The Justice Court Episode 50: I DID NOT USE LOVE PORTION ON MY HUSBAND

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  • He said i charmed him into marriage, i am so tired and not interested in the marriage anymore.

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  • @JusticeCourtTV
    @JusticeCourtTV  3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Thanks for watching this video 💕PLEASE SHARE THIS VIDEO💕 with others and support @/thejusticecourt efforts in changing lives.

    • @josefblack4677
      @josefblack4677 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      try to be harsh on domestic violence,you seem to take it lightly... great work by the way

    • @africakingkong7921
      @africakingkong7921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The lady is confrontational, I think the judge realized that. That is why the judge was not hard on the man. The guy looks like a cool guy but very stingy. The lady needs anger management more than the guy, the guy is just a reactor to what is throwing at him. But they both lie to some degree. That is my take on this case

    • @johnsadler1442
      @johnsadler1442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@josefblack4677 ATV

    • @godwinejiofor8064
      @godwinejiofor8064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@josefblack4677 there is a criminal court and there is civil court try to find out the difference also this court is Lagos state and there is a law on domestic abuse the judge is still within the law she is not there to flog them

    • @jbabajconeluv394
      @jbabajconeluv394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The judge is sticking to her jurisdiction of civil court but give professional counsel on criminal tendencies, give her a break.

  • @blackdiamond7956
    @blackdiamond7956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Please free this woman from this man he is not worth it. He's just calling this woman a liar all the way, while he's the one obviously lying. Such a toxic person.

  • @mercyharper9825
    @mercyharper9825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Oh Lordie! Judge Funmi, you rock!. Thank you; I love this show. I am almost 70yrs old and have been away from Nigeria for over 40yrs. I am soooo happy that the Nigerian Ladies have changed for the better. In my days, it was a Man’s world. But now, I tip my hat to the “girl power”. I'm so proud of the younger, stronger more intelligent ladies. You should keep this platform/show up Judge Funmi....💕💕💕

  • @TA-ce7gn
    @TA-ce7gn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They dont need a marriage counselor they should be filing for divorce.
    They are not compatible.
    The man is a liar, toxic and needs to go to a anger management service.
    The judge should advice the woman to get her own bank account so the man can transfer the money.
    The man is a typical abuser saying sorry and abusing again. The woman should never be blamed There is no reason for domestic violence the man has chosen to not keep his hands to himself and not control his temper.
    The judge should be advising the woman to get counselling she needs to build her self-esteem and self-confidence.

  • @honadeyinkefashai4337
    @honadeyinkefashai4337 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My prayer for this woman is for her to live long.She is just too good 👍

  • @gbengaalabi5276
    @gbengaalabi5276 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very intelligent woman.He should be paying it at the court and picking it monthly

  • @littlerubiesdaycare
    @littlerubiesdaycare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    For months we were searching for a Nigerian Judge show to binge watch. We are so glad we found Judge Funmi. Judge we are watching and loving you from Virginia 💕

    • @SkidCudi
      @SkidCudi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you watch Divorce Court, Peoples Court, Couples Court, Judge Matthias etc

    • @littlerubiesdaycare
      @littlerubiesdaycare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@SkidCudi yes! Our favorite is Judge Judy, though now probably Judge Funmi💕

    • @patiencebello5552
      @patiencebello5552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We love "The Justice Court". Sound mediation from Judge Funmi.

    • @lovemii3kids
      @lovemii3kids 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love this Judge, but I find she does not come down hard on men who like to beat women. She always tries to get them to stay together. That is shameful.

    • @sekinatowoseni7714
      @sekinatowoseni7714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lovemii3kids After the counselling the men will get warning and be cautioned on beating their wives. I love her she is not a homebreaker. She handle it in a motherly way. 💕 Judge Funmi.

  • @faridaaliyu7077
    @faridaaliyu7077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    The judge needs to take domestic violence more seriously
    Beating your spouse is not acceptable!!

    • @cathy5301
      @cathy5301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm gonna keep my mouth shut and listen because....

    • @realtalkwithphil
      @realtalkwithphil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yea, i agree that domestic violence is not to be taken lightly. That's why the judge instructs couples to go for anger management classes.

    • @de-charlestv5687
      @de-charlestv5687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I can see a feminist here oo

    • @realtalkwithphil
      @realtalkwithphil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@de-charlestv5687 This issue is a very serious issue and has nothing to do with Feminism at all...

    • @faridaaliyu7077
      @faridaaliyu7077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@realtalkwithphil thank you!!!

  • @mercylifted5243
    @mercylifted5243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Shame to a man that beats up a pregnant woman.

    • @kolbybeam4395
      @kolbybeam4395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Shame to man that beat a woman not to talk of pregnant

    • @josephbabalola9819
      @josephbabalola9819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      With right counselling and prayers, the man can be a better Daddy. The wife's approach should also change.

    • @biensavoir5759
      @biensavoir5759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Shame on women who verbally abuse her man

    • @victoryudom8345
      @victoryudom8345 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@biensavoir5759you seem to be a woman beater .

    • @agbortambeferinhoo2807
      @agbortambeferinhoo2807 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      get lost or listen to the case on both sides and analyze well.

  • @Mywatercrystaltv
    @Mywatercrystaltv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Single Ladies-shine ur eyes well! Financial issues often result in domestic violence. If a man was not financially responsible before marriage, most likely he won't change! Choose life oooo

    • @zahramissy4837
      @zahramissy4837 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @milissawilson-smith1768
    @milissawilson-smith1768 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh how I just love this Judge. She is such a humanitarian. She is very practical, kind understanding and very compassionate.

  • @kaykaye
    @kaykaye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This judge is a legend in my eye.....SAY NO to domestic violence pls 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @andreelove9635
    @andreelove9635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    How can a man say we are fighting? As if they are equal strength? This is just unbelievably sad 8 years together before the marriage! I wonder how they managed to stay together for 8 years?

  • @muhiydeenabdussalam1133
    @muhiydeenabdussalam1133 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They later lived happily as husband and wife soothes my heart, God Bless The Judge and her team

  • @Nikkygirlification
    @Nikkygirlification 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Do not stay in an abusive relationship

  • @yvettedaly7035
    @yvettedaly7035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'll repeat my thinking, these several months later after viewing this again. Physical abuse, domestic violence is the center of this. They should have moved on from each other. This marriage will not survive. She is dependent on him for money, he feels in control and physically attacks her. She could Never forget his beatings on her, no matter what. Move on, divorce.

  • @ng1471
    @ng1471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    This woman, run for your life, this man is evil. He is too stingy to even listened to.

  • @tajikistan55
    @tajikistan55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Some men don't know that female child are their true love... They will care for u more than ur wife... Just wait let them get to 4years upward.

    • @HelenEni
      @HelenEni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He is an ignorant fool. He doesn't know that it is a blessing to have a female child.

    • @kingsglory100
      @kingsglory100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are right 👉

  • @zogeneenwi2012
    @zogeneenwi2012 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    No woman should provoke a man. No man should use that as an excuse. Not once, not twice.

  • @oluwaseunluro9166
    @oluwaseunluro9166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Suffering a pregnant woman ,honestly May we not fall victim of this kind of a man ,because she gave birth to a baby girl . He needs prayer

  • @victorayodele9279
    @victorayodele9279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The fact that Judge Funmi is so calm, chooses her word correctly in a way it doesn't even offend people is so fascinating, she is not just a Judge but also a great mom, she has listening ears, goes to the root of the matter, break's everything down and interprets them, even after giving her verdict she still advices them

    • @patrickagori3537
      @patrickagori3537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She tries her best to restore marriages

    • @mr.gideonnwoha427
      @mr.gideonnwoha427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go and start your own and side for whom you like. Ewu

    • @hakeemojulari7392
      @hakeemojulari7392 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is just good

    • @ifeoluwafalaye6249
      @ifeoluwafalaye6249 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is not a regular court but an alternative dispute resolution.ADR. However, the decision of the judge is binding in law.

  • @lannawallpapers1715
    @lannawallpapers1715 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Literally just found this Judge and I have been on this for hours, watching and catching up. I love her, even when she’s stern, she’s calm. Judge Funmi, You totally Rock❤

  • @Trinijojo
    @Trinijojo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Beating a woman, you can never be in love with her. So sad

    • @dreo6769
      @dreo6769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love is a seed that grows. Plant the love seed and cultivate it well, you will surely have good harvest

    • @desmondburnett9286
      @desmondburnett9286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People give me respect over love. With respect, you do not cross personal space or boundaries. I may not love you, but I respect you. However, I may love you but I am constantly disrespected you, which makes no sense. Therefore, respect over love

  • @osakunikate1101
    @osakunikate1101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just started Subscribing some days ago in this beautiful channel.
    But it's amazing channel, I'm urging all the unmarried men and women to come and join this beautiful channel? This Judge is doing the best of she can, and I really appreciate the way she do her job. Keep it up, for the wonderful job.

  • @oluwoleodetola1626
    @oluwoleodetola1626 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "We are fighting, verbal and physical"

  • @aigbeelvis3445
    @aigbeelvis3445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    People need children yet those that have it don't know the value oo

  • @nopysango8752
    @nopysango8752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Judge is such a loving mother. She does seek to fault anyone, rather she always looks for solution that brings unity.

  • @olapadeaziz2328
    @olapadeaziz2328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love her wisdom may God bless her more. She listened to the both side

  • @blackstarsapphire8773
    @blackstarsapphire8773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This woman should run for her dear life. Once an abuser, it takes only divine grace not to continue being abusive. Domestic violence should not be taken lightly

  • @yvettedaly7035
    @yvettedaly7035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Pastors seem to force couples to stay together no matter what. One time. file charges and leave.

  • @aghamasamson4723
    @aghamasamson4723 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm happy for the reunion. Thank you judge Funmi

  • @akingbohungbesunday2146
    @akingbohungbesunday2146 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This program is highly educative and I so much respect Judge Funmi's responses and judgement on every issues . God bless you ma.

  • @lovethonuoha1406
    @lovethonuoha1406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    My goodness, since I started watching this justice court, I've come to realize one thing from the cases of husband and wife.
    The women have been groomed to believe that they are nothing without the man's money, that they can't even eat without the man's money.
    Women, get a life before and after marriage please! 🙏
    You don't cease to live cos you are married please. Keep yourself busy with something that gives you income.

    • @AuntyCaroComedy
      @AuntyCaroComedy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's not true, it's because they both have a child. Let him take care of his child

    • @hollag_group
      @hollag_group 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rubbish

    • @ejiemelvis1435
      @ejiemelvis1435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s really heartbreaking watching these women allow marriage reduce them this much

    • @ejiemelvis1435
      @ejiemelvis1435 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s really heartbreaking watching these women allow marriage reduce them this much

    • @udeola8597
      @udeola8597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So a man can impregnate a woman and not cater for the family because a woman is supposed to be self sufficient....miss independent I hail you ohhh

  • @Nikkygirlification
    @Nikkygirlification 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Women please stay woke!!!. Have your own money 💰 before you marry oo, be financially free. Have money saved up for goodness sake. Don't allow any man treat you like this. Educate yourself and don't settle for a crooked man.

  • @deakins643
    @deakins643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is a God's sent judge. The Almighty God will surely reward you(judge) for good in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @henrymelchizedek
    @henrymelchizedek 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Judge Funmi i love the way you honestly handle this issues with wisdom, please Ma, do mentor someone for your lagacy to live on. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @christianumukoro5097
    @christianumukoro5097 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am just so impress with the way judge Funmi handle cases, she is so calm and chooses his word very well. Ma’am you are a wonderful mother. God bless you ma.
    In my opinion this man isn’t responsible, given ur wife money like a beggar! In this hard country, what will 500 naira do ? Pls compel him to be responsible his daughter need to start schooling, she need to look good 500 naira is not up to 1 dollars for upkeeps is ridiculers .

  • @princechukwu12
    @princechukwu12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The judge should focus on her task which is grant people their wishes because domestic violence is not a joke.

    • @safiyyahahmad8863
      @safiyyahahmad8863 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true I suffered domestic violence nd I wouldn't want even my enemy to through wat I been through

  • @lawrenceemedoh856
    @lawrenceemedoh856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Giving the viewers feedback regarding what happened after the case is very good. Continue the good work.

    • @arinzay
      @arinzay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t think it’s our business. The is essentially a live streamed law case not Super Story.

  • @temiladealamudun5063
    @temiladealamudun5063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    In Nigeria, Domestic Violence is treated with kid gloves. DV is acceptable or blamed on women rather than punish the man that was the pepetrator.

  • @egbeyepamosoo328
    @egbeyepamosoo328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man is a very wicked man. Judge you are lenient with him. All the same I love your sense of justice.

  • @princechukwu12
    @princechukwu12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This judge should stop siding with these abusive men. I always notice she side with them, biko if a woman said she no want again just sign the divorce papers and let her go. She can't see through anything

    • @princechukwu12
      @princechukwu12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tersooawen4249 everyone in Nigeria always want to do intervention on domestic violence even when they know that the woman's life is in danger. I just don't understand what is wrong with that society.

    • @tersooawen4249
      @tersooawen4249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@princechukwu12 Well observed. It is very clear that the husband does not care whether or not the wife is happy. He treats her like a thing! In such a case where the man is an animal, why would any judge look to save the marriage. Especially a female judge. The wife sounds and look nice and graceful. The man is clearly the idiot.

    • @Chee235
      @Chee235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right! I’m sure he gets the support of other abusive men, she should at least have the support of fellow women.

    • @healthmedicationherbs759
      @healthmedicationherbs759 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      On August 24, 2019, my husband proposed and agreed to marry me, then we both planned the wedding. Our wedding was to be held on September 27. We had a little misunderstanding and he left me for another girl. I almost committed suicide. which led to our breakup. I was not myself again, I felt so empty inside myself, my love and my financial situation got worse, until a close friend told me about a sorcerer who helped her in the same problem, his name is Doctor Sandy. I emailed the spellcaster and told him about my problem and did as he asked, to make a long story short. Before I knew what was happening, less than two days ago my husband called me and said she would see me again. I was so happy to have him back with me. The most interesting part of the story is that I am pregnant. Thanks to Dr. Sandy for saving my marriage and also for saving his own. Keep up the good work, if you are interested in contacting the great spellcaster's email address: dr.sandyspelltemple@gmail.com
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    • @lilianedike6830
      @lilianedike6830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The woman needs to sue for domestic violence before it can be addressed in court. In Nigeria law, you don't just dissolve a marriage without giving the couple a chance to resolve their issues. Anyone that beats up their partner needs has anger issues and they need help to make them better for society.

  • @achiengjonstone8645
    @achiengjonstone8645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This lady judge you melt my heart how I just long to meet you and learn what drives you to reason in such a manner

  • @kennykeyslanre6831
    @kennykeyslanre6831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    How can a man be this stingy to the woman he calls his wife and also to his daughter!! Let alone that they were friends for 8years b4 the marriage.. The woman must have known this but still chose to go ahead with the wedding, this blows my mind and leaves me speechless🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    • @missnlahi
      @missnlahi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We really should be asking the women the pressure they are put under to just "manage" even when the situation is unbearable

    • @oghosa7321
      @oghosa7321 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe She thought She Will change him...i don't know

  • @sessygy
    @sessygy ปีที่แล้ว

    Great judge; wise, knowledgeable and unbiased. A great asset to Nigerian judiciary.

  • @khalilahel-amin3060
    @khalilahel-amin3060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love the judges' advice and analysis of what's happening between the plaintiffs and defendants! She's very insightful, asks great questions and is a good listener.

  • @ryansarena1464
    @ryansarena1464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Judge Funmi is so sweet and calm..

  • @princesylva818
    @princesylva818 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just started watching this program today, I'm in love with the Judge already

  • @fktv8978
    @fktv8978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way the people at the back are laughing 😂 is so funny

  • @ayodejisipasi1292
    @ayodejisipasi1292 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman is just too lovely, cool, calm calculated. She is more than a lawyer. counselor, mother, philanthropist and liberal.

  • @mileseven4677
    @mileseven4677 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I fill pity for the woman her smile make me fall in love with her and I also share tears when she said she will pick it every month

  • @chinwemonwumere2651
    @chinwemonwumere2651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I think the court was too lenient on the husband considering the domestic violence issues. As a fellow man, this guy’s a monumental embarrassment.

    • @mrhimselfalone7657
      @mrhimselfalone7657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @God's Son how is he crippled?

    • @Glaezamusic
      @Glaezamusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its not a criminal court

    • @okonalbert
      @okonalbert ปีที่แล้ว

      That was not the case for which he was brought to court, so the judge has done the appropriate thing. By calling him names, you are going too far in your judgment without investigation

    • @pauloni8734
      @pauloni8734 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go n marry her then.

  • @humphreydickson9391
    @humphreydickson9391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This man is a wicked person no matter what you are supposed to take care of your family.

  • @cathy5301
    @cathy5301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    So the 8 years he took before he marry wasn't enough for her to see the red 🔴 flags 🚩.. what I want to say....

    • @williamakogun3673
      @williamakogun3673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Word

    • @saratujibrin3755
      @saratujibrin3755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Some people can pretend and manipulate for real

    • @bloomskyintergrated
      @bloomskyintergrated 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If it's just by red flags, no one will ever be married

    • @cathy5301
      @cathy5301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bloomskyintergrated it prevents future problems since she mentioned in the past he gave little money before marriage. So it was a continuation in the marriage, discernment and wisdom is important, I'm not simplifying love though. Just saying be cautious somethings can be overlooked

    • @bloomskyintergrated
      @bloomskyintergrated 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cathy5301 true...

  • @TheLittleLondonGarden
    @TheLittleLondonGarden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The reason I’m not watching this anymore is because the judge doesn’t take violence against women seriously

    • @serahdonald
      @serahdonald 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me tooo

    • @nennacobrand6943
      @nennacobrand6943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts I cannot watch this

    • @ariifebo6113
      @ariifebo6113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The judge has no right to address the issue as long as it’s not the case brought in. The domestic violence should be a different case. You can’t charge someone for something else .

    • @ririvilla1423
      @ririvilla1423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree may be she is in an abusive relationship herself

    • @lilmizzconteh
      @lilmizzconteh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ariifebo6113 that’s not true. Domestic abuse can be a irreconcilable difference that can lead to divorce and this can result in divorce and be assessed in divorce cases

  • @chimeugochukwu9102
    @chimeugochukwu9102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Wisdom lies within Your Honour 🙇‍♂️... The way you crack matters is amazing ♥️

    • @mercyabuh4416
      @mercyabuh4416 ปีที่แล้ว

      At this point I'm disappointed in the judge. On this particular case. Nothing was judged professionally is as if she value marriage so much to the point that domestic violence means nothing to her.

  • @zaardakzaardak9283
    @zaardakzaardak9283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The woman have studied the husband so well. She is just smiling for the whole thing.

  • @TutuLolaAboh
    @TutuLolaAboh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good judgement!!! That they can mend their differences after going for counselling

  • @Visafriend
    @Visafriend 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poverty is a thing of this mind honestly because I don’t understand how someone can be trapped like this and can’t see it

  • @chukwudumetheresa1705
    @chukwudumetheresa1705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you for this Amazing judgment of peace .In our days no one want to stand for us particularly when you are from a poor homes The different now , Is that my Children are all grown and I did not die in that marriage keep it up God will strengthen the court . It came right on time .

  • @chukwudihillary1464
    @chukwudihillary1464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your honor God bless you for being transparent and fair to both of them.I know that people will expect you to start harassing and talking down on the man without getting the real fact from both of them. Keep it up ma,Your generation are bless.

  • @donstone4021
    @donstone4021 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this judge's wisdom of judgement. She's acting perfectly. The way she found out the hidden storm of aw the first fight happened...
    I pray that this good God will continue to empowerment you with all the necessary things you need to continue this wonderful job you are doing to unite one another in peace.... God bless you ma'am.....

  • @Kingsdaughter68
    @Kingsdaughter68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Never seen such a gentle judge. The American judges should learn from her 😉

    • @Armywif
      @Armywif 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BS!!

    • @jesseakhile3639
      @jesseakhile3639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The American judges are dealing mostly with crack heads so don't blame them.

    • @muchychipo5676
      @muchychipo5676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hell no ... this juge is not actually doing her job well, she not a therapist or dr phile

    • @patiencebello5552
      @patiencebello5552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@muchychipo5676 I believe the Judge is doing a great Job. The request of the plaintiff before the court is child support, the judge granted it.

    • @morounfolly1
      @morounfolly1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pls go and watch paternity court.

  • @preciousnellt7504
    @preciousnellt7504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How I wish I can meet this judge face to face, she is a very good listener. She deserves some accolades

  • @paulakpan2817
    @paulakpan2817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Judges are like pastors they see a lot and hear a lot, judge Fumi the Lord is your strength. God bless you.

  • @tobimcmorris7690
    @tobimcmorris7690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great woman, great Judge! She's wise and experienced in the Nigerian pysche

  • @zeesays726
    @zeesays726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this marriage is rubbish they must divorce

  • @oloyedekehinde8098
    @oloyedekehinde8098 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really appreciate what the judge has been doing so far.......God bless you for us ma...
    As For the men out there pls let try to control our anger towards our women...it very important...
    They re very flexible no matter what...pls let try to keep ourselves together....
    Also
    For the women out there pls stop using that opportunity to misbehave and talk rudely to a man, bcos u eventually knew u will be sided at the end.... Don't forget we are all human something you can't take from anyone don't start it at all....
    That my ideal
    Thanks

  • @Elvis042
    @Elvis042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I want my first child to be a girl.

  • @ibrahimdanlamiibrahim4142
    @ibrahimdanlamiibrahim4142 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just started watching this show. Thus is amazing and interesting. am learning alot.

  • @franciskoomson7312
    @franciskoomson7312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    How I wish my brother will take the God's Word to heart and vow never to beat her again. May be the anger management might help him at this time.

  • @ritao.3168
    @ritao.3168 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The guy with cream vest and black nose mask 🤣🤣

  • @MonicaEzue
    @MonicaEzue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Somehow someway this judge finds a way to side with or excuse abusive men. She will tell them about anger management then still find a way to blame the woman for the mans lack of self control and foolishness.

    • @kennedyirogue3041
      @kennedyirogue3041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is a good Judge, trys to mend instead break, work on giving the man a second chance to change for good.

    • @lilmizzconteh
      @lilmizzconteh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kennedyirogue3041 may you find a woman that beats you and may a judge to forcing you to stay together kmt

    • @missdee9501
      @missdee9501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lilmizzconteh 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jbabajconeluv394
      @jbabajconeluv394 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is not only men that are abusive in marriages, women too can also be either emotionally or physically abusive. So each case men must be studied critically.

    • @omovionwuka5014
      @omovionwuka5014 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lilmizzconteh exactly let the woman so beat him ehn

  • @Winyoma
    @Winyoma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This woman hates divorce..

  • @naomisworld3038
    @naomisworld3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This man even looks wicked

  • @wi9991
    @wi9991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This Judge need a American Judge to teach her

    • @adaezeononye672
      @adaezeononye672 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Meaning? So we must learn everything from America? Is the marriage culture same?

  • @brodlybenzion3149
    @brodlybenzion3149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    i dont like how this Judge handles domestic violence at all....

    • @anthonybajee4824
      @anthonybajee4824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i agree, i guess she has no brothers to kill this abuser

    • @osariemedeborahidialu5906
      @osariemedeborahidialu5906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I totally agree with you

    • @anthonybajee4824
      @anthonybajee4824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@osariemedeborahidialu5906 ... thanks, now you have to marry me

    • @osariemedeborahidialu5906
      @osariemedeborahidialu5906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Marry u say wetin happen. If my husband catch u. He will pluck out ur front teeth.

    • @anthonybajee4824
      @anthonybajee4824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@osariemedeborahidialu5906 hahahahaha

  • @graceokoro4562
    @graceokoro4562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂😂😂 see the boy eye 👁 at the back when the lady said he drop 300 naira

  • @emmabucks9914
    @emmabucks9914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    They aren’t locking these guys up over DV

  • @fj6116
    @fj6116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Judge please free people if they want it that is why they came to court

  • @IamKaska
    @IamKaska ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the first Nigerian court I've seen and love to watch the channel. Loving it. However I have noticed alot of domestic cases being brought to this court, but all I clearly see is referral for therapy sessions and counselling; the perpetrators go scot free with no repercussions! The judge should do more by referring such perpetrators to the police!

    • @bakareadekunle8236
      @bakareadekunle8236 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And that is because you all don’t know A from B, the court matter was not based on Violence. You filed a report for custody or child support and in between explanation of violence came up, the judge can’t simply shift her judgement on that. You all should understand the type of court that this is, not what you expect it to do.

  • @TheEnamayejacob
    @TheEnamayejacob 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Poverty is the main problem of this couple. If this woman is empowered, this challenge will disappear

  • @goddyrichie4185
    @goddyrichie4185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn this guy is very wicked who drops #150 & #300 for his pregnant wife in this day and age..and this woman looks really smart and sounds intelligent..I still can't imagine how well she speaks...clearly and very easy..,and you expect the woman and baby not be malnourished and after that petty money he will go to beer parlour and spend thousands with his friends and possible mistresses....na wa for this guy...why you dey fall our hand..

  • @oluwaseunluro9166
    @oluwaseunluro9166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly,men like this exist oooo ,I know someone with 3kids and the husband drops 500naira everyday for the wife and the 3 children… may we not fall victim of such men ijn .

  • @InChristAlone13
    @InChristAlone13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As far I know, domestic violence is a no no, I don't know about the woman going back to the marriage, the judge wouldn't be there when he starts to beat her again and ultimately God forbid kills her. They need space apart and serious counselling.

  • @justicesaka5539
    @justicesaka5539 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woow!(I have been watching program for long and today is my first comment.The judge is the best.Wisdom is really speaking through Judge Fummi Asaolu.God Almighty blessed you endless.MUM

  • @obiageliazuka7096
    @obiageliazuka7096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oga go n fight your own fellow man.

  • @MayorAutoTalkShow
    @MayorAutoTalkShow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is wrong with our men? Why Getting married you know you cannot take care of a family

  • @jesseakhile3639
    @jesseakhile3639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dear judge Funmi,i love you.

  • @amazie3
    @amazie3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The guy behind the man giving him evil eyes😂😂😂😂

  • @charlottehansen8503
    @charlottehansen8503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you very much ma, for reunite the couple back together

    • @ladytee5509
      @ladytee5509 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are NOT back together, hence it was agreed she'll be picking up the child's monthly upkeep from the court henceforth.

  • @iyoreiyore9743
    @iyoreiyore9743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Both lack understanding.while no joining him with food selling?

  • @meenah9180
    @meenah9180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    May God continue to increase you in wisdom knowledge and understanding. Judge funmi...

  • @mercylifted5243
    @mercylifted5243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just can't understand. This man should be ashamed of himself. How can you keep treating a woman like trash? Even your own child? Haba!

  • @layorhskye7492
    @layorhskye7492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I feel like everyone should be financially independent, most of what is happening is mostly related to money, and yes the wife looks so fresh.

    • @idowuadeniran4905
      @idowuadeniran4905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Some people are naturally beautiful. If she is well taken good care of, you may not recognize her again ooooo

    • @aliceumo1109
      @aliceumo1109 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is a must for either man/woman to be financially independent

    • @layorhskye7492
      @layorhskye7492 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aliceumo1109 yes It is to prevent things like this

    • @AuntyCaroComedy
      @AuntyCaroComedy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even at that, the man should be responsible. So if the Woman have money the man should be a deadbeat fãther? Wtf!

    • @kiss-so7ty
      @kiss-so7ty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AuntyCaroComedy honestly i don't understand this women be independent nonsense. As tho the man should marry n sleep on responsibility 😂

  • @oluwaseyeige197
    @oluwaseyeige197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wrong Approach vs Anger Management. Sometimes we are ignorant and that leads to many unresolved issues. In as much as I don't support domestic violence; our women should learn to control their hot temper. Respect and submission are keywords to gain a husband's heart. Care and listening ears are enough to gain the heart of one's wife. For me, I will never lift my hands to beat my wife except to kill those stupid flies that want to gain access to her body. It takes more the spirit of an ordinary man for a husband to lift his hands and beat his wife. Let us avoid domestic violence at all cost!

    • @adeolaadebiyi7618
      @adeolaadebiyi7618 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you submit to 150 a day and no idea what marriage is lol 😆

  • @odosaiyamuosa4423
    @odosaiyamuosa4423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She looks like she Hs gone through a whole lot Nd have found peace, pls my sweet judge you need to take domestic violence seriously

  • @annuncietaokolo7448
    @annuncietaokolo7448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This man is stingy and that is the cause of there marital problems....

  • @julieannejoolz
    @julieannejoolz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This JUDGE is being inappropriately nosey about their marriage, she always tells women to go back to their husbands and go to counselling to save a toxic marriage......i see Judge do this many times. This husband has been abusing this women, its shocking, so why is the judge not being appropriately harsh with this husband. He should've been in prison for assaulting Her. She needs to be free of HIM....

    • @patiencebello5552
      @patiencebello5552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @ Julie Anne, great observation and good point. My remark will be that issues are viewed and handled differently from country to country and culture to culture all over the world. Legal system and culture where the court sits may be different from the one you are used to in the west. The man had been arrested 3 times for domestic violence and as at the time they came to court, they were already separated. The case that was brought before the court was for child support. The Judge granted it. She went further to recommend classes on anger and marriage. Seems the couple decided to reunite after the classes, not sure if the same result would have been achieved if the judge had sent the man to prison.

    • @julieannejoolz
      @julieannejoolz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Godlywomanhenceforth yeah i get you, but for me, when a Man is the perpetrator of domestic violence he will not change...im for supporting the women..and so i dont agree with her having to go to counselling...i hope she will be ok...theres too many African men that neglect supporting their wives and children... #Bless 🙏🏼🤗

    • @julieannejoolz
      @julieannejoolz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@patiencebello5552 yeah i get you, my concern is for the Woman...this man has used domestic violence and ABUSE against her...thats so wrong and no matter the country, women should be valued and supported...i hope shes ok..

    • @patiencebello5552
      @patiencebello5552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Godlywomanhenceforth Lool. You are close but People still get locked up, there are several prisons for offenders. The Judge was going by the legal system in the country. The judges only rule on charges brought before them in Africa. If you want the Judge to rule over domestic violence issue, you will have to file that in your charges. The wife in this case brought child support matter before the court and gracefully the judge granted her prayers. I have not heard of any American or British Judge that has sent someone to Jail over a charge that was not brought before them either, such judgement will be challenged. lots of people making uninformed remarks just need to get educated about legal system.

    • @patiencebello5552
      @patiencebello5552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@julieannejoolz You are right. I only wondered why the wife did not bring domestic violence charges before the court. Unfortunately she can only get ruling over charges she filed in court, in this case it is child support. Women really need to speak up against violence.

  • @akinade7055
    @akinade7055 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Domestic violence should be taking seriously..