The Justice Court EP 103 || WHY DID SHE QUIT HER MARRIAGE ON VALENTINE'S DAY?

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  • @JusticeCourtTV
    @JusticeCourtTV  2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thanks for watching this video 💕PLEASE SHARE THIS VIDEO💕 with others and support #thejusticecourt efforts in changing lives.

    • @auduaminat5222
      @auduaminat5222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Walahi judge fumi asolu is a God sent if we have like two of them in dt Nigeria I think some of those curlsuption and mess mess will die down.may alimighty allah continue to bless you judge fumi asolu, watching u guys from Cairo.

    • @irisjaye2265
      @irisjaye2265 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is there a follow up on this case? I would like to know if the marriage worked out.

    • @sidikidiabate1034
      @sidikidiabate1034 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kolokoklkkkkk​@@auduaminat5222

    • @amynne7849
      @amynne7849 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please kindly direct me, I want to submit my case. The link is not activated. Please direct me

    • @okanlawonajuju2681
      @okanlawonajuju2681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @princeaghamiogie7154
    @princeaghamiogie7154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for always being so considerate.

  • @bog9867
    @bog9867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    How do women allow men to beat them!! I just can’t comprehend, over 30 years together with my wife and it has never crossed my mind to hit her. Wake up women that’s not love.

    • @makedashabaka8741
      @makedashabaka8741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women need to have

    • @yettyidowu9706
      @yettyidowu9706 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's good of you

    • @motunrayolawalkswell2791
      @motunrayolawalkswell2791 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's because you don't have the beast in you to beat a woman

    • @enaiagodo9847
      @enaiagodo9847 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No woman "allows" A a man to beat her. I.e. no woman consents to being beaten. Men who are wife beaters have a problem.

    • @Adunny01
      @Adunny01 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Because you where raised by in love

  • @kalimbaayinde25
    @kalimbaayinde25 ปีที่แล้ว

    First abuser to admit abuse. 😢he is out of control

  • @rowenawilliams6407
    @rowenawilliams6407 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's giving so little money and is beating the woman, CHEAP MAN.!!!

  • @minefamilyshow
    @minefamilyshow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Live long judge Funmi

  • @chinenyeejim
    @chinenyeejim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    When a woman is loved, submission and respect comes naturally and easily

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So u married a woman without loving her & u r waiting 4 submission & respect 1st abi ?
      After marrying her, u r waiting 4respect & submission b4 u begin 2love innit ?

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mapurensosundaykpanpenso evryone shud play their role, yeah.
      But if u can't manage anyone who isn't playing their role, if u can't condone anyone's shortcomings, if u can't swallow anyone's misdeeds, den call it quits. Don't beat anybody. As a man, he's not even performing his 1st duty wich is provision. D wife is d one carrying d load, so he shud consider her where she's not meeting up. If hijab is his problem den he shud send her away.

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I'm not comparing jack, I only said mine is 50monthly & is not enof. I'm not condemning anything xcept his beatings.I didn't condemn his hustle rada I condemn his attitude of beating. Nigeria is not easy but beating is easy? Y can't he channel his energy 2beta tins rada dan beat his hustling wife? I'm only giving example with my personal xpirience wich is still not enof 4me 2manage, I still add frm my salary. Lik I said, 500naira per child is not enough in dis present day Nigeria. His wife has been managing him, he shud manage her. If he can't he shud divorce her. Just like she's done now after countless years of beating & he's saying he wants her back so dat he can continue d beating? Let him provide 4his chiren dat's d reason 4d court case, nothing more.
      Emotional abuse is not good, I don't support it weda frm man or woman. Same way physical abuse is unacceptable. But in dis particular case, all we hear is "hijab" & "beating". D man didn't say d wife abuses him emotionally. He's d one forcing her 2practice a religious ritual she doesn't want 2 practice

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mapurensosundaykpanpenso no reasonable man in his right senses will beat up a woman in d name of insult or not wearing hijab

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mapurensosundaykpanpenso if u don't want insult den b a real man. Provide 4ur family & stop forcing ur wife 2wear hijab.
      Besides dis man didn't mention insult, u r d one insisting on insult. We r just speculating dat she's insultive, he didn't say so. Most importantly,evn if she's insultive, insult isn't a criminal offence but assault is a criminal offence. If u don't want 2b locked up, don't beat anybody. Simple.
      If u r perfect den stay in ur perfect world & leave imperfect women alone. U can't evn gv 500 naira 2feed a full, complete child 4a whole day yet u hv d effontry 2b beating up their mother.
      He's an alfa, is dat how he'l lead his congregation?
      Reasonable men provide 4their families, he can't evn do dat. Reasonable women don't insult their husbands. If he's a real man, he can hv a real woman but he isn't so he shouldn't xpect a reasonable woman

  • @kaluchukwudi5742
    @kaluchukwudi5742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Say NO to domestic violence against women worldwide, every women MUST be respected, loved, protected and appreciated at all times.

    • @Trinijojo
      @Trinijojo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Mr Chukwudi. God bless

    • @ethelbimpong3645
      @ethelbimpong3645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless u for knowing the truth

    • @moyosoreeyefia5352
      @moyosoreeyefia5352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank u sir
      God bless you 🙏

    • @gabrielwhyte9224
      @gabrielwhyte9224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Goes both ways.

    • @barrypatrick3425
      @barrypatrick3425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mr man be fair in your statement , what of the issues on domestic violence against men done by women, wat can u say about this, do not forget de are aggressive women dat violate men too..

  • @arisehigh632
    @arisehigh632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Marriage counseling address should be publicised so that people can seek help ,either as a woman or man

    • @samalinda7861
      @samalinda7861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She always recommends a therapist for the client

  • @kurajosariemen0991
    @kurajosariemen0991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Mama hit the nail on the head on this one...I have zero tolerance for domestic violence of any kind 🥺🥺. Long live Justice Court ❤️

    • @onyedikachiaguwa1148
      @onyedikachiaguwa1148 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So what do you want her to do

    • @kurajosariemen0991
      @kurajosariemen0991 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onyedikachiaguwa1148 my brother are you a domestic violent person?

  • @msbeau5341
    @msbeau5341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    A man has been beating his wife for 16 years, everyday! yet a judge says he should go for 3 months marriage counselling. Thsi is a life long habit. He is who he is, never going to change. Do you know the guts its takes for a victim of DV to look at herself and say she has had enough?! and leave?!. I am so disappointed in this judgement. To say that you see love between them?! So love is beating someone for 16 good years. Even if you have a dog as a pet and you beat it for that long, you think it wont leave you? Like do you know the physiological damage DV does to a victim? This Judge you need to read books watch shows on DV victims to understand in depth the great damage it does. It is in the very best interest of this woman and her children to leave that toxic man and for once live in a sane environment. This woman should be going through therapy for healing. Its extremely sad the way the Nigerian society puts pressure on women to stay put in horrific situations like this. Very sad

    • @florafrank7267
      @florafrank7267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I was looking for this comment, this woman has had enough for 16years ,what’s the counseling for ? The judge isn’t fair

    • @farayolamoshood9461
      @farayolamoshood9461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The woman did not say she was beaten daily. They are no longer living together and the judge did not ask them to move in together. This couple still value their marriage all they need is help especially the man and he is willing to give it a shot as lifeline . Kudos to the judge and her team for touching lives positively.

    • @GospelNaija
      @GospelNaija 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The judge is also subject to the law. Stop blaming her. Put the blame on the law and lawmakers.
      The default setting for every marital issue in Nigeria is to "first" seek reconciliation and resolution, not dissolution. When resolution doesn't work, then dissolution comes in.
      So until the law changes, stop putting the blame on judges.

    • @imao6928
      @imao6928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The judge can also sense that the woman wants the marriage to work

    • @yettyidowu9706
      @yettyidowu9706 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always think before you comment. The judge did the right thing

  • @maaabena8821
    @maaabena8821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'm a Ghanaian but Judge Funmi is my role model .l really like her.

  • @abimbolaajirotutu8273
    @abimbolaajirotutu8273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love this woman simplicity Judge Funmi no nonsense woman with heart of gold

    • @ajayh542
      @ajayh542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

  • @godspromisesamuel5886
    @godspromisesamuel5886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A strong Men works away, but only weak Men beat their wives. For they cannot stand to fight fellow Men. GOD Bless you Judge. May GOD Have Mercy oo🙏

  • @kiss-so7ty
    @kiss-so7ty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When he was talking he conveniently left the part that he's been beating her. Nigerian men don't ever understand that beating a woman is an offence cos they are never held accountable.

    • @irisjaye2265
      @irisjaye2265 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DV seems to be quite prevalent in Nigeria, why is that?

    • @irenerufus7963
      @irenerufus7963 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not just Nigerian men. Sadly, it is most men that beat their wives and kids.

  • @ikwukaonyinye639
    @ikwukaonyinye639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I ran away from an abusive marriage of 6years.. my ex husband and his family made life miserable for me...I took my kids nd left..he only sent 10000 naira since December 2021....I will soon drag him to this court

  • @lazsandy1800
    @lazsandy1800 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The lady is so considerate and understanding, men with anger management Sha. Thank you so much judge Fummi for your professionalism, remain blessed

    • @obinnaaniemena4847
      @obinnaaniemena4847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nonsense dear... she's not considerate joor

    • @maureenburrell6915
      @maureenburrell6915 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      By

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@obinnaaniemena4847 she's considerate. Infact over considerate !
      She's been married 4ova 20yrs & she's been receiving beatings all diz yrs . As is obvious, she's been helping financially. Imagine justice Funmi is pressing him yet 7k per week is wot he can com up with. He evn started with 3k abi 5k.Meaning without pressure frm judge Funmi d guy wud b giving far less dan 7k a week. 7k weekly for 2chiren is 500naira daily per child, wot cn u buy with 500 a day 4a child 2eat ?
      I know how much I spend on my kids. Their dad gvs me 50k monthly strictly 4feeding, hospital bills,drugs, clothes,sch fees not included, yet 50k monthly just 4feeding isn't enough . I still touch my salary 2add 2wot my hubby gvs me.
      If she's not considerate she wouldn't hv been assisting with moni 4d family,she won't accept dat amount 4upkeep. She wouldn't hv endured all diz years of beatings.
      I personally won't take one day of beating from any man. And if 4any reason I take u 2court, I won't accept 500naira a day 4a child bcos it won't b enough

    • @omotolamurtala4845
      @omotolamurtala4845 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@obinnaaniemena4847 woman beater

  • @solagesture.9982
    @solagesture.9982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    He said he's an Imam, he's not reading his Quran well. He beats and begs, what a coward! I don't know why the wife is covering for the man, he's gonna regret sending her packing, silly man.

    • @emzorlawmie1110
      @emzorlawmie1110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is an Alfa not Imam he said, say no domestic violence.

  • @denisewilliams364
    @denisewilliams364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Can you imagine. Why would you beat a woman??? This man is a coward

    • @kinga284
      @kinga284 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m telling you, they suppose to put in jail for few days.

  • @ScorpioEnergy247
    @ScorpioEnergy247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Unfortunately 16 years is way too long to think he will change in 3 months. For the woman to change school and move out means she has had enough so why not grant her wish for her own safety. Godforbid the next time he beats her and causes severe harm or worse ki!!$ her.

    • @toyinadepiti7524
      @toyinadepiti7524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It won't get to that level by God's grace. It's better they reconcile for the sake of the children.We already have enough nuisance in the society

    • @pammy22
      @pammy22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@toyinadepiti7524 nuisance? In what way?

    • @akangbe100
      @akangbe100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So to you divorce is the best option abi???

    • @crystalrobin2005
      @crystalrobin2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The man can never change forget that thing run for your life woman

    • @ScorpioEnergy247
      @ScorpioEnergy247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@akangbe100 Yes! Divorce is better than me loosing my life. Some people that kill their spouses during violent exchange is usually by accident.

  • @ernestinajoshua
    @ernestinajoshua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love the way the Judge handles the cases without sentiment

  • @ifyobi691
    @ifyobi691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you judge Funmi, your approach is commendable.

  • @chantelbenedict8695
    @chantelbenedict8695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Have been waiting for your upload 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊thank you

  • @tolagee1497
    @tolagee1497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Marriage is Beautiful but challenges makes it look otherwise...both still have affection for each other

  • @anniesmith8552
    @anniesmith8552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your Honour is full of wisdom and such grace in the discharge of her duty. Thank God for this platform to help homes.

  • @folakeomowumi7164
    @folakeomowumi7164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Judge Funmi you're the best,welcome back

  • @chachadavid3794
    @chachadavid3794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The lady is pretty. Nice one judge you are doing a very great thing God bless you and give you more wisdom and understanding

  • @brightonboi9426
    @brightonboi9426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sometimes I think a single life without marriage is just the best. I swear....

    • @lacijohnson400
      @lacijohnson400 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too much wahala

    • @mikeadia8128
      @mikeadia8128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dear, this whole thing tire me ooo

    • @chideraokpe1101
      @chideraokpe1101 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seriously God help me

    • @Sumayya538
      @Sumayya538 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, I understand what your saying

  • @telemalawson6889
    @telemalawson6889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It took a lot for the woman to move out of their home, after enduring domestic violence for so long. She was weak and imprisoned by her emotions and her love for family kept her there. Am sure she was hopping that he will change but he didn't. Finally, having the courage to move out, shows that she is a fighter and would do what it takes to gain back what she had lost (her dignity and respect). If her husband is sincere and works hard to make things right, am sure he will show her so much love and respect for the rest of their lives. I see a man who may have taking such habit from what he witnessed as a child. You can sense his sincerity and remorse. At a point he even lost thought and was really embarrassed. No argument and a strong will to be better. I wish them the best. Thank you Judge Funmi Asaolu and The Justice Court.

  • @hezekiahrejoice7933
    @hezekiahrejoice7933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Chaiii such a good wife, very patient and tolerating. Such woman shouldn't face such a man

    • @elelebright4372
      @elelebright4372 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      May God bless me with a wife like her...... Amen🙏

  • @TonyaEL
    @TonyaEL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    When the wife said 10 thousand I knew she has a clean heart and is just tired of his abuse. Judge Funmi judged this fairly and I wish this family the best, whether they stay together or divorce.

    • @pamilerindejoy
      @pamilerindejoy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly... The man job is...

    • @akanbiable
      @akanbiable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm really afraid for the life of the woman. The man needs a lot of counselling to exorcise him of the animal spirit in him.

    • @ehihanonchristiana2216
      @ehihanonchristiana2216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kjn

  • @johnonkoba740
    @johnonkoba740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Beating her as who?? Some men are ungreatful and useless people

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beating her as her father. Her owner

    • @Trendinggist247
      @Trendinggist247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 I tire o. I can only remember my father beat me twice growing up with cane on my palm not even anywhere else on my body. I'm now 40 plus. No man dare raise his hands on me even with excuse of any provocation!

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Trendinggist247 u dey mind dem ! As if they don't provoke women. They think women r animals. Me 2my dad used 2flog me with care, strictly on my palm , no oda part of my body, & he'd say d specific number ,not just indiscriminately, infact my dad wud caution my mom if she mistakenly hits us, he'd insist she use cane & it must b on d palm, he'd say random & careless beating cud result in injury. D moment I clocked 15 my dad stopped flogging me, he pump & plain said : ....
      "U r 2old 2b flogged or beaten. All d training, advice & correction u'v bin given from birth shud b enough 4u 2act right. At dis age, beating can't change u".....
      Den I go com grow up, begin follow man, one man go com beat me in d name of boyfriend or marriage, saying it's provocation. D moment u raise ur hands against me, dat's it. If u can't manage me, just walk off !
      Beat wey my own parents no beat me, man go com beat me say wetin ? Nonesense !

    • @Trendinggist247
      @Trendinggist247 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 e be like say our parents are twins. Same way my dad quarrels with my mum not to beat us on the body or anyhow for any little thing. Thank goodness one day she suddenly stopped and we were all happy.

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Trendinggist247 😆😆😆
      Som men head correct o. Such fathers wen u grow up with dem, u'l hv self confidence. If ur dad doesn't hit ur mom, evn u his child he wud correct & flog with love,care & caution, tell me how such a child will grow up & accept domestic violence from a man ? U beat me 4ova 20yrs of marriage, say who die ? Annoying tin is he's not evn financially buoyant ! Evn with ur billions I won't condone beating 4evn a day.

  • @ShirleysKitchenCuisine
    @ShirleysKitchenCuisine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful wife being punched by a naughty husband. Chaiii

    • @sekinatowoseni7714
      @sekinatowoseni7714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t support any man beaten his wife but don’t let be bias. Beautiful does not define a human being. The wife should cautioned her mouth or go for divorce if she don’t want to listen to her husband.
      As a muslim her dressing is rubbish.
      She don’t need to wear black black or cover from head to feet but her dressing is rubbish.
      A muslim woman should cover her sleeves at least up to the elbow.

    • @maurice7783
      @maurice7783 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sekinatowoseni7714
      You should not tell people what to do. This is the 21st century.

    • @sekinatowoseni7714
      @sekinatowoseni7714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maurice7783 Aunty 21st Century. Please stay on lane and keep on dressing nicked.
      Thank you .

  • @toluwalopefabolude5066
    @toluwalopefabolude5066 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the first guy I know that has been honest about domestic violence, I was shocked he even admitted. Kudos to him for being honest but Domestic abuse is not right AT ALL!

    • @petiese
      @petiese 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let me shock you. Do you know it is legal for a man to beat his wife in some parts of Nigeria, in the name of correction? Like the law (Penal Code) supports it. He probably thought he was doing the right thing.
      I also hope they were able to resolve the issue of the wife not dressing like an Alfa's wife. That seems to be part of the reasons for the beating even though the judge did not address it. I believe in freedom of belief, thought and religion but the wife might have needed to compromise a bit for his sake.

    • @hauwadauda9646
      @hauwadauda9646 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kudos ke.. he’s a Muslim and Muslim men believe they are supposed to correct their wives with beating

  • @ojoaugustine9302
    @ojoaugustine9302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    the Judge has a golden heart no sentiment at all.God bless you ma

  • @osasosasco2615
    @osasosasco2615 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What do u mean there is no time as a bus driver make una dey respect human right oo Nigeria human right need to be supported with police men some Nigerian don't respect them untill they see a court order

  • @apap1950
    @apap1950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Judge to the man: tell your side of the story
    Man: starts rambling, "she's not wearing hijab"..."and I'm an Alfa...".."I went to Kwara...I text her... She didn't reply.. In a man I want to fix my home..bla bla"
    Judge to woman: is that why you left him for all these things he is saying?
    Woman (simple and short answer): I left because he beats me... Everyday!
    For 20 years 😭😭😭😭 my God! Speechless. No wonder he was rambling!

  • @omosewafakunle2098
    @omosewafakunle2098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Judge Funmi is a very compassionate woman who values the institution of marriage. I hope the man changes his ways & stop beating his wife. God bless you ma for your good deeds & wise counsel.

    • @obinnaaniemena4847
      @obinnaaniemena4847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And d woman also stop doing what the man complained about her exposing her hair

    • @rossyrossy5110
      @rossyrossy5110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@obinnaaniemena4847 are u okay at all ...is it ur hair or is it d husband head ?Why is he so worried and beating his wife like a slave bcos of Ijab or somethn which is Arab culture ...Anyway u thinking in African Mentalities

    • @obinnaaniemena4847
      @obinnaaniemena4847 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rossyrossy5110 I think you are the one not okay.. because one if you are Okay, you should respect whatever negative feelings your husband has towards your dressing.. number two if you are okay, you should know that I have never said that beating her is right...
      All I said was that the man said he is a Muslim and that whenever he is talking to d wife about her exposed hair,, d wife neglects him... and I ask you, is that right??? All I said is d judge should also address d woman too on that regard. Or else d problem will continue after in d future... Don't your brains tell u that??? Respect people's beliefs and religion and stop saying African mentality..

  • @kumbiaros216
    @kumbiaros216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Such a beautiful woman, the man seems to still love her but the challenges is deep......Judge Funmi, I love you ma....you are so compassionate yet professional. Kudos to the court clerk too , AKIN❤❤❤❤

    • @emmanuelskilful2489
      @emmanuelskilful2489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Akin is a great guy💯💪

    • @icaddieminds
      @icaddieminds 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are we liking Akin. 🥰 It is judge funmi that will judge this matter.

    • @emmanuelskilful2489
      @emmanuelskilful2489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@icaddieminds Akin 4 president 2023 osheyyyyy 💃💃💃💃

    • @icaddieminds
      @icaddieminds 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emmanuelskilful2489 you people are on your own oh. I can't like akin with you all, wahala go dey. But I'll vote for him for president 2023, sha

    • @call_me_olusam6588
      @call_me_olusam6588 ปีที่แล้ว

      Akin stands all through the judgement without being involved. Thumbs 👍

  • @adenikelawal7466
    @adenikelawal7466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you for the upload. Always looking forward to the video’s

  • @stephaniei.3424
    @stephaniei.3424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Basirat, if you see this PLEASE LEAVE HIM. There’s nothing like counselling for someone who beat you every day for 16 years. Please stay away for your safety

    • @adenikefeyi-akinbile5952
      @adenikefeyi-akinbile5952 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did she say he beats her every day? Pls dont advice her not to go for counselling. Let them fight for their marriage and home.

    • @stephaniei.3424
      @stephaniei.3424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adenikefeyi-akinbile5952 my dear, please if you are going through the same thing, run

  • @graciousepelle1463
    @graciousepelle1463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hmmmmmm
    Imagine
    When I'm talking to her and she doesn't listen,I beat her
    Can you imagine???
    Please,let her leave
    For over sixteen whole years????

    • @Trendinggist247
      @Trendinggist247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Infact I weak. Like he's talking about beating his children when they're not listening.

  • @oluwafemijosephine8051
    @oluwafemijosephine8051 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "I'm an Alfa" He's unashamed lol.

  • @imepeter5585
    @imepeter5585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He's showing his sons how to treat their wives when they get married, and also showing the daughter that, that's how a woman should be treated. The man should be ashamed of himself. Lucky am not his wife. He will rust in jail. The man is will raise his hand on me to beat me is not yet born and will not be born.

  • @giftnathan4072
    @giftnathan4072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Judge Funmi Thank you so much for your wisdom and you having compassion on marriage institutions. Hopefully he changes his ways cause he obviously still loves his wife with the way he spoke. Domestic Violence is not something that should even be heard of if you’re in love with someone. No love can flourish in it. It is extremely terrible. They both still like each other, take away the domestic violence, I think she’ll stay. Domestic Violence is too heavy abeg. She even try for 20 years.
    God help their marriage in Jesus name

    • @arisehigh632
      @arisehigh632 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you treat some one with anger management

    • @giftnathan4072
      @giftnathan4072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@arisehigh632 There are anger management classes. There are professionals who help people navigate it I guess. Getting to the root cause, why a person turned out to have temperaments(maybe due to his background) or so. And give solutions. Can’t happen in a month sha. Might take years or many months but in no time you can see that they no longer get angry like before. So there are professionals in the field for it sha. Cause some people have it, recognize they do, but can’t control how they react🤷🏽‍♀️ and then feel sorry afterwards. Definitely professionals and lots of prayers

    • @godwinejiofor8064
      @godwinejiofor8064 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@arisehigh632 something is causing the ganger

    • @arisehigh632
      @arisehigh632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@giftnathan4072 hmmmm months,years . Dose this mean the woman will endure this unfortunate situations for the period ? . Many woman die in the waiting, many become disfigured ,many become mentally disturbed and the longer the period the more harmful it is to the children psychology to marriage and relationship. Hmmm this is depressing

    • @arisehigh632
      @arisehigh632 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@godwinejiofor8064 whatever could be causing it ,does it matter to the angry man the hurt he put his lived ones through?

  • @nonnebeautiful7114
    @nonnebeautiful7114 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls judge look for this lady tell her to leave her wife beater husband ooo. She came to you for help but you judge asked to go back for more abuse.

  • @Rosy1205
    @Rosy1205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Beating somebody for good 16years. ...That is why i keep asking how much is the pride price for a woman to endure all these rubbish all in the name of marriage. Hmmm!

    • @crystalrobin2005
      @crystalrobin2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can't deal,even for one month hummm I don't really understand sha

    • @oparannekajane7489
      @oparannekajane7489 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly... The bride price bullshit makes man think they r ur creator.. I don't take such bullshit.. I rada stay single than b unhappy in marriage eith a controlling man.. One beating is enof, that's a red flag 🚩.. Ur happiness n sanity comes first no matter who is involved period

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@crystalrobin2005 u r evn saying one month. Me na once o ! Once u raise hand touch me dat's d end. I no do again

    • @crystalrobin2005
      @crystalrobin2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 my dear only one slap self I don japa, domestic violence is a No no for me.it is better to be single ThankGod am in the abroad though you try that with u go jail straight

    • @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
      @ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@crystalrobin2005 😂😂😂
      Looool 😀.
      In Africa men hv d effontry 2evn want 2 rationalize beatings. Very annoying. Xpecting u 2accept it. Ppl wud say u provoked d man. How com women hardly beat up their men? Or r men without blemish, r they perfect? They don't provoke women or wot?
      Mumu men

  • @omag9343
    @omag9343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They need Jesus Christ who loves them and willing to forgive their sins and will walk with them.

  • @victoryogheneochuko649
    @victoryogheneochuko649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really find this program educative.I've learnt alot . Thanks to justice court TV

  • @salisuadekunle4369
    @salisuadekunle4369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A Muslim man must not raise his hand to beat his wife in a marriage in Islam. Please be responsible man. You are not Alfa if you beat your wife. Please stop it if you are a true Muslim brother. Patience is virtue. Kudos to the Judge for the advise strong. warning. Thank you

  • @techhguruu
    @techhguruu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love dis lawer with all my heart ❤love you so much ma 🙏🏻

  • @danielosazeowie4850
    @danielosazeowie4850 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Her honour 🎖 truly is sensitive and full of wisdom.

  • @justbelieve2675
    @justbelieve2675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We are here talking about N5000 being too small and he should be paying N10,000 weekly. I don't support his actions, but I don't support such decision because you can tell that he can't afford N10,000 weekly during this fuel crisis. If you want to argue with me, what if he is a civil servants? The minimum wage in the country is N30,000 per month and some States still pay N18,000. How will this be judged if he is a civil servant that earn minimum wage? I think the judge should have respect the fact that he wanted to give N5,000 or N7,000 weekly. If the wife claimed he gave N3,000 frequently, it means he can't afford N10,000 frequently when he still have to cater for the one in Polytechnic. Instead of putting all responsibility on men, we should also encourage women to be financially independent before going into marriage in this world of equal rights.

    • @favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034
      @favourgodisgreatcoolbreeze5034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And the man supposes to remember and consider her wife before beating her up for more than 16 years. Because the woman is not the wood of the structure. She has been managing the house for more than twenty-something years. Even when she said that he brought foodstuffs only ones in three months with mare three thousand for this difficult time.

    • @tejudaniels3109
      @tejudaniels3109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It will make wife beaters think before continuing like animals. They would have managed what they had if they were staying together, but his animalistic attitude caused it. He should go and look for the money so that his head will be correct.

    • @tolaakomolafe3100
      @tolaakomolafe3100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He doesn’t have money and yet he is beating his wife. Yeye man. I hope he will value her more when he suffers for 3 months

    • @ashaoluibukun7949
      @ashaoluibukun7949 ปีที่แล้ว

      Equal right but children bear only the name of the father

  • @annmajek5203
    @annmajek5203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry, judge is wrong on this one. No judge worth their salt will say counseling. He’s still going to beat her a$$.

  • @danojo6871
    @danojo6871 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I too love this momma, you are a genius, ma. God bless you, Judge Funmi, more wisdom, ma

  • @abigailngozi3723
    @abigailngozi3723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls hw do I get 2 Hon. Judge Funmi Asaolu cos dia's a case i nid 2 bring 2 court bt am nt in Lagos, pls hw do i go abt it?

    • @justicecourtadmin3674
      @justicecourtadmin3674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kindly logon to www.thejusticecourt.com to submit your case.

  • @bukolastella2753
    @bukolastella2753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless the judge..... But she should have allowed the lady to speak yoruba, cos she had a lots of things to say which she could not express in english.

  • @hbmbeautyy
    @hbmbeautyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay u will beat and apologise.....ewu ma🤣

  • @folasade85
    @folasade85 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi,
    The end is near people. The signs are everywhere.....Jesus Christ is coming soon. Accept God's love today through His son Jesus Christ and repent from all your sins and pursue holiness by the power of the Holy Spirit. So that the promise of eternal life can be yours. Jesus loves you🤗

  • @dreo6769
    @dreo6769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The court has a new look. Wow, lovely

  • @solagesture.9982
    @solagesture.9982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Correct Judge, "pick on the man of your size", well put, madam!

  • @ndidiobi8104
    @ndidiobi8104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    plsssssssooooooo how will i go to this court,before my husband kill me,,somebody should direct me,,

    • @justicecourtadmin3674
      @justicecourtadmin3674 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kindly logon to www.thejusticecourt.com to submit your case.

  • @angelinanwachukwu5317
    @angelinanwachukwu5317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless you your honour, you live long for us in Jesus Name

  • @Zoeshair1
    @Zoeshair1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think you should ask the woman too if she is happy in the marriage and if she still wants to continue in the marriage, rather than asking them to see a chancellor. Cos this woman from what am seeing she doesn’t want to continue and going to therapist is just like a waste of time. Nice program 👍👍👍

    • @Didi_Ai
      @Didi_Ai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! I was going to say I was somewhat happy with this episode because Judge Funmj
      Normally focuses more on fixing the marriage than the actual abuse and that gets me upset. For a second there I thought it’ll be different. These men can’t get away with hitting women just like that like come on.

    • @ejimceciliaokom6851
      @ejimceciliaokom6851 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly! You just said it all like, why ask her to see the counselor? Again for 16years he's been beating her and you still pleaded she goes back home ? No way I don't agree to this one today

  • @DrBunmiAbelTV
    @DrBunmiAbelTV ปีที่แล้ว

    We are online for the LIVE broadcast in 5mins. Judge Funmi Asaolu is waiting for you with your questions and comments on th-cam.com/video/rAWdmAr81gk/w-d-xo.html

  • @chibuzorjohn5613
    @chibuzorjohn5613 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How do men boldly beat up woman
    That they spend money on to marry and time to even get her attention before marriage

  • @angulaaagula5926
    @angulaaagula5926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Domestic violence is criminals offence in Nigeria! Since she does not know her right!
    The first day you beats me l leave
    If you force me to come back the second day l reports to POLICE POLICY
    If policy did not believe and says go to your parents come back tomorrow, when we cool down

  • @greattstman4960
    @greattstman4960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    do u understand? Don't ask me do I understand, do u understand? lol. Good job though

  • @davisonnelly3167
    @davisonnelly3167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love that statement, "you need to do something".

  • @geraldinenjoku1009
    @geraldinenjoku1009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Judge gummi , thank you so so much l love ❤️.

  • @nkolika271
    @nkolika271 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Domestic violence is NOT a JOKE. Madam, please RUN for your life.

  • @salehuji8053
    @salehuji8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is quite unfortunate that the self acclaim Alfa who is suppose to know the implications involving beating a wife or women at large! Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings of Allah be upon him narrated in one of his Hadith that oh you Muslims do not beat your wife for whoever does that surly will face the punishment in the hereafter. Subihanallah 😭😭😭 oh ya'Allah give us the wisdom to tolerate our wives and be nice to them so we can be safe from your punishment Ameen 🙏 may Almighty Allah continue to protect and provide judge fumi wisdom to handle all cases amicably. God bless our women in general Ameen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @marycole7196
    @marycole7196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Commenting from the US. That marriage should be over. Physical abuse is a no no. No going back to living together, periodt.

  • @ng1471
    @ng1471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The man is a pretender and he was annoying me. He is lucky the woman is calm, nonsense.

  • @jossieo8530
    @jossieo8530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please we need update in three months. It is well. That's what men doesn't want to know , when they hear child maintenance their world collapse, but they don't appreciate when you manage things for them when you are together. Money or no money women put food on table by all means.

  • @irenerufus7963
    @irenerufus7963 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wife beating Alfa is wrong and not following the Sunnah of Islam. You can't force Islam on anybody. You can marry another wife that will cover up, or divorce her. May Allah forgive you.😢

  • @possiblegod2184
    @possiblegod2184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An Alfa is beating the wife and not even ashamed of saying it

  • @swiftoutcrygaming3297
    @swiftoutcrygaming3297 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do you justify apologizing regularly after beating your wife? Apology means you are sorry and you won't repeat the same acts. Which kind of apology is that? See the way he said it as if it is a normal thing. Anyway, Islamic religion allows it, that is why he thinks it is normal.

  • @bamidelesamuel5505
    @bamidelesamuel5505 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mum, justice Funmi i like you ma like my mum .God will bless you as you are using your good wisdom to bless other people .Mum you will reap good thing you have been do ma.

  • @awaniiyanuoluwa2113
    @awaniiyanuoluwa2113 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Msy the Almighty protect and keep judge Funmi and her team in Jesus unfailing name amen.

  • @MrTope7
    @MrTope7 ปีที่แล้ว

    The judge is too intolerable by telling the man (did you understand) she should understand that this couple are struggling with their speaking of English. I also will like to see a MALE judge presiding over this type of court because this female judge protects the female more to the Male. I am not supporting beating or any form of domestic violence but women and their mouths and attitudes is a stronger domestic issue on it own

  • @kamaldeenmustapha6630
    @kamaldeenmustapha6630 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Barring domestic violence,a Muslim woman is not expected to dress half nude without issues.

  • @omolewakehinde3831
    @omolewakehinde3831 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The man need orientation..
    If he can't beat his friend because he annoyed him them while doing that to his wife..
    Secondly,is not through beating he will make her religiously conscious..
    He need to be counsel

  • @davisonnelly3167
    @davisonnelly3167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Judge fumi he may pretend to have changed oooooooo

  • @princess895
    @princess895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some men supposed not to marry at all because of their irresponsibility and lifestyle

  • @mondayirabor6705
    @mondayirabor6705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a wise decision. I hope the man will learn.

    • @brightonboi9426
      @brightonboi9426 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Single life is the best. I swear. No marriages...

  • @NZB89
    @NZB89 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:13 you dey best your wife??? What will you now do to your children???

  • @stanleyokoduwa392
    @stanleyokoduwa392 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The woman is doing nothing for a living, but she needs divorce, i think she have another man back rolling her

  • @afolayanaruna1161
    @afolayanaruna1161 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please judge help them to settle this matter the woman still loves the man by saying she could manage 10k

  • @mariabonaparte1574
    @mariabonaparte1574 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your honor let the woman go this man wants her back to beat her for taking him to court

  • @BettyMitchell-wo3ex
    @BettyMitchell-wo3ex 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After all those years of getting beat she should have been left him he doesn't love her you don't hurt what you love

  • @okanlawonajuju2681
    @okanlawonajuju2681 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who no marry no sabi wetin God do for am. But this judge got wisdom sha. I love❤ u my honor

  • @ndimamakushu5961
    @ndimamakushu5961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ma not did I only love how handled this case buh also the color of ur nails💅💯❤️..... It looks gud on u👌❤️

  • @berniceedwards1375
    @berniceedwards1375 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's not right putting your Hands on your Wife, not good at all

  • @ogunniranadebola5851
    @ogunniranadebola5851 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why are you talking to her like she is your sister..saying she does not listen to you,ahh mogbe😢

  • @wandea8992
    @wandea8992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The man have a good wife stop beating her take care of her

    • @macabara8819
      @macabara8819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      At end she triggers the beating and some women will think you dont love them again when the beating stops.Its complicated and varies on the psyche of the couple.

    • @adaugo
      @adaugo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@macabara8819 hey, stop being delusional

  • @luckyimuekotv6065
    @luckyimuekotv6065 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No be small thing o big......big thanks to #thejusticecourt and judge funmi

  • @ikebudupatrick1673
    @ikebudupatrick1673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here is not just a justice court but a higher institution I am learning a lot

  • @olayinkaolarewaju6403
    @olayinkaolarewaju6403 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    O da seria fun iyawo e. Violence should not be tolerated in the home.

  • @ademolabadekale742
    @ademolabadekale742 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Justice Court is my TV program.