That is a healthy budget. So why are they even entertaining a gown that is over $5000. There's a whole lotta gowns that are well under her budget that are stunning. PS I do know why - it's called GREED. Not happiness for the bride. Just GREED.
3k is absolutely not a bad budget... But still they couldn't put the bride in a single dress in her budget🙄... Typical Klienfield! She could have gotten so many options in that budget n style
They should’ve let the mom pick a dress for the bride to try on, just so mom could see how unhappy the bride would be in anything other than what she wanted - which was the gorgeous mermaid dress that she tried on twice. Wish we knew what the bride eventually chose.
She is just respecting her MOTHERS opinion. Why is that so bad? I respect my mother too and I would feel uncomfortable too if I was getting married in a dress that my mother a) pays for and b) doesn't like too much. If you think this is strict then idk... I would rather call it respecting my parents. But hey, I'm African and we value our parents.
It was more that than the dresses themselves. After looking her up online it's gotta be the usual fake drama. If you can find it, they were on Family Feud. Hilarious clip of her.
Maybe if she had stopped saying the words sex kitten her mother would have seen her differently in the dress. Words have power girl.
Sometimes is better to not say anything at all and keep the thought to your self. She should of said, I feel very elegant in this dress, I feel me, this is my dress. I think the sex kitten word was too strong for her mom.
Completely agree with you. I am socially quite liberal but I agree with the mother.
It's true, those dresses weren't particularly revealing.
EXACTLY HAHAHA
thats exactly what I thought
If she would of stopped throwing the words "Sex Kitten" when describing the dresses she was trying on her mom probably would of came around! No mom wants to think of their daughter as a sex kitten!
Exactly!!
100 percent
Thank goodness they didn’t put her in a Pnina Tornai (sp?) gown, which IMHO look like overpriced lingerie. Her poor mother!
For real😭 and I’m with her, I love accentuating my femininity with a little sexiness in my daily outfits. But I would NEVER refer to myself as a “sex kitten” in front of my mom. In the bedroom, sure lol. But in front of my mama? Noooo fucking way. I could be in a turtle neck and pants covering my ankles, but as soon as I refer to myself as a “sex kitten” my mom would like want me to cover up even more.
I think that it was wise not to buy the dress that day. I think that the Mum just needs time to digest the mermaid look. I was impressed by the bride's decision to respect her Mum's request and try on other dresses. They both seemed to come to the understanding that if she didn't like another dress, she would come back and buy this one.
I can't find her wedding dress, but they were on Family Feud. Funny clip. th-cam.com/video/-KfGEFjD14o/w-d-xo.html
Yes true, but her mom needs to understands that is her daughter's wedding and that weddings dresses change styles as year's pass and new designs come up. I think her mom should let her daughter choose the wedding dress that makes her feel like a bride and that looks good on her. I think her mother needs to think that eventhough she wish to see her in x or y kind of dress to her liking is not fair, she should be more to her daughters side . When my daughter when to buy her wedding dress, we pick up 3 and ,I said to her, pick up the dress that make you feel the beautiful bride to be that you are. And I pick dresses with her and she try the 2nd dress for a second time and she love it, she said she did not want to take it off, and the dress looks so beautiful on her. And she said yes to her wedding dress. All mothers out there just beacause you are paying for your daughter's wedding dress , don't that is have to be the one you like.
@@dialygarayua9144 the mom is the one paying for it I think
@@Tatianathn okay so she should just waste her mothers money and wear something she hates? That defeats the whole point. Us as family, offer to pay because we want them to not stress about money and also feel gorgeous on their big day. Not to leverage our money to guilt them into pleasing us.
@@Sillystring365 they should buy something with a little of mom's style so she will like it
I thought her budget was $3,000 she's been putting her in $5,000 dresses what the heck.
Agreed; dress she loves is $5,300.00; then there’s the price of the headpiece which is unaccounted for. Whoa, that’s a lot for a dress.
Not only that...after alterations and taxes...
She did say in the video that if she wanted to pay more than $3000 she’d cover the cost herself.
She has a masters in banking.
Exactly, that’s what I thought! 👍
I think it’s smart that her mom wrote her a check for the amount she wanted to contribute. If the bride isn’t happy with that or wants something a little more, she can pay the rest. That’s just my opinion.
Yes! Exactly that way she can set HER boundary but the bride can also look at more if SHE herself is comfortable paying the difference.
@@Lina_unchained my dad said he’ll give me a budget. I can do with it whatever I please, but anything that goes out of that budget I have to pay for. Reasonable enough to me. He could say, nah you have to pay it all
@@leahmosier6705 That's awesome and a super smart way to go about it!
Agree with you!!! If the bride wants a n expensive dress she must pay it for her self, and that's something smart and generous of her because in the store has been brides who want a dress over the budget and they want there parents pay for it when they must cost the extra or the fiance.
@@lesliebookercano1954 one other thing my dad told me is that any money left from the wedding budget should go towards the honeymoon!
Didn't she say her budget was 3k! Really getting fed up with the consultants putting brides in over budget dresses, very disrespectful and completely unnecessary.
She said her mom gave her 3k, but she wanted to put in some of her own money if she found the right one. That also explains why she wanted to take her mom’s opinion into account.
@@biblia843 she said a little. To me, making her try on almost twice as the budget is Not little
Lol 😆 Her mother was rethinking her life, she was rethinking the wedding, her parenting, her attitude basically everything.
Indeed.... I said without hesitation “I know mom definitely had laced sleeves” 😆 It’s kinda sad how strict it was for our parents and generations before. Whew I wouldn’t have survived. I’d be that prodigal child 🥴🤦🏽♀️
Hahahaha!!🤣🤣
yup
I agree that kleinfelds put to many brides in budget busting dresses. Quite the shopper turn off. I wouldn't recommend using their consulting service. Their consults are there for the commissions so they pick not so nice cheap dresses then put you in a show stopper over budget. Not fair business practices! 👎🏻👎🏻
These dresses were gorgeous but I don’t remember seeing one actually in her price range lol
They always do that on this show lol they want more commission I guess
Exactly, If they're not going to show dresses at or below the brides budget, why ask about the budget at all.
I noticed that too
@@spookytrash I agree And I would be so pissed if they show me dresses out of my price range
Really? Even the bride said she could probably add more to the budget. This is how these people make their money, their job is to sell you stuff the more the better.
This is a good daughter, keeping true to herself and still respectful of her mama.
If they had chosen an in budget mermaid, then there would have been enough money for an overskirt for the ceremony and sex kitten for the reception. Instead the dress was $5,300 or $2,300 ( 44%) over the $3,000 budget. If you don't agree with Mom's opinion at least respect her budget.
The bride said she would pay if it goes over the budget.
there doesn't need to be any sex kitten at the reception either. you're getting MARRIED, sex kitten belongs in the bedroom now, not the club.
@@dietotaku the type of people who just can't let other people live🤣🤣
@@dietotaku Who are you to decide these things for others? You follow that. That's okay. No need to disrespect anybody else for their choices
Edit: They edited their comment the moment a couple of us bombarded them.
@@dietotaku I totally agree, I am all for the freedom to wear what you want, but If I attend a wedding with the bride's lady parts jumping over the dress, wiggly here and there, I wouldn't pay attention to her, it would be all about her body and her "sexiness". However, a bit of sexy is nice, too much is vulgar.
Oh that's a decent girl! a big hug and all the love in the world to you!! you deserve happiness for the loving daughter that you are !!
It's YOUR wedding, I'm a mom too, but I wouldn't interfere with my daughter's joy. 🥰💕🙏🏼
Only a great mom would say this Bravo to you 🙌🏿
The mom was really annoying, right?
I know that's right!
Her mom was trippin!
exactly
The mom’s face when the daughter said “I want Steven to want to rip it off” AND when the friend said “This is very Vegas”!!! 😂🤣
I too would cry If my daughter said she wanted to look like a sex kitten. Not because I'm conservative but because of cringe
For real😭 and I’m with her, I love accentuating my femininity with a little sexiness in my daily outfits. But I would NEVER refer to myself as a “sex kitten” in front of my mom. In the bedroom, sure lol. But in front of my mama? Noooo fucking way. I could be in a turtle neck and pants covering my ankles, but as soon as I refer to myself as a “sex kitten” my mom would want me to cover up even more. And rightfully so. No mother wants to see their daughter as a “sex kitten”. She should’ve kept her “sex kitten” act till after the wedding with her husband💀
Especially if it's a church wedding. I don't care what denomination the church is, overly sexy, see through and low cut, skin tight dresses have no business in a church wedding. Show some respect, buy a second "sexy" dress for the reception if you have to have sexy
@@pamfink4052 Oh please. The whole point of this ridiculous argument is that “God sees.” Does He not see in the reception hall? Why is it disrespectful in a church but totally fine elsewhere? People truly need to take a minute to examine the beliefs they hold and the lack of sense they make.
@@winter_s_44 it's a matter of being polite. I'm not gonna wear my stuff that I wear for fronting my old rock band to church. Your husband is gonna get to see all your spicy bits for the rest of your marriage and besides, sexy is an attitude. You can run around half naked and still not be sexy.
Poor mom. She was stressed the whole time but I appreciated that she was fairly reserved about her input.
I’ve a feeling this daughter will be forced to eventually compromise on her dream wedding dress because her mother clearly wants her in a less form-fitting dress. I’ll be sad for her if that happens because then her dress will become a compromise, not a wish fulfilled.
I completely agree!
i completely agree too 😞
I think for half the price she could get a mermaid dress for the reception and wear an overskirt for the wedding
No. Not having her own money, $5,000, is going to cause her to compromise. I'm sad people cannot to simple math. The budget is $3000.
Why can't they just respect the damn budget?? She will have to pay almost double the price like this. Why do they ask for budget if they don't plan on respecting it???
This was a whirlwind! I love the feather dress on Stephanie so I'm sorry she couldn't get what she wanted, but I'm glad she also respected her mother's thoughts.
Two weeks ago, I went with my soon-to-be daughter and her mom to try on wedding dresses. It was a magical experience! And I am thankful for *Say Yes to the Dress* because I've watched so many of these videos, and complained about the overly opinionated mothers, that I did the exact opposite. My new daughter's mom and I celebrated every dress she tried on. We encouraged her. And when we didn't like something, we were positive about it and only talked to each other about negative opinions after she left the room. Strangely, the dress she loved the most is the one both me and her Mom hated. Her second choice was the one me and her mom loved! Either way, as long as she walks down the aisle and says 'I Do' then my son and our combined family will be joyful because *It Is Their Day and we all recognize that!!* 🥰🤵🏽👰🏽
Love this!!!! When its my turn to be mother of the bride, I too will only be supportive. Its her day and I just want her to be happy. She's 16 right now so we have a while before these things will happen. When it does I will be approaching it the same way you did. I hope your son and daughter-in-law are very happy.
I don't like the consultant in this episode, i am sorry. She didn't respect the client budget at all. And she didn't even try to give a 'middle' (between sexy and conservative) dress to make the mom and the bride compromise to each other.
None of the consultants stick to the budget.
Exactly!
There's a difference in saying you want to feel sexy and saying you want "sex kitten" - like girl, get married in your bedroom with no one else if that's what you want. You want your fiance to want to "rip" the dress off of you during the ceremony??? wtf????!!!!!!!
Not sure I like the headpiece but the dress was really pretty and I don't think it was too sexy or anything...I hope she got one she wanted 🤷♀️
She might want to raid Morticia Adam's wardrobe. The mermaid dress looks impractical.
I suggest flying overseas to talk to Gok. He is amazing if not the best in his field.
I love the headpiece, but I don't think it quite matches the styles she was wearing
@@odetteborg4232 Yeah by far the best dresses seem to be on SYTTD Lancashire, I'd be straight to Gok if I was getting married 😂 I didn't mind this dress though, I thought it suited her well
@@rivertam7827 yeah you're right, maybe I would like it with a dress that pairs better with it
@@odetteborg4232 Personally, I REALLY dislike mermaid style dress. I don’t like the silhouette and I think it’s very difficult to move in.
I feel if her daughter would have stop saying “Sex Kitten” maybe her mother would been on board. To me the daughter just kind of throw that in her moms face
100% agree
Definitely she was trying to antagonize her mom. She even ganged up on her with her friends to make her mom back down….
Most diplomatic, gentle mom ever!
All the comments from the mom are why I bought my own gown.
It's okay to have an opinion, but Mom had her wedding day.
I like this mom! No drama, just quietly stuck to her beliefs that there's a time and place for everything. I like that she quietly requested her daughter try on more dresses. I admit, I'm actually thrown off when the salesperson tries to override the mon, especially for something as personal as a wedding dress!
budget: 3k
them: puts her in a dress over the budget
me: the math isnt mathing 🤨
She said it was on sale for only $899 so still within their budget.
@@artsyhyd i was talking about the first dress :)
@@Lux-hj4yp ahh ic 😁
All the dresses they put her in were budget busting.
I believe the bride gave her budget number and then immediately said she could push it for the right dress. .
They were so respectful of each other. I wish all disagreements went like this
omg! i went to college with her! congratulations stephanie! hope you found the perfect dress and had a lovely wedding day.
Whenever it say Yes to the dress in America they never give the bride a dress inside her budget. Say Yes to the dress Lancaster always puts brides in dresses under their budget 🙄 not one dress they put on her was inside the budget even though it was pretty generous of a budget 🙄
Say yes to the dress Atlanta always respects budget but not kleinfeld
I honestly think her daughter was beautiful in that and the first dress. But the mermaid definitely fit the style she wanted and she looks beautiful in it. But I love how sweet she is to her mom tho. I hope her marriage is a good one. ^^
Now why was she put in dresses over budget😭
thats what im tryna figure out 💀
The dress, head piece, veil, was perfect for a non-church wedding. I'm wondering if Mom would have liked it if she had tried on a shrug or some sort of top for the ceremony part and for the reception take it off making it two dresses in one? I believe Mom had asked about something like that and she was ignored, making me think it was the top she had trouble with. She could have tried on what her Mom asked for and maybe her Mom would have liked it.
She did ask about a shrug. The consultant should have had suggestions along those lines.
She asked that useless "consultant" about a shrug, but the girl just looked blank and didn't bother to respond. Had Randy been in this one, he'd have had a solution that would have worked---and he'd have pulled dresses within budget, because he's a huge advocate of staying within it.
@@jb6712.. Yes I think Randy would have handled it differently. It is important to stay in the budget they want. I paid for my dress and was given a dress to try on that was beyond my budget to my surprise, even after 50 years I have never stopped thinking of that dress that I couldn't have.
@@pazza4555 I don't think the consultant was listening to the Mother. Someone call Randy lol...
There was no church ceremony
This bride is just trying to windup the mother by saying comments like “I want him to rip this off me” etc.
just disrespectful, and once again the consultant pulls dresses so much more than the budget 🤦♀️
I agree with you and I said something similar. I think the bride needs to grow up. Her mother was not disrespectful to her daughter. Even when her mother said try on a few more, she said we come back, mom said ok.
@@robyndeddens6658 yep exactly!
I hope the bride gets what she wants. But why was every dress way over her budget? Surely, they have stuff she likes within her price point.
Exactly. That mermaid dress that the bride absolutely loved was $5,300!
That was $2,300 ABOVE her budget of $3,000.
I'm pretty sure the bride also said that if she really liked a dress, she would pay the added cost on top of the 3K.
I love how open and considerate they are of each other. The bride knows what she wants and is comfortable saying it but also loves her mom and values her opinion. Her mom has concerns about the sanctity of her daughter's marriage, but is understanding and willing to listen to her nonetheless because she also loves her. It's so relieving to see a familial relationship like this.
That dress was almost TWICE her budget, and they’re not even telling them the price.
I do not like what Kleinfeld is turning into.
It’s not Kleinfeld is the consultants who don’t respect the brides budgets
This is a very old eposode
I don't think the bride should wear something she doesn't love just to please her mum, but I'm happy they left without a dress. Those dresses weren't just a little bit over budget, they were $2k more, that's offensive to common decency.
It's always a beautiful thing to watch when a bride shops for her dress!
Why does Katie looks like Roxane from Megamind lmao
that's a good observation. I like that observation
I kept thinking who is she reminding me of, I was thinking Winona Ryder with short hair
She looks like Isabella Rossellini. So beautiful.
Now when I started watching the show decades ago, they usually fit pretty well with budgets. But they're in the $5,000 range, unless the bride has already told him it's okay to go in that range. That's a little off for them...
She got married in 2013 so this clip is pretty old.
I absolutely love how respectful and loving the bride and her Mom were toward one another. Praying this was/is a really happy occasion and that the bride finds exactly The Dress.
Oh, it's a new Say Yes to the Dress upload! I've been binging episodes on youtube for the last week and it threw me off to not see any comments re: what was happening in the video lol.
Edit: after finally watching, I do gotta say I kinda agree with mom! It seems like the daughter was just going for sexy/sexy kitten/shock factor almost, instead of just looking for that 'bridal moment" like most are. I wish her and her fiance the best though! I think their approach (talk it out, leave, think it over, try on a few more, then come back) was correct
yeah, when these brides start talking about wanting to look super sexy and ripping off bodices and whatnot i'm just like "well then just have sex in the middle of your ceremony and be done with it."
Mother's need to understand that it isn't THEIR wedding and let their daughter's have the dress they feel is right for them.
The atmosphere of Kleinfeld’s-knowing they have a reputation for expensive gowns, paired with the attention of being filmed for SYTTD, is a heady cocktail for a young woman looking for a bridal gown-hopefully a once-in-a-lifetime experience. There are other stores out there with lovely gowns and lower prices. Best choice was to walk away; I cannot imagine paying $5,300.00 for a wedding dress. $3,000.00 is a healthy budget to start with, Mom was quite generous.
I can't believe she just asked why can't sacred be sexy. Ugh! I feel for this poor mom.
The first dress was awful. I agree the blue trim is so random and out of place. It sits weirdly on her hips too and the top and skirt don't go together- the top is all elegant and bejeweled while the bottom is like a big underskirt. It's something you'd put on a babydoll. The second one suited her except for the skirt, which was too big and made it look like a street sweeper. Too bad because the shape suits her, the detailing is lovely and sweetheart necklines are flattering on her. The third one was hideous. When you have beaded corset tops you can't contrast too much with the skirt, which is what they did by adding on that six year old's craft projects. The feathers on the fourth one would be so impractical and will be tattered and filthy by the end. They also look like a carpet. The top is nice.
Blue trim dress was weird. I'd rather see her in a soft teal, soft pink, soft peach - where you aren't really the color - more an illusion of color.
It looked like someone dunked it into a vat of dye. Katie could have shown her ivory, blush or champagne gowns and she would've had her pop of color and still been traditional enough to satisfy her mother.
the style would look better on someone shorter or with a shorter torso. but the blue just weird and out of place.
Why not add an overskirt when the shape is what bothers mom? Overskirt for the ceremony, take it off for the party, ezpz!
I think the problem with that is this dress is already way over her budget. An over skirt is probably another grand or two.
@@jscho8674 i read somewhere in the comments that the dress was on sale?
Tasteful is the word when shopping for a wedding dress.
The bride and her mother are só respectful of each other's opinions! 💕💕💕💕
i can only imagine what it would be like to have your parents/family members pay for your wedding dress..
Katie, this wedding consultant lady, is very chic and so beautiful as a Hollywood star !
But she didn't respect the bride's budget. Got me annoyed
Honestly with the headpiece, I felt that 3rd dress was so perfect, but I get that feathers are not for everyone lol Also the way she was selling the dresses to her mom was so extreme, like no wonder mom was uncomfy despite none of those dresses being overly revealing
That dress with feather detailing 😍 she looked like a goddess 😍😍
There was nothing wrong with the mermaid. Her attitude was what made her mom feel it was a hoochie dress.
When the consultant walked in I thought she was a movie star model, she's gorgeous!
Been watching Say Yes to the Dress for a while and it is the first time I see this consultant.
The mermaid is beautiful. She should go with what she loves
Also everyone saying she’s a good daughter (and she is)…but kudos to mom, i strongly believe that its because she has a good mom that shes a good daughter!
I've gotta agree, feathers don't really belong on wedding dresses.
Why does she keep referring to a “sex kitten” for a wedding dress. 😖
That sounds like something one would say for their honeymoon attire.
I agree with mom. Only the groom needs to see his future bride playing “sex kitten”
Man! that bride is absolutely gorgeous!
At least Mom is willing to compromise. Shouldn't be any compromise, should just be "your my daughter, you look beautiful in anything, pick what you want", but. Since it is so important to her daughter, it's nice that there's a compromise available and a willingness to come back if she wants to.
I hope she ends up in this dress or a dress similar because it really suits her figure. I think it was unfair that they put her in a dress way over budget, when i know they have similar dresses that fit her budget.
The bride was talking about the $ 3,000 budget and the consultant put her in a dress for over $ 4,000. 🤦♀️
YES!! I felt that too about the consultant not really caring.
these mothers need to remember that this will mpst likely be the most elaborate, expensive dress she will ever wear, unless she has more than one formal wedding. SHE needs to feel that she looks her very best, on her most important day of her life. The most important word is HER day, not mothers day.
Consultant is so cute
I love the ruffled "cupcake" dress. I think she looks beautiful in it. I don't think, however, that she should be throwing the phrase "sex kitten" around so freely. it's just not how a bride should look on the most important day of her life. but maybe I'm just old fashioned.
That mermaid dress and headpiece are breathtaking on her!! Maybe a tiny shrug for just the ceremony will make Mama happy.
Hearing a bride say she wants to look like a "sex kitten" on her wedding day just is wrong on so many levels.
I thought dress number two was gorgeous on this lady! And I also thought it was modest. Her girls weren't falling out. Don't understand mom's problem. I agree with the other comments that the bride should have quit saying the words sex kitten!
I disagree with most of the people here. It is not her mother's wedding, it's hers. It's not disrespectful of her if she wouldn't choose the one her mother wanted.
wait th proposing thing is so cut 😭
My mom talked me out of the dress that I FULLY fell in love with and I can't stand looking at my wedding pictures to this day. Don't do it ladies!
She even made me borrow my neighbors dress. The one I wanted was $225.
Thankfully, with hard work and love, the marriage has lasted!!
I think that the mermaid dress was the best choice for her but it’s better to be sure!
In my opinion, the way Mom is dressed, Mom wants her daughter to be dressed like that on her wedding day. In my opinion, I believe Mom wants her daughter to get a loose fitting ball gown wedding dress with sleeves and the top part of the dress that covers the brides chest completely.
I'm a Mom myself, I would let my daughter pick her own dress that makes her happy because if I chose my daughter's wedding dress than she will be unhappy on her wedding day and I wouldn't want that. I think this bride won't find the wedding dress that she chooses. I believe this daughter will wear a wedding dress her Mom picks.
I jst wish people could jst let go of what THEY want and just support the bride!! It what the bride wants! The bride is wearing the dress, not mamma. There is nothing scandalous about that dress! She looks beautiful!
i dont think there was anything scandalous about the dress
a lot of people love and rock mermaid dresses.
i do feel like it was off putting the perspective she was putting it out there
as a 'sex kitten'
I understand wanting to look sexy on ur wedding day, I certainly do as well
but how she is putting it over makes I sound kinda pornographic and over-sexualized.
i bet if she said that she wanted something fitted because she got great curves and wanna show off her body her mom would've been open to it more but the whole 'sex kitten' part is offputting.
it doesn't make it feel like u wanna look sexy and beautiful on ur wedding day it kinda makes it look like u wanna be looked at as a sex object.
@@M.A.Y.Y If she would have worded it differently then yes. I get where you are coming from . I thought the dress was fine. But her mamma is soooooo conservative, which I get and I think she was paying 4 it too. But still she could either leave without a dress, like she did, or compromise w/her mom in the middle and find something that will work for the both of them. Or SHE could jst buy what she wants, she's grown she can do that, and surprise everyone on her wedding day with the dress of HER choice. It's jst one day, they will get over and be ok. If not then they can seek therapy lol 4real tho! People need to work thru what they are going thru and put it to the side its not about them. It's about the bride.
Her mother is so sweet
I like her turtle pin.
off topic but the girl with the pixie cut is stunning
I love the bride's body confidence, wish more bride's were like this...good for her
I like that Mom did not say no, instead she asked that her daughter try a few more before finalizing her decision. I think mom wants to make sure her daughter isn’t rushing into something she might regret later, looking back at the photos. It never hurts to take a little time to be certain of your choices.
ytf ud anyone want to look like a sex kitten for the wedding... save that for the wedding night 😂
So her budget was $3k, but the consultant was showing her dresses 2-2.5k over budget *sigh*. I know the bride said if she liked something she could add a little to the price, but almost double is not a little, I was thinking a few hundred over at most. I've seen plenty of these videos and there are some perfectly lovely dresses within her budget. I'm kind of pleased she went away to think some more on what she wants for a dress. Maybe her mum will be able to come around. Although, I'm more on her mum's side on this one. Sex kitten isn't quite right for a wedding. Keep that for a night out. Having a dress that's a little sexy isn't bad, but sex kitten just seems a tad much.
The sales woman is so pretty she looks like a movie star pls remind me who lol
Shaliene Woodley?
@@cindanchana I think Winona Ryder, the short haired.
Ashley Greene
@@donnamartin2327 oh yes! Twilight! 😁
She KIND OF looks like Rosa Salazar from the Scorch Trials but not " super " but not like "not at all" lmao
the birds dress was the best
Why??? Why can these consultants not respect the budget??!! This is ridiculous! The bride said $3000.00! That is a healthy budget. So why are they even entertaining a gown that is over $5000. There's a whole lotta gowns that are well under her budget that are stunning. PS I do know why - it's called GREED. Not happiness for the bride. Just GREED.
3k is absolutely not a bad budget... But still they couldn't put the bride in a single dress in her budget🙄... Typical Klienfield! She could have gotten so many options in that budget n style
Actually, they almost always stay within budget. If they don't, i is because the bride specifically chooses the dress.
Sometimes Mom’s need to remember it’s their daughter ‘s wedding not theirs.
@Mega Lenny I disagree. I have 2 daughters and even though I paid for their dresses I believe it was still their choice for their wedding days.
@@pattyvantassel6955 ewww control freak
@@pattyvantassel6955 CONTROL FREAK!!!!!
"I think the mermaid is more me"
Mom: swallows hard!
They should’ve let the mom pick a dress for the bride to try on, just so mom could see how unhappy the bride would be in anything other than what she wanted - which was the gorgeous mermaid dress that she tried on twice. Wish we knew what the bride eventually chose.
"The gorgeous mermaid" (which it isn't) cost almost twice the mother's budget, so no, the young woman should most certainly NOT get that one!
Imagine being a grown adult and letting your parent’s opinion sway you. This show captures strict family dynamics so clearly.
She is just respecting her MOTHERS opinion. Why is that so bad? I respect my mother too and I would feel uncomfortable too if I was getting married in a dress that my mother a) pays for and b) doesn't like too much. If you think this is strict then idk... I would rather call it respecting my parents. But hey, I'm African and we value our parents.
I LOVED THE BALL GOWN..THAT BLUE WAS BEAUTIFUL.
What a stunning bride
I admire both sides and would loved to have had the opportunity to dress shop. My mom bought my dress and brought it home.
I actually loved the one with feathers.
The bride is something else! Sex kitten? Really.
If she had not kept saying sex kitten, he's gonna want to rip it off .. etc.. mom wouldn't have this idea in her mind of her daughter.. maybe?🤦♀️🤷♀️
It was more that than the dresses themselves. After looking her up online it's gotta be the usual fake drama. If you can find it, they were on Family Feud. Hilarious clip of her.
Love the mom.