Dad Comes Back After Getting Disowned To Demand His Child Support Money Back On My Wedding Day
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Op came from a home that comprised a mother she was proud of and a father who was never really a dad. While her mother did her best to carry the family along, her father did his word by squandering the funds he earned from work outside the home. OP’s mom finally decides to divorce her husband after he became physically abusive toward her. OP’s dad in a bid to spite the mom, refuses to help his daughter (op) who needed money for college, and out rightly cuts off from her. Op and her mom make it despite the odds and things get a bit better when OP gets engaged to her boyfriend who takes care of the family. Her father whom life had become rough for tries to find his way back into the family he abandoned. Op and her mom refuse his plea for plea and acceptance but OP’s mom soon passes away from cardiac arrest, leaving OP distraught. Op moves on and was about to get married to her lover when her father obstructed the ceremony, and in the presence of everyone demands that Op and her fiancé repay the whole money he had spent on child support since before she turned eighteen. Despite being provoked, OP remains calm but files a restraining order against her father for life! She refuses to help him out as the years go by despite the plea of her husband.
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I dropped my father. This was before internet and cellphones. So it was easier to drop that kind of trash. He was finally found living on the streets by his sister. He was put in a charity hospital. Where he wasn’t in his own mind anymore because of all the alcohol and drugs. His doctor called me once. Asking for $50,000 for heart transplant. I laughed. Told him it would never change him. And I wouldn’t give him a new heart because he drank and did drugs for most of his life. I don’t think he deserved a new heart. Plus my father never paid child support for any of his children. So I also told the doctor that my father should paid for his bills since he never paid for any of his child support. He should have plenty money. Oh yes, he spent it on drugs and alcohol. Good luck with that.
If you don't mind me asking....Is he still alive?
I can understand her perspective on nathan guy, its always nice to have the one guy who acted and fulfilled every role you lacked in your life, he must be lovely
I would of been after my mom to divorce him sooner and I agree don’t let him back in her life.
Can see why OP wished she was fatherless. It's so sad that OP's mother died so young. OP's mother had worked so hard to support OP. For OP's father to show up on her wedding day period is galling, much less making any demands. Since OP's bad penny of a dad - yes, a restraining order as Nathan threatened was a good idea.
The only mistake on the wedding day was not to blacklist the father so the guards would stop him getting in.
I Concur on her feelings on how bad the dad is..But I saw her be mad @ her HUBBY....She looks like she was yelling..He wasn`t even abusing her...Just giving a suggestion... There`s no excuse to be verbally abusive..GOD!
I honestly wish I was parentless at points. My Mom is narcissistic and abusive and my Dad thinks he doesn't have to do anything since I am an adult and a mother. It's sad but my parents honestly dont care. OP had an amazing Mother and I am sorry she lost that person
Me too. I would never wish death upon anyone, but I think death should've taken her sperm donor father instead of her beloved mother.
The wedding day fiasco. Just amazing the gall of him.
If I had a dad like this I would had gone no contact because a guy like this doesn’t deserve the title of father and husband and op should had file for divorce for op sake. Story 1
The worst thing you can do is give a person like OP's father money to make them go away! They will never leave you alone after that.
My father was the same way, but he never paid child support. Whenever he was low on funs he showed up on my mom's door steps wanting money. Which she always gave him.
I have to say just like with my own father she should never have to have anything to do with him.
I never did and he died without me knowing.
so crap parents really ...
Malignant Narcissists will NEVER leave you alone until you force them to do so. OP's mother dying would not deter her father. That woman meant only what she could give to him. In a MN's world, all other people exist only to serve them. They are either psychopaths or sociopaths, having no empathy for anyone. This is why he could seduce women so easily in his 30's and 40's.
I would spare no effort to find out who was leaking information to her father. And make sure that person or persons understood how I truly felt to them for doing that.
OP’s dad (he doesn’t deserve to be called father) probably had people watching her & her mom. It was probably reported back to him that Nathan was wealthy...he wouldn’t have tried to come back otherwise.
1 word. HITMAN LMAO. OR A few words more. Heavies to mess daddy of the century up so much to never show face again. Poor mother. That was hard.
“I was a woman by every standard, which meant that I ought to take care of myself just as every other woman did.”…coming from a man who has been leeching off every woman he has met, including his boss!! But in my experience, child support is to be paid until age 24 if said child(ren) want to attend college. He should still be paying to support OP or at least helping with her college expenses!
JUST WHAT SHE DID IGNORE HIM !!! What an GOD AWFULL PERSON !!! WHAT A SHAME HER MOM NEVER GOT TO ENJOY ALL THE FRUITS AND HAPPINESS OF ALL HER LABOR!!!!!!
God Bless Nathan and I'm sure Mom is receiving all her blessings for a life well loved.
I am in a relationship where I am supporting someone who has made one bad mistake after another. For the first two years he felt less than a man with any help from me. Now he is changing he started not to greatly disliking any help from me to starting to seak out my help and is now starting to complain when I ask for his help where it will improve my situation that he would benefit from.
Donkeyearsa - you see where things are going. You have to decide what you need and make your future plans accordingly. You can try to get him to counseling to get back on track, start planning your exit, or prepare to become a doormat. As one who stayed a doormat way too long, I hope you have the strength & self-respect to choose one of the first 2 options. Good luck in your future.
Never give someone like that man money you have a sweet boyfriend, but no
I feel sad that OP's father was such a USER, Having been spawned by one myself I know they are ALWAYS in trouble, and ALWAYS need JUST a little help. and it always seems when they are UP, that helping others who helped him, is COMPLETELY OUT OF THE QUESTION.
Edit, I would bet MONEY that the reason he came to YOU for money was because he had herd through SLIME that you were dating a Rich man, and thought he could use YOU to his benefit.
The father would be a distant memory!! Period!
I understand everything you wrote. Nothing seemed weird or messed up
Your life was and you clung on to the happiness that came into your and mum's ife
"He was my friend, brother, lover, and father...I took Nathan to go see my Mum and he soon became her "husband" too." This is extremely weird and disturbing. She probably meant took care of her and Mum financially or supported them. But after listening to Reddit stories it is not uncommon for the partners to leave the OPs for their family members or friends.
I almost threw up in my mouth hearing that...
What is with the slight broken English?
@@elizabethescalante7866 that's what I am thinking. I belie it was the OP husband became the male role that they both deserved. Strong. Helpful. Caring. And apparently wonderful
I’m so glad she slapped him back. He deserved it.
@@elizabethescalante7866 Broken English? You mean by Mr. Reddito?
" My friend, my brother, my lover, my father" what in the name of incest is this?! lmao.
This story is very moving but that part had me like, what the duck lady??
The way that OP talks about Nathan is so weird - you should not be thinking of your boyfriend as like your brother or your father 😬😬
Op should have gotten a restraining order for her dad a long ago.
That story sounds like my life. My father was the same way. Except my mother divorced that man.
…. He became my everything the moment she mentions her father I was like WHAT your WHAT lol if I were OP I try n get father have ruined life as he begs me or I try illegal route n make him suffer don’t care
My mother is a narcissist and made my life and sometimes my fathers life unbearable. It wasn’t until I was older that I realized Dad ducked out when he could to avoid mom. He was her “flying monkey” my brother was a molester and terrified my sister and I. Mom ate up the drama, Dad? He was an absent shadow. Don’t give a narcissist anything, it comes back to bite you. If you put him in a retirement community and payed the mortgage, you could be happy to be away from him. I’d suggest that that retirement community be several states or even an entire country away. He can feed and cloth himself, he is in a nice living situation and knows that if he leaves, this is where a good lawyer could be used, if he contacts you other then through lawyer he looses his home and everything in it. Don’t think of him again , he will never say thanks but he will be far away.
They kept the same Locks for the Doors in the house !!!!???!!!!!!
The mother should have Divorced him a long time ago and have gotten a a restraining order !!!!!!!
Nathan , good guy, should have told her to get a restraining order and Not have given him any money .
OP's husbands really has a big heart. I'll wager he had a loving relationship with his family and, after OP lost her mom, was trying to help her find some of that in her lie, again.
I agree. He's sweet, but good faith has a limit, and he should make good on his threat and get that restraining order on OP's behalf against her sperm donor father.
You don’t get to ask something like that a whole that’s what happens when you get a woman pregnant you have to pay child support
When she said that her husband proposed to "take care of him" I said: Yeah, let's put out a hit on him."
Nathan should have ignored your father. The restraining order is a good idea.
“Every girls dream”, “I had to play the usual hard-to-get; we ladies do”, “he was my friend, a lover, a father”?
😂 I’m out- Never heard an actual woman say anything that stupid🤣
GOOD 4 MOTHER ! HELL OF COURSE SHE WON ! HE WAS FREE FROM RESPONSIBILITY ! FATHER NEVER WANTED A WIFE OR FAMILY ! HE FELT BABY 🍼 TRAPPED ! COULD HAVE NOT MARRIED PITIFUL FAKE MAN !
The dad was harrassing em for 6 years? 42nd birthday but heart attack at 48??
Amazing story
Does everyone have fleas? The amt of time the characters scratch their faces.
All that stomping and the flames shooting around them kills the fleas.
My father made his mistakes, and 10 years after he made that big mistake, he admitted it to me over dinner. He made a decision, he made his bed, so now he would lay in it. He would make the best of the situation we could as not to hurt anymore people as he did back then 10 years earlier. For another 23 years he lived miserably. It is hard for me to envision what I would do. Closest to comes is to my step sister, ware money is everything. Yes my dad had millions, and thanks to my dad his wife, who lived another 22 years managed to amass even more millions. She had emotional and mental problems. I could do nothing else, but feel sorry for her.
To my surprise, my heart is turned cold into stone when it comes to my stepsister. I will not go into the story. It’s long and arduous to recount. I think I would do as she did in the story. Having money is very nice, but being happy and content, it’s even nicer. Yes, my heart will turn to stone.
Best for OP simply NOT recognize her father & cut him out of her life/ he would had been an terrible influence on her children & causing friction between her & her husband !!
I hope she forgives him for herself and her soul.
Nathans a sweetie, but goddammit don't enable leeches.
Edit: there's no such thing as fifty second chances
It is a term of coloquial speech that everyone understands.
@@stephaniewilson3955 I meant Nathans wrong for askign OP to give her fathee a second chance, when he knows damn well hes had multiple second chances
@@MiraTheWarlock I agree with you. Nathan is a good and sweet man, but good faith has a limit. And you should never give good faith to a narcissist. They WILL take advantage of you until you have nothing left to give. He should make good on his threat and get that restraining order on OP's behalf against her sperm donor father.
What would I do? First , MOVE. To another country, then I 'd get an RO against the father, then I'd change every piece of social media, and make sure that HE NEVER gets into any of them. I would then make sure that anyone and everyone whom he MAY have been in contact with knows that they MUST. NOT. LET. HIM. KNOW! And don't just threaten whoever, REPORT THEM!!! It's SO important that he and his grandchildren NEVER MEET. If later in life, he breaks ANY RO's, and they decide to get in touch with him, make sure you have a print out of the ACTUAL happening. That way, he can't say SOMETHING that is so totally wrong, also, it would mean that you're quite prepared to stand against him. He is, quite honestly, VILE. Good luck and God bless you all. XXXX
What a nice dad OP had.......🤨☹️😡
He was part of the waste (STD's) Ughh..🤢 OP's dad was one giant AH.
I thought it was going to be the mean Daddy ex husband that was going to die.
We wish! Sadly life is not fair.
If only. Sadly, life isn't like the fairytale stories we read or the Disney movies we watched as children.
She calls herself independent but lives off him during college and depended on him getting her a job as well as her mother.
I would have definitely gone for a permanent lifelong restraining order, and absolutely would not have ever given him another chance. Showing up at the wedding was absolutely beyond never forgivable
1st story it was heart breaking loosing your mother. Your Dad is a jerk
Get rid of the father / permanently out of your life / cut him off !!!
NO CONTACT period !!!
You should have sued. Child support has to be given for the child until 22 if they go to uni.
I thought it stopped at 18 the more you know.
Not necessarily. The only way that "dad" paid anything was because it was court ordered. If post high school education is not included in the order, he doesn't have to pay anything beyond the child's 18th birthday or high school graduation whichever is later and specified in the order.
Is some place child support is paid until they finish college and up to 25. If there a college student
So you spend money on lawyers to sue him for child support. Considering he was a grifter, where would he get the money to pay the support?
It has to be court ordered
Why didn't she ever get a restraining order loooong ago. People that allow that are stupid.
First story, a horrible father and person, people like him never get married, or have girlfriends
Your boyfriend is wonderful OP I’m glad you guys finally had a good man come into your life
the actions the farther did I should hope the mother and OP changed their name to the wife's maiden name (before nathan)
Happy thanksgiving Mr. Reddito
Male = fiance , female = fiancee
Great Story!!
Tell the old man that there is a restraining order on him. Don't contact again.
Thanks!
Wth is wrong with op who calls their boyfriend my brother n father? N says he became her mother's husband? This is deadzz creepy
I think it is more like an translation error
Only in the USA where everything has to have a perverted sexual meaning.
WELL SHE DIDNT HAVE OR HAVE EVER SAW OR KNEW WHAT A REAL MAN LOOKED LIKE ! HOPEFULLY SHE WILL NEVER EVER DESCRIBE. DUDE LIKE THAT AGAIN !
I believe she meant that he was her everything to her as family she never had before.
I think she meant this to mean that he was a reliable man in her and her mothers life. A man that they can both depend on.
Make donations in your father's name if Nathan wants to do something for your father. That's all he should get.
That was my 1st husband. We were married the worst 9 years of my life.
Depends on state if a child goes to college with out missing a year he would have to pay child support up to the age of 24
The only thing I will say is too bad murder is illegal. 😁
Why does this sound like something you would read on Wattpad????
Story could have been told in 10 minutes
I won't comment on a man whose looks are changing age 40-50's
but as for dating requirements for a man in retirement communities: there is only, still have a pulse
Seriously? Nathan is not like your father?
This woman was smart not letting that sperm donor back into her life . I had a brother that was so much like this story he was a smart lazy selfish guy and used people to get what he wanted and didn't care about how it hurt them .
I agree. OP and Nathan should take it a step further and get that restraining order against OP's sperm donor father maintained.
Get a restraining order against him showing up I announcing.
This 29 minute story should have taken ten minutes - tops.
Have my husband buy a one way ticket to China
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Nathan was wealthy, but she could tell that he was NOT in supply of cash. (Ok) Btw, there is no “x” in especially.
I DEMAND A REFUND ON THE CHILD SUPPORT ! HE SHOULD HAVE PAID UNTIL 25 AS LONG AS IN SCHOOL !
Bye bye fake dad
What does OP mean in every story?
That is an EXTREMELY disturbing way to describe your boyfriend at the time.. Who describes a boyfriend as a brother and husband to her mother? Very gross which I'm sure people who have said to her in the comment section... Very disturbing... She rambles way to much about things not necessary too...
These stories are fantasy..like wish fulfillment...or when people would write names into a "DEATH NOTE".
You can tell when you think about the details
Typical Reddit fiction writers.
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 Girl.. They just take things too far! Just give us the creative writing like you're talking to someone and, MAKE IT MAKE SENSE AT LEAST DAMN!! Ooh, HAPPY GOBBLE GOBBLE DAY MY BEAUTIFUL SISTER!!! Kiss BIL for me and the animals! ❤️🤗
@@Swnsasy IKR, they go soo far into details that are completely insignificant it gives me a headache..A massive 1. Just tell the damn story short and to the point.
How
is BILL doing working the big crowd at the country club? What times does he get off work? We slept all day lol
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 Haha! You sound like me! Nadia has been, and still is, curled up in my back. We been laying on bed all day too! He literally just got off and on his way home now..
FATHER OWES ! BACKPAY CHILD SUPPORT !!
the fiancé should repay the money he gave for child support? that is insanity!
Op needs therapy she said some creepy stuff thats needs evaluation. Major daddy and mommy issues
If you are physically able, I don't know why people won't consider joining the National Guard to pay for college!? There's both Army and Air National Guard. Or even a Federal Reservist. All Federal Branches (Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps, Coast Guard) have a reserve component.
FATHER OWES BACK PAY ! UNTIL 25 AS LONG AS YOU WERE STILL IN SCHOOL ! HE STILL OWES ! BACK PAY ! CALL THE FAMILY COURT SYSTEM !
So he had to pay around $96,000 I wonder if he had any visitation rights for that price
He did ,but he never came to see her
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That's some original thinking there
It's a pretty good story but it wasn't written by a woman, so if it's a real story it must be about someone the author knows personally and the author made the choice to use first person narrative perspective instead of third person perspective. There are these fascinating little details in the writing styles of men vs. women when writing about women that reveal the sex of the author. For example, women virtually never describe themselves or other women in the manner the "OP" of this story describes both "herself" and "her" mother.
Her lover was her father and brother?!? EW!!!
Just out of curiosity....Why didn't OP get a job when she was 14-16 years old?
Probably because her mom didn't want to. OP's mom felt like she had to take care of her daughter at all times. Plus, she wanted OP to just focus on her studies.
Give her husband an ultimatum. Either stop talking or associating with the father or divorce. It's the husbands fault the guy stuck around because the father knew he could sweet talk the husband. Chances are her husband is still gonna pay the dad and she will find out years later.
I've done the same thing she did never have anything to do with him again or do with him or anything never see him never give him nothing keep a restraining order on him he could rot in hell
let me be honest, you do not, let me say this again, YOU DO NOT need to be a great student to test well and even to actually know the content well enough to test well without the typical grind studying people do... im one of those people, tested out of a good number of college courses by annoying the instructors into letting me take the exams or finals, the one most shocked was a college psychology professor, who ended up having me take the tests for the next 2 levels after i got over 98% on the finel for the starter class, she ended up asking how the hell i knew all that, i pulled out a high level college text i was given by a teacher in highschool whens he saw me reading one of her old texts day after day (i was in accounting, i got the terms work dont in under a week.. it was genuinely just copying stuff from text files into excel and getting it setup to tabulate... i was able with a bit of help, to automate it, i had it almost working but needed help due to guides being out of date compared to the office version i was using(strangely our school had the latest MS office and the guides for a ver back... well very minor changes ment i needed a couple more commands/comments/wtfe and it was working.. verified and told her to check my submitted folder on the server... she called me cheeky.. LOL.. and gave me that book since i was so into it and, when she would talk to me about it clearly i understood what i was reading, sometimes better then she did according to her... that college prof was really into the fact i was just an autodidact and infact is how i know that word.... if something interests me, like man who have "add" or "adhd", i can hyper focus and absorb alot of info in a short time... and actually retain it... not like a photographic or idetic memory but more... the concepts and ideas stick ... its both a gift and a curse... "what has been seen , cannot be unseen, what has been learned, cannot be unlearned" like.. the fist time you walk in on your parents having sex.. nobody wants to see that... nobody... and you cannot unsee it... you learned something you never wanted to know... and brain bleach dosnt exist..
I would have gotten a restraining order the first time he came around.