Walahi judge fumi asolu is a God sent if we have like two of them in dt Nigeria I think some of those curlsuption and mess mess will die down.may alimighty allah continue to bless you judge fumi asolu, watching u guys from Cairo.
Mr man be fair in your statement , what of the issues on domestic violence against men done by women, wat can u say about this, do not forget de are aggressive women dat violate men too..
So u married a woman without loving her & u r waiting 4 submission & respect 1st abi ? After marrying her, u r waiting 4respect & submission b4 u begin 2love innit ?
@@mapurensosundaykpanpenso evryone shud play their role, yeah. But if u can't manage anyone who isn't playing their role, if u can't condone anyone's shortcomings, if u can't swallow anyone's misdeeds, den call it quits. Don't beat anybody. As a man, he's not even performing his 1st duty wich is provision. D wife is d one carrying d load, so he shud consider her where she's not meeting up. If hijab is his problem den he shud send her away.
I'm not comparing jack, I only said mine is 50monthly & is not enof. I'm not condemning anything xcept his beatings.I didn't condemn his hustle rada I condemn his attitude of beating. Nigeria is not easy but beating is easy? Y can't he channel his energy 2beta tins rada dan beat his hustling wife? I'm only giving example with my personal xpirience wich is still not enof 4me 2manage, I still add frm my salary. Lik I said, 500naira per child is not enough in dis present day Nigeria. His wife has been managing him, he shud manage her. If he can't he shud divorce her. Just like she's done now after countless years of beating & he's saying he wants her back so dat he can continue d beating? Let him provide 4his chiren dat's d reason 4d court case, nothing more. Emotional abuse is not good, I don't support it weda frm man or woman. Same way physical abuse is unacceptable. But in dis particular case, all we hear is "hijab" & "beating". D man didn't say d wife abuses him emotionally. He's d one forcing her 2practice a religious ritual she doesn't want 2 practice
@@mapurensosundaykpanpenso if u don't want insult den b a real man. Provide 4ur family & stop forcing ur wife 2wear hijab. Besides dis man didn't mention insult, u r d one insisting on insult. We r just speculating dat she's insultive, he didn't say so. Most importantly,evn if she's insultive, insult isn't a criminal offence but assault is a criminal offence. If u don't want 2b locked up, don't beat anybody. Simple. If u r perfect den stay in ur perfect world & leave imperfect women alone. U can't evn gv 500 naira 2feed a full, complete child 4a whole day yet u hv d effontry 2b beating up their mother. He's an alfa, is dat how he'l lead his congregation? Reasonable men provide 4their families, he can't evn do dat. Reasonable women don't insult their husbands. If he's a real man, he can hv a real woman but he isn't so he shouldn't xpect a reasonable woman
How do women allow men to beat them!! I just can’t comprehend, over 30 years together with my wife and it has never crossed my mind to hit her. Wake up women that’s not love.
A man has been beating his wife for 16 years, everyday! yet a judge says he should go for 3 months marriage counselling. Thsi is a life long habit. He is who he is, never going to change. Do you know the guts its takes for a victim of DV to look at herself and say she has had enough?! and leave?!. I am so disappointed in this judgement. To say that you see love between them?! So love is beating someone for 16 good years. Even if you have a dog as a pet and you beat it for that long, you think it wont leave you? Like do you know the physiological damage DV does to a victim? This Judge you need to read books watch shows on DV victims to understand in depth the great damage it does. It is in the very best interest of this woman and her children to leave that toxic man and for once live in a sane environment. This woman should be going through therapy for healing. Its extremely sad the way the Nigerian society puts pressure on women to stay put in horrific situations like this. Very sad
The woman did not say she was beaten daily. They are no longer living together and the judge did not ask them to move in together. This couple still value their marriage all they need is help especially the man and he is willing to give it a shot as lifeline . Kudos to the judge and her team for touching lives positively.
The judge is also subject to the law. Stop blaming her. Put the blame on the law and lawmakers. The default setting for every marital issue in Nigeria is to "first" seek reconciliation and resolution, not dissolution. When resolution doesn't work, then dissolution comes in. So until the law changes, stop putting the blame on judges.
It took a lot for the woman to move out of their home, after enduring domestic violence for so long. She was weak and imprisoned by her emotions and her love for family kept her there. Am sure she was hopping that he will change but he didn't. Finally, having the courage to move out, shows that she is a fighter and would do what it takes to gain back what she had lost (her dignity and respect). If her husband is sincere and works hard to make things right, am sure he will show her so much love and respect for the rest of their lives. I see a man who may have taking such habit from what he witnessed as a child. You can sense his sincerity and remorse. At a point he even lost thought and was really embarrassed. No argument and a strong will to be better. I wish them the best. Thank you Judge Funmi Asaolu and The Justice Court.
When he was talking he conveniently left the part that he's been beating her. Nigerian men don't ever understand that beating a woman is an offence cos they are never held accountable.
@@obinnaaniemena4847 she's considerate. Infact over considerate ! She's been married 4ova 20yrs & she's been receiving beatings all diz yrs . As is obvious, she's been helping financially. Imagine justice Funmi is pressing him yet 7k per week is wot he can com up with. He evn started with 3k abi 5k.Meaning without pressure frm judge Funmi d guy wud b giving far less dan 7k a week. 7k weekly for 2chiren is 500naira daily per child, wot cn u buy with 500 a day 4a child 2eat ? I know how much I spend on my kids. Their dad gvs me 50k monthly strictly 4feeding, hospital bills,drugs, clothes,sch fees not included, yet 50k monthly just 4feeding isn't enough . I still touch my salary 2add 2wot my hubby gvs me. If she's not considerate she wouldn't hv been assisting with moni 4d family,she won't accept dat amount 4upkeep. She wouldn't hv endured all diz years of beatings. I personally won't take one day of beating from any man. And if 4any reason I take u 2court, I won't accept 500naira a day 4a child bcos it won't b enough
I ran away from an abusive marriage of 6years.. my ex husband and his family made life miserable for me...I took my kids nd left..he only sent 10000 naira since December 2021....I will soon drag him to this court
When the wife said 10 thousand I knew she has a clean heart and is just tired of his abuse. Judge Funmi judged this fairly and I wish this family the best, whether they stay together or divorce.
Such a beautiful woman, the man seems to still love her but the challenges is deep......Judge Funmi, I love you ma....you are so compassionate yet professional. Kudos to the court clerk too , AKIN❤❤❤❤
This is the first guy I know that has been honest about domestic violence, I was shocked he even admitted. Kudos to him for being honest but Domestic abuse is not right AT ALL!
Let me shock you. Do you know it is legal for a man to beat his wife in some parts of Nigeria, in the name of correction? Like the law (Penal Code) supports it. He probably thought he was doing the right thing. I also hope they were able to resolve the issue of the wife not dressing like an Alfa's wife. That seems to be part of the reasons for the beating even though the judge did not address it. I believe in freedom of belief, thought and religion but the wife might have needed to compromise a bit for his sake.
Unfortunately 16 years is way too long to think he will change in 3 months. For the woman to change school and move out means she has had enough so why not grant her wish for her own safety. Godforbid the next time he beats her and causes severe harm or worse ki!!$ her.
Judge Funmi Thank you so much for your wisdom and you having compassion on marriage institutions. Hopefully he changes his ways cause he obviously still loves his wife with the way he spoke. Domestic Violence is not something that should even be heard of if you’re in love with someone. No love can flourish in it. It is extremely terrible. They both still like each other, take away the domestic violence, I think she’ll stay. Domestic Violence is too heavy abeg. She even try for 20 years. God help their marriage in Jesus name
@@arisehigh632 There are anger management classes. There are professionals who help people navigate it I guess. Getting to the root cause, why a person turned out to have temperaments(maybe due to his background) or so. And give solutions. Can’t happen in a month sha. Might take years or many months but in no time you can see that they no longer get angry like before. So there are professionals in the field for it sha. Cause some people have it, recognize they do, but can’t control how they react🤷🏽♀️ and then feel sorry afterwards. Definitely professionals and lots of prayers
@@giftnathan4072 hmmmm months,years . Dose this mean the woman will endure this unfortunate situations for the period ? . Many woman die in the waiting, many become disfigured ,many become mentally disturbed and the longer the period the more harmful it is to the children psychology to marriage and relationship. Hmmm this is depressing
Thank you Judge, you speak our mind. I think the man can change looking at the way he's cooperating and insist he want his home settled. This is ages marriage I Hope they find peace and settled.
He said he's an Imam, he's not reading his Quran well. He beats and begs, what a coward! I don't know why the wife is covering for the man, he's gonna regret sending her packing, silly man.
Judge Funmi is a very compassionate woman who values the institution of marriage. I hope the man changes his ways & stop beating his wife. God bless you ma for your good deeds & wise counsel.
@@obinnaaniemena4847 are u okay at all ...is it ur hair or is it d husband head ?Why is he so worried and beating his wife like a slave bcos of Ijab or somethn which is Arab culture ...Anyway u thinking in African Mentalities
@@rossyrossy5110 I think you are the one not okay.. because one if you are Okay, you should respect whatever negative feelings your husband has towards your dressing.. number two if you are okay, you should know that I have never said that beating her is right... All I said was that the man said he is a Muslim and that whenever he is talking to d wife about her exposed hair,, d wife neglects him... and I ask you, is that right??? All I said is d judge should also address d woman too on that regard. Or else d problem will continue after in d future... Don't your brains tell u that??? Respect people's beliefs and religion and stop saying African mentality..
Your honor, your reward is already in heaven, because no human being on earth can reward you for your good work,I wish you long life and prosperity and many many, more years ahead, to serve humanity,
You may not agree with everyhting in justice court but you have to respect the great work Justice Asaolu is doing here. May God keep giving you wisdom to continue with the life transforming work you are doing. God bless you and your family
What do u mean there is no time as a bus driver make una dey respect human right oo Nigeria human right need to be supported with police men some Nigerian don't respect them untill they see a court order
I think you should ask the woman too if she is happy in the marriage and if she still wants to continue in the marriage, rather than asking them to see a chancellor. Cos this woman from what am seeing she doesn’t want to continue and going to therapist is just like a waste of time. Nice program 👍👍👍
Thank you! I was going to say I was somewhat happy with this episode because Judge Funmj Normally focuses more on fixing the marriage than the actual abuse and that gets me upset. For a second there I thought it’ll be different. These men can’t get away with hitting women just like that like come on.
Exactly! You just said it all like, why ask her to see the counselor? Again for 16years he's been beating her and you still pleaded she goes back home ? No way I don't agree to this one today
Beat, apologize. Beat, apologize. Beat, apologize for 20 years. TWENTY YEARS!!! The wife has endured more than enough! She needs ALONE time to heal emotionally, psychologically and physically. It is commendable that she summoned the courage to leave. 👏🏽 Judge Asaolu, three months of marriage counseling is NOT going to break the husband’s habit of laying his hands on his wife. Let’s be real. He has had 20 years to perfect his punching, shoving and slapping techniques. It is engrained in his DNA by now. @25:17 the judge states, “If it is domestic violence and you are able to overcome that…” 😳 How many more years should his wife invest in him hoping that he will “overcome that?” She is not a human guinea pig. I am not in agreement with the judge’s decision. @2:10 the wife states “I want my life to save.” FREE HER! Dissolve the marriage. Live separately. Co-parent. She deserves to experience a healthy, loving relationship. Above all else, she deserves to live a purposeful life - abundantly.
The man confirmed that he has been violence towards him wife and continue to do that.judge should make sure this man face the law. He has been doing this all are all. This man can not change. His religious that wants the woman to cover her head dose not ask her husband not to be violent toward her
Beating somebody for good 16years. ...That is why i keep asking how much is the pride price for a woman to endure all these rubbish all in the name of marriage. Hmmm!
Exactly... The bride price bullshit makes man think they r ur creator.. I don't take such bullshit.. I rada stay single than b unhappy in marriage eith a controlling man.. One beating is enof, that's a red flag 🚩.. Ur happiness n sanity comes first no matter who is involved period
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 my dear only one slap self I don japa, domestic violence is a No no for me.it is better to be single ThankGod am in the abroad though you try that with u go jail straight
@@crystalrobin2005 😂😂😂 Looool 😀. In Africa men hv d effontry 2evn want 2 rationalize beatings. Very annoying. Xpecting u 2accept it. Ppl wud say u provoked d man. How com women hardly beat up their men? Or r men without blemish, r they perfect? They don't provoke women or wot? Mumu men
Good judgement.. No matter what don't beat, and women too should try and do what the husband wants, there must be reasons he approached you, don't be covered and later change.. Marriage is about what you see and like...
I’m so glad judge Funmi made an example of this man. Domestic violence needs to be totally condemned and eliminated in Nigeria. This arrogant and abusive attitude some men have is disgusting. That your wife does not listen to you is no excuse at all. Women if you meet a man like this run for your life!
@@mekwunyesunday1226 sir nothing would ever excuse my brother or any man putting his hands on a woman. Wives are entitled to think on their own and make their own decisions, they are not their husbands children to be disciplined or property. There is no man that I know who would be happy if their daughter was being hit by her husband so why do it to another man’s daughter. And quite frankly if my bro was to hit his wife, she fell on the floor, hit her head and died then my brother would go to prison for life. And that would torment him for the rest of his life and bring huge shame to my family. Which one is worst? People don’t seem to realize that in life we have choices. Issues come up in marriage, but violence should never be the solution. My advice to my bro if he got to the point of seeing red, is to leave. Flea.
@@MonicaEzue irrespective of what the issue maybe women should know and understand that system of marriage as been put in place by God. U claim a woman is a human being who as to think and make decisions on her own! Why couldn't she use it to make a better decision in her marriage ? Both in Christian and Islamic marriages it as been stated woman must submit to her husband authority. People who made it a criminal offence made it so the man would be tolerant however the man's actions could still be justifiable if truly such cases are reviewed by a competent judge. If women can't be tolerant in marriage as expected of a man then they should stay in their fathers house. A man already have a lot to fend for the least he need is having a woman who would be combative instead of being cooperative .
@@samsonfunsho2997 I made it clear that women have the capacity and the right to think and decide for themselves. They are not commodities or property that needs to be managed or a robot/toy that needs to be operated. Why do they need to stay in their fathers house? Many are very capable of having their own houses. It’s clear the school of thought you come from and we will not agree on this. I’m not saying women should be disrespectful in their marriages - there needs to be compromise, understanding and respect in marriage for it to work. You are assuming that she is the only one at fault - this is 20 years of marriage we are talking about. It takes two to tango they say. A man is not always right and a sensible man will recognize his wife’s strengths and where she ought to take the lead. And for your information, in the Bible that I read and know - we are told to submit to one another but men like to forget that part when they want to dominate and mistreat their wives. That same bible passage also speaks of husbands loving their wives as Christ loved the church. We can’t even begin to comprehend such love as Christ gave His life to redeem His church to himself. Does a physically abusive man reflect such love? And furthermore it’s very easy to submit to a man who loves you and treats you well.
Lack of money is a major problem within marriages, if the man doesn't make enough how can he provide what should be enough? The husband should watch his anger, if not, his wife would've struggled with him. I hate men beating their wives, it is a no no! I hope they have a good counseling session
Judge to the man: tell your side of the story Man: starts rambling, "she's not wearing hijab"..."and I'm an Alfa...".."I went to Kwara...I text her... She didn't reply.. In a man I want to fix my home..bla bla" Judge to woman: is that why you left him for all these things he is saying? Woman (simple and short answer): I left because he beats me... Everyday! For 20 years 😭😭😭😭 my God! Speechless. No wonder he was rambling!
He's showing his sons how to treat their wives when they get married, and also showing the daughter that, that's how a woman should be treated. The man should be ashamed of himself. Lucky am not his wife. He will rust in jail. The man is will raise his hand on me to beat me is not yet born and will not be born.
Mum, justice Funmi i like you ma like my mum .God will bless you as you are using your good wisdom to bless other people .Mum you will reap good thing you have been do ma.
Basirat, if you see this PLEASE LEAVE HIM. There’s nothing like counselling for someone who beat you every day for 16 years. Please stay away for your safety
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 I tire o. I can only remember my father beat me twice growing up with cane on my palm not even anywhere else on my body. I'm now 40 plus. No man dare raise his hands on me even with excuse of any provocation!
@@Trendinggist247 u dey mind dem ! As if they don't provoke women. They think women r animals. Me 2my dad used 2flog me with care, strictly on my palm , no oda part of my body, & he'd say d specific number ,not just indiscriminately, infact my dad wud caution my mom if she mistakenly hits us, he'd insist she use cane & it must b on d palm, he'd say random & careless beating cud result in injury. D moment I clocked 15 my dad stopped flogging me, he pump & plain said : .... "U r 2old 2b flogged or beaten. All d training, advice & correction u'v bin given from birth shud b enough 4u 2act right. At dis age, beating can't change u"..... Den I go com grow up, begin follow man, one man go com beat me in d name of boyfriend or marriage, saying it's provocation. D moment u raise ur hands against me, dat's it. If u can't manage me, just walk off ! Beat wey my own parents no beat me, man go com beat me say wetin ? Nonesense !
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 e be like say our parents are twins. Same way my dad quarrels with my mum not to beat us on the body or anyhow for any little thing. Thank goodness one day she suddenly stopped and we were all happy.
@@Trendinggist247 😆😆😆 Som men head correct o. Such fathers wen u grow up with dem, u'l hv self confidence. If ur dad doesn't hit ur mom, evn u his child he wud correct & flog with love,care & caution, tell me how such a child will grow up & accept domestic violence from a man ? U beat me 4ova 20yrs of marriage, say who die ? Annoying tin is he's not evn financially buoyant ! Evn with ur billions I won't condone beating 4evn a day.
Domestic violence is criminals offence in Nigeria! Since she does not know her right! The first day you beats me l leave If you force me to come back the second day l reports to POLICE POLICY If policy did not believe and says go to your parents come back tomorrow, when we cool down
During marriage counseling anger management is discussed,so he needs it.The wife too could be the one provoking it so during marriage counseling it will be discovered and solved.Judge Funmi I'd very correct
@@kbb2953 you think marriage counseling would solve this issue? You heard him, the woman is not wearing her hijab that woman did not want to mention the beating before. A lot of women have died and are still dying because of all these men thinking they have the right to beat a woman. He's not her dad but her husband. A husband is supposed to love and cherish the wife. Our mentality should change. Violence against your spouse is wrong. Those boys are watching him. This issue of the woman provoked him. Please what happened to walking away? Why can't the man do the dignifying thing by walking away from a volatile situation? We are not living with them ,so we can't judge the woman. 16 years of domestic abuse is not easy. Let him go and work on himself first before marriage counseling. Even over here in the western world, marriage counseling does not have a success rate , how much more in a society like Nigeria.
A Muslim man must not raise his hand to beat his wife in a marriage in Islam. Please be responsible man. You are not Alfa if you beat your wife. Please stop it if you are a true Muslim brother. Patience is virtue. Kudos to the Judge for the advise strong. warning. Thank you
We are here talking about N5000 being too small and he should be paying N10,000 weekly. I don't support his actions, but I don't support such decision because you can tell that he can't afford N10,000 weekly during this fuel crisis. If you want to argue with me, what if he is a civil servants? The minimum wage in the country is N30,000 per month and some States still pay N18,000. How will this be judged if he is a civil servant that earn minimum wage? I think the judge should have respect the fact that he wanted to give N5,000 or N7,000 weekly. If the wife claimed he gave N3,000 frequently, it means he can't afford N10,000 frequently when he still have to cater for the one in Polytechnic. Instead of putting all responsibility on men, we should also encourage women to be financially independent before going into marriage in this world of equal rights.
And the man supposes to remember and consider her wife before beating her up for more than 16 years. Because the woman is not the wood of the structure. She has been managing the house for more than twenty-something years. Even when she said that he brought foodstuffs only ones in three months with mare three thousand for this difficult time.
It will make wife beaters think before continuing like animals. They would have managed what they had if they were staying together, but his animalistic attitude caused it. He should go and look for the money so that his head will be correct.
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Walahi judge fumi asolu is a God sent if we have like two of them in dt Nigeria I think some of those curlsuption and mess mess will die down.may alimighty allah continue to bless you judge fumi asolu, watching u guys from Cairo.
Is there a follow up on this case? I would like to know if the marriage worked out.
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Say NO to domestic violence against women worldwide, every women MUST be respected, loved, protected and appreciated at all times.
Thank you Mr Chukwudi. God bless
God bless u for knowing the truth
Thank u sir
God bless you 🙏
Goes both ways.
Mr man be fair in your statement , what of the issues on domestic violence against men done by women, wat can u say about this, do not forget de are aggressive women dat violate men too..
When a woman is loved, submission and respect comes naturally and easily
So u married a woman without loving her & u r waiting 4 submission & respect 1st abi ?
After marrying her, u r waiting 4respect & submission b4 u begin 2love innit ?
@@mapurensosundaykpanpenso evryone shud play their role, yeah.
But if u can't manage anyone who isn't playing their role, if u can't condone anyone's shortcomings, if u can't swallow anyone's misdeeds, den call it quits. Don't beat anybody. As a man, he's not even performing his 1st duty wich is provision. D wife is d one carrying d load, so he shud consider her where she's not meeting up. If hijab is his problem den he shud send her away.
I'm not comparing jack, I only said mine is 50monthly & is not enof. I'm not condemning anything xcept his beatings.I didn't condemn his hustle rada I condemn his attitude of beating. Nigeria is not easy but beating is easy? Y can't he channel his energy 2beta tins rada dan beat his hustling wife? I'm only giving example with my personal xpirience wich is still not enof 4me 2manage, I still add frm my salary. Lik I said, 500naira per child is not enough in dis present day Nigeria. His wife has been managing him, he shud manage her. If he can't he shud divorce her. Just like she's done now after countless years of beating & he's saying he wants her back so dat he can continue d beating? Let him provide 4his chiren dat's d reason 4d court case, nothing more.
Emotional abuse is not good, I don't support it weda frm man or woman. Same way physical abuse is unacceptable. But in dis particular case, all we hear is "hijab" & "beating". D man didn't say d wife abuses him emotionally. He's d one forcing her 2practice a religious ritual she doesn't want 2 practice
@@mapurensosundaykpanpenso no reasonable man in his right senses will beat up a woman in d name of insult or not wearing hijab
@@mapurensosundaykpanpenso if u don't want insult den b a real man. Provide 4ur family & stop forcing ur wife 2wear hijab.
Besides dis man didn't mention insult, u r d one insisting on insult. We r just speculating dat she's insultive, he didn't say so. Most importantly,evn if she's insultive, insult isn't a criminal offence but assault is a criminal offence. If u don't want 2b locked up, don't beat anybody. Simple.
If u r perfect den stay in ur perfect world & leave imperfect women alone. U can't evn gv 500 naira 2feed a full, complete child 4a whole day yet u hv d effontry 2b beating up their mother.
He's an alfa, is dat how he'l lead his congregation?
Reasonable men provide 4their families, he can't evn do dat. Reasonable women don't insult their husbands. If he's a real man, he can hv a real woman but he isn't so he shouldn't xpect a reasonable woman
How do women allow men to beat them!! I just can’t comprehend, over 30 years together with my wife and it has never crossed my mind to hit her. Wake up women that’s not love.
Women need to have
That's good of you
It's because you don't have the beast in you to beat a woman
No woman "allows" A a man to beat her. I.e. no woman consents to being beaten. Men who are wife beaters have a problem.
Because you where raised by in love
Mama hit the nail on the head on this one...I have zero tolerance for domestic violence of any kind 🥺🥺. Long live Justice Court ❤️
So what do you want her to do
@@onyedikachiaguwa1148 my brother are you a domestic violent person?
Marriage counseling address should be publicised so that people can seek help ,either as a woman or man
She always recommends a therapist for the client
Your Honour is full of wisdom and such grace in the discharge of her duty. Thank God for this platform to help homes.
I love this woman simplicity Judge Funmi no nonsense woman with heart of gold
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I pray that God will continue to give you judge the wisdom as king Solomon Amen 🙏🙏🙏
A man has been beating his wife for 16 years, everyday! yet a judge says he should go for 3 months marriage counselling. Thsi is a life long habit. He is who he is, never going to change. Do you know the guts its takes for a victim of DV to look at herself and say she has had enough?! and leave?!. I am so disappointed in this judgement. To say that you see love between them?! So love is beating someone for 16 good years. Even if you have a dog as a pet and you beat it for that long, you think it wont leave you? Like do you know the physiological damage DV does to a victim? This Judge you need to read books watch shows on DV victims to understand in depth the great damage it does. It is in the very best interest of this woman and her children to leave that toxic man and for once live in a sane environment. This woman should be going through therapy for healing. Its extremely sad the way the Nigerian society puts pressure on women to stay put in horrific situations like this. Very sad
I was looking for this comment, this woman has had enough for 16years ,what’s the counseling for ? The judge isn’t fair
The woman did not say she was beaten daily. They are no longer living together and the judge did not ask them to move in together. This couple still value their marriage all they need is help especially the man and he is willing to give it a shot as lifeline . Kudos to the judge and her team for touching lives positively.
The judge is also subject to the law. Stop blaming her. Put the blame on the law and lawmakers.
The default setting for every marital issue in Nigeria is to "first" seek reconciliation and resolution, not dissolution. When resolution doesn't work, then dissolution comes in.
So until the law changes, stop putting the blame on judges.
The judge can also sense that the woman wants the marriage to work
Always think before you comment. The judge did the right thing
A strong Men works away, but only weak Men beat their wives. For they cannot stand to fight fellow Men. GOD Bless you Judge. May GOD Have Mercy oo🙏
You never see a woman dt will torment u, what of a woman dt will locked d door and throw d key away dt u will not go out so as a man what can u do
I love the way the Judge handles the cases without sentiment
Mom you are a Judge...a mother..a big sister i pray that god will continue strengthen you each day
Amen
It took a lot for the woman to move out of their home, after enduring domestic violence for so long. She was weak and imprisoned by her emotions and her love for family kept her there. Am sure she was hopping that he will change but he didn't. Finally, having the courage to move out, shows that she is a fighter and would do what it takes to gain back what she had lost (her dignity and respect). If her husband is sincere and works hard to make things right, am sure he will show her so much love and respect for the rest of their lives. I see a man who may have taking such habit from what he witnessed as a child. You can sense his sincerity and remorse. At a point he even lost thought and was really embarrassed. No argument and a strong will to be better. I wish them the best. Thank you Judge Funmi Asaolu and The Justice Court.
well said
I'm a Ghanaian but Judge Funmi is my role model .l really like her.
When he was talking he conveniently left the part that he's been beating her. Nigerian men don't ever understand that beating a woman is an offence cos they are never held accountable.
DV seems to be quite prevalent in Nigeria, why is that?
Not just Nigerian men. Sadly, it is most men that beat their wives and kids.
The lady is so considerate and understanding, men with anger management Sha. Thank you so much judge Fummi for your professionalism, remain blessed
Nonsense dear... she's not considerate joor
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@@obinnaaniemena4847 she's considerate. Infact over considerate !
She's been married 4ova 20yrs & she's been receiving beatings all diz yrs . As is obvious, she's been helping financially. Imagine justice Funmi is pressing him yet 7k per week is wot he can com up with. He evn started with 3k abi 5k.Meaning without pressure frm judge Funmi d guy wud b giving far less dan 7k a week. 7k weekly for 2chiren is 500naira daily per child, wot cn u buy with 500 a day 4a child 2eat ?
I know how much I spend on my kids. Their dad gvs me 50k monthly strictly 4feeding, hospital bills,drugs, clothes,sch fees not included, yet 50k monthly just 4feeding isn't enough . I still touch my salary 2add 2wot my hubby gvs me.
If she's not considerate she wouldn't hv been assisting with moni 4d family,she won't accept dat amount 4upkeep. She wouldn't hv endured all diz years of beatings.
I personally won't take one day of beating from any man. And if 4any reason I take u 2court, I won't accept 500naira a day 4a child bcos it won't b enough
@@obinnaaniemena4847 woman beater
Thank you for always being so considerate.
I ran away from an abusive marriage of 6years.. my ex husband and his family made life miserable for me...I took my kids nd left..he only sent 10000 naira since December 2021....I will soon drag him to this court
Do my dear
Pls my sister do it sharp sharp
Pls do
No waste time sister do it immediately
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The lady is pretty. Nice one judge you are doing a very great thing God bless you and give you more wisdom and understanding
Thank you judge Funmi, your approach is commendable.
Domestic violence is NOT a JOKE. Madam, please RUN for your life.
the Judge has a golden heart no sentiment at all.God bless you ma
Sometimes I think a single life without marriage is just the best. I swear....
Too much wahala
My dear, this whole thing tire me ooo
Seriously God help me
Yes, I understand what your saying
When the wife said 10 thousand I knew she has a clean heart and is just tired of his abuse. Judge Funmi judged this fairly and I wish this family the best, whether they stay together or divorce.
Exactly... The man job is...
I'm really afraid for the life of the woman. The man needs a lot of counselling to exorcise him of the animal spirit in him.
Kjn
Have been waiting for your upload 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊thank you
Thank you for the upload. Always looking forward to the video’s
Such a beautiful woman, the man seems to still love her but the challenges is deep......Judge Funmi, I love you ma....you are so compassionate yet professional. Kudos to the court clerk too , AKIN❤❤❤❤
Akin is a great guy💯💪
Are we liking Akin. 🥰 It is judge funmi that will judge this matter.
@@icaddieminds Akin 4 president 2023 osheyyyyy 💃💃💃💃
@@emmanuelskilful2489 you people are on your own oh. I can't like akin with you all, wahala go dey. But I'll vote for him for president 2023, sha
Akin stands all through the judgement without being involved. Thumbs 👍
Correct Judge, "pick on the man of your size", well put, madam!
I love that statement, "you need to do something".
Chaiii such a good wife, very patient and tolerating. Such woman shouldn't face such a man
May God bless me with a wife like her...... Amen🙏
This is the first guy I know that has been honest about domestic violence, I was shocked he even admitted. Kudos to him for being honest but Domestic abuse is not right AT ALL!
Let me shock you. Do you know it is legal for a man to beat his wife in some parts of Nigeria, in the name of correction? Like the law (Penal Code) supports it. He probably thought he was doing the right thing.
I also hope they were able to resolve the issue of the wife not dressing like an Alfa's wife. That seems to be part of the reasons for the beating even though the judge did not address it. I believe in freedom of belief, thought and religion but the wife might have needed to compromise a bit for his sake.
Kudos ke.. he’s a Muslim and Muslim men believe they are supposed to correct their wives with beating
Can you imagine. Why would you beat a woman??? This man is a coward
I’m telling you, they suppose to put in jail for few days.
Unfortunately 16 years is way too long to think he will change in 3 months. For the woman to change school and move out means she has had enough so why not grant her wish for her own safety. Godforbid the next time he beats her and causes severe harm or worse ki!!$ her.
It won't get to that level by God's grace. It's better they reconcile for the sake of the children.We already have enough nuisance in the society
@@toyinadepiti7524 nuisance? In what way?
So to you divorce is the best option abi???
The man can never change forget that thing run for your life woman
@@akangbe100 Yes! Divorce is better than me loosing my life. Some people that kill their spouses during violent exchange is usually by accident.
I really find this program educative.I've learnt alot . Thanks to justice court TV
Judge Funmi Thank you so much for your wisdom and you having compassion on marriage institutions. Hopefully he changes his ways cause he obviously still loves his wife with the way he spoke. Domestic Violence is not something that should even be heard of if you’re in love with someone. No love can flourish in it. It is extremely terrible. They both still like each other, take away the domestic violence, I think she’ll stay. Domestic Violence is too heavy abeg. She even try for 20 years.
God help their marriage in Jesus name
How do you treat some one with anger management
@@arisehigh632 There are anger management classes. There are professionals who help people navigate it I guess. Getting to the root cause, why a person turned out to have temperaments(maybe due to his background) or so. And give solutions. Can’t happen in a month sha. Might take years or many months but in no time you can see that they no longer get angry like before. So there are professionals in the field for it sha. Cause some people have it, recognize they do, but can’t control how they react🤷🏽♀️ and then feel sorry afterwards. Definitely professionals and lots of prayers
@@arisehigh632 something is causing the ganger
@@giftnathan4072 hmmmm months,years . Dose this mean the woman will endure this unfortunate situations for the period ? . Many woman die in the waiting, many become disfigured ,many become mentally disturbed and the longer the period the more harmful it is to the children psychology to marriage and relationship. Hmmm this is depressing
@@godwinejiofor8064 whatever could be causing it ,does it matter to the angry man the hurt he put his lived ones through?
Thank you Judge, you speak our mind. I think the man can change looking at the way he's cooperating and insist he want his home settled. This is ages marriage I Hope they find peace and settled.
I too love this momma, you are a genius, ma. God bless you, Judge Funmi, more wisdom, ma
He said he's an Imam, he's not reading his Quran well. He beats and begs, what a coward! I don't know why the wife is covering for the man, he's gonna regret sending her packing, silly man.
Is an Alfa not Imam he said, say no domestic violence.
Judge Funmi is a very compassionate woman who values the institution of marriage. I hope the man changes his ways & stop beating his wife. God bless you ma for your good deeds & wise counsel.
And d woman also stop doing what the man complained about her exposing her hair
@@obinnaaniemena4847 are u okay at all ...is it ur hair or is it d husband head ?Why is he so worried and beating his wife like a slave bcos of Ijab or somethn which is Arab culture ...Anyway u thinking in African Mentalities
@@rossyrossy5110 I think you are the one not okay.. because one if you are Okay, you should respect whatever negative feelings your husband has towards your dressing.. number two if you are okay, you should know that I have never said that beating her is right...
All I said was that the man said he is a Muslim and that whenever he is talking to d wife about her exposed hair,, d wife neglects him... and I ask you, is that right??? All I said is d judge should also address d woman too on that regard. Or else d problem will continue after in d future... Don't your brains tell u that??? Respect people's beliefs and religion and stop saying African mentality..
Marriage is Beautiful but challenges makes it look otherwise...both still have affection for each other
Your honor, your reward is already in heaven, because no human being on earth can reward you for your good work,I wish you long life and prosperity and many many, more years ahead, to serve humanity,
You may not agree with everyhting in justice court but you have to respect the great work Justice Asaolu is doing here. May God keep giving you wisdom to continue with the life transforming work you are doing. God bless you and your family
Here is not just a justice court but a higher institution I am learning a lot
Judge Funmi you're the best,welcome back
"I'm an Alfa" He's unashamed lol.
The man is from Hezbollah or hamas
no dm can be revised in 90days!. let this woman go in peace!
Exactly. It's permissable to beat your wife in islam. This woman should not be forced into marriage counseling, he has the problem
I love the way our lovey judge cautioned him strongly. Bless her heart. I was in an abuse relationship for 6 years the trauma never goes away.
What do u mean there is no time as a bus driver make una dey respect human right oo Nigeria human right need to be supported with police men some Nigerian don't respect them untill they see a court order
The court has a new look. Wow, lovely
Judge U are so correct with what U said to him, Children do what they C. Be a Role Model for your Children
Her honour 🎖 truly is sensitive and full of wisdom.
Commenting from the US. That marriage should be over. Physical abuse is a no no. No going back to living together, periodt.
She is trying to heal this marriage for the sake of the children.
Yenyenyennn,
This is Africa
He's giving so little money and is beating the woman, CHEAP MAN.!!!
Pls judge look for this lady tell her to leave her wife beater husband ooo. She came to you for help but you judge asked to go back for more abuse.
I think you should ask the woman too if she is happy in the marriage and if she still wants to continue in the marriage, rather than asking them to see a chancellor. Cos this woman from what am seeing she doesn’t want to continue and going to therapist is just like a waste of time. Nice program 👍👍👍
Thank you! I was going to say I was somewhat happy with this episode because Judge Funmj
Normally focuses more on fixing the marriage than the actual abuse and that gets me upset. For a second there I thought it’ll be different. These men can’t get away with hitting women just like that like come on.
Exactly! You just said it all like, why ask her to see the counselor? Again for 16years he's been beating her and you still pleaded she goes back home ? No way I don't agree to this one today
Thank you judge you are very humble and nice,love from🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪
Pls is this court in Aba, we need this kind of court here in Aba
@@chinyerestella5823 We take cases from all parts of the federation and also in diaspora.
This is a wise decision. I hope the man will learn.
Single life is the best. I swear. No marriages...
God bless you your honour, you live long for us in Jesus Name
You are too much ma. May God protect you and preserve you.
Pls hw do I get 2 Hon. Judge Funmi Asaolu cos dia's a case i nid 2 bring 2 court bt am nt in Lagos, pls hw do i go abt it?
Kindly logon to www.thejusticecourt.com to submit your case.
Beat, apologize. Beat, apologize. Beat, apologize for 20 years. TWENTY YEARS!!! The wife has endured more than enough! She needs ALONE time to heal emotionally, psychologically and physically. It is commendable that she summoned the courage to leave. 👏🏽
Judge Asaolu, three months of marriage counseling is NOT going to break the husband’s habit of laying his hands on his wife. Let’s be real. He has had 20 years to perfect his punching, shoving and slapping techniques. It is engrained in his DNA by now.
@25:17 the judge states, “If it is domestic violence and you are able to overcome that…” 😳 How many more years should his wife invest in him hoping that he will “overcome that?” She is not a human guinea pig.
I am not in agreement with the judge’s decision. @2:10 the wife states “I want my life to save.” FREE HER! Dissolve the marriage. Live separately. Co-parent. She deserves to experience a healthy, loving relationship. Above all else, she deserves to live a purposeful life - abundantly.
Okay u will beat and apologise.....ewu ma🤣
The man confirmed that he has been violence towards him wife and continue to do that.judge should make sure this man face the law. He has been doing this all are all. This man can not change. His religious that wants the woman to cover her head dose not ask her husband not to be violent toward her
Beating somebody for good 16years. ...That is why i keep asking how much is the pride price for a woman to endure all these rubbish all in the name of marriage. Hmmm!
I can't deal,even for one month hummm I don't really understand sha
Exactly... The bride price bullshit makes man think they r ur creator.. I don't take such bullshit.. I rada stay single than b unhappy in marriage eith a controlling man.. One beating is enof, that's a red flag 🚩.. Ur happiness n sanity comes first no matter who is involved period
@@crystalrobin2005 u r evn saying one month. Me na once o ! Once u raise hand touch me dat's d end. I no do again
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 my dear only one slap self I don japa, domestic violence is a No no for me.it is better to be single ThankGod am in the abroad though you try that with u go jail straight
@@crystalrobin2005 😂😂😂
Looool 😀.
In Africa men hv d effontry 2evn want 2 rationalize beatings. Very annoying. Xpecting u 2accept it. Ppl wud say u provoked d man. How com women hardly beat up their men? Or r men without blemish, r they perfect? They don't provoke women or wot?
Mumu men
Good judgement.. No matter what don't beat, and women too should try and do what the husband wants, there must be reasons he approached you, don't be covered and later change.. Marriage is about what you see and like...
No no no. We won't do what the husband wants to avoid beating. She is a human.khai women
Who no marry no sabi wetin God do for am. But this judge got wisdom sha. I love❤ u my honor
The judge could see the love in the air, but let's see if this man can keep his family together.
I’m so glad judge Funmi made an example of this man. Domestic violence needs to be totally condemned and eliminated in Nigeria. This arrogant and abusive attitude some men have is disgusting. That your wife does not listen to you is no excuse at all. Women if you meet a man like this run for your life!
Thanks
That your wife does not listen to you is not an excuse right? But think of your brother falling a victim of such kind of wife.
@@mekwunyesunday1226 sir nothing would ever excuse my brother or any man putting his hands on a woman. Wives are entitled to think on their own and make their own decisions, they are not their husbands children to be disciplined or property. There is no man that I know who would be happy if their daughter was being hit by her husband so why do it to another man’s daughter. And quite frankly if my bro was to hit his wife, she fell on the floor, hit her head and died then my brother would go to prison for life. And that would torment him for the rest of his life and bring huge shame to my family. Which one is worst? People don’t seem to realize that in life we have choices. Issues come up in marriage, but violence should never be the solution. My advice to my bro if he got to the point of seeing red, is to leave. Flea.
@@MonicaEzue irrespective of what the issue maybe women should know and understand that system of marriage as been put in place by God. U claim a woman is a human being who as to think and make decisions on her own! Why couldn't she use it to make a better decision in her marriage ? Both in Christian and Islamic marriages it as been stated woman must submit to her husband authority. People who made it a criminal offence made it so the man would be tolerant however the man's actions could still be justifiable if truly such cases are reviewed by a competent judge. If women can't be tolerant in marriage as expected of a man then they should stay in their fathers house.
A man already have a lot to fend for the least he need is having a woman who would be combative instead of being cooperative .
@@samsonfunsho2997 I made it clear that women have the capacity and the right to think and decide for themselves. They are not commodities or property that needs to be managed or a robot/toy that needs to be operated. Why do they need to stay in their fathers house? Many are very capable of having their own houses. It’s clear the school of thought you come from and we will not agree on this. I’m not saying women should be disrespectful in their marriages - there needs to be compromise, understanding and respect in marriage for it to work. You are assuming that she is the only one at fault - this is 20 years of marriage we are talking about. It takes two to tango they say. A man is not always right and a sensible man will recognize his wife’s strengths and where she ought to take the lead.
And for your information, in the Bible that I read and know - we are told to submit to one another but men like to forget that part when they want to dominate and mistreat their wives. That same bible passage also speaks of husbands loving their wives as Christ loved the church. We can’t even begin to comprehend such love as Christ gave His life to redeem His church to himself. Does a physically abusive man reflect such love? And furthermore it’s very easy to submit to a man who loves you and treats you well.
An Alfa is beating the wife and not even ashamed of saying it
I like the judge's gentle speech the way she speaks. The couple need to turn to God for salvation
Yes, they need Jesus Christ.
God is not real
Im suggesting to National Assembly to have Justice Funmi in all our Court
Lack of money is a major problem within marriages, if the man doesn't make enough how can he provide what should be enough? The husband should watch his anger, if not, his wife would've struggled with him. I hate men beating their wives, it is a no no! I hope they have a good counseling session
Thank you Justice Funmi. May the Almighty God continue to bless you with more wisdom. I learnt a lot when I listen to you Court proceedings.
Judge to the man: tell your side of the story
Man: starts rambling, "she's not wearing hijab"..."and I'm an Alfa...".."I went to Kwara...I text her... She didn't reply.. In a man I want to fix my home..bla bla"
Judge to woman: is that why you left him for all these things he is saying?
Woman (simple and short answer): I left because he beats me... Everyday!
For 20 years 😭😭😭😭 my God! Speechless. No wonder he was rambling!
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Lolzzzz.....
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Hahahahajjahaha
Single life is the best. I swear. No marriages...
Wow the first time im seeing judge funmi smiling ..😊😊😊👍🏻. God bless you for the wonderful job you are doing
He's showing his sons how to treat their wives when they get married, and also showing the daughter that, that's how a woman should be treated. The man should be ashamed of himself. Lucky am not his wife. He will rust in jail. The man is will raise his hand on me to beat me is not yet born and will not be born.
Your honor let the woman go this man wants her back to beat her for taking him to court
That's not true
Ma not did I only love how handled this case buh also the color of ur nails💅💯❤️..... It looks gud on u👌❤️
Mum, justice Funmi i like you ma like my mum .God will bless you as you are using your good wisdom to bless other people .Mum you will reap good thing you have been do ma.
Money is indeed the problem of many marriages
Basirat, if you see this PLEASE LEAVE HIM. There’s nothing like counselling for someone who beat you every day for 16 years. Please stay away for your safety
Did she say he beats her every day? Pls dont advice her not to go for counselling. Let them fight for their marriage and home.
@@adenikefeyi-akinbile5952 my dear, please if you are going through the same thing, run
Beating her as who?? Some men are ungreatful and useless people
Beating her as her father. Her owner
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 I tire o. I can only remember my father beat me twice growing up with cane on my palm not even anywhere else on my body. I'm now 40 plus. No man dare raise his hands on me even with excuse of any provocation!
@@Trendinggist247 u dey mind dem ! As if they don't provoke women. They think women r animals. Me 2my dad used 2flog me with care, strictly on my palm , no oda part of my body, & he'd say d specific number ,not just indiscriminately, infact my dad wud caution my mom if she mistakenly hits us, he'd insist she use cane & it must b on d palm, he'd say random & careless beating cud result in injury. D moment I clocked 15 my dad stopped flogging me, he pump & plain said : ....
"U r 2old 2b flogged or beaten. All d training, advice & correction u'v bin given from birth shud b enough 4u 2act right. At dis age, beating can't change u".....
Den I go com grow up, begin follow man, one man go com beat me in d name of boyfriend or marriage, saying it's provocation. D moment u raise ur hands against me, dat's it. If u can't manage me, just walk off !
Beat wey my own parents no beat me, man go com beat me say wetin ? Nonesense !
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 e be like say our parents are twins. Same way my dad quarrels with my mum not to beat us on the body or anyhow for any little thing. Thank goodness one day she suddenly stopped and we were all happy.
@@Trendinggist247 😆😆😆
Som men head correct o. Such fathers wen u grow up with dem, u'l hv self confidence. If ur dad doesn't hit ur mom, evn u his child he wud correct & flog with love,care & caution, tell me how such a child will grow up & accept domestic violence from a man ? U beat me 4ova 20yrs of marriage, say who die ? Annoying tin is he's not evn financially buoyant ! Evn with ur billions I won't condone beating 4evn a day.
I love dis lawer with all my heart ❤love you so much ma 🙏🏻
The question to ask this man is when other people refuse to listen to him does he bit them up as he does to his wife
Domestic violence is criminals offence in Nigeria! Since she does not know her right!
The first day you beats me l leave
If you force me to come back the second day l reports to POLICE POLICY
If policy did not believe and says go to your parents come back tomorrow, when we cool down
I love u judge Funmi. Always on point. Pls men should learn to respect women. When she is venting pls give her space rather than beating her
Msy the Almighty protect and keep judge Funmi and her team in Jesus unfailing name amen.
First abuser to admit abuse. 😢he is out of control
I do learn in every justice court judgement
The man looks so innocent, chaiii! He looks like he can't hurt a fly
The man is a pretender and he was annoying me. He is lucky the woman is calm, nonsense.
I dont understand how and why some men allow anger to reduce them to animals to the extent that they start beating on women
If you find out very well his father was beating his mum. If you have not witness it before you wont fo it
Why does she need councilling if she’s been beaten for 16 years?! I’m against this
Hmmmm. He needs anger management not marriage counselling.
During marriage counseling anger management is discussed,so he needs it.The wife too could be the one provoking it so during marriage counseling it will be discovered and solved.Judge Funmi I'd very correct
@@kbb2953 very brilliant answer,That’s the truth.
@@kbb2953 you think marriage counseling would solve this issue? You heard him, the woman is not wearing her hijab that woman did not want to mention the beating before. A lot of women have died and are still dying because of all these men thinking they have the right to beat a woman. He's not her dad but her husband. A husband is supposed to love and cherish the wife. Our mentality should change. Violence against your spouse is wrong. Those boys are watching him. This issue of the woman provoked him. Please what happened to walking away? Why can't the man do the dignifying thing by walking away from a volatile situation? We are not living with them ,so we can't judge the woman. 16 years of domestic abuse is not easy. Let him go and work on himself first before marriage counseling. Even over here in the western world, marriage counseling does not have a success rate , how much more in a society like Nigeria.
@@kbb2953 May ur wife beat u n may u pray for her to repent and get counseled... Say amen... Radarada
No be small thing o big......big thanks to #thejusticecourt and judge funmi
A Muslim man must not raise his hand to beat his wife in a marriage in Islam. Please be responsible man. You are not Alfa if you beat your wife. Please stop it if you are a true Muslim brother. Patience is virtue. Kudos to the Judge for the advise strong. warning. Thank you
O da seria fun iyawo e. Violence should not be tolerated in the home.
Justice Fumi God bless you for the way and manner you mend people home while dispensing Justice ❤
We are here talking about N5000 being too small and he should be paying N10,000 weekly. I don't support his actions, but I don't support such decision because you can tell that he can't afford N10,000 weekly during this fuel crisis. If you want to argue with me, what if he is a civil servants? The minimum wage in the country is N30,000 per month and some States still pay N18,000. How will this be judged if he is a civil servant that earn minimum wage? I think the judge should have respect the fact that he wanted to give N5,000 or N7,000 weekly. If the wife claimed he gave N3,000 frequently, it means he can't afford N10,000 frequently when he still have to cater for the one in Polytechnic. Instead of putting all responsibility on men, we should also encourage women to be financially independent before going into marriage in this world of equal rights.
And the man supposes to remember and consider her wife before beating her up for more than 16 years. Because the woman is not the wood of the structure. She has been managing the house for more than twenty-something years. Even when she said that he brought foodstuffs only ones in three months with mare three thousand for this difficult time.
It will make wife beaters think before continuing like animals. They would have managed what they had if they were staying together, but his animalistic attitude caused it. He should go and look for the money so that his head will be correct.
He doesn’t have money and yet he is beating his wife. Yeye man. I hope he will value her more when he suffers for 3 months
Equal right but children bear only the name of the father
Judge Funmi thank you for thanking your time.