Stressing everyone out but themselves is a hallmark of men. The broke men I’ve dated were only stressed because they couldn’t keep up. Other than that, they had no intention of upping their game. Pretty gross actually. Like- get some ambition!
@desireeangelicmelodies8709 she's wrong don't listen to her, still encourage them but don't narrated them cause that is wrong and they just need a second chance
@@layback76 you aren’t a target for gold diggers. You are broke and have no gold for them to dig. And how i know you’re broke is cuz only broke men use the term “gold digger”
I was dating someone who was financially unstable.... he had lots of debt and issues holding on to solid employment... which made me question his overall choices and why he was willing to still date when he needed to get his life together...people need to get right with themselves before investing in a relationship.
I just broke up with one. Constant state of negativity and would take my happy moods to a low place with a single look. He used me and other people and women. It was disgusting to watch.
I completely agree with this!!! Been there & done that & I definitely did not feel feminine & had to constantly compromise...guys think that it is about being materialistic although there is so much more to it than that! Thank you Dereck for breaking it down exactly how we women feel 🥰
My ex freaked out when I asked him to take me to a restaurant that he thought cost a lot when it really didn't ..that's where I knew this was a big red flag on how cheap and broke he was. Yes he was always stressed and counting every penny.
You should do a video on men who are not broke they are in fact well off and they are stingy they don’t give women anything and they act like they’re broke
Just don't involve yourself with them, don't even try to understand them. As we get old, learn to not try to change some situations when we know there are 90%it will not change.... Just move on.
Interesting 🤔 I was with one that wasn’t broke financially but was cheap. He was comfortable being BROKE DOWN in his own dysfunction. No evolution and it will never change.
Dam i aint watched a video of his on a longgg time but I had to click on thos one!!! And its all FACTS!!! BROKE ANS BROKEN!!! Sheesh theh will beinf you down like that plane did the twin towers!!!
The same thing here. The problem is that the relationship is already in progress. My friend told me I need to get really mad, to the point of kicking (literally) him with my own feet out of my home. But it will take some time to get to this stage. Because for us, ladies who get involved with such guys, the main problem is our very weak boundaries.
I’ve dated many broke men and each of them were content. Never stressed. I was always the one stressed and used.
Stressing everyone out but themselves is a hallmark of men. The broke men I’ve dated were only stressed because they couldn’t keep up. Other than that, they had no intention of upping their game. Pretty gross actually. Like- get some ambition!
Yup because you have taken all the stress on your shoulders for him. Because he's been happy being lazy
Broke men can not help you. They can not help pay your bills, can not buy you flowers, gifts, buy u dinner, etc. You are wasting your time with them.
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Omg this is sooooo true! 🥲 I always felt stressed, used, unappreciated, neglected , out of place etc.
Ladies, don't do it. I've done it, and I wasn't appreciated. That was a double slap in the face. Leave those bums where they are.
Girl yessss
@@desireeangelicmelodies8709nope🤓🖕
AMEN
@desireeangelicmelodies8709 she's wrong don't listen to her, still encourage them but don't narrated them cause that is wrong and they just need a second chance
Now it all makes sense. This is why my ex and i broke up. He was always stressed out cuz he was broke and relied on me to fix the problem.
Same to my ex girlfriend thx god I left her
Why didn't he just get a job or 2 jobs ?
That is so true! He has to be comfortable being broke because he’s DATING! Wow!
Not my truth 🤓 🖕
Ikr! Wow!
Evolved men dont date while broke, they will not risk losing your respect
Messageeeee!!!!! Yesssss
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Not completely
You lost my respect for being 37kg's overweight. Go on a diet fa atty...
So True !
Sounds like my ex! He was always stressed out,he was always tired,he was always mad, very stressful! It’s not healthy for me…
This goes for emotionally mentally spiritually broke men too
Dating CHEAP men is also very hazardous!!!
Dating Gold diggers is hazardous also!
Dating anyone is hazardous you better off pumping and dumping also it helps keep you’re sanity bc women bring nothing but drama no matter what race
The are few financial stable single men...so they must share🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@holyghost8467go find you a boyfriend, that’s what you really want unc-auntie
@@layback76 you aren’t a target for gold diggers. You are broke and have no gold for them to dig. And how i know you’re broke is cuz only broke men use the term “gold digger”
I was dating someone who was financially unstable.... he had lots of debt and issues holding on to solid employment... which made me question his overall choices and why he was willing to still date when he needed to get his life together...people need to get right with themselves before investing in a relationship.
Speak for yourself 🤓 🖕
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Men don't care, theres men living in Homeless shelters trying to date.
I just broke up with one. Constant state of negativity and would take my happy moods to a low place with a single look. He used me and other people and women. It was disgusting to watch.
You are one hundred percent correct. Ladies, please listen.
Exactly! Nothing to offer, uncertain future.
I completely agree with this!!! Been there & done that & I definitely did not feel feminine & had to constantly compromise...guys think that it is about being materialistic although there is so much more to it than that! Thank you Dereck for breaking it down exactly how we women feel 🥰
Gold digger
I really understand when would do it. Even as a woman I wouldn't do it ( not that Iam the provider)
So true. I felt like his mom. So draining. Frustrated all the time w him.
My ex freaked out when I asked him to take me to a restaurant that he thought cost a lot when it really didn't ..that's where I knew this was a big red flag on how cheap and broke he was.
Yes he was always stressed and counting every penny.
Oh wow
It end up being hell..I felt like I had another son..smh
Broke men are also manipulative too.
They love to guilt trip you and say hold them down at their lowest. Sorry get somebody else to do it.
@@desireeangelicmelodies8709
Virtual hi five bow out quickly
@@desireeangelicmelodies8709speak for yourself 🤓 🖕
And play victim when they don’t get their way
Yess
Lord Jesus !!! I wish I would of watched this video before I got myself into a mess 😢
Much respect to men who are a jack of all trades and a master of none. They know how to get themselves out of hardship 👏
Aww ain’t that sweet
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This is true I am dealing with someone broke it’s too much and I already told him not helping him no more .
Broke men are not horrible. They are not datable and shouldn't be dating. They're still trying to find themselves.
EXTREMELY..HAZARDOUS...LADIES HURRY UP AND DODGE THIS BULLET
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it’s puts women in masculine energy and it makes women loses attraction and interest.
Yesssssss
@@QueeninMeNO
True
So true, also generally men who are not masculine
You should do a video on men who are not broke they are in fact well off and they are stingy they don’t give women anything and they act like they’re broke
Agree!!!
Just don't involve yourself with them, don't even try to understand them. As we get old, learn to not try to change some situations when we know there are 90%it will not change.... Just move on.
Dating him now! And what your saying is the truth.
Better you than me. I am not having that.
@@vanaphill2454 did I ask your opinion and what makes you think I'm not handling it?
How's it going?
@@antno_2064 she dead 😮
@@cassiewalker6667yall still together? ❤
Speak on it Derrick. We shouldn’t get into situations when that’s not what we really desire. Know thy self and move as such!
OMG--You're speaking to where I was in the past!
“Expect the projection of their lack of peace onto you that compromises your peace” 💯
He’s too comfortable.🤦🏽♀️ Not stressed out per se but acts like a baby when he can’t get his way.😒
So many people I know need to see this video
He nailed this mutha right on the head. Much much respect for this one. Wow!!!
True and they blame you for everthing have dated one and never again i beter single off single
1000% true. Didn’t work.
I wish I knew this 7 years ago.
This hit the nail on the head ! 🎉
yes this is the truth smh. It definitely is frustrating smh
Interesting 🤔 I was with one that wasn’t broke financially but was cheap. He was comfortable being BROKE DOWN in his own dysfunction. No evolution and it will never change.
Then he has a bum mentality.
How cheap?
@@ure2grit931 cheap
Change is the only constant
Soo true 💯% ...speaking my life and getting out of it now... 😭
I...and it wasn't fun, glad to say that I have my peace back
I’ve dated broke men in the past. Always a nightmare.
I just got rid of one
True***You're so right!
If he broke n stressed he needs to work harder
I did! He did not even have a phone and that was my stupidity!
I have. NEVER AGAIN!
I am so glad men are calling out these men. They are in no position to be a provider or someone with a plan for his life. You're not his mother!
Evolved yes… also #1 criteria emotionally stable
I did it was hell. Never again no peace constant mood swings
I'm glad to get ready to let broke men go 😉 I'm better when I'm single
Can't wait to say this
Thank you for this hard lesson
Broke and broken men are a big NO NO....RED FLAGS
This was everything of my ex-husband
So true...💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
They have "lack mindset"
He is right.
I agree 💯..
Team Jaxn! This entire video from my own experience is nothing more than 100% truth.
Great Video keep bringing them !
Enough is enough
Broken inside = Broken outside. Stay away
I and I won’t do it again. .
I’d say “why dating men is hazardous”
Dealing with this now
Women also have to work on themselves too.
Dam i aint watched a video of his on a longgg time but I had to click on thos one!!! And its all FACTS!!! BROKE ANS BROKEN!!! Sheesh theh will beinf you down like that plane did the twin towers!!!
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
Wow... This is interesting.. Hazardous
Thank you!
perfect video
My fave topic
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
.... I'm just here for entertainment purposes... please... continue...
Dating him now. 💯
😭😭You are talking to me, exactly my experience.
Everything you say is true because I've dated one
Toxic men do this...just a question though...do they ever change? Will they change for another person ?
They only change if they get with a very toxic woman that won’t care about him at all and will empty his pockets.
NO
No!
Not unless God turns their heart. They might be motivated to do better for another women but it dwindles down eventually and the mask slips off
I rather stay single!
I--My ex-husband
It’s the worst decision I ever made in my life worse pay for everything 😢😢😢😢😢
I am going thru it now
Nothing is free🤦🏻♀️
Facts!!!
Sooo true.
So true
Why is this the truth 😱😱😱
Facts
True
I see why JESUS going to end this world. This is the low budget conversation s
Yep👍👍👍
This is 100% my ex
Thanks
Factsss
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What if he has a job
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I done
More than once,
Dealing with this as you speak. My question would be how do you get out of these situations?
Especially when kids are involved
The same thing here. The problem is that the relationship is already in progress. My friend told me I need to get really mad, to the point of kicking (literally) him with my own feet out of my home. But it will take some time to get to this stage. Because for us, ladies who get involved with such guys, the main problem is our very weak boundaries.