If You Love Them Let Them Go | Detachment & Taking Control in Relationships
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01:08 - The Push and Pull relationship is a real phenomenon. There is a direct correlation between intense feelings of love and control. The more out of control you feel in love the more likely it is that you are experiencing those "in love" intense feelings.
01:42 - After a breakup, your feelings are so overwhelming because you have no control
02:25 - The importance of practicing detachment in a relationship
03:20 - Letting someone you love go even it's just temporary allows you to give yourself time to value and love yourself, and giving your partner an opportunity to miss you
04:15 - Fighting for a relationship alone can make you look weak. No one wants to be with someone who is desperate.
04:50 - Your goal should be to position yourself in a way where your partner has to chase you instead of vice versa.
05:15 - Give your partner the space to value you. Ultimately this is about you taking control of your love life. Sometimes taking control means taking a step back. It means letting go.
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Learn how letting go of someone you love is really about self-empowerment, happiness, and detachment. This may sound counter-intuitive if the goal is to stay together. This is why this video is fascinating because in the end, it is about taking control of your love life.
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I think my partner watched this video coz its been two months since the last time i heard from him 😂 i also stopped reaching out to him after 2 messages. Its definitely hard not getting a closure. I will just continue living my life and pretend everything is alright. One day Ill wake up and it wont hurt anymore.
Never pretend . It will show up in your body as a form of disease . Accept the fact, grieve it, and keep working on yourself. Don’t ignore what you feel inside, acknowledge it, love it, and then south it with kind and positive words and thoughts .
Please don't do that.to yourself you are beautiful and you.will find love
I hope you wake up today HAPPY 😊
IM DEAD
how do u feel now a year later?
Detachment is so difficult but with the help of these videos it makes it a lil easier so🙌
Glad the video was helpful! Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
I keep texting her and one minutes she's bubbley and glad to be conversing with me and one minute she's cold and distance it really massing with my head. I really want to let go of her otherwise I'll lose my self 😥
lungelo praisegod same. My relationship was great. All of a sudden we began having fights a lot and struggling in our relationship. We starting to be good, but now our relationship is different. One second she’s happy, and lovey, the next she’s so distant and barely talks to me, it hurts bc I’m so confused. She just says she’s busy. I’m loosing myself. As much as I love her, I hate the fact that I’ve lost so much of myself and I think it’s time to take back control.
Yeah right, but I’ve kept watching this to reassure my power, and it’s kinda working !
True. Very difficult to detach. This video helps a lot
When someone leaves, let GO, Let GOD. Have faith that God subtracts to make room for something better. Level UP, don’t beg and move forward with grace. 💪 🙏🏽 ♥️
It’s so difficult letting go of someone you thought was your soulmate :/
This same advice works wonders when in a relationship with a Narcissist.
So so so true
@@Shon_29 that is something else and it's called abuse. These are not some ordinary flaws, and it's not love but trauma bond. You are separated now?
J yea he is living with his parents after he met with a bike accident in the month of Jan, till last week we communicate but after every few days there are a lot of arguments and he ends up in abusing me, aft 2 days of no contact he again feels sorry for his doings and says I can't survive without you please talk to me and forgive me. I too love him a lot a warned him about not disrespecting me. He promises me but ends up in doing same. Now he is blaming me for his accident his job loss and says all fights are due to me and he wants to crush my ego so abuses me
Aura Gonzalez narcissistic people never change
@@Shon_29 can you get professional help? He's just manipulating you.
The truth is detachment and letting go takes a long time.. counseling, no drugs or alcohol.. exercise and therapy can help..
The thing you need to remember is that if they were not willing to make any compromises or work on things. Then it means that they really didn't care. It really sucks when the reality hits you that the next bottle of beer was way more important to them than the marriage...
That was my husband. He refused to compromise or meet me in the middle. He complained about how miserable he was and expected me to fix it -- without his care, concern, or help.
I'm glad that crap is over.
I detached, he's now texting love messages. I believe it's working. Thanks for sharing
Thank you for sharing your story! Glad to hear it's working for you!
Coach Adrian
How did you really detach love
how long was it before they contacted you ?
"Ifyou love someone set them free if dont come bk was never meant to be"
Bottom line
If u truly love someone. Set them free. If they comes back. Nobody wanted them. Set them free again. Gengis khan
This sentence is BS.. Cause if u treated them badly and wishing them to come back.. U r wrong then
Wow thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed. Instead of freaking out and spamming my SO when upset about their visible recent lack of appreciation and value of me, I watched videos like this. Now I’m regaining my power ✊🏽💪🏽👑
You're welcome! I'm glad the video was helpful for you!
Coach Adrian
#Same... as I straighten my crown 👑
I am happy for you❤. Today I'm felling so broken I feel I will be like u soon. Have a wonderful day
One thing that helps in comments is were not alone many people go through this... It comes and goes but as time progresses and I hear different story's it makes me realize were not alone despite situation we need to learn control and use the pain in positive light to help others and help grow for next relationship... Had somebody who got screwed over really bad and he told me time heals its a journey till then...
So true 👍
Last year i was watching all these videos coz my bf had dumped me....he came back after six months but i already lost interest....
Thank you for reaching out. I understand things can change. Please consider visiting www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level.
Coach Adrain
I need to follow this advice. I’m only driving myself crazy. We both love each other, but I really have dependency and low esteem issues, which usually leads to me feeling not considered or disrespected. Going into winter is going to be tough. I really don’t want to be alone. I want companionship and to be loved. I know there is someone out there for me.
I want to let him go😭😭😭 I'm broke im tired to loved that person who doesn't want to make an effort to prove that he loves me too.
Thank you for reaching out, Rodelyn. I understand you want to let him go. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level.
Coach Adrian
How are you doing now?
Thank you, I needed to hear this today. Regardless what the outcome is, there is a positive side to it. I will gain my control and uplift my value or the relationship becomes stronger.
This is today for me…. My girl told me last night that she prayed and God said I wasn’t her husband but I am the best man she’s ever been with… I’m so confused 😐
i’m going through it right now. & out of all the videos i’ve watched, i’ve rewatched your multiple times because it gives me the sense that everything’s going to be okay if i give it time. thank you.
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Hows your feelong now glizzy? Because i am experiencing it right now🥲
I agree. Time. Just have to ride the wave.
Omg. This was honestly so helpful. Thank you so much. I have been grieving and being desperate over my ex for a month now. I feel weak. But this genuinely will help me.
Happy to hear that. Thank you for watching.
Coach Adrian
Came at a perfect time. My person and I are on a break currently I’m a little nervous about it but I have a good feeling. I gotta remember to detach I caught myself chasing too much kinda suffocated him while there is a lot on his plate already. This was a good reminder to love myself during this break and not act out of desperation. Thank youuuuu
I'm glad the video was helpful for you Roxana. Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
Everyday I watch this video.. Becoz i need power to detach.. And i get the power by watching this video. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you
Glad the video is helpful. Thank you for watching, Arun.
Coach Adrian
December 21st 2021, I will find my happiness and the need to not need anyone but myself. If she comes back, great that’s all I want but if I can’t, I gotta run and keep running just for myself
Don't change urslf so that they chase you....Change urself bcoz u want to....Do whatever small or big things for yourself....Dnt rush in doing anything to get back them rather channel ur energy to gv self love....
Friday the 18th of December introduced me to what rock bottom really feels like. I am listening to this video devoid of any hope that this pain will ever pass and feeling subside. Hope to return to this comment at some point in the future in a better state.
How are you doing now after 7 months?
Same here..my issue started off on 18dec
Any updates?
It breaks my heart I wont ever hear from him anymore
I understand the pain you're going through. Please watch this video to understand the power of no contact. th-cam.com/video/csIMBHXj5so/w-d-xo.html
Coach Adrian
I needed to watch this video to move on from an old flame, but, I don't want to go back to my ex.
I still love her like a family member, but, if it didn't work out between us, it was for a good reason.
Detachment is so hard, most especially when they are your confident and the closest person to you
This video is a great help ...I pray I heal faster
You're welcome, glad the video was helpful for you.
Coach Adrian
It’s sometime a much needed pain for our own growth.
I am going through a rough page. My friend whom i met last year here at varsity is currently making my life a miserable. She has interfered in my relationship of 5 Years. i have three days now without food, my partner has changed completely. She trusted all lies coming from my friend. She has insulted me with sort of words. i love her and i am not complete without her. But today after listening to this message i let it go. I put my self first.
Yes!!! Let it go for good! If my heart
Is belong to someone that I desire.
My day will bright forever.l love myself!!
I told him how I felt because I dint want to feel trapped within myself but more so I told him because I dint want to torture myself but I feel like he just wants me there just in case that's truly how I feel
Nothing is for everyone. I'll agree pasionate love is a loss of control, but it is for you to grow. The underlying issue here is some people you connect with so deep it changes you- letting them go- isn't an option - sometimes even long after the relationship is over- the grief still holds you and the numbness of the loss makes everything seem wrong- even when everything is right.
26/03/2021. Self enlightenment and working on a thing called '' self-love''. Will come back here if I had overcome this detachment process.
how are you? ❤️
We have both decided to go through with the divorce and I feel relieved I’m also working through a lot of childhood trauma and it’s very difficult to help him understand why I am the way I am and that I’m trying to better myself.
2 months post break up. Every day is a different emotion. Some highs, some lows. I love and attach hard... not handling the break up well 😕. Will give some time and come back to update you all on my progress... 5.5.22
Going through the same. Wishing you well!
This is perfect, exactly where I am. I let him go today. No more effort to stay in touch.
I'm glad the video was helpful for you, Terry.
Coach Adrian
THIS HIT HOME! my wife just recently moved out and were separated and I felt exactly what you said. I was begging and trying to control her and felt I was losing my best friend. I am going to change my way of thinking, up to today I was still chasing.
when you love someone, you let them be ..
The information that you convey is done with such clarity and such empathy - it helps make this very difficult time a little bit easier. Thank you for posting this.
Glad to hear the video was helpful for you, Chris. Thank you for watching.
Coach Adrian
I just watched this video after I’ve been chasing my gf after she broke up with me. We’ve been together for three years and letting her go is so hard. And it’s true I’ve lost my mind even thought of killing myself but I was wrong. I shall try and let her go 😭but it’s so hard ad painful 😭😭
Thank you for watching, Makhoe. I hope the video was helpful for you.
Coach Adrian
Im going through that now bro
How are you doing now after 7 months?
@@BENNIJERROD hey man I was completely hit hard by my gf. She dumped after 3 years..very painful...in talking with her...she was I never thought she become...it deeply cuts so deep...but she moved and would tell where she moved that was the last time I said..she was trustworthy and lied so much....she moved less 3 block from my job....it felt like betrayal and shooting in my heart....life goes on...we really have careful of narcissist such as my ex gf......
Only know you love it when you let it go
I DONT LOVE THEM..BUT GLADDLY LET THEM GO!!
I’m literally crying so hard I feel so alone watching this man he’s already moved tf on
I understand the pain you're going through. Knowing you ex has moved on can bring a lot of pain. Please take a look at this article when you get a chance.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/my-ex-moved-on/
Coach Adrian
It’s very hurtful. I don’t know your situation but the same happened to me. I Spent four years of my life being extremely faithful, supportive, honest, loving, communicating, taking care of him when he had heart problems.... after 4 years, he left me. Got with another girl he only met online. His own family was questioning him. Any sweetie, your not alone. At times people make me feel that way as well
What can you do if you live with your gf/bf and your being neglected, not heard, not cared about. You share a lease. What can you do and only one person is putting in all the relationship work ???
@@nikianard587 im feeling this was in 5yr relationship ive more ambition i love her i know wont or dont wanna "try again" ive moved out to tell her to find herself shes still blind we got bk 2days n worse than origanal break up ....i have noticed shes angry hurt n confused whereas i feel av jst fell in love my (ex?) Partner is selfish to the point shes blind to it she thinks helping by giving away xtra food really she no want bin smelling she offers u got whites for wash ...no care bout darks wants whites to fill her load ...time n destiny will provale shes one bn distant i sense she confused i recognise things i cld better she too stubborn ppl dont dwell on wot cld ur whole life lifes short god luck 😊
So powerful. .thank you today is my birthday. .you have helped me so much 😃
Thank you for watching, I'm happy the video was helpful for you. Happy birthday!
Coach Adrian
Letting go of someone you deeply cared for and loved is the most cutting thing in the world it's worse than hell 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hey there,
I know how difficult and painful it is to let someone like that go. I know it is going to be hard and the pain may feel never-ending but trust me, it's only temporary. We have a video on our channel I think will help you out on letting go. I hope you find the time to watch it!
th-cam.com/video/ANxKDKnQilY/w-d-xo.html
You are amazing I feel like crying and I also feel like you just put what I have trying to comprehend in a perfect way. I knew I had to detach I just didn’t understand, thanks for your help
Thank you for reaching out, Bethany. I'm glad the video was helpful for you.
Coach Adrian
i love how calm u are explaining this video and u show a lot of sympathy.
Thanks for sharing this awesome advice ... putting urself first isn’t selfish it’s an act of survival... blessings of health safety happiness harmony kindness consistency to all.. hugs from Perth Australia 💌🥰✌🏻💝
Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
I am terribly Co Dependent. God Thank you for being here. I've been lost.
The intro was great! not sure how my youtube stumble upon u but very relevant and insightful ...thanks..wish your channel success.
Videos like this and all are the only way I can get through the day and have a sliver of hope for my marriage, we’ll be talking or he’ll come home. Thank you
Thank you!
Coach Adrian
I've been trying to let go of the person I love because we only hurt each other, but he's always insisting. It's not that I don't love or don't want to be with him, it's because I see my presence in his life as a bad force, so if what's best for him is me letting go and setting him free, that's what I wish to do and what I'm desperately trying.
Great video. Thank you. I wasn't thinking of breaking up w/him but I was longing for space. Meanwhile he dumped me but had another woman he was texting prior. He suffocated ME. I do have oxygen now. He did keep texting me after the breakup until I requested him not to for a while. Didn't know at the time he had already started in another relationship before breaking up with me. His loss and I know he will also lose the one he is currently with. She's a younger version of myself and he couldn't handle my energy and activity level. She's a personal trainer and he can barely walk.
He rejected for over a year then he asked my to marry me feb.2019 told me he loved me then pushed me away yet again. I'm done moving away
Sometimes the best way to control is to not control
This is what I needed to see. I want to break up with my significant other because of all of my feelings were going unheard after countless promises of him trying to listen. He continued to hurt me emotionally and i decided it was enough. I feel like he was very controlling so i decided to turn it around on him.
Thank you so much for this ❤️🙏
I'm currently having troubled with a toxic relationship and this is what i really needed to hear right now 🙏
I'm glad the video was helpful for you. Thank you for watching.
Coach Adrian
I am recently dealing with a separation. It's so awful and devastating. I'd like to believe there is an end to this and I come out of this alive and not ostracized.
How r u now hun
Thank you sir. Very wise words. I needed this, regardless of the outcome of my situation, it was very helpful.
Thank you for your kind words, Bryce. I appreciate it.
Coach Adrian
What if both partners follow the same strategy of detaching? Both will expect to be chased from each others side🤔?
I thought the exact same thing. My ex and I are both stubborn
If you clicked on this video, it’s simple. You have to let that person go forever. Easier said than done though. I’ve been in a push pull relationship for 2 years. Every time I detach, he chases. I return thinking things will be better but then he becomes distant again. This goes on like a circle. I know the only way to get empowered is to let him go forever. Very difficult to do though and that’s why I’m still in this situation of pain.
What if there in another relationship ?? The more time passes, the less chances you have for them to come back. I can see on our behalf why we become desperate and we panic. It's killing me knowing that he is really happy and maybe already in a committed relationship. How he met her so quick, is beyond me. You said you got back with your ex. What were your plans of getting her back. Please do a video on your story. Thank you ! Lots of Love 💖💖💖.
It is painful to hear that your ex has moved on to another relationship. Please take a look at this article to understand what to do if your ex has moved on.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/my-ex-moved-on/
Coach Adrian
Thank you so much, this is how I've been feeling and what you said made so much sense to me..
From on, it's about me... Enough of my self esteem getting hurt again and again. I let you go.... I am powerful and I am rather comitted the calling if my life!
If u truly love someone. Set them free. If they comes back. Nobody wants them. Set them free again. Gengis khan
lol
I never understand this idea of making them chase you. Do you have to repeat this process every month when they become distant? That's a horrible game, not a partnership.
I agree! Inwas thinking, what it BOTH partners take his advise? Neither is chasing but both are expecting to be chased. Seems a childish way of relating. Manipulating.
Detachment is better coming from a place of acceptance and self-care, with no desired end result.
True, I think rather being distant to make them chase you, It's better to open up and talk about your worries, insecurities and needs in the relationship. What if they also want to talk but couldn't because of their insecurities, it can sort out things if that's the case and if that's not work out then in that case too, talking openly give you a closure to move on. So you won't stuck in playing the chase game, it can give such a false and delusional sense of relationship.
All you need is just a single courageous step to open up.
Absolutely! So kind and wise. Games are for children.
It definitely hurts emotionally and Ive even lost a huge sense of self throughout this process. Ive chased soooo hard & have put myself through embarrassing situations to please my spouse but it is never enough once I climb on latter theres another much taller waiting on me. Its to the point where my husband openly tells me he doesnt care about me & as much as I want to keep chasing I gotta let go he’s no longer the person I met 😢
Currently, I am in an open relationship. I would love to get tools on how to fairly carry out this journey. My partner and I love each other immensely and we want nothing but success for the both of us. I however, am 16 years older than my partner and don't crave for multiple partners. So, this video was posted right on time. I will tune in often. Thanks for sharing.
Wow this is great 👍 and a great video for empowerment. Thanks coach.
Thank you for this video. This is literally exactly what I needed to hear right at this moment in time. 💜🙏
Wow, I was about to blow it and text him lol but now I watched this video and I know it wouldn't be wise. I hadn't heard from him in a week and so 5 days ago he texted saying "Hey,I just got my phone turned back on and that's why you haven't heard from me. Thanks for helping with package delivery." I've been involved with him for a year already..but its complicated lol. I decided from having watched previous videos on your other channel, that I would NOT answer (in efforts to get him pursuing), so that he would double text at some point and yeah, I'll admit it..I wanted him to text again to demonstrate that he cares and I wanted the satisfaction (ego, I know) because I had "suffered" for a week thinking it was over. To my surprise and disappointment, he has NOT texted again. Now I am conflicted as to whether or not it was a good decision to force his hand but with everything I've learned, I think I need to commit to the decision I made and get him back chasing me (regain control). I was feeling weak and almost texted! but this video came up and I know now that I have to be steadfast and redeem power. I really can't believe he still hasn't texted. If and when we do speak, I'm not sure what explanation to give when he says ..But I did text you and I never heard back. Am I supposed to admit I put him to the test? It's not that believable to say I was busy because I've always communicated regardless of that. Anyway, thanks for motivating me to stick with it! It's so hard to stop ruminating over the situation but maybe you can help us figure out how to detach from the outcome and overcome these limiting beliefs.
Thank you for the helpful tips. Very educational, uplifting & encouraging. Appreciate your precious time. Good points to pay heed to. Looking forward to more more to come ahead.
You're welcome, Marylou. Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
My mistake was I couldn’t control my emotions and texted her for close to 2 months trying to fight. I probably pushed her away but I also realized how to value myself. It’s been a month now since I spoke to her and I’m still trying to move on. It sucks but I know she has already done that.
Are you guys together now ?
Same exact way here.
This makes sense, I just gotten out of a relationship, because he claims he likes me but still dont love me, so he broke up with me, said it's for the best because I'm too much in love with him, it feels like I'm suffocating an pushing him to love me, it's hard on me I never use to be this attach to any1 like this.
I will give this a shot. Will come back here with results.
It's been very hard for me lately. About a week ago now my partner and I got into a heated argument and broke up. So now she's an ex. Wasn't the first time. I miss her and love her. She was the best thing In my life.
This video definitely helps me a lot, I appreciate it so much, being 16 I have raging hormones, and my girlfriends parents just broke us up shes 16 aswell, but they threatened her, and well its a long story, but it's been the hardest thing in my life to detach from this girl, I know what I must do, I know the emotions I'm feeling, and I've tried to surround myself with people, and different girls but it's so hard for me to just forget about her, part of it is that I see her in my classes every school day, and that's the only way we communicate now because last time we tried when we first were split, she got everything taken away from her by her parents (computer, phone, books, car, etc.) yes her parents are absurd and CRAZY, they have trackers on her phone to see very text message I send and she sends, but thats besides the point, my question is, I really want to be with this girl, it feels like I've lost her, and I know you explained this in the video, how I'm now starting to feel her values, I feel guilty because since this was my first TRUE relationship, I made a lot of mistakes, not like horrible, just, jealousy, and other things, and at the current moment I've never regretted something more in my life, I know we both love each other like crazy, and it may be too late to turn it around because I've felt like I've been desperate for her for the last 2 months, which yes was a mistake, ik, but atleast im learning life lessons ig, hurts so much tho, never been so depressed in my life :(
I hope it gets better bro, I’m going through similar emotions right now. I’m sorry you’re going through that. I know it hurts like hell
Or just let go of the relationship all together if you've already tried so much. If its meant to be it'll be, if not you will always be okay. They aren't the center of the universe. It can feel that way, but believe me, they are not. You have a whole entire world and life ahead of you.
I was seeing someone for months. I thought we had a good thing going but Vibes don’t lie believe me. I was comfortable with us not talking for days thinking he was busy. Until I was honest with myself that he never loved me, he just enjoyed what I could offer him. Maybe he thought as time goes by he will feel the same way but nothing was ever good enough for him.
Thank you for sharing your story, Sammy.
Coach Adrian
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I have to see it everyday to get power to detach from my husband who has lots of trauma in his childhood which makes him heartless and cruel.
I'm happy to hear the video was helpful for you, Anastasia!
Coach Adrian
This popped up for me today and I really needed it. Thank you!
I'm happy the video was helpful for you, Britt.
Coach Adrian
I agree. My partner is trying to control me by attempting to devalue me so I am emotionally detaching.
Thank You fir Such Wise,Measured Advice on Detatchinh Oneself and Letting Go !
We all know where we stand with someone 😩
I have been so depressed as the girl I think I "love"her ignores and just disappears in my life completely for no reason, the day I bougth her flower is the day shes gone gone. I never have a chance to give her the flower. i love what you say on the video, it helps me a lot to get through this.
I've got u so quickly.u don't wanna be with someone who doesn't want to be with U period.
I've been up since 3am and now it's 8am. I think I'm depressed. My relationship is falling apart and I think it's about time I let it, although I love him so much. He's been so distant lately and I feel like he's losing interest and it hurts so much my heart is bleeding. But I want to learn to let go. I want to emotionally detach from him because I'm drowning. And this video is helping me thanks so much. Please make more videos like this.
I took a step back in my mind and it already felt better
Glad to hear that!
Coach Adrian
Me too!
Thank you for a gr8 video 👍👍 so important to be detached, take your power back and be free.
I just found your TH-cam channel. I’ll look and see if you have any videos on what to do when your boyfriend asked for space. Everything was going along beautifully, he shared how much you loved me and how calm and peaceful our relationship wasthen out of the blue he started to panic that maybe some of our lifestyles differences would cause problems and told me he needed space to think.
It’s been five days and it’s killing me not to reach out but I’m respecting his need for space.
I want so bad to reach out. I know the few things he mentioned are things I’m more than willing to compromise on. I saw them as non-issues but apparently for him they’re huge. The thought of him walking away and not being able to have a conversation is killing me.
I did ask at the beginning of this if he has broken up with me and he said no, This is so confusing
i knew that a year ago. but it doesnt stop. i cant concentrate during work, he haunts me even in my sleep. how the fuck do i finally end this!
Thank you for reaching out. I understand what you're going through. Please take a look at this article, it can help you how to concentrate at work.
Coach Adrian
I just wanna learn to let him go and not have hope of him coming back, because that hope shatters all growth for me
Thankyou for this. Wish I would've seen this video years ago.
You're welcome. Thank you for watching!
Coach Adrian
I am attracting unavailable emotional individuals in my relationships? Platonic or Partner? They want to know about me but dont share about them give me small bits of their world? Another question I need to move on with someone I have history and they choose to continue to be immature and manipulative I cut them off for an month or maybe 2 they are co dependent on me and I give in becuz I love them? You say let go! How can you turn your Love off for someone you Love?🙃 Thank you for your time 🌹
This girl my heart beat frfr love her gotta let her go
Feels like you are talking about me... Exactly. Even been looking at new places to live a few months ago and had one foot out the door but decided to keep on fighting. All of a sudden she told me she wants a devorce and now im devestated. Irrational...
Thank you for reaching out, Christopher Please watch this video to help you understand how to avoid divorce. I believe it will be helpful for you.
Coach Adrian
I would like to see a video on the place of friends when two people are in a marriage or committed relationship. How should they be managed, especially friendships with the opposite sex? What if a partner in the relationship feels uncomfortable or threatened by the way their partner relates to a friend of the opposite sex? Should partners set boundaries or agree on rules of engagement?
Mann I so needed to hear this.
I'm glad the video was helpful for you! Thank you for watching, Taylor!
Coach Adrian
Wisest words I’ve heard in a while
Thank you for watching. I appreciate it!
Coach Adrian
Thank you for this video. I most definitely lost control. Well, living is learning, and it's about growing. Glad to find this video.
Glad it was helpful!
I wonder what people go through when they make out, date, then get married for several years. I wonder what that feels like
I hope this videos helps me because I'm still into having my obsession with my celebrity crush that I wanted to be in the relationship with. That doesn't mean that I want to move on from her no, but there's another way that I want to have more chances of letting her go in order for me to have more confidence or more ability. It's not doing me any favors for some reason and I want to make it go away a little bit. To be fair, I still love my celebrity crush through my heart and my soul, nothing will contain my life if it happens to me.
I so needed this!! I love her so much, sometimes I feel like she lost feelings and Idk what to do and this really helped! Thank you!!
I'm glad this helped!