Authenticity is daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we truly are (Brene Brown) A child has 2 basic needs: Authenticity and attachment. Usually we choose attachment for the sake of our survival (Gabor Mate)
What if I am nobody? As for when I was a child, I was always alone. I guess I did not choose attachment nor authenticity. I am some sort of defective person.
I let my parents tell me that for the longest time, “ you’re just a go with the flow kinda kid!”, leading into both of my marriages failing because I was a people pleaser and a” go with the flow” person. I’m not doing that anymore. I make people uncomfortable now. It doesn’t feel good, but I HAVE to do it, or I will regret it.
I did this about 7 months ago and said to myself “as an artist I love to paint horses why not learn to ride them and take care of them ? And so I am on my 18th lesson and I have fallen in love with them and the horse people 😊🐴🫶🏼 now I want to go to Iceland to ride Icelandic horses 🐴 in the summer of 2025 😊
Since being in therapy I don’t think I’ve ever said the word “I” so much, ever! I now giggle when I see multiple “I’s” in an email, journal entry or comment on social media (yes like this one 😅). I’m no longer completely riddled with shame over it. Still struggle to think about what I like, want or need, etc but am certainly getting there 😊
Kati Morton .I can completely understand and relate to this it's important I do often ask myself these questions what would I want what would I want to do instead of always saying us❤❤
Why are they telling me to leave my home when all they want to do is take my relatives home when I’m staying in it and it’s not there’s and why are they trying to force me to leave my home by attacking me constantly and not respecting me at all? They need to learn how to respect others instead of acting out on anger of anyone or on anything by misusing their prayers against others who they think they have priority over. If not then they lose theirs and it goes to someone more reliable. If they can’t or have difficulties getting along and are upset that the fact that others are being and being abused by someone who would rather take it all and take it out on them for their stuff, they’re going to have to learn how to respect and not use the terms of ‘lessons’ in violent attacks that they’ve been doing by taking their anger out on others, they lose everything if they keep harming others to try to put them into submission and it’s not a nice thing that they’ve been doing holding people and their families hostage at all, is going against everybody.
Kati... the "I" is stripped away by motherhood..... there is no "i" in motherhood........I don't like who I became... lost my "i" Kati.... 41 next Friday :/
I havevlearned I dont like to run a business! Thanks for the reminder! I was thinking lately why dont I do this or that for a business. You just reminded me that last year I tried to run a business and its definitely not me! Whats next?
I like productive exercise, not ridiculous gym exercise. Working hard to accomplish repairing my house, automobile, property, is the type of exercise I do that I want to do. Or, working on an outdoor project that is physically very intensive to do is also something I really enjoy. But I enjoy this completely alone. I want nobody around me when I am working on projects. I want to hear nobody nor see them.
If you keep thinking about "i" , I will be alone. Both people focusing on "us" is what is best. If they are not focused on us but only we are, that is the issue.
Hi Kati. Why would a therapist stop seeing you every week and move it to every 2 weeks when you're going through hell and severe emotional trauma and severe major depression? I tried to tell her this was the worst thing she could do right now.
Authenticity is daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we truly are (Brene Brown)
A child has 2 basic needs: Authenticity and attachment. Usually we choose attachment for the sake of our survival (Gabor Mate)
What if I am nobody? As for when I was a child, I was always alone. I guess I did not choose attachment nor authenticity. I am some sort of defective person.
It's very difficult if not verging on impossible to find a sense of self when your entire life you've been taught a sense of self is wrong.
I let my parents tell me that for the longest time, “ you’re just a go with the flow kinda kid!”, leading into both of my marriages failing because I was a people pleaser and a” go with the flow” person. I’m not doing that anymore. I make people uncomfortable now. It doesn’t feel good, but I HAVE to do it, or I will regret it.
Thank you so much. You make my life easier each and every day. I appreciate you.
I did this about 7 months ago and said to myself “as an artist I love to paint horses why not learn to ride them and take care of them ? And so I am on my 18th lesson and I have fallen in love with them and the horse people 😊🐴🫶🏼 now I want to go to Iceland to ride Icelandic horses 🐴 in the summer of 2025 😊
Since being in therapy I don’t think I’ve ever said the word “I” so much, ever! I now giggle when I see multiple “I’s” in an email, journal entry or comment on social media (yes like this one 😅). I’m no longer completely riddled with shame over it. Still struggle to think about what I like, want or need, etc but am certainly getting there 😊
Kati Morton .I can completely understand and relate to this it's important I do often ask myself these questions what would I want what would I want to do instead of always saying us❤❤
My kids have always told me, “ it’s not all about you mom.” They want me to still give into them even though they are adults now. Help!!!
Exactly
Live your authentic life! 😎🇨🇦
The best version of ourselves means overcoming our weaknesses with our strengths. And then remain faithful.
Much needed. Thank you.
Why are they telling me to leave my home when all they want to do is take my relatives home when I’m staying in it and it’s not there’s and why are they trying to force me to leave my home by attacking me constantly and not respecting me at all? They need to learn how to respect others instead of acting out on anger of anyone or on anything by misusing their prayers against others who they think they have priority over. If not then they lose theirs and it goes to someone more reliable. If they can’t or have difficulties getting along and are upset that the fact that others are being and being abused by someone who would rather take it all and take it out on them for their stuff, they’re going to have to learn how to respect and not use the terms of ‘lessons’ in violent attacks that they’ve been doing by taking their anger out on others, they lose everything if they keep harming others to try to put them into submission and it’s not a nice thing that they’ve been doing holding people and their families hostage at all, is going against everybody.
Dank u, u hebt mij laten nadenken ❤💕🙏💞♥️🙏🙏♥️💕🙏💞♥️
Kati... the "I" is stripped away by motherhood..... there is no "i" in motherhood........I don't like who I became... lost my "i" Kati.... 41 next Friday :/
If you took back the "I" your kids would have more respect for you and learn better boundaries
I havevlearned I dont like to run a business! Thanks for the reminder! I was thinking lately why dont I do this or that for a business. You just reminded me that last year I tried to run a business and its definitely not me! Whats next?
To leave this planet and not deal with human species.
I like productive exercise, not ridiculous gym exercise. Working hard to accomplish repairing my house, automobile, property, is the type of exercise I do that I want to do. Or, working on an outdoor project that is physically very intensive to do is also something I really enjoy. But I enjoy this completely alone. I want nobody around me when I am working on projects. I want to hear nobody nor see them.
If you keep thinking about "i" , I will be alone. Both people focusing on "us" is what is best. If they are not focused on us but only we are, that is the issue.
The accent ❤
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Hi Kati. Why would a therapist stop seeing you every week and move it to every 2 weeks when you're going through hell and severe emotional trauma and severe major depression? I tried to tell her this was the worst thing she could do right now.
I want to die😅 😅
Welp it’d be great if capitalism gave us a choice